Larry Smith: Why you will fail to have a great career

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Translator: Thu-Huong Ha Reviewer: Morton Bast
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譯者: Yu-Sheng Lin 審譯者: Chen-Han Hsiao
今天下午我想與各位談論的主題是
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I want to discuss with you this afternoon
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why you're going to fail to have a great career.
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為什麼你就不能有偉大的事業。(笑聲)
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(Laughter)
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I'm an economist.
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我是一名經濟學家。我負責讓人沮喪。
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I do dismal.
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End of the day, it's ready for dismal remarks.
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在一天的結束的時候,正適合發表讓人沮喪的評論。
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I only want to talk to those of you who want a great career.
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我只想跟你們之中的想要有偉大的事業的人談。
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I know some of you have already decided you want a good career.
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我知道你們之中的一些人已經決定
想要有一個偉大的事業。
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You're going to fail, too.
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當然你也會失敗 — — (笑聲) — —
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(Laughter)
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Because -- goodness, you're all cheery about failing.
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因為 — — 我的天啊! 你們已經對失敗這麼開心了。
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(Laughter)
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從加拿大來的,沒錯吧。(笑聲)
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Canadian group, undoubtedly.
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00:46
(Laughter)
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Those trying to have good careers are going to fail,
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那些想要有好的事業都會失敗,
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because, really, good jobs are now disappearing.
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因為,實際上,好的工作機會正在逐漸消失。
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There are great jobs and great careers,
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有一些很好的就業機會和偉大的事業,
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and then there are the high-workload,
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然後還有另一些是高工作量、 高壓力,
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high-stress, bloodsucking, soul-destroying kinds of jobs,
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吸血的,毀滅靈魂的工作,
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and practically nothing in-between.
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兩者之間幾乎不存在其他類型的了。
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So people looking for good jobs are going to fail.
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所以找好工作的人都會失敗。
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I want to talk about those looking for great jobs, great careers,
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我要談一談那些尋找偉大的工作,偉大的職業的
之所以要找這樣的工作,還有為什麼你會失敗。
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and why you're going to fail.
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First reason is that no matter how many times people tell you,
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第一個原因是,無論別人告訴你多少次
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"If you want a great career, you have to pursue your passion,
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"如果您想要偉大的事業,你必須追求你的熱情,
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you have to pursue your dreams, you have to pursue
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你要追尋自己的夢想,你要追求
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the greatest fascination in your life,"
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在你一生中最大的夢想"
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you hear it again and again, and then you decide not to do it.
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你一再的聽到這樣的說法,然後你決定
不做這樣的事。不管你下載了多少次
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It doesn't matter how many times you download
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史蒂芬-賈伯斯 的史丹福大學畢業典禮演講,
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Steven J.'s Stanford commencement address,
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you still look at it and decide not to do it.
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您仍然會看著它,然後決定不去這樣做。
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I'm not quite sure why you decide not to do it.
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我並不太確定為什麼你決定不去這樣做。
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You're too lazy to do it. It's too hard.
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你太懶了而不想做。或是這件事太難了。
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You're afraid if you look for your passion and don't find it,
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你會擔心如果你去追尋你的熱情,而沒有找到它
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you'll feel like you're an idiot, so then you make excuses
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你會覺得你是白癡,於是你找藉口
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about why you're not going to look for your passion.
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來說明為何你不去追尋你的熱情。
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They are excuses, ladies and gentlemen.
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這些都是藉口,女士們,先生們。
我們會談過一整串長長的清單,你的創造力,
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We're going to go through a whole long list --
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your creativity in thinking of excuses not to do what you really need to do
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還有思考力,去想出藉口不去做你真的
該做的事情,去成就你想要的偉大事業。
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if you want to have a great career.
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So, for example, one of your great excuses is:
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比方說,你偉大的藉口之一是,
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(Sigh)
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"嗯,偉大的事業,對大多數人來說,實際上的確都是
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"Well, great careers are really and truly, for most people,
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just a matter of luck.
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只是運氣好,所以我打算站在旁邊看,
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So I'm going to stand around, I'm going to try to be lucky,
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我要試著變得幸運,而且如果我是幸運的
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and if I'm lucky, I'll have a great career.
