Isabel Allende: Tales of passion | TED

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Translator: Jeta Rudi Reviewer: Elona Toska
00:13
Thank you so much.
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Ju faleminderit shume. Eshte me te vertete e frikshme te jesh ketu
00:15
It's really scary to be here among the smartest of the smart.
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ne mesin e njerezve me te mencur nga me te mencurit.
00:19
(Laughter)
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Jam ketu per t'iu treguar disa tregime te pasionit.
00:20
I'm here to tell you a few tales of passion.
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00:23
There's a Jewish saying that I love:
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Ekziston nje thenie hebraike qe me pelqen shume.
00:26
What is truer than truth?
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Cka eshte me e vertete se e verteta? Pergjigjia: Tregimi.
00:29
Answer: the story.
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00:33
I'm a storyteller.
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Une jam nje treguese historirash. Une deshiroj te percjelle dicka qe eshte me e vertete se e verteta
00:34
I want to convey something that is truer than truth
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00:38
about our common humanity.
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ne lidhje me njerezimin tone te perbashket.
00:40
All stories interest me,
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Te gjitha historirat me interesojne, por disa me ngacmojne aq
00:42
and some haunt me until I end up writing them.
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sa perfundoj duke i shkruar ato.
00:46
Certain themes keep coming up:
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Disa tema perseriten:
00:48
justice, loyalty, violence, death, political and social issues,
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drejtesia, besnikeria, dhuna, vdekja, ceshtjet politike e sociale,
00:54
freedom.
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liria.
00:56
I'm aware of the mystery around us,
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Jam e vetedijshme per misterin qe na rrethon,
00:59
so I write about coincidences, premonitions,
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keshtu qe shkruaj ne lidhje me rastesite, parandjenjat,
01:02
emotions, dreams, the power of nature, magic.
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ndjenjat, enderrat, fuqine e natyres, magjine.
01:08
In the last 20 years, I have published a few books,
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Ne 20 vitet e fundit kam publikuar disa libra,
01:11
but I have lived in anonymity until February of 2006,
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por kam jetuar ne anonimitet deri me shkurt 2006,
01:16
when I carried the Olympic flag in the Winter Olympics in Italy.
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kur kam bartur flamurin Olimpik ne lojerat dimerore Olimpike ne Itali.
Kjo me beri te famshme. Tani njerezit me njohin te Macy's,
01:21
That made me a celebrity.
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01:23
(Laughter)
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01:24
Now people recognize me in Macy's,
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dhe niperit e mbesat e mia mendojne qe jam e vecante.
01:26
and my grandchildren think that I'm cool.
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01:28
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
01:29
Allow me to tell you about my four minutes of fame.
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Me lejoni te iu tregoj per kater minutat e mi te fames.
Nje nga organizatoret e ceremonise se lojrave Olimpike,
01:33
One of the organizers of the Olympic ceremony,
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01:35
of the opening ceremony,
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te ceremonise hapese,
01:37
called me and said that I had been selected to be one of the flag bearers.
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me telefonoi dhe me tha qe isha perzgjedhur
te isha nje nga barteset e flamujve.
01:42
I replied that surely, this was a case of mistaken identity,
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Une u pergjigja duke thene qe ky ishte me siguri nje rast i ngaterrimit te identiteteve
01:45
because I'm as far as you can get from being an athlete.
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sepse une jam larg se qenit atlete.
01:48
Actually, I wasn't even sure that I could go around the stadium
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Ne fakt, as qe isha e sigurte qe do te mund te ecja perrreth stadiumit
01:51
without a walker.
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pa karroce ndihmese.
(Te qeshura)
01:53
(Laughter)
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01:54
I was told that this was no laughing matter.
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Me thane qe kjo s'eshte nje gje per te qeshur.
01:57
This would be the first time
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Kjo do te ishte hera e pare
01:58
that only women would carry the Olympic flag.
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qe vetem femrat do te mbartnin flamurin Olimpik.
Pese femra, duke perfaqesuar pese kontinente,
02:02
Five women, representing five continents,
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02:04
and three Olympic gold medal winners.
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dhe tre fitues Olimpik te medaljes se arte.
02:08
My first question was, naturally:
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Pyetja ime e pare natyrisht ishte,
02:10
What was I going to wear?
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cfare do te vishja?
02:12
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
02:13
"A uniform," she said,
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Nje uniforme, me tha ajo,
02:15
and asked for my measurements.
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dhe me pyeti per madhesite trupore.
02:17
My measurements.
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Permasat e mia trupore.
Imagjinova vetem me nje gezof me pendla,
02:19
I had a vision of myself in a fluffy anorak,
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02:21
looking like the Michelin Man.
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Me pamje te personazhit Michelin.
