Madeleine Albright: On being a woman and a diplomat

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Pat Mitchell: What is the story of this pin?
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Madeleine Albright: This is "Breaking the Glass Ceiling."
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PM: Oh.
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That was well chosen, I would say, for TEDWomen.
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MA: Most of the time I spend when I get up in the morning
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is trying to figure out what is going to happen.
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And none of this pin stuff would have happened
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if it hadn't been for Saddam Hussein.
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I'll tell you what happened.
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I went to the United Nations as an ambassador,
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and it was after the Gulf War,
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and I was an instructed ambassador.
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And the cease-fire had been translated
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into a series of sanctions resolutions,
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and my instructions
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were to say perfectly terrible things about Saddam Hussein constantly,
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which he deserved -- he had invaded another country.
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And so all of a sudden, a poem appeared in the papers in Baghdad
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comparing me to many things,
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but among them an "unparalleled serpent."
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And so I happened to have a snake pin.
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So I wore it when we talked about Iraq.
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(Laughter)
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And when I went out to meet the press,
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they zeroed in, said, "Why are you wearing that snake pin?"
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I said, "Because Saddam Hussein compared me to an unparalleled serpent."
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And then I thought, well this is fun.
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So I went out and I bought a lot of pins
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that would, in fact, reflect
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what I thought we were going to do on any given day.
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So that's how it all started.
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PM: So how large is the collection?
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MA: Pretty big.
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It's now traveling.
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At the moment it's in Indianapolis,
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but it was at the Smithsonian.
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And it goes with a book that says, "Read My Pins."
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(Laughter)
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PM: So is this a good idea.
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I remember when you were the first woman
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as Secretary of State,
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and there was a lot of conversation always
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about what you were wearing,
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how you looked --
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the thing that happens to a lot of women,
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especially if they're the first in a position.
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So how do you feel about that -- the whole --
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MA: Well, it's pretty irritating actually
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because nobody ever describes what a man is wearing.
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But people did pay attention to what clothes I had.
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What was interesting was that,
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before I went up to New York as U.N. ambassador,
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I talked to Jeane Kirkpatrick, who'd been ambassador before me,
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and she said, "You've got to get rid of your professor clothes.
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Go out and look like a diplomat."
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So that did give me a lot of opportunities to go shopping.
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But still, there were all kinds of questions
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about -- "did you wear a hat?" "How short was your skirt?"
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And one of the things --
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if you remember Condoleezza Rice was at some event and she wore boots,
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and she got criticized over that.
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And no guy ever gets criticized. But that's the least of it.
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PM: It is, for all of us, men and women,
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finding our ways of defining our roles,
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and doing them in ways that make a difference in the world
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and shape the future.
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How did you handle that balance
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between being the tough diplomatic
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and strong voice of this country
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to the rest of the world
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and also how you felt about yourself
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as a mother, a grandmother, nurturing ...
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and so how did you handle that?
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MA: Well the interesting part was I was asked
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what it was like to be the first woman Secretary of State
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a few minutes after I'd been named.
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And I said, "Well I've been a woman for 60 years,
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but I've only been Secretary of State for a few minutes."
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So it evolved.
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(Laughter)
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But basically I love being a woman.
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And so what happened --
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and I think there will probably be some people in the audience
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that will identify with this --
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I went to my first meeting, first at the U.N.,
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and that's when this all started,
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because that is a very male organization.
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And I'm sitting there -- there are 15 members of the Security Council --
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so 14 men sat there staring at me,
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and I thought -- well you know how we all are.
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You want to get the feeling of the room,
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and "do people like me?"
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and "will I really say something intelligent?"
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And all of a sudden I thought, "Well, wait a minute.
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I am sitting behind a sign that says 'The United States,'
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and if I don't speak today
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then the voice of the United States will not be heard,"
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and it was the first time that I had that feeling
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that I had to step out of myself
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in my normal, reluctant female mode
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and decide that I had to speak on behalf of our country.
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And so that happened more at various times,
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but I really think that there was a great advantage in many ways
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to being a woman.
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I think we are a lot better
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at personal relationships,
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and then have the capability obviously
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of telling it like it is when it's necessary.
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But I have to tell you, I have my youngest granddaughter,
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when she turned seven last year,
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said to her mother, my daughter,
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"So what's the big deal about Grandma Maddie being Secretary of State?
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Only girls are Secretary of State."
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(Laughter)
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(Applause)
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PM: Because in her lifetime -- MA: That would be so.
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PM: What a change that is.
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As you travel now all over the world,
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which you do frequently,
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how do you assess
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this global narrative around the story of women and girls?
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Where are we?
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MA: I think we're slowly changing,
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but obviously there are whole pockets
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in countries where nothing is different.
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And therefore it means that we have to remember
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that, while many of us have had huge opportunities --
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and Pat, you have been a real leader in your field --
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is that there are a lot of women
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that are not capable
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of worrying and taking care of themselves
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and understanding that women have to help other women.
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And so what I have felt --
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and I have looked at this
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from a national security issue --
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when I was Secretary of State, I decided
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that women's issues had to be central to American foreign policy,
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not just because I'm a feminist,
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but because I believe that societies are better off
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when women are politically and economically empowered,
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that values are passed down,
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the health situation is better,
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education is better,
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there is greater economic prosperity.
