My Daughter, Malala | Ziauddin Yousafzai | TED Talks

Prevoditelj: Marija Djukic Recezent: Ivan Stamenković

U mnogim patrijarhalnim i plemenskim društvima,

In many patriarchal societies and tribal societies,

fathers are usually known by their sons,

očevi su uobičajeno poznati po svojim sinovima,

but I'm one of the few fathers

ali ja sam jedan od nekolicine očeva

who is known by his daughter,

koji je poznat po svojoj kćeri,

and I am proud of it.

i ponosan sam na to.

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

Malala started her campaign for education

Malala je počela svoju kampanju za obrazovanje

and stood for her rights in 2007,

i ustala za svoja prava 2007.

and when her efforts were honored in 2011,

i kada je njen trud priznat 2011.

and she was given the national youth peace prize,

i dana joj je nacionalna mirovna nagrada za mlade,

and she became a very famous,

postala je vrlo slavna,

very popular young girl of her country.

vrlo popularna mlada djevojka u svojoj zemlji.

Before that, she was my daughter,

Prije toga, bila je moja kćer,

but now I am her father.

ali sada sam ja njen otac.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Dame i gospodo,

if we glance to human history,

ako pogledamo ljudsku povijest,

the story of women

priča žena

is the story of injustice,

je priča nepravde,

inequality,

nejednakosti,

violence and exploitation.

nasilja i iskorištavanja.

You see,

Vidite,

in patriarchal societies,

u patrijarhalnim društvima,

right from the very beginning,

od samog početka,

when a girl is born,

kada je djevojčica rođena,

her birth is not celebrated.

njeno rođenje se ne slavi.

She is not welcomed,

Ona nije dobrodošla,

neither by father nor by mother.

niti njenom ocu niti njenoj majci.

The neighborhood comes

Susjedstvo dolazi

and commiserates with the mother,

i suosjeća s majkom,

and nobody congratulates the father.

i nitko ne čestita ocu.

And a mother is very uncomfortable

I majci je vrlo neugodno

for having a girl child.

zato što ima djevojčicu.

When she gives birth to the first girl child,

Kada rodi prvu djevojčicu

first daughter, she is sad.

prvu kćer, tužna je.

When she gives birth to the second daughter,

Kada rodi drugu kćer,

she is shocked,

ona je šokirana,

and in the expectation of a son,

i u isčekivanju sina,

when she gives birth to a third daughter,

kada rodi treću kćer,

she feels guilty like a criminal.

osjeća se krivom kao da je zločinac.

Not only the mother suffers,

Ne samo da pati majka,

but the daughter, the newly born daughter,

ali i kćer, novorođena kćer,

when she grows old,

kada ostari,

she suffers too.

ona također pati.

At the age of five,

U petoj godini života,

while she should be going to school,

kada bi trebala ići u školu,

she stays at home

ostaje kod kuće

and her brothers are admitted in a school.

i njena braća su upisana u školu.

Until the age of 12, somehow,

Do dvanaeste godine, nekako,

she has a good life.

ima dobar život.

She can have fun.

Može se zabavljati.

She can play with her friends in the streets,

Može se igrati s prijateljima na ulici

and she can move around in the streets

i može se kretati ulicom

like a butterfly.

kao leptir.

But when she enters her teens,

Ali kada uđe u pubertet,

when she becomes 13 years old,

kada napuni trinaest godina,

she is forbidden to go out of her home

zabranjeno joj je izaći iz kuće

without a male escort.

bez muške pratnje.

She is confined under the four walls of her home.

Zatvorena je unutar četiri zida svog doma.

She is no more a free individual.

Nije više slobodna individua.

She becomes the so-called honor

Postaje takozvana čast

of her father and of her brothers

svog oca i braće

and of her family,

i svoje obitelji,

and if she transgresses

i ako prekrši

the code of that so-called honor,

kodeks takozvane časti,

she could even be killed.

može čak biti ubijena.

And it is also interesting that this so-called

I također je zanimljivo da ovaj takozvani

code of honor,

kodeks časti,

it does not only affect the life of a girl,

ne utječe samo na život djevojčice,

it also affects the life

također utječe na život

of the male members of the family.

muških članova obitelji.

I know a family of seven sisters and one brother,

Poznajem obitelj sa sedam sestara i jednim bratom,

and that one brother,

i taj jedan brat,

he has migrated to the Gulf countries,

je emigrirao u zemlje Zaljeva,

to earn a living for his seven sisters

kako bi zarađivao za svojih sedam sestara

and parents,

i roditelje,

because he thinks that it will be humiliating

jer misli da bi bilo ponižavajuće

if his seven sisters learn a skill

da njegovih sedam sestara nauči vještinu

and they go out of the home

i izađe iz doma

and earn some livelihood.

i zaradi novac za život.

