The opportunity of adversity | Aimee Mullins

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Translator: Tarik Limo Reviewer: Vedran Dizdarevic
00:17
I'd like to share with you a discovery that I made a few months ago
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Voljela bih podijeliti sa vama nešto što sam otkrila prije par mjeseci,
00:22
while writing an article for Italian Wired.
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pišući članak za italijansko izdanje magazina Wired.
00:25
I always keep my thesaurus handy whenever I'm writing anything,
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Uvijek imam svoj rječnik sinonima pri ruci kad nešto pišem,
00:28
but I'd already finished editing the piece,
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ali sam već završila uređivanje teksta
00:31
and I realized that I had never once in my life
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i shvatila da nikad u životu nisam
00:34
looked up the word "disabled" to see what I'd find.
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potražila riječ "onesposobljen"
00:38
Let me read you the entry.
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Dopustite da vam pročitam unos.
00:41
"Disabled, adjective: crippled, helpless, useless, wrecked,
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"Onesposobljen," pridjev: "osakaćen, bespomoćan, beskoristan, ruiniran,
00:49
stalled, maimed, wounded, mangled, lame, mutilated,
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ugašen, oštećen, ranjen, manjkav, defektan, obogaljen,
00:56
run-down, worn-out, weakened, impotent, castrated, paralyzed, handicapped,
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uveo, potrošen, onemoćao, impotentan, kastriran, paraliziran, hendikepiran,
01:06
senile, decrepit, laid-up, done-up, done-for, done-in
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senilan, oronuo, oboljeo, iznuren, iscrpljen, izmoren,
01:12
cracked-up, counted-out;
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polomljen, otpisan;
01:16
see also hurt, useless and weak.
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također vidi: povrijeđen, nekoristan i slab.
01:20
Antonyms, healthy, strong, capable."
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Antonimi: zdrav, jak, sposoban."
01:26
I was reading this list out loud to a friend and at first was laughing,
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Ovu listu sam pročitala prijatelju na glas i prvo sam se smijala,
01:30
it was so ludicrous,
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bilo je tako komično,
01:32
but I'd just gotten past "mangled," and my voice broke,
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ali sam naprosto odjedanput bila shrvana i ostala bez glasa,
01:37
and I had to stop and collect myself
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i morala sam stati da se saberem
01:40
from the emotional shock and impact that the assault from these words unleashed.
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od emocionalnog šoka i udara izazvanog napasnošću ovih riječi.
01:50
You know, of course, this is my raggedy old thesaurus
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Znate, to je naravno moj stari ofucani rječnik sinonima.
01:53
so I'm thinking this must be an ancient print date, right?
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Mislim da to mora biti neko prastaro izdanje, zar ne.
01:56
But, in fact, the print date was the early 1980s,
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Ali, u stvari, izdanje datira iz ranih osamdesetih,
02:01
when I would have been starting primary school
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kad sam polazila u osnovnu školu
02:03
and forming an understanding of myself outside the family unit
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i oblikovala shvatanje sebe same izvan porodičnog kruga
02:07
and as related to the other kids and the world around me.
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te u odnosu prema drugoj djeci i svijetu koji me okružuje.
02:10
And, needless to say, thank God I wasn't using a thesaurus back then.
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I naravno, hvala Bogu da tada nisam koristila rječnik sinonima.
02:15
I mean, from this entry, it would seem that I was born into a world
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Mislim da bi, iz ovog unosa, izgledalo da sam rođena u svijetu
02:21
that perceived someone like me
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koji nekoga poput mene percepira
02:23
to have nothing positive whatsoever going for them,
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bez ikakve pozitivne osobine,
02:28
when in fact, today I'm celebrated for the opportunities and adventures
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a ja sam danas, u stvari, slavna zbog mogućnosti i uzbudljivih iskustava koje
02:34
my life has procured.
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je moj život kreirao.
02:36
So, I immediately went to look up the 2009 online edition,
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Pa sam tako odmah potražila online izdanje iz 2009.
02:42
expecting to find a revision worth noting.
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očekujući da ću naći neku reviziju vrijednu pažnje.
02:46
Here's the updated version of this entry.
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Evo ažurirane verzije ovog unosa.
02:49
Unfortunately, it's not much better.
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Nažalost, nije puno bolja.
02:52
I find the last two words under "Near Antonyms," particularly unsettling:
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Nalazim da su dvije zadnje riječi "Bliski Antonimi" posebno konfuzne,
02:58
"whole" and "wholesome."
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"cjelovit" i "zdrav."
