Neil Pasricha: The 3 A's of awesome

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Prevoditelj: Ariana Crvenka Recezent: Mislav Ante Omazić - EFZG
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So the Awesome story:
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Fenomenalna priča:
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It begins about 40 years ago,
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ona počinje prije oko 40 godina
00:19
when my mom and my dad came to Canada.
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kada su moji mama i tata došli u Kanadu.
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My mom left Nairobi, Kenya.
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Moja mama je napustila Nairobi u Keniji.
00:24
My dad left a small village outside of Amritsar, India.
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Moj je tata napustio malo selo izvan Amritsara u Indiji.
00:27
And they got here in the late 1960s.
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Stigli su ovamo u kasnim 1960ima.
00:30
They settled in a shady suburb about an hour east of Toronto,
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Smjestili su se u sjenovitom predgrađu oko sat vremena istočno od Toronta.
00:33
and they settled into a new life.
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I započeli su novi život.
00:35
They saw their first dentist,
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Vidjeli su svog prvog zubara,
00:37
they ate their first hamburger,
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pojeli svoj prvi hamburger
00:39
and they had their first kids.
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i imali svoju prvu djecu.
00:41
My sister and I
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Moja sestra i ja
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grew up here,
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smo ovdje odrasli
00:45
and we had quiet, happy childhoods.
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i imali smo tiho, sretno djetinjstvo.
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We had close family,
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Imali smo blisku obitelj,
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good friends, a quiet street.
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dobre prijatelje, mirnu ulicu.
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We grew up taking for granted
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Odrasli smo uzimajući zdravo za gotovo
00:54
a lot of the things that my parents couldn't take for granted
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mnoge stvari koje moji roditelji nisu mogli uzeti zdravo za gotovo
00:56
when they grew up --
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kad su odrastali --
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things like power always on
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stvari poput toga da uvijek ima struje
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in our houses,
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u našim kućama,
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things like schools across the street
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stvari kao što su škole preko puta,
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and hospitals down the road
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bolnice uz cestu
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and popsicles in the backyard.
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i sladoled na štapiću u dvorištu.
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We grew up, and we grew older.
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Rasli smo i odrasli smo.
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I went to high school.
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Išao sam u srednju školu.
01:12
I graduated.
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Diplomirao sam.
01:14
I moved out of the house, I got a job,
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Iselio sam se iz kuće, našao posao,
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I found a girl, I settled down --
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našao djevojku, smirio se --
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and I realize it sounds like a bad sitcom or a Cat Stevens' song --
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shvaćam da to zvuči kao loša humoristička serija ili pjesma Cata Stevensa.
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(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
01:24
but life was pretty good.
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Ali život je bio prilično dobar.
01:26
Life was pretty good.
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Život je bio prilično dobar.
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2006 was a great year.
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2006. je bila izvrsna godina.
01:31
Under clear blue skies in July in the wine region of Ontario,
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U srpnju, pod čistim plavim nebom vinogradarskog područja Ontarija,
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I got married,
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oženio sam se
01:36
surrounded by 150 family and friends.
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okružen sa 150 članova obitelji i prijatelja.
01:40
2007 was a great year.
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2007. je bila izvrsna godina.
01:43
I graduated from school,
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Diplomirao sam
01:45
and I went on a road trip with two of my closest friends.
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i otišao na putovanje sa svoja dva najbliža prijatelja.
01:48
Here's a picture of me and my friend, Chris,
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Ovdje je slika mene i mog prijatelja Chrisa
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on the coast of the Pacific Ocean.
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na obali Tihog oceana.
01:53
We actually saw seals out of our car window,
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Zapravo smo vidjeli tuljane kroz prozor našeg automobila
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and we pulled over to take a quick picture of them
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i parkirali se kako bismo ih na brzinu uslikali,
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and then blocked them with our giant heads.
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ali smo ih tada zaklonili svojim ogromnim glavama.
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(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
02:02
So you can't actually see them,
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Tako da ih zapravo ne možete vidjeti,
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but it was breathtaking,
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ali pogled je oduzimao dah,
02:06
believe me.
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vjerujte mi.
02:08
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
02:10
2008 and 2009 were a little tougher.
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2008. i 2009. su bile malo teže.
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I know that they were tougher for a lot of people,
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Znam da su bile teže mnogim ljudima,
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not just me.
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a ne samo meni.
02:17
First of all, the news was so heavy.
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Kao prvo, vijesti su bile tako teške.
