Your body language may shape who you are | Amy Cuddy | TED

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Translator: Joseph Geni Reviewer: Morton Bast
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Translator: Ana Rozados Reviewer: Serv. de Norm. Lingüística U. de Santiago de Compostela
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So I want to start by offering you a free no-tech life hack,
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Vou comezar dándovos un truco útil non tecnolóxico
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and all it requires of you is this:
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e todo canto require de vós é isto:
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that you change your posture for two minutes.
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que cambiedes de postura durante dous minutos.
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But before I give it away, I want to ask you to right now
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Pero antes de revelárvolo, quero pedirvos agora mesmo
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do a little audit of your body and what you're doing with your body.
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que observedes o voso corpo e o que estades a facer con el.
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So how many of you are sort of making yourselves smaller?
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A ver, cantos de vós estades dalgún xeito encollidos?
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Maybe you're hunching, crossing your legs, maybe wrapping your ankles.
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Encurvados, coas pernas cruzadas, os nocellos enleados.
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Sometimes we hold onto our arms like this.
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Ás veces poñemos os brazos así.
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Sometimes we spread out. (Laughter)
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Ás veces estirámolos. (Risos)
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I see you.
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Ollo que vos vexo.
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So I want you to pay attention to what you're doing right now.
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Prestade atención ao que facedes agora mesmo.
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We're going to come back to that in a few minutes,
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Imos volver a isto nuns minutos
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and I'm hoping that if you learn to tweak this a little bit,
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e espero que se aprendedes a modificalo un pouco
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it could significantly change the way your life unfolds.
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poida mudar considerablemente o desenvolvemento da vosa vida.
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So, we're really fascinated with body language,
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Ben, estamos fascinados coa linguaxe corporal
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and we're particularly interested in other people's body language.
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e interésanos especialmente a linguaxe corporal doutras persoas.
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You know, we're interested in, like, you know — (Laughter) —
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Xa sabedes, interésanos... isto, vaia... (Risos)
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an awkward interaction, or a smile,
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unha interacción torpe, un sorriso
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or a contemptuous glance, or maybe a very awkward wink,
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unha ollada despectiva, unha chiscadela torpe de ollo
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or maybe even something like a handshake.
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ou mesmo algo coma unha aperta de mans.
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Narrator: Here they are arriving at Number 10.
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Narrador: Aquí están chegando ao número 10.
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This lucky policeman gets to shake hands with the President of the United States.
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Este policía ten sorte e dálle a man ao presidente dos Estados Unidos.
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Here comes the Prime Minister -- No. (Laughter) (Applause)
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Aí vén o primeiro ministro... Non. (Risos) (Aplausos)
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(Laughter) (Applause)
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(Risos) (Aplausos)
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Amy Cuddy: So a handshake, or the lack of a handshake,
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Amy Cuddy: Unha aperta de mans, ou a súa ausencia,
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can have us talking for weeks and weeks and weeks.
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pode darnos que falar durante semanas e semanas;
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Even the BBC and The New York Times.
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mesmo á BBC e ao New York Times.
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So obviously when we think about nonverbal behavior,
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Entón cando pensamos en expresión non verbal
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or body language -- but we call it nonverbals as social scientists --
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ou linguaxe corporal (nós os sociólogos chamámoslle non verbal)
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it's language, so we think about communication.
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falamos de linguaxe, polo tanto de comunicación.
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When we think about communication, we think about interactions.
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Cando falamos de comunicación pensamos en interaccións.
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So what is your body language communicating to me?
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Que me comunica a túa linguaxe corporal?
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What's mine communicating to you?
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Que che comunica a miña a ti?
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And there's a lot of reason to believe that this is a valid way to look at this.
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Hai razóns para crer que é válido este enfoque.
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So social scientists have spent a lot of time
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Os sociólogos pasamos moito tempo
observando os efectos da nosa linguaxe corporal,
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looking at the effects of our body language,
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or other people's body language, on judgments.
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ou da doutras persoas, sobre os xuízos.
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And we make sweeping judgments and inferences from body language.
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Facemos xuízos e deducións da linguaxe corporal.
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And those judgments can predict really meaningful life outcomes
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Eses xuízos poden predicir proxeccións importantes na vida
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like who we hire or promote, who we ask out on a date.
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como a quen contratamos ou promovemos ou a quen lle pedimos unha cita.
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For example, Nalini Ambady, a researcher at Tufts University,
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Por exemplo Nalini Ambady, investigadora na Universidade de Tufts,
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shows that when people watch 30-second soundless clips
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demostra que cando alguén ve 30 segundos de vídeos sen son
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of real physician-patient interactions,
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de interaccións reais médico-paciente
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their judgments of the physician's niceness
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os seus xuízos sobre a simpatía do médico
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predict whether or not that physician will be sued.
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predín se ese médico vai ser demandado ou non.
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So it doesn't have to do so much
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Así que non ten que ver tanto
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with whether or not that physician was incompetent,
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con se o médico era ou non incompetente
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but do we like that person and how they interacted?
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senón con se nos gustou esa persoa e como interactuou.
