Carl Honore: In praise of slowness

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What I'd like to start off with is an observation,
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在演讲开始,我愿意先讲一个事情,
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which is that if I've learned anything over the last year,
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如果说去年有什么让我印象深刻,
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it's that the supreme irony
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就是极具讽刺意味的
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of publishing a book about slowness
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出版一本号召讲将速度慢下来的书
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is that you have to go around promoting it really fast.
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你却不得不超快速的四处推销它。
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I seem to spend most of my time these days
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我这些日子花了大部分时间,
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zipping from city to city, studio to studio,
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在城市、演播室以及
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interview to interview,
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访谈节目之间奔走,
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serving up the book in really tiny bite-size chunks.
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但实际用来宣传书的时间却少的可怜。
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Because everyone these days
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因为现在每个人
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wants to know how to slow down,
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都想知道该如何放慢速度,
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but they want to know how to slow down really quickly. So ...
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然而,他们却想要知道如何超快速的放慢速度。所以...
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so I did a spot on CNN the other day
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前不久我在CNN上了一个通告
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where I actually spent more time in makeup than I did talking on air.
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在那,我上电视的时间还没有化妆的时间长
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And I think that -- that's not really surprising though, is it?
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而我想这还真算不上让人吃惊的事,对吧?
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Because that's kind of the world that we live in now,
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因为我们现在所处的,就是一个这样的世界
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a world stuck in fast-forward.
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一个沉溺于追求快速前进的世界。
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A world obsessed with speed,
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一个迷恋速度的世界,
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with doing everything faster, with cramming more and more
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做每一件事情都追求更快,往越来越少的时间里
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into less and less time.
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填鸭进更多的东西。
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Every moment of the day feels like
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每一天每一刻都感觉像
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a race against the clock.
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在和时间赛跑
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To borrow a phrase from Carrie Fisher, which is
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引用凯利.费雪(美国影星)的一句话,这句话
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in my bio there; I'll just toss it out again --
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在我的自传里面有写,我只是再次引用
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"These days even instant gratification takes too long." (Laughter)
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“现在大家连瞬间得到的快感(高潮)都嫌太久。”
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And
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另外
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if you think about how we to try to make things better, what do we do?
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假如让你想我们怎样才能将事情做得更好,会有什么主意?
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No, we speed them up, don't we? So we used to dial; now we speed dial.
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我们会加速做事情,不是么?所以,以前我们拨电话;现在我们快拨。
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We used to read; now we speed read. We used to walk; now we speed walk.
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以前我们阅读;现在我们快读。以前我们走路,现在我们快走。
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And of course, we used to date and now we speed date.
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当然还有,以前我们约会,现在我们速食约会。
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And even things that are by their very nature slow --
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即使是那些本身就需要慢慢做的事情
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we try and speed them up too.
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我们也千方百计加速做。
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So I was in New York recently, and I walked past a gym
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我最近在纽约,路过一家健身馆
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that had an advertisement in the window for a new course, a new evening course.
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他们橱窗上有一个新课程的广告,是个晚间课程。
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And it was for, you guessed it, speed yoga.
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你猜得到吗,是关于快速瑜伽的。
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So this -- the perfect solution for time-starved professionals
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这个就是为超级没时间的上班族们提供的最佳解决方案
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who want to, you know, salute the sun,
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这些人,想要练习(瑜伽)拜日式
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but only want to give over about 20 minutes to it.
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但却只想花大约20分钟在这上面。
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I mean, these are sort of the extreme examples,
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我想,这些都是有点儿极端的例子,
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and they're amusing and good to laugh at.
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而且都有些意思,可以当笑话听。
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But there's a very serious point,
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但是,这些例子也说明了一个非常严肃的问题,
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and I think that in the headlong dash of daily life,
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在每天匆匆忙忙的生活中,
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we often lose sight of the damage
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我们常常看不到
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that this roadrunner form of living does to us.
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这种竞走式的生活方式给我们带来的伤害。
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We're so marinated in the culture of speed
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我们已经在速食文化中淫浸得太深了
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that we almost fail to notice the toll it takes
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以至于我们几乎觉察不到它让
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on every aspect of our lives --
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我们在生活方方面面所付出的代价。
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on our health, our diet, our work,
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对我们的健康,饮食,工作
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our relationships, the environment and our community.
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人际关系,环境以及生活的社区都产生了消极的影响。
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And sometimes it takes
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而有时候只要
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a wake-up call, doesn't it,
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一声警示来
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to alert us to the fact that we're hurrying through our lives,
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提醒我们正在匆忙地度过我们的生命,
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instead of actually living them; that we're
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而不是真正有意义的过生活;提醒我们
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living the fast life, instead of the good life.
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我们在过快日子,而不是在过好日子。
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And I think for many people, that wake-up call
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而我认为对很多人而言,那个警示铃
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takes the form of an illness.