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It's still heavy now, and it was heavy before that,
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Još uvijek su teške, i bile su teške prije toga,
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but when you flipped open a newspaper, when you turned on the TV,
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ali kada bi rastvorili novine, kada bi upalili televizor,
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it was about ice caps melting,
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bilo je o otapanju ledenih kapa,
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wars going on around the world,
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ratovima koji se vode širom svijeta,
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earthquakes, hurricanes
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zemljotresima, olujama
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and an economy that was wobbling on the brink of collapse,
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i ekonomiji koja je teturala na rubu propasti,
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and then eventually did collapse,
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a zatim konačno i propala,
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and so many of us losing our homes,
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i toliko nas je izgubilo svoje domove,
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or our jobs,
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ili svoja radna mjesta,
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or our retirements,
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ili svoje mirovine,
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or our livelihoods.
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ili svoja sredstva za život.
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2008, 2009 were heavy years for me for another reason, too.
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2008. i 2009. bile su za mene teške iz još jednog razloga.
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I was going through a lot of personal problems at the time.
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Prolazio sam kroz mnoge osobne probleme u to vrijeme.
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My marriage wasn't going well,
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Mom braku nije išlo dobro
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and we just were growing further and further apart.
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i samo smo se sve više i više udaljavali.
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One day my wife came home from work
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Jednog dana moja supruga je došla kući s posla
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and summoned the courage, through a lot of tears,
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i skupila hrabrosti, kroz mnogo suza,
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to have a very honest conversation.
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za vrlo iskren razgovor.
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And she said, "I don't love you anymore,"
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Rekla je: "Više te ne volim."
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and it was one of the most painful things I'd ever heard
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To je bila jedna od najbolnijih stvari koju sam ikada čuo
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and certainly the most heartbreaking thing I'd ever heard,
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i zasigurno stvar koja mi je dotad najviše slomila srce,
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until only a month later,
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sve dok mjesec dana kasnije
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when I heard something even more heartbreaking.
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nisam čuo nešto što mi je još više slamalo srce.
03:23
My friend Chris, who I just showed you a picture of,
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Moj prijatelj Chris, čiju sam vam sliku maloprije pokazao,
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had been battling mental illness for some time.
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borio se neko vrijeme s mentalnom bolešću.
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And for those of you
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Oni među vama
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whose lives have been touched by mental illness,
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čiji su životi bili dirnuti mentalnom bolešću,
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you know how challenging it can be.
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znaju kako to može biti izazovno.
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I spoke to him on the phone at 10:30 p.m.
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Razgovarao sam s njim preko telefona u 22:30
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on a Sunday night.
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u nedjelju navečer.
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We talked about the TV show we watched that evening.
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Pričali smo o TV programu koji smo gledali tu večer.
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And Monday morning, I found out that he disappeared.
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A u ponedjeljak ujutro sam saznao kako je nestao.
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Very sadly, he took his own life.
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Vrlo tužno, oduzeo si je život.
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And it was a really heavy time.
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To je bilo stvarno teško vrijeme.
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And as these dark clouds were circling me,
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Dok su me okruživali ti tamni oblaci
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and I was finding it really, really difficult
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i dok mi je bilo stvarno, stvarno teško
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to think of anything good,
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misliti na bilo što dobro,
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I said to myself that I really needed a way
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rekao sam si da stvarno trebam način
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to focus on the positive somehow.
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da se nekako usredotočim na pozitivno.
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So I came home from work one night,
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Tako sam jedne noći došao kući s posla,
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and I logged onto the computer,
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logirao se na računalo
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and I started up a tiny website
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i započeo sičušnu web stranicu
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called 1000awesomethings.com.
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nazvanu "1000 fenomenalnih stvari" (1000awesomethings.com).
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I was trying to remind myself
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Pokušavao sam se podsjetiti
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of the simple, universal, little pleasures that we all love,
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na jednostavna, univerzalna, mala zadovoljstva koja svi mi volimo,
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but we just don't talk about enough --
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samo o njima dovoljno ne pričamo --
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things like waiters and waitresses
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stvari poput konobara i konobarica
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who bring you free refills without asking,
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koji vam donosu besplatnu kavu bez da to tražite,
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being the first table to get called up
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sjedenja za prvim stolom
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to the dinner buffet at a wedding,
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na večeri na vjenčanju,
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wearing warm underwear from just out of the dryer,
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nošenja toplog donjeg rublja tek izvađenog iz sušilice,
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or when cashiers open up a new check-out lane at the grocery store
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ili kad blagajnici otvaraju novi red u trgovini
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and you get to be first in line --
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i uspijete biti prvi na redu --
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even if you were last at the other line, swoop right in there.
