My Daughter, Malala | Ziauddin Yousafzai | TED Talks

Translator: Mirna Lukovic Reviewer: Samra Cebiric

U mnogim patrijarhalnim i plemenskim društvima

In many patriarchal societies and tribal societies,

očevi su obično poznati po svojim sinovima,

fathers are usually known by their sons,

but I'm one of the few fathers

ali ja sam jedan od rijetkih očeva

who is known by his daughter,

koji je poznat po svojoj kćerci

and I am proud of it.

i ponosim se time.

(Applause)

(Aplauz)

Malala started her campaign for education

Malala je pokrenula svoju kampanju za obrazovanje

and stood for her rights in 2007,

i zauzela se za svoja prava 2007. godine,

and when her efforts were honored in 2011,

a kada su njeni napori nagrađeni 2011,

and she was given the national youth peace prize,

i kada joj je dodijeljena nacionalna omladinska nagrada za mir,

and she became a very famous,

i kada je postala jako poznata,

very popular young girl of her country.

jako popularna mlada djevojka u svojoj zemlji;

Before that, she was my daughter,

prije toga, bila je moja kćerka,

but now I am her father.

a sada sam ja njen otac.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Dame i gospodo,

if we glance to human history,

ako se samo osvrnemo na ljudsku historiju,

the story of women

priča o ženama

is the story of injustice,

je priča o nepravdi,

inequality,

nejednakosti

violence and exploitation.

nasilju i eksploataciji.

You see,

Vidite,

in patriarchal societies,

u patrijarhalnim društvima,

right from the very beginning,

od samog početka,

when a girl is born,

kada se rodi djevojčica,

her birth is not celebrated.

njeno rođenje se ne slavi.

She is not welcomed,

Njoj se ne raduju

neither by father nor by mother.

ni otac, ni majka.

The neighborhood comes

Komšiluk dolazi

and commiserates with the mother,

i suosjeća s majkom,

and nobody congratulates the father.

a ocu niko ne čestita.

And a mother is very uncomfortable

A majci je neugodno

for having a girl child.

što je rodila djevojčicu.

When she gives birth to the first girl child,

Kada rodi prvu djevojčicu,

first daughter, she is sad.

prvu kćerku, tužna je.

When she gives birth to the second daughter,

Kada poslije prve rodi i drugu kćerku,

she is shocked,

šokirana je,

and in the expectation of a son,

a u očekivanju sina,

when she gives birth to a third daughter,

kada rodi treću kćerku,

she feels guilty like a criminal.

osjeća se krivom kao kriminalac.

Not only the mother suffers,

Ne pati samo majka,

but the daughter, the newly born daughter,

već i kćerka, novorođena kćerka,

when she grows old,

kada odraste

she suffers too.

također pati.

At the age of five,

Kada napuni pet godina,

while she should be going to school,

kada bi trebala krenuti u školu,

she stays at home

ona ostaje kod kuće

and her brothers are admitted in a school.

dok su njena braća primljena u školu.

Until the age of 12, somehow,

Do 12-e godine, nekako,

she has a good life.

ima dobar život.

She can have fun.

Može se zabavljati.

She can play with her friends in the streets,

Može se igrati sa svojim prijateljima na ulici,

and she can move around in the streets

i može se kretati ulicama,

like a butterfly.

kao leptir.

But when she enters her teens,

Ali kada uđe u pubertet,

when she becomes 13 years old,

kada napuni 13 godina,

she is forbidden to go out of her home

zabranjeno joj je da izađe iz kuće

without a male escort.

bez muške pratnje.

She is confined under the four walls of her home.

Zatočena je unutar četiri zida svog doma.

She is no more a free individual.

Ona više nije slobodna individua.

She becomes the so-called honor

Ona postaje takozvana čast

of her father and of her brothers

svoga oca i svoje braće

and of her family,

i svoje porodice,

and if she transgresses

i ako prekrši

the code of that so-called honor,

kodeks takozvane časti,

she could even be killed.

ubit će je.

And it is also interesting that this so-called

Također je interesantno da taj takozvani

code of honor,

kodeks časti

it does not only affect the life of a girl,

ne pogađa samo život djevojčice,

it also affects the life

već pogađa i živote

of the male members of the family.

muških članova porodice.

I know a family of seven sisters and one brother,

Poznajem obitelj u kojoj je sedam sestara i jedan brat,

and that one brother,

i taj jedan brat,

he has migrated to the Gulf countries,

emigrirao je u zemlje Zaljeva

to earn a living for his seven sisters

da bi mogao zaraditi za život svojih sedam sestara

and parents,

i svojih roditelja,

because he thinks that it will be humiliating

jer smatra da bi bilo ponižavajuće da

if his seven sisters learn a skill

njegovih sedam sestara savladaju vještine

and they go out of the home

i izađu iz kuće

and earn some livelihood.

i zarade za život.

