Want to be happy? Be grateful | David Steindl-Rast

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ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุฃุฏู†ุงู‡ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ.

ุงู„ู…ุชุฑุฌู…: Lalla Khadija Tigha ุงู„ู…ุฏู‚ู‘ู‚: khalid marbou
00:12
There is something you know about me,
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ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุฃู…ุฑ ู…ุง
ุชุนุฑููˆู†ู‡ ุนู†ูŠุŒ ุดูŠุก ุฎุงุต ุฌุฏุงุŒ
00:16
something very personal,
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ูˆู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุฃู…ุฑ ู…ุง ุฃุนุฑูู‡
00:20
and there is something I know about every one of you
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ุนู† ูƒู„ ูˆุงุญุฏ ู…ู†ูƒู…
00:24
and that's very central to your concerns.
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ูˆู‡ูˆ ุฃู…ุฑ ูŠุดูƒู„ ู…ุตุฏุฑ ู‚ู„ู‚ูƒู….
00:28
There is something that we know
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ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุฃู…ุฑ ู…ุง ู†ุนู„ู…ู‡
00:31
about everyone we meet anywhere in the world, on the street,
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ุนู† ูƒู„ ุดุฎุต ู†ู„ุชู‚ูŠู‡ ุญูˆู„ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ุŒ
ููŠ ุงู„ุดุงุฑุนุŒ
00:37
that is the very mainspring of whatever they do
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ูˆู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ุงู„ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุดูŠูˆุนุง
ู…ู† ุจูŠู† ุฌู…ูŠุน ุงู„ุฃู…ูˆุฑ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠู‚ูˆู…ูˆู† ุจู‡ุง
00:42
and whatever they put up with.
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ูˆุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุชุทุฑู‚ูˆู† ุฅู„ูŠู‡ุงุŒ
00:46
And that is that all of us want to be happy.
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ูˆู‡ูˆ ุฃู†ู†ุง ุฌู…ูŠุนุง
ู†ุฑูŠุฏ ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุณุนุฏุงุก.
00:52
In this, we are all together.
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ููŠ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆุถูˆุน ุจุงู„ุฐุงุชุŒ ูƒู„ู†ุง ู…ุชูู‚ูˆู†.
00:55
How we imagine our happiness, that differs from one another,
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ูƒูŠููŠุฉ ุชุตูˆุฑู†ุง ู„ู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉุŒ
ุชุฎุชู„ู ู…ู† ุดุฎุต ู„ุขุฎุฑุŒ
01:00
but it's already a lot that we have all in common,
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ู„ูƒู†ู‡ุง ุชุญู…ู„ ู…ุณุจู‚ุง ุนุฏุฉ ู‚ูˆุงุณู… ู…ุดุชุฑูƒุฉ ุจูŠู†ู†ุงุŒ
01:05
that we want to be happy.
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ุฃู†ู†ุง ู†ุฑูŠุฏ ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุณุนุฏุงุก.
01:09
Now my topic is gratefulness.
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ุงู„ุขู† ู…ูˆุถูˆุนู†ุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู†.
01:12
What is the connection between happiness and gratefulness?
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ู…ุงู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุนู„ุงู‚ุฉ ุจูŠู†
ุงู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉ ูˆุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู†ุŸ
01:19
Many people would say, well, that's very easy.
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ุณูŠู‚ูˆู„ ุงู„ุจุนุถุŒ ุญุณู†ุงุŒ ู‡ุฐุง ุณุคุงู„ ู‡ูŠู†.
01:22
When you are happy, you are grateful.
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชูƒูˆู† ุณุนูŠุฏุงุŒ ูุฅู†ูƒ ุชูƒูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ุง.
01:26
But think again.
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ู„ูƒู† ููƒุฑ ู…ุฑุฉ ุฃุฎุฑู‰.
01:29
Is it really the happy people that are grateful?
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ู‡ู„ ุตุญูŠุญ ุฃู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ุณุนุฏุงุก ู…ู…ุชู†ูˆู†ุŸ
ุฌู…ูŠุนู†ุง ูŠุนุฑู ุนุฏุฏุง ู„ุง ุจุฃุณ ุจู‡ ู…ู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณ
01:35
We all know quite a number of people
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01:38
who have everything that it would take to be happy,
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ุงู„ุฐูŠู† ูŠู…ู„ูƒูˆู† ูƒู„ ู…ุง ู‚ุฏ ูŠุฌุนู„ู‡ู… ุณุนุฏุงุกุŒ
01:42
and they are not happy,
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ู„ูƒู†ู‡ู… ู„ูŠุณูˆุง ูƒุฐู„ูƒุŒ
01:44
because they want something else or they want more of the same.
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ู„ุฃู†ู‡ู… ูŠุฑูŠุฏูˆู† ุดูŠุฆุง ุขุฎุฑุง
ุฃูˆ ูŠุฑูŠุฏูˆู† ุงู„ู…ุฒูŠุฏ ู…ู…ุง ู„ุฏูŠู‡ู….
01:50
And we all know people who have lots of misfortune,
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ูˆุฌู…ูŠุนู†ุง ู†ุนุฑู ุฃู†ุงุณุง
ู…ู…ู† ู„ุฏูŠู‡ู… ุงู„ูƒุซูŠุฑ ู…ู† ุงู„ู…ุดุงูƒู„ุŒ
01:57
misfortune that we ourselves would not want to have,
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ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ู…ุดุงูƒู„ ุงู„ุชูŠ ู„ุง ูŠุฑูŠุฏ ุฃุญุฏ ุงู„ูˆู‚ูˆุน ููŠู‡ุงุŒ
02:00
and they are deeply happy.
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ูˆู…ุน ุฐู„ูƒ ูู‡ู… ุณุนุฏุงุก ุฌุฏุง.
02:03
They radiate happiness. You are surprised.
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ูŠุดุนูˆู† ุณุนุงุฏุฉ ู…ู…ุง ูŠุฌุนู„ูƒ ู…ู†ุฏู‡ุดุง.
02:07
Why? Because they are grateful.
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ู„ู…ุงุฐุงุŸ ู„ุฃู†ู‡ู… ุดุงูƒุฑูˆู† ู„ู„ู†ุนู….
02:10
So it is not happiness that makes us grateful.
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ุฅุฐู† ูู„ูŠุณุช ุงู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุฌุนู„ู†ุง ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู†ุŒ
02:14
It's gratefulness that makes us happy.
