Esta Soler: How we turned the tide on domestic violence (Hint: the Polaroid helped)

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Prevodilac: Branka Malenica Lektor: Ivana Korom
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I want you to imagine
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Želim da zamislite
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what a breakthrough this was
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kakvo je to otkriće bilo
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for women who were victims of violence
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za žene koje su bile žrtve nasilja
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in the 1980s.
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u osamdesetim.
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They would come into the emergency room
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Došle bi u hitnu pomoć
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with what the police would call "a lovers' quarrel,"
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zbog onoga što su policajci nazivali ljubavnim nesuglasicama
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and I would see a woman who was beaten,
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i videla bih tu ženu koja je bila tučena,
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I would see a broken nose and a fractured wrist
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videla bih slomljen nos i izvrnut zglob
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and swollen eyes.
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i natečene oči.
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And as activists, we would take our Polaroid camera,
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I kao aktivisti, izvadili bismo naše Polaroid kamere
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we would take her picture,
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uslikali bismo je,
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we would wait 90 seconds,
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sačekali bismo 90 sekundi,
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and we would give her the photograph.
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i dali bismo joj fotografiju.
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And she would then have
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I onda bi ona imala
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the evidence she needed to go to court.
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dokaz koji joj je bio potreban da ode na sud.
00:55
We were making what was invisible visible.
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Ono što je bilo nevidljivo činili smo vidljivim.
00:59
I've been doing this for 30 years.
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Radim to već 30 godina.
01:01
I've been part of a social movement
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Deo sam društvenog pokreta
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that has been working on ending
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koji radi na zaustavljanju
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violence against women and children.
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nasilja nad ženama i decom.
01:09
And for all those years,
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I tokom svih tih godina,
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I've had an absolutely passionate
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vodila sam se strastvenim,
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and sometimes not popular belief
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a ponekad i nepopularnim mišljenjem
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that this violence is not inevitable,
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da ovo nasilje nije neizbežno,
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that it is learned, and if it's learned,
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da se ono uči, i ako je naučeno,
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it can be un-learned, and it can be prevented.
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može da se oduči, i tako da se spreči.
01:30
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
01:38
Why do I believe this?
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Zašto verujem u to?
01:40
Because it's true.
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Jer je istina.
01:42
It is absolutely true.
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To je čista istina
01:44
Between 1993 and 2010,
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Između 1993. i 2010. godine
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domestic violence among adult women
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nasilje u porodici nad odraslim ženama
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in the United States
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u SAD
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has gone down by 64 percent,
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smanjilo se za 64 odsto,
01:58
and that is great news.
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i to su sjajne vesti.
02:00
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
02:03
Sixty-four percent. Now, how did we get there?
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64 odsto. Kako li smo došli dotle?
02:06
Our eyes were wide open.
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Naše oči bile su širom otvorene.
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Thirty years ago, women were beaten,
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Pre trideset godina, žene su tukli,
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they were stalked, they were raped,
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pratili ih, silovali,
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and no one talked about it.
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i niko nije pričao o tome.
02:15
There was no justice.
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Nije bilo pravde.
02:17
And as an activist, that was not good enough.
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I kao aktivistkinji, to mi nije bilo dovoljno.
02:21
And so step one on this journey
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I zato prvi korak na ovom putovaju
02:24
is we organized,
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bio je to što smo organizovali,
02:26
and we created this extraordinary
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i kreirali ovu izvanrednu
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underground network of amazing women
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podzemnu mrežu fantastičnih žena
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who opened shelters,
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koje su otvorile skloništa,
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and if they didn't open a shelter,
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a ako nisu otvorile skloništa,
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they opened their home
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otvorile bi svoj dom
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so that women and children could be safe.
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kako bi žene i deca bili sigurni.
02:40
And you know what else we did?
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I znate li šta smo još uradili?
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We had bake sales, we had car washes,
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Organizovali smo prodaju peciva, pranje automobila,
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and we did everything we could do to fundraise,
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radili smo sve što je u našoj moći da prikupimo novac,
02:48
and then at one point we said,
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i onda smo u jednom momentu rekli
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you know, it's time that we went
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znate, vreme je da odemo
02:52
to the federal government
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u državnu upravu
02:54
and asked them to pay for these
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i pitamo ih da nam plate
02:56
extraordinary services that are saving people's lives.
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za ove neverovatne usluge koje spasavaju ljudima živote.
03:00
Right? (Applause)
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Zar ne? (Aplauz)
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And so, step number two,
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Tako dolazimo do koraka broj dva,
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we knew we needed to change the laws.
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jer znali smo da zakon mora da se promeni.
03:07
And so we went to Washington,
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I zato smo otišli u Vašington,
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and we lobbied for the first piece of legislation.
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i lobirali smo za prvi pravni akt.