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常常是以疾病的形式出现。
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You know, a burnout, or eventually the body says,
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疾病突然爆发,最后身体对你说
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"I can't take it anymore," and throws in the towel.
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“我再也受不了了。”然后就垮了。
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Or maybe a relationship goes up in smoke
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也许这个警示会在一场恋爱化为泡影后出现
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because we haven't had the time, or the patience,
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失败是因为我们抑或没有时间,抑或没有耐心,
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or the tranquility,
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或是不能安静地
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to be with the other person, to listen to them.
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陪着另一半,倾听他们的述说。
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And my wake-up call came when I started
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而我的警示铃是在我开始
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reading bedtime stories to my son,
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为我儿子念睡前故事的时候响起的,
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and I found that at the end of day,
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我发现在一天结束之时,
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I would go into his room and I just couldn't slow down -- you know,
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我走进他的房间,就是不能把自己的速度慢下来
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I'd be speed reading "The Cat In The Hat."
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我会很快的念《戴帽子的猫》
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I'd be -- you know, I'd be skipping lines here,
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我会这儿跳过几句,
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paragraphs there, sometimes a whole page,
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那儿概括几句,有时几句话概括一整页的内容
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and of course, my little boy knew the book inside out, so we would quarrel.
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当然,我的小儿子对这本书倒背如流,所以我们就会争起来。
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And what should have been the most relaxing, the most intimate,
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当一个爸爸坐下来,为他的儿子读故事,
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the most tender moment of the day,
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这本最应该是一天中最放松,最亲密,
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when a dad sits down to read to his son,
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最亲切柔软的时刻,
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became instead this kind of gladiatorial battle of wills,
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反而变成了这种角斗士般关于意志的争斗;
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a clash between my speed
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变成了他要快我要...
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and his slowness.
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不,是我要快他要慢而引起的冲突
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And this went on for some time,
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而且这种情况持续了一段时间,
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until I caught myself scanning a newspaper article
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直到我读了报纸上的一篇文章
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with timesaving tips for fast people.
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是为追求快速的人提供的省时窍门。
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And one of them made reference to a series of books called
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其中一个窍门引用了一系列丛书作参考,叫做
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"The One-Minute Bedtime Story."
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“一分钟的床前故事。”
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And I wince saying those words now,
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而我,现在真不愿意承认
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but my first reaction at the time was very different.
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但是我那时的第一反应和现在非常的不同。
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My first reflex was to say,
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我的第一反应是说,
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"Hallelujah -- what a great idea!
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“哈利路亚——这是个多么棒的点子!
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This is exactly what I'm looking for to speed up bedtime even more."
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这正好能帮我把床前故事讲的更快一些。”
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But thankfully,
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但还好,
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a light bulb went on over my head, and my next reaction was very different,
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我头脑一清醒,而我的下面的反应就非常不同了,
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and I took a step back, and I thought,
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我退回一步想,
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"Whoa -- you know, has it really come to this?
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“停,真的达到这种地步了吗?
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Am I really in such a hurry that I'm prepared
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我真的忙到这种地步,要
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to fob off my son with a sound byte at the end of the day?"
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在一天结束的时候,用一分钟故事来敷衍我儿子?”
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And I put away the newspaper --
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然后我把报纸拿开
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and I was getting on a plane -- and I sat there,
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我那时正在飞机上,我坐在那儿,
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and I did something I hadn't done for a long time -- which is I did nothing.
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做了一件我很久没做过的事情——那就是我什么都没做。
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I just thought, and I thought long and hard.
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我就只是在思考,深思了很久时间。
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And by the time I got off that plane, I'd decided I wanted to do something about it.
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而当我下飞机的时候,我决定我要对此做些什么。
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I wanted to investigate this whole roadrunner culture,
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我要研究整个的速食文化,
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and what it was doing to me and to everyone else.
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以及这个文化对我,对其他人都产生了什么影响。
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And I had two questions in my head.
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在我脑海中产生了两个问题。
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The first was, how did we get so fast?
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第一个问题是,我们怎么变得这么快的?
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And the second is, is it possible,
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第二个问题是,有没有可能慢下来,
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or even desirable, to slow down?
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或者,我们想慢下来么?
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Now, if you think about
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现在,假如你思考
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how our world got so accelerated, the usual suspects rear their heads.
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我们的世界是如何变得如此加速向前的,通常都怀疑是下面这些引起的
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You think of, you know, urbanization,
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我们会想到城市化,
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consumerism, the workplace, technology.
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消费主义,工厂,技术。
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But I think if you cut through
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但是我想,如果你透过
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those forces, you get to what might be the deeper
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这些方面,你会思考到可能是更深层的
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driver, the nub of the question,
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驱动力问题,这个问题的核心,
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which is how we think about time itself.
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就是我们如何看待时间本身。
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In other cultures, time is cyclical.
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在其它文化中,时间是循环往复的。
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It's seen as moving in great,
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时间看起来是在巨大的
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unhurried circles.
