The opportunity of adversity | Aimee Mullins

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Prevoditelj: Antun Zupanc Recezent: Romana Perković
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I'd like to share with you a discovery that I made a few months ago
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Podijelit ću s vama nedavno saznanje
00:22
while writing an article for Italian Wired.
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dok sam pisala članak za talijansko izdanje Wireda.
00:25
I always keep my thesaurus handy whenever I'm writing anything,
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Dok pišem nešto, leksikon riječi uvijek mi je pri ruci,
00:28
but I'd already finished editing the piece,
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te sam po završetku uređivanja teksta,
00:31
and I realized that I had never once in my life
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shvatila da nikada u životu nisam
00:34
looked up the word "disabled" to see what I'd find.
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pogledala značenje riječi "invaliditet".
00:38
Let me read you the entry.
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Pročitat ću vam što je pisalo.
00:41
"Disabled, adjective: crippled, helpless, useless, wrecked,
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"invaliditet, invalidan": "osakaćen, bespomoćan, beskoristan, uništen,
00:49
stalled, maimed, wounded, mangled, lame, mutilated,
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zaostao, sakat, ranjen, oštećen, hrom, osakaćen,
00:56
run-down, worn-out, weakened, impotent, castrated, paralyzed, handicapped,
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pregažen, iznošen, oslabljen, nemoćan, kastriran, paraliziran, hendikepiran,
01:06
senile, decrepit, laid-up, done-up, done-for, done-in
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senilan, oronuo, povaljen, uništen...
01:12
cracked-up, counted-out;
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polomljen, izdvojen;
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see also hurt, useless and weak.
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također pogledaj pod povrijeđen, beskoristan i slab.
01:20
Antonyms, healthy, strong, capable."
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Oprečno od zdrav, jak, sposoban."
01:26
I was reading this list out loud to a friend and at first was laughing,
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Pročitavši to prijatelju kroz smijeh,
01:30
it was so ludicrous,
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u tom trenutku se činilo smiješnim,
01:32
but I'd just gotten past "mangled," and my voice broke,
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ali kad sam shvatila duboku uvredu, glas mi je pukao,
01:37
and I had to stop and collect myself
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i morala sam se pribrati
01:40
from the emotional shock and impact that the assault from these words unleashed.
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od šoka i uvrede nanešenih ovim riječima.
01:50
You know, of course, this is my raggedy old thesaurus
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Naravno, radilo se o mom starom "ofucanom" leksikonu.
01:53
so I'm thinking this must be an ancient print date, right?
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Mora da je prastar, mislila sam.
01:56
But, in fact, the print date was the early 1980s,
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No, ustvari, bio je izdanje iz ranih osamdesetih,
02:01
when I would have been starting primary school
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iz vremena mog polaska u osnovnu školu
02:03
and forming an understanding of myself outside the family unit
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kada sam počela upoznavati sebe van svoje obitelji
02:07
and as related to the other kids and the world around me.
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i uspoređivati se sa ostalom djecom i novom okolinom.
02:10
And, needless to say, thank God I wasn't using a thesaurus back then.
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I hvala Bogu, što tada nisam koristila taj leksikon.
02:15
I mean, from this entry, it would seem that I was born into a world
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Za mene bi ta definicija značila dolazak na svijet
02:21
that perceived someone like me
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u kojem se za nekog poput mene
02:23
to have nothing positive whatsoever going for them,
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ne može dogoditi ništa pozitivno,
02:28
when in fact, today I'm celebrated for the opportunities and adventures
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no umjesto toga nosim slavu svojih mogućnosti i avantura
02:34
my life has procured.
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koje mi je donio život.
02:36
So, I immediately went to look up the 2009 online edition,
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Stoga sam istog trena pogledala online izdanje iz 2009.,
02:42
expecting to find a revision worth noting.
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očekujući izmjene.
02:46
Here's the updated version of this entry.
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Evo i dorađene inačice iste definicije.
02:49
Unfortunately, it's not much better.
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Nažalost, bez poboljšanja.