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čak i ako ste bili zadnji u onom drugom redu, ubacite se upravo ovdje.
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(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
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And slowly over time,
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I polako tijekom vremena,
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I started putting myself in a better mood.
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počeo sam biti sve boljeg raspoloženja.
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I mean, 50,000 blogs
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Mislim, 50.000 blogova
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are started a day,
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svakodnevno započinje.
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and so my blog was just one of those 50,000.
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Tako da je moj blog bio samo jedan od tih 50.000.
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And nobody read it except for my mom.
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Nitko ga nije čitao osim moje mame.
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Although I should say that my traffic did skyrocket
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Iako bih trebao reći da je moj promet dosegao vrhunce
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and go up by 100 percent
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i narastao 100%
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when she forwarded it to my dad.
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kada ga je proslijedila mome tati.
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(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
05:05
And then I got excited
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Tada sam se uzbudio
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when it started getting tens of hits,
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kada je počeo dobivati na desetke posjeta.
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and then I started getting excited when it started getting dozens
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A zatim sam se počeo uzbuđivati kada je počeo dobivati tucete,
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and then hundreds and then thousands
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pa zatim stotine i onda tisuće
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and then millions.
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i zatim milijune posjeta.
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It started getting bigger and bigger and bigger.
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Počeo je biti sve veći i veći i veći.
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And then I got a phone call,
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Zatim samo primio telefonski poziv,
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and the voice at the other end of the line said,
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a glas s druge strane linije je rekao:
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"You've just won the Best Blog In the World award."
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"Upravo ste dobili nagradu za najbolji blog na svijetu."
05:27
I was like, that sounds totally fake.
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To mi je zvučalo kao skroz lažno.
05:29
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
05:32
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
05:37
Which African country do you want me to wire all my money to?
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Kojoj afričkoj zemlji želite da preusmjerim sav svoj novac?
05:40
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
05:43
But it turns out, I jumped on a plane,
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Ali ispostavilo se da sam uskočio na avion
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and I ended up walking a red carpet
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i završio hodajući po crvenom tepihu
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between Sarah Silverman and Jimmy Fallon and Martha Stewart.
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između Sarah Silverman, Jimmya Fallona i Marthe Stewart.
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And I went onstage to accept a Webby award for Best Blog.
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Išao sam na pozornicu primiti Webby nagradu za "Najbolji blog".
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And the surprise
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Iznenađenje
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and just the amazement of that
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i zapanjenost svim tim
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was only overshadowed by my return to Toronto,
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zasjenio je samo moj povratak u Toronto
06:00
when, in my inbox,
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gdje me u pristigloj pošti
06:02
10 literary agents were waiting for me
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čekalo 10 književnih zastupnika
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to talk about putting this into a book.
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da popričaju sa mnom oko stavljanja toga u knjigu.
06:07
Flash-forward to the next year
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Ubrzavanje u sljedeću godinu
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and "The Book of Awesome" has now been
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i "Knjiga fenomenalnog" sada je bila
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number one on the bestseller list for 20 straight weeks.
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broj jedan na listi najbolje prodavanijih knjiga punih 20 tjedana.
06:13
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
06:21
But look, I said I wanted to do three things with you today.
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Ali gledajte, rekao sam da želim danas s vama učiniti tri stvari.
06:23
I said I wanted to tell you the Awesome story,
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Rekao sam da vam želim ispričati fenomenalnu priču,
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I wanted to share with you the three As of Awesome,
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da želim s vama podijeliti tri tajne "Fenomenalnog"
06:27
and I wanted to leave you with a closing thought.
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i da vas želim napustiti sa završnom misli.
06:29
So let's talk about those three As.
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Hajdemo razgovarati o te tri tajne.
06:31
Over the last few years,
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Tijekom zadnjih nekoliko godina
06:33
I haven't had that much time to really think.
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nisam imao tako puno vremena stvarno razmišljati.
06:35
But lately I have had the opportunity to take a step back
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Ali u zadnje vrijeme sam imao priliku odstupiti
06:38
and ask myself: "What is it over the last few years
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i zapitati se: "Što mi je to tijekom zadnjih nekoliko godina
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that helped me grow my website,
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pomoglo da moja web stranica naraste,
06:43
but also grow myself?"
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ali također da uvećam sebe?"
06:45
And I've summarized those things, for me personally,
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Sažeo sam te stvari, za mene osobno,
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as three As.
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kao tri tajne.
06:49
They are Attitude, Awareness
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One su: stav, svjesnost
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and Authenticity.