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从容不迫的循环中移动。
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It's always renewing and refreshing itself.
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时间总是在不断复活,不断更新。
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Whereas in the West, time is linear.
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而在西方,时间是直线性的。
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It's a finite resource;
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时间是有限资源,
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it's always draining away.
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总是不断在衰竭。
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You either use it, or lose it.
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你要么使用时间,要么失去时间。
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"Time is money," as Benjamin Franklin said.
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就像本杰明·富兰克林说的那样,时间就是金钱。
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And I think what that does to us psychologically
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我想这句话对我们心理上产生的影响
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is it creates an equation.
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是这样的影响——它创造出一个平衡式。
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Time is scarce, so what do we do?
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时间非常有限,所以我们怎么办?
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Well -- well, we speed up, don't we?
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于是,我们就加速运转,不是么?
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We try and do more and more with less and less time.
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我们试着用更少的时间做更多的事。
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We turn every moment of every day
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我们把每一天的每一刻
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into a race to the finish line --
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都变成向终点线的赛跑。
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a finish line, incidentally, that we never reach,
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那一终点线,顺便说一句,我们却从未到达过,
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but a finish line nonetheless.
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但是那仍然还是一条终点线。
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And I guess that the question is,
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那么我想问题是,
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is it possible to break free from that mindset?
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有没有可能从这一习惯性思维中跳出来?
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And thankfully, the answer is yes, because
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还好,答案是“有可能”,因为
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what I discovered, when I began looking around, that there is
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当我开始环顾四周,我发现,有一种
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a global backlash against this culture that
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全球性的反抗力量存在,反抗这种高速度文化
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tells us that faster is always better, and that busier is best.
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这种高速度文化告诉我们越快越好,而且越忙越好。
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Right across the world, people are doing the unthinkable:
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在全世界,有人做着意想不到的事:
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they're slowing down, and finding that,
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他们放慢节奏,而且发现
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although conventional wisdom tells you that if you slow down, you're road kill,
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尽管习惯思维告诉你,假如你放慢节奏,就会被时代潮流抛弃,
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the opposite turns out to be true:
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而事实上结果却相反。
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that by slowing down at the right moments,
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在合适的时候放慢节奏,
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people find that they do everything better.
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人们发现他们做什么都做得更好。
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They eat better; they make love better; they exercise better;
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他们吃得更好,性生活更和谐,锻炼效果更好,
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they work better; they live better.
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他们工作更棒,生活得也更好。
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And, in this kind of cauldron
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而在这些时刻,这些地方,
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of moments and places and acts of deceleration,
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这些减速的行动中,
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lie what a lot of people now refer to as
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就存在着许多人所说的
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the "International Slow Movement."
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国际慢活运动。
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Now if you'll permit me a small act of hypocrisy,
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现在,假如你允许我言行小小的不一致,
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I'll just give you a very quick overview of
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我将为你快速的概括一下——
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what's going on inside the Slow Movement. If you think of food,
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慢活运动中人们正在做些什么。若你们关心吃食,
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many of you will have heard of the Slow Food movement.
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那你们中许多人应该听过慢食运动。
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Started in Italy, but has spread across the world,
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这场运动开始于意大利,但已传遍全世界,
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and now has 100,000 members
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并且现在已经有100,000成员
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in 50 countries.
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遍布50个国家。
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And it's driven by a very simple and sensible message,
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而且这场运动只是被一个非常简单和明智的信条所驱使,
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which is that we get more pleasure and more health
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那就是,当我们以不紧不慢的速度种植、烹饪还有食用食物的时候,
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from our food when we
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我们从食物当中,
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cultivate, cook and consume it at a reasonable pace.
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将获得更多快乐和健康
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I think also the explosion of
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我认为有机农业运动的
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the organic farming movement, and the renaissance of farmers' markets,
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蓬勃发展,以及农场主市场的复兴,
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are other illustrations
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也体现出
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of the fact that people are desperate to get away from
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人们非常想从
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eating and cooking and cultivating their food
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享用、烹饪食物以及种植食物的工业化方式
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on an industrial timetable.
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中逃离出来。
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They want to get back to slower rhythms.
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他们想要慢些的节奏。
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And out of the Slow Food movement has grown something
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而从慢食运动中产生了
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called the Slow Cities movement, which has started in Italy,
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被称之为慢活城市的运动,从意大利开始
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but has spread right across Europe and beyond.
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却已经传遍欧洲和其它地方。
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And in this, towns
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而在这一运动中,城市
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begin to rethink how they organize the urban landscape,
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so that people are encouraged to slow down
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能鼓励人们去——去放慢节奏
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and smell the roses and connect with one another.
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去闻闻玫瑰花,而且相互交流。
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So they might curb traffic,
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所以他们可能会交通,
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or put in a park bench, or some green space.
