Half a million secrets | Frank Warren

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Hi, my name is Frank,
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Ola, o meu nome é Frank
00:17
and I collect secrets.
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e colecciono segredos.
00:19
It all started with a crazy idea
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Todo comezou cunha idea tola
00:21
in November of 2004.
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en novembro do 2004.
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I printed up 3,000 self-addressed postcards,
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Imprimín máis de 3000 postais coa miña dirección,
00:27
just like this.
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xusto coma esta.
00:29
They were blank on one side,
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Estaban en branco por un lado,
00:31
and on the other side
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e no outro lado
00:33
I listed some simple instructions.
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listei unhas instrucións sinxelas.
00:35
I asked people to anonymously share an artful secret
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Pedínlle a xente que compartise anonimamente un segredo enxeñoso
00:38
they'd never told anyone before.
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que nunca lle contaran a ninguén.
00:41
And I handed out these postcards randomly
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E repartín esas postais ó azar
00:43
on the streets of Washington, D.C.,
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polas rúas de Washington D.C.
00:45
not knowing what to expect.
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sen saber que agardar.
00:47
But soon the idea began spreading virally.
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Pero a idea deseguida empezou a expandirse.
00:50
People began to buy their own postcards
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A xente empezou a mercar as súas propias postais
00:53
and make their own postcards.
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e a facer as súas propias postais.
00:55
I started receiving secrets in my home mailbox,
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Comecei a recibir segredos na caixa de correo da miña casa,
00:58
not just with postmarks from Washington, D.C.,
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non só con mataselos de Washington D.C.,
01:01
but from Texas, California,
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senón de Texas, California,
01:03
Vancouver, New Zealand, Iraq.
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Vancouver, Nova Zelandia, Iraq.
01:06
Soon my crazy idea didn't seem so crazy.
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De súpeto a miña tolemia non parecía tal tolemia.
01:10
PostSecret.com
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PostSecret.com
01:12
is the most visited advertisement-free blog in the world.
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é o blog sen publicidade máis visitado do mundo.
01:16
And this is my postcard collection today.
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E esta é a miña colección de postais no presente.
01:21
You can see my wife
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Podedes ver á miña muller
01:23
struggling to stack a brick of postcards
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intentando amorear un montón de postais
01:25
on a pyramid of over a half-million secrets.
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nunha pirámide de máis de medio millón de segredos.
01:29
What I'd like to do now
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O que me gustaría facer agora
01:31
is share with you a very special handful of secrets
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é compartir con vós unha manda moi especial de segredos
01:34
from that collection,
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desa colección,
01:36
starting with this one.
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empezando por este.
01:40
"I found these stamps as a child,
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"Atopei estes selos cando era neno,
01:43
and I have been waiting all my life
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e agardei toda a vida
01:45
to have someone to send them to.
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a ter alguén a quen mandarllos.
01:48
I never did have someone."
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Nunca tiven a ninguén."
01:50
Secrets can take many forms.
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Os segredos poden adoptar moitas formas.
01:52
They can be shocking
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Poden ser impactantes,
01:54
or silly or soulful.
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parvos ou conmovedores.
01:57
They can connect us to our deepest humanity
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Poden conectarnos coa nosa humanidade máis profunda
02:00
or with people we'll never meet.
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ou con xente que nunca coñeceremos.
02:06
(Laughter)
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Poño descafeinado ós clientes que son groseiros comigo! (Risos)
02:14
Maybe one of you sent this one in.
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Pode que un de vós enviara este.
02:16
I don't know.
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Non o sei.
02:18
This one does a great job of demonstrating
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Este amosa moi ben
02:20
the creativity that people have
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a creatividade da xente
02:22
when they make and mail me a postcard.
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cando fan e me envían unha postal.
02:24
This one obviously was made out of half a Starbucks cup
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Esta obviamente está feita coa metade dun vaso do Starbucks
02:27
with a stamp and my home address written on the other side.
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cun selo e a miña dirección escrita no outro lado.
02:33
"Dear Birthmother, I have great parents.
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"Querida nai biolóxica, teño uns pais xeniais.
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I've found love. I'm happy."
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Atopei amor. Son feliz".
02:41
Secrets can remind us of the countless human dramas,
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Os segredos poden lembrarnos os incontables dramas humanos,
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of frailty and heroism,
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debilidades e heroísmo,
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playing out silently
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actuando silandeiramente
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in the lives of people all around us
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nas vidas da xente do noso arredor
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even now.
