Molly Wright: How Every Child Can Thrive by Five | TED

Transcriber: Ivana Korom Reviewer:

Prevodilac: Milenka Okuka Lektor: Ivana Korom

[Baby cooing]

[Beba guguće]

What if I was to tell you

Šta kad bih vam rekla

that a game of peekaboo could change the world?

da igra žmurke može da promeni svet?

Sounds impossible, right?

Zvuči nemoguće, zar ne?

Well, I’m here today to prove it’s not.

Pa, danas sam ovde da dokažem da nije.

Hi, I’m Molly and I’m seven.

Zdravo, ja sam Moli i sedam mi je godina.

And this is my little friend, Ari.

A ovo je moj maleni prijatelj Ari.

Say “Hi,” Ari.

Reci: „Zdravo”, Ari.

Hi.

Zdravo.

Oh, and this is my neighbor, Amarjot.

A ovo je moj komšija Amardžot.

He has to take Ari away now to get ready for our experiment.

Mora sad da odvede Arija kako bi se pripremili za eksperiment.

But don't worry, they'll be back.

Ali ne brinite, vratiće se.

My talk today is about some powerful things you grownups can do.

Moj današnji govor je o moćnim stvarima koje vi odrasli možete da uradite,

that shape us as children and the adults we become.

a koje nas oblikuju kao decu i buduće odrasle.

How do I know?

Kako znam?

Because my parents and people around me did them early and often.

Jer su ih moji roditelji i ljudi oko mene radili rano i često.

I know not all kids are as lucky.

Znam da sva deca nemaju toliko sreće.

Some of my friends, some kids at my school and many around the world.

Neki moji prijatelji, neka deca u mojoj školi i mnoga širom sveta.

And I would really like to help change that.

I ja bih zaista volela da doprinesem da se to promeni.

Thanks to scientists,

Zahvaljujući naučnicima

we now know just how important the first five years are

sada znamo koliko je tačno važno prvih pet godina

for our health and development,

za naše zdravlje i razvoj,

especially our brains.

naročito za naše mozgove.

Ari started learning long before he was even born,

Ari je počeo da uči mnogo pre nego što je čak rođen,

from inside his mommy’s tummy.

unutar maminog stomaka.

When Ari was born,

Kad se Ari rodio,

he was tiny and he cried all the time.

bio je sićušan i plakao je sve vreme.

He was always hungry and he pooped a lot.

Stalno je bio gladan i mnogo je kakio.

[Laughter]

[Smeh]

Now he laughs and giggles and makes funny noises.

Sada se smeje i kikoće i pravi smešne zvukove.

But those are just the changes we hear and see.

Međutim, to su samo promene koje čujemo i vidimo.

That’s way more going on inside.

Svašta se još dešava unutra.

So, let’s talk more about our brains.

Zato razgovarajmo više o našim mozgovima.

The blue bag is a rough size and weight of a healthy baby’s brain at birth.

Plava vreća je prosečna veličina i težina zdravog bebinog mozga po rođenju.

The red one is a baby’s brain after the first year.

Crvena je bebin mozak nakon prve godine.

It almost doubles in volume.

Zapremina mu se gotovo udvostruči.

And by my age, it's almost 90 percent the volume of an adult brain.

A do mog uzrasta, gotovo je 90 procenata zapremine odraslog ljudskog mozga.

Our brains develop faster in our early years

Naši mozgovi se brže razvijaju tokom ranog uzrasta

than at any other time in our lives.

nego bilo kad kasnije u našim životima.

It can create up to one million neural connections every second.

Mozak može da stvori do milion nervnih veza svake sekunde.

But we need your help.

Međutim, potrebna nam je vaša pomoć.

Our healthy development depends on these top five things,

Naš zdrav razvoj zavisi od ovih pet stvari:

One, connecting; two, talking;

jedan, povezivanje; dva, razgovor;

three, playing; four, a healthy home,

tri, igranje; četiri, zdrav dom;

five; community.

pet, zajednica.

All of this helps our brains and us reach our full potential.

Sve ovo pomaže našim mozgovima i nama da dosegnemo naš pun potencijal.

So what’s something you can do that can really make a difference?

Dakle, šta je nešto što možete da uradite a što može da bude veoma uticajno?

Scientists call it serve and return.

Naučnici to nazivaju servisom i riternom.

That’s just a grown-up way of saying connect, talk and play with us.

Tako odrasli samo žele reći povežite se, razgovarajte i igrajte se s nama.

And here’s the really big news.

A ovo su zaista velike vesti.

Amarjot, Ari, you ready?

Amardžot, Ari, da li ste spremni?

(Audio) Amajat: Ready?

(Audio) Amardžot: Spreman?

Molly Wright: Copycat games build imagination and empathy.

