Tavi Gevinson: A teen just trying to figure it out

53,159 views ใƒป 2015-07-15

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ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุฃุฏู†ุงู‡ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ.

ุงู„ู…ุชุฑุฌู…: Nasser Al-Yahya ุงู„ู…ุฏู‚ู‘ู‚: Anwar Dafa-Alla
00:12
Four years ago today, exactly, actually,
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ู‚ุจู„ ุฃุฑุจุน ุณู†ูˆุงุชุŒ ูˆููŠ ู†ูุณ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ูŠูˆู… ุจุงู„ุถุจุทุŒ
00:14
I started a fashion blog called Style Rookie.
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ุจุฏุฃุช ู…ุฏูˆู†ุฉ ุฃุฒูŠุงุก ุฅุณู…ู‡ุง "Style Rookie"
00:17
Last September of 2011, I started an online magazine
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ููŠ ุณุจุชู…ุจุฑ ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ ุนุงู… 2011ุŒ ุจุฏุฃุช ู…ุฌู„ุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฅู†ุชุฑู†ุช
00:21
for teenage girls called Rookiemag.com.
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ู„ู„ู…ุฑุงู‡ู‚ุงุช ุชุณู…ู‰ "Rookiemag.com"
00:25
My name's Tavi Gevinson, and
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ุฅุณู…ูŠ ุชุงููŠ ุฌูŠููŠู†ุณูˆู†
00:29
the title of my talk is "Still Figuring It Out,"
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ูˆุนู†ูˆุงู† ุญุฏูŠุซูŠ ู‡ูˆ "ู„ุงุฒู„ุช ุฃุญุงูˆู„ ู…ุนุฑูุฉ ู…ุง ุฃุฑูŠุฏ"
00:32
and the MS Paint quality of my slides
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ูˆุฌูˆุฏุฉ ุจุฑู†ุงู…ุฌ ุงู„ุฑุณุงู… ู…ู† ู…ุงูŠูƒุฑูˆุณูˆูุช ุงู„ุฎุงุตุฉ ุจุนุฑุถูŠ
00:35
was a total creative decision in keeping with today's theme,
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ูƒุงู†ุช ู‚ุฑุงุฑุงู‹ ุฅุจุฏุงุนูŠุงู‹ ู„ู„ุชู…ุงุดูŠ ู…ุน ู…ูˆุถูˆุน ุงู„ูŠูˆู…ุŒ
00:38
and has nothing to do with my inability
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ูˆู„ุง ูŠุนู†ูŠ ุนุฏู… ู…ู‚ุฏุฑุชูŠ ุนู„ู‰
00:40
to use PowerPoint. (Laughter)
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ุฅุณุชุฎุฏุงู… PowerPoint. (ุถุญูƒ)
00:43
So I edit this site for teenage girls. I'm a feminist.
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ุฅุฐุงู‹ ุฃู†ุง ุฃุดุฑู ุนู„ู‰ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน ู„ู„ู…ุฑุงู‡ู‚ุงุช. ุฃู†ุง ู†ุณูˆูŠุฉ (ู…ู†ุงุตุฑุฉ ู„ุญู‚ูˆู‚ ุงู„ู…ุฑุฃุฉ).
00:48
I am kind of a pop culture nerd, and I think a lot about
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ุฃู†ุง ู„ุญุฏ ู…ุง ู…ู‡ูˆูˆุณุฉ ุจุซู‚ุงูุฉ ุงู„ุจูˆุจุŒ ูˆ ุฃููƒุฑ ูƒุซูŠุฑุง ุจ
00:50
what makes a strong female character,
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ู…ุง ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ ุงู…ุฑุฃุฉ ู‚ูˆูŠุฉุŒ
00:53
and, you know, movies and TV shows,
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ูˆูƒู…ุง ุชุนู„ู…ูˆู†ุŒ ุงู„ุฃูู„ุงู… ูˆุงู„ุชู„ูุฒูŠูˆู†ุŒ
00:55
these things have influence. My own website.
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ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุฃู…ูˆุฑ ุฃุซุฑุช ุนู„ู‰ ู…ูˆู‚ุนูŠ ุงู„ุงู„ูƒุชุฑูˆู†ูŠ.
00:59
So I think the question of what makes a strong female
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ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุฃุนุชู‚ุฏ ุฃู† ุงู„ุณุคุงู„: ู…ุง ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ ุงู…ุฑุฃุฉ ู‚ูˆูŠุฉ
01:02
character often goes misinterpreted,
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ุบุงู„ุจุงู‹ ู…ุง ูŠุณุงุก ุชูุณูŠุฑู‡ุŒ
01:04
and instead we get these two-dimensional superwomen
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ูˆุจุฏู„ุงู‹ ู…ู† ุฐู„ูƒ ู†ุญุตู„ ุนู„ู‰ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุดุฎุตูŠุงุช ู„ู†ุณุงุก ุฎุงุฑู‚ุงุช ุฐูˆุงุช ุงู„ุจุนุฏูŠู†