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mesmo agora.
02:55
"Everyone who knew me before 9/11
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"Todo o mundo que me coñecía antes do 11S
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believes I'm dead."
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cre que estou morto".
03:08
"I used to work with a bunch of uptight religious people,
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"Adoitaba traballar cunha manda de persoas relixiosas pechadas,
03:11
so sometimes I didn't wear panties,
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así que de cando en vez non levaba bragas
03:13
and just had a big smile and chuckled to myself."
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e simplemente amosaba un gran sorriso e ría por dentro".
03:16
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
03:24
This next one takes a little explanation before I share it with you.
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O seguinte precisa unha pequena explicación antes de que volo ensine.
03:27
I love to speak on college campuses
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Encántame falar nos campus universitarios
03:30
and share secrets and the stories with students.
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e compartir segredos e historias cos estudantes.
03:32
And sometimes afterwards I'll stick around
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E ás veces quedo despois
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and sign books and take photos with students.
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e asino libros e fágome fotos cos estudantes.
03:38
And this next postcard was made
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E a seguinte postal está feita
03:40
out of one of those photos.
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cunha desas fotos.
03:42
And I should also mention that, just like today,
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E tamén debo mencionar que, igual que hoxe,
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at that PostSecret event,
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no evento de PostSecret,
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I was using a wireless microphone.
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estaba a usar un micrófono sen cables.
03:51
"Your mic wasn't off during sound check.
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"O teu micrófono non estaba apagado durante a proba de son.
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We all heard you pee."
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Todos te escoitamos mexar".
03:55
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
04:04
This was really embarrassing when it happened,
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Isto foi moi avergoñante cando sucedeu,
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until I realized it could have been worse.
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ata que me decatei de que podería ser peor.
04:11
Right. You know what I'm saying.
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Sabedes o que quero dicir.
04:14
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
04:17
"Inside this envelope
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"Dentro deste sobre
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is the ripped up remains
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están os anacos rotos
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of a suicide note I didn't use.
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dunha carta de suicidio que non usei.
04:23
I feel like the happiest person on Earth (now.)"
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Síntome como a persoa máis feliz do mundo (agora)".
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"One of these men is the father of my son.
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"Un destes homes é o pai do meu fillo.
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He pays me a lot to keep it a secret."
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Pagoume unha morea para que mantivera o segredo".
04:37
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
04:47
"That Saturday when you wondered where I was,
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"Aquel sábado que te preguntabas onde estaba,
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well, I was getting your ring.
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ben, estaba mercando o teu anel.
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It's in my pocket right now."
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Está no meu peto nestes momentos".
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I had this postcard posted on the PostSecret blog
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Publiquei esta postal no blog de PostSecret
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two years ago on Valentine's Day.
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hai dous anos no día de San Valentín.
04:59
It was the very bottom, the last secret in the long column.
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Estaba abaixo de todo, o último segredo da longa columna.
05:02
And it hadn't been up for more than a couple hours
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E non pasaran máis de un par de horas
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before I received this exuberant email
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cando recibín este exuberante e-mail
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from the guy who mailed me this postcard.
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do rapaz que me enviara esta postal.
05:09
And he said, "Frank, I've got to share with you
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Dicía: "Frank, teño que compartir contigo
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this story that just played out in my life."
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a historia que acaba de pasar na miña vida".
05:14
He said, "My knees are still shaking."
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Dicía: "Os meus xeonllos aínda están a tremer".
05:17
He said, "For three years, my girlfriend and I,
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Dicía: "Hai tres anos que a miña moza e máis eu
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we've made it this Sunday morning ritual
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temos o ritual matinal dos domingos
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to visit the PostSecret blog together
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de visitar o blog de PostSecret xuntos
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and read the secrets out loud.
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e ler os segredos en voz alta.
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I read some to her, she reads some to me."
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Eu léolle uns a ela, ela leme outros a min".
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He says, "It's really brought us closer together
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Dicía: "iso realmente nos uniu
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through the years.
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durante estes anos.
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And so when I discovered
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E entón cando descubrín
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that you had posted
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que colgaras
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my surprise proposal to my girlfriend at the very bottom,
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a miña proposición sorpresa para a miña moza ó final de todo,
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I was beside myself.
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estaba fóra de min.
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And I tried to act calm, not to give anything away.
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Intentei actuar con calma, non amosar nada.