03:02
So, it's not just about the words.
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Tako da se tu ne radi samo o riječima.
03:05
It's what we believe about people when we name them with these words.
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To je ono što vjerujemo kad su u pitanju ljudi koje imenujemo ovim riječima.
03:09
It's about the values behind the words, and how we construct those values.
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Tu se radi o vrijednostima koje stoje iza riječi i na koji način mi postavljamo ove vrijednosti.
03:14
Our language affects our thinking and how we view the world
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Naš jezik utiče na naše mišljenje i naš svjetonazor
03:18
and how we view other people.
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i našu percepciju drugih ljudi.
03:21
In fact, many ancient societies, including the Greeks and the Romans,
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U stvari, mnoga antička društva, uključujući Grke i Rimljane,
03:24
believed that to utter a curse verbally was so powerful,
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su vjerovala u moć verbalnog izricanja kletve,
03:29
because to say the thing out loud brought it into existence.
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zato što glasno izgovaranje nečega tu stvar čini postojećom.
03:35
So, what reality do we want to call into existence:
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Pa, koju stvarnost mi želimo kreirati,
03:40
a person who is limited, or a person who's empowered?
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osobu sa ograničenjima ili osnaženu osobu?
03:46
By casually doing something as simple as naming a person, a child,
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Ležerno čineći nešto tako jednostavno poput imenovanja osobe, djeteta,
03:52
we might be putting lids and casting shadows on their power.
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mogli bi smo ugasiti ili prigušiti njihovu moć.
03:59
Wouldn't we want to open doors for them instead?
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Zar ne bismo umjesto toga željeli da im otvorimo vrata?
04:03
One such person who opened doors for me was my childhood doctor
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Jedna takva osoba, koja je meni otvorila vrata, je bio moj doktor kad sam bila dijete
04:06
at the A.I. duPont Institute in Wilmington, Delaware.
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na A.I. Dupont Institutu u Wilmingtonu, Delaware.
04:11
His name was Dr. Pizzutillo,
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Zove se Dr. Pizzutillo.
04:14
an Italian American, whose name, apparently,
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Amerikanac italijanskog porijekla, čije je ime očito
04:16
was too difficult for most Americans to pronounce,
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većini Amerikanaca preteško za izgovoriti,
04:18
so he went by Dr. P.
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tako da ga znaju kao Dr. P.
04:20
And Dr. P always wore really colorful bow ties
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A Dr. P. je uvijek nosio mašne sa veselim bojama
04:24
and had the very perfect disposition to work with children.
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i imao savršene predispozicije za rad sa djecom.
04:30
I loved almost everything about my time spent at this hospital,
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Voljela sam gotovo u cijelosti vrijeme provedeno u ovoj bolnici,
04:35
with the exception of my physical therapy sessions.
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sa izuzetkom mojih fizikalnih terapija.
04:39
I had to do what seemed like innumerable repetitions of exercises
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Morala sam raditi nešto što je ličilo na bezbrojna ponavljanja vježbi
04:43
with these thick, elastic bands -- different colors,
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sa ovim glomaznim, elastičnim trakama -- različitih boja --
04:47
you know -- to help build up my leg muscles,
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da se pomogne izgradnja mojih nožnih mišića.
04:51
and I hated these bands more than anything --
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A ja sam mrzila te trake više od bilo čega drugog.
04:53
I hated them, had names for them. I hated them.
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Mrzila sam ih, pogrdno ih zvala. Mrzila sam ih.
04:56
And, you know, I was already bargaining, as a five year-old child,
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I, znate, već sam pregovarala, kao petogodišnja djevojčica,
05:00
with Dr. P to try to get out of doing these exercises,
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sa dr. P. da se izvučem iz ovog vježbanja,
05:03
unsuccessfully, of course.
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bez uspjeha, naravno.
05:05
And, one day, he came in to my session --
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I, jednog dana, on je došao na moje vježbe --
05:10
exhaustive and unforgiving, these sessions --
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iscrpljujuće i nemilosrdne, te vježbe --
05:14
and he said to me, "Wow. Aimee, you are such a strong and powerful little girl,
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i rekao mi je, "Opa. Aimee, ti si tako jaka i snažna mala djevojčica,
05:20
I think you're going to break one of those bands.
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mislim da ćeš pokidati ove trake.
05:23
When you do break it, I'm going to give you a hundred bucks."
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Ako ih pokidaš, ja ću ti dati sto dolara."
