Thoughts on humanity, fame and love | Shah Rukh Khan | TED

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Namaskar.
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I'm a movie star, I'm 51 years of age,
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and I don't use Botox as yet.
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(Laughter)
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So I'm clean, but I do behave like you saw like a 21-year-old in my movies.
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Yeah, I do that.
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I sell dreams, and I peddle love to millions of people back home in India
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who assume that I'm the best lover in the world.
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(Laughter)
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If you don't tell anyone, I'm going to tell you I'm not,
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but I never let that assumption go away.
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(Laughter)
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I've also been made to understand
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there are lots of you here who haven't seen my work,
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and I feel really sad for you.
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(Laughter)
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(Applause)
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That doesn't take away from the fact that I'm completely self-obsessed,
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as a movie star should be.
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(Laughter)
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That's when my friends, Chris and Juliet called me here
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to speak about the future "you."
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Naturally, it follows I'm going to speak about the present me.
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(Laughter)
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Because I truly believe that humanity is a lot like me.
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(Laughter)
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It is. It is.
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It's an aging movie star,
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grappling with all the newness around itself,
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wondering whether it got it right in the first place,
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and still trying to find a way
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to keep on shining regardless.
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I was born in a refugee colony in the capital city of India, New Delhi.
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And my father was a freedom fighter.
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My mother was, well, just a fighter like mothers are.
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And much like the original homo sapiens,
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we struggled to survive.
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When I was in my early 20s,
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I lost both my parents,
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which I must admit seems a bit careless of me now,
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but --
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(Laughter)
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I do remember the night my father died,
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and I remember the driver of a neighbor who was driving us to the hospital.
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He mumbled something about "dead people don't tip so well"
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and walked away into the dark.
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And I was only 14 then,
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and I put my father's dead body in the back seat of the car,
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and my mother besides me,
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I started driving back from the hospital to the house.
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And in the middle of her quiet crying, my mother looked at me and she said,
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"Son, when did you learn to drive?"
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And I thought about it and realized, and I said to my mom,
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"Just now, Mom."
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(Laughter)
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So from that night onwards,
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much akin to humanity in its adolescence,
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I learned the crude tools of survival.
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And the framework of life was very, very simple then, to be honest.
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You know, you just ate what you got
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and did whatever you were told to do.
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I thought celiac was a vegetable,
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and vegan, of course, was Mr. Spock's lost comrade in "Star Trek."
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(Laughter)
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You married the first girl that you dated,
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and you were a techie if you could fix the carburetor in your car.
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I really thought that gay was a sophisticated English word for happy.
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And Lesbian, of course, was the capital of Portugal, as you all know.
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(Laughter)
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Where was I?
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We relied on systems
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created through the toil and sacrifice of generations before
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to protect us,
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and we felt that governments actually worked for our betterment.
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Science was simple and logical,
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Apple was still then just a fruit
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owned by Eve first and then Newton,
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not by Steve Jobs, until then.
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And "Eureka!" was what you screamed
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when you wanted to run naked on the streets.
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You went wherever life took you for work,
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and people were mostly welcoming of you.
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Migration was a term then
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still reserved for Siberian cranes, not human beings.
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Most importantly, you were who you were
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and you said what you thought.
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Then in my late 20s,
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I shifted to the sprawling metropolis of Mumbai,
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and my framework,
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like the newly industrialized aspirational humanity,
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began to alter.
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In the urban rush for a new, more embellished survival,
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things started to look a little different.
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I met people who had descended from all over the world,
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faces, races, genders, money-lenders.
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Definitions became more and more fluid.
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Work began to define you at that time
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in an overwhelmingly equalizing manner,
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and all the systems started to feel less reliable to me,
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almost too thick to hold on
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to the diversity of mankind
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and the human need to progress and grow.
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Ideas were flowing with more freedom and speed.
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And I experienced the miracle of human innovation and cooperation,
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and my own creativity,
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when supported by the resourcefulness of this collective endeavor,
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catapulted me into superstardom.
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I started to feel that I had arrived,
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and generally, by the time I was 40, I was really, really flying.
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I was all over the place.
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You know? I'd done 50 films by then
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and 200 songs,
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and I'd been knighted by the Malaysians.
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I had been given the highest civil honor by the French government,
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the title of which for the life of me I can't pronounce even until now.
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(Laughter)
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I'm sorry, France, and thank you, France, for doing that.