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i autentičnost.
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I'd love to just talk about each one briefly.
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Volio bih o svakoj od njih ukratko pričati.
06:58
So Attitude:
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Dakle, stav:
07:00
Look, we're all going to get lumps,
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Gledajte, svi ćemo dobiti čvoruge
07:02
and we're all going to get bumps.
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i svi ćemo dobiti šljive.
07:04
None of us can predict the future, but we do know one thing about it
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Nitko od nas ne može predvidjeti budućnost, ali znamo jednu stvar o njoj,
07:07
and that's that it ain't gonna go according to plan.
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a to je da neće ići prema planu.
07:10
We will all have high highs
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Svi ćemo imati vrhunce
07:12
and big days and proud moments
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i velike dane i ponosne trenutke
07:14
of smiles on graduation stages,
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osmijeha na promocijama,
07:16
father-daughter dances at weddings
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plesova očeva i kćeri na vjenčanjima
07:18
and healthy babies screeching in the delivery room,
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i zdravih beba koje vrište u rodilištu,
07:21
but between those high highs,
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ali između tih vrhunaca
07:23
we may also have some lumps and some bumps too.
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možemo imati i neke padove.
07:26
It's sad, and it's not pleasant to talk about,
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Tužno je i nije ugodno o tome pričati,
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but your husband might leave you,
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ali vaš suprug bi vas mogao napustiti,
07:32
your girlfriend could cheat,
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vaša djevojka bi vas mogla varati,
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your headaches might be more serious than you thought,
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vaše glavobolje mogle bi biti ozbiljnije nego što mislite,
07:37
or your dog could get hit by a car on the street.
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ili bi vašeg psa mogao pregaziti auto na ulici.
07:41
It's not a happy thought,
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To nije vesela pomisao,
07:43
but your kids could get mixed up in gangs
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ali vaša bi se djeca mogla uplesti u bande
07:46
or bad scenes.
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ili loše događaje.
07:48
Your mom could get cancer,
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Vaša mama bi mogla dobiti rak,
07:50
your dad could get mean.
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vaš tata bi mogao postati zloban.
07:52
And there are times in life
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Bit će trenutaka u životu
07:54
when you will be tossed in the well, too,
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kad ćete i vi biti bačeni na dno,
07:56
with twists in your stomach and with holes in your heart,
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s grčevima u želucu i rupama u srcu.
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and when that bad news washes over you,
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A kada vas te loše vijesti preplave
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and when that pain sponges and soaks in,
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i kada se ta bol upije,
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I just really hope you feel
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stvarno se samo nadam da osjećate
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like you've always got two choices.
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kao da uvijek imate dva izbora.
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One, you can swirl and twirl
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Jedan, da se kovitlate
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and gloom and doom forever,
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i budete tmurni i osuđeni na propast zauvijek,
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or two, you can grieve
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ili drugi, da možete tugovati,
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and then face the future
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a zatim se okrenuti prema budućnosti
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with newly sober eyes.
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s novim trezvenim očima.
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Having a great attitude is about choosing option number two,
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Imati izvrstan stav znači izabrati mogućnost broj dva
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and choosing, no matter how difficult it is,
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i birati, bez obzira na to koliko je teško,
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no matter what pain hits you,
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bez obzira na to koliko vas bol pogađa,
08:24
choosing to move forward and move on
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birati krenuti naprijed i nastaviti
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and take baby steps into the future.
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i poduzimati male korake prema budućnosti.
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The second "A" is Awareness.
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Druga tajna fenomenalnog je svjesnost.
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I love hanging out with three year-olds.
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Volim se družiti s trogodišnjacima.
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I love the way that they see the world,
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Volim način na koji oni vide svijet,
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because they're seeing the world for the first time.
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jer oni vide svijet po prvi puta.
08:42
I love the way that they can stare at a bug crossing the sidewalk.
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Volim način na koji oni bulje u kukca koji prelazi pločnik.
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I love the way that they'll stare slack-jawed
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Volim način na koji će razrogačeno buljiti
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at their first baseball game
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na svojoj prvoj bejzbol utakmici
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with wide eyes and a mitt on their hand,
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široko otvorenih očiju i stisnute šake,
08:51
soaking in the crack of the bat and the crunch of the peanuts
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upijajući zvukove i hrskanje kikirikija
08:53
and the smell of the hotdogs.
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i miris hot-doga.
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I love the way that they'll spend hours picking dandelions in the backyard
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Volim način na koji će oni provesti sate berući maslačke u dvorištu
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and putting them into a nice centerpiece
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i staviti ih kao aranžman na sredinu stola
09:00
for Thanksgiving dinner.