05:26
Now, of course, this was a simple ploy on Dr. P's part
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To je naravno bio mali trik dr. P-a
05:30
to get me to do the exercises I didn't want to do
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da me nagovori da radim vježbe koje nisam htjela raditi
05:33
before the prospect of being the richest five-year-old in the second floor ward,
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zbog mogućnosti da ću biti najbogatija petogodišnjakinja na drugom spratu bolnice,
05:38
but what he effectively did for me was reshape an awful daily occurrence
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ali ono što je on ustvari učinio za mene je preoblikovanje jednog groznog svakodnevnog događaja
05:46
into a new and promising experience for me.
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u novo i obećavajuće iskustvo za mene.
05:50
And I have to wonder today to what extent his vision
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I danas se moram zapitati, do koje mjere su njegova vizija
05:54
and his declaration of me as a strong and powerful little girl
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i njegovo deklarisanje mene kao snažne i moćne male djevojčice,
06:00
shaped my own view of myself
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oblikovali moju osobnu predstavu o samoj sebi
06:02
as an inherently strong, powerful and athletic person well into the future.
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kao prirodno snažnoj, moćnoj i atletskoj osobi u poodmakloj budućnosti.
06:08
This is an example of how adults in positions of power
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Ovo je primjer kako odrasli na pozicijama moći
06:11
can ignite the power of a child.
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mogu potaknuti moć djeteta.
06:15
But, in the previous instances of those thesaurus entries,
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Ali u prethodnim primjerima iz ovog rječnika sinonima,
06:19
our language isn't allowing us to evolve into the reality that we would all want,
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naš jezik nam ne dopušta da ostvarimo sebe onako kako bi smo svi željeli,
06:26
the possibility of an individual to see themselves as capable.
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mogućnost da pojedinac sebe vidi kao sposobnog.
06:32
Our language hasn't caught up with the changes in our society,
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Naš jezik nije išao u korak sa promjenama u našem društvu,
06:37
many of which have been brought about by technology.
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od kojih su mnoge vezane za tehnologiju.
06:40
Certainly, from a medical standpoint,
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Uistinu, sa medicinske tačke gledišta,
06:42
my legs, laser surgery for vision impairment,
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moje noge, laserska korekcija vida,
06:48
titanium knees and hip replacements for aging bodies
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koljeno od titanijuma i umjetni kuk za tijela izložena procesu starenja
06:51
that are allowing people to more fully engage with their abilities,
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koji dopuštaju ljudima da potpuno koriste svoje sposobnosti,
06:54
and move beyond the limits that nature has imposed on them --
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i nadilaze ograničenja koja im je priroda nametnula,
07:00
not to mention social networking platforms
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a da ne pominjemo platforme društvenog umrežavanja,
07:03
allow people to self-identify, to claim their own descriptions of themselves,
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koje dopuštaju ljudima da se samostalno identificiraju, definirajući lično svoj opis,
07:08
so they can go align with global groups of their own choosing.
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tako da mogu postati dio globalnih grupa po vlastitom izboru.
07:13
So, perhaps technology is revealing more clearly to us now
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Tako nam tehnologija danas možda jasnije otkriva
07:17
what has always been a truth:
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ono što je oduvijek bila istina,
07:20
that everyone has something rare and powerful to offer our society,
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da svako ima nešto osobito i snažno da ponudi našem društvu,
07:28
and that the human ability to adapt is our greatest asset.
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i da je ljudska sposobnost prilagođavanja naše najveće dobro.
07:33
The human ability to adapt, it's an interesting thing,
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Ljudska sposobnost prilagođavanja, to je jedna interesantna stvar,
07:36
because people have continually wanted to talk to me about overcoming adversity,
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zato što ljudi neprestano žele da sa mnom razgovaraju o prevazilaženju nedaće,
07:42
and I'm going to make an admission:
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i ja ću nešto priznati.
07:45
This phrase never sat right with me,
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Ova fraza mi nikad nije bila razumljiva,
07:47
and I always felt uneasy trying to answer people's questions about it,
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i uvijek sam osjećala nelagodu pokušavajući odgovoriti ljudima na njihova pitanja u vezi s tim,
07:51
and I think I'm starting to figure out why.
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i mislim da počinjem shvatati zašto je to tako.
