All it takes is 10 mindful minutes | Andy Puddicombe | TED

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Translator: Joseph Geni Reviewer: Morton Bast
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翻译人员: dahong zhang 校对人员: Catherina Pan
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We live in an incredibly busy world.
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我们生活在一个异常纷杂的世界。
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The pace of life is often frantic, our minds are always busy,
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生活的步调时常快得疯狂,我们的头脑(心灵)一直忙碌运转着,
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and we're always doing something.
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而我们每时每刻都在做着事情
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So with that in mind, I'd like you just to take a moment
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记住这点的同时,我希望你们能拿出一小会儿时间,
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to think, when did you last take any time to do nothing?
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来想想,上一次自己什么都不做是什么时候?
仅仅10分钟,毫无干扰地?
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Just 10 minutes, undisturbed?
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And when I say nothing, I do mean nothing.
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当我说什么都不做,就是什么都不做。
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So that's no emailing, texting, no Internet,
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没有电子邮件、短信,没有互联网,
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no TV, no chatting, no eating, no reading.
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没有电视、聊天、食物、阅读,
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Not even sitting there reminiscing about the past
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甚至不包括坐着回想过去
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or planning for the future.
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或者思考将来。
只是什么都不做。
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Simply doing nothing.
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I see a lot of very blank faces.
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我看到你们中很多茫然的脸。(笑声)
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(Laughter)
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You probably have to go a long way back.
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我的想法是,你们很可能要往后退很大一步。
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And this is an extraordinary thing, right?
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而这是一件很离奇的事情,对吧?
我们说的是我们的大脑(心灵)。
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We're talking about our mind.
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大脑(心灵),对我们来说最珍贵的东西,
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The mind, our most valuable and precious resource,
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through which we experience every single moment of our life.
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我们通过它来体验生活中的每一个时刻,
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The mind that we rely upon
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全靠它(心灵)
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to be happy, content, emotionally stable as individuals,
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我们作为一个个体,能感到幸福、满足、情感稳定,
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and at the same time, to be kind and thoughtful
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同时在我们与他人的关系中
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and considerate in our relationships with others.
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变得善良与体贴。
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This is the same mind that we depend upon
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靠着这个大脑(心灵)
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to be focused, creative, spontaneous,
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我们能够专注、有创意、自觉,
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and to perform at our very best in everything that we do.
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并在我们做的所有事情中发挥自己的才能。
然而,我们没有花哪怕一点时间来关心它。
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And yet, we don't take any time out to look after it.
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In fact, we spend more time looking after our cars,
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事实上,相较而言,我们更关心自己的汽车
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our clothes and our hair than we --
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衣服和头发的时间都要更多
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okay, maybe not our hair,
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---好吧,也许不包括我们的头发,但你们懂我想要说的。
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(Laughter)
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but you see where I'm going.
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而结果,当然是我们感到压力。
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The result, of course, is that we get stressed.
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你们知道的,大脑(心灵)总是像一台洗衣机般飕飕运转
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You know, the mind whizzes away like a washing machine
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going round and round, lots of difficult, confusing emotions,
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反反复复,许多复杂、令人困惑的感情,
而我们却不真的知道怎么来应对,
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and we don't really know how to deal with that.
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可悲的事实是我们如此分心
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And the sad fact is that we are so distracted
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以至于我们不再处在自己当下生活的这个世界。
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that we're no longer present in the world in which we live.
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We miss out on the things that are most important to us,
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我们错过了对我们而言最重要的事情,
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and the crazy thing is that everybody just assumes,
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而疯狂的是每个人都只是以为,
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that's the way life is, so we've just kind of got to get on with it.
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哦,这就是生活,我们不得不这么过。
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That's really not how it has to be.
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但生活真的不必须成为这样子。
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So I was about 11 when I went along to my first meditation class.