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ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู† ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠุฌุนู„ู†ุง ุณุนุฏุงุก.
02:17
If you think it's happiness that makes you grateful,
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ุฅุฐุง ูƒู†ุช ุชุนุชู‚ุฏ ุฃู† ุงู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุฌุนู„ูƒ ู…ู…ุชู†ุงุŒ
02:20
think again.
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ููƒุฑ ู…ุฑุฉ ุฃุฎุฑู‰.
02:22
It's gratefulness that makes you happy.
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ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู† ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠุฌุนู„ูƒ ุณุนูŠุฏุง.
02:26
Now, we can ask,
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ุงู„ุขู†ุŒ ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุทุฑุญ ุงู„ุณุคุงู„ุŒ
02:28
what do we really mean by gratefulness?
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ู…ุง ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู†ุนู†ูŠู‡ ุญู‚ุง ุจุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู†ุŸ
02:32
And how does it work?
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ูˆูƒูŠู ูŠู†ุฌุญ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑุŸ
02:37
I appeal to your own experience.
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ุฃุฑูŠุฏูƒู… ุฃู† ุชุณุชุญุถุฑูˆุง ุชุฌุงุฑุจูƒู… ุงู„ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ.
02:39
We all know from experience how it goes.
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ู†ุนู„ู… ุฌู…ูŠุนุง ูƒูŠู ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ู…ู† ุฎู„ุงู„ ุงู„ุชุฌุฑุจุฉ.
02:43
We experience something that's valuable to us.
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ู†ุฎุชุจุฑ ุดูŠุฆุง
ุฐุง ู‚ูŠู…ุฉ ุจุงู„ู†ุณุจุฉ ู„ู†ุง.
02:48
Something is given to us that's valuable to us.
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ุดูŠุก ู…ูู†ูุญูŽ ู„ู†ุงุŒ ูˆู‡ูˆ ุฐูˆ ู‚ูŠู…ุฉ ุจุงู„ู†ุณุจุฉ ู„ู†ุง.
02:53
And it's really given.
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ุดูŠุก ู…ูˆู‡ูˆุจ ุญู‚ุง.
02:55
These two things have to come together.
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ู‡ุฐุงู† ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑุงู† ู…ุชู„ุงุฒู…ุงู†
02:58
It has to be something valuable, and it's a real gift.
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ูŠุฌุจ ุฃู† ูŠูƒูˆู† ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุดูŠุก ู‚ูŠู…ุงุŒ
ูˆุจู…ุซุงุจุฉ ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ ู„ู†ุง.
03:03
You haven't bought it. You haven't earned it.
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ู„ู… ุชุดุชุฑู‡ุŒ ูˆู„ู… ุชุฌู†ู‡.
03:06
You haven't traded it in. You haven't worked for it.
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ู„ู… ุชู‚ุงูŠุถู‡ุŒ ูˆู„ู… ุชุนู…ู„ ู…ู† ุฃุฌู„ ูƒุณุจู‡.
03:09
It's just given to you.
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ุจู„ ุฃูุนุทููŠูŽ ู„ูƒ ูุญุณุจ.
03:10
And when these two things come together,
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ูุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูŠุฌุชู…ุน ู‡ุฐุงู† ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑุงู†ุŒ
03:13
something that's really valuable to me and I realize it's freely given,
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ุฃู† ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุดูŠุก ุฐูˆ ู‚ูŠู…ุฉ ุจุงู„ู†ุณุจุฉ ู„ูŠุŒ
ูˆุฃู† ุฃุฏุฑูƒ ุฃู†ู‡ ู…ูู†ูุญูŽ ู„ูŠ ู…ุฌุงู†ุงุŒ
03:18
then gratefulness spontaneously rises in my heart,
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ุญูŠู†ู‡ุง ูุฅู† ุงู„ุดูƒุฑ
ูŠู…ู„ุฃ ู‚ู„ุจูŠ ุชู„ู‚ุงุฆูŠุงุŒ
03:23
happiness spontaneously rises in my heart.
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ูˆุงู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉ ุชู…ู„ุค ู‚ู„ุจูŠ ุชู„ู‚ุงุฆูŠุง.
03:28
That's how gratefulness happens.
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ู‡ูƒุฐุง ูŠุญุตู„ ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู†.
03:31
Now the key to all this
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ุงู„ู†ู‚ุทุฉ ุงู„ู…ู‡ู…ุฉ ู‡ู†ุง
03:36
is that we cannot only experience this once in a while.
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ุฃู†ู‡ ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู† ูุญุณุจ ุฃู† ู†ุฎุชุจุฑ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุดุนูˆุฑ ููŠู…ุง ู†ูŽุฏูุฑูŽ.
03:44
We cannot only have grateful experiences.
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ูˆู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ุนูŠุด ุชุฌุงุฑุจ ู…ุชูุฑู‚ุฉ ุญูŠุซ ู†ูƒูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู†.
03:48
We can be people who live gratefully.
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ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุฃู†ุงุณุง ูŠุนูŠุดูˆู† ุญูŠุงุชู‡ู… ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู†.
03:52
Grateful living, that is the thing.
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ุญูŠุงุฉ ู…ู„ูŠุฆุฉ ุจุงู„ุดูƒุฑ. ู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ู…ุฑุงุฏ.
03:56
And how can we live gratefully?
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ูƒูŠู ู„ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุนูŠุด ุญูŠุงุชู†ุง ุจุงู…ุชู†ุงู†ุŸ
04:00
By experiencing, by becoming aware
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ู…ู† ุฎู„ุงู„ ุงู„ุชุฌุฑุจุฉุŒ ุฃู† ู†ุนูŠ
04:04
that every moment is a given moment, as we say.
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ุฃู† ูƒู„ ู„ุญุธุฉ ู‡ูŠ ู„ุญุธุฉ ู…ู…ู†ูˆุญุฉุŒ ูƒู…ุง ู†ู‚ูˆู„.
04:09
It's a gift. You haven't earned it.
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ุฅู†ู‡ุง ู‡ุฏูŠุฉุŒ ู„ู… ุชุฌู†ูู‡ุงุŒ
04:11
You haven't brought it about in any way.
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ู„ู… ุชุญุถุฑู‡ุง ู„ู†ูุณูƒ ุจุฃูŠ ุดูƒู„ ู…ู† ุงู„ุฃุดูƒุงู„.