02:52
I find the last two words under "Near Antonyms," particularly unsettling:
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Posebno pogođena riječima pod "Bliski oprečni pojmovi",
02:58
"whole" and "wholesome."
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"potpun" i "potpunost".
03:02
So, it's not just about the words.
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Ovdje nije samo problem u riječima.
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It's what we believe about people when we name them with these words.
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Nego o našem uvjerenju kad ih koristimo.
03:09
It's about the values behind the words, and how we construct those values.
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Bit je u vrijednosti iza tih riječi, i kako stvaramo vrijednosti.
03:14
Our language affects our thinking and how we view the world
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Jezik utječe na naša razmišljanja i stavove,
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and how we view other people.
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i način kako gledamo na druge.
03:21
In fact, many ancient societies, including the Greeks and the Romans,
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Stare civilizacije, poput grčke i rimske,
03:24
believed that to utter a curse verbally was so powerful,
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vjerovale su u snagu izrečenog uroka,
03:29
because to say the thing out loud brought it into existence.
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jer reći nešto je značilo oživiti to isto.
03:35
So, what reality do we want to call into existence:
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Što ustvari želimo da se obistini,
03:40
a person who is limited, or a person who's empowered?
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ograničena ili osnažena osoba?
03:46
By casually doing something as simple as naming a person, a child,
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Imenujemo li tako osobu ili dijete,
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we might be putting lids and casting shadows on their power.
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bacamo sjenu na njihovu snagu,
03:59
Wouldn't we want to open doors for them instead?
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Zašto im ne otvoriti vrata umjesto toga?
04:03
One such person who opened doors for me was my childhood doctor
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Onaj, tko je meni otvorio vrata, bio je moj liječnik
04:06
at the A.I. duPont Institute in Wilmington, Delaware.
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iz A.I. Dupont instituta u Wilmingtonu, Delaware.
04:11
His name was Dr. Pizzutillo,
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Njegovo ime je dr. Pizzutillo.
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an Italian American, whose name, apparently,
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Talijan, čije ime je bilo
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was too difficult for most Americans to pronounce,
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suviše teško za izgovor,
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so he went by Dr. P.
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pa je prozvan dr. P.
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And Dr. P always wore really colorful bow ties
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Dr. P. je uvijek nosio šarene leptir kravate
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and had the very perfect disposition to work with children.
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i bio je vješt u ophođenju sa djecom.
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I loved almost everything about my time spent at this hospital,
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Voljela sam sve vezano za moj boravak u toj bolnici,
04:35
with the exception of my physical therapy sessions.
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izuzev fizikalne terapije.
04:39
I had to do what seemed like innumerable repetitions of exercises
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Koja se sastojala od bezbroj ponavljanja istih vježbi
04:43
with these thick, elastic bands -- different colors,
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sa debelim, elastičnim trakama -- raznih boja --
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you know -- to help build up my leg muscles,
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za jačanje nožnih mišića.
04:51
and I hated these bands more than anything --
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Te trake bile su mi nadasve mrske.
04:53
I hated them, had names for them. I hated them.
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Mrzila sam ih, zvala ih pogrdno. Mrzila sam ih.
04:56
And, you know, I was already bargaining, as a five year-old child,
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Već kao petogodišnje dijete, cjenkala sam se
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with Dr. P to try to get out of doing these exercises,
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sa dr. P. ne bih li izbjegla te vježbe,
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unsuccessfully, of course.
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neuspješno, naravno.
05:05
And, one day, he came in to my session --
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Jednog dana, došao je na terapiju --
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exhaustive and unforgiving, these sessions --
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iscrpljujuću terapiju --
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and he said to me, "Wow. Aimee, you are such a strong and powerful little girl,
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i rekao mi, "Aimee, ti si toliko jaka, snažna mala djevojčica,
05:20
I think you're going to break one of those bands.
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da ćeš potrgati jednu od traka.
05:23
When you do break it, I'm going to give you a hundred bucks."
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Ako uspiješ, dat ću ti 100 dolara."
