All it takes is 10 mindful minutes | Andy Puddicombe | TED

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Translator: Joseph Geni Reviewer: Morton Bast
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Prevoditelj: Sanda L Recezent: Dunja Knežević
Živimo u nevjerojatno užurbanom svijetu.
Ritam života je često sulud, naši umovi su stalno zaokupljeni
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We live in an incredibly busy world.
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The pace of life is often frantic, our minds are always busy,
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i stalno nešto radimo.
Imajući to u vidu, želim da samo na trenutak razmislite
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and we're always doing something.
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So with that in mind, I'd like you just to take a moment
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kada ste si zadnji puta uzeli vremena da ne radite ništa?
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to think, when did you last take any time to do nothing?
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Samo 10 minuta, neometano?
A kada kažem ništa, zaista i mislim ništa.
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Just 10 minutes, undisturbed?
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Znači, bez e-pošte, slanja poruka, interneta,
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And when I say nothing, I do mean nothing.
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So that's no emailing, texting, no Internet,
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televizije, chata, hrane, čitanja,
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no TV, no chatting, no eating, no reading.
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čak niti prisjećanja na prošlost,
ili planiranja budućnosti.
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Not even sitting there reminiscing about the past
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Jednostavno, ništa.
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or planning for the future.
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Simply doing nothing.
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Vidim mnogo bezizražajnih lica.
(Smijeh)
Vjerojatno trebate otići dosta unatrag.
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I see a lot of very blank faces.
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I to je zaista nešto izvanredno, zar ne?
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(Laughter)
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You probably have to go a long way back.
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Govorimo o našem umu.
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And this is an extraordinary thing, right?
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Um, nešto najvrjednije i najdragocjenije što imamo,
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We're talking about our mind.
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The mind, our most valuable and precious resource,
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čime doživljavamo svaki pojedini trenutak svog života.
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through which we experience every single moment of our life.
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Na njega se oslanjamo
kako bismo bili sretni, zadovoljni, emocionalno stabilni kao pojedinci,
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The mind that we rely upon
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to be happy, content, emotionally stable as individuals,
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a u isto vrijeme ljubazni, promišljeni
i obzirni u svojim odnosima s drugima.
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and at the same time, to be kind and thoughtful
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and considerate in our relationships with others.
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To je isti onaj um o kojem ovisimo
kako bismo bili usredotočeni, kreativni, spontani
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This is the same mind that we depend upon
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to be focused, creative, spontaneous,
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i izrazili ono najbolje od sebe u svemu što radimo.
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and to perform at our very best in everything that we do.
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A ipak, ne posvećujemo vrijeme njegovanju uma.
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And yet, we don't take any time out to look after it.
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U stvari, više vremena posvećujemo brizi o svojim automobilima,
odjeći i frizuri, nego ...
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In fact, we spend more time looking after our cars,
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ok, možda ne o frizuri,
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our clothes and our hair than we --
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(Smijeh)
ali razumijete što želim reći.
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okay, maybe not our hair,
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I, naravno, to rezultira stresom.
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(Laughter)
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but you see where I'm going.
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Umom jure misli kao u perilici rublja,
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The result, of course, is that we get stressed.
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vrte se u krug, mnogo teških, konfuznih emocija
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You know, the mind whizzes away like a washing machine
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going round and round, lots of difficult, confusing emotions,
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i zaista ne znamo kako se nositi s tim.
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and we don't really know how to deal with that.
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I tužna činjenica je da smo toliko rastrojeni,
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And the sad fact is that we are so distracted
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da više nismo svjesni sadašnjeg svijeta u kojem živimo.
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that we're no longer present in the world in which we live.
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Propuštamo stvari koje su nam najvažnije,
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We miss out on the things that are most important to us,
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a najluđe u tome je što svatko samo pretpostavlja
da je to život i da samo treba tako nastaviti.
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and the crazy thing is that everybody just assumes,
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A tako, zapravo, ne treba biti.
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that's the way life is, so we've just kind of got to get on with it.
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Imao sam 11 godina kada sam otišao na svoj prvi sat meditacije.
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That's really not how it has to be.
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So I was about 11 when I went along to my first meditation class.