07:55
Implicit in this phrase of "overcoming adversity"
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Implicitna u ovoj frazi o prevazilaženju nedaće
07:59
is the idea that success, or happiness,
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je ideja da se uspjeh ili sreća
08:03
is about emerging on the other side of a challenging experience
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događaju s onu stranu izazovnog iskustva
08:06
unscathed or unmarked by the experience,
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neozlijeđeni ili neobilježeni iskustvom,
08:11
as if my successes in life have come about from an ability
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kao da su se moji uspjesi u životu dogodili zahvaljujući sposobnosti
08:15
to sidestep or circumnavigate the presumed pitfalls of a life with prosthetics,
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da izbjegnem ili zaobiđem pretpostavljene zamke života sa protezama
08:20
or what other people perceive as my disability.
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ili onoga što drugi ljudi percepiraju kao moju nesposobnost.
08:23
But, in fact, we are changed. We are marked, of course, by a challenge,
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Ali, u stvari, mi smo se promijenili. Naravno, mi smo obilježeni izazovom,
08:29
whether physically, emotionally or both.
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bilo fizički, emocionalno ili i jedno i drugo.
08:32
And I'm going to suggest that this is a good thing.
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I predložiću da je to dobra stvar.
08:35
Adversity isn't an obstacle that we need to get around
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Nedaća nije prepreka koju trebamo zaobići
08:39
in order to resume living our life.
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u cilju da obnovimo življnje naših života.
08:42
It's part of our life.
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To je dio našeg života.
08:45
And I tend to think of it like my shadow.
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I nastojim misliti o tome kao o svojoj sijenci.
08:48
Sometimes I see a lot of it, sometimes there's very little,
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Ponekad je vidim kao ogromnu, a ponekad je skoro neprimjetna,
08:51
but it's always with me.
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ali je uvijek sa mnom.
08:53
And, certainly, I'm not trying to diminish the impact, the weight, of a person's struggle.
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I, svakako, ja ne pokušavam umanjiti uticaj, težinu nečije borbe.
09:00
There is adversity and challenge in life,
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U životu postoji nedaća i izazov,
09:03
and it's all very real and relative to every single person,
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i to je sve veoma realno i odnosi se na svakoga,
09:06
but the question isn't whether or not you're going to meet adversity,
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ali pitanje nije da li ćete se suočiti sa nedaćom ili ne,
09:10
but how you're going to meet it.
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nego kako ćete se suočiti.
09:13
So, our responsibility is not simply shielding those we care for from adversity,
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Tako naša odgovornost nije da naprosto štitimo one do kojih nam je stalo od nedaće,
09:20
but preparing them to meet it well.
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nego da ih dobro pripremimo za taj izazov.
09:23
And we do a disservice to our kids
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Mi činimo medvjeđu uslugu našoj djeci
09:27
when we make them feel that they're not equipped to adapt.
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ako im stvaramo osjećaj da oni nisu opremljeni za prilagođavanje.
09:34
There's an important difference and distinction
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Postoji jedna važna razlika i distinkcija
09:37
between the objective medical fact of my being an amputee
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između objektivne medicinske činjenice da sam ja amputirac
09:42
and the subjective societal opinion of whether or not I'm disabled.
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i subjektivnog društvenog mišljenja da li sam ja nesposobna ili ne.
09:48
And, truthfully, the only real and consistent disability I've had to confront
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I, zbilja, jedina realna i konzistentna nesposobnost sa kojom sam se morala suočiti
09:53
is the world ever thinking that I could be described by those definitions.
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je taj svijet koji misli da me može svesti na te definicije.
09:59
In our desire to protect those we care about
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U našoj želji da zaštitimo one do kojih nam je stalo
10:02
by giving them the cold, hard truth about their medical prognosis,
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dajući im hladne, surove istine o njihovim medicinskim prognozama,
10:06
or, indeed, a prognosis on the expected quality of their life,
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ili, uistinu, prognozu o očekivanom kvalitetu njihovog života,
10:10
we have to make sure that we don't put the first brick in a wall
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moramo paziti da ne uzidamo prvu ciglu u zid
10:14
that will actually disable someone.
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koji će zapravo onesposobiti nekoga.
10:19
Perhaps the existing model of only looking at what is broken in you
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Možda postojeći model koji samo gleda šta je neispravno u vama
10:24
and how do we fix it, serves to be more disabling to the individual
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i kako to popraviti, ide više na ruku onesposobljavanja neke individue
10:28
than the pathology itself.
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nego samo to oboljenje.
10:31
By not treating the wholeness of a person,
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Ne tretirajući cjelovitost jedne osobe,
10:36
by not acknowledging their potency,
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ne priznavajući njenu potencijalnu snagu,
10:38
we are creating another ill on top of whatever natural struggle they might have.
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mi stvaramo još jednu bolest na površini prirodne borbe koju ona proživljava.