So this brother,

Tako da ovaj brat,

he sacrifices the joys of his life

on žrtvuje radost u svom životu

and the happiness of his sisters

i sreću svojih sestara

at the altar of so-called honor.

na oltaru takozvane časti.

And there is one more norm

I postoji još jedna norma

of the patriarchal societies

patrijarhalnog društva

that is called obedience.

koja se zove poslušnost.

A good girl is supposed to be

Dobra djevojčica trebala bi biti

very quiet, very humble

vrlo tiha, iznimno ponizna

and very submissive.

i vrlo podložna.

It is the criteria.

To je kriterij.

The role model good girl should be very quiet.

Uzorna dobra djevojčica bi trebala biti vrlo tiha.

She is supposed to be silent

Trebala bi biti tiha

and she is supposed to accept the decisions

i trebala bi prihvaćati odluke

of her father and mother

svog oca i majke

and the decisions of elders,

i odluke starješina,

even if she does not like them.

čak i ako joj se ne sviđaju.

If she is married to a man she doesn't like

Ako je udana za muškarca koji joj se ne sviđa

or if she is married to an old man,

ili je udana za starca,

she has to accept,

mora to prihvatiti,

because she does not want to be dubbed

zato što nije htjela biti označena

as disobedient.

kao neposlušna.

If she is married very early,

Ako je udana vrlo rano,

she has to accept.

mora to prihvatiti.

Otherwise, she will be called disobedient.

Inače će ju nazvati neposlušnom.

And what happens at the end?

I što se na kraju dogodi?

In the words of a poetess,

Riječima pjesnika,

she is wedded, bedded,

ona je udana, smještena u krevet,

and then she gives birth to more sons and daughters.

i onda rađa još sinova i kćeri.

And it is the irony of the situation

I to je ironija situacije,

that this mother,

da ta majka,

she teaches the same lesson of obedience

podučava iste lekcije poslušnosti

to her daughter

svoju kćer

and the same lesson of honor to her sons.

i istu lekciju časti svojim sinovima.

And this vicious cycle goes on, goes on.

I ovaj okrutni ciklus se nastavlja i nastavlja.

Ladies and gentlemen,

Dame i gospodo,

this plight of millions of women

ova tlapnja milijuna žena

could be changed

mogla bi se promijeniti

if we think differently,

ako razmišljamo drugačije,

if women and men think differently,

ako žene i muškarci razmišljaju drugačije,

if men and women in the tribal and patriarchal societies

ako muškarci i žene u plemenskim i patrijarhalnim društvima

in the developing countries,

u zemljama u razvoju,

if they can break a few norms

mogu razbiti nekoliko normi

of family and society,

obitelji i društva,

if they can abolish the discriminatory laws

ako mogu poništiti diskriminacijske zakone

of the systems in their states,

sustava u svojim državama,

which go against the basic human rights

koji idu protiv osnovnih ljudskih prava

of the women.

žena.

Dear brothers and sisters, when Malala was born,

Draga braćo i sestre, kada je Malala rođena,

and for the first time,

i po prvi put,

believe me,

vjerujte mi,

I don't like newborn children, to be honest,

ne volim novorođenčad, da budem iskren,

but when I went and I looked into her eyes,

ali kada sam joj pogledao u oči,

believe me,

vjerujte mi,

I got extremely honored.

osjećao sam se iznimno povlašteno.

And long before she was born,

I puno prije nego je rođena,

I thought about her name,

razmišljao sam o njenom imenu,

and I was fascinated with a heroic

i fascinirala me herojska

legendary freedom fighter in Afghanistan.

legendarna borkinja za slobodu u Afganistanu.

Her name was Malalai of Maiwand,

Njeno ime je Malalai od Maiwanda,

and I named my daughter after her.

i nazvao sam svoju kćer po njoj.

A few days after Malala was born,

Nekoliko dana nakon što je Malala rođena,

my daughter was born,

nakon što je rođena moja kćer,

my cousin came --

moj rođak je došao --

and it was a coincidence --

i to je bila slučajnost --

he came to my home

došao je u moju kuću

and he brought a family tree,

i donio obiteljsko drvo,

a family tree of the Yousafzai family,

obiteljsko drvo obitelji Yousafzai,

and when I looked at the family tree,

i kada sam pogledao obiteljsko drvo,

it traced back to 300 years of our ancestors.

pratilo je povijest naših predaka u posljednjih 300 godina.

But when I looked, all were men,

Ali kada sam pogledao, svi su bili muškarci,

and I picked my pen,

i uzeo sam svoju olovku,

drew a line from my name,

povukao crtu od svog imena,

and wrote, "Malala."

i napisao, "Malala."

