Let's try emotional correctness | Sally Kohn

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: K Bang ๊ฒ€ํ† : Gabriel Song
00:13
So when I do my job, people hate me.
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์ œ ์ผ์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ €๋ฅผ ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:16
In fact, the better I do my job,
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ผ์„ ๋” ์ž˜ ํ• ์ˆ˜๋ก
00:19
the more people hate me.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ €๋ฅผ ๋” ๋ฏธ์›Œํ•˜์ง€์š”.
์•„๋‡จ, ์ €๋Š” ์ฃผ์ฐจ ๋‹จ์† ์š”์›์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”.
00:21
And no, I'm not a meter maid,
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์žฅ์˜์‚ฌ๋„ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:23
and I'm not an undertaker.
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์ €๋Š” ํญ์Šค ๋‰ด์Šค์—์„œ ๋ฐฉ์†กํ•˜๋Š”
00:25
I am a progressive, lesbian talking head on Fox News.
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์ง„๋ณด์  ๋ ˆ์ฆˆ๋น„์–ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
00:29
(Applause)
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00:31
So y'all heard that, right? Just to make sure, right?
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„ ๋ชจ๋‘ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด์…จ์ฃ ? ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ํ™•์ธํ•ด ๋ณด๋ ค๊ตฌ์š”.
00:33
I am a gay talking head on Fox News.
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์ €๋Š” "ํญ์Šค" ๋‰ด์Šค์—์„œ ๋ฐฉ์†กํ•˜๋Š” ๋™์„ฑ์• ์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. (์—ญ์ฃผ: ํญ์Šค ๋‰ด์Šค์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์—์„œ ๋Œ€ํ‘œ์ ์ธ ๋ณด์ˆ˜์  ๋ฐฉ์†ก์‚ฌ)
00:36
I am going to tell you how I do it,
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์ €๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€
00:38
and the most important thing I've learned.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐฐ์› ๋˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:40
So I go on television.
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TV ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”.
00:42
I debate people who literally want to obliterate everything I believe in --
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์ €๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฏฟ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์„ ์™„์ „ํžˆ ์—†์• ๋ฒ„๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์–ดํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ
๋…ผ์Ÿ์„ ๋ฒŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์–ด๋–ค ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š”,
00:46
in some cases, who don't want me and people like me to even exist.
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์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด ์ €๋‚˜ ์ €์™€ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์กด์žฌํ•˜์ง€๋„ ์•Š๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“คํ•˜๊ณ ์š”.
00:50
It's sort of like Thanksgiving with your conservative uncle
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ๋งˆ์น˜ ๋‚จ์„ฑํ˜ธ๋ฅด๋ชฌ์ด ๋„˜์น˜๋Š” ๋ณด์ˆ˜์  ์‚ผ์ดŒ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜
์ถ”์ˆ˜๊ฐ์‚ฌ์ ˆ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ๋น„์Šทํ•ด์š”.
00:54
on steroids,
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00:55
with a live television audience of millions.
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์ˆ˜๋ฐฑ๋งŒ์˜ ์ฒญ์ค‘์„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๋กœ ์ƒ๋ฐฉ์†ก์„ ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ์š”.
00:58
It's totally almost just like that.
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๊ทธ๊ฑด ์™„์ „ํžˆ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:01
And that's just on air.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๊ฒŒ ๋ฐฉ์†ก๋˜์ง€์š”.
01:03
The hate mail I get is unbelievable.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ์ฆ์˜ค์˜ ๋ฉ”์ผ์€ ๋ฏฟ์„ ์ˆ˜ ์—†์„ ์ •๋„์—์š”.
01:05
Last week alone, I got 238 pieces of nasty email
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์ง€๋‚œ ์ฃผ์—๋งŒ 238 ๊ฐœ์˜ ๊ณ ์•ฝํ•œ ๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜๊ณ ,
01:10
and more hate tweets than I can even count.
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์ฆ์˜ค๊ฐ€ ๋‹ด๊ธด ํŠธ์œ—์€ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์…€ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์—†์„ ์ •๋„์—์š”.