04:14
You have no way of assuring
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ู„ูŠุณุช ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุฃูŠุฉ ูˆุณูŠู„ุฉ ุชุถู…ู† ู„ูƒ
04:17
that there will be another moment given to you,
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ุงู„ุญุตูˆู„ ุนู„ู‰ ู„ุญุธุฉ ุฃุฎุฑู‰ุŒ
04:20
and yet, that's the most valuable thing that can ever be given to us,
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ูˆุจุงู„ุชุงู„ูŠุŒ ูู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุดูŠุก ุงู„ุฃูƒุซุฑ ู‚ูŠู…ุฉ
ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ูŠู‡ุฏู‰ ู„ู†ุง ู‚ุทุŒ
04:26
this moment, with all the opportunity that it contains.
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ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู„ุญุธุฉุŒ ู…ุน ูƒู„ ุงู„ูุฑุต ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุญู…ู„ู‡ุง.
04:31
If we didn't have this present moment,
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ุฅู† ู„ู… ุชูƒู† ู„ู†ุง ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู„ุญุธุฉ ุงู„ุฑุงู‡ู†ุฉุŒ
04:34
we wouldn't have any opportunity to do anything
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ู„ู… ู†ูƒู† ู„ู†ุญุตู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุฃูŠุฉ ูุฑุตุฉ ู„ู†ู‚ูˆู… ุจุฃูŠ ุดูŠุก
04:37
or experience anything,
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ุฃูˆ ู†ุฎุชุจุฑ ุฃูŠ ุดูŠุกุŒ
04:39
and this moment is a gift.
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ูู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู„ุญุธุฉ ุนุจุงุฑุฉ ุนู† ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ.
04:41
It's a given moment, as we say.
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ุฅู†ู‡ุง ู„ุญุธุฉ ู…ู‡ุฏุงุฉุŒ ูƒู…ุง ู†ู‚ูˆู„.
04:43
Now, we say the gift within this gift is really the opportunity.
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ุงู„ุขู†ุŒ ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ู‚ูˆู„ ุฃู† ุงู„ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ ุฏุงุฎู„ ุงู„ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ
ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ุญู‚ุง.
04:50
What you are really grateful for is the opportunity,
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ู…ุง ุฃู†ุช ู…ู…ุชู† ู„ู‡ ููŠ ุงู„ูˆุงู‚ุน ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉุŒ
04:54
not the thing that is given to you,
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ูˆู„ูŠุณ ุงู„ุดูŠุก ุงู„ู…ู…ู†ูˆุญ ู„ูƒุŒ
04:56
because if that thing were somewhere else
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ูู„ูˆ ูƒุงู† ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุดูŠุก ููŠ ู…ูƒุงู† ุขุฎุฑุŒ
04:58
and you didn't have the opportunity to enjoy it,
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ูˆู„ู… ุชูƒู† ู„ูƒ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ู„ู„ุงุณุชู…ุชุงุน ุจู‡ุŒ
05:02
to do something with it,
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ูˆุงุณุชุนู…ุงู„ู‡ุŒ
05:04
you wouldn't be grateful for it.
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ู„ู…ุง ูƒู†ุช ู…ู…ุชู†ุง ู…ู† ุฃุฌู„ู‡.
05:07
Opportunity is the gift within every gift,
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ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ ุฏุงุฎู„ ูƒู„ ู‡ุฏูŠุฉุŒ
05:11
and we have this saying, opportunity knocks only once.
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ูˆู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู…ู‚ูˆู„ุฉ:
ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ุชุทุฑู‚ ุจุงุจูƒ ู…ุฑุฉ ูˆุงุญุฏุฉ.
05:17
Well, think again.
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ุญุณู†ุงุŒ ููƒุฑ ู…ุฑุฉ ุฃุฎุฑู‰.
05:20
Every moment is a new gift, over and over again,
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ูƒู„ ู„ุญุธุฉ ู‡ูŠ ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ ุฌุฏูŠุฏุฉ ุŒ ุชูู‡ุฏู‰ ู„ูƒ ู…ุฑุงุฑุงุŒ
05:24
and if you miss the opportunity of this moment,
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ูุฅู† ูุงุชุชูƒ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ููŠ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู„ุญุธุฉุŒ
05:28
another moment is given to us, and another moment.
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ุชูู‡ุฏู‰ ู„ู†ุง ู„ุญุธุฉ ุฃุฎุฑู‰ุŒ ูˆุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ูˆ ุซุงู„ุซุฉ.
05:32
We can avail ourselves of this opportunity,
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ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุณุชููŠุฏ ู…ู† ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉุŒ
05:34
or we can miss it,
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ุฃูˆ ู†ุถูŠุนู‡ุงุŒ
05:36
and if we avail ourselves of the opportunity,
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ูุฅู† ุชู…ูƒู†ุง ู…ู† ุงู„ุงุณุชูุงุฏุฉ ู…ู†ู‡ุงุŒ
05:40
it is the key to happiness.
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ูู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ู…ูุชุงุญ ุงู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉ.
05:43
Behold the master key to our happiness
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ู†ุญู…ู„ ุงู„ู…ูุชุงุญ ุงู„ุฃุณุงุณูŠ ู„ู„ุณุนุงุฏุฉ
05:46
in our own hands.
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ููŠ ุฃูŠุฏูŠู†ุง.
05:48
Moment by moment, we can be grateful for this gift.
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ู„ุญุธุฉ ุชู„ูˆ ุงู„ุฃุฎุฑู‰ุŒ
ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุดุงูƒุฑูŠู† ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู‡ุฏูŠุฉ.
05:53
Does that mean
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ู‡ู„ ูŠุนู†ูŠ ู‡ุฐุง
05:56
that we can be grateful for everything?
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ุฃู†ู‡ ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู† ู…ู† ุฃุฌู„ ูƒู„ ุดูŠุกุŸ
05:59
Certainly not.
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ุจุงู„ุทุจุน ู„ุง.
06:01
We cannot be grateful for violence, for war,
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ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู† ุนู†ุฏ ูˆู‚ูˆุน ุนู†ู ุฃูˆ ุงู†ุฏู„ุงุน ุงู„ุญุฑูˆุจุŒ
06:06
for oppression, for exploitation.
