Why you should talk to strangers | Kio Stark

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

λ²ˆμ—­: Ju Hye Lim κ²€ν† : Jihyeon J. Kim
00:12
There are things we say
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λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λ‚˜ μ§€λ‚˜κ°€λŠ” 이웃과 눈이 마주치면 ν•˜λŠ” 말이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:14
when we catch the eye of a stranger
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00:16
or a neighbor walking by.
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00:19
We say, "Hello, how are you?
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"μ•ˆλ…•ν•˜μ„Έμš”. 잘 μ§€λ‚΄μ„Έμš”?
00:22
It's a beautiful day.
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날씨 μ°Έ μ’‹λ„€μš”.
00:23
How do you feel?"
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κΈ°λΆ„ μ–΄λ– μ„Έμš”?"
00:25
These sound kind of meaningless, right? And, in some ways, they are.
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μ˜λ―Έμ—†μ–΄ λ³΄μ΄λŠ” 말듀이죠? μ‹€μ œλ‘œ μ–΄λ–€ λ©΄μ—μ„œλŠ” κ·Έλž˜μš”.
00:29
They have no semantic meaning.
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μ•„λ¬΄λŸ° 언어적 μ˜λ―Έκ°€ μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:32
It doesn't matter how you are or what the day is like.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„ 기뢄이 어떀지, 날씨가 μ–΄λ–€μ§€λŠ” μ€‘μš”ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•„μš”.
00:35
They have something else.
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λ‹€λ₯Έ 의미λ₯Ό κ°–κ³  μžˆμ–΄μš”.
00:37
They have social meaning.
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μ‚¬νšŒμ  의미λ₯Ό κ°€μ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:40
What we mean when we say those things is:
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이런 말듀을 ν•  λ•Œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 정말 μ˜λ―Έν•˜λŠ” 건
00:42
I see you there.
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당신이 보인단 λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:45
I'm obsessed with talking to strangers.
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μ €λŠ” λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 말 κ±°λŠ” κ±Έ 정말 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:49
I make eye contact, say hello,
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λˆˆμ„ 마주치고, 인사λ₯Ό 건넀고
00:51
I offer help, I listen.
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도움을 μ£Όκ³ , 이야기λ₯Ό λ“£μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:54
I get all kinds of stories.
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별별 이야기λ₯Ό λ‹€ λ“£κ²Œ λ˜μš”.
00:57
About seven years ago, I started documenting my experiences
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17λ…„ 전쯀에 μ €λŠ” μ™œ κ·ΈλŸ°μ§€ μ•Œμ•„λ‚΄κΈ° μœ„ν•΄μ„œ
01:01
to try to figure out why.
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제 κ²½ν—˜μ„ κΈ°λ‘ν•˜κΈ° μ‹œμž‘ν–ˆμ–΄μš”.
01:03
What I found was that something really beautiful was going on.
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μ €λŠ” 무언가 μ•„λ¦„λ‹€μš΄ 일이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” κ±Έ μ•Œκ²Œ λ˜μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:07
This is almost poetic.
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μ‹œμ μ΄κΈ°κΉŒμ§€ ν•΄μš”.
01:10
These were really profound experiences.
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정말 μ‹¬μ˜€ν•œ κ²½ν—˜λ“€μ΄μ—ˆκ³ 
01:13
They were unexpected pleasures.
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λœ»λ°–μ˜ μ¦κ±°μ›€μ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:15
They were genuine emotional connections.
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μ§„μ •ν•œ 감정적 ꡐλ₯˜μ˜€κ³ 
01:18
They were liberating moments.
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ν™€κ°€λΆ„ν•œ μˆœκ°„λ“€μ΄μ—ˆμ–΄μš”.
01:22
So one day, I was standing on a corner waiting for the light to change,
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ν•˜λ£¨λŠ” μ œκ°€ μ‹ ν˜Έλ“±μ΄ λ°”λ€ŒκΈ°λ₯Ό κΈ°λ‹€λ¦¬λ©΄μ„œ μ½”λ„ˆμ— μ„œμžˆμ—ˆμ–΄μš”.
01:26
which, I'm a New Yorker,
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μ €λŠ” λ‰΄μš•μ— μ‚΄μ•„μš”.
01:27
so that means I was actually standing in the street on the storm drain,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒ 길에 μžˆλŠ” λΉ—λ¬Ό 배수ꡬ μœ„μ— μ„œμžˆμ—ˆλ˜ κ±°μ£ .
01:31
as if that could get me across faster.
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그러면 더 빨리 건널 수 μžˆκΈ°λΌλ„ ν•œ κ²ƒμ²˜λŸΌμš”.
01:34
And there's an old man standing next to me.