01:13
I was called an idiot, a traitor, a scourge,
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์ €๋Š” ๋ฐ”๋ณด, ๋ฐฐ์‹ ์ž, ๊ณจ์นซ๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ,
01:17
a cunt and an ugly man,
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์ฐฝ๋…€๋‚˜ ๋ชป์ƒ๊ธด ๋‚จ์ž๋กœ ๋ถˆ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ๋„ ํ•˜์ง€์š”.
01:19
and that was just in one email.
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์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๋‹จ์–ด๋Š” ํ•œ ๊ฐœ์˜ ๋ฉ”์ผ์— ์žˆ๋˜ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:21
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
01:24
So what have I realized,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊นจ๋‹ซ๊ฒŒ ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์€์š”?
01:26
being on the receiving end of all this ugliness?
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ชจ๋“  ์ถ”์•…ํ•œ ๋‚ด์šฉ์„ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ์ชฝ์— ์žˆ์œผ๋ฉด์„œ ๋ง์ด์ง€์š”.
01:29
Well, my biggest takeaway
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์ œ๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์นจ์€ ์ˆ˜์‹ญ๋…„ ๋™์•ˆ
01:31
is that for decades, we've been focused on political correctness,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ •์น˜์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์—๋งŒ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:35
but what matters more is emotional correctness.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋” ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ๊ฐ์ •์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์ด์—์š”.
01:39
Let me give you a small example.
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๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•œ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋‚˜ ๋ณด์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”.
01:41
I don't care if you call me a dyke. I really don't.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์ €๋ฅผ ๋‚จ์„ฑ์—ญํ• ์˜ ๋™์„ฑ์• ์ž๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ถ€๋ฅด์…”๋„ ์ƒ๊ด€์—†์–ด์š”. ์ •๋ง๋กœ์š”.
01:44
I care about two things.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ๋งž์ถค๋ฒ•์— ๋งž๊ฒŒ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด๊ณ ์š”.
01:46
One, I care that you spell it right.
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01:48
(Laughter) (Applause)
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(์›ƒ์Œ) (๋ฐ•์ˆ˜)
01:53
Just quick refresher, it's D-Y-K-E.
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์งง๊ฒŒ ํ™•์ธ์‹œ์ผœ ๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”. D-Y-K-E ๋ผ๊ณ  ์”๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:57
You'd totally be surprised.
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์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋†€๋ผ์‹  ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™๋„ค์š”.
02:00
And second, I don't care about the word, I care about how you use it.
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๋‘๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ์ €๋Š” ๋‹จ์–ด์—๋Š” ๊ด€์‹ฌ์ด ์—†์ง€๋งŒ
๊ทธ ๋‹จ์–ด๋ฅผ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š”์ง€๊ฐ€ ์ €์—๊ฒ ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:03
Are you being friendly? Are you just being naive?
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๊ทธ ๋ง์„ ์“ธ ๋•Œ ์šฐํ˜ธ์ ์ธ๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”? ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ฉด ๊ทธ์ € ์•„๋ฌด ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ์—†๋Š”๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”?
02:05
Or do you really want to hurt me personally?
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ํ˜น์€ ๊ฐœ์ธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์ œ๊ฒŒ ์ƒ์ฒ˜๋ฅผ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ์‹ถ์œผ์‹ ๊ฑด๊ฐ€์š”?
02:09
Emotional correctness is the tone, the feeling,
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๊ฐ์ •์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์€ ๋ถ„์œ„๊ธฐ์ด๊ณ , ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด์—์š”.
02:14
how we say what we say,
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๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜๋Š”์ง€,
02:16
the respect and compassion we show one another.
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์„œ๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ์กด๊ฒฝ๊ณผ ์—ฐ๋ฏผ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:19
And what I've realized is that political persuasion
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋œ ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ •์น˜์ ์ธ ์„ค๋“์€
02:22
doesn't begin with ideas or facts or data.
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์•„์ด๋””์–ด๋‚˜ ์‚ฌ์‹ค, ์ž๋ฃŒ ๊ฐ™์€ ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ์‹œ์ž‘๋˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:26
Political persuasion begins with being emotionally correct.