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当我去上我第一节冥想课的时候
我只有11岁。
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And trust me, it had all the stereotypes that you can imagine,
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相信我,课里有所有你能想到的关于冥想的成见,
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the sitting cross-legged on the floor,
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盘腿坐在地板上,
焚香,药茶,素食主义者,全部东西,
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the incense, the herbal tea, the vegetarians, the whole deal,
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但我妈妈当时参加了,而我也感兴趣,所以我跟她一起去了。
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but my mom was going and I was intrigued, so I went along with her.
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I'd also seen a few kung fu movies,
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我还看了几部功夫电影,私下里
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and secretly I kind of thought I might be able to learn how to fly,
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我想我或许能学会怎么飞起来,
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but I was very young at the time.
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但我那时实在非常年轻。
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Now as I was there, I guess, like a lot of people,
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我想,当我在那里的时候,像很多人一样,
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I assumed that it was just an aspirin for the mind.
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我假定那只是一颗给大脑(心灵)的阿司匹林。
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You get stressed, you do some meditation.
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当感到压力的时候,你就冥想一会。
我不曾真的考虑那本质上会是一种阻碍,
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I hadn't really thought that it could be sort of preventative in nature,
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until I was about 20, when a number of things happened in my life
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直到我大约20岁,一些事情
在我的人生中接连地发生,
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in quite quick succession,
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那是一些把我的生活整个颠倒的事情
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really serious things which just flipped my life upside down
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and all of a sudden I was inundated with thoughts,
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而突然之间我被各种思绪淹没了,
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inundated with difficult emotions that I didn't know how to cope with.
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淹没在我不知道如何应付的复杂感情里。
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Every time I sort of pushed one down,
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每当我快要解决其中一个的时候,
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another one would pop back up again.
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另一个会又一次的冒出来。
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It was a really very stressful time.
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那真的是一段非常难熬的时间。
我想我们应对压力都有不同的方式。
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I guess we all deal with stress in different ways.
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有些人会把自己埋头到工作中,
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Some people will bury themselves in work, grateful for the distraction.
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用以分心不去想。
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Others will turn to their friends, their family, looking for support.
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另一些人则会从朋友和家庭中寻求帮助。
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Some people hit the bottle, start taking medication.
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还有些人酗酒,或开始使用药品。
我自己当时的方式则是成为一名僧侣。
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My own way of dealing with it was to become a monk.
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So I quit my degree, I headed off to the Himalayas,
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因此我退了学,去了喜马拉雅山,
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I became a monk, and I started studying meditation.
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我成为了一名僧侣,并开始学习冥想。
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People often ask me what I learned from that time.
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人们常会问我从这段经历里学到了什么。
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Well, obviously it changed things.
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嗯,很显然它改变了很多事情。
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Let's face it, becoming a celibate monk is going to change a number of things.
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面对这个事实,成为一名修行禁欲的僧侣
能够改变很多事情。
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But it was more than that.
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但不仅如此
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It taught me -- it gave me a greater appreciation,
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这个经历还教会我---使得我更能感悟“现在”,
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an understanding for the present moment.
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对于“现在”这个时刻的有了更深的理解。
我指的是不迷失于思绪中,
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By that I mean not being lost in thought,
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不被分心,
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not being distracted,
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not being overwhelmed by difficult emotions,
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不被各种复杂的感情弄得不知所措,
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but instead learning how to be in the here and now,
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相反地,我学会了如何感悟此地与此时,
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how to be mindful, how to be present.
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如何变得专心,如何活在“现在”。
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I think the present moment is so underrated.
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我认为“现在”这个时刻是被严重低估了。
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It sounds so ordinary,
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它听起来如此平常,所以我们只花那么少时间
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and yet we spend so little time in the present moment
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来对待“现在”,但是这个词绝对不“平凡”。
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that it's anything but ordinary.
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There was a research paper that came out of Harvard, just recently,
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就在最近,哈佛有一个调查的结果显示,
我们的大脑(心灵)平均
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that said on average, our minds are lost in thought
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有将近47%的时间是迷失在各种思绪中。
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almost 47 percent of the time.
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百分之47。
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47 percent.