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ν•œ 할아버지가 제 μ˜†μ— μ„œκ³„μ…¨λŠ”λ°
01:36
So he's wearing, like, a long overcoat and sort of an old-man hat,
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κΈ΄ μ™Ένˆ¬μ™€ 노인듀이 μ“°λŠ” λͺ¨μžλ₯Ό μ“°κ³  κ³„μ…¨μ–΄μš”.
01:40
and he looked like somebody from a movie.
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μ˜ν™”μ— λ‚˜μ˜€λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒκ°™μ•„ λ³΄μ˜€μ–΄μš”.
01:43
And he says to me,
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ν• μ•„λ²„μ§€κ»˜μ„  제게 λ§ν•˜μ…¨μ–΄μš”.
01:44
"Don't stand there. You might disappear."
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"κ±°κΈ° μ„œμžˆμ§€ λ§μ•„μš”. μ‚¬λΌμ§ˆ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμœΌλ‹ˆκΉŒ."
01:48
So this is absurd, right?
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웃긴 μ–˜κΈ°μ£ ?
01:49
But I did what he said. I stepped back onto the sidewalk.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” 그의 말에 따라 λ‹€μ‹œ λ³΄λ„λ‘œ μ˜¬λΌκ°”μ–΄μš”.
01:52
And he smiled, and he said,
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ν• μ•„λ²„μ§€λŠ” μ›ƒμœΌλ©΄μ„œ λ§ν•˜μ…¨μ–΄μš”.
01:54
"Good. You never know.
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"잘 ν–ˆμ–΄μš”. 무슨 일이 생길지 λͺ¨λ₯΄μž–μ•„μš”.
01:56
I might have turned around,
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λ‚΄κ°€ λ’€λ₯Ό λŒμ•˜μ„ λ•Œ
01:57
and zoop, you're gone."
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ν›… μ‚¬λΌμ§ˆ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμž–μ•„μš”."
02:01
This was weird,
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μ΄μƒν–ˆμ§€λ§Œ
02:03
and also really wonderful.
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또 ꡉμž₯히 μ’‹μ•˜μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:06
He was so warm, and he was so happy that he'd saved me.
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ν• μ•„λ²„μ§€λŠ” λ„ˆλ¬΄ μΉœμ ˆν–ˆκ³ , μ €λ₯Ό κ΅¬ν•œ κ±Έ μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ…¨μ–΄μš”.
02:09
We had this little bond.
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우리 사이엔 μ•½κ°„μ˜ μœ λŒ€κ°€ 생겼죠.
02:11
For a minute, I felt like my existence as a person
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μž μ‹œλ™μ•ˆ μΈκ°„μœΌλ‘œμ„œμ˜ 제 쑴재λ₯Ό λˆ„κ΅°κ°€ μ•Œμ•„λ΄μ£Όμ—ˆκ³ 
02:16
had been noticed,
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02:18
and I was worth saving.
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μ œκ°€ ꡬ할 κ°€μΉ˜κ°€ μžˆλ‹€λŠ” λŠλ‚Œμ΄ λ“€μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:23
The really sad thing is,
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μŠ¬ν”ˆ 일은
02:24
in many parts of the world,
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μ„Έμƒμ˜ λ§Žμ€ μ§€μ—­μ—μ„œ μš°λ¦¬λŠ”
02:26
we're raised to believe that strangers are dangerous by default,
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λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μœ„ν—˜ν•˜κ³ , 믿으면 μ•ˆ 되고
02:30
that we can't trust them, that they might hurt us.
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우리λ₯Ό ν•΄μΉ  μˆ˜λ„ μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜λ„λ‘ κΈΈλŸ¬μ§„λ‹€λŠ” κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:34
But most strangers aren't dangerous.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ λ‚―μ„  이듀은 μœ„ν—˜ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•„μš”.
02:36
We're uneasy around them because we have no context.
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μ„œλ‘œ λͺ¨λ₯΄λ‹ˆκΉŒ κ·Έλ“€ 주변에 μžˆμ„ λ•Œ λΆˆμ•ˆν•˜κ²Œ λŠλΌλŠ” κ±°μ˜ˆμš”.
02:40
We don't know what their intentions are.
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κ·Έλ“€μ˜ μ˜λ„λ₯Ό λͺ¨λ₯΄λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
02:43
So instead of using our perceptions and making choices,
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒ 우리의 인식을 μ΄μš©ν•΄μ„œ 선택을 ν•˜κΈ°λ³΄λ‹€λŠ”
02:46
we rely on this category of "stranger."
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"λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒ"μ΄λΌλŠ” λΆ€λ₯˜μ— μ˜μ‘΄ν•˜κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:51
I have a four-year-old.
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μ œκ²ŒλŠ” 4μ‚΄μ§œλ¦¬ 딸이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:52
When I say hello to people on the street,
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μ œκ°€ κΈΈκ±°λ¦¬μ—μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μΈμ‚¬ν•˜λ©΄
02:54
she asks me why.