02:23
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
Nga mesi i shkurtit,
02:25
By the middle of February, I found myself in Turin,
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gjeta veten ne Torino, ku turmat entuziaste
02:28
where enthusiastic crowds cheered
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brohorisnin kurdo qe ndonjeri nga 80 ekipet Olimpike dilte ne parade.
02:30
when any of the 80 Olympic teams was in the street.
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02:34
Those athletes had sacrificed everything to compete in the games.
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Ata atlete kishin flijuar cdo gje per te marre pjese ne ato lojera.
02:39
They all deserved to win, but there's the element of luck.
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Te gjithe meritonin te fitonin, por ishte edhe elementi i fatit.
02:43
A speck of snow, an inch of ice, the force of the wind
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Nje fjolle bore, dy centimetra akulli, forca e eres,
02:47
can determine the result of a race or a game.
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mund te percaktojne rezultatin e nje gare apo nje loje.
02:51
However, what matters most, more than training or luck, is the heart.
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Sidocofte, ajo qe ka rendesi me se shumti - me shume se trajnimi apo fati - eshte zemra.
02:57
Only a fearless and determined heart will get the gold medal.
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Vetem nje zemer e pa frike dhe e vendosur do te fitoje medaljen e arte.
03:02
It is all about passion.
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Pasioni eshte me i rendesishmi element.
03:04
The streets of Turin were covered with red posters
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Rruget e Torinos ishin te mbuluara me postera te kuq
03:08
announcing the slogan of the Olympics:
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qe shpallnin logon e Olimpiades.
03:11
"Passion lives here."
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Pasioni jeton ketu. A nuk eshte kjo e vertete gjithhere?
03:15
Isn't it always true?
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03:16
Heart is what drives us and determines our fate.
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Zemra eshte ajo qe na udheheq dhe percakton fatin tone.
Kjo eshte cka me duhet per personazhet e librave te mi:
03:21
That is what I need for my characters in my books:
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03:24
a passionate heart.
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nje zemer plot pasion.
03:26
I need mavericks, dissidents, adventurers, outsiders and rebels,
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Me duhen te cuditshmit, disidentet, aventurieret, te jashtmit dhe rebelet,
03:31
who ask questions, bend the rules and take risks.
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ata qe bejne pyetje, qe perkulin rregullat dhe qe rrezikojne.
03:35
People like all of you in this room.
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Njerez si te gjithe ju qe ndodheni ketu.
Njerezit e mire me njohuri te zakonshme nuk bejne per personazhe interesante.
03:39
Nice people with common sense do not make interesting characters.
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03:43
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
03:44
They only make good former spouses.
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Ata jane vecse ish-bashkeshorte te mire.
03:46
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
03:48
(Applause)
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(Duartrokitje)
03:51
In the greenroom of the stadium, I met the other flag bearers:
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Ne dhomen e gjelbert te stadiumit, takova barteset tjera te flamujve:
tri atlete, dhe aktoret Susan Sarandon dhe Sofia Loren.
03:55
three athletes and the actresses Susan Sarandon and Sophia Loren.
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04:00
Also, two women with passionate hearts:
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Gjithashtu, edhe dy gra me zemra pasionante.
04:02
Wangari Maathai, the Nobel Prize winner from Kenya
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Wangari Maathai, fituesja e cmimit Nobel nga Kenia
04:06
who has planted 30 million trees,
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e cila ka mbjellur 30 milione peme. Dhe duke bere keshtu,
04:08
and by doing so, she has changed the soil, the weather, in some places in Africa,
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ajo ka arritur te ndryshoje dheun, motin,
ne disa vende ne Afrike, dhe gjithashtu
04:14
and of course, the economic conditions in many villages;
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kushtet ekonomike ne shume fshatra.
04:18
and Somaly Mam,
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Po ashtu Somaly Mam, nje aktiviste nga Kamboxha e cila lufton me pasion
04:20
a Cambodian activist who fights passionately against child prostitution.
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kunder prostitucionit te femijeve.
04:25
When she was 14 years old, her grandfather sold her to a brothel.
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Kur ajo ishte 14 vjec, gjyshi i saj e shiti tek nje shtepi publike.
04:30
She told us of little girls raped by men
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Ajo na tregoi per vajzat e reja qe ishin dhunuar nga burra te cilet mendonin qe
04:33
who believe that having sex with a very young virgin
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po qe se benin seks me nje vajze shume te re, ata do te sherosheshin nga SIDA.
04:36
will cure them from AIDS,
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Dhe po ashtu na tregoi per shtepi publike ku femijet detyrohen te pranojne pese,
04:39
and of brothels where children are forced to receive 15 clients per day,
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deri me 15 kliente per dite,
04:44
and if they rebel, they are tortured with electricity.