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Even more dramatic, Alex Todorov at Princeton
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Aínda máis drástico, Alex Todorov, de Princeton,
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has shown us that judgments of political candidates' faces
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demostrounos que os xuízos dos rostros de candidatos políticos
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in just one second predict 70 percent
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predín nun segundo o 70 por cento
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of U.S. Senate and gubernatorial race outcomes,
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do resultado da carreira cara ao Goberno e o Senado dos EEUU
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and even, let's go digital,
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e mesmo, no eido dixital,
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emoticons used well in online negotiations
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as emoticonas ben usadas nas negociacións en liña
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can lead you to claim more value from that negotiation.
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poden conducir a darlle máis valor a esa negociación.
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If you use them poorly, bad idea. Right?
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Se fas un mal uso deles é mala idea, non?
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So when we think of nonverbals, we think of how we judge others,
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Falar de linguaxe non verbal é falar de como xulgamos aos outros,
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how they judge us and what the outcomes are.
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como nos xulgan a nós e cales son as consecuencias.
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We tend to forget, though, the other audience
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Pero tendemos a esquecer a outra audiencia
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that's influenced by our nonverbals, and that's ourselves.
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na que inflúe a nosa linguaxe non verbal, que somos nós mesmos.
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We are also influenced by our nonverbals,
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Inflúenos a nosa linguaxe non verbal,
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our thoughts and our feelings and our physiology.
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os nosos pensamentos, sentimentos e fisioloxía.
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So what nonverbals am I talking about?
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De que linguaxe non verbal estou a falar?
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I'm a social psychologist. I study prejudice,
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Son psicóloga social. Estudo os prexuízos
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and I teach at a competitive business school,
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e dou clases nunha competitiva escola de negocios,
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so it was inevitable that I would become interested in power dynamics.
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así que era inevitable que me interesasen as dinámicas de poder.
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I became especially interested in nonverbal expressions
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Interesábanme sobre todo expresións non verbais
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of power and dominance.
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de poder e dominación.
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And what are nonverbal expressions of power and dominance?
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Que son as expresións non verbais de poder e dominación?
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Well, this is what they are.
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Ben, pois son isto.
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So in the animal kingdom, they are about expanding.
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No reino animal teñen que ver coa expansión,
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So you make yourself big, you stretch out,
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con facerse grande, estirarse,
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you take up space, you're basically opening up.
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acaparar espazo, basicamente abrirse.
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It's about opening up.
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Trátase de abrirse.
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And this is true across the animal kingdom.
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E funciona así en todo o reino animal,
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It's not just limited to primates.
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non se limita só aos primates.
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And humans do the same thing. (Laughter)
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Os humanos facemos o mesmo. (Risos)
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So they do this both when they have power sort of chronically,
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Fan así cando teñen poder de xeito permanente
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and also when they're feeling powerful in the moment.
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e tamén cando se senten poderosos no momento.
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And this one is especially interesting because it really shows us
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Isto é especialmente interesante porque nos demostra
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how universal and old these expressions of power are.
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o antigas e universais que son estas expresións de poder.
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This expression, which is known as pride,
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Esta expresión, coñecida como orgullo,
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Jessica Tracy has studied.
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foi estudada por Jessica Tracy,
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She shows that people who are born with sight
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que nos di que tanto as persoas que ven desde que naceron
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and people who are congenitally blind do this
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coma as persoas que son cegas conxénitas fan o mesmo
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when they win at a physical competition.
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cando gañan unha competición física.
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So when they cross the finish line and they've won,
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Así que que cando cruzan a liña de meta e gañan
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it doesn't matter if they've never seen anyone do it.
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non importa se nunca viron ninguén facelo.
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They do this.
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Fan así.
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So the arms up in the V, the chin is slightly lifted.
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Os brazos erguidos en V, o queixo algo elevado.
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What do we do when we feel powerless?
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Que facemos cando nos sentimos impotentes?
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We do exactly the opposite.
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Facemos xusto o contrario.
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We close up. We wrap ourselves up.
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Pechámonos. Envolvémonos.
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We make ourselves small.
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Facémonos pequenos.
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We don't want to bump into the person next to us.
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Non queremos tropezar con quen está ao noso carón.
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So again, both animals and humans do the same thing.
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E tanto os animais coma os humanos facemos o mesmo.
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And this is what happens when you put together high and low power.
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E isto é o que acontece cando xuntas poder con impotencia.
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So what we tend to do when it comes to power
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O que tendemos a facer cando se trata de poder
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is that we complement the other's nonverbals.
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é complementar a linguaxe non verbal dos outros.
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So if someone is being really powerful with us,
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Así que se alguén se mostra moi poderoso con nós,
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we tend to make ourselves smaller. We don't mirror them.
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tendemos a facernos máis pequenos. Non o imitamos.
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We do the opposite of them.
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Facemos o contrario.
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So I'm watching this behavior in the classroom,
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Se vexo este comportamento na clase,
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and what do I notice?
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que noto?
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I notice that MBA students really exhibit the full range of power nonverbals.
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Noto que os alumnos do MBA presentan toda a linguaxe non verbal de poder.