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μ•„μ΄λŠ” μ™œ κ·ΈλŸ¬λŠ”μ§€ λ¬»μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:56
She says, "Do we know them?"
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"μ•„λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ—μš”?"라고 λ¬Όμ–΄μš”.
03:00
I say, "No, they're our neighbor."
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μ €λŠ”, "μ•„λ‹ˆ, 우리 이웃이야."
03:02
"Are they our friend?"
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"우리 μΉœκ΅¬μ˜ˆμš”?"
03:04
"No, it's just good to be friendly."
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"μ•„λ‹ˆ, κ·Έλƒ₯ μΉœμ ˆν•œ 건 쒋은 κ±°λ‹ˆκΉŒ."
03:07
I think twice every time I say that to her,
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μ €λŠ” λ”Έμ—κ²Œ μ–˜κΈ°ν•΄μ€„ λ•Œλ§ˆλ‹€ 두 λ²ˆμ”© μƒκ°ν•˜κ³  μ–˜κΈ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:11
because I mean it, but as a woman, particularly,
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μ™œλƒν•˜λ©΄ μ§„μ‹¬μ΄λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”. 그런데 특히 μ—¬μžλ‘œμ„œ μ €λŠ”
03:14
I know that not every stranger on the street has the best intentions.
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길거리의 λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λͺ¨λ‘ μ„ μ˜λ₯Ό κ°–κ³  μžˆμ§„ μ•Šλ‹€λŠ” κ±Έ μ•Œμ•„μš”.
03:18
It is good to be friendly, and it's good to learn when not to be,
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μΉœμ ˆν•œ 것도 μ’‹μ§€λ§Œ κ·ΈλŸ¬μ§€ 말아야 ν•  λ•Œλ₯Ό μ•„λŠ” 것도 μ’‹μ£ .
03:22
but none of that means we have to be afraid.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€κ³  ν•΄μ„œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λ‘λ €μ›Œν•΄μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ” 건 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:26
There are two huge benefits
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우리의 두렀움이 μ•„λ‹Œ 감각을 μ΄μš©ν•˜λŠ” λ°μ—λŠ”
03:29
to using our senses instead of our fears.
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두 가지 큰 이점이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:33
The first one is that it liberates us.
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첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” 우리λ₯Ό ν•΄λ°©μ‹œμΌœμ€€λ‹€λŠ” κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:37
When you think about it,
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생각해보면
03:39
using perception instead of categories
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λΆ„λ₯˜ 체계보닀 인식을 μ΄μš©ν•˜λŠ” 것은
03:42
is much easier said than done.
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λ§λ‘œλŠ” μ‰½μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:44
Categories are something our brains use.
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λΆ„λ₯˜ μ²΄κ³„λŠ” λ‡Œκ°€ μ“°λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:47
When it comes to people,
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μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ κ²½μš°μ—
03:49
it's sort of a shortcut for learning about them.
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그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ λ°°μš°λŠ” μΌμ’…μ˜ μ§€λ¦„κΈΈμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:52
We see male, female, young, old,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ‚¨λ…€λ…Έμ†Œ
03:56
black, brown, white, stranger, friend,
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흑인, κ°ˆμƒ‰ ν”ΌλΆ€, 백인, λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒ, 친ꡬλ₯Ό 보고
04:00
and we use the information in that box.
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κ·Έ λΆ„λ₯˜ 체계 μ•ˆμ˜ 정보λ₯Ό μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:04
It's quick, it's easy
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λΉ λ₯΄κ³  쉽죠.
04:05
and it's a road to bias.
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그리고 편견으둜 κ°€λŠ” κΈΈμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:08
And it means we're not thinking about people as individuals.
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그리고 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ 개개인으둜 여기지 μ•Šκ³  μžˆλ‹€λŠ” λœ»μ΄κΈ°λ„ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:13
I know an American researcher who travels frequently
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μ œκ°€ μ•„λŠ” 미ꡭ인 연ꡬ원이 ν•˜λ‚˜ μžˆλŠ”λ°
ν˜Όμžμ„œ μ€‘μ•™μ•„μ‹œμ•„μ™€ 아프리카에 자주 여행을 λ‹€λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:17
in Central Asia and Africa, alone.
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04:20
She's entering into towns and cities
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λ§ˆμ„κ³Ό λ„μ‹œλ₯Ό μ™„μ „ν•œ μ΄λ°©μΈμœΌλ‘œμ„œ μΆœμž…ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:23
as a complete stranger.
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04:25
She has no bonds, no connections.
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μœ λŒ€κ°λ„ μ—†κ³  μ•„λŠ” 이도 μ—†κ³ 
04:28
She's a foreigner.