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dhe ku nese rebelohen, ato torturohen me rryme elektrike.
04:49
In the greenroom, I received my uniform.
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Ne dhomen e gjelbert une mora uniformen time.
04:52
It was not the kind of outfit that I normally wear,
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Nuk ishte lloji i rrobave qe une vesh zakonisht,
04:55
but it was far from the Michelin Man suit that I had anticipated.
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por po ashtu ishte larg nga kostumi i personazhit Michelin
te cilen po e prisja. Ne fakt, nuk ishin edhe aq keq.
04:59
Not bad, really.
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05:00
I looked like a refrigerator.
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Une dukesha si nje frigorifer.
05:02
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
05:03
But so did most of the flag bearers, except Sophia Loren,
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Por po ashtu dukeshin shumica e barteseve te flamujve, pervec Sofia Loren-it,
05:07
the universal symbol of beauty and passion.
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simbolit universal te bukurise dhe pasionit.
05:10
Sophia is over 70 and she looks great.
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Sofia eshte mbi 70 vjece dhe duket shume bukur.
05:14
She's sexy, slim and tall, with a deep tan.
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Ajo eshte joshese, e holle dhe e gjate, e nxire nga dielli.
05:18
Now, how can you have a deep tan and have no wrinkles?
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Tani, si mund te jesh e nxire nga dielli dhe te mos kesh rrudha?
05:22
I don't know.
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Nuk e di.
Kur e kane pyetur ne nje interviste televisioni, "Si mund te dukej kaq e bukur?"
05:24
When asked in a TV interview how could she look so good,
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05:28
she replied, "Posture."
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Ajo eshte pergjigjur, "Qendrimi. Shpina ime eshte gjithmone drejte,
05:30
(Laughter)
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05:31
"My back is always straight,
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05:33
and I don't make old people's noises."
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dhe une nuk i bej zhurmat e te moshuarve."
(Te qeshura)
05:36
(Laughter)
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05:37
So there you have some free advice
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Keshtu, ja ku keni ca keshilla falas
nga njera nga femrat me te bukura ne bote.
05:40
from one of the most beautiful women on earth:
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05:42
no grunting, no coughing, no wheezing,
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Mos u kollit, mos gerrhit,
05:45
no talking to yourselves, no farting.
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mos flisni me veten, mos pordhni.
(Te qeshura)
05:48
(Laughter)
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Ne fakt, ajo s'e tha kete fiks.
05:49
Well, she didn't say that, exactly.
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05:50
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
05:52
At some point around midnight,
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Ne nje pike afersisht rreth mesnates,
05:54
we were summoned to the wings of the stadium,
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na ftuan tek krahet e stadiumit,
05:56
and the loudspeakers announced the Olympic flag,
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dhe me ane te makinave te zerimit paralajmeruan flamurin Olimpik, dhe muzika filloi --
05:59
and the music started --
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06:00
by the way, the same music that starts here, the "Aida" march.
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meqe ra fjala, ishte e njejta muzike si ketu,
pjesa muzikore Aida.
06:04
Sophia Loren was right in front of me.
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Sofia Loren-i ishte perpara meje - ajo eshte rreth 30 cm me e gjate se une,
06:07
She's a foot taller than I am, not counting the poofy hair.
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duke mos llogaritur floket e saj.
06:11
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
06:12
She walked elegantly, like a giraffe on the African savanna,
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Ajo ecte ne menyre elegante, si nje gjirafe ne savanat afrikane,
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holding the flag on her shoulder.
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duke bartur flamurin ne krahun e saj. Une vrapoja lehtas pas saj --
06:20
I jogged behind --
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06:21
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
06:22
on my tiptoes, holding the flag on my extended arm,
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-- ne maje te gishtave, duke bartur flamurin ne doren e zgjatur,
06:27
so that my head was actually under the damn flag.
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ne menyre qe koka ime te ishte perfundi te mallkuarit flamur.
06:30
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
06:32
All the cameras were, of course, on Sophia.
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Te gjithe aparatet digjitale ishin, natyrisht, te fokusuar te Sofia Loren-i.
06:35
That was fortunate for me,
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Kjo gje ishte me fat per mua, ngaqe ne shumicen e fotografive te shtypit
06:37
because in most press photos, I appear too --
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dukem edhe une, ndonese shpesh ne mes te kembeve te Sofia-s.
06:40
although, often between Sophia's legs --
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06:42
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
06:44
a place where most men would love to be.
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Vendi ku shumica e burrave do te deshironin te ishin.
06:47
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
(Duartrokitje)
06:49
(Applause)
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06:51
The best four minutes of my entire life were those in the Olympic stadium.