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So you have people who are like caricatures of alphas,
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Hai persoas que son caricaturas dos alfa,
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really coming into the room, they get right into the middle of the room
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entran na aula, sitúanse no medio
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before class even starts, like they really want to occupy space.
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mesmo antes de empezar a clase, como se quixesen ocupar espazo.
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When they sit down, they're sort of spread out.
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Cando sentan, parecen expandirse.
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They raise their hands like this.
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Erguen a man así.
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You have other people who are virtually collapsing
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Logo hai outras persoas que entran practicamente esboroándose.
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when they come in. As soon they come in, you see it.
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Así como entran xa o notas.
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You see it on their faces and their bodies,
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Velo no seu rostro e no seu corpo,
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and they sit in their chair and they make themselves tiny,
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sentan na cadeira e fanse diminutos,
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and they go like this when they raise their hand.
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e fan así cando erguen a man.
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I notice a couple of things about this.
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Aquí observo dúas cousas.
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One, you're not going to be surprised.
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Unha non vos ha sorprender.
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It seems to be related to gender.
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Semella ter que ver co sexo.
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So women are much more likely to do this kind of thing than men.
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As mulleres son máis propensas a facelo que os homes.
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Women feel chronically less powerful than men,
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As mulleres séntense sempre menos poderosas cós homes,
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so this is not surprising.
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así que isto non é sorprendente.
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But the other thing I noticed
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Pero a outra cousa que notei
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is that it also seemed to be related to the extent
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é que semella estar relacionado co grao
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to which the students were participating, and how well they were participating.
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de participación dos alumnos e co seu nivel de participación.
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And this is really important in the MBA classroom,
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E isto é moi importante na clase do MBA
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because participation counts for half the grade.
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porque a participación conta para a media da nota.
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So business schools have been struggling with this gender grade gap.
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As escolas de negocios levan loitando coa diferenza de notas segundo o sexo.
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You get these equally qualified women and men coming in
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Ves mulleres e homes igualmente cualificados
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and then you get these differences in grades,
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e logo ves estas diferenzas nas notas,
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and it seems to be partly attributable to participation.
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que semellan ser atribuíbles en parte á participación.
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So I started to wonder, you know, okay,
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Entón empecei a preguntarme:
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so you have these people coming in like this, and they're participating.
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se hai persoas que entran con esa actitude e participan,
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Is it possible that we could get people to fake it
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sería posible facer que outras a finxisen
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and would it lead them to participate more?
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e que iso as levase a participar máis?
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So my main collaborator Dana Carney, who's at Berkeley,
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A miña colaboradora Dana Carney, que está en Berkeley,
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and I really wanted to know, can you fake it till you make it?
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e eu queriamos saber se se pode finxir ata facelo.
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Like, can you do this just for a little while
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É dicir, podes facelo só por un intre
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and actually experience a behavioral outcome
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e experimentar un resultado no teu comportamento
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that makes you seem more powerful?
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que te faga sentir máis poderoso?
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So we know that our nonverbals govern how other people
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Sabemos que a linguaxe non verbal condiciona o que outras persoas
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think and feel about us. There's a lot of evidence.
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senten e pensan de nós. Hai moitas probas.
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But our question really was,
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Pero a nosa pregunta era:
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do our nonverbals govern how we think and feel about ourselves?
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condiciona a linguaxe non verbal o que sentimos e pensamos de nós mesmos?
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There's some evidence that they do.
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Hai probas de que así é.
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So, for example, we smile when we feel happy,
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Por exemplo, sorrimos cando estamos contentos,
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but also, when we're forced to smile
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pero tamén cando nos obrigamos a rir
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by holding a pen in our teeth like this, it makes us feel happy.
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suxeitando un boli cos dentes así, fainos sentir contentos.
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So it goes both ways.
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Funciona nas dúas direccións.
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When it comes to power, it also goes both ways.
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Cando se trata de poder, tamén funciona nas dúas direccións.
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So when you feel powerful,
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Cando nos sentimos poderosos
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you're more likely to do this,
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é máis probable que fagamos isto,
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but it's also possible that when you pretend to be powerful,
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pero tamén é posible que cando finximos ser poderosos
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you are more likely to actually feel powerful.
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é máis probable que realmente nos sintamos poderosos.
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So the second question really was, you know,
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Pois a segunda pregunta en realidade era, ben,
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so we know that our minds change our bodies,
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xa sabemos que a mente modifica o noso corpo,
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but is it also true that our bodies change our minds?
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pero é certo tamén que o corpo modifica a nosa mente?
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And when I say minds, in the case of the powerful,
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E cando digo mente, no caso dos poderosos,
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what am I talking about?
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de que estou a falar?
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So I'm talking about thoughts and feelings
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Pois falo de pensamentos e sentimentos
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and the sort of physiological things that make up our thoughts and feelings,
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e de compoñentes fisiolóxicos que forman eses pensamentos e sentimentos,
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and in my case, that's hormones. I look at hormones.
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e no meu caso, falo das hormonas. Observo as hormonas.
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So what do the minds of the powerful versus the powerless look like?
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Como é a mente dos poderosos comparada coa dos que non o son?