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At the same time, this sort of constant mind-wandering
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同时,这种持续的“大脑(心灵)徘徊”
也是导致人类不幸福的直接原因。
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is also a direct cause of unhappiness.
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Now we're not here for that long anyway,
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虽然不管怎样我们不会在此地待多长时间,
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but to spend almost half of our life lost in thought
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但耗费大半人生迷失在思考中
并因此可能变得非常不幸福,
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and potentially quite unhappy,
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I don't know, it just kind of seems tragic, actually,
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我不知道,这真的听起来太可悲了
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especially when there's something we can do about it,
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尤其是当我们能有所为,改变这个现状的时候,
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when there's a positive, practical, achievable,
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当有一种积极的、实际的、能做到、
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scientifically proven technique
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而且经过科学验证的技巧存在
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which allows our mind to be more healthy,
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它可以让我们的大脑变得更加健康,
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to be more mindful and less distracted.
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更加专注并且更少分神。
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And the beauty of it is that even though
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它的妙处在于
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it need only take about 10 minutes a day,
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这只需要每天10分钟,
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it impacts our entire life.
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它可以对我们的整个人生造成巨大的影响。
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But we need to know how to do it.
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但我们需要知道怎么做到。
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We need an exercise.
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我们需要一些练习。我们需要一个架构
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We need a framework to learn how to be more mindful.
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来学习如何变得专注。
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That's essentially what meditation is.
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这就是冥想的本质。
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It's familiarizing ourselves with the present moment.
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它使我们熟悉"现在"。
但我们也需要知道如何做到
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But we also need to know how to approach it in the right way
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用正确的方法来从中获得最多益处。
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to get the best from it.
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And that's what these are for, in case you've been wondering,
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而这就是冥想的作用,以防你们可能有点迷惑,
因为大多数人觉得
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because most people assume
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that meditation is all about stopping thoughts,
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冥想是关于停止思考,
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getting rid of emotions, somehow controlling the mind,
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摆脱感情,以某种方式控制大脑(心灵),
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but actually it's quite different from that.
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但实际上冥想不是这样的。
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It's more about stepping back,
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它更多的是后退一步,
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sort of seeing the thought clearly,
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看清自己的思绪,
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witnessing it coming and going, emotions coming and going
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看见思绪来来去去,看见感情来来去去
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without judgment, but with a relaxed, focused mind.
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不加辨别,但以一种放松而专注的状态。
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So for example, right now,
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打个比方,现在,
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if I focus too much on the balls,
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如果我太集中于这些球,那么我就无法
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then there's no way I can relax and talk to you at the same time.
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能够放松并同时与你们说话。
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Equally, if I relax too much talking to you,
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同样地,如果我太过于放松地跟你们说话,
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there's no way I can focus on the balls.
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那我将无法专注在球上。我将会把球掉到地上。
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I'm going to drop them.
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Now in life, and in meditation,
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而在生活里,在冥想中,有些时候
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there'll be times when the focus becomes a little bit too intense,
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专注变得有点过于紧张,
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and life starts to feel a bit like this.
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而生活开始变得有点像这样。
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It's a very uncomfortable way to live life,
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当你变得这样紧张,
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when you get this tight and stressed.
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你将活的非常难受。
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At other times, we might take our foot off the gas a little bit too much,
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在其他时候,我们或许会把脚放得离油门有点过远(过于放松),
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and things just become a sort of little bit like this.
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而这将变得像这样。
而在冥想中——(鼾声)——
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Of course in meditation --
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(Snores)
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we're going to end up falling asleep.
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我们最后就会睡着。
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So we're looking for a balance, a focused relaxation
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因此我们要寻找一个平衡点,一种专注的放松
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where we can allow thoughts to come and go
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在这种状态下我们能让思绪自由来去
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without all the usual involvement.
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远离尘世的烦扰。
现在,当我们学会专注通常会发生就是
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Now, what usually happens when we're learning to be mindful
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is that we get distracted by a thought.
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是我们被一个想法打扰。
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Let's say this is an anxious thought.