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或是放置公园长椅,或是设置一些绿地面积。
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And in some ways, these changes add up to more than the sum of their parts,
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某种程度上,这些改变能出现一加一大于二的效果。
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because I think when a Slow City becomes officially a Slow City,
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当一座号召慢活的城市变成了一座真正意义上的慢速城市,
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it's kind of like a philosophical declaration.
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就有点像一种哲学理性上的宣言。
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It's saying to the rest of world, and to the people in that town,
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它是在向世界其它地区宣称,也是向那座城市的人民宣称,
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that we believe that in the 21st century,
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宣称我们相信在21世纪,
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慢速将发挥其作用。
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In medicine, I think a lot of people are deeply disillusioned
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在医疗方面,我想很多人都深感幻想破灭
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with the kind of quick-fix mentality
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对于你在传统医疗中存在的
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you find in conventional medicine.
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那种速效治疗想法的幻灭。
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And millions of them around the world are turning
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因此全球数以百万的人转向
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to complementary and alternative forms of medicine,
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补充和替代形式的医疗,
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which tend to tap into sort of
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这种医疗倾向于使用比较
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slower, gentler, more holistic forms of healing.
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慢一些,柔和一些,更全面的治疗形式。
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Now, obviously the jury is out on many of these complementary therapies,
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现在,对于许多的补充性治疗方法,明显还没有最后定论,
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and I personally doubt that the coffee enema
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且我个人怀疑咖啡灌肠法
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will ever, you know, gain mainstream approval.
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也不会得到大众的认同。
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But other treatments
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但是其他治疗方法
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such as acupuncture and massage, and even just relaxation,
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比如针灸和按摩,甚至只是放松法,
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clearly have some kind of benefit.
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却明显的有一定好处。
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And blue-chip medical colleges everywhere
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且各处一流的医学院都正在
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are starting to study these things to find out how they work,
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开始研究这些治疗方法,看它们如何产生效果,
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and what we might learn from them.
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以及我们能从这些方法中学到什么。
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Sex. There's an awful lot of fast sex around, isn't there?
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关于性,四处都有非常多快速的性关系,不是么?
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I was coming to --
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我打算去
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well -- no pun intended there.
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好吧——我没想暗示什么
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I was making my way, let's say, slowly to Oxford,
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我当时正往,这么说吧,慢慢的往牛津走,
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and I went through a news agent, and I saw a magazine,
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然后我经过一个报刊亭,看到一本杂志,
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a men's magazine, and it said on the front,
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一本男性杂志,在封面上写着,
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"How to bring your partner to orgasm in 30 seconds."
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“如何在30秒内把你的伴侣带入性高潮。”
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So, you know, even sex
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你们看见了,就连性
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is on a stopwatch these days.
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现在也用计秒表数着时间了。
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Now, you know,
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现在
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I like a quickie as much as the next person,
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我差不多和其他人一样快速完事,
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but I think that there's an awful lot to be gained
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但我认为从缓慢的性生活中,
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from slow sex -- from slowing down in the bedroom.
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在卧室里放慢速度,我们能收获非常多。
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You know, you tap into that -- those deeper,
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你利用这些更深层的,
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sort of, psychological, emotional, spiritual currents,
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有点儿心理的,情感的,精神的电流,
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and you get a better orgasm with the buildup.
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那么你会得到一个更棒的累积起来的性高潮。
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You can get more bang for your buck, let's say.
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让我们这么说吧,你可以为你的身体得到更大的快乐。
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I mean, the Pointer Sisters said it most eloquently, didn't they,
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我的意思是,指针姐妹合唱团把这个道理说得最动人,不是么,
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when they sang the praises of "a lover with a slow hand."
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她们为爱人缓慢游走的手唱赞歌。
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Now, we all laughed at Sting
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几年前我们都嘲笑斯汀(歌手)
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a few years ago when he went Tantric,
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学习印度密宗性法(使缓慢持续)的事情
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but you fast-forward a few years, and now you find couples of all ages
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但是如果我们把时钟拨快几年,现在你会发现各个年龄层的夫妻
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flocking to workshops, or maybe just
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都去参加课程学习,或可能只是
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on their own in their own bedrooms, finding ways
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在他们自己的卧室里寻找方法
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to put on the brakes and have better sex.
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来放缓步调,从而拥有更好的性生活。
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And of course, in Italy where -- I mean, Italians always seem to know
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当然,在意大利,我是说,意大利人看起来总是知道
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where to find their pleasure --
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到哪去找乐子
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they've launched an official Slow Sex movement.
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他们已经开展了一场正式的慢速性生活运动。
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The workplace.
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在日常工作方面
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Right across much of the world --
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世界大部分地方的
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North America being a notable exception --
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工作时间都已经有所减少
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working hours have been coming down.
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不过北美明显是个例外。
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And Europe is an example of that,
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欧洲就是个减少工时的例子,
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and people finding that their quality of life improves
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人们发现他们的生活质量上升了
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as they're working less, and also
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随着工作时间的减少,工作时效也
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that their hourly productivity goes up.