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Kater minutat me te mire te te gjithe jetes sime
ishin ato ne stadiumin Olimpik.
Bashkeshorti im shpesh ofendohet kur une them kete --
06:57
My husband is offended when I say this,
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06:59
although I have explained to him that what we do in private
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ndonese ia kam shpjeguar se ato qe ne bejme ne ambient te mbyllur
07:02
usually takes less than four minutes --
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zakonisht marrin me pak se kater minuta --
07:04
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
07:05
so he shouldn't take it personally.
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-- keshtu qe ai s'duhet ta marri personalisht.
07:07
(Laughter)
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07:08
I have all the press clippings of those four magnificent minutes
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Kam gjithe ato copa te prera te shtypit nga ato kater minutat magjike,
07:12
because I don't want to forget them
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sepse nuk deshiroj t'i harroj
07:14
when old age destroys my brain cells.
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kur mosha te me kete shkaterruar qelizat e trurit.
07:17
I want to carry in my heart forever the key word of the Olympics:
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Deshiroj qe gjithmone ta bart ne zemer fjalen kyce te Olimpiades --
pasionin.
07:22
passion.
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Pra ja ku keni nje tregim pasioni.
07:24
So here's a tale of passion.
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07:26
The year is 1998,
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Eshte viti 1998, vendi eshte nje kamp burgu
07:28
the place is a prison camp for Tutsi refugees in Congo.
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per refugjatet Tutsi ne Kongo.
07:32
By the way, 80 percent of all refugees and displaced people in the world
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Meqe ra fjala, 80 perqind e te gjithe refugjateve dhe njerezve te zhvendosur ne bote
07:38
are women and girls.
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jane gra dhe vajza.
Ne mund ta quajme kete vend ne Kongo nje kamp vdekjeje,
07:41
We can call this place in Congo a death camp,
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07:43
because those who are not killed will die of disease or starvation.
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sepse ata qe nuk vriten vdesin nga semundja ose uria.
07:48
The protagonists of this story are a young woman, Rose Mapendo,
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Protagonistet e kesaj historie
jane nje grua e re, Rose Mapendo, dhe femijet e saj.
07:54
and her children.
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07:55
She's pregnant and a widow.
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Ajo eshte shtatzene dhe e ve.
Ushtaret e kane sforcuar ate te shikoje
07:58
Soldiers had forced her to watch as her husband was tortured and killed.
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perderisa bashkeshorti i eshte torturuar dhe vrare.
08:02
Somehow she manages to keep her seven children alive,
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Disi ajo ia ka dale mbane te mbaje gjalle te shtate femijet e saj,
08:06
and a few months later, she gives birth to premature twins,
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dhe pas disa muajsh, ajo ka lindur parakohe dy binjake.
08:10
two tiny little boys.
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Dy djeme fare te vegjel.
08:12
She cuts the umbilical cord with a stick
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Ajo ka prere kordonin e kerthizes me nje shkop,
08:15
and ties it with her own hair.
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dhe e ka lidhur me floket e saj.
08:18
She names the twins after the camp's commanders
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Ajo i ka vene binjakeve emrat e komandanteve te kampit
08:21
to gain their favor,
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per te gjetur hir te ata, dhe i ka ushqyer femijet me qaj te zi
08:23
and feeds them with black tea because her milk cannot sustain them.
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ngaqe qumeshti i saj nuk mund t'i mbante te gjalle.
08:28
When the soldiers burst in her cell to rape her oldest daughter,
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Kur ushtaret futen ne qeline e saj per te dhunuar vajzen e saj te madhe,
ajo e kap vajzen e saj dhe refuzon ta leshoje,
08:32
she grabs hold of her and refuses to let go,
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edhe atehere kur ushtaret i kane vendosur armen ne koke.
08:35
even when they hold a gun to her head.
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08:38
Somehow, the family survives for 16 months,
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Disi, familja ka mbijetuar per 16 muaj,
08:42
and then, by extraordinary luck
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dhe me pas, me fat te jashtezakonshem, dhe me zemren pasionante
08:44
and the passionate heart of a young American man, Sasha Chanoff,
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te nje burri te ri Amerikan, Sasha Chanoff,
08:50
who manages to put her in a US rescue plane,
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i cili ka arritur ta vendose ate ne nje aeroplan shpetimi te SHBAve,
08:55
Rose Mapendo and her nine children end up in Phoenix, Arizona,
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Rose Mapendo dhe te nente femijet e saj kane arritur ne Phoenix te shtetit Arizona,
09:00
where they're now living and thriving.
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ku tani ata jetojne dhe arrijne suksese.
09:04
"Mapendo," in Swahili, means "great love."
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Mapendo, ne gjuhen Suahili, nenkupton dashuri te madhe.