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So powerful people tend to be, not surprisingly,
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As persoas poderosas tenden a ser, non é sorprendente,
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more assertive and more confident, more optimistic.
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máis asertivos e seguros, máis optimistas.
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They actually feel they're going to win even at games of chance.
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Teñen a sensación de que van gañar mesmo en xogos de azar.
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They also tend to be able to think more abstractly.
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Tamén tenden a pensar dun xeito máis abstracto.
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So there are a lot of differences. They take more risks.
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Existen moitas diferenzas. Asumen máis riscos.
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There are a lot of differences between powerful and powerless people.
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Hai unha chea de diferenzas entre os poderosos e os que non o son.
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Physiologically, there also are differences
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Fisioloxicamente tamén se dan diferenzas
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on two key hormones: testosterone, which is the dominance hormone,
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en dúas hormonas clave: a testosterona, que é a hormona da dominación,
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and cortisol, which is the stress hormone.
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e o cortisol, que é a hormona do estrés.
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So what we find is that high-power alpha males in primate hierarchies
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Os machos alfa con moito poder nas xerarquías de primates
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have high testosterone and low cortisol,
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teñen niveis altos de testosterona e niveis baixos de cortisol.
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and powerful and effective leaders
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E os líderes poderosos e eficientes
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also have high testosterone and low cortisol.
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tamén teñen testosterona alta e cortisol baixo.
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So what does that mean? When you think about power,
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Que significa isto? Ao falar de poder,
09:20
people tended to think only about testosterone,
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adoitábase falar só da testosterona,
09:22
because that was about dominance.
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porque tiña que ver coa dominación.
09:24
But really, power is also about how you react to stress.
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Pero o poder tamén ten que ver coa nosa reacción ante o estrés.
09:27
So do you want the high-power leader that's dominant,
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Queremos un líder dominante, con moito poder,
09:30
high on testosterone, but really stress reactive?
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con niveis altos de testosterona pero sensible ao estrés?
09:33
Probably not, right?
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Probablemente non, verdade?
09:35
You want the person who's powerful and assertive and dominant,
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Queremos unha persoa que sexa poderosa, asertiva e dominante
09:38
but not very stress reactive, the person who's laid back.
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pero non moi sensible ao estrés, unha persoa que sexa tranquila.
09:41
So we know that in primate hierarchies,
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Sabemos que nas xerarquías de primates,
09:47
if an alpha needs to take over,
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se un alfa ten que tomar o control,
09:50
if an individual needs to take over an alpha role sort of suddenly,
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se alguén ten que asumir o mando, tomar de súpeto ese papel,
09:54
within a few days, that individual's testosterone has gone up
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no prazo duns días, a súa testosterona elévase moito
09:57
significantly and his cortisol has dropped significantly.
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e o cortisol descende igualmente.
10:01
So we have this evidence, both that the body can shape
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Temos esa evidencia, que o corpo pode moldear
10:04
the mind, at least at the facial level,
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a mente, polo menos a nivel facial,
10:06
and also that role changes can shape the mind.
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e tamén que o papel asumido pode moldear a mente.
10:10
So what happens, okay, you take a role change,
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Entón, que ocorre cando se asume un cambio de papel?
10:13
what happens if you do that at a really minimal level,
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Que sucede se se fai a un nivel mínimo,
10:15
like this tiny manipulation, this tiny intervention?
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como esta pequena manipulación ou intervención?
10:18
"For two minutes," you say, "I want you to stand like this,
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Dicímoslle: "quero que durante 2 minutos te ergas así,
10:21
and it's going to make you feel more powerful."
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iso fará que te sintas máis poderoso".
10:23
So this is what we did.
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E iso foi o que fixemos.
10:26
We decided to bring people into the lab and run a little experiment,
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Decidimos traer xente ao laboratorio e facer un pequeno experimento,
10:31
and these people adopted, for two minutes,
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esas persoas adoptaron, por dous minutos,
10:34
either high-power poses or low-power poses,
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ambas as posicións, de poder ou debilidade.
10:38
and I'm just going to show you five of the poses,
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Vouvos mostrar xusto agora cinco desas poses,
10:40
although they took on only two.
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aínda que eles probaron só dúas.
10:42
So here's one.
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Esta é unha.
10:45
A couple more.
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Un par máis
10:47
This one has been dubbed the "Wonder Woman" by the media.
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A esta a prensa chamoulle a "Muller marabilla".
10:51
Here are a couple more.
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Aquí temos un par máis.
10:53
So you can be standing or you can be sitting.
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Poden estar de pé, ou sentados.
10:55
And here are the low-power poses.
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Aquí están as posicións de debilidade.
10:57
So you're folding up, you're making yourself small.
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Agora dóbranse, fanse pequenos.
11:01
This one is very low-power.
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Esta é de moi baixo poder.
11:03
When you're touching your neck, you're really protecting yourself.
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Cando tocas o pescozo estaste protexendo, realmente.
11:07
So this is what happens.
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Isto é o que ocorre.
11:09
They come in, they spit into a vial,
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Eles veñen, cospen nun frasco,
11:11
for two minutes, we say, "You need to do this or this."
