Lee Mokobe: A powerful poem about what it feels like to be transgender

264,060 views ・ 2015-06-12

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譯者: Marssi Draw 審譯者: Regina Chu
00:12
The first time I uttered a prayer was in a glass-stained cathedral.
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我第一次禱告 是在有彩繪玻璃的大教堂。
00:18
I was kneeling long after the congregation was on its feet,
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會眾起立後我長跪著,
00:21
dip both hands into holy water,
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雙手沉浸在聖水中,
00:23
trace the trinity across my chest,
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在我的胸膛畫十字架,
00:25
my tiny body drooping like a question mark
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我渺小的身體 像個問號般低垂,
00:28
all over the wooden pew.
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布滿整張木頭座席。
00:30
I asked Jesus to fix me,
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我祈求耶穌治癒我,
00:33
and when he did not answer
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當時祂未應許,
00:35
I befriended silence in the hopes that my sin would burn
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我便與靜默為友, 冀盼我的罪能燒盡、
00:38
and salve my mouth
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並慰藉我的口,
00:39
would dissolve like sugar on tongue,
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就像糖在舌上般融化,
00:41
but shame lingered as an aftertaste.
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但恥辱卻如同餘味 久不散去。
00:43
And in an attempt to reintroduce me to sanctity,
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為了讓我再次聖潔,
00:46
my mother told me of the miracle I was,
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我的母親告訴我 有如奇蹟一般的我,
00:49
said I could grow up to be anything I want.
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長大以後可以隨心所欲。
00:52
I decided to
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我決定要
00:55
be a boy.
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當個男孩。
00:56
It was cute.
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真是可愛。
00:57
I had snapback, toothless grin,
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我戴鴨舌帽、 滿口無牙咧嘴而笑,
00:59
used skinned knees as street cred,
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以破皮膝蓋取得街頭信譽,
01:00
played hide and seek with what was left of my goal.
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逃避現實,遊戲人間。
01:03
I was it.
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我就是那樣。
01:04
The winner to a game the other kids couldn't play,
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我是這場遊戲贏家, 其他孩子連玩都不會,
01:06
I was the mystery of an anatomy,
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我在解剖學中是個謎,
01:08
a question asked but not answered,
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是個被提出卻無解的問題,
01:10
tightroping between awkward boy and apologetic girl,
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走在彆扭男孩 與抱歉女孩間的繩索上,
01:14
and when I turned 12, the boy phase wasn't deemed cute anymore.
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然而來到十二歲, 男孩樣在別人眼中已不再可愛。
01:19
It was met with nostalgic aunts who missed seeing my knees in the shadow of skirts,
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當年我和那念舊的阿姨見面, 惦記我雙膝在裙影下的她
01:25
who reminded me that my kind of attitude would never bring a husband home,
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提醒我這種態度 永遠都找不到老公,
01:29
that I exist for heterosexual marriage and child-bearing.
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我的存在是為了 嫁為人婦、懷孕生子。
01:33
And I swallowed their insults along with their slurs.
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我嚥下他們的冷嘲熱諷、 譏笑辱罵。
01:36
Naturally, I did not come out of the closet.
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可想而知,我沒有出櫃。
01:39
The kids at my school opened it without my permission.
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同校的孩子擅自張揚, 而我卻毫不知情。
01:42
Called me by a name I did not recognize,
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他們用一個我沒聽過的名字叫我:
01:44
said "lesbian,"
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「蕾絲邊」(女同志),
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but I was more boy than girl, more Ken than Barbie.
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但我像男孩,而非女孩; 我像肯尼,而非芭比。
01:48
It had nothing to do with hating my body,
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我不討厭我的身體,
01:50
I just love it enough to let it go,
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我只是夠愛它, 接受任何模樣的它,
01:53
I treat it like a house,
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我將身體看做房子,
01:54
and when your house is falling apart,
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當你的房子垮下,
01:56
you do not evacuate,
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你沒有就此逃離,
01:57
you make it comfortable enough to house all your insides,
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你讓它舒適得可以 容納自己內在的一切,
02:01
you make it pretty enough to invite guests over,
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你讓它漂亮得可以 邀請客人登門拜訪,
02:03
you make the floorboards strong enough to stand on.