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And I remember walking through the halls
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Sećam se kako sam išla tim hodnicima
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of the U.S. Capitol,
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američke prestonice,
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and I was in my 30s, and my life had purpose,
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bila sam u tridesetim, i moj život je imao svrhu,
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and I couldn't imagine
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i nisam mogla da zamislim
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that anybody would ever challenge
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da će iko ikada probati da ospori
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this important piece of legislation.
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ovaj bitni pravni akt.
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I was probably 30 and naive.
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Verovatno sam samo bila naivna tridesetogodišnjakinja.
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But I heard about a congressman
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Ali čula sam za kongresmena
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who had a very, very different point of view.
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koji je imao vrlo, vrlo drugačiji stav o tome.
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Do you know what he called
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Znate li kako je zvao
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this important piece of legislation?
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taj važni pravni akt?
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He called it the Take the Fun Out of Marriage Act.
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Zvao ga je Akt o izbacivanju zabave iz braka.
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The Take the Fun Out of Marriage Act.
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Akt o izbacivanju zabave iz braka.
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Ladies and gentlemen, that was in 1984
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Dame i gospodo, to je bilo 1984. godine
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in the United States, and I wish I had Twitter.
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u SAD i volela bih da sam imala Tviter.
03:54
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
03:57
Ten years later, after lots of hard work,
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Deset godina kasnije, nakon puno napornog rada,
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we finally passed the Violence Against Women Act,
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konačno je prihvaćen Akt protiv nasilja nad ženama,
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which is a life-changing act
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a to je akt koji može da promeni živote
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that has saved so many lives. (Applause)
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i koji je spasao toliko mnogo života. (Aplauz)
04:08
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
04:10
I was proud to be part of that work,
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Bila sam ponosna što sam bila deo toga,
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and it changed the laws
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a to je dovelo do promene zakona
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and it put millions of dollars into local communities.
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i milioni dolara uplaćeni su
lokalnim zajednicama.
04:18
And you know what else it did? It collected data.
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Znate li do čega je to još dovelo?
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And I have to tell you, I'm passionate about data.
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Do skupljanja podataka.
Da znate, podaci su moja strast!
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In fact, I am a data nerd.
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Zapravo, pravi sam štreber po tom pitanju.
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I'm sure there are a lot of data nerds here.
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Verujem da ovde ima puno štrebera za podatke.
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I am a data nerd,
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Ja sam štreber za podatke,
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and the reason for that is I want to make sure
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a to je tako jer želim da budem sigurna
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that if we spend a dollar, that the program works,
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da će program raditi ako potrošimo samo dolar,
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and if it doesn't work, we should change the plan.
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a ako ne bude radio, treba da promenimo plan.
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And I also want to say one other thing:
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Želim da kažem još jednu stvar:
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We are not going to solve this problem
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nećemo rešiti ovaj problem
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by building more jails
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građenjem novih zatvora,
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or by even building more shelters.
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pa čak ni novih skloništa.
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It is about economic empowerment for women,
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Radi se o boljem ekonomskom statusu žena,
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it is about healing kids who are hurt,
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o nezi povređene dece,
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and it is about prevention with a capital P.
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o prevenciji sa velikim P.
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And so, step number three on this journey:
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I zato, korak broj tri na ovom putovanju:
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We know, if we're going to keep making this progress,
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znamo da, ako želimo da nastavimo s ovim napretkom,
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we're going to have to turn up the volume,
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moramo da pojačamo zvuk,
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we're going to have to increase the visibility,
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moramo da budemo vidljiviji,
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and we're going to have to engage the public.
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i moramo da uključimo javnost.
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And so knowing that, we went to the Advertising Council,
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Znajući to, otišli smo do Saveta za marketing
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and we asked them to help us
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i zamolili smo ih da nam pomognu
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build a public education campaign.
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da napravimo kampanju za edukaciju javnosti.
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And we looked around the world to Canada
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Gledali smo kako to rade širom sveta
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and Australia and Brazil and parts of Africa,
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u Kanadi, Australiji i Brazilu i delovima Afrike,
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and we took this knowledge
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i upotrebili smo novo znanje
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and we built the first national
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i napravili prvu nacionalnu
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public education campaign
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kampanju za edukaciju javnosti
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called There's No Excuse for Domestic Violence.
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koja se zvala "Za nasilje u porodici nema izgovora".
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Take a look at one of our spots.
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Pogledajte jedan naš spot.
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(Video) Man: Where's dinner?
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(Video) Muškarac: Gde je večera?
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Woman: Well, I thought you'd be home a couple hours ago, and I put everything away, so—
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Žena: Pa, mislila sam da ćeš doći kući pre par sati i sve sam sklonila, pa...