So this brother,

Tako ovaj brat

he sacrifices the joys of his life

žrtvuje radosti u sopstvenom životu

and the happiness of his sisters

i sreću svojih sestara

at the altar of so-called honor.

na oltaru takozvane časti.

And there is one more norm

I postoji još jedna norma

of the patriarchal societies

patrijarhalnih društava

that is called obedience.

koja se zove poslušnost.

A good girl is supposed to be

Dobra djevojka treba biti

very quiet, very humble

jako tiha, vrlo skromna

and very submissive.

i jako ponizna.

It is the criteria.

To je kriterij.

The role model good girl should be very quiet.

Uzorna djevojka treba biti jako tiha.

She is supposed to be silent

Od nje se očekuje da šuti

and she is supposed to accept the decisions

i od nje se očekuje da prihvati odluke

of her father and mother

svog oca i svoje majke

and the decisions of elders,

i odluke starijih,

even if she does not like them.

čak i ako joj se to ne sviđa.

If she is married to a man she doesn't like

Ako je udaju za muškarca koji joj se ne sviđa

or if she is married to an old man,

ili je udaju za starca,

she has to accept,

ona to mora prihvatiti,

because she does not want to be dubbed

jer ne želi da je proglase

as disobedient.

neposlušnom.

If she is married very early,

Ako je jako rano udaju,

she has to accept.

ona to mora prihvatiti.

Otherwise, she will be called disobedient.

U suprotnom će je proglasiti neposlušnom.

And what happens at the end?

I šta se na kraju dešava?

In the words of a poetess,

Riječima pjesnikinje,

she is wedded, bedded,

udata je, stavljena u krevet

and then she gives birth to more sons and daughters.

i rađa nove sinove i kćeri.

And it is the irony of the situation

A ironija u svemu je

that this mother,

što ta majka

she teaches the same lesson of obedience

podučava istoj lekciji poslušnosti

to her daughter

svoju kćerku

and the same lesson of honor to her sons.

i istoj lekciji časti svoje sinove.

And this vicious cycle goes on, goes on.

I strašni krug se nastavlja i nastavlja.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Dame i gospodo,

this plight of millions of women

teškoće miliona žena

could be changed

mogu prestati

if we think differently,

ako bismo drugačije razmišljali,

if women and men think differently,

ako bi i muškarci i žene drugačije razmišljali,

if men and women in the tribal and patriarchal societies

ako bi i muškarci i žene u plemenskim i patrijarhalnim društvima

in the developing countries,

u zemljama u razvoju,

if they can break a few norms

prekršili poneku normu

of family and society,

porodice ili društva;

if they can abolish the discriminatory laws

ako bi ukinuli diskriminatorne zakone

of the systems in their states,

sistema u njihovim državama,

which go against the basic human rights

koji su protivni osnovnim ljudskim pravima

of the women.

žena.

Dear brothers and sisters, when Malala was born,

Draga braćo i sestre, kada je Malala rođena,

and for the first time,

po prvi put,

believe me,

vjerujte mi,

I don't like newborn children, to be honest,

moram biti iskren, ne volim novorođenčad,

but when I went and I looked into her eyes,

ali kada sam otišao i pogledao u njene oči,

believe me,

vjerujte mi,

I got extremely honored.

bio sam izuzetno počastvovan.

And long before she was born,

A dugo prije njenog rođenja

I thought about her name,

sam razmišljao o njenom imenu

and I was fascinated with a heroic

i bio fasciniran herojskim,

legendary freedom fighter in Afghanistan.

legendarnim borcem za slobodu u Afganistanu.

Her name was Malalai of Maiwand,

Njeno ime je bilo Malalai od Maiwanda

and I named my daughter after her.

i po njoj sam nazvao svoju kćer.

A few days after Malala was born,

Nekoliko dana nakon Malalinog rođenja,

my daughter was born,

nakon rođenja moje kćerke,

my cousin came --

došao je moj rođak -

and it was a coincidence --

i to je bila slučajnost -

he came to my home

došao je u moj dom

and he brought a family tree,

i donio porodično stablo,

a family tree of the Yousafzai family,

porodično stablo familije Yousafzai,

and when I looked at the family tree,

i kada sam pogledao to porodično stablo,

it traced back to 300 years of our ancestors.

pratilo je 300 godina naših predaka.

But when I looked, all were men,

Ali, kada sam pogledao, svi su bili muškarci.

and I picked my pen,

Uzeo sam olovku,

drew a line from my name,

povukao liniju od mog imena

and wrote, "Malala."

i upisao "Malala".