Moli Rajt: Igre oponašanja razvijaju maštu i empatiju.

(Amarjot and Ari laughing)

(Amardžot i Ari se smeju)

Naming games build vocabulary and attention.

Igre imenovanja razvijaju rečnik i pažnju.

Amarjot: Daddy. Ari. Daddy. Ari.

Amardžot: Tata. Ari. Tata. Ari.

MW: And games like peekabo -- yep, peekaboo --

MR: A igre poput žmurke - da, žmurke -

actually build memory and trust.

zapravo razvijaju pamćenje i poverenje.

Amarjot: Peekaboo!

Amardžot: Ću!

MW: Each time you talk to us, play with us, make us laugh,

MR: Svaki put kada razgovarate s nama, igrate se s nama, zasmejavate nas,

it not only builds and strengthens our relationships and mental health,

to ne samo da gradi i jača naše odnose i mentalno zdravlje,

it actually teaches us some of the most important life skills,

već nas zapravo podučava nekim od najznačanijih životnih veština,

from making friends to taking the test,

od sprijateljivanja preko polaganja testa

to getting a job,

i dobijanja posla

to one day maybe even starting a family of our own.

do možda čak jednog dana izgradnje sopstvene porodice.

Interactions early and often matter.

Rane i česte interakcije su važne.

Take it from me,

Poslušajte mene,

the seven-year-old up here talking about brain science.

sedmogodišnjakinju ovde gore koja govori o nauci o mozgu.

(Laughter)

(Smeh)

OK, now let’s see what happens when the connection is taken away.

U redu. Sada pogledajmo šta se desi kada se veza ukloni.

So now he’s trying to get his dad’s attention again.

On sad pokušava ponovo da zadobije očevu pažnju.

He’s reaching out like, “That was fun, why have you stopped?”

Poseže za njim u fazonu: „Bilo je zabavno, zašto si prestao?”

(Ari cries)

(Ari plače)

I know it’s important for adults to use their devices sometimes,

Znam da je važno za odrasle da ponekad koriste uređaje,

but kids are hardwired to seek out meaningful connections,

ali deci je urođeno da tragaju za smislenim vezama,

not receiving them causes confusion and stress.

kada ih ne dobiju to uzrokuje zbunjenost i stres.

OK, Amarjot, please re-engage.

U redu, Amardžote, molim te ponovo se angažuj.

Amarjot: Ah, there’s Ari.

Amardžot: A, tu je Ari.

(Ari laughs)

(Ari se smeje)

MW: Now what if our whole childhood was like that last 30 seconds?

MR: Šta ako bi čitavo naše detinjstvo bilo kao tih poslednjih 30 sekundi?

How hard it would be for a child to feel calm.

Koliko bi teško bilo detetu da se oseća smireno.

To feel safe.

Da se oseća bezbedno.

To learn to trust anyone.

Da nauči da veruje bilo kome.

And the lifelong impact that would have.

Kao i o celoživotnom uticaju koji bi to imalo.

That makes me feel sad.

To me rastužuje.

Ari only reacted the way he did and recovered so quickly

Ari je jedino reagovao kako jeste i brzo se oporavio

because the connection between him and his dad is usually so strong.

zato što je veza između njega i njegovog oca obično veoma jaka.

The positive relationships with the grown-ups in our lives

Pozitivni odnosi sa odraslima u našim životima

gives kids the confidence we need

pružaju deci nužno samopouzdanje

to try new things, to explore and be a kid.

da isprobavaju nove stvari, da istražuju i da budu deca.

So please,

Zato, molim vas,

try to remember the most special period for our development is

pokušajte da upamtite da je najdragoceniji period za naš razvoj

the first five years.

prvih pet godina.

Starting from inside mommy’s tummy.

Počevši unutar maminog stomaka.

What’s something really impactful you can do?

Šta je najuticajnije što možete da uradite?

Serve and return.

Servirajte i riternirajte.

And when?

Kada?

Early and often.

Rano i često.

Please give it up for a Amarjot and Ari.

Molim vas, dajte aplauz Amardžotu i Ariju.

(Applause)

(Aplauz)

Every moment together is an opportunity

Svaki zajednički trenutak je prilika

to connect, talk and play.

za povezivanje, razgovor i igru.

Imagine the difference we could make if everyone everywhere did this.

Zamislite koliku promenu bismo postigli kada bi svako svuda postupao ovako.

To us, the children,

Za nas, decu,

it’s so much more than just a game.

to je mnogo više od samo igre.

It's our future.

Radi se o našoj budućnosti.

Thank you.

Hvala vam.

(Applause)

(Aplauz)

See? Peekaboo really can change the world.

Vidite? Žmurka zaista može da promeni svet.

(Applause)

(Aplauz)