Let's try emotional correctness | Sally Kohn

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ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุฃุฏู†ุงู‡ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ.

ุงู„ู…ุชุฑุฌู…: Faisal Marz ุงู„ู…ุฏู‚ู‘ู‚: Anwar Dafa-Alla
00:13
So when I do my job, people hate me.
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุฃู‚ูˆู… ุจุนู…ู„ูŠุŒ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ูŠูƒุฑู‡ูˆู†ูŠ
00:16
In fact, the better I do my job,
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ููŠ ุงู„ุญู‚ูŠู‚ุฉุŒ ูƒู„ู…ุง ู‚ู…ุช ุจุนู…ู„ูŠ ุจุดูƒู„ ุฃูุถู„
00:19
the more people hate me.
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ูƒู„ู…ุง ุฒุงุฏุช ูƒุฑุงู‡ูŠุฉ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ู„ูŠ
ูˆู„ุง ุŒ ุงู†ุง ู„ุณุช ู…ุฑุงู‚ุจุฉ ุญุฑูƒุฉ ุงู„ู…ุฑูˆุฑ
00:21
And no, I'm not a meter maid,
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ูˆู„ุณุช ู…ู‚ุงูˆู„ุฉ
00:23
and I'm not an undertaker.
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ุฃู†ุง ู…ุซู„ูŠุฉ ู…ุชุญุฑุฑุฉ ูˆู…ุชุญุฏุซุฉ ุฑุฆูŠุณูŠุฉ
00:25
I am a progressive, lesbian talking head on Fox News.
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ููŠ ู‚ู†ุงุฉ ููˆูƒุณ ู†ูŠูˆุฒ
00:29
(Applause)
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00:31
So y'all heard that, right? Just to make sure, right?
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ุฌู…ูŠุนูƒู… ุณู…ุน ู‡ุฐุงุŒ ุตุญูŠุญุŸ ูู‚ุท ู„ู„ุชุฃูƒุฏุŒ ุตุญูŠุญุŸ
00:33
I am a gay talking head on Fox News.
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ุฃู†ุง ู…ุซู„ูŠุฉ ูˆู…ุชุญุฏุซุฉ ุฑุฆูŠุณูŠุฉ ููŠ ููˆูƒุณ ู†ูŠูˆุฒ
00:36
I am going to tell you how I do it,
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ูˆุณุฃุฎุจุฑูƒู… ูƒูŠู ูุนู„ุช ู‡ุฐุง
00:38
and the most important thing I've learned.
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ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุดูŠุก ู…ู‡ู… ุชุนู„ู…ุชู‡
00:40
So I go on television.
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ุงุธู‡ุฑ ููŠ ุงู„ุชู„ูุฒูŠูˆู†
00:42
I debate people who literally want to obliterate everything I believe in --
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ุฃู†ุง ุฃู†ุงู‚ุด ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠุฑูŠุฏูˆู† ุญุฑููŠุงู‹ ุทู…ุณ
ูƒู„ ุดูŠุก ุฃุคู…ู† ุจู‡ุŒ ููŠ ุจุนุถ ุงู„ู‚ุถุงูŠุง
00:46
in some cases, who don't want me and people like me to even exist.
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ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู„ุง ูŠุฑูŠุฏูˆู†ูŠ ูˆุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุงู„ุฐูŠู† ู‡ู… ู…ุซู„ูŠ ุงู† ูŠูƒูˆู†ูˆุง ู…ูˆุฌูˆุฏูŠู† ุญุชู‰.
00:50
It's sort of like Thanksgiving with your conservative uncle
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ุฅู†ู‡ ู†ูˆุนุงู‹ ู…ุง ู…ุซู„ ุนูŠุฏ ุงู„ุดูƒุฑ ู…ุน ุนู…ูƒ ุงู„ู…ุญุงูุธ
ุงู„ู…ุณุชุฎุฏู… ู„ู„ู…ู†ุดุทุงุช
00:54
on steroids,
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00:55
with a live television audience of millions.
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ู…ุน ู…ู„ุงูŠูŠู† ุงู„ู…ุดุงู‡ุฏูŠู† ู„ุนุฑุถ ุชู„ูุฒูŠูˆู†ูŠ ู…ุจุงุดุฑ
00:58
It's totally almost just like that.
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ุฅู†ู‡ ูƒู„ูŠุงู‹ ู…ุซู„ู‡ ุชู…ุงู…ุงู‹
01:01
And that's just on air.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ูู‚ุท ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ู‡ูˆุงุก
01:03
The hate mail I get is unbelievable.