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我就會有偉大的事業。如果不幸運,我還是有一個好的職業。"
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If not, I'll have a good career."
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But a good career is an impossibility, so that's not going to work.
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但好的職業是不可能的,所以這樣是行不通的。
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Then, your other excuse is,
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然後你的另一個藉口是,"是的,有些特別的人
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"Yes, there are special people who pursue their passions,
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能夠追求他們的熱情,但是這些人是天才。
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but they are geniuses.
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They are Steven J.
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他們是 史蒂夫-賈伯斯,我並不是天才。
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I'm not a genius.
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When I was five, I thought I was a genius,
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當我五歲的時候,我以為我是個天才,
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but my professors have beaten that idea out of my head long since."
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但是我的指導教授已經把這樣的想法
趕出我的腦袋了,從那次... "(笑聲)對吧?
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(Laughter)
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"And now I know I am completely competent."
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"如今我知道我只是稱職的員工。"
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Now, you see, if this was 1950,
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現在,你看,如果這是 1950 年,
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being completely competent --
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一個稱職的員工
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that would have given you a great career.
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就可以算是帶給你一個偉大的事業。
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But guess what?
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但你猜怎麼著?現在已經快 2012了,若你對外說:
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This is almost 2012, and saying to the world,
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"我是個完全稱職的員工"
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"I am totally, completely competent,"
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is damning yourself with the faintest of praise.
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就好像用這種微弱的讚美來咒罵你自己一般
然後,當然,另一個藉口:
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And then, of course, another excuse:
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"Well, I would do this, I would do this, but, but --
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"嗯,我想這樣做,我想這樣做,但是,但是,
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well, after all, I'm not weird.
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嗯,畢竟,我並不奇怪。
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Everybody knows that people who pursue their passions
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大家都知道,追求他們的激情的那些人
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are somewhat obsessive.
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是有點偏執。有點奇怪的吧?對吧? 對吧? 是吧?
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A little strange.
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Hmm? Hmm? Okay?
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You know, a fine line between madness and genius.
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你知道,瘋狂與天才之間的微小差別。
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"I'm not weird. I've read Steven J.'s biography.
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我並不奇怪。我讀過 史蒂夫-賈伯斯 的傳記。
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Oh my goodness -- I'm not that person. I am nice.
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我的老天。我不是那樣的人。我是個好人。
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I am normal.
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我是正常的。我是個 正常的好人,
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I'm a nice, normal person, and nice, normal people --
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而正常的好人
是沒有熱情的。
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don't have passion."
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(Laughter)
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"Ah, but I still want a great career.
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啊。但我仍想要有偉大的事業。
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I'm not prepared to pursue my passion,
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我不打算追求我的熱情,所以我知道
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so I know what I'm going to do,
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我該要做什麼,因為我有,我有一種解決方案,
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because I have a solution.
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I have a strategy.
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我有一種戰略。
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It's the one Mommy and Daddy told me about.
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它是一個我媽媽和爸爸告訴過我的
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Mommy and Daddy told me that if I worked hard,
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媽媽和爸爸告訴我,如果我努力工作,
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I'd have a good career.
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我會有良好的職業。所以,如果你努力工作
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So, if you work hard and have a good career,
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有良好的職業,如果你工作真的,真的,真的很努力,
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if you work really, really, really hard,
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you'll have a great career.
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你就會有偉大的事業。這不就是像
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Doesn't that, like, mathematically make sense?"
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數學一樣的合理嗎?"
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Hmm. Not.
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呃...。 錯。(笑聲)
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But you've managed to talk yourself into that.
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但你已經設法說服自己去相信。
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You know what? Here's a little secret:
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你知道嗎?這裡有一個小秘密。
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You want to work? You want to work really, really, really hard?
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您想要工作嗎?您真的,真的,想要很認真地工作嗎?
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You know what? You'll succeed.
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你知道嗎?你將會成功。這個世界會給你
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The world will give you the opportunity
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一個機會去真的,真的,真的,真的很認真地工作,
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to work really, really, really, really hard.