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μ™Έκ΅­μΈμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:29
Her survival strategy is this:
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κ·Έλ…€μ˜ 생쑴 μ „λž΅μ€
04:32
get one stranger to see you as a real, individual person.
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λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒ ν•˜λ‚˜κ°€ 자기λ₯Ό μ‹€μ‘΄ν•˜λŠ” 개인으둜 λ³΄κ²Œν•˜λŠ” κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:36
If you can do that, it'll help other people see you that way, too.
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그럴 수 있으면 λ‹€λ₯Έ 이듀도 자기λ₯Ό κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ λ΄μ£ΌλŠ” 게 더 μ‰¬μ›Œμ§ˆ ν…Œλ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
04:40
The second benefit of using our senses has to do with intimacy.
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이성을 μ‚¬μš©ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμ˜ 두 번째 이점은 μΉœλ°€κ°κ³Ό 관련이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:46
I know it sounds a little counterintuitive,
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μΉœλ°€κ°κ³Ό λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λΌλ‹ˆ 감이 잘 μ˜€μ§€ μ•ŠμœΌμ‹€ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆκ² μ§€λ§Œ
04:48
intimacy and strangers,
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04:50
but these quick interactions can lead to a feeling
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잠깐의 ꡐλ₯˜κ°€ μ‚¬νšŒν•™μžλ“€μ΄ "μˆœκ°„μ˜ μΉœλ°€κ°"이라 λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ”
04:54
that sociologists call "fleeting intimacy."
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감정을 느끼게 ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:57
So, it's a brief experience that has emotional resonance and meaning.
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감정적 νŒŒλ™κ³Ό μ˜λ―Έκ°€ μžˆλŠ” 짧은 κ²½ν—˜μΈ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:03
It's the good feeling I got
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배수ꡬ의 죽음의 λ«μ—μ„œ
05:05
from being saved from the death trap of the storm drain by the old man,
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할아버지가 κ΅¬ν•΄μ£Όμ—ˆμ„ λ•Œ 느꼈던 κ·Έ 쒋은 κΈ°λΆ„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:10
or how I feel like part of a community
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ν˜Ήμ€ μ œκ°€ μΆœκ·Όν•˜λŠ” κΈ°μ°¨ μ•ˆμ—μ„œ
05:13
when I talk to somebody on my train on the way to work.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ 말을 κ±Έ λ•Œ μ§€μ—­μ‚¬νšŒμ˜ 일원이라고 λŠλΌλŠ” 기뢄같은 κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:17
Sometimes it goes further.
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그보닀 더 κΉŠμ„ λ•Œλ„ μžˆμ–΄μš”.
05:19
Researchers have found that people often feel more comfortable
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연ꡬ 결과에 λ”°λ₯΄λ©΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ λ‚―μ„  μ΄λ“€μ—κ²Œ
05:24
being honest and open about their inner selves with strangers
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μžμ‹ μ˜ μ§„μ§œ λͺ¨μŠ΅μ„ 열어보이고 μ§„μ†”ν•˜κ²Œ λŒ€ν•  λ•Œ
05:28
than they do with their friends and their families --
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μΉœκ΅¬λ‚˜ κ°€μ‘±λ“€μ—κ²Œ 그럴 λ•Œλ³΄λ‹€ 더 νŽΈν•˜κ²Œ λŠλ‚€λ‹€κ³  ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:32
that they often feel more understood by strangers.
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λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œμ„œ 더 λ§Žμ€ 이해λ₯Ό λ°›λŠ”λ‹€κ³  λŠλΌλŠ” κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:37
This gets reported in the media with great lament.
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정말 μ• μ„ν•˜κ²Œλ„ 이 μ—°κ΅¬λŠ” 언둠에 μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ³΄λ„λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:41
"Strangers communicate better than spouses!"
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"λ°°μš°μžλ³΄λ‹€ λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό 더 말이 잘 ν†΅ν•œλ‹€!"
05:44
It's a good headline, right?
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쒋은 제λͺ©μ΄μ£ ?
05:47
I think it entirely misses the point.
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μ €λŠ” μš”μ μ„ μ™„μ „νžˆ λ†“μΉ˜κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•΄μš”.
05:51
The important thing about these studies
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이 연ꡬ듀은 μƒν˜Έ κ°„μ˜ ꡐλ₯˜κ°€
05:53
is just how significant these interactions can be;
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μ–Όλ§ˆλ‚˜ 큰 의미λ₯Ό κ°€μ§€λŠ”κ°€μ— κ΄€ν•œ κ±°μ˜ˆμš”.
05:56
how this special form of closeness
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이 νŠΉλ³„ν•œ ν˜•νƒœμ˜ μΉœλΆ„μ΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ
05:59
gives us something we need as much as we need our friends
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μš°λ¦¬μ—κ²Œ μΉœκ΅¬λ‚˜ 가쑱이 ν•„μš”ν•œ 만큼 ν•„μš”ν•œ 무언가λ₯Ό
06:02
and our families.