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ุฃูˆ ู…ู† ุฃุฌู„ ุงู„ุธู„ู…ุŒ ุฃูˆ ุงู„ุงุณุชุบู„ุงู„.
06:09
On the personal level, we cannot be grateful
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ูˆุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ู…ุณุชูˆู‰ ุงู„ุดุฎุตูŠุŒ ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู†
06:12
for the loss of a friend, for unfaithfulness,
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ู„ูู‚ุฏุงู† ุตุฏูŠู‚ุŒ ุฃูˆ ุงู„ุฎูŠุงู†ุฉุŒ
06:15
for bereavement.
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ุฃูˆ ู„ูุงุฌุนุฉ ู…ุง.
06:18
But I didn't say we can be grateful for everything.
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ู„ูƒู†ู†ูŠ ู„ู… ุฃู‚ู„ ุฃู†ู‡ ู…ู† ุงู„ู…ู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู† ู„ูƒู„ ุดูŠุก.
06:22
I said we can be grateful in every given moment
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ุจู„ ู‚ู„ุช ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุดุงูƒุฑูŠู† ููŠ ูƒู„ ู„ุญุธุฉ ู…ูˆู‡ูˆุจุฉ
ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุญู…ู„ู‡ุงุŒ
06:27
for the opportunity,
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06:28
and even when we are confronted with something that is terribly difficult,
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ูˆุญุชู‰ ุฅู† ูˆุงุฌู‡ู†ุง
ุฃู…ุฑุง ููŠ ุบุงูŠุฉ ุงู„ุตุนูˆุจุฉุŒ
06:35
we can rise to this occasion
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ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุฑุชู‚ูŠ ุจู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ
06:37
and respond to the opportunity that is given to us.
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ูˆู†ุณุชุฌูŠุจ ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ุงู„ู…ู…ู†ูˆุญุฉ ู„ู†ุง.
06:42
It isn't as bad as it might seem.
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ู„ูŠุณ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ุณูŠุฆุง ูƒู…ุง ูŠุจุฏูˆ.
06:44
Actually, when you look at it and experience it,
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ููŠ ุงู„ูˆุงู‚ุนุŒ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชู†ุธุฑ ุฅู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ูˆุชุฎุชุจุฑู‡ุŒ
06:48
you find that most of the time,
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ุชุฌุฏ ุฃู†ู‡ ููŠ ุบุงู„ุจ ุงู„ุฃุญูŠุงู† ู…ุง ู‚ุฏ ู…ูู†ุญ ู„ู†ุง
06:51
what is given to us is the opportunity to enjoy,
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ู‡ูˆ ูุฑุตุฉ ู„ู†ุณุชู…ุชุน ุจู‡ุงุŒ
ูˆูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ุถูŠุนู‡ุง ูู‚ุท ู„ุฃู†ู†ุง
06:55
and we only miss it because we are rushing through life
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ููŠ ุนุฌู„ุฉ ู…ู† ุฃู…ุฑู†ุง ููŠ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉ
06:58
and we are not stopping to see the opportunity.
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ูˆู„ุง ู†ุชูˆู‚ู ู„ู†ุฑู‰ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุฃู…ุงู…ู†ุง.
07:01
But once in a while,
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ู„ูƒู† ููŠ ุจุนุถ ุงู„ุฃุญูŠุงู†ุŒ
07:03
something very difficult is given to us,
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ูŠูู…ู†ุญ ู„ู†ุง ู‚ุฏ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุตุนุจุง ุฌุฏุงุŒ
07:06
and when this difficult thing occurs to us,
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ูˆุญูŠู† ูŠูƒูˆู† ู…ุง ูŠุญุฏุซ ู„ู†ุง ุตุนุจุงุŒ
07:10
it's a challenge to rise to that opportunity,
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ูŠูƒูˆู† ู…ู† ุงู„ุตุนุจ ุงู„ุงุฑุชู‚ุงุก ู„ู„ุญุตูˆู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉุŒ
07:14
and we can rise to it by learning something
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ูˆูŠูƒูˆู† ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุงุฑุชู‚ุงุก ุนู† ุทุฑูŠู‚ ุชุนู„ู… ุฃู…ุฑ
ู‚ุฏ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุฃุญูŠุงู†ุง ู…ุคู„ู…ุง.
07:18
which is sometimes painful.
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07:19
Learning patience, for instance.
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ุชุนู„ู… ุงู„ุตุจุฑุŒ ู…ุซู„ุง.
07:21
We have been told that the road to peace
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ู‚ูŠู„ ู„ู†ุง ุฃู† ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ ู†ุญูˆ ุงู„ุณู„ุงู…
07:24
is not a sprint, but is more like a marathon.
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ู„ูŠุณ ุณุจุงู‚ุง ู‚ุตูŠุฑุงุŒ
ู„ูƒู†ู‡ ูŠุดุจู‡ ุงู„ู…ุงุฑุงุซูˆู†.
07:28
That takes patience. That's difficult.
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ู…ู…ุง ูŠุชุทู„ุจ ุตุจุฑุงุŒ ูˆู‡ุฐุง ุฃู…ุฑ ุตุนุจ.
07:32
It may be to stand up for your opinion, to stand up for your conviction.
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ูƒุฃู† ูŠูƒูˆู† ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ู…ุซู„ ุงู„ุฏูุงุน ุนู† ุฑุฃูŠูƒุŒ
ุงู„ุฏูุงุน ุนู† ู‚ู†ุงุนุงุชูƒ.
07:39
That's an opportunity that is given to us.
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ู‡ุฐู‡ ูุฑุตุฉ ู…ู…ู†ูˆุญุฉ ู„ู†ุง.
07:42
To learn, to suffer, to stand up,
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ู„ู†ุชุนู„ู…ุŒ ู„ู†ุชุฃู„ู…ุŒ ูˆู„ู†ุฏุงูุนุŒ
07:45
all these opportunities are given to us,
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ูƒู„ ู‡ุฐู‡ ูุฑุต ู…ู…ู†ูˆุญุฉ ู„ู†ุงุŒ
07:48
but they are opportunities,
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ู„ูƒู†ู‡ุง ูุฑุตุŒ
07:49
and those who avail themselves of those opportunities
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ูˆู…ู† ูŠุฌุนู„ูˆู† ุฃู†ูุณู‡ู… ู…ุชู„ู‚ูŠู†
ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุต
07:53
are the ones that we admire.