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e dicímoslles durante dous minutos: "tes que facer isto ou aquilo."
11:14
They don't look at pictures of the poses.
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Eles non ven as fotos das posicións.
11:16
We don't want to prime them with a concept of power.
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Non queremos inducilos cun concepto de poder.
11:19
We want them to be feeling power.
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Queremos que sintan o poder.
11:21
So two minutes they do this.
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Fan isto dous minutos.
11:22
We then ask them, "How powerful do you feel?" on a series of items,
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Logo preguntámoslles, "como de poderoso te sentes?
11:25
and then we give them an opportunity to gamble,
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entón dámoslles a oportunidade de apostar,
11:28
and then we take another saliva sample.
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ao final tomamos outra mostra de saliva.
11:30
That's it. That's the whole experiment.
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Iso é todo. Este é todo o experimento.
11:32
So this is what we find.
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Isto foi o que atopamos.
11:34
Risk tolerance, which is the gambling,
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Tolerancia ao risco, a apostar;
11:36
we find that when you are in the high-power pose condition,
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atopamos que cando están nunha posición de alto poder
11:40
86 percent of you will gamble.
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arríscanse a apostar o 86%.
11:42
When you're in the low-power pose condition,
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Cando están nas posicións de baixo poder,
11:44
only 60 percent, and that's a whopping significant difference.
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só o 60%. É unha diferenza moi significativa.
11:48
Here's what we find on testosterone.
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Vexamos o que atopamos coa testosterona.
11:51
From their baseline when they come in,
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Partindo da súa situación normal ao chegar,
11:53
high-power people experience about a 20-percent increase,
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a xente poderosa experimenta un incremento do 20%
11:56
and low-power people experience about a 10-percent decrease.
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e os débiles experimentan una diminución do 10%.
12:01
So again, two minutes, and you get these changes.
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De novo, 2 minutos, e obtéñense eses cambios.
12:04
Here's what you get on cortisol.
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Agora os resultados co cortisol.
12:06
High-power people experience about a 25-percent decrease,
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Os máis poderosos experimentan un 25% de diminución,
12:10
and the low-power people experience about a 15-percent increase.
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os máis débiles experimentan un aumento de arredor do 15%.
12:14
So two minutes lead to these hormonal changes
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Só dous minutos provocan estes cambios hormonais
12:17
that configure your brain
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que configuran o teu cerebro
12:18
to basically be either assertive, confident and comfortable,
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para facelo asertivo, seguro ou confortable,
12:23
or really stress-reactive, and feeling sort of shut down.
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ou ben susceptible ao estrés, e sentíndose como apagado.
12:28
And we've all had the feeling, right?
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Todos coñecemos esa sensación, non si?
12:30
So it seems that our nonverbals do govern how we think and feel about ourselves,
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Semella que a nosa linguaxe non verbal rexe o xeito de vernos a nós mesmos,
12:36
so it's not just others, but it's also ourselves.
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non só aos demais, senón a nós mesmos.
12:38
Also, our bodies change our minds.
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O corpo pode cambiarnos a mente.
12:40
But the next question, of course,
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A seguinte pregunta, por suposto, é...
12:43
is, can power posing for a few minutes
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pode un xesto de poder nuns minutos
12:45
really change your life in meaningful ways?
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cambiarche a vida de xeito significativo?
12:47
This is in the lab, it's this little task, it's just a couple of minutes.
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Isto é no laboratorio, este experimento, son só dous minutos.
12:51
Where can you actually apply this?
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Onde podes realmente aplicar isto?
12:53
Which we cared about, of course.
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Iso é o que nos preocupa.
12:55
And so we think where you want to use this is evaluative situations,
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Pensamos que onde se necesita é en situacións nas que te avalían,
13:01
like social threat situations.
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como nas situacións sociais esixentes,
13:04
Where are you being evaluated, either by your friends?
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nas que te avalían mesmo os teus amigos.
13:07
For teenagers, it's at the lunchroom table.
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Para os adolescentes é na mesa do comedor.
13:09
For some people it's speaking at a school board meeting.
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Para algunha xente é falar na xunta da escola.
13:13
It might be giving a pitch or giving a talk like this
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Pode ser ao presentar un negocio ou dar unha charla coma esta
13:17
or doing a job interview.
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ou ir a unha entrevista de traballo.
13:19
We decided that the one that most people could relate to
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Escollemos unha coa que a maioría da xente se identifica
13:22
because most people had been through, was the job interview.
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porque moitos pasaron por ela, a entrevista de traballo.
13:25
So we published these findings,
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Entón publicamos os resultados,
13:28
and the media are all over it,
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a prensa interesouse
13:29
and they say, Okay, so this is what you do
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e dixo... ben, isto é o que hai que facer
13:32
when you go in for the job interview, right?
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cando vas a unha entrevista, non?
13:34
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
13:35
You know, so we were of course horrified, and said,
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Naturalmente quedamos arrepiados e dixemos:
13:37
Oh my God, no, that's not what we meant at all.
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Non, por Deus, non, non é o que queriamos dicir.
13:39
For numerous reasons, no, don't do that.
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Por moitas razóns, non, non fagades iso.