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ุฑุณุงุฆู„ ุงู„ูƒุฑู‡ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุจุฑูŠุฏ ู„ุง ุชุตุฏู‚
01:05
Last week alone, I got 238 pieces of nasty email
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ุงู„ุฃุณุจูˆุน ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ ู„ูˆุญุฏู‡ุŒ ุญุตู„ุช ุนู„ู‰ 238 ุฑุณุงู„ุฉ ุณูŠุฆุฉ
01:10
and more hate tweets than I can even count.
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ูˆุงู„ูƒุซูŠุฑ ู…ู† ุชุบุฑูŠุฏุงุช ุงู„ูƒูุฑู‡ ุฃูƒุซุฑ ู…ู…ุง ุงุณุชุทูŠุน ุนุฏู‡ุง
01:13
I was called an idiot, a traitor, a scourge,
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ุชู…ุช ุชุณู…ูŠุชูŠ ุจุงู„ุบุจูŠุฉุŒ ุงู„ุฎุงุฆู†ุฉุŒ ุงู„ูƒุงุฑุซุฉ
01:17
a cunt and an ugly man,
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ูˆุฑุฌู„ ู‚ุจูŠุญ ุฌุฏุงู‹
01:19
and that was just in one email.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ูƒุงู† ููŠ ุงูŠู…ูŠู„ ูˆุงุญุฏ ูู‚ุท
01:21
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
01:24
So what have I realized,
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ูˆู…ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู„ุงุญุธุชู‡
01:26
being on the receiving end of all this ugliness?
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ูƒูˆู†ูŠ ุงู„ู…ุณุชู‚ุจู„ุฉ ู„ูƒู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู‚ุจุญ ุŸ
01:29
Well, my biggest takeaway
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ุญุณู†ุงู‹ ุŒ ุฃูƒุจุฑ ุดูŠุก ุญุตู„ุช ุนู„ูŠู‡ ู‡ูˆ ุฃู†ู†ูŠ ูˆุฎู„ุงู„ ุนู‚ูˆุฏ
01:31
is that for decades, we've been focused on political correctness,
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ุฑูƒุฒู†ุง ูู‚ุท ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุตุญูŠุญ ุณูŠุงุณูŠุงุŒ
01:35
but what matters more is emotional correctness.
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ู„ูƒู† ู…ุง ูŠู‡ู… ุฃูƒุซุฑ ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุตุญูŠุญ ุนุงุทููŠุง
01:39
Let me give you a small example.
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ุฏุนูˆู†ูŠ ุฃุนุทูŠูƒู… ู…ุซุงู„ ุตุบูŠุฑ
01:41
I don't care if you call me a dyke. I really don't.
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ู„ุง ูŠู‡ู…ู†ูŠ ุฅุฐุง ุงุทู„ู‚ุช ุนู„ูŠ ุจุฃู†ู†ูŠ ู…ุซู„ูŠุฉุŒ ุญู‚ุงู‹ ู„ุง ูŠู‡ู…ู†ูŠ
01:44
I care about two things.
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ุงู‡ุชู… ุจุดูŠุฆูŠู† ูู‚ุท
ูˆุงุญุฏุŒ ุฃู‡ุชู… ุจุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ู†ุทู‚ู‡ุง ุจุดูƒู„ ุตุญูŠุญ
01:46
One, I care that you spell it right.
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01:48
(Laughter) (Applause)
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(ุชุตููŠู‚)
01:53
Just quick refresher, it's D-Y-K-E.
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ูู‚ุท ู„ู„ุชุฐูƒูŠุฑ ุงู„ุณุฑูŠุน, ุฅู†ู‡ุง D-Y-K-E
01:57
You'd totally be surprised.
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ุณุชูƒูˆู† ู…ุชูุงุฌุฆุงู‹ ุญู‚ุงู‹
02:00
And second, I don't care about the word, I care about how you use it.
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ุงู„ุซุงู†ูŠุŒ ู„ุง ุฃู‡ุชู… ุจุงู„ูƒู„ู…ุฉ
ุฃู‡ุชู… ุจุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู…ู‡ุง
02:03
Are you being friendly? Are you just being naive?
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ู‡ู„ ุฃู†ุช ู„ุทูŠูุŸ ู‡ู„ ุฃู†ุช ุฃุญู…ู‚ ูู‚ุทุŸ
02:05
Or do you really want to hurt me personally?