09:11
The protagonists of my books are strong and passionate women
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Protagonistet e librave te mi jane gra te forta dhe pasionante
09:14
like Rose Mapendo.
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sikurse Rose Mapendo.
09:15
I don't make them up;
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Une nuk i shpik. Nuk kam nevoje te bej kete.
09:17
there's no need for that.
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Une shikoj perrreth dhe i shoh cdokund.
09:19
I look around, and I see them everywhere.
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09:21
I have worked with women and for women all my life.
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Une kam punuar me gra dhe per gra gjate gjithe jetes sime.
09:24
I know them well.
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Une i njoh mire ato.
09:26
I was born in ancient times, at the end of the world,
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Une kam lindur ne kohera te lashta, ne fund te botes,
09:30
in a patriarchal Catholic and conservative family.
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ne nje familje patriarkale dhe konservative katolike.
09:34
No wonder that by age five, I was a raging feminist --
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Prandaj nuk eshte cudi qe qysh ne moshen pese vjecare kam qene nje feministe e ndezur --
09:38
although the term had not reached Chile yet,
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ndonese kjo fjale s'kishte arritur ende ne Kili,
09:41
so nobody knew what the heck was wrong with me.
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keshtu qe askush nuk e dinte se c'dreqin s'ishte ne rregull me mua.
09:43
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
09:45
I would soon find out that there was a high price to pay for my freedom
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Shpejte e kam zbuluar se me duhej te paguaja nje cmim te larte
per lirine time, si dhe per venien te pyetje te patriarkalizmit.
09:49
and for questioning the patriarchy.
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09:51
But I was happy to pay it,
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Por une isha e gezuar te mund ta paguaja kete cmim, ngaqe per secilen goditje qe mirrja,
09:53
because for every blow that I received,
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09:55
I was able to deliver two.
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mund t'i jipja dy.
09:57
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
09:59
Once, when my daughter Paula was in her twenties,
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Njehere, kur vajza ime Paula ishte ne te njezetat,
ajo me tha mua qe feminizmit i kishte kaluar koha, qe mua me duhej ta tejkaloja kete.
10:02
she said to me that feminism was dated, that I should move on.
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10:06
We had a memorable fight.
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Patem nje zenke per t'u mbajtur ne mend. Feminizmit i kishte kaluar koha?
10:08
Feminism is dated?
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10:10
Yes, for privileged women like my daughter and all of us here today,
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Po, per femra te privilegjuara si puna e vajzes sime dhe te gjitha neve ketu,
10:15
but not for most of our sisters in the rest of the world,
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por jo per shumicen e motrave tona ne pjesen tjeter te botes
te cilat ende detyrohen te martohen para kohe,
10:19
who are still forced into premature marriage,
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10:21
prostitution, forced labor.
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sforcohen ne prostitucion, pune te dhunshme --
10:24
They have children that they don't want or they cannot feed.
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te bejne femije te cilet ato nuk i duan ose nuk mund t'i ushqejne.
10:28
They have no control over their bodies or their lives.
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Ato nuk kane pushtet mbi trupat e tyre, mbi jetet e tyre.
Ato nuk jane shkolluar dhe nuk kane liri.
10:32
They have no education and no freedom.
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10:34
They are raped, beaten up and sometimes killed with impunity.
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Ato jane dhunuar, goditur dhe ndonjehere vrare pa ndeshkim per vraresit,
10:39
For most Western young women of today,
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Per shumicen e femrave te reja perendimore sot,
10:41
being called a "feminist" is an insult.
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te quhesh feministe eshte nje fyerje.
10:44
Feminism has never been sexy,
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Feminizmi asnjehere s'ka qene nje gje atraktive, por me lejoni te iu siguroj
10:46
but let me assure you that it never stopped me from flirting,
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qe kjo s'me nga ndaluar asnjehere qe te flirtoj,
dhe une rralle kam vuajtur nga mungesa e meshkujve.
10:50
and I have seldom suffered from lack of men.
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(Te qeshura)
10:53
(Laughter)
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10:54
Feminism is not dead, by no means.
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Feminizmi nuk ka vdekur, fare.
Vetem ka evoluar. Nese nuk iu pelqen fjala,
10:57
It has evolved.
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10:58
If you don't like the term,
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11:00
change it, for Goddess' sake.
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atehere nderrojeni, per hir te Zotit.
11:01
Call it "Aphrodite" or "Venus" or "bimbo" or whatever you want.
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Quajeni Aferdite, ose Venere, ose bimbo, ose si te doni,
11:06
The name doesn't matter,
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emri nuk ka rendesi,
11:07
as long as we understand what it is about, and we support it.
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perderisa ne e dime se per cfare eshte fjala, dhe perderisa e mbeshtesim.
