Jok Church: A circle of caring

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Translator: Gloria Uclés Ramada Reviewer: Álvaro Jimeno
00:15
You know, what I do is write for children,
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Sabeu? Em dedico a escriure per als nens
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and I'm probably America's
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i, de fet, probablement sóc
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most widely read children's author, in fact.
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l'escriptor infantil més llegit dels Estats Units.
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And I always tell people
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I sempre dic a la gent
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that I don't want to show up looking like a scientist.
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que no vull anar vestit com un científic.
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You can have me as a farmer, or in leathers,
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Puc anar com un granger o vestit de cuir,
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and no one has ever chose farmer.
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i ningú mai elegeix granger.
00:34
I'm here today to talk to you
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Avui estic aquí per parlar-vos
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about circles and epiphanies.
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sobre cercles i revelacions.
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And you know, an epiphany
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I, sabeu? Una revelació
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is usually something you find that you dropped someplace.
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sol ser alguna cosa que trobes després d'haver-la deixat caure en qualsevol lloc.
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You've just got to go around the block
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Sols heu de donar una volta a l'illa
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to see it as an epiphany.
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per veure-ho com a una revelació.
00:46
That's a painting of a circle.
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Això és un dibuix d'un cercle.
00:48
A friend of mine did that -- Richard Bollingbroke.
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El va fer un amic meu, el Richard Bollingbroke.
00:51
It's the kind of complicated circle
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És el tipus de cercle complicat
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that I'm going to tell you about.
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del qual us parlaré avui.
00:55
My circle began back in the '60s
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El meu cercle va començar als anys 60,
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in high school in Stow, Ohio
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a l'institut a Stow, Ohio,
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where I was the class queer.
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on era el marieta de la classe.
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I was the guy beaten up bloody
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Jo era el nen a qui apallissaven fins que sagnava
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every week in the boys' room,
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cada setmana al lavabo dels nois,
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until one teacher saved my life.
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fins que una mestra em va salvar la vida.
01:10
She saved my life by letting me go to the bathroom
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Em va salvar la vida deixant-me entrar al bany
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in the teachers' lounge.
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de la sala de professors.
01:15
She did it in secret.
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Ho va fer en secret.
01:17
She did it for three years.
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Ho va fer durant tres anys.
01:19
And I had to get out of town.
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I vaig haver d'anar-me'n de la ciutat.
01:22
I had a thumb, I had 85 dollars,
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Tenia un polze, tenia 85 dòlars,
01:24
and I ended up in San Francisco, California --
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i vaig acabar a San Francisco, Califòrnia.
01:28
met a lover --
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Vaig trobar el meu estimat...
01:31
and back in the '80s, found it necessary
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i en els anys 80 vaig considerar necessari
01:33
to begin work on AIDS organizations.
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començar a treballar amb organtizacions que lliutaven contra la sida.
01:38
About three or four years ago,
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Farà 3 o 4 anys,
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I got a phone call in the middle of the night
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vaig rebre una trucada en meitat de la nit
01:42
from that teacher, Mrs. Posten,
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d'aquella professora, la senyoreta Posten,
01:45
who said, "I need to see you.
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que em deia: "Necessito veure't.
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I'm disappointed
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Em decepciona
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that we never got to know each other as adults.
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que mai ens vam arribar a conèixer d'adults.
01:52
Could you please come to Ohio,
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Podries venir a Ohio
01:55
and please bring that man
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i, si us plau, portar aquest horme
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that I know you have found by now.
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que sé que ja has trobat?
02:00
And I should mention
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I he de dir
02:02
that I have pancreatic cancer,
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que tinc càncer de pàncrees,
02:05
and I'd like you to please
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així que, si us plau, m'agradaria
02:07
be quick about this."
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que no t'entretinguessis".
02:10
Well, the next day we were in Cleveland.
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Bé, el dia següent estàvem a Cleveland.
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We took a look at her, we laughed, we cried,
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Vam vistar-la, vam riure, vam plorar
02:15
and we knew that she needed to be in a hospice.
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i sabíem que necessitava estar en un hospital.
02:19
We found her one, we got her there,
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Vam trobar-ne un, la vam portar allà
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and we took care of her
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i vam cuidar d'ella
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and watched over her family,
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i de la seva família,
02:25
because it was necessary.
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perquè era necessari.
02:27
It's something we knew how to do.
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Era una cosa que sabíem com fer.
02:29
And just as the woman who wanted to know me as an adult
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I tot just quan la dona que volia conèixer-me com a adult
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got to know me,
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ho va fer,
02:35
she turned into a box of ashes
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es va convertir en una caixa de cendres
02:37
and was placed in my hands.
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i va passar a les meves mans.
02:40
And what had happened
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I allò que havia passat
02:42
was the circle had closed,
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va ser que el cercle es va tancar,
02:44
it had become a circle --
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allò havia esdevingut un cercle
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and that epiphany I talked about
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i aquesta revelació de què us he parlat
02:49
presented itself.
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es va revelar.
02:51
The epiphany is
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La revelació és
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that death is a part of life.
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que la mort és part de la vida.
02:55
She saved my life;
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Ella va salvar la meva vida;
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I and my partner saved hers.
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jo i la meva parella vam salvar la seva.
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And you know, that part of life needs everything
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I, sabeu? Aquesta part de la vida necessita tot allò
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that the rest of life does.
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que la resta de la vida necessita.
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It needs truth and beauty,
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Necessita veritat i bellesa
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and I'm so happy it's been mentioned so much here today.
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i estic molt content que avui s'esmenti tant aquí.
03:11
It also needs --
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També necessita...
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it needs dignity,
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necessita dignitat,
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love and pleasure,
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amor i plaer.
03:18
and it's our job to hand those things out.
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I és tasca nostra donar aquestes coses.
03:21
Thank you.
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Gràcies.
03:23
(Applause)
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(Aplaudiments)

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