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But much bigger than that, I got to meet Angelina Jolie --
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(Laughter)
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for two and a half seconds.
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(Laughter)
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And I'm sure she also remembers that encounter somewhere.
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OK, maybe not.
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And I sat next to Hannah Montana on a round dinner table
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with her back towards me most of the time.
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Like I said, I was flying, from Miley to Jolie,
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and humanity was soaring with me.
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We were both pretty much flying off the handle, actually.
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And then you all know what happened.
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The internet happened.
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I was in my late 40s,
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and I started tweeting like a canary in a birdcage
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and assuming that, you know, people who peered into my world
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would admire it
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for the miracle I believed it to be.
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But something else awaited me and humanity.
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You know, we had expected an expansion of ideas and dreams
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with the enhanced connectivity of the world.
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We had not bargained for the village-like enclosure of thought,
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of judgment, of definition
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that flowed from the same place
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that freedom and revolution was taking place in.
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Everything I said took a new meaning.
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Everything I did -- good, bad, ugly --
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was there for the world to comment upon and judge.
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As a matter of fact, everything I didn't say or do also
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met with the same fate.
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Four years ago,
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my lovely wife Gauri and me decided to have a third child.
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It was claimed on the net
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that he was the love child
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of our first child
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who was 15 years old.
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Apparently, he had sown his wild oats with a girl
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while driving her car in Romania.
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And yeah, there was a fake video to go with it.
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And we were so disturbed as a family.
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My son, who is 19 now,
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even now when you say "hello" to him,
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he just turns around and says,
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"But bro, I didn't even have a European driving license."
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(Laughter)
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Yeah.
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In this new world,
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slowly, reality became virtual and virtual became real,
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and I started to feel
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that I could not be who I wanted to be or say what I actually thought,
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and humanity at this time
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completely identified with me.
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I think both of us were going through our midlife crisis,
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and humanity, like me, was becoming an overexposed prima donna.
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I started to sell everything,
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from hair oil to diesel generators.
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Humanity was buying everything
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from crude oil to nuclear reactors.
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You know, I even tried to get into a skintight superhero suit
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to reinvent myself.
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I must admit I failed miserably.
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And just an aside I want to say on behalf of all the Batmen, Spider-Men
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and Supermen of the world,
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you have to commend them,
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because it really hurts in the crotch, that superhero suit.
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(Laughter)
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Yeah, I'm being honest. I need to tell you this here.
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Really.
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And accidentally, I happened to even invent a new dance form
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which I didn't realize, and it became a rage.
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So if it's all right,
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and you've seen a bit of me, so I'm quite shameless, I'll show you.
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It was called the Lungi dance.
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So if it's all right, I'll just show you. I'm talented otherwise.
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(Cheers)
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So it went something like this.
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Lungi dance. Lungi dance. Lungi dance. Lungi dance.
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Lungi dance. Lungi dance. Lungi dance. Lungi dance.
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Lungi dance. Lungi dance. Lungi dance. Lungi.
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That's it. It became a rage.
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(Cheers)
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It really did.
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Like you notice, nobody could make any sense of what was happening except me,
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and I didn't give a damn, really,
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because the whole world, and whole humanity,
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seemed as confused and lost as I was.
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I didn't give up then.
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I even tried to reconstruct my identity on the social media
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like everyone else does.
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I thought if I put on philosophical tweets out there
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people will think I'm with it,
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but some of the responses I got from those tweets
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were extremely confusing acronyms which I didn't understand. You know?
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ROFL, LOL.
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"Adidas," somebody wrote back to one of my more thought-provoking tweets
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and I was wondering why would you name a sneaker,
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I mean, why would you write back the name of a sneaker to me?
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And I asked my 16-year-old daughter, and she enlightened me.
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"Adidas" now means "All day I dream about sex."
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(Laughter)
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Really.
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I didn't know if you know that.
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So I wrote back, "WTF" in bold to Mr. Adidas,
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thanking secretly that some acronyms and things won't change at all.
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WTF.
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But here we are.
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I am 51 years old, like I told you,
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and mind-numbing acronyms notwithstanding,
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I just want to tell you
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if there has been a momentous time for humanity to exist,
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it is now,
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because the present you is brave.
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The present you is hopeful.
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The present you is innovative and resourceful,
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and of course, the present you is annoyingly indefinable.