Tani nje tregim tjeter pasioni, por ky eshte nje tregim i trishtuar.
11:12
So here's another tale of passion, and this is a sad one.
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11:16
The place is a small women's clinic in a village in Bangladesh.
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Vendi eshte nje klinike e vogel per femra ne nje fshat ne Bangladesh.
11:20
The year is 2005.
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Eshte viti 2005.
11:23
Jenny is a young American dental hygienist
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Xheni eshte nje higjieniste dentare amerikane e re
11:26
who has gone to the clinic as a volunteer during her three-week vacation.
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e cila ka shkuar ne klinike si punetore vullnetare
gjate tri javeve te saj te pushimit.
11:31
She's prepared to clean teeth,
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Ajo eshte e pergatitur te pastroje dhembe,
11:33
but when she gets there,
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por kur ajo arrin atje, ajo zbulon se aty nuk kishte mjeke,
11:34
she finds out that there are no doctors, no dentists,
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nuk kishte as dentiste, dhe qe klinika ishte thjeshte nje kasolle e mbushur me miza.
11:37
and the clinic is just a hut full of flies.
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11:41
Outside, there is a line of women
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Jashte kishte nje rresht me femra
11:43
who have waited several hours to be treated.
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te cilat kishin pritur per disa ore per t'u trajtuar.
11:46
The first patient is in excruciating pain
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Pacientja e pare kishte dhimbte torturuese
ngaqe kishte disa dhembe te kalbur.
11:50
because she has several rotten molars.
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11:52
Jenny realizes that the only solution is to pull out the bad teeth.
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Xheni kupton qe zgjidhja e vetme eshte te hiqen dhembet e keqinj.
Por ajo nuk ishte e licencuar per ate pune, ajo kurre nuk kishte bere nje gje te tille.
11:57
She's not licensed for that; she has never done it.
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12:00
She risks a lot and she's terrified.
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Ajo rrezikoi shume dhe ishte shume e frikesuar.
12:02
She doesn't even have the proper instruments,
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Ajo bile nuk kishte as instrumentet e duhura,
12:05
but fortunately, she has brought some novocaine.
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por fatmiresisht ajo kishte sjellur me vete ca Novokaine (mpires).
12:09
Jenny has a brave and passionate heart.
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Xheni ka nje zemer guximtare dhe pasionante.
12:13
She murmurs a prayer and she goes ahead with the operation.
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Ajo kishte pershperitur nje lutje dhe kishte vazhduar me operacionin.
12:17
At the end, the relieved patient kisses her hands.
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Ne fund, pacientia e cliruar kishte puthur duart e saj.
12:21
That day the hygienist pulls out many more teeth.
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Te njejten dite, higjienistja kishte hequr edhe shume dhembe te tjere.
12:25
The next morning, when she comes again to the so-called clinic,
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Mengjesin tjeter, kur ajo kishte ardhur prape ne te ashtu-quajturen klinike,
12:29
her first patient is waiting for her with her husband.
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pacientia e pare bashke me te shoqin kishin qene duke e pritur ate.
12:33
The woman's face looks like a watermelon.
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Fytyra e asaj gruaje ishte dukur si nje shalqi.
12:36
It is so swollen that you can't even see the eyes.
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Ishte aq e fryre sa nuk mund te vereheshin as syte e saj.
12:40
The husband, furious, threatens to kill the American.
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I shoqi, tejmase i hidheruar, ishte kercenuar te vriste amerikanen.
12:43
Jenny is horrified at what she has done.
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Xheni ishte tronditur nga ajo qe kishte bere,
12:47
But then, the translator explains
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por me pas, perkthyesi kishte shpjeguar
12:50
that the patient's condition has nothing to do with the operation.
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qe gjendja e pacientes nuk kishte asgje te bente me operacionin.
12:54
The day before, her husband beat her up
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Nje dite me pare, i shoqi i saj e kishte goditur ngaqe ajo s'kishte arritur ne shtepi
12:57
because she was not home in time to prepare dinner for him.
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ne kohe per te pergatitur darke per te.
Miliona femra jetojne ne kete menyre tani.
13:03
Millions of women live like this today.
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13:05
They are the poorest of the poor.
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Ato jane me te varferat e me te varferve.
13:08
Although women do two-thirds of the world's labor,
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Ndonese femrat bejne dy te tretat e punes ne bote,
13:11
they own less than one percent of the world's assets.
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ato jane pronare te me pak se nje perqind te pasurise ne bote.