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ุฃูˆ ู‡ู„ ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุฃุฐูŠุชูŠ ุดุฎุตูŠุงู‹ุŸ
02:09
Emotional correctness is the tone, the feeling,
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ุงู„ุตุญูŠุญ ุนุงุทููŠุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฃุณู„ูˆุจุŒ ุงู„ุฅุญุณุงุณ
02:14
how we say what we say,
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ูƒูŠู ู†ู‚ูˆู„ ู…ุง ู†ุฑูŠุฏ ุงู† ู†ู‚ูˆู„ู‡
02:16
the respect and compassion we show one another.
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ุงู„ุฅุญุชุฑุงู… ูˆุงู„ุดูู‚ุฉ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู†ุธู‡ุฑู‡ุง ู„ุจุนุถู†ุง
02:19
And what I've realized is that political persuasion
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ูˆุงู„ุฐูŠ ู„ุงุญุธุชู‡ ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฅู‚ู†ุงุน ุงู„ุณูŠุงุณูŠ
02:22
doesn't begin with ideas or facts or data.
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ู„ุง ูŠุจุฏุฃ ู…ู† ุงู„ุฃููƒุงุฑ ุงูˆ ุงู„ุญู‚ุงุฆู‚ ุงูˆ ุงู„ู…ุนู„ูˆู…ุงุช
02:26
Political persuasion begins with being emotionally correct.
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ุงู„ุฅู‚ู†ุงุน ุงู„ุณูŠุงุณูŠ ูŠุจุฏุฃ ู…ู† ุฃู† ุตุญูŠุญ ุงู„ุนุงุทูุฉ
02:30
So when I first went to go work at Fox News,
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุฐู‡ุจุช ู„ุฃูˆู„ ู…ุฑุฉ ู„ู„ุนู…ู„ ู„ุฏู‰ ููˆูƒุณ ู†ูŠูˆุฒ
02:33
true confession,
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ุงุนุชุฑุงู ุตุงุฏู‚
02:34
I expected there to be marks in the carpet
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ู„ู‚ุฏ ุชูˆู‚ุนูˆุง ุฃู†ูŠ ูˆุงุญุฏุฉ
02:37
from all the knuckle-dragging.
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ู…ู† ุงู„ุฃุดุฎุงุต ุงู„ุฃู‚ู„ ุฐูƒุงุกุงู‹
02:39
That, by the way, in case you're paying attention, is not emotionally correct.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ุจุงู„ู…ู†ุงุณุจุฉ - ููŠ ุญุงู„ ูƒูˆู†ูƒ ู…ู†ุชุจู‡- ู„ูŠุณ ุตุญูŠุญ ุนุงุทููŠุงู‹
02:43
But liberals on my side,
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ู„ูƒู† ุงู„ู„ูŠุจุฑุงู„ูŠูŠู† ุฅู„ู‰ ุฌุงู†ุจูŠ
02:47
we can be self-righteous, we can be condescending,
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ู†ุญู† ุจุฅู…ูƒุงู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุตุงู„ุญูŠู† ุฐุงุชูŠุงู‹ุŒ ุจุฅู…ูƒุงู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ู…ุชุนุงู„ูŠู†
02:50
we can be dismissive of anyone who doesn't agree with us.
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ุจุฅู…ูƒุงู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ุฑูุถ ุฃูŠ ุดุฎุต ู„ุง ูŠูˆุงูู‚ู†ุง
02:53
In other words, we can be politically right
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ุจูƒู„ู…ุงุช ุฃุฎุฑู‰ุŒ ุจุฅู…ูƒุงู†ู†ุง ุฃู† ู†ูƒูˆู† ุนู„ู‰ ุญู‚ ุณูŠุงุณูŠุงู‹
02:56
but emotionally wrong.
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ู„ูƒู† ุนู„ู‰ ุฎุทุฃ ุนุงุทููŠุงู‹.
ูˆุจุดูƒู„ ุนุฑุถูŠุŒ ู‡ุฐุง ูŠุนู†ูŠ
02:59
And incidentally, that means that people don't like us. Right?
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ุฃู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ู„ุง ูŠุญุจูˆู†ุงุŒ ุตุญูŠุญุŸ
ุงู„ุงู† ู‡ุฐู‡ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ู†ู‡ุงูŠุฉ.
03:05
Now here's the kicker.
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ุงู„ู…ุญุงูุธูˆู† ุฑุงุฆุนูˆู† ุญู‚ุงู‹
03:07
Conservatives are really nice.