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提高了。
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Now, clearly there are problems with
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现在,很明显的,法国每周35小时
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the 35-hour workweek in France --
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的工作时间存在问题
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too much, too soon, too rigid.
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太多,太快,太死板。
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But other countries in Europe, notably the Nordic countries,
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但欧洲的其它国家,特别是在北欧国家,
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are showing that it's possible
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事实表明无须工作成狂
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to have a kick-ass economy
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也能拥有
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without being a workaholic.
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一流的经济
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And Norway, Sweden,
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挪威、瑞典、
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Denmark and Finland now rank
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丹麦以及芬兰现在
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among the top six most competitive nations on Earth,
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都位列世界六大最具竞争力的国家之列,
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and they work the kind of hours that would make the average American
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并且他们工作时间之短会使得一般的美国人
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weep with envy.
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嫉妒得想哭。
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And if you go beyond sort of the country level,
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而假如你越过这种国家层次,
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down at the micro-company level,
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往下看微观,公司层次,
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more and more companies now are realizing
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现在越来越多的公司意识到
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that they need to allow their staff
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他们有必要让员工
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either to work fewer hours or just to unplug --
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或者减少工作时间,或者离开工作在
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to take a lunch break, or to go sit in a quiet room,
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午餐时间休息一下,或者坐在一个安静的房间里,
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to switch off their Blackberrys and laptops -- you at the back --
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关掉他们的黑莓手机——说你呢,后面那个
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mobile phones,
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手机,
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during the work day or on the weekend, so that they have time to recharge
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这些在工作日或周末的休息让他们有时间去充电
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and for the brain to slide into that
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有时间让大脑进入
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kind of creative mode of thought.
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那种创造性思维模式。
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It's not just, though, these days,
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然而,现在并不只是
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adults who overwork, though, is it? It's children, too.
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成年人工作超负荷,不是么?小孩子也是。
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I'm 37, and my childhood ended in the mid-'80s,
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我37岁,而我80年代中期才结束童年,
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and I look at kids now, and I'm just amazed by the way they
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而现在我看着孩子们,看着他们赶着做
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race around with more homework,
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家庭作业,忙着补习
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more tutoring, more extracurriculars
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参加课外活动,
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than we would ever have conceived of a generation ago.
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繁忙程度是我们这一代人从没想过的,我就感到很吃惊。
11:08
And some of the most heartrending emails
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而我在我的网站上收到的最令人
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that I get on my website
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痛心的邮件
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are actually from adolescents
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事实上就是出自徘徊在疲劳殆尽边缘的青少年之手
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hovering on the edge of burnout, pleading with me
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他们恳求我
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to write to their parents,
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给他们的家长写信,
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to help them slow down, to help them get off this
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帮助他们放慢节奏,帮助他们摆脱
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full-throttle treadmill.
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这超速的运转。
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But thankfully, there is a backlash there in parenting as well,
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但也谢天谢地,也有一些父母在反思,
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and you're finding that, you know, towns in the United States
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大家会发现,美国的城市
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are now banding together and banning extracurriculars
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现在开始联合行动,在每个月特定的一天
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on a particular day of the month, so that people can,
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禁止课外课程,这样人们就能,
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you know, decompress and have some family time, and slow down.
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就能释放压力,拥有家庭时间,以此放慢步调。
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Homework is another thing. There are homework bans
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家庭作业是另一回事。家庭作业禁令
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springing up all over the developed world
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在发达国家的学校非常普遍,
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in schools which had been piling on the homework for years,
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一些学校以前曾有家庭作业成堆的现象,
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and now they're discovering that less can be more.
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而现在他们发现作业数量少,质量可能更好。
11:49
So there was a case up in Scotland recently
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因此,最近苏格兰出现一件实例
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where a fee-paying, high-achieving private school
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有一间苏格兰的高学费且高回报的私立学校
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banned homework
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对13岁以下的学生
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for everyone under the age of 13,
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禁止布置家庭作业,
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and the high-achieving parents freaked out and said,
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这让期望很高的父母吓了一跳并说,
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"What are you -- you know, our kids will fall" -- the headmaster said,
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“你们在干什么,这样我们孩子的成绩会下降”校长却说,
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"No, no, your children need to slow down at the end of the day."
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“不会,不会,你们的孩子需要在放学后放松下来。”
12:04
And just this last month, the exam results came in,
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而就在上个月,考试成绩出来,
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and in math, science, marks went up 20 percent
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在数学,科学等课程上,分数上升了百分之二十
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on average last year.
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和去年平均成绩比。
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And I think what's very revealing is that
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而我认为非常具有启发意义的是
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the elite universities, who are often cited as the reason
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进入一流大学常常是家长驱使孩子
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that people drive their kids and hothouse them so much,
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努力学习的原因,而这些大学却发现
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are starting to notice the caliber of students
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他们学生的素质正在下降。
12:22
coming to them is falling. These kids have wonderful marks;
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这些孩子拥有很棒的成绩,
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they have CVs jammed with extracurriculars,
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他们的简历里写满了参加课外活动的经历,
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to the point that would make your eyes water.