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Vjerujte mi, bilo je tu svih stereotipa koje možete zamisliti,
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And trust me, it had all the stereotypes that you can imagine,
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sjedenja na podu prekriženih nogu,
tamjana, biljnih čajeva, vegetarijanaca, sve što ide,
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the sitting cross-legged on the floor,
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ali moja mama je išla i mene je zanimalo pa sam pošao s njom.
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the incense, the herbal tea, the vegetarians, the whole deal,
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but my mom was going and I was intrigued, so I went along with her.
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Gledao sam i par kung fu filmova
i potajno se nadao da ću možda naučiti letjeti,
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I'd also seen a few kung fu movies,
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no bio sam tada vrlo mlad.
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and secretly I kind of thought I might be able to learn how to fly,
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Kao i ostali ljudi tamo, pretpostavljao sam
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but I was very young at the time.
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da je to samo aspirin za um.
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Now as I was there, I guess, like a lot of people,
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I assumed that it was just an aspirin for the mind.
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Pod stresom si, pa malo meditiraš.
Nisam mislio da bi to mogla biti neka vrsta preventive,
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You get stressed, you do some meditation.
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I hadn't really thought that it could be sort of preventative in nature,
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sve dok nisam navršio 20 godina i kada su mi se dogodile brojne stvari
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until I was about 20, when a number of things happened in my life
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u vrlo kratkom razdoblju,
zaista ozbiljne stvari koje su izokrenule moj život
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in quite quick succession,
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really serious things which just flipped my life upside down
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i iznenada sam bio preplavljen mislima
i teškim emocijama s kojima se nisam znao nositi.
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and all of a sudden I was inundated with thoughts,
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inundated with difficult emotions that I didn't know how to cope with.
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Svaki put kada bih gurnuo jednu dolje,
druga bi se ponovo pojavila.
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Every time I sort of pushed one down,
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Bilo je to zaista stresno razdoblje.
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another one would pop back up again.
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Svi se borimo sa stresom na razne načine.
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It was a really very stressful time.
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I guess we all deal with stress in different ways.
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Neki ljudi se zatrpaju poslom, zahvalni za odvlačenje pažnje.
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Some people will bury themselves in work, grateful for the distraction.
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Drugi se okreću prijateljima, obitelji, tražeći podršku.
Neki dohvate piće, neki lijekove.
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Others will turn to their friends, their family, looking for support.
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Some people hit the bottle, start taking medication.
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Moj način borbe s tim je bio da sam postao svećenik.
Ostavio sam studij, otišao na Himalaju,
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My own way of dealing with it was to become a monk.
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So I quit my degree, I headed off to the Himalayas,
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postao svećenik i počeo proučavati meditaciju.
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I became a monk, and I started studying meditation.
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Često me pitaju što sam naučio u tom razdoblju.
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People often ask me what I learned from that time.
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Očigledno, to je promijenilo stvari.
Iskreno, postati svećenik u celibatu znači i promijeniti mnogo toga.
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Well, obviously it changed things.
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Let's face it, becoming a celibate monk is going to change a number of things.
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Ali, bilo je i više od toga.
Naučilo me, dalo mi je veću zahvalnost
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But it was more than that.
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It taught me -- it gave me a greater appreciation,
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i razumijevanje sadašnjeg trenutka.
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an understanding for the present moment.
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Pod time mislim ne izgubiti se u mislima,
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By that I mean not being lost in thought,
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ne biti smeten,
ne biti preplavljen teškim emocijama,
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not being distracted,
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not being overwhelmed by difficult emotions,
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već, umjesto toga, naučiti kako biti ovdje i sada,
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but instead learning how to be in the here and now,
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kako biti svjestan, prisutan.
Mislim da je sadašnji trenutak jako potcijenjen.
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how to be mindful, how to be present.
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I think the present moment is so underrated.
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Zvuči tako obično,
a provodimo tako malo vremena u sadašnjem trenutku,
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It sounds so ordinary,
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and yet we spend so little time in the present moment
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koji je sve samo ne običan.
Nedavno istraživanje s Harvarda
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that it's anything but ordinary.
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There was a research paper that came out of Harvard, just recently,
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pokazuje da je naš um izgubljen u mislima
u prosjeku oko 47 posto ukupnog vremena.
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that said on average, our minds are lost in thought
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47 posto.
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almost 47 percent of the time.
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Istovremeno, ovo stalno vrludanje uma
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47 percent.
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izravan je uzrok nezadovoljstva.