13:15
They are paid less than men for the same work, if they're paid at all,
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Ato paguhen me pak se meshkujt per te kryer te njejten pune
nese paguhen edhe pak, ato mbesin te pambrojtura
13:20
and they remain vulnerable because they have no economic independence,
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ngaqe nuk kane pavaresi ekonomike,
13:24
and they are constantly threatened by exploitation,
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dhe ne menyre konstante ato kercenohen me shfrytezim,
13:27
violence and abuse.
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dhune dhe abuzim.
13:29
It is a fact that giving women education, work,
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Eshte fakt qe po t'u japesh femrave shkollim, pune,
13:32
the ability to control their own income, inherit and own property
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mundesine per te kontrolluar te ardhurat e tyre financiare,
per te trasheguar dhe per te zoteruar prone, do te ishte perfitim per shoqerine.
13:36
benefits the society.
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13:38
If a woman is empowered,
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Nese nje femer fuqizohet,
13:40
her children and her family will be better off.
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femijet edhe familja e saj do te jene ne nje pozite me te mire.
13:43
If families prosper, the village prospers,
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Nese familja lulezon, edhe fshati lulezon,
13:46
and eventually, so does the whole country.
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dhe heret a vone i gjithe vendi lulezon.
13:49
Wangari Maathai goes to a village in Kenya.
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Wangari Maathai shkon ne nje fshat ne Kenia.
13:51
She talks with the women and explains that the land is barren
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Ajo flet me femrat, dhe u shpjegon qe dheu eshte shterpe
13:55
because they have cut and sold the trees.
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ngaqe ato i kane prere dhe shitur drunjet.
Ajo i ben femrat qe te mbjellin peme te reja dhe t'i ujisin ato,
13:58
She gets the women to plant new trees and water them,
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14:01
drop by drop.
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pike per pike.
14:02
In a matter of five or six years, they have a forest,
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Brenda pese apo gjashte vitesh, ato kane nje pyll,
14:06
the soil is enriched, and the village is saved.
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dheu eshte pasuruar, fshati eshte shpetuar.
14:10
The poorest and most backward societies
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Shoqerite me te varfura dhe me te prapambetura
14:12
are always those that put women down.
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jane gjithhere ato qe vene femren poshte.
14:16
Yet this obvious truth is ignored by governments
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Dhe kjo e vertete e qarte injorohet nga qeverite,
14:19
and also by philanthropy.
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e po ashtu nga filantropet.
14:21
For every dollar given to a women's program,
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Per cdo dollare qe i dedikohet per programe qe u perkushtohen femrave,
14:24
20 dollars are given to men's programs.
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20 dollare jepen per programe per meshkuj.
14:28
Women are 51 percent of humankind.
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Femrat perbejne 51 perqind te njerezimit.
14:31
Empowering them will change everything,
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Te fuqizohen ato do te ndryshonte gjithcka --
14:33
more than technology and design and entertainment.
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me shume se tekonologjia dhe dizajni dhe argetimi.
14:37
I can promise you that women working together --
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Mund te iu premtoj qe femrat duke punuar se bashku --
14:41
linked, informed and educated --
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te lidhura, te informuara dhe te shkolluara --
mund te sjellin paqe dhe lulezim ne kete planet te braktisur.
14:44
can bring peace and prosperity to this forsaken planet.
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14:48
In any war today, most of the casualties are civilians,
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Ne cilendo lufte sot, shumica e fatkeqesive u ndodhin civileve,
14:52
mainly women and children.
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me se shumti femrave dhe femijeve. Ato jane demet anesore.
14:54
They are collateral damage.
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14:56
Men run the world,
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Burrat e udheheqin boten, dhe shikoni lemshin qe kemi.
14:58
and look at the mess we have.
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15:00
What kind of world do we want?
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Cfare lloj bote duam?
15:02
This is a fundamental question that most of us are asking.
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Kjo eshte nje pyetje baze te cilen shumica nga ne po e shtrojme.
A ka kuptim te marrim pjese ne rendin boteror ekzistues?
15:07
Does it make sense to participate in the existing world order?
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15:11
We want a world where life is preserved
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Ne duam nje bote ku jeta ruhet,
15:14
and the quality of life is enriched for everybody,
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dhe cilesia e jetes pasurohet per secilin,
15:17
not only for the privileged.
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jo vetem per te privilegjuarit.
Ne janar pashe nje ekspozite te pikturave te Fernando Botero-s
15:21
In January, I saw an exhibit of Fernando Botero's paintings
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ne bibloteken e Universitetit te Kalifornise ne Berkli.
15:25
at the UC Berkeley library.
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15:27
No museum or gallery in the United States,
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Asnje muzeum apo galeri artesh ne Shtetet e Bashkuara,
15:30
except for the New York gallery that carries Botero's work,
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pervec galerise se New York-ut qe mban punen e Botero's,
15:34
has dared to show the paintings,
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nuk ka guxuar te shfaqe pikturat per shkak qe tema
15:36
because the theme is the Abu Ghraib prison.