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ู‡ู… ู…ู† ู†ุนุดู‚ู‡ู….
07:55
They make something out of life.
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ู‡ู… ู…ู† ูŠู‚ุฏู…ูˆู† ุดูŠุฆุง ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉ.
07:57
And those who fail get another opportunity.
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ูˆู…ู† ูŠูุดู„ูˆู† ูŠุญุตู„ูˆู† ุนู„ู‰ ูุฑุต ุฃุฎุฑู‰.
ู†ุญุตู„ ุฏุงุฆู…ุง ุนู„ู‰ ูุฑุตุฉ ุฃุฎุฑู‰.
08:03
We always get another opportunity.
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08:05
That's the wonderful richness of life.
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ู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุบู†ู‰ ุงู„ู…ุฏู‡ุด ููŠ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉ.
08:10
So how can we find a method that will harness this?
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ุฅุฐู†ุŒ ูƒูŠู ู„ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุฌุฏ ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ
ู„ู†ุฃุฎุฐ ุจุฒู…ุงู… ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑุŸ
08:16
How can each one of us find a method for living gratefully,
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ูƒูŠู ูŠู…ูƒู† ู„ูƒู„ ูˆุงุญุฏ ู…ู†ุง ุฃู† ูŠุฌุฏ ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ
ู„ู„ุนูŠุด ุจุงู…ุชู†ุงู† ุฏุงุฆู…ุŒ
08:21
not just once in a while being grateful,
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ู„ูŠุณ ูู‚ุท ููŠู…ุง ู†ุฏูุฑ ู…ู† ุงู„ู…ุฑุงุชุŒ
08:23
but moment by moment to be grateful.
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ุจู„ ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุดุงูƒุฑูŠู† ู„ุญุธุฉ ุจู„ุญุธุฉ.
08:26
How can we do it? It's a very simple method.
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ูƒูŠู ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ู‚ูˆู… ุจู‡ุฐุงุŸ
ุฅู†ู‡ุง ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุจุณูŠุทุฉ ุฌุฏุง.
08:29
It's so simple that it's actually what we were told as children
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ุฅู†ู‡ุง ุจุณูŠุทุฉ ุฌุฏุง ูƒุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุนู„ู…ู†ุงู‡ุง
ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูƒู†ุง ุตุบุงุฑุง ู„ุนุจูˆุฑ ุงู„ุดุงุฑุน.
08:35
when we learned to cross the street.
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08:37
Stop.
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ุชูˆู‚ู. ุงู†ุธุฑ. ุงู†ุทู„ู‚.
08:39
Look.
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08:40
Go.
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08:41
That's all.
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ู‡ุฐุง ูƒู„ ู…ุง ููŠ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ.
ู„ูƒู† ูƒู… ู…ุฑุฉ ู†ุชูˆู‚ู ููŠู‡ุงุŸ
08:43
But how often do we stop?
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08:45
We rush through life. We don't stop.
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ู†ุญู† ู…ุณุฑุนูˆู† ููŠ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉ. ู„ุง ู†ุชูˆู‚ู.
08:48
We miss the opportunity because we don't stop.
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ู†ุถูŠุน ูุฑุตุง ู„ุฃู†ู†ุง ู„ุง ู†ุชูˆู‚ู.
08:53
We have to stop.
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ุนู„ูŠู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุชูˆู‚ูุŒ ุนู„ูŠู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุชุญู„ู‰ ุจุงู„ู‡ุฏูˆุก.
08:55
We have to get quiet.
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08:58
And we have to build stop signs into our lives.
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ูˆุนู„ูŠู†ุง ูˆุถุน ุฅุดุงุฑุงุช ุชูˆู‚ู
ููŠ ุญูŠุงุชู†ุง.
09:03
When I was in Africa some years ago and then came back,
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูƒู†ุช ููŠ ุฅูุฑูŠู‚ูŠุง ู…ู†ุฐ ุณู†ูˆุงุชุŒ
ูˆุนุฏุช ู…ู†ู‡ุงุŒ
09:08
I noticed water.
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ุชุฃู…ู„ุช ุงู„ู…ุงุก.
09:11
In Africa where I was, I didn't have drinkable water.
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ููŠ ุฅูุฑูŠู‚ูŠุง ุญูŠุซ ูƒู†ุชุŒ ู„ู… ูŠูƒู† ู„ุฏูŠ ู…ุงุก ุดุฑูˆุจ.
09:15
Every time I turned on the faucet, I was overwhelmed.
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ููƒู†ุช ูƒู„ู…ุง ูุชุญุช ุงู„ุตู†ุจูˆุฑุŒ
ุฃุดุนุฑ ุจูุฑุญ ุบุงู…ุฑ.
09:20
Every time I clicked on the light, I was so grateful.
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ูƒู„ู…ุง ู†ู‚ุฑุช ู…ูุชุงุญ ุงู„ู…ุตุจุงุญุŒ
ูƒู†ุช ู…ู…ุชู†ุงุŒ ูƒุงู† ุฐู„ูƒ ูŠุฌุนู„ู†ูŠ ุณุนูŠุฏุง.
09:23
It made me so happy.
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09:25
But after a while, this wears off.
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ู„ูƒู† ุจุนุฏ ุจุนุถ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุชุŒ ุจุฏุฃ ุฐู„ูƒ ูŠุชุจุฎุฑ.
09:27
So I put little stickers on the light switch
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ููˆุถุนุช ู„ุงุตู‚ุงุช ุนู„ู‰ ู…ูุชุงุญ ุงู„ู…ุตุจุงุญ
09:31
and on the water faucet,
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ูˆุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุตู†ุจูˆุฑุŒ
09:32
and every time I turned it on, water.
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ูˆููŠ ูƒู„ ู…ุฑุฉ ุฃูุชุญู‡ุŒ ุฃุญุตู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ู…ุงุก.
09:35
So leave it up to your own imagination.
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ุณุฃุชุฑูƒ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ู„ู…ุฎูŠู„ุชูƒู….
09:38
You can find whatever works best for you,
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ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒู… ุฃู† ุชุฌุฏูˆุง ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ุงู„ู…ู†ุงุณุจ ู„ูƒู…ุŒ
09:40
but you need stop signs in your life.
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ู„ูƒู†ูƒู… ุชุญุชุงุฌูˆู† ุฅู„ู‰ ุฅุดุงุฑุงุช ุชูˆู‚ู ููŠ ุญูŠุงุชูƒู….