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多到会让你看了想哭的程度。
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But they lack spark; they lack
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然而他们却缺乏活力,他们缺乏
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the ability to think creatively and think outside --
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创造性思考和独立思考的能力
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they don't know how to dream. And so what these Ivy League schools,
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他们不知道如何想象。因此,这些常春藤高校
12:37
and Oxford and Cambridge and so on, are starting to send a message
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以及牛津、剑桥等大学,开始向家长和学生们发出信息
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to parents and students that they need to put on the brakes a little bit.
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表示家长学生们需要对此做出一些补救行动。
12:42
And in Harvard, for instance, they send out
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以哈佛大学为例,他们向
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a letter to undergraduates -- freshmen --
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本科大一新生发出一封信
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telling them that they'll get more out of life, and more out of Harvard,
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告诉他们,他们能从日常生活,从哈佛大学收获更多,
12:51
if they put on the brakes, if they do less,
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假如他们能减缓过于紧张的步调;假如他们能稍稍放松自己,
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but give time to things, the time that things need,
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把时间放在那些有需要的事情上,给予那些事情足够的时间
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to enjoy them, to savor them.
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好好享受,体味这些事情。
12:58
And even if they sometimes do nothing at all.
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而有时候即使他们什么也不做(也能有很好的效果)。
13:00
And that letter is called -- very revealing, I think --
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我认为那封信的题目非常具有启发性,它叫
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"Slow Down!" -- with an exclamation mark on the end.
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“放慢速度!”——以一个感叹号结尾。
13:05
So wherever you look, the message, it seems to me, is the same:
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所以不管你从哪个角度看,这一讯息,在我看来,都是一样的。
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that less is very often more,
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少一点常常意味更多,
13:10
that slower is very often
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慢一些意味着更好。
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better. But that said, of course,
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然而这样说,当然,
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it's not that easy to slow down, is it?
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并不是说放慢速度那么容易,不是么?
13:17
I mean, you heard that I got a speeding ticket
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我的意思是,当我正在写关于“慢有何好处”的书时
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while I was researching my book on the benefits of slowness,
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拿到一张超速罚单,
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and that's true, but that's not all of it.
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这是真的,而且事实还远不止这样
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I was actually en route to a dinner
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那时候,我实际上是在前往
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held by Slow Food at the time.
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慢食俱乐部组织的一场晚宴途中。
13:27
And if that's not shaming enough, I got that ticket in Italy.
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如果这还不算丢脸的话,我还是在意大利拿的罚单。
13:30
And if any of you have ever driven on an Italian highway,
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如果你们中任何人曾在意大利高速公路上开过车的话,
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you'll have a pretty good idea of how fast I was going.
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你肯定知道我当时开得有多快。
13:35
(Laughter)
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(观众大笑,因为意大利人开快车相当彪悍)
13:38
But why is it so hard to slow down?
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但是为什么放慢速度如此之难?
13:40
I think there are various reasons.
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我认为原因有很多。
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One is that speed is fun, you know, speed is sexy.
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其一是速度快让人开心,你们知道的,速度快很性感。
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It's all that adrenaline rush. It's hard to give it up.
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这都是肾上腺冲动造成的。很难根除。
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I think there's a kind of metaphysical dimension --
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有一种哲学上的维度——
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that speed becomes a way of walling ourselves off
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在这种维度中,速度成为了把我们自身与
13:52
from the bigger, deeper questions.
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更大、更深层次问题隔离的壁垒。
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We fill our head with distraction, with busyness,
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我们脑子里充满着让我们分心和忙碌的事情,
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so that we don't have to ask,
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使得我们不需要询问自己,
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am I well? Am I happy? Are my children growing up right?
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我还好么?我快乐么?我的孩子这样成长的方式是正确的么?
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Are politicians making good decisions on my behalf?
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政治家们的决定是否代表了我的利益?
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Another reason -- although I think, perhaps, the most powerful reason --
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另一个原因我认为最强有力的原因也许是
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why we find it hard to slow down is the cultural taboo
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之所以这么难慢下来,是源自文化中的一种行为定式
14:10
that we've erected against slowing down.
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我们树立起的文化不允许我们慢下来。
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"Slow" is a dirty word in our culture.
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缓慢在我们的文化中是个贬义词。
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It's a byword for "lazy," "slacker,"
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它是懒,懒虫的代名词,
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for being somebody who gives up.
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是用来说那些做事容易放弃的人的。
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You know, "he's a bit slow." It's actually synonymous
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“他有一点慢。”实际上是说
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with being stupid.
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这个人有点蠢。
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I guess what the Slow Movement -- the purpose of the Slow Movement,
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我想慢活运动的目的
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or its main goal, really, is to tackle that taboo,
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或者说它的主要目标,事实上,就是去破除这种定式
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and to say that yes,
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是为了表明
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sometimes slow is not the answer,
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有时候“该死的慢”的原因
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that there is such a thing as "bad slow."