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比如说这是一个焦虑的思绪。
比如所以事情都一切顺利,然后我们发现了焦急的思绪,
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Everything's going fine, and we see the anxious thought.
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"Oh, I didn't realize I was worried about that."
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它就像:"哦,我居然没意识到我的烦恼"。
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You go back to it, repeat it.
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你关注它,并且重复它。“哦,我很担心。
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"Oh, I am worried.
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哦,我真的很担心。哇,有这么多的焦虑。”
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I really am worried. Wow, there's so much anxiety."
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And before we know it, right,
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和之前我们意识到它相比,对吧,
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we're anxious about feeling anxious.
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我们为焦虑的感觉而焦虑。
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(Laughter)
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You know, this is crazy.
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你知道,这很不正常。我们总是在想这些,
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We do this all the time, even on an everyday level.
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甚至在日常生活的状态下。
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If you think about the last time you had a wobbly tooth.
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如果你想想最后一次,我不知道,
你有一颗松动的牙。
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You know it's wobbly, and you know that it hurts.
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你知道它是一颗松动的牙,并且你知道它很痛。
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But what do you do every 20, 30 seconds?
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但你每20,30 秒就关注它一下吗?
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(Mumbling)
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(嘴里喃喃)真的很痛。我们加重了痛苦,对吧?
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It does hurt.
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And we reinforce the storyline, right?
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And we just keep telling ourselves, and we do it all the time.
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我们只不断告诉自己,
我们总是这样。只有学会
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And it's only in learning to watch the mind in this way
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以随其自然方式处理思维(心灵)
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that we can start to let go of those storylines and patterns of mind.
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学习让这些事情和思维模式来去自如。
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But when you sit down and you watch the mind in this way,
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但当你坐下来,以这种方式看思维(心灵),
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you might see many different patterns.
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您可能会看到许多不同的模式。
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You might find a mind that's really restless and --
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您可能会发现是真的不安分的心-
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the whole time.
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所有时刻。
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Don't be surprised if you feel a bit agitated in your body
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不要感到惊讶,如果你觉得你有点焦虑
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when you sit down to do nothing and your mind feels like that.
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当你坐下来什么也不做,感觉就像,你的头脑焦虑。
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You might find a mind that's very dull
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您可能会发现是很枯燥
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and boring, and it's just, almost mechanical,
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和无聊的头脑(心灵),它只是几乎机械重复,
08:12
it just seems it's as if you're getting up, going to work,
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这好像你
起床,去工作、 吃饭、 睡觉、 起床、 工作。
08:15
eat, sleep, get up, work.
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或者它可能只是一个微小挥之不去的思绪
08:18
Or it might just be that one little nagging thought
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08:20
that just goes round and round your mind.
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不停的在你头脑中转。
08:25
Well, whatever it is,
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嗯,无论它是什么,冥想提供了
08:27
meditation offers the opportunity, the potential to step back
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一个机会,提供了退一步的潜力
08:32
and to get a different perspective,
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获得看事物的不同角度,
08:35
to see that things aren't always as they appear.
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看到事情不总是它们外在表象的那样。
08:40
We can't change every little thing that happens to us in life,
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我们不能改变
每一件生活中、发生在我们身上小事
08:46
but we can change the way that we experience it.
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但我们可以改变我们感受它的方式。
08:49
That's the potential of meditation, of mindfulness.
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这就是冥想、专注力的潜力。
08:53
You don't have to burn any incense,
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你不需要烧香
08:55
and you definitely don't have to sit on the floor.
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你不一定要坐在地板上。
08:58
All you need to do is to take 10 minutes out a day
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您需要做的一切就是每天花10 分钟
思绪中退一步,熟悉自己所处的“现在”
09:02
to step back, to familiarize yourself with the present moment
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09:05
so that you get to experience a greater sense
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这样,你可以在生活里
体验更多的专注、 平静和清澈。
09:08
of focus, calm and clarity in your life.
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09:12
Thank you very much.
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非常感谢。(掌声)
09:13
(Applause)
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