09:44
And when you stop,
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ุญูŠู† ุชุชูˆู‚ููˆู†ุŒ
09:46
then the next thing is to look.
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ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ู‡ูŠ ุฃู† ุงู†ุธุฑูˆุง.
09:48
You look. You open your eyes.
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ุงู†ุธุฑุŒ ุงูุชุญ ุนูŠู†ูŠู†ูƒ.
09:50
You open your ears. You open your nose.
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ุงูุชุญ ุฃุฐู†ูŠูƒุŒ ุงูุชุญ ุฃู†ููƒ.
09:53
You open all your senses
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ุงูุชุญ ุฌู…ูŠุน ุญูˆุงุณูƒ
09:55
for this wonderful richness that is given to us.
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ู„ูƒู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุบู†ู‰ ุงู„ู…ูˆู‡ูˆุจ ู„ู†ุง.
ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุบู†ู‰ ุงู„ู„ุงู…ุญุฏูˆุฏุŒ
09:59
There is no end to it, and that is what life is all about,
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุณุฑ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉุŒ
10:03
to enjoy, to enjoy what is given to us.
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ุฃู† ู†ุณุชู…ุชุนุŒ ู†ุณุชู…ุชุน ุจู…ุง ูˆูู‡ูุจ ู„ู†ุง.
10:06
And then we can also open our hearts,
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ูˆู…ู† ุซู… ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ู†ูุชุญ ู‚ู„ูˆุจู†ุงุŒ
10:09
our hearts for the opportunities,
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ู‚ู„ูˆุจู†ุง ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุตุŒ
10:12
for the opportunities also to help others,
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ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุต ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ู…ู† ู…ุณุงุนุฏุฉ ุงู„ุขุฎุฑูŠู†ุŒ
10:15
to make others happy,
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ู„ู†ุฌุนู„ ุงู„ุขุฎุฑูŠู† ุณุนุฏุงุกุŒ ู„ุฃู†ู‡ ู„ุงุดูŠุก ูŠู…ูƒู†ู‡ ุฃู† ูŠุฌุนู„ู†ุง ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุณุนุงุฏุฉ
10:17
because nothing makes us more happy than when all of us are happy.
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ู…ู† ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุฌู…ูŠุนุง ุณุนุฏุงุก.
10:22
And when we open our hearts to the opportunities,
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ูˆุนู†ุฏู…ุง ู†ูุชุญ ู‚ู„ูˆุจู†ุง ู„ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ูุฑุตุŒ
10:26
the opportunities invite us to do something,
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ุชุฏุนูˆู†ุง ุงู„ูุฑุต ู„ู„ู‚ูŠุงู… ุจุดูŠุก ู…ุงุŒ
10:30
and that is the third.
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ูˆู‡ุฐู‡ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ู†ู‚ุทุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู„ุซุฉ.
10:31
Stop, look, and then go, and really do something.
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ุชูˆู‚ูุŒ ุงู†ุธุฑุŒ ุงู†ุทู„ู‚ุŒ ูˆู‚ู… ุจุดูŠุก ู…ุง.
10:36
And what we can do
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ูˆู…ุง ูŠู…ูƒู†ู†ุง ุงู„ู‚ูŠุงู… ุจู‡ุŒ
10:37
is whatever life offers to you in that present moment.
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ู…ู‡ู…ุง ู‚ุฏู…ุช ู„ูƒ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉ ู…ู† ูุฑุต ููŠ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู„ุญุธุฉ ุงู„ุฑุงู‡ู†ุฉ.
10:42
Mostly it's the opportunity to enjoy,
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ูˆู‡ูŠ ุจุงู„ุฃุณุงุณ ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠู…ูƒู† ุงู„ุงุณุชู…ุชุงุน ุจู‡ุงุŒ
10:47
but sometimes it's something more difficult.
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ู‚ุฏ ุชูƒูˆู† ุฃุญูŠุงู†ุง ุฃุดูŠุงุก ุตุนุจุฉ.
10:51
But whatever it is, if we take this opportunity,
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ุฃูŠุง ูŠูƒู†ุŒ ุฅุฐุง ุงุบุชู†ู…ู†ุง ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉุŒ
10:55
we go with it, we are creative, those are the creative people.
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ูˆุชู…ุงุดูŠู†ุง ู…ุนู‡ุงุŒ ูˆูƒู†ุง ู…ุจุฏุนูŠู†ุŒ
ู‡ุคู„ุงุก ู‡ู… ุงู„ู…ุจุฏุนูˆู†ุŒ
11:00
And that little stop, look, go,
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ูˆุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ุฎุทุฉ ุงู„ูŠุณูŠุฑุฉ: ุชูˆู‚ูุŒ ุงู†ุธุฑุŒ ุงู†ุทู„ู‚
11:04
is such a potent seed
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ู‡ูŠ ุจู…ุซุงุจุฉ ุจุฐุฑุฉ ุงุฎุชุฑุงุน
11:06
that it can revolutionize our world.
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ุงู„ุชูŠ ู…ู† ุดุฃู†ู‡ุง ุฃู† ุชุญุฏุซ ุซูˆุฑุฉ ููŠ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู….
11:10
Because we are at the present moment
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ู„ุฃู†ู†ุง ู†ุญุชุงุฌุŒ ูˆู†ุญู† ููŠ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ุงู„ุฑุงู‡ู†ุŒ
11:15
in the middle of a change of consciousness,
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ููŠ ุฎุถู… ุชุบูŠุฑุงุช ุงู„ูˆุนูŠ ูˆ ุงู„ุดุนูˆุฑุŒ
11:19
and you will be surprised if you --
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ุณุชู†ุฏู‡ุด ุญูŠู† --
ุฃู†ุง ุฏุงุฆู…ุง ุฃูƒูˆู† ู…ู†ุฏู‡ุดุง ุญูŠู† ุฃุณู…ุน ุนุฏุฉ ู…ุฑุงุช
11:22
I am always surprised when I hear how many times
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11:24
this word "gratefulness" and "gratitude" comes up.
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ุนุจุงุฑุฉ " ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู†" ุฃูˆ" ุงู„ุงุนุชุฑุงู ุจุงู„ุฌู…ูŠู„".