05:43
And just like every Sunday,
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E coma cada domingo
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we started reading the secrets out loud to each other."
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comezamos a ler os segredos en voz alto un ó outro".
05:49
He said, "But this time it seemed like it was taking her forever
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Dicía: "pero esta vez parecía que tardaba anos
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to get through each one."
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en pasar dun ó outro".
05:54
But she finally did.
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Pero finalmente o fixo.
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She got to that bottom secret, his proposal to her.
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Chegou o segredo do final, a súa proposición para ela.
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And he said, "She read it once and then she read it again."
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E dicía: "leuno unha vez, e despois o volveu ler."
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And she turned to him and said,
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Virouse cara el e lle dixo.
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"Is that our cat?"
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"Non é ese o noso gato?"
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(Laughter)
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(Risos)
06:16
And when she saw him,
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E cando o mirou
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he was down on one knee, he had the ring out.
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estaba cun xeonllo no chan, ensinándolle o anel.
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He popped the question, she said yes. It was a very happy ending.
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Fíxolle a pregunta, dixo que si. Foi un final moi feliz.
06:23
So I emailed him back
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Así que lle respondín
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and I said, "Please share with me an image, something,
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e lle dixen, "Por favor, mándame unha imaxe ou algo
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that I can share with the whole PostSecret community
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que poida compartir con toda a comunidade de PostSecret
06:30
and let everyone know your fairy tale ending."
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para que todo o mundo saiba o final da túa historia de conto".
06:33
And he emailed me this picture.
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E mandoume esta fotografía.
06:35
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
06:40
"I found your camera at Lollapalooza this summer.
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"Atopei a túa cámara en Lollapalooza este verán.
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I finally got the pictures developed
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Por fin as levei a revelar
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and I'd love to give them to you."
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e gustaríame darchas".
06:50
This picture never got returned back
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Esta fotografía nunca foi devolta
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to the people who lost it,
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á xente que a perdera,
06:55
but this secret has impacted many lives,
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pero este segredo impactou en moitas vidas,
06:58
starting with a student up in Canada
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empezando cun estudante de Canadá
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named Matty.
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chamado Matty.
07:02
Matty was inspired by that secret
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Matty inspirouse neste segredo
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to start his own website,
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para empezar o seu propio sitio web,
07:06
a website called IFoundYourCamera.
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unha web chamada IFoundYourCamera.
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Matty invites people
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Matty invita a xente
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to mail him digital cameras that they've found,
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a enviarlle cámaras dixitais que atoparan,
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memory sticks that have been lost
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memorias que se perderan
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with orphan photos.
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con fotos orfas.
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And Matty takes the pictures off these cameras
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E Matty colle as fotografías desas cámaras
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and posts them on his website every week.
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e as colga na súa web cada semana.
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And people come to visit
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E a xente as visita
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to see if they can identify a picture they've lost
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para ver se poden identificar una fotografía que perderan
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or help somebody else get the photos back to them
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ou axudar a alguén a recuperar as fotografías
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that they might be desperately searching for.
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que pode que estiveran buscando desesperadamente.
07:35
This one's my favorite.
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Esta é a miña favorita.
07:37
(Laughter)
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(Risos)
07:40
Matty has found this ingenious way
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Matty atopou esta enxeñosa maneira
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to leverage the kindness of strangers.
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de aumentar a amabilidade dos descoñecidos.
07:47
And it might seem like a simple idea, and it is,
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E pode parecer unha idea simple, e o é,
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but the impact it can have on people's lives can be huge.
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pero o impacto que pode ter na vida das persoas pode ser enorme.
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Matty shared with me
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Matty compartiu comigo
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an emotional email he received
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un emotivo e-mail que recibiu
07:57
from the mother in that picture.
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da nai desta fotografía.
08:01
"That's me, my husband and son.
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"Esta son eu co meu marido e o meu fillo.
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The other pictures are of my very ill grandmother.
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As outras fotografías son da miña avoa, que está moi enferma.
08:08
Thank you for making your site.
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Grazas por crear este sitio.
08:10
These pictures mean more to me than you know.
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Estas fotografías significan para min máis do que poidas imaxinar.
08:13
My son's birth is on this camera.
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O nacemento do meu fillo está nesta cámara.
08:15
He turns four tomorrow."
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Mañá cumpre catro anos".