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za večeru na Dan zahvalnosti.
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I love the way that they see the world,
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Volim način na koji oni vide svijet,
09:04
because they're seeing the world
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zato što vide svijet
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for the first time.
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po prvi puta.
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Having a sense of awareness
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Imati osjećaj svjesnosti
09:11
is just about embracing your inner three year-old.
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jednostavno znači prihvaćati svog unutarnjeg trogodišnjaka.
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Because you all used to be three years old.
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Jer svi ste vi nekad bili trogodišnjaci.
09:16
That three-year-old boy is still part of you.
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Taj trogodišnji dječak je još uvijek dio vas.
09:18
That three-year-old girl is still part of you.
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Ta trogodišnja djevojčica je još uvijek dio vas.
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They're in there.
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Oni su tu unutra.
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And being aware is just about remembering
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Biti svjestan jednostavno znači sjetiti se
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that you saw everything you've seen
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da si sve što si vidio, vidio
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for the first time once, too.
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jednom po prvi puta.
09:29
So there was a time when it was your first time ever
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Znači, postojao je trenutak koji je bio tvoj prvi put ikad
09:32
hitting a string of green lights on the way home from work.
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da si pogodio niz zelenih svjetala na semaforu na putu kući s posla.
09:34
There was the first time you walked by the open door of a bakery
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Postojao je prvi put kad si prošao kraj otvorenih vrata pekarnice
09:37
and smelt the bakery air,
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i osjetio miris peciva
09:39
or the first time you pulled a 20-dollar bill out of your old jacket pocket
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ili prvi puta kad si izvukao novčanicu od 20 dolara iz džepa svoje stare jakne
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and said, "Found money."
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i rekao: "Našao sam novac."
09:46
The last "A" is Authenticity.
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Zadnja fenomenalna stvar je autentičnost.
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And for this one, I want to tell you a quick story.
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A u vezi toga želim vam ispričati kratku priču.
09:53
Let's go all the way back to 1932
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Vratimo se svi u 1932. godinu
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when, on a peanut farm in Georgia,
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kada se, na farmi kikirikija u Georgiji,
09:58
a little baby boy named Roosevelt Grier was born.
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rodio mali dječak po imenu Roosevelt Grier.
10:02
Roosevelt Grier, or Rosey Grier, as people used to call him,
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Roosevelt Grier, ili Rosey Grier, kako su ga obično zvali,
10:05
grew up and grew into
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rastao je i odrastao u
10:07
a 300-pound, six-foot-five linebacker in the NFL.
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130 kg teškog i 2 m visokog igrača Nacionalne lige američkog nogometa.
10:11
He's number 76 in the picture.
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On je broj 76 na slici.
10:14
Here he is pictured with the "fearsome foursome."
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Ovdje je uslikan s "Fantastičnom četvorkom".
10:17
These were four guys on the L.A. Rams in the 1960s
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To su četvorica momaka iz momčadi L.A. Ramsa 1960ih
10:19
you did not want to go up against.
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kojima se ne želite suprostaviti.
10:21
They were tough football players doing what they love,
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Oni su bili žilavi nogometaši koji su radili ono što vole,
10:24
which was crushing skulls
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a to je bilo drobljenje lubanja
10:26
and separating shoulders on the football field.
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i odvajanje ramenima na nogometnom terenu.
10:28
But Rosey Grier also had
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Ali Rosey Grier imao je
10:30
another passion.
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još jednu strast.
10:32
In his deeply authentic self,
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Duboko u svom autentičnom Ja
10:35
he also loved needlepoint. (Laughter)
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volio je i ručni rad.
10:39
He loved knitting.
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Volio je kukičati.
10:41
He said that it calmed him down, it relaxed him,
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Rekao je da ga je to smirivalo, opuštalo,
10:43
it took away his fear of flying and helped him meet chicks.
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uklanjalo strah od letenja i pomagalo mu da upozna komade.
10:46
That's what he said.
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Tako je rekao.
10:49
I mean, he loved it so much that, after he retired from the NFL,
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Mislim, toliko je to volio da se nakon umirovljenja
10:51
he started joining clubs.
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počeo uključivati u klubove.
10:53
And he even put out a book
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Čak je izdao knjigu
10:55
called "Rosey Grier's Needlepoint for Men."
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nazvanu "Gobleni za muškarce Roseya Griera".
10:57
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
10:59
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
11:02
It's a great cover.
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Izvrstan naslov.
11:04
If you notice, he's actually needlepointing his own face.