11:27
Everywhere you find it,
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ุฃูŠู†ู…ุง ูˆุฌุฏุชู‡ุงุŒ
11:29
a grateful airline, a restaurant gratefulness,
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ุดุฑูƒุฉ ุทูŠุฑุงู† ุชุณุชุญู‚ ุงู„ุดูƒุฑุŒ ู…ุทุนู… ูŠุณุชุญู‚ ุงู„ุดูƒุฑุŒ
11:32
a cafรฉ gratefulness, a wine that is gratefulness.
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ู…ู‚ู‡ู‰ ูŠุณุชุญู‚ ุงู„ุดูƒุฑุŒ ู…ุดุฑูˆุจ ูŠุณุชุญู‚ ุงู„ุดูƒุฑ.
11:35
Yes, I have even come across a toilet paper
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ู†ุนู…ุŒ ู„ู‚ุฏ ุตุงุฏูุช ู…ุฑุฉ ูˆุฑู‚ ู…ุฑุญุงุถ
11:39
whose brand is called "Thank You."
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ูƒุงู†ุช ุนู„ุงู…ุชู‡ ุงู„ุชุฌุงุฑูŠุฉ ู‡ูŠ " ุดูƒุฑุง" (ุถุญูƒ)
11:41
(Laughter)
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11:43
There is a wave of gratefulness
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ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ู…ูˆุฌุฉ ู…ู† ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู† ู„ุฃู†
11:45
because people are becoming aware how important this is
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ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุฃุตุจุญูˆุง ูˆุงุนูŠู† ุจู…ุฏู‰ ุฃู‡ู…ูŠุชู‡
11:48
and how this can change our world.
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ูˆูƒุฐุง ู‚ุฏุฑุชู‡ ุนู„ู‰ ุชุบูŠูŠุฑ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู….
11:51
It can change our world in immensely important ways,
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ูŠู…ูƒู† ู„ู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู† ุฃู† ูŠุบูŠุฑ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…
ุจุทุฑู‚ ุบุงูŠุฉ ููŠ ุงู„ุฃู‡ู…ูŠุฉ
11:58
because if you're grateful, you're not fearful,
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ู„ุฃู†ูƒ ุฅู† ูƒู†ุช ุดุงูƒุฑุงุŒ ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ุชูƒูˆู† ุฎุงุฆูุงุŒ
12:02
and if you're not fearful, you're not violent.
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ูˆุฅู† ู„ู… ุชูƒู† ุฎุงุฆูุงุŒ ู„ู† ุชูƒูˆู† ุนู†ูŠูุง.
12:05
If you're grateful, you act out of a sense of enough
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ุฅู† ูƒู†ุช ุดุงูƒุฑุงุŒ ุณุชุนูŠุด ุจู…ุนู†ู‰ ุงู„ุงูƒุชูุงุก
12:09
and not of a sense of scarcity,
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ูˆู„ูŠุณ ุจู…ุนู†ู‰ ุงู„ู†ู‚ุต ูˆ ุงู„ุญุงุฌุฉ.
12:11
and you are willing to share.
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ูˆุณุชูƒูˆู† ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ุงู„ุฑุบุจุฉ ููŠ ุงู„ู…ุดุงุฑูƒุฉ.
12:13
If you are grateful,
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ุฅู† ูƒู†ุช ุดุงูƒุฑุงุŒ ุณุชุณุชู…ุชุน
12:15
you are enjoying the differences between people,
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ุจุงู„ุงุฎุชู„ุงูุงุช ุจูŠู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณุŒ
ูˆุณุชุญุชุฑู… ุงู„ุฌู…ูŠุนุŒ
12:18
and you are respectful to everybody,
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12:20
and that changes this power pyramid under which we live.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ุณูŠุบูŠุฑ ู…ุนุงู„ู… ู‡ุฑู… ุงู„ู‚ูˆุฉ
ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู†ุนูŠุด ููŠ ูƒู†ูู‡.
ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู„ู† ูŠุญู‚ู‚ ุงู„ู…ุณุงูˆุงุฉุŒ
12:24
And it doesn't make for equality, but it makes for equal respect,
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‡ ุณูŠุญู‚ู‚ ุงุญุชุฑุงู…ุง ู…ุชุณุงูˆูŠุงุŒ
12:29
and that is the important thing.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ุฃู‡ู… ู…ุงููŠ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ.
12:31
The future of the world will be a network,
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ู…ุณุชู‚ุจู„ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู… ุณูŠูƒูˆู† ู…ู† ุฎู„ุงู„ ุดุจูƒุฉ ุชุนุงุฑูุŒ
12:34
not a pyramid turned upside down.
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ูˆู„ูŠุณ ู‡ุฑู…ุงุŒ ู‡ุฑู…ุง ู…ู‚ู„ูˆุจุง ุฑุฃุณุง ุนู„ู‰ ุนู‚ุจ.
12:38
The revolution of which I am speaking is a nonviolent revolution,
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ุงู„ุซูˆุฑุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุฃุชุญุฏุซ ุนู†ู‡ุง
ู‡ูŠ ุซูˆุฑุฉ ุณู„ู…ูŠุฉุŒ
ุฅู†ู‡ุง ุซูˆุฑูŠุฉ
12:43
and it's so revolutionary that it even revolutionizes
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ู„ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ุฃู†ู‡ุง ุชุซูŠุฑ ุซูˆุฑุฉ
12:46
the very concept of a revolution,
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ููŠ ู…ูู‡ูˆู… ุงู„ุซูˆุฑุฉ ููŠ ุญุฏ ุฐุงุชู‡ุŒ
12:49
because the normal revolution
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ู„ุฃู† ุงู„ุซูˆุฑุฉ ุงู„ู…ุชุนุงุฑู ุนู„ูŠู‡ุง
12:51
is one where the power pyramid is turned upside down
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ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุซูˆุฑุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชู‚ู„ุจ ู‡ุฑู… ุงู„ู‚ูˆุฉ ุฑุฃุณุง ุนู„ู‰ ุนู‚ุจ.
12:54
and those who were on the bottom are now on the top
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ูˆุชุฌุนู„ ู…ู† ูƒุงู†ูˆุง ููŠ ุงู„ุฃุณูู„ ูŠุนุชู„ูˆู† ุงู„ู‡ุฑู…
12:57
and are doing exactly the same thing that the ones before.