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Every picture that you see there
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Cada fotografía que podedes ver aí
08:21
and thousands of others
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e outros centos
08:23
have been returned back to the person who lost it --
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foron devoltas á persoa que as perdera,
08:25
sometimes crossing oceans,
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as veces cruzando océanos,
08:27
sometimes going through language barriers.
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outras superando a barreira da linguaxe.
08:32
This is the last postcard I have to share with you today.
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Esta é a última postal que teño para compartir con vós hoxe.
08:35
"When people I love
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"Cando a xente que quero
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leave voicemails on my phone
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deixa mensaxes de voz no meu teléfono
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I always save them in case they die tomorrow
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sempre os gardo por se acaso morren mañá
08:43
and I have no other way
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e non teño outra maneira
08:45
of hearing their voice ever again."
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de escoitar a súa voz outra vez".
08:49
When I posted this secret,
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Cando colguei este segredo,
08:51
dozens of people
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ducias de persoas
08:53
sent voicemail messages from their phones,
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enviaron mensaxes de voz dos seus teléfonos
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sometimes ones they'd been keeping for years,
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ás veces algúns que os tiveran gardados durante anos
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messages from family or friends
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mensaxes da familia ou amigos
09:01
who had died.
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que morreran.
09:04
They said that by preserving those voices
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Dixeron que preservando esas voces
09:06
and sharing them,
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e compartíndoas
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it helped them keep the spirit of their loved ones alive.
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axudábanlles a manter o espírito dos seres queridos vivo.
09:13
One young girl
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Unha rapariga xove
09:15
posted the last message
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colgou a última mensaxe
09:17
she ever heard from her grandmother.
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que escoitara da súa avoa.
09:21
Secrets can take many forms.
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Os segredos poden adoptar moitas formas.
09:24
They can be shocking or silly
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Poden ser impactantes ou parvos
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or soulful.
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ou conmovedores.
09:29
They can connect us with our deepest humanity
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Poden conectarnos coa nosa humanidade máis profunda
09:31
or with people we'll never meet again.
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ou con xente que nunca volveremos ver.
09:36
Voicemail recording: First saved voice message.
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Mensaxe de voz: primeira mensaxe de voz gardada
09:40
Grandma: ♫ It's somebody's birthday today ♫
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Avoa: ♫ É o aniversario de alguén hoxe ♫
09:45
♫ Somebody's birthday today ♫
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♫ O aniversario de alguén hoxe ♫
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♫ The candles are lighted ♫
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♫ As candeas están acesas ♫
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♫ on somebody's cake ♫
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♫ na torta de alguén ♫
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♫ And we're all invited ♫
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♫ E todos estamos convidados ♫
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♫ for somebody's sake ♫
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♫ á torta de alguén ♫
10:00
You're 21 years old today.
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Hoxe cumpres 21 anos.
10:03
Have a real happy birthday, and I love you.
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Que teñas un moi feliz aniversario, quérote.
10:06
I'll say bye for now.
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Adeus de momento.
10:08
FW: Thank you.
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FW: Grazas.
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10:16
Thank you.
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Grazas.
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10:29
June Cohen: Frank, that was beautiful,
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June Cohen: Frank, iso foi precioso,
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so touching.
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tan emotivo.
10:33
Have you ever sent yourself a postcard?
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Algunha vez enviácheste a ti mesmo unha postal?
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Have you ever sent in a secret to PostSecret?
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Algunha vez enviaches un segredo a PostSecret?
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FW: I have one of my own secrets in every book.
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FW: Teño un segredo propio en cada libro.
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I think in some ways, the reason I started the project,
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Creo que, dalgunha maneira, a razón pola que comecei o proxecto,
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even though I didn't know it at the time,
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aínda que non o soubera nese momento
10:45
was because I was struggling with my own secrets.
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foi porque estaba pelexando cos meus propios segredos.
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And it was through crowd-sourcing,
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E foi grazas á externalización,
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it was through the kindness that strangers were showing me,
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a través da amabilidade que os descoñecidos me amosaban,
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that I could uncover
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que puiden destapar
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parts of my past that were haunting me.
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partes do meu pasado que me estaban a perseguir.
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JC: And has anyone ever discovered
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JC: E algunha vez alguén descubriu
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which secret was yours in the book?
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cal era o teu segredo no libro?
11:02
Has anyone in your life been able to tell?
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Alguén da túa vida o conseguiu descubrir?
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FW: Sometimes I share that information, yeah.
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FW: Algunhas veces comparto esa información, si.
11:06
(Laughter)
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