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์ •์น˜์ ์ธ ์„ค๋“์€ ๊ฐ์ •์ ์ธ ์˜ณ์Œ์—์„œ ์ถœ๋ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:30
So when I first went to go work at Fox News,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ํญ์Šค ๋‰ด์Šค์— ์ฒ˜์Œ ์ผํ•˜๋Ÿฌ ๊ฐ”์„ ๋•Œ,
02:33
true confession,
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์†”์งํ•œ ๊ณ ๋ฐฑ์ธ๋ฐ์š”,
02:34
I expected there to be marks in the carpet
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์ €๋Š” ์šฐ๋ฝ๋ถ€๋ฝํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด
02:37
from all the knuckle-dragging.
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์นดํŽ˜ํŠธ์— ๋‚™์„œ๋ผ๋„ ํ•ด๋‘์—ˆ์„๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
02:39
That, by the way, in case you're paying attention, is not emotionally correct.
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์–ด์จŒ๋“ , ์กฐ๊ธˆ๋งŒ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด, ๊ทธ๊ฑด ๊ฐ์ •์ ์ธ ์˜ณ์Œ์ด ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:43
But liberals on my side,
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ž์œ ์ฃผ์˜์ž๋“ค์˜ ์ž…์žฅ์—์„œ
02:47
we can be self-righteous, we can be condescending,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋…์„ ์ ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„, ๊ฑฐ๋“ค๋จน๊ฑฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ณด์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
02:50
we can be dismissive of anyone who doesn't agree with us.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฐ™์€ ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด ์•„๋‹Œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ๋Š” ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋“  ๊ฒฝ๋ฉธํ• ๋Ÿฐ์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฆ…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:53
In other words, we can be politically right
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๋‹ค์‹œ ๋งํ•ด, ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ •์น˜์ ์œผ๋กœ ์˜ณ์œผ๋ฉด์„œ๋„
02:56
but emotionally wrong.
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๊ฐ์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ๋Š” ํ‹€๋ ธ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ฑด
02:59
And incidentally, that means that people don't like us. Right?
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๋œป์ด์ฃ ?
์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋œป์ด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:05
Now here's the kicker.
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๋ณด์ˆ˜์ฃผ์˜์ž๋“ค์€ ์ •๋ง ์ข‹์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด์—์š”.
03:07
Conservatives are really nice.
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03:09
I mean, not all of them,
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์ œ ๋ง์”€์€, ๊ทธ๋“ค ๋ชจ๋‘๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ณ 
์ œ๊ฒŒ ์ฆ์˜ค์˜ ํŽธ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋ณด๋‚ด๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„ ๋ง๊ณ ์š”.
03:11
and not the ones who send me hate mail,
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03:12
but you would be surprised.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ๋†€๋ผ์‹ค๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:14
Sean Hannity is one of the sweetest guys I've ever met.
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์…˜ ํ•ด๋„ˆํ‹ฐ๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งŒ๋‚˜๋ณธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ ์ค‘์—
๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋”ฐ๋œปํ•œ ๋‚จ์ž์˜€์–ด์š”.
03:18
He spends his free time trying to fix up his staff on blind dates,
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๊ทธ๋Š” ์‹œ๊ฐ„์ด ๋‚˜๋ฉด
์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋™๋ฃŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์†Œ๊ฐœํŒ…์„ ์ฃผ์„ ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์ œ๊ฒŒ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ƒ๊ธฐ๋ฉด
03:23
and I know that if I ever had a problem,
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์ž๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ์ตœ์„ ์„ ๋‹คํ•ด ๋„์›€์„ ์ฃผ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:25
he would do anything he could to help.
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03:27
Now, I think Sean Hannity is 99 percent politically wrong,
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์ง€๊ธˆ ์ €๋Š” ์…˜ ํ•ด๋„ˆํ‹ฐ๊ฐ€ ์ •์น˜์ ์œผ๋กœ
99% ํ‹€๋ ธ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ์˜ ๊ฐ์ •์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์€ ์ •๋ง๋กœ ์ธ์ƒ์ ์ด์—์š”.
03:33
but his emotional correctness is strikingly impressive.
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03:36
And that's why people listen to him.
