Hannah Brencher: Love letters to strangers

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I was one of the only kids in college who had a reason
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Jo era una dels pocs universitaris qui tenia una raó
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to go to the P.O. box at the end of the day,
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per anar a l'apartat de Correus al final del dia,
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and that was mainly because my mother has never believed
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i això era perquè la meva mare no hi ha cregut mai
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in email, in Facebook, in texting or cell phones in general.
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en correus electrònics, Facebook, SMS, ni en els mòbils en general.
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And so while other kids were BBM-ing their parents,
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Així que mentre altres xatejaven a la Blackberry amb els seus pares,
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I was literally waiting by the mailbox
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jo esperava literalment al costat de la bústia
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to get a letter from home to see how the weekend had gone,
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que arribés una carta de casa per saber com havia anat el cap de setmana,
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which was a little frustrating when Grandma was in the hospital,
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cosa que era una mica frustrant quan l'àvia estava a l'hospital,
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but I was just looking for some sort of scribble,
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però... jo buscava alguna mena de gargot,
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some unkempt cursive from my mother.
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la lletra descuidada de la meva mare.
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And so when I moved to New York City after college
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Quan em vaig traslladar a Nova York després de la universitat
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and got completely sucker-punched in the face by depression,
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i vaig caure en una profunda depressió,
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I did the only thing I could think of at the time.
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vaig fer l'única cosa en què podia pensar aquell moment.
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I wrote those same kinds of letters that my mother had written me
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Vaig escriure cartes com les que m'escrivia la meva mare
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for strangers, and tucked them all throughout the city,
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per a desconeguts, i vaig repartir-les per tota la ciutat,
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dozens and dozens of them. I left them everywhere,
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dotzenes i dotzenes de cartes. Les deixava a tot arreu,
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in cafes and in libraries, at the U.N., everywhere.
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en bars i biblioteques, a la ONU, a tot arreu.
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I blogged about those letters and the days
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Escrivia un bloc sobre aquestes cartes i sobre
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when they were necessary, and I posed
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quan eren necessàries, i vaig fer
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a kind of crazy promise to the Internet:
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una mena de promesa boja a l'Internet:
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that if you asked me for a hand-written letter,
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que si algú em demanava una carta manuscrita,
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I would write you one, no questions asked.
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jo li n'escriuria una, sense fer cap pregunta.
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Overnight, my inbox morphed into this harbor of heartbreak --
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De sobte, la meva bústia d'entrada es va transformar en un refugi per a desconsolats --
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a single mother in Sacramento, a girl being bullied
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una mare soltera de Sacramento, una noia que patia encalçament escolar
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in rural Kansas, all asking me, a 22-year-old girl
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a un poble de Kansas, tots demanant-me a mi, una noia de 22 anys
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who barely even knew her own coffee order,
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que amb prou feines sabia com li agradava el café,
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to write them a love letter and give them a reason
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que els escrigués una carta d'amor i els hi donés així una raó
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to wait by the mailbox.
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per a esperar al costat de la bústia.
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Well, today I fuel a global organization
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Bé, avui impulso una organització global
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that is fueled by those trips to the mailbox,
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que es veu alimentada per aquests viatges a la bústia,
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fueled by the ways in which we can harness social media
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per la manera en què podem utilitzar els mitjans socials
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like never before to write and mail strangers letters
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com mai abans per a escriure cartes i missatges a desconeguts
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when they need them most, but most of all,
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quan més ho necessitin, però per damunt de tot,
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fueled by crates of mail like this one, my trusty mail crate,
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alimentada per caixes de cartes com aquesta, la meva caixa fidel,
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filled with the scriptings of ordinary people,
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plena d'escrits de gent normal,
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strangers writing letters to other strangers not because
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desconeguts que escriuen cartes a altres desconeguts, no pas perquè
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they're ever going to meet and laugh over a cup of coffee,
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vagin a quedar per a riure prenent una tassa de cafè,
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but because they have found one another by way of letter-writing.
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sinó perquè s'han trobat l'un a l'altre escrivint cartes.
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But, you know, the thing that always gets me
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Però el que sempre m'atrapa
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about these letters is that most of them have been written
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d'aquestes cartes és que la majoria han estat escrites
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by people that have never known themselves loved on a piece of paper.
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per gent que mai habia rebut una carta d'amor en paper.
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They could not tell you about the ink of their own love letters.
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No podrien dir-vos res sobre la tinta de les seves pròpies cartes d'amor.
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They're the ones from my generation,
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Són els de la meva generació,
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the ones of us that have grown up into a world
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aquells de nosaltres que han crescut en un món
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where everything is paperless, and where some
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a on el paper ja no es fa servir per res, i a on algunes
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of our best conversations have happened upon a screen.