05:26
Now, of course, this was a simple ploy on Dr. P's part
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Naravno, dr. P. me tek motivirao
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to get me to do the exercises I didn't want to do
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da odradim toliko mrske mi vježbe
05:33
before the prospect of being the richest five-year-old in the second floor ward,
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umjesto da me učini malom bogatašicom 2. kata,
05:38
but what he effectively did for me was reshape an awful daily occurrence
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i zamijenio ružnu svakodnevicu
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into a new and promising experience for me.
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novim i obećavajućim iskustvom.
05:50
And I have to wonder today to what extent his vision
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Pitam se, do koje je mjere njegovo viđenje
05:54
and his declaration of me as a strong and powerful little girl
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jake i snažne djevojčice
06:00
shaped my own view of myself
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oblikovalo mene
06:02
as an inherently strong, powerful and athletic person well into the future.
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kao jaku i snažnu atletičarku današnjice.
06:08
This is an example of how adults in positions of power
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Ovo je primjer kako odrasli
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can ignite the power of a child.
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mogu potaknuti djetetovu snagu.
06:15
But, in the previous instances of those thesaurus entries,
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No, vratimo li se na značenje iz leksikona,
06:19
our language isn't allowing us to evolve into the reality that we would all want,
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shvaćamo da nam jezik ne dopušta budućnost kakvu želimo,
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the possibility of an individual to see themselves as capable.
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mogućnost da se osoba vidi kao sposobna.
06:32
Our language hasn't caught up with the changes in our society,
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Jezik se ne mijenja brzinom promjena u društvu,
06:37
many of which have been brought about by technology.
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od kojih su mnoge uvjetovane tehnologijom.
06:40
Certainly, from a medical standpoint,
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S medicinskog stajališta,
06:42
my legs, laser surgery for vision impairment,
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moje noge, laserske operacije vida,
06:48
titanium knees and hip replacements for aging bodies
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umetci za koljeno i kukove od titana
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that are allowing people to more fully engage with their abilities,
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omogućili su ljudima da aktiviraju svoje mogućnosti,
06:54
and move beyond the limits that nature has imposed on them --
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i pređu granice koje im je postavila priroda,
07:00
not to mention social networking platforms
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da ne spominjem društvene mreže,
07:03
allow people to self-identify, to claim their own descriptions of themselves,
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koje omogućuju vlastitu identifikaciju i opis samoga sebe,
07:08
so they can go align with global groups of their own choosing.
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i daju mogućnost odabira u povezivanju sa ljudima.
07:13
So, perhaps technology is revealing more clearly to us now
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Tehnologija nam uistinu otkriva ono
07:17
what has always been a truth:
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što je oduvijek bila istina,
07:20
that everyone has something rare and powerful to offer our society,
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da svatko nudi nešto rijetko i moćno,
07:28
and that the human ability to adapt is our greatest asset.
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i da je prilagodba naša najveća vrijednost.
07:33
The human ability to adapt, it's an interesting thing,
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Mogućnost prilagodbe u čovjeka je zanimljiva
07:36
because people have continually wanted to talk to me about overcoming adversity,
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jer je prevladavanje teškoća vrlo česta tema mojih razgovora,
07:42
and I'm going to make an admission:
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i stoga ću reći.
07:45
This phrase never sat right with me,
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Prevladavanje teškoća, termin je
07:47
and I always felt uneasy trying to answer people's questions about it,
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koji ne volim i teško mi je objasniti ga,
07:51
and I think I'm starting to figure out why.
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i mislim da shvaćam zbog čega.
07:55
Implicit in this phrase of "overcoming adversity"
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Ovaj termin u sebi sadrži
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is the idea that success, or happiness,
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poimanje uspjeha ili sreće,
08:03
is about emerging on the other side of a challenging experience
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kao prolaz kroz izazovno iskustvo
08:06
unscathed or unmarked by the experience,
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koje ne ostavlja trag i ožiljke,
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as if my successes in life have come about from an ability
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i da li je moj uspjeh pronikao iz sposobnosti
08:15
to sidestep or circumnavigate the presumed pitfalls of a life with prosthetics,
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da zaobiđem poteškoće u životu uz pomoć proteza,
08:20
or what other people perceive as my disability.