And when she grow old,

I kada je porasla,

when she was four and a half years old,

kada je imala četiri i po godine,

I admitted her in my school.

upisao sam je u moju školu.

You will be asking, then, why should I mention about

Zapitat ćete se zašto spominjem

the admission of a girl in a school?

upis djevojčice u školu?

Yes, I must mention it.

Da, moram to spomenuti.

It may be taken for granted in Canada,

To se možda uzima zdravo za gotovo u Kanadi,

in America, in many developed countries,

u Americi, u mnogim razvijenim zemljama,

but in poor countries,

ali u siromašnim zemljama,

in patriarchal societies, in tribal societies,

u patrijarhalnim društvima, u plemenskim društvima,

it's a big event for the life of girl.

to je veliki događaj u životu djevojčice.

Enrollment in a school means

Upis u školu znači

recognition of her identity and her name.

prepoznavanje njenog identiteta i njenog imena.

Admission in a school means

Prijem u školu znači

that she has entered the world of dreams

da je ušla u svijet snova

and aspirations

i nadanja

where she can explore her potentials

u kojem može istraživati svoje mogućnosti

for her future life.

za svoj budući život.

I have five sisters,

Ja imam pet sestara,

and none of them could go to school,

i nijedna od njih nije mogla ići u školu,

and you will be astonished,

i, zapanjit će vas,

two weeks before,

prije dvije sedmice,

when I was filling out the Canadian visa form,

kada sam popunjavao formular za kanadsku vizu,

and I was filling out the family part of the form,

ispunjavao sam dio sa podacima o porodici,

I could not recall

nisam se mogao sjetiti

the surnames of some of my sisters.

prezimena nekih mojih sestara.

And the reason was

A razlog za to

that I have never, never seen the names

je to što nikada, nikada nisam vidio imena

of my sisters written on any document.

mojih sestara napisana na bilo kojem dokumentu.

That was the reason that

Iz tog sam razloga

I valued my daughter.

cijenio svoju kćerku.

What my father could not give to my sisters

Ono što moj otac nije mogao pružiti mojim sestrama,

and to his daughters,

svojim kćerkama,

I thought I must change it.

ja sam smatrao da moram promijeniti.

I used to appreciate the intelligence

Nekad sam cijenio inteligenciju

and the brilliance of my daughter.

i brilijantnost moje kćerke.

I encouraged her to sit with me

Ohrabrivao sam je da sjedi samnom

when my friends used to come.

kada bi dolazili moji prijatelji.

I encouraged her to go with me to different meetings.

Ohrabrivao sam je da ide samnom na različite sastanke.

And all these good values,

I sve ove dobre vrijednosti

I tried to inculcate in her personality.

sam pokušao ugraditi u njenu ličnost.

And this was not only she, only Malala.

I to nije bila samo ona, samo Malala.

I imparted all these good values

Pružao sam ove dobre vrijednosti

to my school, girl students and boy students as well.

u svojoj školi, jednako i učenicama i učenicima.

I used education for emancipation.

Obrazovanje sam koristio za emancipaciju.

I taught my girls,

Učio sam svoje djevojčice,

I taught my girl students,

učio sam svoje učenice,

to unlearn the lesson of obedience.

da se oduče od lekcije poslušnosti.

I taught my boy students

Učio sam svoje učenike

to unlearn the lesson of so-called pseudo-honor.

da se oduče lekcije takozvane pseudo - časti.

Dear brothers and sisters,

Draga braćo i sestre,

we were striving for more rights for women,

težili smo većim pravima za žene,

and we were struggling to have more,

i borili se da dobijemo više,

more and more space for the women in society.

više i više prostora za žene u društvu.

But we came across a new phenomenon.

Ali smo naišli na novi fenomen.

It was lethal to human rights

To je bilo pogubno za ljudska prava,

and particularly to women's rights.

a posebno za prava žena.

It was called Talibanization.

To je Talibanizacija.

It means a complete negation

To znači potpuno negiranje

of women's participation

učešća žena

in all political, economical and social activities.

u svim političkim, ekonomskim i društvenim aktivnostima.

Hundreds of schools were lost.

Izgubljeno je stotine škola.

Girls were prohibited from going to school.

Djevojčicama je zabranjeno ići u školu.

Women were forced to wear veils

Žene su prisiljene da nose velove

and they were stopped from going to the markets.

i zabranjeno im je ići na pijace.

Musicians were silenced,

Muzičari su ušutkani,

girls were flogged

djevojke šibane,

and singers were killed.

a pjevači ubijani.

