Richard St. John: "Success is a continuous journey"

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Why do so many people reach success and then fail?
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One of the big reasons is, we think success is a one-way street.
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So we do everything that leads up to success,
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but then we get there. We figure we've made it,
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we sit back in our comfort zone,
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and we actually stop doing everything that made us successful.
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And it doesn't take long to go downhill.
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And I can tell you this happens,
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because it happened to me.
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Reaching success, I worked hard, I pushed myself.
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But then I stopped, because I figured, "Oh, you know, I made it.
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I can just sit back and relax."
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Reaching success, I always tried to improve and do good work.
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But then I stopped because I figured, "Hey, I'm good enough.
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I don't need to improve any more."
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Reaching success, I was pretty good at coming up with good ideas.
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Because I did all these simple things that led to ideas.
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But then I stopped, because I figured I was this hot-shot guy
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and I shouldn't have to work at ideas, they should just come like magic.
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And the only thing that came was creative block.
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I couldn't come up with any ideas.
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Reaching success, I always focused on clients and projects,
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and ignored the money. Then all this money started pouring in.
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And I got distracted by it.
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And suddenly I was on the phone to my stockbroker and my real estate agent,
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when I should have been talking to my clients.
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And reaching success, I always did what I loved.
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But then I got into stuff that I didn't love,
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like management. I am the world's worst manager,
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but I figured I should be doing it, because I was, after all,
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the president of the company.
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Well, soon a black cloud formed over my head
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and here I was, outwardly very successful,
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but inwardly very depressed.
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But I'm a guy; I knew how to fix it.
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I bought a fast car.
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(Laughter)
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It didn't help.
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I was faster but just as depressed.
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So I went to my doctor. I said, "Doc,
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I can buy anything I want. But I'm not happy. I'm depressed.
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It's true what they say, and I didn't believe it until it happened to me.
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But money can't buy happiness."
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He said, "No. But it can buy Prozac."
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And he put me on anti-depressants.
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And yeah, the black cloud faded a little bit, but so did all the work,
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because I was just floating along. I couldn't care less if clients ever called.
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(Laughter)
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And clients didn't call.
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(Laughter)
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Because they could see I was no longer serving them,
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I was only serving myself.
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So they took their money and their projects to others who would serve them better.
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Well, it didn't take long for business to drop like a rock.
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My partner and I, Thom, we had to let all our employees go.
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It was down to just the two of us, and we were about to go under.
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And that was great.
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Because with no employees, there was nobody for me to manage.
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So I went back to doing the projects I loved.
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I had fun again, I worked harder and, to cut a long story short,
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did all the things that took me back up to success.
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But it wasn't a quick trip.
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It took seven years.
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But in the end, business grew bigger than ever.
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And when I went back to following these eight principles,
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the black cloud over my head disappeared altogether.
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And I woke up one day and I said,
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"I don't need Prozac anymore."
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And I threw it away and haven't needed it since.
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I learned that success isn't a one-way street.
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It doesn't look like this; it really looks more like this.
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It's a continuous journey.
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And if we want to avoid "success-to-failure-syndrome,"
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we just keep following these eight principles,
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because that is not only how we achieve success,
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it's how we sustain it.
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So here is to your continued success.
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Thank you very much.
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(Applause)
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