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At the same time, this sort of constant mind-wandering
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Nismo dugo na ovome svijetu,
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is also a direct cause of unhappiness.
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Now we're not here for that long anyway,
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i provesti skoro pola svog života izgubljen u mislima
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but to spend almost half of our life lost in thought
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te u potencijalnom nezadovoljstvu,
ne znam, zapravo se čini tragično,
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and potentially quite unhappy,
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naročito ako postoji nešto što možemo učiniti,
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I don't know, it just kind of seems tragic, actually,
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especially when there's something we can do about it,
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kada postoji pozitivna, praktična, dostižna
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when there's a positive, practical, achievable,
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znanstveno dokazana tehnika,
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scientifically proven technique
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koja dozvoljava našem umu da bude zdraviji,
svjesniji i manje smeten.
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which allows our mind to be more healthy,
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to be more mindful and less distracted.
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Ljepota toga je da iako
je potrebno samo oko 10 minuta dnevno,
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And the beauty of it is that even though
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to utječe na naš cjelokupni život.
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it need only take about 10 minutes a day,
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it impacts our entire life.
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Ali treba znati kako to učiniti.
Potrebna nam je vježba,
okvir, kako bismo naučili biti svjesniji.
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But we need to know how to do it.
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05:28
We need an exercise.
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We need a framework to learn how to be more mindful.
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To je bit meditacije.
Ona nas zbližava sa sadašnjim trenutkom.
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That's essentially what meditation is.
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Također treba znati kako joj pravilno pristupiti
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It's familiarizing ourselves with the present moment.
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kako bismo dobili najviše.
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But we also need to know how to approach it in the right way
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Za to mi služi ovo, ako ste se pitali,
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to get the best from it.
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And that's what these are for, in case you've been wondering,
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jer mnogi ljudi pretpostavljaju
da je meditacija, zapravo, zaustavljanje misli,
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because most people assume
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riješiti se emocija, nekako držati um pod kontrolom,
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that meditation is all about stopping thoughts,
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getting rid of emotions, somehow controlling the mind,
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a u stvari, ona je nešto sasvim drugo.
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but actually it's quite different from that.
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Više se radi o jednom odmaku,
vidjeti jasno svoju misao,
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It's more about stepping back,
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osvjestiti da ona dolazi i odlazi, emocije dolaze i odlaze
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sort of seeing the thought clearly,
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bez prosuđivanja, već opuštenim, fokusiranim umom.
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witnessing it coming and going, emotions coming and going
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without judgment, but with a relaxed, focused mind.
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Na primjer, sada
ako se previše fokusiram na lopte,
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So for example, right now,
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onda mi je nemoguće opustiti se i istovremeno pričati s vama.
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if I focus too much on the balls,
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06:13
then there's no way I can relax and talk to you at the same time.
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Isto tako, ako se previše opustim dok pričam,
neću se moći fokusirati na lopte.
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Equally, if I relax too much talking to you,
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Ispustit ću ih.
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there's no way I can focus on the balls.
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U životu i u meditaciji,
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I'm going to drop them.
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bit će razdoblja kada fokus postane preintenzivan
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Now in life, and in meditation,
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there'll be times when the focus becomes a little bit too intense,
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i počinjemo osjećati život pomalo ovako.
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and life starts to feel a bit like this.
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Vrlo je neugodno tako živjeti,
kada ste tako stisnuti i pod stresom.
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It's a very uncomfortable way to live life,
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U drugim periodima, možemo se malo previše opustiti
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when you get this tight and stressed.
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At other times, we might take our foot off the gas a little bit too much,
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i stvari pomalo postanu ovakve.
Naravno, u meditaciji ...
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and things just become a sort of little bit like this.
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(Hrče)
na kraju ćemo zaspati.
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Of course in meditation --
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06:43
(Snores)
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Dakle, tražimo ravnotežu, fokusirano opuštanje,
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we're going to end up falling asleep.
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gdje možemo svojim mislima dopustiti da dođu i odu,
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So we're looking for a balance, a focused relaxation
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where we can allow thoughts to come and go
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bez uobičajenog uplitanja.
Obično kada učimo postići svjesnost,
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without all the usual involvement.
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Now, what usually happens when we're learning to be mindful
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događa se da nas misli ometaju.
Recimo da je ovo neka tjeskobna misao.
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is that we get distracted by a thought.