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Ako primjećujete, on zapravo plete vlastito lice.
11:07
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
11:09
And so what I love about this story
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Ono što volim u vezi te priče
11:12
is that Rosey Grier
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je to da je Rosey Grier
11:14
is just such an authentic person,
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tako autentična osoba.
11:16
and that's what authenticity is all about.
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A to je ono o čemu se radi kod autentičnosti.
11:18
It's just about being you and being cool with that.
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To znači biti svoj i biti ok s time.
11:21
And I think when you're authentic,
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Mislim da, kada si autentičan,
11:23
you end up following your heart,
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završiš tako da slijediš svoje srce
11:25
and you put yourself in places
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i stavljaš se na mjesta,
11:27
and situations and in conversations
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u situacije i razgovore
11:29
that you love and that you enjoy.
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koje voliš i u kojima uživaš.
11:31
You meet people that you like talking to.
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Srećeš ljude s kojima voliš razgovarati.
11:33
You go places you've dreamt about.
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Ideš na mjesta o kojima si sanjao.
11:35
And you end you end up following your heart
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I završiš slijedeći svoje srce
11:37
and feeling very fulfilled.
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i osjećaš se vrlo ispunjeno.
11:40
So those are the three A's.
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To su tri tajne fenomenalnog.
11:43
For the closing thought, I want to take you all the way back
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Za završnu misao, želim vas odvesti u vrijeme
11:45
to my parents coming to Canada.
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kad su moji roditelji došli u Kanadu.
11:48
I don't know what it would feel like
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Ne znam kakav bi to bio osjećaj
11:50
coming to a new country when you're in your mid-20s.
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doći u novu zemlju kad si u svojim dvadesetima.
11:53
I don't know, because I never did it,
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Ne znam, jer nisam to nikada napravio.
11:55
but I would imagine that it would take a great attitude.
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Ali mogu misliti da je za to potreban izvrstan stav.
11:58
I would imagine that you'd have to be pretty aware of your surroundings
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Mogu zamisliti da biste trebali biti prilično svjesni svojeg okruženja
12:01
and appreciating the small wonders
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i cijeniti mala čuda
12:03
that you're starting to see in your new world.
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kada započinjete gledati svoj novi svijet.
12:06
And I think you'd have to be really authentic,
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Mislim da biste trebali biti stvarno autentični,
12:08
you'd have to be really true to yourself
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da biste trebali biti stvarno iskreni prema sebi
12:10
in order to get through what you're being exposed to.
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kako biste prošli ono čemu biste bili izloženi.
12:14
I'd like to pause my TEDTalk
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Sada bih želio zastati sa svojim TED govorom
12:16
for about 10 seconds right now,
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na oko 10 sekundi,
12:18
because you don't get many opportunities in life to do something like this,
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jer u životu ne dobijete puno prilika da učinite nešto poput ovog,
12:20
and my parents are sitting in the front row.
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a moji roditelji sjede u prvom redu.
12:22
So I wanted to ask them to, if they don't mind, stand up.
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Želio sam ih zamoliti da, ako im to ne smeta, ustanu.
12:24
And I just wanted to say thank you to you guys.
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I samo vam želim reći "Hvala!"
12:26
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
12:45
When I was growing up, my dad used to love telling the story
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Dok sam odrastao, moj tata je volio pričati priču
12:48
of his first day in Canada.
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o svom prvom danu u Kanadi.
12:50
And it's a great story, because what happened was
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To je izvrsna priča, jer se dogodilo to
12:53
he got off the plane at the Toronto airport,
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da je sišao s aviona na aerodromu u Torontu
12:56
and he was welcomed by a non-profit group,
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i dočekala ga je neprofitna grupa
12:58
which I'm sure someone in this room runs.
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za koju sam siguran da je vodi netko u ovoj prostoriji.
13:00
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
13:02
And this non-profit group had a big welcoming lunch
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Ta neprofitna udruga organizirala je veliki ručak dobrodošlice
13:05
for all the new immigrants to Canada.
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za sve nove useljenike u Kanadu.
13:08
And my dad says he got off the plane and he went to this lunch
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Moj tata kaže da je sišao s aviona i otišao na taj ručak
13:11
and there was this huge spread.
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i tamo je bio taj ogromni stol s hranom.
13:13
There was bread, there was those little, mini dill pickles,
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Bilo je kruha, bilo je onih malih, mini krastavaca,
13:16
there was olives, those little white onions.
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bilo je maslina, onog malog bijelog luka.