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κ°€μ Έλ‹€ 쀄 수 μžˆλŠ”μ§€λ₯Όμš”.
06:04
So how is it possible that we communicate so well with strangers?
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ 우린 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ‚―μ„  이듀과 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 잘 ν•  수 μžˆλŠ” κ±ΈκΉŒμš”?
06:10
There are two reasons.
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두 가지 μ΄μœ κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:12
The first one is that it's a quick interaction.
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첫 λ²ˆμ§ΈλŠ” 짧은 μ‹œκ°„ λ™μ•ˆμ˜ ꡐλ₯˜λΌλŠ” κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:15
It has no consequences.
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μ΄ˆλž˜λ˜λŠ” κ²°κ³Όκ°€ μ—†μ–΄μš”.
06:17
It's easy to be honest with someone you're never going to see again, right?
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λ‹€μ‹œ μ•ˆ λ³Ό μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ μ†”μ§ν•œ 건 μ‰½μž–μ•„μš”?
06:20
That makes sense.
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말이 되죠.
06:22
The second reason is where it gets more interesting.
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두 번째 μ΄μœ λΆ€ν„° μž¬λ°Œμ–΄μ§‘λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:25
We have a bias when it comes to people we're close to.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ°€κΉŒμš΄ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ— λŒ€ν•œ νŽΈκ²¬μ„ 가지고 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:29
We expect them to understand us.
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우리λ₯Ό μ΄ν•΄ν•˜κΈΈ κΈ°λŒ€ν•˜μ£ .
06:32
We assume they do,
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이해할 거라고 μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:33
and we expect them to read our minds.
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그리고 우리 λ§ˆμŒμ„ 읽기λ₯Ό κΈ°λŒ€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:36
So imagine you're at a party,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ νŒŒν‹°μ— μžˆλ‹€κ³  μƒμƒν•΄λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
06:39
and you can't believe that your friend or your spouse
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그런데 μΉœκ΅¬λ‚˜ λ°°μš°μžκ°€ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 일찍 집에 κ°€κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•˜λŠ” κ±Έ
06:42
isn't picking up on it that you want to leave early.
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μ•Œμ•„μ°¨λ¦¬μ§€ λͺ»ν•˜λŠ” κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:45
And you're thinking,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:46
"I gave you the look."
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"λ‚΄κ°€ 눈치λ₯Ό μ€¬μž–μ•„."
06:50
With a stranger, we have to start from scratch.
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λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³ΌλŠ” μ²˜μŒλΆ€ν„° μ‹œμž‘ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:53
We tell the whole story,
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이야기λ₯Ό μ „λΆ€ λ“€λ €μ£Όκ³ 
06:55
we explain who the people are, how we feel about them;
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κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ λˆ„κ΅¬μΈμ§€, 그듀에 λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜λŠ”μ§€ μ„€λͺ…ν•΄μ£Όκ³ 
06:58
we spell out all the inside jokes.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„λ§Œ μ•„λŠ” 농담도 λ‹€ μ„€λͺ…ν•΄μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:00
And guess what?
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그러면 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ˜κ²Œμš”?
07:02
Sometimes they do understand us a little better.
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λ–„λ‘œλŠ” 우리λ₯Ό 더 잘 μ΄ν•΄ν•˜κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:06
OK.
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자 이제
07:07
So now that we know that talking to strangers matters,
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λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ–˜κΈ°ν•˜λŠ” 게 μ€‘μš”ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” κ±Έ μ•„μ…¨μ£ .
07:10
how does it work?
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그럼 이건 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ” κ±ΈκΉŒμš”?
07:12
There are unwritten rules we tend to follow.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ λ”°λ₯΄λŠ” 암묡적인 κ·œμΉ™λ“€μ΄ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:15
The rules are very different depending on what country you're in,
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μ–΄λŠ λ‚˜λΌμ— μ‚¬λŠ”μ§€, μ–΄λŠ λ¬Έν™”κΆŒμ— μžˆλŠ”μ§€μ— 따라
07:19
what culture you're in.
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κ·œμΉ™λ“€μ€ μ²œμ°¨λ§Œλ³„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:21
In most parts of the US,
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λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ λ―Έμ£Ό μ§€μ—­μ—μ„œλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄
07:23
the baseline expectation in public
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μ˜ˆμ˜λ°”λ¦„κ³Ό μ‚¬μƒν™œ μ‚¬μ΄μ˜ κ· ν˜•μ„
07:25
is that we maintain a balance between civility and privacy.
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μœ μ§€ν•˜λŠ” κ±Έ 기본적으둜 κΈ°λŒ€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:30
This is known as civil inattention.