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ู„ูƒู†ู‡ู… ูŠู‚ูˆู…ูˆู† ุชู…ุงู…ุง ุจู†ูุณ ุงู„ุฃุดูŠุงุก
ุงู„ุชูŠ ูƒุงู† ูŠูุนู„ู‡ุง ู…ู† ูƒุงู† ู‚ุจู„ู‡ู….
13:02
What we need is a networking of smaller groups,
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ู…ุง ู†ุญุชุงุฌู‡ ู‡ูˆ ุดุจูƒุฉ ู…ู† ู…ุฌู…ูˆุนุงุช ุตุบูŠุฑุฉุŒ
13:06
smaller and smaller groups who know one another,
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ู…ุฌู…ูˆุนุงุช ุฃุตุบุฑ ูุฃุตุบุฑ ู…ู…ู† ูŠุนุฑููˆู† ุจุนุถู‡ู… ุงู„ุจุนุถุŒ
ูˆูŠุชูุงุนู„ูˆู† ู…ุน ุจุนุถู‡ู… ุงู„ุจุนุถุŒ
13:10
who interact with one another, and that is a grateful world.
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ููŠ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุนุงู„ู… ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠุณุชุญู‚ ุงู„ุงู…ุชู†ุงู†.
13:14
A grateful world is a world of joyful people.
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ุนุงู„ู… ู…ู…ุชู† ู‡ูˆ ุนุงู„ู… ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ู…ุณุฑูˆุฑูŠู†.
13:18
Grateful people are joyful people,
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ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ู…ู…ุชู†ูˆู† ู‡ู… ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ู…ุณุฑูˆุฑูˆู†ุŒ
13:21
and joyful people --
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ูˆุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ู…ุณุฑูˆุฑูˆู†ุŒ
13:23
the more and more joyful people there are,
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ูƒู„ู…ุง ุฒุงุฏ ุนุฏุฏ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ู…ุณุฑูˆุฑูŠู†ุŒ
13:26
the more and more we'll have a joyful world.
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ูƒู„ู…ุง ุญุตู„ู†ุง ุนู„ู‰ ุนุงู„ู… ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุณุฑูˆุฑุง.
13:30
We have a network for grateful living, and it has mushroomed.
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ู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ุดุจูƒุฉ ู…ู† ุฃุฌู„ ุงู„ุนูŠุด ุจุดูƒุฑ ุฏุงุฆู…ุŒ
ูˆู‚ุฏ ุจุฏุฃุช ุจุงู„ุงู†ุชุดุงุฑ.
13:36
We couldn't understand why it mushroomed.
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ูˆู„ู… ู†ูู‡ู… ู„ู…ุงุฐุง ุงู†ุชุดุฑุช.
13:39
We have an opportunity for people to light a candle
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ู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ูุฑุตุฉ ู„ุฌุนู„ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ูŠุดุนู„ูˆู† ุดู…ุนุฉ
13:42
when they are grateful for something.
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ุญูŠู† ูŠูƒูˆู†ูˆู† ู…ู…ุชู†ูŠู† ุงุชุฌุงู‡ ุฃู…ุฑ ู…ุง.
13:45
And there have been 15 million candles lit in one decade.
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ูˆูƒุงู†ุช ู‡ู†ุงูƒ 15 ู…ู„ูŠูˆู† ุดู…ุนุฉ ู‚ุฏ ุฃุถูŠุฃุช
ุฎู„ุงู„ ุนู‚ุฏ ูˆุงุญุฏ.
13:52
People are becoming aware that a grateful world is a happy world,
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ู„ู‚ุฏ ุฃุตุจุญ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ูˆุงุนูŠู†
ุฃู† ุนุงู„ู…ุง ุจู‡ ุฃู†ุงุณ ู…ู…ุชู†ูˆู† ู‡ูˆ ุนุงู„ู… ุณุนูŠุฏุŒ
13:58
and we all have the opportunity by the simple stop, look, go,
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ูˆู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ุฌู…ูŠุนุง ุงู„ูุฑุตุฉ
ู…ู† ุฎู„ุงู„ ุงู„ู‚ุงุนุฏุฉ ุงู„ุจุณูŠุทุฉ : ุชูˆู‚ูุŒ ุงู†ุธุฑุŒ ุงู†ุทู„ู‚ุŒ
14:04
to transform the world, to make it a happy place.
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ุฃู† ู†ุบูŠุฑ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ุŒ
ู„ู†ุฌุนู„ู‡ ู…ูƒุงู†ุง ุณุนูŠุฏุง.
14:08
And that is what I hope for us,
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ูˆ ู‡ุฐุง ู…ุง ุขู…ู„ู‡ ู„ู†ุงุŒ
14:09
and if this has contributed a little to making you want to do the same,
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ูˆุฅู† ูƒุงู†ุช ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู…ุญุงุฏุซุฉ ู‚ุฏ ุณุงู‡ู…ุช ูˆู„ูˆ ู‚ู„ูŠู„ุง
ููŠ ุฃู† ุชุฌุนู„ูƒู… ุชุฑูŠุฏูˆู† ุงุชุจุงุน ู†ูุณ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉุŒ
14:14
stop, look, go.
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ุชูˆู‚ูุŒ ุงู†ุธุฑุŒ ุงู†ุทู„ู‚.
14:16
Thank you.
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ุดูƒุฑุง ู„ูƒู….
14:17
(Applause)
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ุญูˆู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน

ุณูŠู‚ุฏู… ู„ูƒ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน ู…ู‚ุงุทุน ููŠุฏูŠูˆ YouTube ุงู„ู…ููŠุฏุฉ ู„ุชุนู„ู… ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ. ุณุชุฑู‰ ุฏุฑูˆุณ ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุชู… ุชุฏุฑูŠุณู‡ุง ู…ู† ู‚ุจู„ ู…ุฏุฑุณูŠู† ู…ู† ุงู„ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ู…ู† ุฌู…ูŠุน ุฃู†ุญุงุก ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…. ุงู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ู…ุนุฑูˆุถุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ูƒู„ ุตูุญุฉ ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู…ู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ. ูŠุชู… ุชู…ุฑูŠุฑ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุงุช ุจุงู„ุชุฒุงู…ู† ู…ุน ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ. ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ุฃูŠ ุชุนู„ูŠู‚ุงุช ุฃูˆ ุทู„ุจุงุช ุŒ ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ุจู†ุง ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ู†ู…ูˆุฐุฌ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ู‡ุฐุง.

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