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฒฝ์ฒญํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:38
Because you can't get anyone to agree with you
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ท€๋‹ด์•„ ๋“ฃ์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด
๊ทธ๋“ค์„ ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์˜๊ฒฌ์— ๋™์˜ํ•˜๋„๋ก ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†์ฃ 
03:41
if they don't even listen to you first.
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03:43
We spend so much time talking past each other
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค๊ณผ ์„œ๋กœ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Š”๋ฐ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ๋“ค์ด์ง€์š”.
03:46
and not enough time talking through our disagreements.
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์ถฉ๋ถ„ํ•œ ์‹œ๊ฐ„์„ ํˆฌ์žํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:49
And if we can start to find compassion for one another,
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์„œ๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ์—ฐ๋ฏผ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ธฐ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋ฉด,
03:53
then we have a shot at building common ground.
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๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ธ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ๊ฐ€์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ ค๋Š” ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์„ ํ•ด๋ณผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
03:57
It actually sounds really hokey to say it standing up here,
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์—ฌ๊ธฐ ์„œ์„œ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋ง์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€
์ •๋ง ๊ฐ์ƒ์ ์œผ๋กœ ๋“ค๋ฆด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์ง€๋งŒ
04:01
but when you try to put it in practice,
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๊ทธ๊ฑธ ์‹คํ–‰์— ์˜ฎ๊ฒจ๋ณด๋ฉด
04:03
it's really powerful.
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์ •๋ง ๊ฐ•๋ ฅํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:05
So someone who says they hate immigrants,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€๊ฐ€ ์ด๋ฏผ์ž๋ฅผ ์ฆ์˜คํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋ฉด
04:08
I try to imagine how scared they must be
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์†ํ•œ ์‚ฌํšŒ๊ฐ€ ์ž์‹ ๋“ค์ด ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋˜ ๋ชจ์Šต์—์„œ
04:10
that their community is changing from what they've always known.
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๋ณ€ํ™”ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์–ผ๋งˆ๋‚˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด ๋ณด๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:13
Or someone who says they don't like teachers' unions,
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ํ˜น์€ ๊ต์› ๋…ธ์กฐ๋ฅผ ์‹ซ์–ดํ•œ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—,
04:17
I bet they're really devastated to see their kid's school going into the gutter,
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์•„์ด๋“ค์ด ์—‰๋ง์ด ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ณด๊ณ 
์—„์ฒญ๋‚œ ์ถฉ๊ฒฉ์„ ๋ฐ›์•˜์„ ๊ฒƒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ™•์‹ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ํƒ“ํ•  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์„ ์ฐพ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:21
and they're just looking for someone to blame.
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04:23
Our challenge is to find the compassion for others
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ์˜ ๋„์ „์€ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ด๋“ค์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ€์ ธ์ฃผ๊ธฐ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋Š” ์—ฐ๋ฏผ์„
๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ด๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ–๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:28
that we want them to have for us.
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04:30
That is emotional correctness.
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฐ์ •์  ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์ด์—์š”.
04:33
I'm not saying it's easy.
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๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ์‰ฝ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋Š”๊ฒŒ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:35
An average of, like, 5.6 times per day
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ํ‰๊ท ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์•„๋งˆ ํ•˜๋ฃจ์— ๋Œ€์—ฌ์„ฏ ๋ฒˆ์€
04:38
I have to stop myself from responding to all of my hate mail
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์ €๋„ ๊ทน๋„๋กœ ๋ถˆ์พŒํ•œ ๋ชจ๋…์ ์ธ ์ฆ์˜ค์˜ ๋ฉ”์ผ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
๋‹ตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถฐ์•ผ๋งŒ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:41
with a flurry of vile profanities.
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04:43
This whole finding compassion and common ground with your enemies thing
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์ ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ ์—ฐ๋ฏผ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ 
๊ณตํ†ต์ ์ธ ์ƒ๊ฐ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜์„ ์ฐพ๋Š” ์ด๋Ÿฐ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€ ๋ชจ๋‘
04:50
is kind of like a political-spiritual practice for me,
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์ œ๊ฒŒ ์ผ์ข…์˜ ์ •์น˜์ , ์ •์‹ ์ ์ธ ํ›ˆ๋ จ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:53
and I ain't the Dalai Lama.