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03:09
I mean, not all of them,
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ุฃุนู†ูŠุŒ ู„ูŠุณุช ูƒู„ู‡ู…
ูˆู„ูŠุณ ุฃุคู„ุฆูƒ ุงู„ุฐูŠู† ูŠุฑุณู„ูˆู† ู„ูŠ ุฑุณุงุฆู„ ูƒูุฑู‡
03:11
and not the ones who send me hate mail,
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03:12
but you would be surprised.
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ู„ูƒู† ุณุชูƒูˆู† ู…ุชูุงุฌุฆ.
03:14
Sean Hannity is one of the sweetest guys I've ever met.
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ุดูˆู† ู‡ุงู†ูŠุชูŠ ุดุฎุต ู…ู† ุงู„ุฃุดุฎุงุต ุงู„ุฑุงุฆุนูŠู†
ุงู„ุฐูŠู† ู‚ุงุจู„ุชู‡ู… ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฃุทู„ุงู‚
03:18
He spends his free time trying to fix up his staff on blind dates,
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ูŠู‚ุถูŠ ูˆู‚ุช ูุฑุงุบู‡
ูŠุญุงูˆู„ ุชุฌู‡ูŠุฒ ู…ู‚ุงุจู„ุงุช ุนู…ูŠุงุก ู„ู…ูˆุธููŠู‡ุŒ
ูˆุฃู†ุง ุฃุนู„ู… ุฃู†ูŠ ู„ูˆ ูˆู‚ุนุช ููŠ ุฃูŠ ู…ุดูƒู„ุฉ
03:23
and I know that if I ever had a problem,
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ุณูŠูุนู„ ู…ุง ูŠุณุชุทูŠุน ู„ูŠุณุงุนุฏู†ูŠ
03:25
he would do anything he could to help.
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03:27
Now, I think Sean Hannity is 99 percent politically wrong,
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ุฃุนุชู‚ุฏ ุฃู† ุดูˆู† ู‡ุงู†ูŠุชูŠ
99% ุฎุทุฃ ุจุดูƒู„ ุณูŠุงุณูŠ
ู„ูƒู†ู‡ ุนู„ู‰ ุตูˆุงุจ ุนุงุทููŠุง ุจุดูƒู„ ู…ู„ูุช ู„ู„ู†ุธุฑุŒ
03:33
but his emotional correctness is strikingly impressive.
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03:36
And that's why people listen to him.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุณุจุจ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠุฌุนู„ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ูŠุณุชู…ุนูˆู† ู„ู‡
03:38
Because you can't get anyone to agree with you
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ู„ุฃู†ูƒ ู„ุง ุชุณุชุทูŠุน ุฃู† ุชุญุตู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงุชูุงู‚ ุดุฎุต ู…ุง ู…ุนูƒ
ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ู„ุง ูŠุณุชู…ุน ุฅู„ูŠูƒ ู…ู† ุงู„ุจุฏุงูŠุฉ.
03:41
if they don't even listen to you first.
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03:43
We spend so much time talking past each other
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ู‚ุถูŠู†ุง ูˆู‚ุชุงู‹ ูƒุจูŠุฑุงู‹ ููŠ ุงู„ุญุฏูŠุซ ู…ุน ุจุนุถู†ุง
03:46
and not enough time talking through our disagreements.
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ูˆูˆู‚ุชุงู‹ ุบูŠุฑ ูƒุงููŠ ู„ู„ุญุฏูŠุซ ุนู† ุงุฎุชู„ุงูุงุชู†ุงุŒ
03:49
And if we can start to find compassion for one another,
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ูˆุฅุฐุง ุจุฏุฃู†ุง ููŠ ุฅูŠุฌุงุฏ ุดูู‚ุฉ ู„ุจุนุถู†ุง
03:53
then we have a shot at building common ground.
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ุณูŠูƒูˆู† ู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ูุฑุตุฉ ู„ุจู†ุงุก ุฃุฑุถ ู…ุดุชุฑูƒุฉ
03:57
It actually sounds really hokey to say it standing up here,
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ููŠ ุงู„ุญู‚ูŠู‚ุฉ ูŠุจุฏูˆ ุงู†ู‡ ุณู‡ู„ ุฌุฏุงู‹
ุจุงู„ู‚ูˆู„ ุจุฃู†ู‡ ุณุชู‚ู ู‡ู†ุง
04:01
but when you try to put it in practice,
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ู„ูƒู† ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชุญุงูˆู„ ุฃู† ุชุถุนู‡ุง ู‚ูŠุฏ ุงู„ู…ู…ุงุฑุณุฉ
04:03
it's really powerful.
