Jok Church: A circle of caring

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

λ²ˆμ—­: Jungsoo Kim κ²€ν† : Seo Rim Kim
00:15
You know, what I do is write for children,
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μ €λŠ” 아이듀을 μœ„ν•΄ 글을 μ”λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:18
and I'm probably America's
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그리고 μ•„λ§ˆ μ €λŠ” λ―Έκ΅­μ—μ„œ
00:20
most widely read children's author, in fact.
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κ°€μž₯ 널리 μ½ν˜€μ§„ λ™ν™”μž‘κ°€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:22
And I always tell people
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그리고 μ €λŠ” 항상 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ
00:24
that I don't want to show up looking like a scientist.
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κ³Όν•™μž 처럼 보이고 싢지 μ•Šλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:27
You can have me as a farmer, or in leathers,
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μ €λ₯Ό 농뢀 λ˜λŠ” 가죽을 μž…κ³ μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμœΌλ‘œ 받아듀일 수 있고,
00:30
and no one has ever chose farmer.
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그리고 아직 λˆ„κ΅¬λ„ 농뢀λ₯Ό μ„ νƒν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:34
I'm here today to talk to you
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μ €λŠ” 였늘 여기에 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ
00:36
about circles and epiphanies.
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μ„œν΄(원)κ³Ό κΉ¨λ‹¬μŒμ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν•˜λŸ¬ μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:38
And you know, an epiphany
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μ•„μ‹œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, κΉ¨λ‹¬μŒμ€
00:40
is usually something you find that you dropped someplace.
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μš°μ—°ν•¨μ—μ„œ μ–»κ²Œ λ˜λŠ” κ²½μš°κ°€ λ§ŽμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:42
You've just got to go around the block
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당신은 κ·Έλƒ₯ λ‹€μ‹œ λŒμ•„λ³΄κ³ 
00:44
to see it as an epiphany.
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κΉ¨λ‹¬μŒμž„μ„ 보기만 ν•˜λ©΄ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:46
That's a painting of a circle.
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저것은 μ›μ˜ κ·Έλ¦Όμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:48
A friend of mine did that -- Richard Bollingbroke.
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제 친ꡬ인 λ¦¬μ°¨λ“œ 볼링브둝이 κ·Έλ Έμ£ .
00:51
It's the kind of complicated circle
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μ œκ°€ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ λ§ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•˜λŠ”
00:53
that I'm going to tell you about.
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λ³΅μž‘ν•œ μ›μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:55
My circle began back in the '60s
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μ €μ˜ μ„œν΄μ€ 60λ…„λŒ€μ—
00:58
in high school in Stow, Ohio
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μ œκ°€ λ”°λŒλ¦Όμ„ λ‹Ήν–ˆλ˜ μ˜€ν•˜μ΄μ˜€μ£Όμ˜ μŠ€ν† μš°μ— μžˆλŠ”
01:00
where I was the class queer.
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κ³ λ“±ν•™κ΅μ—μ„œ μ‹œμž‘λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:03
I was the guy beaten up bloody
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μ €λŠ” 맀주 λ‚¨μžν™”μž₯μ‹€μ—μ„œ
01:05
every week in the boys' room,
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ν”Όλ‚˜λ„λ‘ μ–»μ–΄ λ§žμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:07
until one teacher saved my life.
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ν•œ λͺ…μ˜ μ„ μƒλ‹˜μ΄ μ €λ₯Ό κ΅¬ν•˜κΈ° μ „κΉŒμ§€λŠ” 말이죠.
01:10
She saved my life by letting me go to the bathroom
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” ꡐ사 νœ΄κ²Œμ‹€μ— μžˆλŠ” ν™”μž₯싀을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜κ²Œ ν—ˆλ½ν•΄μ£Όμ…”μ„œ
01:13
in the teachers' lounge.
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μ €λ₯Ό μ‚΄λ €μ£Όμ…¨μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:15
She did it in secret.
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” 이것을 λΉ„λ°€λ‘œ ν•΄μ£Όμ—ˆκ³ ,
01:17
She did it for three years.
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3λ…„ λ™μ•ˆ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•΄μ£Όμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:19
And I had to get out of town.
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그리고 μ €λŠ” λ§ˆμ„μ„ λ– λ‚¬μ§€μš”.
01:22
I had a thumb, I had 85 dollars,
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μ €λŠ” κ°€μ§„κ²Œ λͺΈκ³Ό $85 밖에 μ—†μ—ˆκ³ ,
01:24
and I ended up in San Francisco, California --
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μΊ˜λ¦¬ν¬λ‹ˆμ•„μ£Όμ˜ μƒŒν”„λž€μ‹œμŠ€μ½”μ— λ„μ°©ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:28
met a lover --
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μ‚¬λž‘ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ§Œλ‚¬κ³ μš”,
01:31
and back in the '80s, found it necessary
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μ§€λ‚œ 80λ…„λŒ€μ—λŠ” μ—μ΄μ¦ˆ λ‹¨μ²΄μ—μ„œ
01:33
to begin work on AIDS organizations.
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일해야 λœλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:38
About three or four years ago,
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그리고 3~4λ…„ 전에,
01:40
I got a phone call in the middle of the night
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μ €λŠ” ν•œ 밀쀑에 제 μ„ μƒλ‹˜μ΄μ˜€λ˜
01:42
from that teacher, Mrs. Posten,
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포슀튼 λΆ€μΈμ—κ²Œ μ „ν™”κ°€ μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:45
who said, "I need to see you.