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이걸 "μ‹œλ―Όμ  무관심"이라고 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:33
So, imagine two people are walking towards each other on the street.
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두 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ κΈΈκ±°λ¦¬μ—μ„œ μ„œλ‘œλ₯Ό ν–₯ν•΄ κ±Έμ–΄μ˜€κ³  μžˆλ‹€κ³  ν•΄λ΄…μ‹œλ‹€.
07:37
They'll glance at each other from a distance.
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λ©€λ¦¬μ„œ μ„œλ‘œλ₯Ό 쳐닀볼 κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:39
That's the civility, the acknowledgment.
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그게 μ˜ˆμ˜λ°”λ¦„μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€. μƒλŒ€λ°©μ„ μ•Œμ•„λ΄μ£ΌλŠ”κ±°μ£ .
07:41
And then as they get closer, they'll look away,
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그리고 더 κ°€κΉŒμ›Œμ§€λ©΄μ„œ μ‹œμ„ μ„ 돌릴 κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:43
to give each other some space.
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μ„œλ‘œμ—κ²Œ 곡간을 μ£ΌκΈ° μœ„ν•΄μ„œμš”.
07:47
In other cultures,
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λ‹€λ₯Έ λ¬Έν™”κΆŒμ—μ„œ
07:48
people go to extraordinary lengths not to interact at all.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ•„μ˜ˆ ꡐλ₯˜ν•˜μ§€ μ•ŠκΈ° μœ„ν•΄ νŠΉλ³„ν•œ λ…Έλ ₯κΉŒμ§€ ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:54
People from Denmark tell me
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덴마크 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 제게 λ§ν•˜κΈΈ
07:56
that many Danes are so averse to talking to strangers,
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λ§Žμ€ λ΄λ§ˆν¬μΈλ“€μ΄ λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό μ–˜κΈ°ν•˜λŠ” κ±Έ 맀우 μ‹«μ–΄ν•΄μ„œ
08:00
that they would rather miss their stop on the bus
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μ§€λ‚˜κ°€μ•Ό ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ "μ‹€λ‘€ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€"라고 λ§ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šκ³ 
08:03
than say "excuse me" to someone that they need to get around.
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차라리 μ •λ₯˜μž₯을 μ§€λ‚˜μΉœλ‹€κ³  ν•˜λ”κ΅°μš”.
08:07
Instead, there's this elaborate shuffling of bags
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λŒ€μ‹ μ— 가방을 μΉ˜λ°€ν•˜κ²Œ μ›€μ§μ΄κ±°λ‚˜
08:10
and using your body to say that you need to get past,
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λͺΈμœΌλ‘œ μ§€λ‚˜κ°€μ•Ό ν•œλ‹€κ³  λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:13
instead of using two words.
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말 ν•œλ§ˆλ”” ν•˜λŠ” 것 λŒ€μ‹ μ—μš”.
08:18
In Egypt, I'm told,
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λ“£κΈ°λ‘œ μ΄μ§‘νŠΈμ—μ„œλŠ”
08:20
it's rude to ignore a stranger,
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λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ„ λ¬΄μ‹œν•˜λŠ” 건 결둀이며
08:23
and there's a remarkable culture of hospitality.
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μ†λ‹˜μ—κ²Œ 맀우 μΉœμ ˆν•œ 문화라고 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:27
Strangers might ask each other for a sip of water.
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λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ μ„œλ‘œμ—κ²Œ λ¬Ό ν•œλͺ¨κΈˆ 달라고 ν•  μˆ˜λ„ 있고
08:30
Or, if you ask someone for directions,
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ 길을 물어보면
08:33
they're very likely to invite you home for coffee.
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컀피 ν•œ μž” λ§ˆμ‹œλŸ¬ 집에 였라고 μ΄ˆλŒ€ν•˜λŠ” κ²½μš°λ„ λ§Žλ‹€κ³  ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:37
We see these unwritten rules most clearly when they're broken,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 이 암묡적인 κ·œμΉ™λ“€μ΄ κΉ¨μ‘Œμ„ λ•Œλ‚˜ μƒˆλ‘œμš΄ ν™˜κ²½μ— μžˆμ„ λ•Œ
08:41
or when you're in a new place
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κ°€μž₯ λͺ…ν™•ν•˜κ²Œ 느끼게 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:43
and you're trying to figure out what the right thing to do is.
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그리고 무엇이 μ˜¬λ°”λ₯Έ 행동인지 μ•Œμ•„λ‚΄λ €κ³  λ…Έλ ₯ν•˜μ£ .
08:47
Sometimes breaking the rules a little bit is where the action is.
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λ•Œλ‘œλŠ” κ·œμΉ™μ„ μ•½κ°„ 어겨야 ν•  λ•Œλ„ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:54
In case it's not clear, I really want you to do this. OK?