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ili je rezultat onog što se smatralo mojim nedostatkom.
08:23
But, in fact, we are changed. We are marked, of course, by a challenge,
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Mi se mijenjamo. Obilježeni izazovima,
08:29
whether physically, emotionally or both.
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tjelesnim, emocionalnim ili oboje.
08:32
And I'm going to suggest that this is a good thing.
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Smatram to dobrim.
08:35
Adversity isn't an obstacle that we need to get around
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Poteškoća nije ono što bismo trebali zaobići
08:39
in order to resume living our life.
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kako bi nastavili živjeti.
08:42
It's part of our life.
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Ona je dio nas.
08:45
And I tend to think of it like my shadow.
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I ja je smatram svojom sjenom.
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Sometimes I see a lot of it, sometimes there's very little,
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Ponekad je velika, a ponekad jedva vidljiva,
08:51
but it's always with me.
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no uvijek je uz mene.
08:53
And, certainly, I'm not trying to diminish the impact, the weight, of a person's struggle.
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Naravno, ne umanjujući težinu i važnost nečije borbe.
09:00
There is adversity and challenge in life,
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U životu postoje i nedaće i izazovi,
09:03
and it's all very real and relative to every single person,
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stvarne i osobne za svakog od nas,
09:06
but the question isn't whether or not you're going to meet adversity,
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i nije bitno hoćemo li se susresti sa nedaćama,
09:10
but how you're going to meet it.
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već kako ćemo ih dočekati.
09:13
So, our responsibility is not simply shielding those we care for from adversity,
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Dužnost nam nije samo zaštititi voljene od nedaća,
09:20
but preparing them to meet it well.
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već ih i pripremiti za njih.
09:23
And we do a disservice to our kids
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Naš odnos spram djece je loš
09:27
when we make them feel that they're not equipped to adapt.
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ako ih činimo nespremnima za promjene.
09:34
There's an important difference and distinction
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Bitna je razlika
09:37
between the objective medical fact of my being an amputee
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između mog objektivnog oštećenja
09:42
and the subjective societal opinion of whether or not I'm disabled.
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i subjektivne prosudbe društva o mojim teškoćama.
09:48
And, truthfully, the only real and consistent disability I've had to confront
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Iskreno, jedina stvarna prepreka u mom životu jest
09:53
is the world ever thinking that I could be described by those definitions.
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strah da ću biti opisana jednom od onih definicija.
09:59
In our desire to protect those we care about
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U želji da zaštitimo voljene
10:02
by giving them the cold, hard truth about their medical prognosis,
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dajući im surovu istinu o medicinskoj prognozi,
10:06
or, indeed, a prognosis on the expected quality of their life,
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ili prognozirajući kvalitetu njihova života,
10:10
we have to make sure that we don't put the first brick in a wall
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moramo biti obzirni i ne povrijediti ih
10:14
that will actually disable someone.
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i time ih učiniti nesposobnima.
10:19
Perhaps the existing model of only looking at what is broken in you
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Možda sam model traženja greške u nekome
10:24
and how do we fix it, serves to be more disabling to the individual
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i ispravljanja iste, čini više zla osobi
10:28
than the pathology itself.
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nego samo oštećenje.
10:31
By not treating the wholeness of a person,
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Ne uzeti u obzir cjelovitost osobe,
10:36
by not acknowledging their potency,
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ne priznati njen potencijal,
10:38
we are creating another ill on top of whatever natural struggle they might have.
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čini nekog bolesnijim nego što u stvari jest.
10:45
We are effectively grading someone's worth to our community.
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Pre olako određujemo vrijednost ljudi za društvo.
10:51
So we need to see through the pathology
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Stoga treba pogledati dalje od poremećaja
10:54
and into the range of human capability.
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i uvidjeti ljudski potencijal.