05:45
Man: What is this? Pizza. Woman: If you had just called me, I would have known—
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Muškarac: Šta je ovo? Pica?
Žena: Da si me samo nazvao, znala bih....
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Man: Dinner? Dinner ready is a pizza? Woman: Honey, please don't be so loud.
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Muškarac: Pica za večeru?
Žena: Dragi, nemoj tako glasno.
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Please don't—Let go of me!
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Molim te nemoj - Pusti me!
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Man: Get in the kitchen! Woman: No! Help!
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Muškarac: Idi u kuhinju! Žena: Ne! Upomoć!
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Man: You want to see what hurts? (Slaps woman)
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Muškarac: Hoćeš li da vidiš šta boli? (Udara ženu)
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That's what hurts! That's what hurts! (Breaking glass)
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Ovo boli! Ovo boli! (Staklo se lomi)
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Woman: Help me!
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Žena: Molim te!
06:04
["Children have to sit by and watch. What's your excuse?"]
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["Deca moraju da sede i gledaju. Koji je tvoj izgovor"]
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Esta Soler: As we were in the process
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Esra Soler: Dok smo bili u procesu
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of releasing this campaign,
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objavljivanja kampanje
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O.J. Simpson was arrested
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O.Dž. Simpson je bio uhapšen
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for the murder of his wife and her friend.
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za ubistvo svoje žene i njene prijateljice.
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We learned that he had a long history
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Saznali smo da je imao dugu istoriju
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of domestic violence.
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nasilja u porodici.
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The media became fixated.
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Mediji su postali opsednuti.
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The story of domestic violence
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Priča o nasilju u porodici
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went from the back page,
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popela se sa poslednje,
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but actually from the no-page, to the front page.
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zapravo, sa nepostojeće, na naslovnu stranicu.
06:29
Our ads blanketed the airwaves,
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Naša reklama je bila svuda u etru,
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and women, for the first time,
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i žene su, po prvi put,
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started to tell their stories.
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počele da dele svoje priče.
06:37
Movements are about moments,
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Pokreti nastaju zbog momenata
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and we seized this moment.
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i mi smo ugrabili taj momenat.
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And let me just put this in context.
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Dopustite mi da vas upoznam sa širim kontekstom.
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Before 1980, do you have any idea
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Imate li ideju koliko je članaka pre 1980.
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how many articles were in The New York Times
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objavljeno u Njujork tajmsu
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on domestic violence?
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o nasilju u porodici?
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I'll tell you: 158.
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Reći ću vam: 158.
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And in the 2000s, over 7,000.
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A u godinama nakon 2000. preko 7000.
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We were obviously making a difference.
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Bilo je očigledno da smo pravili razliku.
07:05
But we were still missing a critical element.
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Ali i dalje nam je falio najvažniji element.
07:08
So, step four: We needed to engage men.
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Dakle, četvrti korak: morali smo da uključimo muškarce.
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We couldn't solve this problem
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Nismo mogli da rešimo ovaj problem
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with 50 percent of the population on the sidelines.
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dok 50 odsto populacije stoji sa strane.
07:19
And I already told you I'm a data nerd.
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Već sam vam rekla da sam štreber za podatke.
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National polling told us that men felt indicted
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Rezultati nacionalne ankete pokazali su da su se muškarci osećali optuženim,
07:25
and not invited into this conversation.
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a ne pozvanim u ovu konverzaciju.
07:27
So we wondered, how can we include men?
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Zato smo se upitali kako da uključimo i muškarce?
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How can we get men to talk about
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Kako da nateramo muškarce da govore
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violence against women and girls?
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o nasilju nad ženama i devojčicama?
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And a male friend of mine pulled me aside
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Jedan muški prijatelj me je sklonio u stranu
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and he said, "You want men to talk about violence
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i rekao: "Želiš da muškarci pričaju o nasilju
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against women and girls. Men don't talk."
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nad ženama i devojčicama. Muškarci ne pričaju."
07:45
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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I apologize to the men in the audience.
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Izvinjavam se muškarcima u publici.
07:49
I know you do.
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Znam da vi pričate.
07:50
But he said, "Do you know what they do do?
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Ali onda mi je rekao: "Znaš li šta oni rade?
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They do talk to their kids.
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Oni pričaju sa svojom decom.
07:54
They talk to their kids as parents, as coaches."
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Pričaju sa svojom decom kao roditelji, kao treneri."
07:57
And that's what we did.
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I upravo to smo uradili.
07:59
We met men where they were at
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Našli smo se na njihovom terenu
08:01
and we built a program.
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i napravili smo program.
08:02
And then we had this one event
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Onda smo imali jedan događaj
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that stays in my heart forever
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koji će zauvek ostati u mom srcu
08:06
where a basketball coach
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kada je jedan trener košarke
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was talking to a room filled with male athletes
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govorio u prostoriji punoj sportista
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and men from all walks of life.