10:45
We are effectively grading someone's worth to our community.
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Mi efektvno rangiramo nečiju vrijednost za našu zajednicu.
10:51
So we need to see through the pathology
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Tako mi trebamo istražiti patologiju
10:54
and into the range of human capability.
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i uvidjeti opseg ljudske sposobnosti.
11:00
And, most importantly, there's a partnership
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I što je najvažnije, postoji partnerstvo
11:04
between those perceived deficiencies
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između onoga što poimamo kao nedostatak
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and our greatest creative ability.
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i naše najveće kreativne sposobnosti.
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So it's not about devaluing, or negating, these more trying times
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Ne radi se ovdje o devalviranju ili negiranju ovih nastojanja
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as something we want to avoid or sweep under the rug,
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kao nečega što hoćemo da izbjegnemo ili pometemo pod tepih,
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but instead to find those opportunities wrapped in the adversity.
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nego da umjesto toga prepoznamo mogućnsti upakovane u nedaću.
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So maybe the idea I want to put out there is
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Tako da možda ideja koju želim da izložim je
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not so much overcoming adversity
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ne u tolikoj mjeri savladavanje nedaće,
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as it is opening ourselves up to it,
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koliko je to naše otvaranje prema njoj,
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embracing it,
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njeno prigrljivanje,
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grappling with it,
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gombanje sa njom,
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to use a wrestling term,
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da upotrijebim hrvački termin,
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maybe even dancing with it.
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možda čak i plesanje sa njom.
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And, perhaps, if we see adversity as natural, consistent and useful,
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I ako možda nedaću posmatramo kao prirodnu, konzistentnu i korisnu,
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we're less burdened by the presence of it.
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manje smo opterećeni njenim prisustvom.
11:57
This year we celebrate the 200th birthday of Charles Darwin,
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Ove godine slavimo dvjestoti rođendan Čarlsa Darvina,
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and it was 150 years ago, when writing about evolution,
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a prije 150 godina, kad je pisao o evoluciji,
12:04
that Darwin illustrated, I think, a truth about the human character.
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mislim da je Darvin ilustrirao jednu istinu o ljudskom karakteru.
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To paraphrase: It's not the strongest of the species that survives,
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Da parafraziram, ne preživljavaju najjače vrste,
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nor is it the most intelligent that survives;
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niti preživljavaju najinteligentniji,
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it is the one that is most adaptable to change.
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nego oni koji se najbolje adaptiraju na promjenu.
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Conflict is the genesis of creation.
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Konflikt je geneza stvaranja.
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From Darwin's work, amongst others, we can recognize that
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Iz Darvinovog rada, između ostalog, možemo prepoznati da se
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the human ability to survive and flourish
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ljudska sposobnost da preživi i napreduje
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is driven by the struggle of the human spirit through conflict
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pokreće borbom ljudskog duha kroz konflikt
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into transformation.
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u transformaciju.
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So, again, transformation, adaptation, is our greatest human skill.
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Tako, ponovo, transformacija, adaptacija, je naša najveća ljudska vještina.
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And, perhaps, until we're tested, we don't know what we're made of.
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I, možda, dok se ne testiramo, ne znamo od čega smo napravljeni.
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Maybe that's what adversity gives us:
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Možda je to ono što nam nedaća pruža,
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a sense of self, a sense of our own power.
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osjećaj sebe, osjećaj naše sopstvene snage.
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So, we can give ourselves a gift.
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Mi tako možemo sami sebi nešto pokloniti.
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We can re-imagine adversity as something more than just tough times.
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Nedaću možemo nanovo promišljati kao nešto izvan i iznad pukog mučenja.
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Maybe we can see it as change.
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Možda je možemo posmatrati kao promjenu.
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Adversity is just change that we haven't adapted ourselves to yet.
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Nedaća je upravo promjena na koju se još nismo prilagodili.
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I think the greatest adversity that we've created for ourselves
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Mislim da je najveća nedaća koju smo sami sebi kreirali
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is this idea of normalcy.
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ta ideja normalnosti.
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Now, who's normal?
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Pa, ko je sad normalan?
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There's no normal.
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Ne postoji normalno.
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There's common, there's typical. There's no normal,
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Postoji zajedničko. Postoji tipično. Ne postoji normalno.
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and would you want to meet that poor, beige person if they existed?
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I da li biste željeli upoznati tu jadnu, monotonu osobu ako bi takva postojala?
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(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
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I don't think so.
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Ne mislim da bi.