11:00
And, most importantly, there's a partnership
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I iznad svega uvidjeti bliskost
11:04
between those perceived deficiencies
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utvrđenih nedostataka
11:06
and our greatest creative ability.
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i naših najboljih sposobnosti.
11:09
So it's not about devaluing, or negating, these more trying times
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Ne govorim o obezvrjeđivanju i negiranju problema
11:14
as something we want to avoid or sweep under the rug,
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kao nečeg što bismo voljeli sakriti,
11:18
but instead to find those opportunities wrapped in the adversity.
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nego o mogućnostima koje se kriju u problemima.
11:24
So maybe the idea I want to put out there is
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Cilj ovog govora nije
11:26
not so much overcoming adversity
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nadvladati probleme
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as it is opening ourselves up to it,
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već biti otvoren za njih,
11:35
embracing it,
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prigrliti ih,
11:38
grappling with it,
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uhvatiti se u koštac,
11:40
to use a wrestling term,
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da iskoristim žargon,
11:42
maybe even dancing with it.
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možda čak i zaplesati sa njima.
11:46
And, perhaps, if we see adversity as natural, consistent and useful,
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I ako ih doživimo kao prirodne, stalne i korisne,
11:54
we're less burdened by the presence of it.
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možda nas manje optereti njihovo prisustvo.
11:57
This year we celebrate the 200th birthday of Charles Darwin,
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Ove godine slavimo 200-ti rođendan C. Darwina,
12:00
and it was 150 years ago, when writing about evolution,
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koji je prije 150 g. pišući o evoluciji,
12:04
that Darwin illustrated, I think, a truth about the human character.
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rekao sljedeće o ljudskom karakteru.
12:09
To paraphrase: It's not the strongest of the species that survives,
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Da parafraziram, ne preživljavaju najjači,
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nor is it the most intelligent that survives;
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ni najinteligentniji,
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it is the one that is most adaptable to change.
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već oni koji se prilagođavaju promjenama.
12:21
Conflict is the genesis of creation.
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Problem ustvari potiče kreativnost.
12:26
From Darwin's work, amongst others, we can recognize that
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Darwinov rad nam između ostalog otkriva
12:29
the human ability to survive and flourish
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da se čovjekova sposobnost preživljavanja i napretka
12:34
is driven by the struggle of the human spirit through conflict
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ogleda u borbi ljudskog duha s težnjom
12:39
into transformation.
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ka promjenama.
12:41
So, again, transformation, adaptation, is our greatest human skill.
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I ponovno, promjena, prilagodba, najveće su ljudske sposobnosti.
12:48
And, perhaps, until we're tested, we don't know what we're made of.
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Bez kušnje, nitko ne zna kakav je.
12:54
Maybe that's what adversity gives us:
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Možda nam upravo nesreća daje,
12:56
a sense of self, a sense of our own power.
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taj osjećaj vlastitog JA, osjećaj snage.
13:00
So, we can give ourselves a gift.
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Darujmo ga sami sebi.
13:03
We can re-imagine adversity as something more than just tough times.
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Nesreća ne mora označavati samo teška vremena.
13:10
Maybe we can see it as change.
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Možda je možemo smatrati promjenom.
13:13
Adversity is just change that we haven't adapted ourselves to yet.
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Promjenom na koju nismo spremni.
13:19
I think the greatest adversity that we've created for ourselves
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Ono što nas čini nesretnima jest
13:22
is this idea of normalcy.
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naša predodžba normalnosti.
13:24
Now, who's normal?
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I, tko je normalan?
13:27
There's no normal.
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Normalno ne postoji.
13:29
There's common, there's typical. There's no normal,
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Postoji uobičajeno, tipično, ali ne i normalno.
13:32
and would you want to meet that poor, beige person if they existed?
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Biste li voljeli upoznati takvu jadnu, bezličnu osobu?
13:35
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
13:37
I don't think so.
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Sumnjam.
13:39
If we can change this paradigm from one of achieving normalcy
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Promijenimo li paradigmu od postizanja normalnosti
13:44
to one of possibility -- or potency, to be even a little bit more dangerous --
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u onu otvaranja mogućnosti, ili snage, i učiniti to izazovom,
13:49
we can release the power of so many more children,
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oslobodit ćemo snagu mnoge djece,
13:52
and invite them to engage their rare and valuable abilities with the community.