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But, are you so sure
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但是你真的相信, 這樣就會帶給你
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that that's going to give you a great career,
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一個偉大的職業生涯嗎? 當所有的證據都是指向相反的結論?
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when all the evidence is to the contrary?
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So let's deal with those of you who are trying to find your passion.
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所以讓我們假定,讓我們來看看你們這些
正在尋找你的熱情的人。
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You actually understand that you really had better do it,
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你真的理解你是真的想要這樣做,
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never mind the excuses.
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不去管那些藉口。你會試著去尋找你的熱情,
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You're trying to find your passion --
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(Sigh)
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and you're so happy.
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而你也高興如此做。
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You found something you're interested in.
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你發現一些你感興趣的東西。
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"I have an interest! I have an interest!"
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我有興趣 !我有興趣 !你告訴我。
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You tell me.
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You say, "I have an interest!" I say, "That's wonderful!
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你說,"我有興趣 !"我說,"這太棒了 !
你打算告訴我什麼呢? 那你 — —"
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And what are you trying to tell me?"
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"Well, I have an interest."
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"嗯,我有興趣。"
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I say, "Do you have passion?"
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我說,"你對這有熱情嗎?"
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"I have an interest," you say.
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你說:"我有興趣,"。
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"Your interest is compared to what?"
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你的興趣, 跟什麼來相比呢?
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"Well, I'm interested in this."
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"我是對此有興趣。"
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"And what about the rest of humanity's activities?"
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那關於其餘的人類的活動呢?
"我對那些沒有興趣。"
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"I'm not interested in them."
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"You've looked at them all, have you?"
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你有看過那些全部了吧,你有嗎?
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"No. Not exactly."
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"沒有,不是這樣的。"
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Passion is your greatest love.
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熱情是你的最愛。
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Passion is the thing
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熱情是能夠幫你建立
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that will help you create the highest expression of your talent.
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你的天份的最高表現。
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Passion, interest -- it's not the same thing.
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熱情、 興趣 — — 這兩個不是同一碼事。
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Are you really going to go to your sweetie and say,
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你會跑去跟你心愛的人說
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"Marry me! You're interesting."
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"嫁給我吧 !我對你有興趣。"(笑聲)
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(Laughter)
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Won't happen.
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這不會成功的。這不會成功的,你將會孤獨地死去的。(笑聲)
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Won't happen, and you will die alone.
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(Laughter)
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What you want,
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你想要什麼,你想要什麼,你想要什麼,
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what you want, what you want,
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就是熱情。它超越了興趣。
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is passion.
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It is beyond interest.
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You need 20 interests, and then one of them,
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您可以有 20 種興趣,然後是其中之一,
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one of them might grab you,
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其中之一可能會抓住你,其中之一可能會讓你投入
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one of them might engage you more than anything else,
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超過其他的任何事情, 然後你才可能算是找到
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and then you may have found your greatest love,
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你最愛的,比較過之後,都超過了所有其他
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in comparison to all the other things that interest you,
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你感興趣的事情,這就是所謂的熱情。
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and that's what passion is.
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I have a friend, proposed to his sweetie.
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我有一個朋友,向他的愛人求婚。
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He was an economically rational person.
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他是一個經濟上很理性的人。
他跟他的愛人說,"讓我們結婚吧。
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He said to his sweetie, "Let us marry.
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讓我們合併我們的利益吧。"
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Let us merge our interests."
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06:35
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
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Yes, he did.
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對啦, 他最好是這樣說.
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"I love you truly," he said. "I love you deeply.
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"我真的愛你,"他說。"我愛你如此的深。我愛你
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I love you more than any other woman I've ever encountered.
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超過了我遇過的任何其他女人。
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I love you more than Mary, Jane, Susie, Penelope,
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我愛你超過了 瑪麗、 珍、 蘇茜、 潘娜洛普、
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Ingrid, Gertrude, Gretel --
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茵格麗、格特魯德、格萊特 — —
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I was on a German exchange program then.
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那時我正在德國當交換學生。"(笑聲)
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I love you more than --"
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"我愛你超過了 — —"
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All right.