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If we can change this paradigm from one of achieving normalcy
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Ako možemo promijeniti ovu paradigmu postizanja normalnosti
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to one of possibility -- or potency, to be even a little bit more dangerous --
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u onu koja se tiče mogućnosti ili potencijala, uz čak malo više rizika,
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we can release the power of so many more children,
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možemo osloboditi snagu većeg broja djece,
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and invite them to engage their rare and valuable abilities with the community.
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i pozvati ih da kroz svoje nesvakidašnje i vrijedne sposobnosti doprinesu zajednici.
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Anthropologists tell us that the one thing
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Antropolozi nam govore da nešto što
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we as humans have always required of our community members
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mi kao ljudska bića uvijek tražimo od članova zajednice
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is to be of use, to be able to contribute.
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je da budu od koristi, da budu sposobni da doprinose.
14:10
There's evidence that Neanderthals, 60,000 years ago,
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Postoji dokaz da su neandertalci prije 60.000 godina,
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carried their elderly and those with serious physical injury,
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nosili svoje starije članove i one sa ozbiljnim fizičkim ozljedama,
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and perhaps it's because the life experience of survival of these people
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i možda zato što se životno iskustvo opstanka ovih ljudi
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proved of value to the community.
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pokazalo vrijednim za zajednicu:
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They didn't view these people as broken and useless;
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oni nisu ove ljude posmatrali kao polomljene i beskorisne:
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they were seen as rare and valuable.
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oni su smatrani posebnim i vrijednim.
14:36
A few years ago, I was in a food market in the town where I grew up
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Prije nekoloko godina, bila sam na pijaci u gradu u kojem sam odrasla
14:39
in that red zone in northeastern Pennsylvania,
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u toj crvenoj zoni Sjeveroistočne Pensilvanije,
14:43
and I was standing over a bushel of tomatoes.
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i stajala nad hrpom paradaiza.
14:45
It was summertime: I had shorts on.
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Bilo je ljeto. Nosila sam šorc.
14:47
I hear this guy, his voice behind me say, "Well, if it isn't Aimee Mullins."
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Čujem sam glas čovjeka iza mene koji govori, "Pa dobro, ako to nije Aimee Mullins."
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And I turn around, and it's this older man. I have no idea who he is.
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I ja se okrećem, vidim starijeg čovjeka. Nemam pojma ko je on.
14:56
And I said, "I'm sorry, sir, have we met? I don't remember meeting you."
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Rekla sam, "Izvinite gospodine, da li se mi poznajemo? Ne sjećam se da sam vas upoznala."
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He said, "Well, you wouldn't remember meeting me.
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On reče, "Pa dobro, i ne možeš se sjećati da si me upoznala.
15:04
I mean, when we met I was delivering you from your mother's womb."
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Mislim, kad smo se upoznavali ja sam te izvlačio iz maternice tvoje majke."
15:07
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
15:09
Oh, that guy.
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O, taj čovjek.
15:12
And, but of course, actually, it did click.
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I, ali naravno, zapravo, ukapirala sam.
15:14
This man was Dr. Kean,
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Taj čovjek je bio dr. Kean,
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a man that I had only known about through my mother's stories of that day,
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čovjek kojeg sam sam znala samo kroz priče moje majke o tom danu,
15:21
because, of course, typical fashion, I arrived late for my birthday by two weeks.
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zato što sam naravno, u svom tipičnom stilu, stigla sa dvije sedmice zakašnjenja na svoj rođendan.
15:27
And so my mother's prenatal physician had gone on vacation,
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I tako je, majčin ginekolog otišao na odmor,
15:31
so the man who delivered me was a complete stranger to my parents.
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pa je čovjek koji je izvršio porođaj bio potpuno nepoznat mojim roditeljima.
15:36
And, because I was born without the fibula bones,
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I zato što sam rođena bez lisne kosti,
15:39
and had feet turned in, and a few toes in this foot and a few toes in that,
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i imala uvrnuta stopala, i par nožnih prsta u ovom stopalu i par u ovom drugom,
15:42
he had to be the bearer -- this stranger had to be the bearer of bad news.
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on je morao da bude taj, ovaj stranac je morao da bude taj koji je donio loše vijesti.
15:47
He said to me, "I had to give this prognosis to your parents
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Rekao mi je, "Morao sam dati ovu prognozu tvojim roditeljima
15:51
that you would never walk,
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da ti nikad nećeš prohodati,
15:53
and you would never have the kind of mobility that other kids have
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i da nikad nećeš imati vrstu mobilnosti koju imaju druga djeca
15:57
or any kind of life of independence,
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ili neku neovisnost u životu,
15:59
and you've been making liar out of me ever since."