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ุณุชูƒูˆู† ู‚ูˆูŠุฉ ุฌุฏุงู‹
04:05
So someone who says they hate immigrants,
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ู„ุฐู„ูƒุŒ ุงู„ุดุฎุต ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠู‚ูˆู„ ุฃู†ู‡ ูŠูƒุฑู‡ ุงู„ู…ู‡ุงุฌุฑูŠู†
04:08
I try to imagine how scared they must be
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ุฃุญุงูˆู„ ุงู† ุงุชุฎูŠู„ ูƒู… ู‡ูˆ ุฎุงุฆู
04:10
that their community is changing from what they've always known.
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ู…ู† ุฃู† ู…ุฌุชู…ุนู‡ ุณูŠุชุบูŠุฑ ุนู† ู…ุง ุนุฑููˆู‡ ู…ู† ู‚ุจู„
04:13
Or someone who says they don't like teachers' unions,
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ุฃูˆ ุงู„ุดุฎุต ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠู‚ูˆู„ ุฃู†ู‡ ู„ุง ูŠุญุจ ู†ู‚ุงุจุงุช ุงู„ู…ุนู„ู…ูŠู†
04:17
I bet they're really devastated to see their kid's school going into the gutter,
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ุฃุฑุงู‡ู† ุฃู†ู‡ู… ู…ุฏู…ุฑูŠู† ุชู…ุงู…ุงู‹ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูŠุฑูˆุง
ุฃุทูุงู„ู‡ู… ููŠ ุงู„ู…ุฏุฑุณุฉ ูŠุฐู‡ุจูˆู† ุฅู„ู‰ ู…ุง ูŠูƒุฑู‡ูˆู†
ูˆูŠุจุญุซูˆู† ุนู† ุดุฎุต ู…ุง ู„ูŠู„ู‚ูˆู† ุงู„ู„ูˆู… ุนู„ูŠู‡
04:21
and they're just looking for someone to blame.
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04:23
Our challenge is to find the compassion for others
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ุงู„ุชุญุฏูŠ ู‡ูˆ ุฃู† ู†ุฌุฏ ุดูู‚ุฉ ู„ู„ุขุฎุฑูŠู†
ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุฐูŠ ู†ุฑูŠุฏู‡ ู…ู†ู‡ู…
04:28
that we want them to have for us.
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04:30
That is emotional correctness.
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ู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุตุญูŠุญ ุนุงุทููŠุง
04:33
I'm not saying it's easy.
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ู„ุง ุฃู‚ูˆู„ ุจุฃู†ู‡ ุณู‡ู„
04:35
An average of, like, 5.6 times per day
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ุจู…ุนุฏู„ 5.6 ู…ุฑุงุช ููŠ ุงู„ูŠูˆู…
04:38
I have to stop myself from responding to all of my hate mail
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ุฃุถุทุฑ ุฃู† ุงู…ู†ุน ู†ูุณูŠ ู…ู† ุงู„ุฑุฏ
ู„ูƒู„ ุงู„ุฑุณุงุฆู„ ุงู„ูƒุงุฑู‡ุฉ ู„ูŠ ุงู„ู…ู„ูŠุฆุฉ ุจุฃู‚ุจุญ ุงู„ุดุชุงุฆู…
04:41
with a flurry of vile profanities.
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04:43
This whole finding compassion and common ground with your enemies thing
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ู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ูƒู„ ุดูŠุก ุนู† ุฅูŠุฌุงุฏ ุงู„ุดูู‚ุฉ
ูˆุงู„ุฃุฑุถ ุงู„ู…ุดุชุฑูƒุฉ ู…ุน ุฃุนุฏุงุฆูƒ
04:50
is kind of like a political-spiritual practice for me,
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ู‡ูˆ ุดูŠุก ู…ุซู„ ุชุฏุฑูŠุจ ุงู„ุณูŠุงุณุฉ ุงู„ุฑูˆุญูŠุฉ ุจุงู„ู†ุณุจุฉ ู„ูŠ
04:53
and I ain't the Dalai Lama.
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ุฃู†ุง ู„ุณุช ุงู„ุฏุงู„ุงูŠ ู„ุงู…ุง
04:56
I'm not perfect, but what I am is optimistic.