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i omogućiti im da uključe svoje potencijale i sposobnosti.
14:00
Anthropologists tell us that the one thing
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Antropolozi tvrde
14:03
we as humans have always required of our community members
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da ljudsko društvo oduvijek očekuje od svojih članova
14:06
is to be of use, to be able to contribute.
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da budu korisni, da pridonose.
14:10
There's evidence that Neanderthals, 60,000 years ago,
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Činjenica da su Neandertalci prije 60 000 g.
14:14
carried their elderly and those with serious physical injury,
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nosili svoje stare i nemoćne,
14:20
and perhaps it's because the life experience of survival of these people
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možda je značilo da je svaki član
14:26
proved of value to the community.
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važan zajednici:
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They didn't view these people as broken and useless;
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te ljude nisu smatrali bezvrijednima;
14:33
they were seen as rare and valuable.
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smatrali su ih rijetkima i važnima.
14:36
A few years ago, I was in a food market in the town where I grew up
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Prije nekoliko godina, našla sam se u mome rodnom gradu
14:39
in that red zone in northeastern Pennsylvania,
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u trgovini u samome centru,
14:43
and I was standing over a bushel of tomatoes.
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stojeći uz sanduk rajčica.
14:45
It was summertime: I had shorts on.
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Bilo je ljeto. Imala sam kratke hlače.
14:47
I hear this guy, his voice behind me say, "Well, if it isn't Aimee Mullins."
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Začula sam glas, "Nije li to Aimee Mullins."
14:52
And I turn around, and it's this older man. I have no idea who he is.
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Okrenuvši se, ugledala sam nepoznatog muškarca.
14:56
And I said, "I'm sorry, sir, have we met? I don't remember meeting you."
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Odgovorih, "Oprostite, poznajemo li se? Niste mi poznati."
15:02
He said, "Well, you wouldn't remember meeting me.
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Odgovorio je, "Niste me ni mogli upamtiti.
15:04
I mean, when we met I was delivering you from your mother's womb."
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Jer ja sam vas pomogao donijeti na svijet."
15:07
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
15:09
Oh, that guy.
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Aaaaa, taj tip.
15:12
And, but of course, actually, it did click.
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Shvatila sam.
15:14
This man was Dr. Kean,
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Čovjek je bio dr. Kean,
15:17
a man that I had only known about through my mother's stories of that day,
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čovjek o kojem sam čula mnogo od svoje majke,
15:21
because, of course, typical fashion, I arrived late for my birthday by two weeks.
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jer, meni svojstveno, odgodila sam svoje rođenje dva tjedna.
15:27
And so my mother's prenatal physician had gone on vacation,
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Majčin porodničar otišao je na godišnji,
15:31
so the man who delivered me was a complete stranger to my parents.
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tako da me porodio potpuni neznanac, kažu roditelji.
15:36
And, because I was born without the fibula bones,
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Zato što sam se rodila bez goljeničnih kostiju,
15:39
and had feet turned in, and a few toes in this foot and a few toes in that,
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uvrnutih stopala sa tek nekoliko prstiju,
15:42
he had to be the bearer -- this stranger had to be the bearer of bad news.
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on, potpuni stranac, morao je izreći lošu vijest.
15:47
He said to me, "I had to give this prognosis to your parents
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Rekao mi je, "Tvojim sam roditeljima morao reći
15:51
that you would never walk,
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da nikada nećeš hodati,
15:53
and you would never have the kind of mobility that other kids have
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i da nećeš biti pokretna poput ostale djece
15:57
or any kind of life of independence,
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i da ćeš biti ovisna o drugima,
15:59
and you've been making liar out of me ever since."
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a ti si dokazala da sam lažov."