Millions were suffering,

Milioni su patili,

but few spoke,

ali malo ko je progovorio,

and it was the most scary thing

a najstrašnija stvar je,

when you have all around such people

kada ste okruženi takvim ljudima,

who kill and who flog,

koji ubijaju i šibaju,

and you speak for your rights.

zagovarati svoja prava.

It's really the most scary thing.

To je zaista zastrašujuća stvar.

At the age of 10,

Sa 10 godina,

Malala stood, and she stood for the right

Malala je ustala i založila se za pravo

of education.

na obrazovanje.

She wrote a diary for the BBC blog,

Pisala je dnevnik za BBC blog,

she volunteered herself

volontirala je

for the New York Times documentaries,

za dokumentarce New York Timesa

and she spoke from every platform she could.

i oglašavala se sa svake platforme sa koje je mogla.

And her voice was the most powerful voice.

I njen glas je bio najsnažniji.

It spread like a crescendo all around the world.

Širio se kao krešendo širom svijeta.

And that was the reason the Taliban

I to je bio razlog zašto Talibani

could not tolerate her campaign,

nisu mogli tolerisati njenu kampanju;

and on October 9 2012,

9. oktobra 2012,

she was shot in the head at point blank range.

njoj su iz blizine pucali u glavu.

It was a doomsday for my family and for me.

Za mene i moju porodicu, to je bio sudnji dan.

The world turned into a big black hole.

Svijet se pretvorio u veliku crnu rupu.

While my daughter was

Dok je moja kćerka bila

on the verge of life and death,

na ivici života i smrti,

I whispered into the ears of my wife,

šapnuo sam svojoj ženi,

"Should I be blamed for what happened

"Da li sam ja kriv za ovo što se desilo

to my daughter and your daughter?"

mojoj i tvojoj kćerki?"

And she abruptly told me,

I presjekla me je,

"Please don't blame yourself.

"Molim te, ne krivi sebe.

You stood for the right cause.

Zalagao si se za pravu stvar.

You put your life at stake

Stavio si svoj život na kocku

for the cause of truth,

za istinu,

for the cause of peace,

za mir

and for the cause of education,

i za obrazovanje,

and your daughter in inspired from you

i inspirisao si svoju kćerku

and she joined you.

i ona ti se pridružila.

You both were on the right path

Oboje ste bili na pravom putu

and God will protect her."

i Bog će je zaštititi".

These few words meant a lot to me,

Ovih nekoliko riječi mi je mnogo značilo

and I didn't ask this question again.

i više nikada nisam postavio to pitanje.

When Malala was in the hospital,

Dok je Malala bila u bolnici

and she was going through the severe pains

i bila u jakim bolovima,

and she had had severe headaches

sa jakim glavoboljama

because her facial nerve was cut down,

jer joj je presječen facijalni nerv,

I used to see a dark shadow

viđao sam tamnu sjenu

spreading on the face of my wife.

kako prelazi preko lica moje žene.

But my daughter never complained.

Ali, moja se kćerka nikad nije žalila.

She used to tell us,

Znala nam je reći,

"I'm fine with my crooked smile

"Ne smeta mi moj iskrivljeni osmijeh

and with my numbness in my face.

i utrnulo lice.

I'll be okay. Please don't worry."

Biću uredu. Molim vas, ne brinite".

She was a solace for us,

Bila nam je utjeha,

and she consoled us.

i ona je tješila nas.

Dear brothers and sisters,

Draga braćo i sestre,

we learned from her how to be resilient

od nje smo se učili otpornosti

in the most difficult times,

u najtežim vremenima,

and I'm glad to share with you

i drago mi je što s vama dijelim

that despite being an icon

da je, bez obzira što je ikona

for the rights of children and women,

prava žena i djece,

she is like any 16-year old girl.

ona kao i svaka druga 16-godišnjakinja.

She cries when her homework is incomplete.

Plače kada ne dovrši zadaću.

She quarrels with her brothers,

Svađa se sa braćom,

and I am very happy for that.

i jako sam sretan zbog toga.

People ask me,

Ljudi me pitaju

what special is in my mentorship

šta je posebno u mom mentorstvu

which has made Malala so bold

što je napravilo Malalu tako hrabrom,

and so courageous and so vocal and poised?

tako odvažnom, glasnom i pribranom?

I tell them, don't ask me what I did.

Kažem im, ne pitajte šta sam uradio.

Ask me what I did not do.

Pitajte šta nisam.

I did not clip her wings, and that's all.

Nisam joj potkresao krila, i to je sve.

Thank you very much.

Hvala vam mnogo.

(Applause)

(Aplauz)

Thank you. Thank you very much. Thank you. (Applause)

Hvala. Hvala vam mnogo. Hvala. (Aplauz)