13:42
Again, this is not about you talking to other people.
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De novo, non se trata de falarlle a outra xente.
13:44
It's you talking to yourself.
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Trátase de falar contigo mesmo.
13:46
What do you do before you go into a job interview? You do this.
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Que fas antes de ir a unha entrevista de traballo? Fas isto.
13:49
You're sitting down. You're looking at your iPhone --
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Estás sentado. Miras o teu iPhone...
13:52
or your Android, not trying to leave anyone out.
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ou o teu Android, non imos deixar ninguén fóra.
13:54
You're looking at your notes,
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Repasas as túas mensaxes,
13:56
you're hunching up, making yourself small,
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estás encurvado, facéndote pequeno,
13:58
when really what you should be doing maybe is this,
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cando realmente o que deberías estar facendo é isto,
14:00
like, in the bathroom, right? Do that. Find two minutes.
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quizais no baño, vale? Faino. Lévache dous minutos.
14:03
So that's what we want to test. Okay?
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Iso é o que queremos avaliar, vale?
14:05
So we bring people into a lab,
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Convidamos a xente ao laboratorio,
14:07
and they do either high- or low-power poses again,
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e adoptaron posturas de alto e baixo poder outra vez,
14:10
they go through a very stressful job interview.
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pasaron unha entrevista de traballo estresante
14:13
It's five minutes long. They are being recorded.
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de cinco minutos de duración. Estanos gravando.
14:16
They're being judged also,
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Tamén os están xulgando,
14:18
and the judges are trained to give no nonverbal feedback,
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e os xuíces están adestrados para non dar retroalimentación non verbal
14:23
so they look like this.
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Vense así.
14:25
Imagine this is the person interviewing you.
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Imaxinade que esta persoa vos entrevista.
14:27
So for five minutes, nothing, and this is worse than being heckled.
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Durante cinco minutos, nada, é peor ca que te interrompan.
14:31
People hate this.
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A xente odia isto.
14:33
It's what Marianne LaFrance calls "standing in social quicksand."
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É o que Marianne LaFrance chama "estar en areas movedizas sociais".
14:37
So this really spikes your cortisol.
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Isto dispara o cortisol.
14:39
So this is the job interview we put them through,
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Esta é a entrevista á que os sometemos,
14:41
because we really wanted to see what happened.
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porque queriamos ver o que acontecía.
14:43
We then have these coders look at these tapes, four of them.
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Temos analistas mirando as cintas, catro en total.
14:46
They're blind to the hypothesis. They're blind to the conditions.
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Eles non coñecen a hipótese. Tampouco coñecen as condicións.
14:49
They have no idea who's been posing in what pose,
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Non teñen nin idea de que posición tomou cada persoa
14:52
and they end up looking at these sets of tapes,
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e ao rematar de ollar todas as cintas,
14:57
and they say, "We want to hire these people,"
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dixeron, "queremos contratar estas persoas",
15:00
all the high-power posers.
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todas as de posicións de poder.
15:01
"We don't want to hire these people.
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"Non queremos contratar esoutras.
15:03
We also evaluate these people much more positively overall."
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Dámoslles unha avaliación moito máis positiva en xeral".
15:07
But what's driving it?
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Que estaba acontecendo?
15:08
It's not about the content of the speech.
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Non se trata do contido do discurso.
15:10
It's about the presence that they're bringing to the speech.
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Trátase da presenza que lle achegaban ao discurso.
15:13
Because we rate them on all these variables
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Porque os avaliamos en todas esas variables
15:16
related to competence, like, how well-structured is the speech?
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relativas á competencia: Estruturan ben o discurso?
15:19
How good is it? What are their qualifications?
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Exprésanse ben? Que cualificacións teñen?
15:22
No effect on those things. This is what's affected.
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Estas cousas non afectan. Isto e o que afecta.
15:24
These kinds of things.
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Esta clase de cousas.
15:26
People are bringing their true selves, basically.
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Cada persoa móstrase a si mesma, basicamente.
15:28
They're bringing themselves.
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Amosan o que son.
15:30
They bring their ideas, but as themselves,
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Amosan as súas ideas, por si mesmos,
15:32
with no, you know, residue over them.
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sen ningún extra.
15:34
So this is what's driving the effect, or mediating the effect.
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Así que isto é o que provoca ou condiciona o efecto.
15:39
So when I tell people about this,
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Cando lle falo á xente sobre isto,
15:42
that our bodies change our minds and our minds can change our behavior,
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que o noso corpo cambia a nosa mente
15:46
and our behavior can change our outcomes, they say to me,
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e o comportamento pode cambiar a nosa forma de ser, dinme:
15:49
"It feels fake." Right?
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"Parece finxido". Ai si?
15:50
So I said, fake it till you make it.
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Eu dígolles: fínxeo ata que o fagas.
15:52
It's not me.
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Eu non son así.
15:54
I don't want to get there and then still feel like a fraud.
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Eu non quero chegar alí e sentirme coma unha fraude.
15:57
I don't want to feel like an impostor.
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Non quero sentirme coma un impostor.
15:59
I don't want to get there only to feel like I'm not supposed to be here.