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Sve ide kako treba i kada uočimo tjeskobnu misao,
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Let's say this is an anxious thought.
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krene, "Oh, nisam znao da se brinem oko toga."
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Everything's going fine, and we see the anxious thought.
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Vratiš se, ponoviš to.
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"Oh, I didn't realize I was worried about that."
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"Oh, zabrinut sam.
Zaista sam zabrinut. Koliko samo tjeskobe."
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You go back to it, repeat it.
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"Oh, I am worried.
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I prije nego što osvijestimo,
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I really am worried. Wow, there's so much anxiety."
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tjeskobni smo jer se osjećamo tjeskobno.
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And before we know it, right,
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(Smijeh)
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we're anxious about feeling anxious.
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Znate, to je stvarno ludo.
Stalno to radimo, čak svakoga dana.
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(Laughter)
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You know, this is crazy.
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We do this all the time, even on an everyday level.
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Sjetite se zadnjeg puta kada ste imali klimav zub.
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If you think about the last time you had a wobbly tooth.
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Znate da se klima, znate da boli.
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You know it's wobbly, and you know that it hurts.
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I što radite svakih 20, 30 sekundi?
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But what do you do every 20, 30 seconds?
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(Mrmljajući)
Zaista boli.
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(Mumbling)
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I još pojačavamo cijelu priču, zar ne?
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It does hurt.
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Nastavljamo si to govoriti i to radimo cijelo vrijeme.
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And we reinforce the storyline, right?
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And we just keep telling ourselves, and we do it all the time.
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Samo putem učenja možemo promatrati um tako
da otpustimo takve priče i mentalne obrasce.
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And it's only in learning to watch the mind in this way
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that we can start to let go of those storylines and patterns of mind.
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Kada sjednete i ovako promatrate um,
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But when you sit down and you watch the mind in this way,
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možete uvidjeti mnoge različite obrasce.
Možete otkriti da je um zaista nemiran i ...
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you might see many different patterns.
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cijelo vrijeme.
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You might find a mind that's really restless and --
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Nemojte se iznenaditi ako se osjećate pomalo uznemireno u svom tijelu,
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the whole time.
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Don't be surprised if you feel a bit agitated in your body
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kada sjednete da ne radite ništa i vaš um se tako osjeća.
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when you sit down to do nothing and your mind feels like that.
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Možete otkriti um koji je vrlo tup
i dosadan, gotovo mehanički,
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You might find a mind that's very dull
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izgleda kao da se samo probudite, odete na posao, jedete,
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and boring, and it's just, almost mechanical,
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it just seems it's as if you're getting up, going to work,
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spavate, ustajete, radite.
Ili može biti ona jedna naporna, dosadna misao
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eat, sleep, get up, work.
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koja vam se samo vrti po glavi.
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Or it might just be that one little nagging thought
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that just goes round and round your mind.
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Bez obzira što je,
meditacija nudi mogućnost, potencijal da napravimo odmak
08:25
Well, whatever it is,
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08:27
meditation offers the opportunity, the potential to step back
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i sagledamo stvari iz drugačijeg kuta,
08:32
and to get a different perspective,
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kako bismo vidjeli da stvari nisu uvijek onakve kao što se čine.
08:35
to see that things aren't always as they appear.
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Ne možemo promijeniti svaku sitnicu koja nam se dogodi u životu,
08:40
We can't change every little thing that happens to us in life,
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ali možemo promijeniti način na koji je doživljavamo.
08:46
but we can change the way that we experience it.
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To je moć meditacije, svjesnosti.
08:49
That's the potential of meditation, of mindfulness.
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Ne morate zapaliti nikakav tamjan
i definitivno ne morate sjediti na podu.
08:53
You don't have to burn any incense,
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Sve što trebate je odvojiti 10 minuta svakog dana
08:55
and you definitely don't have to sit on the floor.
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08:58
All you need to do is to take 10 minutes out a day
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kako biste se odmakli, zbližili se sa sadašnjim trenutkom,
09:02
to step back, to familiarize yourself with the present moment
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kako biste osjetili
jači fokus, mir i jasnoću u svom životu.
09:05
so that you get to experience a greater sense
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09:08
of focus, calm and clarity in your life.
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Velika vam hvala.
(Pljesak)
09:12
Thank you very much.
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09:13
(Applause)
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