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์ €๋Š” ๋‹ฌ๋ผ์ด ๋ผ๋งˆ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹™๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:56
I'm not perfect, but what I am is optimistic.
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์ €๋Š” ์™„๋ฒฝํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์ง€๋งŒ ํ˜„์žฌ์˜ ์ €๋Š” ํฌ๋ง์ ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:02
Because I don't just get hate mail.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ›๋Š” ๋ฉ”์ผ์ด ๋ชจ๋‘ ์ฆ์˜ค์˜ ๋ฉ”์ผ์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์—์š”.
05:04
I get a lot of really nice letters, lots of them.
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์ €๋Š” ์ •๋ง๋กœ ์ข‹์€ ๋ฉ”์ผ์„ ์•„์ฃผ, ์•„์ฃผ ๋งŽ์ด ๋ฐ›์•„์š”.
์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฉ”์ผ ์ค‘์— ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์ด๋ ‡๊ฒŒ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:08
And one of my all-time favorites begins:
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05:10
"I am not a big fan of your political leanings
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"์ €๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ์ •์น˜์  ์ž…์žฅ์ด๋‚˜
05:13
or your sometimes tortured logic,
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๋‹น์‹ ์˜ ๋•Œ๋•Œ๋กœ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ณต์žกํ•œ ๋…ผ๋ฆฌ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ๊ด‘์ ์ธ ์ถ”์ข…์ž๋Š” ์•„๋‹ˆ์ง€๋งŒ
05:15
(Laughter)
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๋‹น์‹  ๊ฐœ์ธ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๋Œ€๋‹จํ•œ ์ถ”์ข…์ž์—์š”."
05:19
but I'm a big fan of you as a person."
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05:22
Now this guy doesn't agree with me -- yet.
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์ด ๋‚จ์ž๋Š” ์•„์ง ์ €์™€ ๊ฐ™์€ ์˜๊ฒฌ์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์žˆ์ง€ ์•Š์•„์š”.
05:25
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
05:29
But he's listening --
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ๋Š” ๊ท€๋‹ด์•„ ๋“ฃ์ง€์š”. ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋‚ด์šฉ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
05:31
not because of what I said, but because of how I said it.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ๊ฑธ ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ• ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ด์—์š”.
์–ด์จŒ๋“ , ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ๋งŒ๋‚œ ์ ์€ ์—†์ง€๋งŒ
05:35
And somehow, even though we've never met, we've managed to form a connection.
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์ €ํฌ๋Š” ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ๋“  ์„œ๋กœ ์—ฐ๊ฒฐ์„ ์œ ์ง€ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ๊ฐ์ •์ ์ธ ์˜ฌ๋ฐ”๋ฆ„์—์š”.
05:39
That's emotional correctness,
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05:41
and that's how we start the conversations
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์ง„์ •ํ•œ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์ด๋Œ์–ด๋‚ด๋Š”
๋Œ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์‹œ์ž‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:44
that really lead to change.
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05:45
Thank you.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:47
(Applause)
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์ด ์›น์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ ์ •๋ณด

์ด ์‚ฌ์ดํŠธ๋Š” ์˜์–ด ํ•™์Šต์— ์œ ์šฉํ•œ YouTube ๋™์˜์ƒ์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์ „ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ์„ ์ƒ๋‹˜๋“ค์ด ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์น˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ˆ˜์—…์„ ๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๊ฐ ๋™์˜์ƒ ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์— ํ‘œ์‹œ๋˜๋Š” ์˜์–ด ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ” ํด๋ฆญํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ๊ณณ์—์„œ ๋™์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋น„๋””์˜ค ์žฌ์ƒ์— ๋งž์ถฐ ์ž๋ง‰์ด ์Šคํฌ๋กค๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์˜๊ฒฌ์ด๋‚˜ ์š”์ฒญ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ ์ด ๋ฌธ์˜ ์–‘์‹์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜์—ฌ ๋ฌธ์˜ํ•˜์‹ญ์‹œ์˜ค.

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