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Non quero chegar alí para sentir que non debía estar alí.
16:03
And that really resonated with me,
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Isto é moi importante para min,
16:05
because I want to tell you a little story about being an impostor
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porque quero contarvos unha pequena historia sobre ser un impostor
16:08
and feeling like I'm not supposed to be here.
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e sobre sentirse como que non debía estar alí.
16:11
When I was 19, I was in a really bad car accident.
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Cando tiña 19 anos sufrín un terrible accidente de coche.
16:14
I was thrown out of a car, rolled several times.
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Saín despedida del e dei varias voltas de campá.
16:17
I was thrown from the car.
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Saín despedida do coche.
16:19
And I woke up in a head injury rehab ward,
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Espertei na UCI cunha ferida na cabeza.
16:22
and I had been withdrawn from college,
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Botáronme da universidade
16:24
and I learned that my IQ had dropped by two standard deviations,
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e dixéronme que o meu CI baixara dúas desviacións estándar.
16:30
which was very traumatic.
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Foi moi traumático.
16:32
I knew my IQ because I had identified with being smart,
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Coñecía o meu CI porque me cualificaran como superdotada,
16:35
and I had been called gifted as a child.
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e consideráranme nena prodixio.
16:37
So I'm taken out of college, I keep trying to go back.
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Así que me botaron da universidade e tentei volver.
16:41
They say, "You're not going to finish college.
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Dicíanme: "non poderás terminar a carreira.
16:43
Just, you know, there are other things for you to do,
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Tes que aceptar que hai outras cousas que podes facer,
16:45
but that's not going to work out for you."
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pero no teu caso isto non."
16:47
So I really struggled with this, and I have to say,
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Tiven que lidar con iso e teño que dicir
16:51
having your identity taken from you, your core identity,
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que que che quiten a túa identidade, o que realmente es,
16:54
and for me it was being smart,
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que para min era ser intelixente,
16:56
having that taken from you,
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que che arrebaten iso,
16:57
there's nothing that leaves you feeling more powerless than that.
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é a cousa que máis impotente te pode facer sentir.
17:00
So I felt entirely powerless.
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Sentíame totalmente impotente.
17:02
I worked and worked, and I got lucky,
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Entón traballei e traballei, e tiven sorte.
17:04
and worked, and got lucky, and worked.
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e traballei, e tiven sorte, e traballei.
17:06
Eventually I graduated from college.
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Finalmente gradueime na universidade.
17:08
It took me four years longer than my peers,
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Tardei catro anos máis cós meus compañeiros,
17:10
and I convinced someone, my angel advisor, Susan Fiske,
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e logrei convencer alguén, o meu anxo da garda, Susan Fiske,
17:15
to take me on, and so I ended up at Princeton,
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para que me aceptase, e acabei en Princeton,
17:17
and I was like, I am not supposed to be here.
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e eu sentía como que non debía estar alí.
17:20
I am an impostor.
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Son unha impostora.
17:22
And the night before my first-year talk,
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A noite antes da exposición de 1º curso,
17:24
and the first-year talk at Princeton is a 20-minute talk to 20 people.
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e esa exposición en Princeton é de 20 minutos para 20 persoas.
17:27
That's it.
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É así.
17:28
I was so afraid of being found out the next day
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Tiña tanto medo de verme excluída o seguinte día
17:31
that I called her and said, "I'm quitting."
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que eu chameina e díxenlle: "Vouno deixar".
17:34
She was like, "You are not quitting,
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Ela díxome: "Non vas deixar nada,
17:35
because I took a gamble on you, and you're staying.
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porque eu apostei por ti e vas quedar.
17:38
You're going to stay, and this is what you're going to do.
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Vas quedar, e isto é o que vas facer.
17:41
You are going to fake it.
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Vas finxir.
17:42
You're going to do every talk that you ever get asked to do.
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Vas facer todas as exposicións que che encarguen.
17:45
You're just going to do it and do it and do it,
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Simplemente valas facer, e facer e facer.
17:48
even if you're terrified and just paralyzed
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aínda que esteas asustada ou incluso paralizada
17:50
and having an out-of-body experience,
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e tendo una experiencia extracorpórea,
17:52
until you have this moment where you say, 'Oh my gosh, I'm doing it.
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ata que chegue o momento que digas "Arre demo, logreino".
17:56
Like, I have become this. I am actually doing this.'"
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Eu cheguei ata aquí. Estou a facelo agora.
17:59
So that's what I did.
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E iso foi o que fixen.
18:00
Five years in grad school,
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Cinco anos de grao universitario,
18:01
a few years, you know, I'm at Northwestern,
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uns poucos anos, sabedes, en Northwestern,
18:03
I moved to Harvard, I'm at Harvard,
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Mudeime a Harvard, agora estou en Harvard,
18:05
I'm not really thinking about it anymore, but for a long time I had been thinking,
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xa non penso nunca niso pero por moito tempo tiven a sensación
18:09
"Not supposed to be here."
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de que non debía estar alí.