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ν˜Ήμ‹œ ν—·κ°ˆλ¦¬μ‹€κΉŒλ΄ λ“œλ¦¬λŠ” 말씀인데 μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 이걸 ν•˜κΈΈ 정말 λ°”λž˜μš”.
08:59
So here's how it's going to go.
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μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:01
Find somebody who is making eye contact.
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λˆˆμ„ λ§ˆμ£ΌμΉ˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ„ μ°ΎμœΌμ„Έμš”.
09:03
That's a good signal.
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그건 쒋은 μ‹ ν˜Έμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:05
The first thing is a simple smile.
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μš°μ„  κ°€λ³κ²Œ λ―Έμ†Œ μ§€μœΌμ„Έμš”.
09:08
If you're passing somebody on the street or in the hallway here, smile.
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κΈΈκ±°λ¦¬λ‚˜ μ—¬κΈ° λ³΅λ„μ—μ„œ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό μ§€λ‚˜μΉ˜λ©΄ μ›ƒμœΌμ„Έμš”.
09:12
See what happens.
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무슨 일이 μΌμ–΄λ‚˜λŠ”μ§€ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
09:14
Another is triangulation.
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또 λ‹€λ₯Έ ν•˜λ‚˜λŠ” 삼각 ν˜•μ„±μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:16
There's you, there's a stranger,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 있고, λͺ¨λ₯΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 있고
09:18
there's some third thing that you both might see and comment on,
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λ‘˜ λ‹€ 보고 λ°œμ–Έν•  λ§Œν•œ 제 3의 무언가가 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:23
like a piece of public art
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곡곡 λ―Έμˆ ν’ˆμ΄λΌλ“ κ°€
09:25
or somebody preaching in the street
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κΈΈκ±°λ¦¬μ—μ„œ μ„€κ΅ν•˜λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λ‚˜
09:27
or somebody wearing funny clothes.
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웃긴 μ˜·μ„ μž…κ³  μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μš”.
09:30
Give it a try.
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ν•œλ²ˆ ν•΄ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
09:31
Make a comment about that third thing, and see if starts a conversation.
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제3의 무언가에 λŒ€ν•΄ 이야기λ₯Ό ν•˜κ³  λŒ€ν™”κ°€ μ‹œμž‘λ˜λŠ”μ§€ λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
09:36
Another is what I call noticing.
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또 μ œκ°€ μ•Œμ•„μ£ΌκΈ°λΌκ³  λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” 것도 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:38
This is usually giving a compliment.
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주둜 칭찬을 ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:41
I'm a big fan of noticing people's shoes.
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μ €λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ μ‹ λ°œμ„ 잘 μ•Œμ•„λ΄μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:44
I'm actually not wearing fabulous shoes right now,
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μ œκ°€ μ§€κΈˆ 멋진 μ‹ λ°œμ„ μ‹ κ³  μžˆμ§„ μ•Šμ§€λ§Œ
09:47
but shoes are fabulous in general.
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μ‹ λ°œμ€ λŒ€μ²΄μ μœΌλ‘œ λ©‹μžˆμ–΄μš”.
09:49
And they're pretty neutral as far as giving compliments goes.
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그리고 칭찬에 κ΄€ν•΄μ„œλŠ” κ½€ μ€‘λ¦½μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:53
People always want to tell you things about their awesome shoes.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ–Έμ œλ‚˜ 자기의 멋진 μ‹ λ°œμ— κ΄€ν•΄μ„œ μ–˜κΈ°ν•΄μ£Όκ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•΄μš”.
09:57
You may have already experienced the dogs and babies principle.
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강아지와 μ•„κΈ° 원칙을 이미 κ²½ν—˜ν•΄λ³΄μ‹  적 μžˆμ„ κ±°μ˜ˆμš”.
10:01
It can be awkward to talk to someone on the street;
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ—κ²Œ κΈΈμ—μ„œ 말을 κ±°λŠ” 건 어색할 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:03
you don't know how they're going to respond.
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μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ°˜μ‘ν• μ§€ λͺ¨λ₯΄λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
10:06
But you can always talk to their dog or their baby.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ κ°•μ•„μ§€λ‚˜ μ•„κΈ°μ—κ²Œ λ§κ±°λŠ” 건 μ–Έμ œλ‚˜ κ°€λŠ₯ν•΄μš”.
10:08
The dog or the baby
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강아지와 μ•„κΈ°λŠ” κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²Œ
10:09
is a social conduit to the person,
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μ‚¬νšŒμ  μ „μ„ μ΄λ‚˜ λ§ˆμ°¬κ°€μ§€μ΄κ³ 
10:13
and you can tell by how they respond
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λ°˜μ‘μ„ 보고 그듀이 더 μ–˜κΈ°ν•˜κ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•˜λŠ”μ§€λ₯Ό
10:15
whether they're open to talking more.