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And in this spell-binding,
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imperfect moment of existence,
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feeling a little brave just before I came here,
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I decided to take a good, hard look at my face.
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And I realized that I'm beginning to look more and more
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like the wax statue of me at Madame Tussaud's.
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(Laughter)
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Yeah, and in that moment of realization,
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I asked the most central and pertinent question to humanity and me:
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Do I need to fix my face?
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Really. I'm an actor, like I told you,
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a modern expression of human creativity.
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The land I come from
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is the source of inexplicable but very simple spirituality.
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In its immense generosity,
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India decided somehow
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that I, the Muslim son of a broke freedom fighter
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who accidentally ventured into the business of selling dreams,
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should become its king of romance,
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the "Badhshah of Bollywood,"
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the greatest lover the country has ever seen ...
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with this face.
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Yeah.
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(Laughter)
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Which has alternately been described as ugly, unconventional,
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and strangely, not chocolatey enough.
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(Laughter)
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The people of this ancient land
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embraced me in their limitless love,
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and I've learned from these people
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that neither power nor poverty
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can make your life more magical
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or less tortuous.
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I've learned from the people of my country
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that the dignity of a life,
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a human being, a culture, a religion, a country
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actually resides in its ability
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for grace and compassion.
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I've learned that whatever moves you,
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whatever urges you to create, to build,
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whatever keeps you from failing,
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whatever helps you survive,
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is perhaps the oldest and the simplest emotion known to mankind,
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and that is love.
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A mystic poet from my land famously wrote,
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(Recites poem in Hindi)
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(Poem ends)
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Which loosely translates into that whatever --
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yeah, if you know Hindi, please clap, yeah.
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(Applause)
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It's very difficult to remember.
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Which loosely translates into actually saying
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that all the books of knowledge that you might read
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and then go ahead and impart your knowledge
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through innovation, through creativity, through technology,
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but mankind will never be the wiser about its future
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unless it is coupled with a sense of love and compassion for their fellow beings.
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The two and a half alphabets which form the word "प्रेम,"
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which means "love,"
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if you are able to understand that
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and practice it,
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that itself is enough to enlighten mankind.
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So I truly believe the future "you"
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has to be a you that loves.
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Otherwise it will cease to flourish.
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It will perish in its own self-absorption.
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So you may use your power
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to build walls
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and keep people outside,
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or you may use it to break barriers and welcome them in.
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You may use your faith
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to make people afraid
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and terrify them into submission,
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or you can use it to give courage to people
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so they rise to the greatest heights of enlightenment.
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You can use your energy
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to build nuclear bombs and spread the darkness of destruction,
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or you can use it to spread the joy of light to millions.
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You may filthy up the oceans callously and cut down all the forests.
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You can destroy the ecology,
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or turn to them with love
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and regenerate life from the waters and trees.
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You may land on Mars
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and build armed citadels,
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or you may look for life-forms and species to learn from and respect.
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And you can use all the moneys we all have earned
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to wage futile wars
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and give guns in the hands of little children
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to kill each other with,
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or you can use it
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to make more food
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to fill their stomachs with.
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My country has taught me
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the capacity for a human being to love is akin to godliness.
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It shines forth in a world
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which civilization, I think, already has tampered too much with.
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In the last few days, the talks here, the wonderful people
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coming and showing their talent,
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talking about individual achievements, the innovation, the technology,
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the sciences, the knowledge we are gaining by being here
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in the presence of TED Talks and all of you
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are reasons enough for us to celebrate the future "us."
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But within that celebration
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the quest to cultivate our capacity for love and compassion
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has to assert itself, has to assert itself,
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just as equally.
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So I believe the future "you"
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is an infinite you.
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It's called a chakra in India, like a circle.
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It ends where it begins from to complete itself.
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A you that perceives time and space differently
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understands both
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your unimaginable
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and fantastic importance
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and your complete unimportance in the larger context of the universe.
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A you that returns back
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to the original innocence of humanity,
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which loves from the purity of heart,
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which sees from the eyes of truth,
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which dreams from the clarity of an untampered mind.
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The future "you" has to be
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like an aging movie star
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who has been made to believe that there is a possibility
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of a world which is completely,
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wholly, self-obsessively
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in love with itself.
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A world -- really, it has to be a you
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to create a world
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which is its own best lover.
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That I believe, ladies and gentlemen,
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should be the future "you."
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Thank you very much.
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Shukriya.
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(Applause)
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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