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i ti si me sve od tada pravila lažovom."
16:01
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
16:03
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
16:09
The extraordinary thing is that he said he had saved
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Čudesna stvar je to što je rekao da je sakupljao
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newspaper clippings throughout my whole childhood,
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novinske isječke tokom cijelog mog djetinjstva,
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whether winning a second grade spelling bee,
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bilo da se radilo o odlikovanju za pravopis drugom razredu osnovne,
16:18
marching with the Girl Scouts, you know, the Halloween parade,
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maršu sa djevojkama skautima, kao što znate, Halloween parada,
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winning my college scholarship, or any of my sports victories,
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kad sam dobila stipendiju za koledž, ili bilo koja moja sportska pobjeda,
16:26
and he was using it, and integrating it into teaching resident students,
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i on je to koristio i integrirao u predavanja za redovne studente,
16:32
med students from Hahnemann Medical School and Hershey Medical School.
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studente medicine sa Hahnemann i Hershey medicinskih škola.
16:37
And he called this part of the course the X Factor,
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I nazvao je ovaj dio predavanja X Factor,
16:40
the potential of the human will.
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potencijal ljudske volje.
16:43
No prognosis can account for how powerful this could be
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Nijedna prognoza ne može objasniti koliko ovo može biti snažno
16:47
as a determinant in the quality of someone's life.
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kao odrednica u kvalitetu nečijeg života.
16:51
And Dr. Kean went on to tell me,
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I dr. Kean je nastavio da mi govori,
16:54
he said, "In my experience, unless repeatedly told otherwise,
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rekao je, "Po mom iskustvu, ukoliko nije drugačije rečeno više puta,
17:02
and even if given a modicum of support,
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i čak ako je mu dato nešto malo podrške,
17:06
if left to their own devices, a child will achieve."
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ako je prepušteno vlastitim mehanizmima, dijete će uspjeti."
17:12
See, Dr. Kean made that shift in thinking.
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Vidite, dr. Kean je napravio taj pomak u mišljenju.
17:16
He understood that there's a difference between the medical condition
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On je shvatio da postoji razlika između medicinskog stanja
17:19
and what someone might do with it.
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i onoga šta neko može učiniti sa tim.
17:22
And there's been a shift in my thinking over time,
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I bio je pomak u mom mišljenju tokom vremena,
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in that, if you had asked me at 15 years old,
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u tome, da ste me pitali kad sam imala 15 godina,
17:29
if I would have traded prosthetics for flesh-and-bone legs,
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ja bih zamijenila proteze sa nogama od kosti i mesa,
17:33
I wouldn't have hesitated for a second.
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ne bih oklijevala ni sekundu.
17:36
I aspired to that kind of normalcy back then.
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Čeznula sam tada za tom vrstom normalnosti.
17:42
But if you ask me today, I'm not so sure.
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Ako me danas pitate, nisam tako sigurna.
17:45
And it's because of the experiences I've had with them,
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A to je zbog iskustava koje sam imala s njima,
17:50
not in spite of the experiences I've had with them.
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ne uprkos iskustvima koje sam imala sa njima.
17:56
And perhaps this shift in me has happened
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Možda se ovaj pomak u meni desio
17:59
because I've been exposed to more people who have opened doors for me
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zato što sam bila u dodiru sa više ljudi koji su otvorili vrata za mene
18:04
than those who have put lids and cast shadows on me.
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nego sa onima koji su me sputavali i bacali sjenke na mene.
18:11
See, all you really need is one person
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Vidite, sve što vam zaista treba, je jedna osoba
18:13
to show you the epiphany of your own power, and you're off.
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koja će vam otkriti vašu osobnu moć i vi letite.
18:18
If you can hand somebody the key to their own power --
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Ako nekome možete dati ključ njegove osobne moći,
18:23
the human spirit is so receptive -- if you can do that
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ljudski duh je tako receptivan, ako to možete učiniti
18:25
and open a door for someone at a crucial moment,
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i otvoriti vrata za nekoga u odsudnom momentu,
18:28
you are educating them in the best sense.
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vi ga educirate u najboljem smislu.
18:31
You're teaching them to open doors for themselves.
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Vi ih učite da otvore vrata za sebe same.
18:36
In fact, the exact meaning of the word "educate"
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U stvari, tačno značenje riječi "educirati"
18:42
comes from the root word "educe."