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μ•Œ 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:18
The last one I want to challenge you to
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ λ„μ „ν•˜λΌκ³  ν•˜κ³  싢은 λ§ˆμ§€λ§‰ 일은
10:20
is disclosure.
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κ³΅κ°œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:22
This is a very vulnerable thing to do,
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μ•½ν•œ 면을 λ“œλŸ¬λ‚΄κ²Œ λ˜λŠ” 일일 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ§€λ§Œ
10:24
and it can be very rewarding.
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맀우 λ³΄λžŒμžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:27
So next time you're talking to a stranger
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒ λ‹€μŒμ— λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ–˜κΈ°ν•  λ•Œ
10:29
and you feel comfortable,
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νŽΈν•˜κ²Œ λŠλΌμ‹ λ‹€λ©΄
10:31
tell them something true about yourself,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ— λŒ€ν•œ μ†”μ§ν•œ 말을 λ“€λ €μ£Όμ„Έμš”.
10:34
something really personal.
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λ­”κ°€ 개인적인 μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°μš”.
10:36
You might have that experience I talked about of feeling understood.
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μ œκ°€ λ§ν–ˆλ˜ μ΄ν•΄λ°›λŠ” 기뢄을 λŠλΌμ‹€ 수 μžˆμ„ κ±°μ˜ˆμš”.
10:41
Sometimes in conversation, it comes up,
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가끔은 λŒ€ν™”ν•  λ•Œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 제게 묻기도 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:43
people ask me, "What does your dad do?" or, "Where does he live?"
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"μ•„λ²„λ‹˜μ΄ 무슨 일을 ν•˜μ„Έμš”?"λ‚˜ "μ•„λ²„λ‹˜μ΄ μ–΄λ”” μ‚¬μ„Έμš”?"λΌκ³ μš”.
10:47
And sometimes I tell them the whole truth,
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μ–΄λ–¨ λ•ŒλŠ” μ‚¬μ‹€λŒ€λ‘œ λ§ν•΄μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:49
which is that he died when I was a kid.
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μ œκ°€ 어릴 λ•Œ λŒμ•„κ°€μ…¨λ‹€κ³ μš”.
10:53
Always in those moments,
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κ·Έ μƒν™©μ—μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 항상
10:55
they share their own experiences of loss.
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λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ– λ‚˜λ³΄λƒˆλ˜ μžμ‹ μ˜ κ²½ν—˜μ„ 같이 λ‚˜λˆ•λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:58
We tend to meet disclosure with disclosure,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” 진싀을 μ§„μ‹€λ‘œ λ‹΅ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:01
even with strangers.
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λ‚―μ„  이듀쑰차도 κ·Έλ ‡μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:04
So, here it is.
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κ·ΈλŸ¬λ‹ˆκΉŒ
11:07
When you talk to strangers, you're making beautiful interruptions
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λ‚―μ„  이듀과 μ–˜κΈ°ν•  λ•Œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ κ·Έλ“€κ³Ό μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ λ»”ν•œ 일상에
11:11
into the expected narrative of your daily life
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μ•„λ¦„λ‹€μš΄ 끼어듀기λ₯Ό ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:14
and theirs.
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11:16
You're making unexpected connections.
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λœ»λ°–μ˜ μœ λŒ€λ₯Ό ν˜•μ„±ν•˜λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:19
If you don't talk to strangers, you're missing out on all of that.
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λ‚―μ„  μ΄λ“€μ—κ²Œ 말을 걸지 μ•ŠμœΌλ©΄ κ·Έκ±Έ λ‹€ λ†“μΉ˜λŠ” κ±°μ˜ˆμš”.
11:25
We spend a lot of time
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” μ•„μ΄λ“€μ—κ²Œ λ‚―μ„  μ‚¬λžŒμ— λŒ€ν•΄
11:27
teaching our children about strangers.
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κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” 데 λ§Žμ€ μ‹œκ°„μ„ ν• μ• ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:30
What would happen if we spent more time teaching ourselves?
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우리 μžμ‹ μ„ κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λŠ” 데 더 λ§Žμ€ μ‹œκ°„μ„ 보내면 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ λ κΉŒμš”?
11:35
We could reject all the ideas that make us so suspicious of each other.
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μ„œλ‘œλ₯Ό μ˜μ‹¬ν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“œλŠ” 생각듀을 λͺ¨λ‘ 뿌리칠 수 μžˆμ„ κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:40
We could make a space for change.
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그리고 λ³€ν™”λ₯Ό μœ„ν•œ 곡간을 λ§Œλ“€ 수 μžˆμ„ κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:44
Thank you.
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κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:45
(Applause)
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