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i muškaraca koji vode različite živote.
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And he was talking about the importance
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Pričao je o važnosti
08:17
of coaching boys into men
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obrazovanja dečaka u muškarce
08:19
and changing the culture of the locker room
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i promeni kulture ponašanja u svlačionici
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and giving men the tools to have healthy relationships.
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i o davanju uslova muškarcima za stvaranje zdravih veza.
08:24
And all of a sudden, he looked at the back of the room,
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I odjednom je pogledao u drugi kraj prostorije
08:27
and he saw his daughter,
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i video svoju ćerku
08:29
and he called out his daughter's name, Michaela,
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i kazao njeno ime, Mihaela,
08:31
and he said, "Michaela, come up here."
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i rekao: "Mihaela dođi ovde."
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And she's nine years old, and she was kind of shy,
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Imala je devet godina i bila je pomalo stidljiva,
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and she got up there,
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ali otišla je tamo,
08:36
and he said, "Sit down next to me."
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a on je rekao: "Sedi pored mene."
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She sat right down next to him.
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Sela je tačno pored njega.
08:41
He gave her this big hug, and he said,
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Snažno ju je zagrlio i rekao:
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"People ask me why I do this work.
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"Ljudi me pitaju zašto radim ovaj posao.
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I do this work because I'm her dad,
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Radim ovo jer sam ja njen tata,
08:50
and I don't want anyone ever to hurt her."
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i ne želim da je iko ikada povredi."
08:54
And as a parent, I get it.
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Kao roditelj, razumem ga.
08:57
I get it,
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Razumem jer znam
08:59
knowing that there are so many sexual assaults
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da se seksualni napadi prečesto dešavaju
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on college campuses
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u studentskim kampusima
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that are so widespread and so under-reported.
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oni su toliko česti, a toliko ih je malo prijavljenih.
09:08
We've done a lot for adult women.
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Učinili smo puno toga za odrasle žene.
09:10
We've got to do a better job for our kids.
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Moramo uraditi bolji posao za našu decu.
09:13
We just do. We have to. (Applause)
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Jednostavno je tako. Moramo. (Aplauz)
09:16
We've come a long way
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Prešli smo veliki put
09:18
since the days of the Polaroid.
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od dana kada smo koristili polaroide.
09:21
Technology has been our friend.
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Tehnologija je bila naš prijatelj.
09:24
The mobile phone is a global game changer
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Mobilni telefon je potpuno preokrenuo igru
09:28
for the empowerment of women,
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i žene su postale sažnije,
09:30
and Facebook and Twitter and Google and YouTube
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a Fejsbuk, Tviter, Gugl i Jutjub
09:34
and all the social media helps us organize
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i svi društveni mediji pomogli su nam da osmislimo
09:38
and tell our story in a powerful way.
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i ispričamo našu priču na moćan način.
09:42
And so those of you in this audience
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I zato svima vama iz publike
09:44
who have helped build those applications
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koji ste učestvovali u stvaranju tih aplikacija
09:46
and those platforms, as an organizer,
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i tih platformi, kao organizator
09:48
I say, thank you very much.
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želim da vam kažem veliko hvala.
09:51
Really. I clap for you.
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Zaista, aplaudiram vam.
09:53
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
09:56
I'm the daughter of a man
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Moj otac je čovek koji se
09:59
who joined one club in his life,
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za života učlanio u samo jedan klub
10:01
the Optimist Club.
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Klub optimista.
10:04
You can't make that one up.
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Ne možete to da izmislite.
10:07
And it is his spirit and his optimism
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Njegov duh i njegov optimizam
10:11
that is in my DNA.
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su u mojim genima.
10:13
I have been doing this work
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Bavim se ovim radom
10:15
for over 30 years,
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preko trideset godina,
10:17
and I am convinced, now more than ever,
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i ubeđena sam, sad više nego ikad,
10:19
in the capacity of human beings to change.
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u to da su ljudi spremni na promenu.
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I believe we can bend the arc of human history
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Verujem da možemo da usmerimo tok ljudske istorije
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toward compassion and equality,
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prema samilosti i jednakosti,
10:30
and I also fundamentally believe
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i takođe duboko verujem
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and passionately believe
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i strastveno verujem
10:34
that this violence does not have to be part
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u to da nasilje ne mora da bude
10:38
of the human condition.
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deo čovečnosti.
10:39
And I ask you, stand with us
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Zato vas molim da budete uz nas
10:43
as we create futures without violence
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dok stvaramo budućnost bez nasilja
10:47
for women and girls and men and boys everywhere.
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za žene i devojčice i muškarce i dečake širom sveta.
10:51
Thank you very much.
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Mnogo vam hvala.
10:53
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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