13:18
There was rolled up turkey cold cuts,
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Bilo je narezaka od puretine,
13:20
rolled up ham cold cuts, rolled up roast beef cold cuts
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narezaka od šunke, narezaka od pečene govedine
13:22
and little cubes of cheese.
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i malih kockica sira.
13:24
There was tuna salad sandwiches and egg salad sandwiches
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Bili su sendviči sa salatom od tune, salatom od jaja
13:27
and salmon salad sandwiches.
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i salatom od lososa.
13:29
There was lasagna, there was casseroles,
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Bilo je lazanja, složenaca,
13:31
there was brownies, there was butter tarts,
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bilo je čokoladnih kolača, bilo je kolača s putrom
13:34
and there was pies, lots and lots of pies.
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i bilo je pita, mnogo pita.
13:37
And when my dad tells the story, he says,
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Kad moj tata priča ovu priču, on kaže:
13:39
"The craziest thing was, I'd never seen any of that before, except bread.
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"Najluđa stvar je bila ta da ništa od toga nikad prije nisam vidio, osim kruha."
13:43
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
13:45
I didn't know what was meat, what was vegetarian.
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Nisam znao što je bilo meso, a što vegetarijansko;
13:47
I was eating olives with pie.
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jeo sam masline s pitom."
13:49
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
13:52
I just couldn't believe how many things you can get here."
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"Jednostavno nisam mogao vjerovati koliko stvari možeš tu dobiti."
13:55
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
13:57
When I was five years old,
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Kad sam imao pet godina
13:59
my dad used to take me grocery shopping,
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tata me često vodio u kupnju namjernica.
14:01
and he would stare in wonder
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I u čudu bi buljio
14:03
at the little stickers that are on the fruits and vegetables.
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u male naljepnice na voću i povrću.
14:06
He would say, "Look, can you believe they have a mango here from Mexico?
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Rekao bi: "Vidi, možeš li vjerovati da ovdje imaju mango iz Meksika?
14:09
They've got an apple here from South Africa.
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Imaju jabuke iz Južne Afrike.
14:12
Can you believe they've got a date from Morocco?"
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Možeš li vjerovati da imaju datulje iz Maroka?"
14:15
He's like, "Do you know where Morocco even is?"
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"Znaš li uopće gdje je Maroko?"
14:18
And I'd say, "I'm five. I don't even know where I am.
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A ja bih rekao: "Imam pet godina. Ne znam čak ni gdje sam ja.
14:21
Is this A&P?"
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Je li ovo supermarket?"
14:24
And he'd say, "I don't know where Morocco is either, but let's find out."
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On bi rekao: "Niti ja ne znam gdje je Maroko, ali idemo saznati."
14:27
And so we'd buy the date, and we'd go home.
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Tako bismo kupili datulje i otišli kući.
14:29
And we'd actually take an atlas off the shelf,
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Zaista bismo uzeli atlas s police
14:31
and we'd flip through until we found this mysterious country.
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i listali ga sve dok nismo pronašli tu tajnovitu zemlju.
14:34
And when we did, my dad would say,
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Kad bismo je našli, moja tata bi rekao:
14:36
"Can you believe someone climbed a tree over there,
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"Možeš li vjerovati da se netko tamo popeo na drvo,
14:38
picked this thing off it, put it in a truck,
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ubrao tu stvar, stavio ju u kamion,
14:40
drove it all the way to the docks
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odvezao ju skroz do dokova,
14:43
and then sailed it all the way
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a zatim plovio cijelim putem
14:45
across the Atlantic Ocean
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preko Atlantskog oceana,
14:47
and then put it in another truck
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zatim to stavio u drugi kamion
14:49
and drove that all the way to a tiny grocery store just outside our house,
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i odvezao skroz do male trgovine upravo pred našom kućom,
14:52
so they could sell it to us for 25 cents?"
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da bi nam to prodao za 25 centa?"
14:55
And I'd say, "I don't believe that."
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Ja bih rekao: "Ne vjerujem u to."
14:57
And he's like, "I don't believe it either.
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A on: "Ni ja ne vjerujem.
14:59
Things are amazing. There's just so many things to be happy about."
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Stvari su nevjerojatne. Ima toliko puno stvari za veseliti se."
15:02
When I stop to think about it, he's absolutely right.
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Kada zastanem i razmislim o tome, u potpunosti je u pravu;
15:04
There are so many things to be happy about.
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postoji toliko puno stvari za veseliti se.