18:11
So at the end of my first year at Harvard,
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A finais do meu primeiro ano en Harvard,
18:14
a student who had not talked in class the entire semester,
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unha estudante que non falara na clase en todo o semestre,
18:18
who I had said, "Look, you've gotta participate or else you're going to fail,"
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á que lle dixeran, "mira, tes que participar ou vas suspender",
18:22
came into my office. I really didn't know her at all.
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veu ao meu despacho. Eu non a coñecía de antes.
18:25
She came in totally defeated, and she said,
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Totalmente derrotada, díxome:
18:28
"I'm not supposed to be here."
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"Non debería estar aquí".
18:35
And that was the moment for me.
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Ese foi o meu momento.
18:37
Because two things happened.
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Porque sucederon dúas cousas.
18:38
One was that I realized,
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A primeira que me decatei:
18:40
oh my gosh, I don't feel like that anymore.
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Vaites! Eu xa non me sinto así.
18:43
I don't feel that anymore, but she does, and I get that feeling.
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Xa non me sentía así pero ela si e póñome no seu lugar.
18:46
And the second was, she is supposed to be here!
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A segunda foi, claro que debe estar aquí!
18:48
Like, she can fake it, she can become it.
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Vamos, que pode finxilo e pode facelo.
18:50
So I was like, "Yes, you are! You are supposed to be here!
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Así que lle dixen: " Si, por suposto. Si que debes estar aquí!".
18:54
And tomorrow you're going to fake it,
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Mañá vas finxilo,
18:56
you're going to make yourself powerful, and, you know --
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vas facerte poderosa, e sabes qué...
18:58
(Applause)
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(Aplausos)
19:04
And you're going to go into the classroom,
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Vas ir á clase
19:08
and you are going to give the best comment ever."
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e vas dar o mellor discurso de todos."
19:10
You know? And she gave the best comment ever,
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E sabedes? Fixo o mellor discurso de todos,
19:13
and people turned around and were like,
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a xente xirábase e dicía:
19:15
oh my God, I didn't even notice her sitting there. (Laughter)
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vaia, nin sequera me fixara en que se sentaba aí. (Risos)
19:18
She comes back to me months later,
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Veu xunta min uns meses despois
19:20
and I realized that she had not just faked it till she made it,
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e comprobei que xa non finxía senón que se transformara,
19:23
she had actually faked it till she became it.
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finxiuno ata transformarse.
19:25
So she had changed.
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De modo que cambiara.
19:27
And so I want to say to you, don't fake it till you make it.
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Agora quero dicirvos que non hai que finxilo ata facelo.
19:31
Fake it till you become it.
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Hai que finxilo ata transformarse.
19:34
Do it enough until you actually become it and internalize.
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Hai que facelo o suficiente ata transformarse e internalizalo.
19:38
The last thing I'm going to leave you with is this.
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O último que vos vou dicir é isto.
19:40
Tiny tweaks can lead to big changes.
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Pequenos cambios poden levar a grandes transformacións.
19:45
So, this is two minutes.
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Son só dous minutos.
19:47
Two minutes, two minutes, two minutes.
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Dous minutos, dous minutos, dous minutos.
19:49
Before you go into the next stressful evaluative situation,
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Antes de enfrontarvos á seguinte situación onde vos avalíen,
19:52
for two minutes, try doing this, in the elevator,
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durante dous minutos, intentade isto, no ascensor,
19:55
in a bathroom stall, at your desk behind closed doors.
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no cuarto de baño, no despacho coa porta pechada.
19:58
That's what you want to do.
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Isto é o que tedes que facer.
20:00
Configure your brain to cope the best in that situation.
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Configurar o cerebro para acadar o mellor desa situación.
20:03
Get your testosterone up. Get your cortisol down.
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Subide a testosterona. Baixade o cortisol.
20:05
Don't leave that situation feeling like, oh, I didn't show them who I am.
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Non saiades desa situación sentindo como que non lles mostrei quen son.
20:09
Leave that situation feeling like,
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Saíde desa situación coa sensación
20:11
I really feel like I got to say who I am and show who I am.
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de que vou dicir quen son e vouno demostrar.
20:14
So I want to ask you first, you know, both to try power posing,
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Quero pedirvos antes de nada que adoptedes unha posición de poder,
20:20
and also I want to ask you to share the science, because this is simple.
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e tamén quero convidarvos a compartir a experiencia, porque é moi simple.
20:25
I don't have ego involved in this. (Laughter)
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O meu ego non depende disto. (Risos)
20:27
Give it away. Share it with people,
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Compartídeo, mostrádello á xente,
20:29
because the people who can use it the most
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porque os que mellor poden usalo
20:31
are the ones with no resources and no technology
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son aqueles sen recursos nin tecnoloxía,
20:35
and no status and no power.
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sen posición nin poder.
20:37
Give it to them because they can do it in private.
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Compartídeo con eles porque poden facelo en privado.
20:40
They need their bodies, privacy and two minutes,
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Só necesitan o seu corpo, privacidade e dous minutos
20:42
and it can significantly change the outcomes of their life.
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para cambiar significativamente as proxeccións da súa vida.
20:45
Thank you.
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Grazas.
20:46
(Applause)
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(Aplausos)
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