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ุฃู†ุง ู„ุณุช ูƒุงู…ู„ุฉุŒ ู„ูƒู†ูŠ ู…ุชูุงุฆู„ุฉ
05:02
Because I don't just get hate mail.
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ุจุณุจุจ ุฃู†ูŠ ู„ุง ุฃุญุตู„ ูู‚ุท ุนู„ู‰ ุฑุณุงุฆู„ ูƒุฑุงู‡ูŠุฉ
05:04
I get a lot of really nice letters, lots of them.
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ุจู„ ุงู„ูƒุซูŠุฑ ู…ู† ุงู„ุฑุณุงุฆู„ ุงู„ุฑุงุฆุนุฉุŒ ุงู„ูƒุซูŠุฑ ู…ู†ู‡ุง
ูˆูˆุงุญุฏุฉ ู…ู† ุฃูุถู„ู‡ุง ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฃุทู„ุงู‚ ุชุจุฏุฃ
05:08
And one of my all-time favorites begins:
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05:10
"I am not a big fan of your political leanings
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ุจู€" ู„ุณุช ู…ุนุฌุจ ูƒุจูŠุฑ ุจู…ูŠูˆู„ูƒ ุงู„ุณูŠุงุณูŠุฉ
05:13
or your sometimes tortured logic,
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ุฃูˆ ุจู…ู†ุทู‚ูƒ ุงู„ู…ุนุฐุจ ุฃุญูŠุงู†ุงู‹
05:15
(Laughter)
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ู„ูƒู†ูŠ ู…ุนุฌุจ ูƒุจูŠุฑ ุจูƒ ูƒุฅู†ุณุงู†ุฉ
05:19
but I'm a big fan of you as a person."
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05:22
Now this guy doesn't agree with me -- yet.
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ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุดุฎุต ู„ุง ูŠุชูู‚ ู…ุนูŠุŒ ุญุชู‰ ุงู„ุฃู†
05:25
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
05:29
But he's listening --
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ู„ูƒู†ู‡ ูŠุณุชู…ุนุŒ ู„ูŠุณ ู„ุฃุฌู„ ู…ุง ุฃู‚ูˆู„ู‡ ุฃู†ุง
05:31
not because of what I said, but because of how I said it.
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ุจู„ ุจุณุจุจ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุฃู‚ูˆู„ู‡ุง
ูˆุจุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ู…ุงุŒ ู…ุน ุฃู†ู†ุง ู„ู… ู†ู„ุชู‚ูŠ ุฃุจุฏุงู‹
05:35
And somehow, even though we've never met, we've managed to form a connection.
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ุฃุณุชุทุนู†ุง ุฅู‚ุงู…ุฉ ุดูƒู„ ู…ู† ุงู„ุชูˆุงุตู„.
ู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุชุตุญูŠุญ ุงู„ุนุงุทููŠ
05:39
That's emotional correctness,
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05:41
and that's how we start the conversations
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ูˆู‡ูƒุฐุง ู†ุจุฏุฃ ู…ุญุงุฏุซุงุชู†ุง
ู‡ุฐุง ูุนู„ุงู‹ ูŠู‚ูˆุฏ ุฅู„ู‰ ุงู„ุชุบูŠูŠุฑ
05:44
that really lead to change.
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05:45
Thank you.
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ุดูƒุฑุงู‹.
05:47
(Applause)
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ุญูˆู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน

ุณูŠู‚ุฏู… ู„ูƒ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน ู…ู‚ุงุทุน ููŠุฏูŠูˆ YouTube ุงู„ู…ููŠุฏุฉ ู„ุชุนู„ู… ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ. ุณุชุฑู‰ ุฏุฑูˆุณ ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุชู… ุชุฏุฑูŠุณู‡ุง ู…ู† ู‚ุจู„ ู…ุฏุฑุณูŠู† ู…ู† ุงู„ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ู…ู† ุฌู…ูŠุน ุฃู†ุญุงุก ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…. ุงู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ู…ุนุฑูˆุถุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ูƒู„ ุตูุญุฉ ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู…ู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ. ูŠุชู… ุชู…ุฑูŠุฑ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุงุช ุจุงู„ุชุฒุงู…ู† ู…ุน ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ. ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ุฃูŠ ุชุนู„ูŠู‚ุงุช ุฃูˆ ุทู„ุจุงุช ุŒ ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ุจู†ุง ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ู†ู…ูˆุฐุฌ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ู‡ุฐุง.

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