15:06
We are the only species
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Mi smo jedina vrsta
15:09
on the only life-giving rock
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na jedinoj stijeni koja daje život
15:12
in the entire universe that we've ever seen,
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u cijelom svemiru kojeg smo ikad vidjeli,
15:15
capable of experiencing
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sposobna iskusiti
15:17
so many of these things.
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toliko tih stvari.
15:19
I mean, we're the only ones with architecture and agriculture.
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Mislim, mi smo jedini s arhitekturom i poljoprivredom.
15:22
We're the only ones with jewelry and democracy.
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Mi smo jedini s nakitom i demokracijom.
15:25
We've got airplanes, highway lanes,
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Imamo avione, auto-ceste,
15:28
interior design and horoscope signs.
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dizajn interijera i horoskopske znakove.
15:30
We've got fashion magazines, house party scenes.
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Imamo modne časopise, kućne zabave.
15:33
You can watch a horror movie with monsters.
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Možete gledati horror film sa čudovištima.
15:35
You can go to a concert and hear guitars jamming.
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Možete otići na koncert i čuti nabijanje gitara.
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We've got books, buffets and radio waves,
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Imamo knjige, postavljene stolove za goste i radio valove,
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wedding brides and rollercoaster rides.
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mlade na vjenčanju i vožnje na vrtuljku.
15:42
You can sleep in clean sheets.
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Možete spavati na čistim plahtama.
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You can go to the movies and get good seats.
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Možete ići u kino i dobiti dobra sjedala.
15:46
You can smell bakery air, walk around with rain hair,
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Možete osjetiti miris peciva u zraku, šetati po kiši mokre kose,
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pop bubble wrap or take an illegal nap.
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pucketati omot sa mjehurićima ili ilegalno zadrijemati.
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We've got all that,
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Imamo sve to,
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but we've only got 100 years to enjoy it.
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ali imamo samo 100 godina da u tome uživamo.
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And that's the sad part.
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To je tužan dio.
16:02
The cashiers at your grocery store,
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Blagajnici u vašoj trgovini,
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the foreman at your plant,
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šef u vašoj tvornici,
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the guy tailgating you home on the highway,
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tip koji se vozi preblizu iza vas na autocesti na putu kući,
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the telemarketer calling you during dinner,
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telefonski prodavač koji vas nazove za vrijeme večere,
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every teacher you've ever had,
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svaki učitelj kog ste ikada imali,
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everyone that's ever woken up beside you,
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svatko kraj koga ste se ikada probudili,
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every politician in every country,
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svaki političar u svakoj zemlji,
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every actor in every movie,
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svaki glumac u svakom filmu,
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every single person in your family, everyone you love,
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svaka pojedina osoba u vašoj obitelji, svatko koga volite,
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everyone in this room and you
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svatko u ovoj sobi i vi
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will be dead in a hundred years.
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bit ćete mrtvi za manje od stotinu godina.
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Life is so great that we only get such a short time
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Život je tako sjajan, a mi imamo tako malo vremena
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to experience and enjoy
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da iskusimo i uživamo
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all those tiny little moments that make it so sweet.
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u svim tim malim trenucima koji ga čine tako slatkim.
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And that moment is right now,
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A taj trenutak je upravo sada,
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and those moments are counting down,
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i ti se trenuci odbrojavaju,
16:44
and those moments are always, always, always fleeting.
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i ti trenuci uvijek, uvijek brzo prolaze.
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You will never be as young as you are right now.
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Nikad nećete biti tako mladi kao što ste upravo sada.
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And that's why I believe that if you live your life
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I zato vjerujem da, ako živite svoj život
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with a great attitude,
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s izvrsnim stavom,
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choosing to move forward and move on
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ako birate ići naprijed i nastaviti
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whenever life deals you a blow,
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kad god vas život obori,
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living with a sense of awareness of the world around you,
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ako živite s osjećajem svjesnosti o svijetu oko sebe,
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embracing your inner three year-old
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ako prihvaćate svog unutarnjeg trogodišnjaka
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and seeing the tiny joys that make life so sweet
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i vidite sitne radosti koje život čine tako slatkim
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and being authentic to yourself,
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i autentični ste sami sebi,
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being you and being cool with that,
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tako što ste svoji i s tim ste u redu,
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letting your heart lead you and putting yourself in experiences that satisfy you,
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ako puštate da vas vodi srce i stavljate se u situacije koje vas zadovoljavaju,
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then I think you'll live a life
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tada mislim da ćete živjeti život
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that is rich and is satisfying,
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koji je bogat i koji vas zadovoljava,
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and I think you'll live a life that is truly awesome.
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i mislim da živite život koji je istinski fenomenalan,
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Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
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