16:01
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
16:03
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
16:09
The extraordinary thing is that he said he had saved
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Iznenadilo me kada je rekao da čuva
16:13
newspaper clippings throughout my whole childhood,
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sve novinske odreske iz moje mladosti,
16:16
whether winning a second grade spelling bee,
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bilo kada sam pobijedila u slovkanju,
16:18
marching with the Girl Scouts, you know, the Halloween parade,
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bila u izviđačima, bila na paradi za Noć vještica,
16:21
winning my college scholarship, or any of my sports victories,
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dobila stipendiju, ili o sportskim uspjesima,
16:26
and he was using it, and integrating it into teaching resident students,
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i primijenio ih u obuci stažista,
16:32
med students from Hahnemann Medical School and Hershey Medical School.
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studenata medicine raznih fakulteta.
16:37
And he called this part of the course the X Factor,
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Što je nazvao, taj X faktor,
16:40
the potential of the human will.
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potencijal ljudske volje.
16:43
No prognosis can account for how powerful this could be
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Jer ni jedna prognoza ne može predvidjeti tu snagu
16:47
as a determinant in the quality of someone's life.
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kao odrednicu kvalitete nečijeg života.
16:51
And Dr. Kean went on to tell me,
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I još je rekao,
16:54
he said, "In my experience, unless repeatedly told otherwise,
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"Iskustvo mi govori, osim ako stalno ne ponavljamo suprotno,
17:02
and even if given a modicum of support,
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čak i uz malu podršku,
17:06
if left to their own devices, a child will achieve."
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dijete će postići mnogo i samo."
17:12
See, Dr. Kean made that shift in thinking.
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Dr. Kean učinio je taj pomak u mišljenju.
17:16
He understood that there's a difference between the medical condition
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Shvatio je razliku između zdravstvenog stanja
17:19
and what someone might do with it.
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i onoga što čovjek može.
17:22
And there's been a shift in my thinking over time,
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Ta promjena u mišljenju nije ni mene zaobišla,
17:25
in that, if you had asked me at 15 years old,
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jer da ste me sa 15 godina pitali,
17:29
if I would have traded prosthetics for flesh-and-bone legs,
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bih li mijenjala proteze za noge od krvi i mesa,
17:33
I wouldn't have hesitated for a second.
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ne bih ni trena oklijevala.
17:36
I aspired to that kind of normalcy back then.
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Tada sam težila onom -- "normalnom".
17:42
But if you ask me today, I'm not so sure.
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Pitate li me danas, nisam više sigurna.
17:45
And it's because of the experiences I've had with them,
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Zbog svega što sam sa njima prošla (protezama),
17:50
not in spite of the experiences I've had with them.
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a ne usprkos njima.
17:56
And perhaps this shift in me has happened
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Promjena u meni dogodila se
17:59
because I've been exposed to more people who have opened doors for me
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zbog okruženosti ljudima koji su mi otvarali mogućnosti,
18:04
than those who have put lids and cast shadows on me.
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a ne zbog onih koji su mi to onemogućavali.
18:11
See, all you really need is one person
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Sve što trebate je jedna osoba
18:13
to show you the epiphany of your own power, and you're off.
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koja će vam pokazati veličinu vaše snage, i nema vam kraja.
18:18
If you can hand somebody the key to their own power --
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Možete li kome predati ključ njegove snage,
18:23
the human spirit is so receptive -- if you can do that
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a svi znamo primati, ako to možete
18:25
and open a door for someone at a crucial moment,
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i u ključnom trenutku otvoriti im nove mogućnosti,
18:28
you are educating them in the best sense.
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učite ih u najboljem smislu te riječi.
18:31
You're teaching them to open doors for themselves.
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Učite ih kako da sami sebi pomognu.
18:36
In fact, the exact meaning of the word "educate"
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Promotrimo li riječ obrazovati
18:42
comes from the root word "educe."
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čiji je korijen "obraz".
18:44
It means "to bring forth what is within,
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Što može značiti uobličiti, dati lik, oblik
18:48
to bring out potential."
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potaknuti potencijal.
18:50
So again, which potential do we want to bring out?
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Kakav potencijal mi želimo potaknuti?