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ishte burgu Abu Ghraib.
Ato jane piktura te medha qe shfaqin torturen dhe shperdorimin e fuqise,
15:40
They are huge paintings of torture and abuse of power,
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ne stilin voluminoz Botero.
15:44
in the voluminous Botero style.
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15:46
I have not been able to get those images out of my mind
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Nuk kam qene ne gjendje t'i heq nga mendja ato imazhe
15:50
or my heart.
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as nga zemra.
15:52
What I fear most is power with impunity.
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Asaj qe i frikesohem me se shumti eshte pushtetit te shoqeruar me mos-ndeshkim.
15:56
I fear abuse of power, and the power to abuse.
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Une i frikesohem shperdorimit te pushtetit, si dhe pushtetit per te shperdoruar.
15:59
In our species, the alpha males define reality,
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Ne llojin tone, mashkulli alfa perkufizon realitetin,
16:02
and force the rest of the pack to accept that reality
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dhe sforcon pjesen tjeter te qenieve te pranojne ate realitet
16:05
and follow the rules.
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dhe te ndjekin rregullat.
16:07
The rules change all the time, but they always benefit them,
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Rregullat ndryshojne gjate gjithe kohes, por ata gjithmone iu pershtaten atyre,
16:10
and in this case, the trickle-down effect, which does not work in economics,
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dhe ne kete rast, efekti i rrjedhjes te poshte,
i cili nuk funksionon ne teorine ekonomike, funksionon ketu ne menyre te persosur.
16:15
works perfectly.
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16:16
Abuse trickles down from the top of the ladder to the bottom.
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Shperdorimi rrjedh te poshte nga larte shkalleve e te poshte ne fund.
16:20
Women and children, especially the poor, are at the bottom.
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Femrat dhe femijet, vecanerisht te varferit, jane ne fund.
16:24
Even the most destitute of men have someone they can abuse --
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Edhe meshkujt me te varfer kane dike qe mund te keqtrajtojne --
16:27
a woman or a child.
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nje femer ose nje femije.
16:30
I'm fed up with the power that a few exert over the many
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Une jam ngopur nga fuqia qe disa e ushtrojne mbi shumicen
16:34
through gender, income, race and class.
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permes gjinise, te ardhurave, races, dhe klases shoqerore.
Mendoj qe koha eshte pjekur per te bere keto ndryshime rrenjesore
16:38
I think that the time is ripe to make fundamental changes
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16:41
in our civilization.
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ne qyteterimin tone.
16:42
But for real change, we need feminine energy
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Por per ndryshime te verteta, ne na duhet energjia femerore
16:45
in the management of the world.
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ne menagjimin e botes.
16:47
We need a critical number of women in positions of power,
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Neve na duhet nje numer vendimtar i femrave ne pozicione vendimmarrese,
16:50
and we need to nurture the feminine energy in men.
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dhe na duhet te iu ushqejme energjine femerore meshkujve.
16:54
I'm talking about men with young minds, of course.
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Une po flas per meshkuj me mendje te re, normalisht.
16:57
Old guys are hopeless; we have to wait for them to die off.
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Per meshkujt e moshuar nuk ka shprese, duhet te presim deri sa ata te vdesin.
17:00
(Laughter)
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(Te qeshura)
17:03
Yes, I would love to have Sophia Loren's long legs
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Po, do te me pelqente te kisha kembet e gjata te Sofia Loren-it
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and legendary breasts.
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dhe gjinje legjendare.
17:09
But given a choice, I would rather have the warrior hearts
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Por po te mund te zgjidhja, une me shume do te doja te kisha nje zemer luftarake
si ajo e Wangari Maathai, Somaly Mam, Xhenit, dhe Rose Mapendo-s.
17:13
of Wangari Maathai, Somaly Mam, Jenny, and Rose Mapendo.
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Une dua ta bej kete bote te mire.
17:18
I want to make this world good.
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Jo me te mire se qe eshte, por ta bej te mire.
17:21
Not better -- but to make it good.
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17:23
Why not? It is possible.
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Pse jo? Eshte e mundur. Shikoni perrreth ne kete dhome --
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Look around in this room --
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all this knowledge, energy, talent and technology.
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gjithe kjo njohuri, energji, talent, dhe teknologji.
17:33
Let's get off our fannies, roll up our sleeves
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Le te ngreme prapanicen, te ngreme menget
17:36
and get to work, passionately,
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dhe te fillojme punen, me pasion,
ne krijimin e nje bote pothuajse te persosur.
17:39
in creating an almost-perfect world.
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17:42
Thank you.
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Ju faleminderit.
17:43
(Applause and cheers)
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