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好吧!她離開了房間,在他列舉著
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She left the room
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halfway through his enumeration of his love for her.
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他對她的愛的時候。
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After he got over his surprise at being, you know, turned down,
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你知道嗎,當他從令他吃驚的求婚被拒絕中清醒過來,
他下了一個結論,這算是死裡逃生
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he concluded he'd had a narrow escape
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from marrying an irrational person.
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差點跟一個不理性的人結婚了,
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Although, he did make a note to himself that the next time he proposed,
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雖然他也注意到要記得,自己下一次
求婚的時候,也許不需要列舉
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it was perhaps not necessary
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to enumerate all of the women he had auditioned for the part.
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他曾經面試過的那些女人的那部分。(笑聲)
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(Laughter)
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07:31
But the point stands.
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但是這個論點是對的。你必須尋找替代方案
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You must look for alternatives so that you find your destiny,
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這樣,你才能發現你的命運中注定的,
或者你會害怕聽到 "命運" 這個詞嗎?
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or are you afraid of the word "destiny"?
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Does the word "destiny" scare you?
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"命運"這個詞會嚇到你嗎?
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That's what we're talking about.
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這就是我們在談的,如果你找不到
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And if you don't find the highest expression of your talent,
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能展現你才華的最高境界的事情,而屈就於
07:47
if you settle for "interesting," what the hell ever that means,
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"有興趣的",不管這個代表什麼意思
07:50
do you know what will happen at the end of your long life?
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你知道當你漫長一生結束時將發生什麼?
07:53
Your friends and family will be gathered in the cemetery,
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您的朋友和家人將聚集在墓地
07:56
and there beside your gravesite will be a tombstone,
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在你墳墓旁會有一塊墓碑,
在墓碑上面刻的會是這樣的:
08:00
and inscribed on that tombstone
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08:01
it will say, "Here lies a distinguished engineer,
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"這裡埋的是發明魔鬼氈的工程師。"
08:05
who invented Velcro."
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但是這個墓碑上應該刻的內容
08:10
But what that tombstone should have said,
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08:14
in an alternative lifetime,
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如果在不同方式度過的一生,
08:17
what it should have said if it was your highest expression of talent,
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墓碑上應該科的是關於你的天分的最高發揮
比方說是 "這裡埋的是 諾貝爾物理獎得主,
08:21
was, "Here lies the last Nobel Laureate in Physics,
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08:26
who formulated the Grand Unified Field Theory
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他建立了大統一場論
08:29
and demonstrated the practicality of warp drive."
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並且展示了曲速飛行 (科幻影集中星際航行的方式) 的實際可能性。
08:33
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
08:35
Velcro, indeed!
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魔鬼氈,的確。(笑聲)
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(Laughter)
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一個會是偉大的事業。
08:40
One was a great career.
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08:43
One was a missed opportunity.
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另一個則是失去了一個機會。
08:47
But then, there are some of you who,
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但是,你們之中的一些人
儘管有各式各樣的藉口,你會發現,
08:50
in spite of all these excuses, you will find,
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08:53
you will find your passion.
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你會發現你的熱情,
08:56
And you'll still fail.
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而你仍會失敗。
09:00
You're going to fail, because --
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你會失敗,因為,
因為你不會去做,
09:04
because you're not going to do it,
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09:06
because you will have invented a new excuse,
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因為你會發明新的藉口,
09:10
any excuse to fail to take action,
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任何可以不去做的藉口,而這種藉口
09:14
and this excuse, I've heard so many times:
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我已經聽了很多次。
09:18
"Yes, I would pursue a great career,
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"是的,我原本想追求偉大的事業,但我認為
09:25
but, I value human relationships --
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人際關係比個人成就更有價值
09:32
(Laughter)
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more than accomplishment.
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09:35
I want to be a great friend.
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我想要當個好朋友。我想要當個好的配偶。
09:37
I want to be a great spouse.
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09:40
I want to be a great parent,
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我想成為一個好的家長,我不打算犧牲這些
09:41
and I will not sacrifice them
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來換取偉大的成就。"
09:44
on the altar of great accomplishment."