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So I think that it behooves us --
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those of us that live in various countries
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where we do have economic and political voice --
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that we need to help other women.
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And I really dedicated myself to that,
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both at the U.N. and then as Secretary of State.
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PM: And did you get pushback
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from making that a central tenant of foreign policy?
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MA: From some people.
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I think that they thought that it was a soft issue.
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The bottom line that I decided
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was actually women's issues are the hardest issues,
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because they are the ones that have to do with life and death
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in so many aspects,
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and because, as I said,
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it is really central to the way that we think about things.
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Now for instance,
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some of the wars that took place
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when I was in office,
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a lot of them, the women were the main victims of it.
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For instance, when I started,
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there were wars in the Balkans.
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The women in Bosnia were being raped.
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We then managed to set up a war crimes tribunal
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to deal specifically with those kinds of issues.
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And by the way, one of the things that I did at that stage
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was, I had just arrived at the U.N.,
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and when I was there, there were 183 countries in the U.N.
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Now there are 192.
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But it was one of the first times that I didn't have to cook lunch myself.
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So I said to my assistant,
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"Invite the other women permanent representatives."
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And I thought when I'd get to my apartment
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that there'd be a lot of women there.
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I get there, and there are six other women, out of 183.
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So the countries that had women representatives
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were Canada, Kazakhstan, Philippines,
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Trinidad Tobago, Jamaica,
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Lichtenstein and me.
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So being an American, I decided to set up a caucus.
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(Laughter)
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And so we set it up,
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and we called ourselves the G7.
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(Laughter)
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PM: Is that "Girl 7?" MA: Girl 7.
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And we lobbied
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on behalf of women's issues.
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So we managed to get two women judges
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on this war crimes tribunal.
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And then what happened
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was that they were able to declare that rape was a weapon of war,
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that it was against humanity.
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(Applause)
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PM: So when you look around the world
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and you see that, in many cases --
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certainly in the Western world --
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women are evolving into more leadership positions,
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and even other places
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some barriers are being brought down,
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but there's still so much violence,
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still so many problems,
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and yet we hear there are more women
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at the negotiating tables.
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Now you were at those negotiating tables
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when they weren't, when there was maybe you --
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one voice, maybe one or two others.
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Do you believe, and can you tell us why,
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there is going to be a significant shift
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in things like violence
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and peace and conflict and resolution
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on a sustainable basis?
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MA: Well I do think, when there are more women,
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that the tone of the conversation changes,
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and also the goals of the conversation change.
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But it doesn't mean that the whole world
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would be a lot better
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if it were totally run by women.
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If you think that, you've forgotten high school.
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(Laughter)
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But the bottom line
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is that there is a way,
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when there are more women at the table,
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that there's an attempt
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to develop some understanding.
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So for instance, what I did when I went to Burundi,
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we'd got Tutsi and Hutu women together
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to talk about some of the problems
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that had taken place in Rwanda.
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And so I think the capability of women
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to put themselves --
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I think we're better about putting ourselves into the other guy's shoes
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and having more empathy.
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I think it helps in terms of the support
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if there are other women in the room.
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When I was Secretary of State,
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there were only 13 other women foreign ministers.
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And so it was nice when one of them would show up.
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For instance, she is now the president of Finland,
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but Tarja Halonen was the foreign minister of Finland
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and, at a certain stage, head of the European Union.
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And it was really terrific.
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Because one of the things I think you'll understand.
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We went to a meeting,
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and the men in my delegation,
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when I would say, "Well I feel we should do something about this,"
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and they'd say, "What do you mean, you feel?"
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And so then Tarja was sitting across the table from me.
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And all of a sudden we were talking about arms control,
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and she said, "Well I feel we should do this."
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And my male colleagues kind of got it all of a sudden.
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But I think it really does help
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to have a critical mass of women
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in a series of foreign policy positions.
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The other thing that I think is really important:
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A lot of national security policy
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isn't just about foreign policy,
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but it's about budgets, military budgets,
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and how the debts of countries work out.
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So if you have women
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in a variety of foreign policy posts,
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they can support each other
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when there are budget decisions being made in their own countries.
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PM: So how do we get
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this balance we're looking for, then, in the world?
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More women's voices at the table?
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More men who believe
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that the balance is best?
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MA: Well I think one of the things --
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I'm chairman of the board of an organization
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called the National Democratic Institute
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that works to support women candidates.
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I think that we need
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to help in other countries
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to train women
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to be in political office,
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to figure out how they can in fact
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develop political voices.
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I think we also need to be supportive
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when businesses are being created
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and just make sure that women help each other.
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Now I have a saying
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that I feel very strongly about,
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because I am of a certain age
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where, when I started in my career,
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believe it or not, there were other women who criticized me:
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"Why aren't you in the carpool line?"
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or "Aren't your children suffering
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because you're not there all the time?"
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And I think we have a tendency to make each other feel guilty.
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In fact, I think "guilt" is every woman's middle name.
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And so I think what needs to happen
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is we need to help each other.
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And my motto is that there's a special place in hell
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for women who don't help each other.
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(Applause)
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PM: Well Secretary Albright, I guess you'll be going to heaven.
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Thank you for joining us today.
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MA: Thank you all. Thanks Pat.
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(Applause)
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