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并不是在于“慢”本身
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You know, I got stuck on the M25,
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我最近有一次被困在
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which is a ring road around London, recently,
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伦敦的M25环线公路上,
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and spent three-and-a-half hours there. And I can tell you,
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而且在那里困了三个半小时。我可以告诉你,
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that's really bad slow.
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那才是真正的“该死的慢”
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But the new idea,
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但从另一个角度看
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the sort of revolutionary idea, of the Slow Movement,
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慢活运动所包含的有点颠覆性质的思想
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is that there is such a thing as "good slow," too.
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是说,有一种慢是“积极的慢”。
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And good slow is, you know, taking the time
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积极的慢就是花些时间
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to eat a meal with your family, with the TV switched off.
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和家人吃饭,没有电视机在旁边干扰。
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Or taking the time to look at a problem from all angles
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或者是在办公室里花些时间把事情进行全面地梳理
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in the office to make the best decision
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从而做出最明智的决定
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at work.
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这是从工作角度来说。
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Or even simply just taking the time
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又或者只是花些时间
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to slow down
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慢下来
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and savor your life.
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品味生活。
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Now, one of the things that I found most uplifting
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我发现自《慢活》一书出版以来
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about all of this stuff that's happened around the book
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在所有发生的事情中,最令人振奋的
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since it came out, is the reaction to it.
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就是人们对这本书的反应。
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And I knew that when my book on slowness came out,
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我料想到,当这本关于慢活的书面市,
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it would be welcomed by the New Age brigade,
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它会受到新生代的欢迎,
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but it's also been taken up, with great gusto,
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然而,它也同样被商界
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by the corporate world -- you know,
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津津乐道。不止那种
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business press, but also
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商业出版社,另外还有
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big companies and leadership organizations.
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大公司和组织的领导阶层的接纳。
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Because people at the top of the chain, people like you, I think,
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因为像在座各位,处于领导链顶端的人,我想
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are starting to realize that there's too much
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他们开始意识到,在(组织)系统中
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speed in the system,
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高速运作得有点过头了,
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there's too much busyness, and it's time to find,
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工作过于忙碌,是时候找回
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or get back to that lost art of shifting gears.
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那种已经遗失的慢速换挡艺术。
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Another encouraging sign, I think,
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我觉得另一个令人鼓舞的现象
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is that it's not just in the developed world
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是不止在发达国家
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that this idea's been taken up. In the developing world,
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人们开始接纳这种思想。在发展中国家中,
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in countries that are on the verge of making that leap
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那些即将跨入
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into first world status -- China, Brazil,
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第一世界之列的国家——中国,巴西,
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Thailand, Poland, and so on --
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泰国、波兰以及其它一些国家
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these countries have embraced the idea of the Slow Movement,
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它们已经开始接受慢活运动的观点,
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many people in them, and there's a debate going on
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在媒体上,在大街小巷
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in their media, on the streets.
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也有关于此观点的争论。
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Because I think they're looking at the West, and they're saying,
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因为他们关注着西方世界,他们认为,
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"Well, we like that aspect of what you've got,
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“嗯,我们对你们在这方面的观点很感兴趣,
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but we're not so sure about that."
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但我们不很确定是不是真的可能(做到放慢速度)。”
16:11
So all of that said, is it,
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他们所说的这些,确实如此,
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I guess, is it possible?
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这是可能的么?
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That's really the main question before us today. Is it possible
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这确实是如今摆在我们面前的主要问题。是否可能
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to slow down? And
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放慢速度?
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I'm happy to be able to say to you
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我很高兴我可以告诉你说
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that the answer is a resounding yes.
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这个答案是,完全可能。
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And I present myself as Exhibit A,
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我自己就是一个实证
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a kind of reformed and rehabilitated
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一个改过自新并且恢复正常的
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speed-aholic.
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曾经的速度狂人。
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I still love speed. You know, I live in London,
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我仍然喜欢快速。我住在伦敦,
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and I work as a journalist,
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而且是个记者,
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and I enjoy the buzz and the busyness,
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喜欢忙忙碌碌,
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and the adrenaline rush that comes from both of those things.
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喜欢由此产生的肾上腺素的刺激。
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I play squash and ice hockey,
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我玩壁球,也玩冰球,
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two very fast sports, and I wouldn't give them up for the world.
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这两种都是非常讲究速度的运动,我绝不会放弃这两种运动。
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But I've also, over the last year or so,
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但是在过去的一年多,我
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got in touch with my inner tortoise.
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与我内心的慢龟龟进行了交流
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(Laughter)
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(大笑)
16:53
And what that means is that
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那意味着
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I no longer
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我不去,我不再去
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overload myself gratuitously.
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无缘无故的弄得自己负荷过重。
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My default mode is no longer
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我的默认模式不再是
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to be a rush-aholic.