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(笑聲)
09:48
(Laughter)
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09:49
What do you want me to say?
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你要我說什麼?
09:51
Now, do you really want me to say now, tell you,
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現在,你真的要我告訴你,
09:54
"Really, I swear I don't kick children."
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"說真的,我發誓我不會踢小孩。"(笑聲)
09:56
(Laughter)
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嗯?看看你已經給自己設下的世界觀。
09:59
Look at the worldview you've given yourself.
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你是個英雄,無論如何,就算我如此微妙的暗示說
10:02
You're a hero no matter what.
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10:05
And I, by suggesting ever so delicately
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你希望有偉大的事業的話,
10:08
that you might want a great career, must hate children.
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你必須討厭小孩。我不討厭小孩。我不會踢他們。
10:11
I don't hate children. I don't kick them.
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10:13
Yes, there was a little kid wandering through this building
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是的,曾經有一個小孩遊蕩通過這座大樓
10:16
when I came here, and no, I didn't kick him.
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當我來到這裡,噢,沒有,我沒有踢他。(笑聲)
10:18
(Laughter)
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10:20
Course, I had to tell him the building was for adults only,
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當然,我必須告訴他,這座大樓只有大人能進來
10:23
and to get out.
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你必須離開。
他咕嚕了一些跟媽媽有關的話
10:25
He mumbled something about his mother,
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10:26
and I told him she'd probably find him outside anyway.
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然後我告訴他,他媽媽也許會在外面找到他。
10:30
Last time I saw him, he was on the stairs crying.
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上次我見到他,他正在樓梯上哭。(笑聲)
10:33
(Laughter)
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10:34
What a wimp.
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真是很軟弱啊。(笑聲)
10:35
(Laughter)
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10:36
But what do you mean? That's what you expect me to say.
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但你是什麼意思呢?這就是你希望我說的。
10:39
Do you really think it's appropriate
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你真的認為,你真的認為這樣做是適當的?
10:41
that you should actually take children and use them as a shield?
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你應該實際上把
兒童當作擋箭牌嗎?
10:47
You know what will happen someday,
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你知道總有一天,會發生一些事
你,你這個理想的父母,你呢?
10:50
you ideal parent, you?
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有一天小孩會來找你,說,
10:54
The kid will come to you someday and say,
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10:57
"I know what I want to be.
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"我知道我想要變成什麼樣的人。
10:59
I know what I'm going to do with my life."
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我知道我要怎樣的生活。
11:01
You are so happy.
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你將會是那麼快樂。這是那種親子對話
11:02
It's the conversation a parent wants to hear,
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父母想要聽到的, 因為你孩子的數學很好
11:05
because your kid's good in math,
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11:06
and you know you're going to like what comes next.
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而且你知道,你將會喜歡接下來的
11:09
Says your kid,
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你的孩子說,"我已經決定
11:11
"I have decided I want to be a magician.
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我想要當一個魔術師。
11:14
I want to perform magic tricks on the stage."
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我想要在舞臺上表演魔術。"
(笑聲)
11:19
(Laughter)
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11:20
And what do you say?
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那你會說什麼呢?
11:23
You say, you say,
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你說,你說,
11:25
"That's risky, kid.
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"嗯......這有點不保險啊,孩子。
11:29
Might fail, kid. Don't make a lot of money at that, kid.
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可能會失敗啊,孩子。這賺不了錢的,孩子,
11:31
I don't know, kid, you should think about that again, kid.
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你知道的,我不知道耶,孩子,
您應該再考慮考慮,孩子,
11:34
You're so good at math, why don't you --"
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你是那麼擅長數學,你為什麼不 — —"
11:36
The kid interrupts you and says,
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這時候孩子打斷了你,並說,
"但這是我的夢想。我一直夢想要做這個。"
11:38
"But it is my dream. It is my dream to do this."
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11:42
And what are you going to say?
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那你接著要說什麼?
11:44
You know what you're going to say?
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你知道你要說的嗎?
"孩子啊。我也有過夢想,但是 — — 但。"
11:46
"Look kid. I had a dream once, too, but --
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11:50
But --"
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11:51
So how are you going to finish the sentence with your "but"?