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de les nostres millors converses han estat a través d'una pantalla.
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We have learned to diary our pain onto Facebook,
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Hem après a expressar el nostre patiment a Facebook,
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and we speak swiftly in 140 characters or less.
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i parlem en frases de 140 caràcters o menys.
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But what if it's not about efficiency this time?
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Però què passa si aquest cop la cosa no va d'eficiència?
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I was on the subway yesterday with this mail crate,
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Ahir estava al metro amb la caixa de cartes,
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which is a conversation starter, let me tell you.
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que és una generadora de converses, haig de dir.
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If you ever need one, just carry one of these. (Laughter)
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Si necessiteu parlar, només l'heu de portar a sobre. (Riures)
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And a man just stared at me, and he was like,
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Un home s'em va quedar mirant, i era com,
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"Well, why don't you use the Internet?"
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"Bé, perquè no fas servir l'Internet?"
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And I thought, "Well, sir, I am not a strategist,
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I vaig pensar, "Bé, senyor, ni sóc estratega
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nor am I specialist. I am merely a storyteller."
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ni sóc especialista. Sóc simplement narradora".
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And so I could tell you about a woman
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Us podria explicar el cas d'una dona
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whose husband has just come home from Afghanistan,
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el marit de la qual acaba de tornar de l'Afganistan
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and she is having a hard time unearthing this thing called conversation,
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i li costa molt tornar a entaular allò que diem conversació,
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and so she tucks love letters throughout the house
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així que deixa cartes d'amor per tota la casa
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as a way to say, "Come back to me.
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com dient, "Torna a mi.
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Find me when you can."
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Troba'm quan puguis".
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Or a girl who decides that she is going to leave love letters
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O una noia que decideix repartir cartes d'amor
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around her campus in Dubuque, Iowa, only to find
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per tot el seu campus a Dubuque, Iowa, per veure al dia següent
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her efforts ripple-effected the next day when she walks out
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l'efecte onada resultat dels seus esforços
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onto the quad and finds love letters hanging
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en sortir al pati i trobar cartes d'amor penjades
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from the trees, tucked in the bushes and the benches.
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als arbres, repartides entre els matolls i els bancs.
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Or the man who decides that he is going to take his life,
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O l'home que decideix suicidar-se,
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uses Facebook as a way to say goodbye
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i utilitza Facebook per despedir-se
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to friends and family.
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d'amics i familiars.
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Well, tonight he sleeps safely with a stack of letters
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Doncs bé, aquesta nit dorm tranquil amb una pila de cartes
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just like this one tucked beneath his pillow,
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igual que aquesta sota el coixí,
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scripted by strangers who were there for him when.
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escrites per desconeguts que estaven allà quan calia.
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These are the kinds of stories that convinced me
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Aquest tipus d'històries em van convèncer
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that letter-writing will never again need to flip back her hair
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que escriure cartes mai més haurà d'apartarse el cabell
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and talk about efficiency, because she is an art form now,
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i parlar d'eficiència, perquè ara és una forma d'art,
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all the parts of her, the signing, the scripting, the mailing,
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totes les seves parts, la signatura, el cos, l'enviament,
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the doodles in the margins.
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els gargots als marges.
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The mere fact that somebody would even just sit down,
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El sol fet que algú s'assegui,
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pull out a piece of paper and think about someone
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agafi un troç de paper i pensi en algú
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the whole way through, with an intention that is so much
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amb una intenció que és molt més
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harder to unearth when the browser is up and the iPhone
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difícil d'exterioritzar quan tenim el navegador obert, l'iPhone sonant
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is pinging and we've got six conversations rolling in at once,
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i tenim sis converses alhora,
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that is an art form
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això és una forma d'art
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that does not fall down to the Goliath of "get faster,"
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que no cau davant el Goliat del "sigues més ràpid",
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no matter how many social networks we might join.
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tant se val a quantes xarxes socials estiguis inscrit.
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We still clutch close these letters to our chest,
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Encara apretem fort aquestes cartes contra el pit,
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to the words that speak louder than loud,
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les paraules que parlen fort i més fort,
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when we turn pages into palettes to say the things
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quan convertim les pàgines en paletes de pintor per dir les coses
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that we have needed to say,
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que necessitàvem dir,
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the words that we have needed to write, to sisters
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les paraules que hem necessitat escriure, a les germanes
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and brothers and even to strangers, for far too long.
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i germans, i fins i tot a desconeguts, des de ja fa molt de temps.
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Thank you. (Applause)
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Gràcies. (Aplaudiments)
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(Applause)
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(Aplaudiments)
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