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做一个大忙人。
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I no longer hear
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我再
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time's winged chariot drawing near,
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也听不到时间高速战车催促迫近的声音,
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or at least not as much as I did before.
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至少不再像以前我感觉到的那么多。
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I can actually hear it now, because I see my time is ticking off.
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我现在能听到这种时间催促的声音,因为我看到演讲时间分分秒秒过去。
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And the upshot of all of that is that
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而所有这些的重点结论是
17:19
I actually feel a lot happier, healthier,
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比起从前的我,我真的感到更快乐,更健康,
17:22
more productive than I ever have.
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更有效率了。
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I feel like I'm living
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我觉得我在享受
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my life rather than actually just racing through it.
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我的人生,而不是在匆忙度日。
17:31
And perhaps, the most important
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也许,最重要的
17:33
measure of the success of this
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衡量慢活成功的标志是
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is that I feel that my relationships are a lot deeper,
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我感觉到和他人的关系更密切
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richer, stronger.
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感情更深了,联系更强了。
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And for me, I guess, the litmus test
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对我而言,我想衡量这种方式
17:43
for whether this would work, and what it would mean,
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是否产生作用,以及它的意义最直接的方法
17:45
was always going to be bedtime stories, because that's sort of where
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还是要回到我给儿子说睡前故事的事,因为那是这个事情
17:48
the journey began. And there too the news is
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的开端。而这个结果
17:51
rosy. You know,
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很美好。
17:53
at the end of the day, I go into my son's room.
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晚上,我走进儿子的卧室。
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I don't wear a watch. I switch off my computer,
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没戴表,关上了电脑,
17:57
so I can't hear the email pinging into the basket,
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这样我就听不见有新电子邮件到达的震动声,
17:59
and I just slow down to his pace and we read.
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我按着儿子的速度慢下来,我们一起阅读。
18:03
And because children have their own tempo and internal clock,
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因为孩子们有自己的节奏和生物钟,
18:06
they don't do quality time,
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他们不管父母们计划的家庭时间
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where you schedule 10 minutes for them to open up to you.
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你计划10分钟让他们对你打开心怀。
18:10
They need you to move at their rhythm.
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而他们却要你跟着他们的节奏来行动。
18:13
I find that 10 minutes into a story, you know,
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10分钟进入了故事状态,
18:15
my son will suddenly say, "You know,
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而我儿子却会忽然说,“你知道吗,
18:17
something happened in the playground today that really bothered me."
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今天在操场上发生了些事情,真让我烦恼。”
18:19
And we'll go off and have a conversation on that.
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然后我们就会不讲故事了,转而说说运动场发生了什么。
18:22
And I now find that bedtime stories
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而我现在发现
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used to be
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它曾经只是一种
18:27
a box on my to-do list, something that I dreaded,
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一项例行公事,成为我负担的睡前故事
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because it was so slow and I had to get through it quickly.
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这件耗时得让我想赶快完成它的睡前故事
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It's become my reward at the end of the day,
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现在变成了在一天结束时对我的奖励,
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something I really cherish.
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成为了我真的,真的很珍惜的事情。
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And I have a kind of Hollywood ending
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我打算用一个好莱坞电影式的故事
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to my talk this afternoon,
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结束我今天下午的演讲
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which goes a little bit like this:
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大致是这样的:
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a few months ago, I was getting ready to go on
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几个月之前,我准备进行
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another book tour, and I had my bags packed.
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新一轮新书外地宣传,行李都已经收拾好了。
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I was downstairs by the front door, and I was waiting for a taxi,
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我就在楼下门口等计程车,
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and my son came down the stairs and
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这时我儿子走下楼,
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he'd made a card for me. And he was carrying it.
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他正拿着为我做的一张卡片。
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He'd gone and stapled two cards, very like these, together,
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他把两张卡片钉在一块,就像这些,
18:57
and put a sticker of his favorite
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而且贴了他最喜欢的人物贴纸
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character, Tintin, on the front.
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丁丁(漫画人物,职业是记者)在卡片上。
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And he said to me,
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接着他对我说,
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or he handed this to me, and I read it,
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或者这么说,他把卡片递给我,接着我读到,
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and it said, "To Daddy, love Benjamin."
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卡片上写着,“致爸爸,爱你的本杰明。”
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And I thought, "Aw, that's really sweet.
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我就想说,“啊,这真是太棒了,
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Is that a good luck on the book tour card?"
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这是不是一张祝我外出顺利的好运卡呢?”
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And he said, "No, no, no, Daddy -- this is a card
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然而他说,“不,不是,不是,爸爸,这是一张
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for being the best story reader in the world."
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送给世界上故事讲得最好的人的卡片。”
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And I thought, "Yeah, you know, this slowing down thing really does work."
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接着我想,“看来放慢速度真他奶奶的管用啊。。。”
19:21
Thank you very much.
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非常感谢在座各位。
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