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potiče iz korjena riječi "izvući"
18:44
It means "to bring forth what is within,
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To znači, iznijeti na vidjelo ono što je unutar,
18:48
to bring out potential."
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izvući potencijal.
18:50
So again, which potential do we want to bring out?
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Tako ponovo, koji potencijal želimo izvući?
18:55
There was a case study done in 1960s Britain,
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Bila je jedna studija slučaja 1960 u Britaniji,
18:58
when they were moving from grammar schools to comprehensive schools.
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sa učenicima osnovnih škola i gimnazijalcima.
19:03
It's called the streaming trials. We call it "tracking" here in the States.
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Zove se probe toka. Mi to ovdje u SAD zovemo praćenje.
19:06
It's separating students from A, B, C, D and so on.
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Učenici su podijeljeni na grupe A, B, C, D itd.
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And the "A students" get the tougher curriculum, the best teachers, etc.
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Tako da A učenici imaju najteži nastavni program, najbolje nastavnike itd.
19:16
Well, they took, over a three-month period,
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Dakle, oni su uzeli, tokom tromjesečnog perioda,
19:18
D-level students, gave them A's,
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učenike D nivoa i dali im A program,
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told them they were "A's," told them they were bright,
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rekli im da su oni A i rekli im da su pametni.
19:24
and at the end of this three-month period,
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I na kraju ovog tromjesečnog perioda,
19:26
they were performing at A-level.
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oni su imali rezultate A nivoa.
19:29
And, of course, the heartbreaking, flip side of this study,
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I, naravno, tužno naličje ove studije,
19:32
is that they took the "A students" and told them they were "D's."
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je da su oni uzeli A učenike i rekli im da su D.
19:37
And that's what happened at the end of that three-month period.
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I ono što se dogodilo na kraju tromjesečnog perioda.
19:40
Those who were still around in school, besides the people who had dropped out.
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Neki su se još motali po školi, a neki su je napustili.
19:46
A crucial part of this case study was that the teachers were duped too.
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Krucijalni dio ove studije je da su i nastavnici zavarani.
19:55
The teachers didn't know a switch had been made.
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Nastavnici nisu znali da je izvršena zamjena.
19:57
They were simply told, "These are the 'A-students,' these are the 'D-students.'"
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Jednostavno im je rečeno ovo su A učenici, ovo su D učenici.
20:01
And that's how they went about teaching them and treating them.
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I oni su ih na taj način učili i tretirali.
20:07
So, I think that the only true disability is a crushed spirit,
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Tako da mislim da je jedina nesposobnost slomljeni duh,
20:16
a spirit that's been crushed doesn't have hope,
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duh koji je slomljen nema nade.
20:21
it doesn't see beauty,
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Ne vidi ljepotu.
20:23
it no longer has our natural, childlike curiosity
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Više ne posjeduje prirodnu, dječju radoznalost
20:29
and our innate ability to imagine.
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i našu unutrašnju sposobnost imaginacije.
20:32
If instead, we can bolster a human spirit to keep hope,
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Ako umjesto toga, možemo ojačati ljudski duh da održava nadu,
20:37
to see beauty in themselves and others,
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da vidi ljepotu u sebi i drugima,
20:41
to be curious and imaginative,
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da bude radoznao i imaginativan,
20:44
then we are truly using our power well.
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onda mi istinski dobro koristimo našu snagu.
20:48
When a spirit has those qualities, we are able to create new realities
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Kada duh ima te kvalitete, u stanju smo da kreiramo nove stvarnosti
20:54
and new ways of being.
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i nove načine bitisanja.
20:57
I'd like to leave you with a poem
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Želim da vam ostavim jednu pjesmu
20:59
by a fourteenth-century Persian poet named Hafiz
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čiji je autor perzijski pjesnik iz četrnaestog stoljeća po imenu Hafiz
21:03
that my friend, Jacques Dembois told me about,
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o kojoj mi je pričao moj prijatelj Jacques Dembois.
21:06
and the poem is called "The God Who Only Knows Four Words":
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A pjesma se zove "Bog koji samo četiri riječi zna."
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"Every child has known God,
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"Svako dijete je upoznalo Boga,
21:15
not the God of names,
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ne Boga imena,
21:17
not the God of don'ts,
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ne Boga nemogućnosti,
21:20
but the God who only knows four words and keeps repeating them,
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nego Boga koji samo četiri riječi zna i stalno ih ponavlja,
21:25
saying, 'Come dance with me.
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Come, dance with me. Come, dance with me.'"
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Dođite zaplesati sa mnom.
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Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
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(Applause)
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