18:55
There was a case study done in 1960s Britain,
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60-tih godina u Britaniji provedena je studija,
18:58
when they were moving from grammar schools to comprehensive schools.
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u vrijeme prelaska sa sustava gimnazija na srednje škole.
19:03
It's called the streaming trials. We call it "tracking" here in the States.
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I naziva se usmjeravanje prema sposobnostima.
19:06
It's separating students from A, B, C, D and so on.
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Učenici se odvajaju prema razinama.
19:11
And the "A students" get the tougher curriculum, the best teachers, etc.
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Učenici razine A imaju teži kurikulum, najbolje učitelje itd.
19:16
Well, they took, over a three-month period,
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Kroz period od 3 mjeseca praćeni su
19:18
D-level students, gave them A's,
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učenici D razine i ocijenjeni s odličnim,
19:21
told them they were "A's," told them they were bright,
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rečeno im je da su odlični i bistri,
19:24
and at the end of this three-month period,
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I zaista, na kraju tog razdoblja,
19:26
they were performing at A-level.
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Učenici su zaista bili odlični.
19:29
And, of course, the heartbreaking, flip side of this study,
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Šokantno je, u obrnutoj situaciji,
19:32
is that they took the "A students" and told them they were "D's."
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odlični učenici ocijenjeni su dovoljnim.
19:37
And that's what happened at the end of that three-month period.
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To je ono što se dogodilo na kraju razdoblja.
19:40
Those who were still around in school, besides the people who had dropped out.
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Jedan dio učenika je nastavio školovanje, a jedan dio se ispisao.
19:46
A crucial part of this case study was that the teachers were duped too.
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Bitno je napomenuti da su i učitelji nasamareni.
19:55
The teachers didn't know a switch had been made.
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Nisu znali za eksperiment.
19:57
They were simply told, "These are the 'A-students,' these are the 'D-students.'"
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Rečeno im je samo- ovo su odlični, a ovo dovoljni.
20:01
And that's how they went about teaching them and treating them.
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Te su ih kao takve i tretirali.
20:07
So, I think that the only true disability is a crushed spirit,
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Stoga mislim da je slomljeni duh najveći problem,
20:16
a spirit that's been crushed doesn't have hope,
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slomljen duh ne gaji nadu.
20:21
it doesn't see beauty,
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Ne vidi ljepotu.
20:23
it no longer has our natural, childlike curiosity
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Nema onu dječju radoznalost
20:29
and our innate ability to imagine.
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i urođenu sposobnost maštanja.
20:32
If instead, we can bolster a human spirit to keep hope,
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Podupremo li ljudski duh da gaji nadu,
20:37
to see beauty in themselves and others,
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da vidi svoju i ljepotu drugih,
20:41
to be curious and imaginative,
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da bude radoznao i maštovit,
20:44
then we are truly using our power well.
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tada mu istinski pomažemo.
20:48
When a spirit has those qualities, we are able to create new realities
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Kada duh ima sve ove kvalitete, stvarnost se mijenja
20:54
and new ways of being.
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i stvara novi život.
20:57
I'd like to leave you with a poem
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Pročitala bih vam pjesmu
20:59
by a fourteenth-century Persian poet named Hafiz
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Hafiza, Perzijskog pjesnika iz 14. stoljeća
21:03
that my friend, Jacques Dembois told me about,
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na kojeg me uputio moj prijatelj.
21:06
and the poem is called "The God Who Only Knows Four Words":
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Naslov pjesme je "Bog koji zna samo četiri riječi".
21:11
"Every child has known God,
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"Dijete ne upoznaše Boga,
21:15
not the God of names,
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Boga od imena,
21:17
not the God of don'ts,
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Boga od zabrana,
21:20
but the God who only knows four words and keeps repeating them,
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već Boga četiriju riječi opetovanih,
21:25
saying, 'Come dance with me.
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on pjeva, dođi pleši sa mnom"
21:32
Come, dance with me. Come, dance with me.'"
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Dođite, plešite sa mnom.
21:35
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
21:37
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
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