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” λ§ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€: "λ„ˆλŠ” λ³΄μ•„μ•Όκ² κ΅¬λ‚˜.
01:47
I'm disappointed
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λ‚˜λŠ” μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 같이 μ–΄λ₯ΈμœΌλ‘œμ„œ
01:49
that we never got to know each other as adults.
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λŒ€ν™”ν•˜μ§€ λͺ»ν•΄ μ„œμš΄ν•˜λ‹€.
01:52
Could you please come to Ohio,
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μ˜€ν•˜μ΄μ˜€λ‘œ 올 수 μžˆκ² λ‹ˆ,
01:55
and please bring that man
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그리고 μ§€κΈˆμ―€μ΄λ©΄ μ°Ύμ•˜μ„
01:57
that I know you have found by now.
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κ·Έ λ‚¨μžλ„ κΌ­ 같이와주렴.
02:00
And I should mention
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그리고 λ‚΄κ°€ 췌μž₯암이
02:02
that I have pancreatic cancer,
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μžˆλ‹€λŠ” 것을 λ§ν•΄μ•Όκ² κ΅¬λ‚˜.
02:05
and I'd like you to please
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λ‚˜λŠ” λ„€κ°€
02:07
be quick about this."
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빨리 μ™”μœΌλ©΄ ν•œλ‹€."
02:10
Well, the next day we were in Cleveland.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, κ·Έ λ‹€μŒλ‚  μš°λ¦¬λŠ” ν΄λ¦¬λΈŒλžœλ“œμ— μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:12
We took a look at her, we laughed, we cried,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚˜μ„œ 웃고 μšΈμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:15
and we knew that she needed to be in a hospice.
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그리고 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έλ…€κ°€ ν˜ΈμŠ€ν”ΌμŠ€μ— κ°€μ•Ό ν•œλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œμ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:19
We found her one, we got her there,
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ν˜ΈμŠ€ν”ΌμŠ€ ν•˜λ‚˜λ₯Ό μ°Ύμ•˜κ³  κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό 데렀닀 μ£Όμ—ˆκ³ 
02:21
and we took care of her
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그녀와 λŒλ³΄μ•˜κ³ ,
02:23
and watched over her family,
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κ·Έλ…€μ˜ 가쑱을 λ„μ™€μ£Όμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:25
because it was necessary.
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μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄, κ·Έλ…€λŠ” 도움이 ν•„μš”ν–ˆκ³ ,
02:27
It's something we knew how to do.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ ν•  쀄 μ•„λŠ” κ²ƒμ΄μ˜€κΈ° λ•Œλ¬Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:29
And just as the woman who wanted to know me as an adult
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그리고 μ €λ₯Ό μ–΄λ₯ΈμœΌλ‘œμ„œ μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ ν–ˆλ˜ 그뢄이
02:33
got to know me,
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μ €λ₯Ό μ•Œκ²Œλ˜μž,
02:35
she turned into a box of ashes
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” 재둜 λ³€ν•˜κ³  λ§μ•˜κ³ ,
02:37
and was placed in my hands.
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제 손 μœ„μ— μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:40
And what had happened
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그리고 μΌμ–΄λ‚œ 일은,
02:42
was the circle had closed,
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원이 λ‹«ν˜€μ Έμ„œ
02:44
it had become a circle --
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ν•˜λ‚˜μ˜ 원이 λ˜μ—ˆμœΌλ©°,
02:47
and that epiphany I talked about
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그리고 μ œκ°€ λ§ν•œ κ·Έ κΉ¨λ‹¬μŒμ΄
02:49
presented itself.
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슀슀둜 μ°Ύμ•„μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:51
The epiphany is
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κ·Έ κΉ¨λ‹¬μŒμ€ λ°”λ‘œ
02:53
that death is a part of life.
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μ£½μŒμ€ μΈμƒμ˜ μΌλΆ€λΌλŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:55
She saved my life;
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κ·Έλ…€λŠ” μ €λ₯Ό κ΅¬ν•΄μ£Όμ—ˆκ³ ,
02:58
I and my partner saved hers.
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저와 제 νŒŒνŠΈλ„ˆλŠ” κ·Έλ…€λ₯Ό λ„μ™€μ€¬μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:02
And you know, that part of life needs everything
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그리고 μ•Œλ‹€μ‹œν”Ό, κ·Έ μΈμƒμ˜ 일뢀뢄은 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ „μ²΄μ˜ 뢀뢄이
03:04
that the rest of life does.
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ν•˜λŠ” λͺ¨λ“  것을 ν•„μš”λ‘œ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:06
It needs truth and beauty,
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이것은 진싀과 아름닀움을 ν•„μš”λ‘œν•˜λ©°,
03:08
and I'm so happy it's been mentioned so much here today.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” 였늘 그것이 많이 μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°λ˜μ„œ 정말 κΈ°μ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:11
It also needs --
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그리고 λ˜ν•œ
03:14
it needs dignity,
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쑴엄성도 ν•„μš”ν•˜λ©°
03:16
love and pleasure,
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μ‚¬λž‘κ³Ό 기쁨도 ν•„μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:18
and it's our job to hand those things out.
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그리고 μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ΄λŸ¬ν•œ 것듀을 λ‚˜λˆ„μ–΄ μ£Όμ–΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:21
Thank you.
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κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:23
(Applause)
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(λ°•μˆ˜)

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