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你讓地板堅固得可以 讓你站穩腳步。
02:07
My mother fears I have named myself after fading things.
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我的母親害怕 我已認定自己如同已逝之人。
02:12
As she counts the echoes left behind by Mya Hall,
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她細數(跨性別自殺)何米亞
02:15
Leelah Alcorn, Blake Brockington.
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李拉赫、卜雷克留下的蜚短流長。
02:18
She fears that I'll die without a whisper,
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她害怕我會一聲不響離開人世,
02:20
that I'll turn into "what a shame" conversations at the bus stop.
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我會成為公車站牌下 大家口中的悲劇主角。
02:23
She claims I have turned myself into a mausoleum,
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她聲稱我已讓自己步入陵墓,
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that I am a walking casket,
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我是具活棺木,
02:28
news headlines have turned my identity into a spectacle,
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新聞頭條已將我的身分 塑造為奇人異士,
02:31
Bruce Jenner on everyone's lips while the brutality of living in this body
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布魯斯.詹納成為話題, 而生在這軀殼內的殘酷現實
02:34
becomes an asterisk at the bottom of equality pages.
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卻化為一顆星號, 出現在平等頁面的最後一行。
02:38
No one ever thinks of us as human
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甚至沒有人認為我們也是人,
02:41
because we are more ghost than flesh,
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因為比起血肉之軀, 我們更像鬼魂,
02:43
because people fear that my gender expression is a trick,
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因為大家害怕 我的性別表現是個把戲,
02:46
that it exists to be perverse,
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生來是為了和大家作對,
02:48
that it ensnares them without their consent,
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不經意地蠱惑人心,
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that my body is a feast for their eyes and hands
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我的身體是 眾人目光與雙手的饗宴,
02:53
and once they have fed off my queer,
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一旦他們享盡我的酷兒形象,
02:55
they'll regurgitate all the parts they did not like.
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就會反芻所有不討喜的部分。
02:58
They'll put me back into the closet, hang me with all the other skeletons.
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他們會將我放回櫃子, 置身在所有骷髏之間。
03:02
I will be the best attraction.
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我會成為最引人注目的那一個。
03:05
Can you see how easy it is to talk people into coffins,
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你可曾發現說服人們踏進棺材、
03:08
to misspell their names on gravestones.
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在墓碑上寫錯他們的名字 有多麼容易。
03:10
And people still wonder why there are boys rotting,
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而大家仍疑惑 為何有男孩自甘墮落,
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they go away in high school hallways
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他們遠離高中大門,
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they are afraid of becoming another hashtag in a second
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他們害怕轉眼間 成為下一個社群媒體的主題標籤,
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afraid of classroom discussions becoming like judgment day
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害怕教室裡議論紛紛, 變得像是審判日,
03:22
and now oncoming traffic is embracing more transgender children than parents.
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而當代潮流是開始擁抱 跨性別孩童,而非家長。
03:29
I wonder how long it will be
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我疑惑要多久時間才會
03:30
before the trans suicide notes start to feel redundant,
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讓變性人自殺遺言顯得過於累贅,
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before we realize that our bodies become lessons about sin
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讓我們了解身體不是罪的教訓,
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way before we learn how to love them.
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然後學會如何愛身體。
03:40
Like God didn't save all this breath and mercy,
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就像上帝未曾拯救 我的一絲氣息與憐憫,
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like my blood is not the wine that washed over Jesus' feet.
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就像我的血液不是 洗淨耶穌雙腳的酒。
03:47
My prayers are now getting stuck in my throat.
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我的禱告此刻哽在喉中。
03:52
Maybe I am finally fixed,
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也許我終於被治癒了,
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maybe I just don't care,
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也許我根本毫不在乎,
03:57
maybe God finally listened to my prayers.
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也許上帝終於聽進了我的禱告。
04:02
Thank you.
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謝謝。
04:03
(Applause)
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