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你打算如何講完這句話呢?
11:54
"But. I had a dream too, once, kid, but I was afraid to pursue it."
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"...但是。我也曾有過一個夢想,但我不敢去追求它。"
12:00
Or are you going to tell him this:
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或者,你會這樣跟他說嗎?
"我曾有一個夢想,孩子。
12:03
"I had a dream once, kid.
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但後來你出生了...。(笑聲)
12:07
But then, you were born."
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12:08
(Laughter)
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12:11
(Applause)
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(笑聲)(掌聲)
12:13
Do you really want to use your family,
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你,真的要用你的家人,
12:18
do you really ever want to look at your spouse and your kid,
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你真的想要看著你的配偶
看著你的小孩,就好像他們是你的獄卒那樣?
12:23
and see your jailers?
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12:26
There was something you could have said to your kid,
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也許有一些你可以說的,當你的小孩
12:30
when he or she said, "I have a dream."
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跟你說,"我有一個夢想。" 的時候
12:34
You could have said --
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你可以,看著孩子的臉,說:
12:35
looked the kid in the face and said,
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"去努力爭取吧,孩子,
12:40
"Go for it, kid!
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就像我曾經做過的那樣"。
12:43
Just like I did."
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12:46
But you won't be able to say that,
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但你沒辦法這樣說,
12:49
because you didn't.
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因為你並沒有做過。所以你不能那樣說。(笑聲)
12:50
So you can't.
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12:52
(Laughter)
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所以,父母的罪過
12:57
And so the sins of the parents
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會再次造訪無辜的孩子們.
13:00
are visited on the poor children.
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13:04
Why will you seek refuge in human relationships
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你為什麼會拿人際關係來當擋箭牌
13:09
as your excuse not to find and pursue your passion?
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作為你不去找尋與追求熱情的藉口?
你知道為什麼。
13:16
You know why.
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在你的心中,你知道為什麼,
13:18
In your heart of hearts, you know why,
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13:20
and I'm being deadly serious.
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而我是非常認真的。
13:23
You know why you would get all warm and fuzzy
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你知道為什麼你會感到溫暖和舒適
13:25
and wrap yourself up in human relationships.
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把自己包在人際關係裡面。
這是因為你想要 — —
13:29
It is because you are --
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13:32
you know what you are.
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你知道你想要做什麼。
13:34
You're afraid to pursue your passion.
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你害怕追求你的熱情。
13:38
You're afraid to look ridiculous.
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你害怕被別人取笑
13:40
You're afraid to try.
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你不敢嘗試。你害怕你可能會失敗。
13:41
You're afraid you may fail.
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很好的朋友,偉大的配偶,偉大的父母,偉大的事業。
13:47
Great friend, great spouse, great parent, great career.
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這不是一個整體嗎?這不就是你這個人嗎?
13:54
Is that not a package? Is that not who you are?
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13:58
How can you be one without the other?
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你怎麼能只選擇其中之一而放棄其他的?
14:01
But you're afraid.
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但你害怕。
14:04
And that's why you're not going to have a great career.
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這就是為什麼你不會有偉大的事業,除非 — —
14:11
Unless --
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除非,這是所有英語單詞中最令人回味的 — —
14:13
"unless," that most evocative of all English words --
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14:19
"unless."
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除非。
但這個 除非 還附加在
14:21
But the "unless" word is also attached
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14:25
to that other, most terrifying phrase,
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其他的,最可怕的短語,
14:30
"If only I had ..."
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"如果我那時候有......"
14:33
"If only I had ..."
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"如果我那時候有......"
14:36
If you ever have that thought ricocheting in your brain,
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如果您的腦袋裡曾經有過這些念頭衝撞著
14:41
it will hurt a lot.
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這會很痛苦的
14:45
So, those are the many reasons
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因此,有很多原因
14:47
why you are going to fail
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解釋為什麼你會失敗
14:49
to have a great career.
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無法成就偉大的事業,
除非......
14:53
Unless --
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除非。
14:58
Unless.
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15:01
Thank you.
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謝謝。(掌聲)
15:03
(Applause)
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