And when she grow old,

I kada je postala starija,

when she was four and a half years old,

kada je imala četiri i pol godine,

I admitted her in my school.

upisao sam ju u svoju školu.

You will be asking, then, why should I mention about

Pitat ćete se zašto spominjem

the admission of a girl in a school?

upis djevojčice u školu?

Yes, I must mention it.

Da, moram to spomenuti,

It may be taken for granted in Canada,

možda se uzima zdravo za gotovo u Kanadi,

in America, in many developed countries,

u Americi, u mnogim razvijenim zemljama,

but in poor countries,

ali u siromašnim zemljama,

in patriarchal societies, in tribal societies,

u patrijarhalnim društvima, plemenskim društvima,

it's a big event for the life of girl.

to je velik događaj za život djevojčice.

Enrollment in a school means

Upis u školu znači

recognition of her identity and her name.

priznavanje njenog identiteta i imena.

Admission in a school means

Upis u školu znači

that she has entered the world of dreams

da je ušla u svijet snova

and aspirations

i težnji

where she can explore her potentials

gdje može istraživati svoj potencijal

for her future life.

za budući život.

I have five sisters,

Imam pet sestara,

and none of them could go to school,

i nijedna od njih nije mogla ići u školu,

and you will be astonished,

i zapanjit ćete se,

two weeks before,

dva tjedna prije,

when I was filling out the Canadian visa form,

kada sam popunjavao Kanadski obrazac za vizu,

and I was filling out the family part of the form,

i ispunjavao sam dio obrasca o obitelji,

I could not recall

nisam se mogao prisjetiti

the surnames of some of my sisters.

prezimena nekih od mojih sestara.

And the reason was

I razlog je bio taj

that I have never, never seen the names

da nisam nikad, nikad vidio imena

of my sisters written on any document.

mojih sestara napisana na nekom dokumentu.

That was the reason that

To je bio razlog zbog kojeg

I valued my daughter.

sam cijenio svoju kćer.

What my father could not give to my sisters

Ono što moj otac nije mogao dati mojim sestrama

and to his daughters,

i svojim kćerima,

I thought I must change it.

pomislio sam da to moram promijeniti.

I used to appreciate the intelligence

Cijenio sam inteligenciju

and the brilliance of my daughter.

i briljantnost svoje kćeri.

I encouraged her to sit with me

Poticao sam ju da sjedi sa mnom

when my friends used to come.

kada bi moji prijatelji došli.

I encouraged her to go with me to different meetings.

Poticao sam je da ide sa mnom na različite sastanke.

And all these good values,

I sve te dobre vrijednosti,

I tried to inculcate in her personality.

pokušao sam ih usaditi u njenu osobnost.

And this was not only she, only Malala.

I to nije bila samo ona, nije bila samo Malala.

I imparted all these good values

Usadio sam sve ove dobre vrijednosti

to my school, girl students and boy students as well.

u moju školu, ženskim i muškim učenicama i učenicima.

I used education for emancipation.

Koristio sam obrazovanje za emancipaciju.

I taught my girls,

Naučio sam svoje djevojčice,

I taught my girl students,

naučio sam svoje učenice,

to unlearn the lesson of obedience.

da zaborave lekciju poslušnosti.

I taught my boy students

Naučio sam svoje učenike

to unlearn the lesson of so-called pseudo-honor.

da zaborave lekciju takozvane pseudo-časti.

Dear brothers and sisters,

Draga braćo i sestre,

we were striving for more rights for women,

težili smo većim pravima žena,

and we were struggling to have more,

i borili smo se da imamo više,

more and more space for the women in society.

i više prostora za žene u društvu.

But we came across a new phenomenon.

Ali smo se susreli s novim fenomenom.

It was lethal to human rights

Bio je smrtonosan za ljudska prava

and particularly to women's rights.

i osobito za prava žena.

It was called Talibanization.

Zvao se Talibanizacija.

It means a complete negation

Znači potpuno negiranje

of women's participation

ženskog sudjelovanja

in all political, economical and social activities.

u svim političkim, ekonomskim i društvenim aktivnostima.

Hundreds of schools were lost.

Stotine škola su izgubljene.

Girls were prohibited from going to school.

Djevojčicama je zabranjeno ići u školu.

Women were forced to wear veils

Žene su prisiljene nositi veo

and they were stopped from going to the markets.

i spriječene su u odlasku na tržnice.

Musicians were silenced,

Glazbenici su utišani,

girls were flogged

djevojke su bičevane

and singers were killed.

i pjevači su ubijani.

Millions were suffering,

Milijuni su patili,

but few spoke,

ali rijetki su progovorili,

and it was the most scary thing

i to je bilo najstrašnije

when you have all around such people

kad oko sebe imate takve ljude

who kill and who flog,

koji ubijaju i bičuju,

and you speak for your rights.

i progovarate za svoja prava.

It's really the most scary thing.

To je zaista najstrašnija stvar.

At the age of 10,

Sa 10 godina,

Malala stood, and she stood for the right

Malala je ustala, ustala je za pravo

of education.

na obrazovanje.

She wrote a diary for the BBC blog,

Pisala je dnevnik za BBC blog,

she volunteered herself

odlučila je biti dijelom

for the New York Times documentaries,

dokumentaraca za New York Times,

and she spoke from every platform she could.

i govorila je koristeći svaku dostupnu platformu.

And her voice was the most powerful voice.

I njen glas je bio najsnažniji glas.

It spread like a crescendo all around the world.

Širio se kao kreščendo svuda po svijetu.

And that was the reason the Taliban

I to je bio razlog zašto Talibani

could not tolerate her campaign,

nisu mogli tolerirati njenu kampanju,

and on October 9 2012,

i 9. listopada 2012. godine

she was shot in the head at point blank range.

upucana je u glavu sa male udaljenosti.

It was a doomsday for my family and for me.

To je bio kraj svijeta za moju obitelj i mene.

The world turned into a big black hole.

Svijet se pretvorio u veliku crnu rupu.

While my daughter was

Dok je moja kćer bila

on the verge of life and death,

na rubu života i smrti,

I whispered into the ears of my wife,

šapnuo sam u uho moje žene.

"Should I be blamed for what happened

"Trebam li sebe kriviti za ovo što se dogodilo

to my daughter and your daughter?"

mojoj i tvojoj kćeri?"

And she abruptly told me,

I bez oklijevanja mi je rekla,

"Please don't blame yourself.

"Molim te ne krivi sebe.

You stood for the right cause.

Zastupao si pravu stvar.

You put your life at stake

Riskirao si svoj život

for the cause of truth,

za stvar istine,

for the cause of peace,

za stvar mira,

and for the cause of education,

i za stvar obrazovanja,

and your daughter in inspired from you

i tvoja kćer je inspirirana od tebe

and she joined you.

pridružila ti se.

You both were on the right path

Oboje ste bili na pravom putu

and God will protect her."

i Bog će je zaštiti."

These few words meant a lot to me,

Ovih nekoliko riječi mi je puno značilo,

and I didn't ask this question again.

i nisam ponovno postavio to pitanje.

When Malala was in the hospital,

Kada je Malala bila u bolnici,

and she was going through the severe pains

i prolazila je kroz strašne bolove

and she had had severe headaches

i imala je snažne glavobolje

because her facial nerve was cut down,

jer joj je živac u licu oštećen,

I used to see a dark shadow

viđao sam tamnu sjenu

spreading on the face of my wife.

kako se širi licem moje žene.

But my daughter never complained.

Ali moja kćer se nikad nije žalila.

She used to tell us,

Rekla bi nam,

"I'm fine with my crooked smile

"Sviđa mi se moj iskrivljeni osmijeh

and with my numbness in my face.

i neosjetljivost u licu.

I'll be okay. Please don't worry."

Bit ću dobro. Molim vas ne brinite."

She was a solace for us,

Bila nam je utjeha,

and she consoled us.

i tješila nas je.

Dear brothers and sisters,

Draga braćo i sestre,

we learned from her how to be resilient

naučili smo od nje kako biti ustrajni

in the most difficult times,

u najtežim vremenima,

and I'm glad to share with you

i drago mi je što sam s vama podijelio

that despite being an icon

da unatoč tome što je ikona

for the rights of children and women,

za prava djece i žena,

she is like any 16-year old girl.

ona je kao i svaka druga šesnaestogodišnja djevojčica.

She cries when her homework is incomplete.

Plače kada njena zadaća nije dovršena.

She quarrels with her brothers,

Svađa se sa svojom braćom,

and I am very happy for that.

i jako sam sretan zbog toga.

People ask me,

Ljudi me pitaju,

what special is in my mentorship

što je tako posebno u mom mentorstvu

which has made Malala so bold

što je Malalu učinilo tako smjelom

and so courageous and so vocal and poised?

i hrabrom i tako glasnom i staloženom?

I tell them, don't ask me what I did.

Kažem im, ne pitajte me što sam učinio.

Ask me what I did not do.

Pitajte me što nisam učinio.

I did not clip her wings, and that's all.

Nisam joj podrezao krila, to je sve.

Thank you very much.

Hvala vam puno.

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

Thank you. Thank you very much. Thank you. (Applause)

Hvala vam. Hvala vam puno. Hvala vam. (Pljesak)