01:08
who maybe have one quality that's played up a lot,
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ุงู„ุฐูŠู† ุฑุจู…ุง ู„ุฏูŠู‡ู… ู…ูŠุฒุฉ ูˆุงุญุฏุฉ ูŠุชู… ู„ุนุจ ุฏูˆุฑู‡ุง ุจูƒุซุฑุฉุŒ
01:11
like a Catwoman type,
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ู…ุซู„ ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ ุงู„ู…ุฑุฃุฉ ุงู„ู‚ุทุฉุŒ
01:14
or she plays her sexuality up a lot,
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ุฃูˆ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุณุชุฎุฏู… ุฅุบุฑุงุฆุงุชู‡ุง ุงู„ุฌู†ุณูŠุฉ ุจูƒุซุฑุฉุŒ
01:18
and it's seen as power.
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ูˆูŠุฑู‰ ุฐู„ูƒ ุนู„ู‰ ุฃู†ู‡ ู‚ูˆุฉ.
01:19
But they're not strong characters who happen to be female.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‡ู… ู„ูŠุณูˆุง ุดุฎุตูŠุงุช ู‚ูˆูŠุฉ ูƒุงู†ูˆุง ุฅู†ุงุซ ุจุฌุฑุฏ ุงู„ู…ุตุงุฏูุฉ
01:22
They're completely flat,
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ุฅู†ู‡ุง ุดุฎุตูŠุงุช ุณุทุญูŠุฉุŒ
01:24
and they're basically cardboard characters.
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ูˆู‡ู… ุฃุณุงุณุง ุดุฎุตูŠุงุช ูƒุฑุชูˆู†ูŠุฉ.
01:27
The problem with this is that then
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ุงู„ู…ุดูƒู„ุฉ ููŠ ุฐู„ูƒ ุฃู†ู‡ ุจุนุฏ ุฐู„ูƒ
01:28
people expect women to be that easy to understand,
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ุณูŠุชูˆู‚ุน ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุจุฃู† ุงู„ู†ุณุงุก ูŠู…ูƒู† ูู‡ู…ู‡ู… ุจู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุณู‡ูˆู„ุฉุŒ
01:32
and women are mad at themselves
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ูˆ ุณูŠุตุจุญ ุงู„ู†ุณุงุก ุบุงุถุจุงุช ู…ู† ุฃู†ูุณู‡ู†
01:35
for not being that simple,
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ู„ุนุฏู… ุฅุชุณุงู…ู‡ู† ุจุงู„ุจุณุงุทุฉุŒ
01:36
when, in actuality, women are complicated,
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ุจูŠู†ู…ุงุŒ ููŠ ุงู„ูˆุงู‚ุนุŒ ุงู„ู†ุณุงุก ู…ุนู‚ุฏุงุชุŒ
01:39
women are multifaceted -- not because women are crazy,
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ุงู„ู†ุณุงุก ู…ุชุนุฏุฏุงุช ุงู„ุฃูˆุฌู‡ - ู„ูŠุณ ู„ุฃู†ู‡ู… ู…ุฌุงู†ูŠู†ุŒ
01:42
but because people are crazy,
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ู„ุฃู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ู…ุฌุงู†ูŠู†ุŒ
01:44
and women happen to be people. (Laughter)
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ูˆุงู„ู†ุณุงุก ูŠุนุชุจุฑู† ู…ู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณ. (ุถุญูƒ)
01:48
So the flaws are the key.
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ุฅุฐุง ุงู„ุนูŠูˆุจ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ู…ูุชุงุญ.
01:50
I'm not the first person to say this.
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ุฃู†ุง ู„ุณุช ุฃูˆู„ ุดุฎุต ูŠู‚ูˆู„ ู‡ุฐุง.
01:52
What makes a strong female character
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ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ ุฅู…ุฑุฃุฉ ู‚ูˆูŠุฉ
01:54
is a character who has weaknesses, who has flaws,
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ู‡ูŠ ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ ู„ุฏูŠู‡ุง ู†ู‚ุงุท ุถุนูุŒ ู„ุฏูŠู‡ุง ุนูŠูˆุจุŒ
01:59
who is maybe not immediately likable,
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ูˆุงู„ุชูŠ ุฑุจู…ุง ู„ุง ุชูƒูˆู† ู…ุญุจูˆุจุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ููˆุฑุŒ
02:01
but eventually relatable.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‡ุง ููŠ ุงู„ู†ู‡ุงูŠุฉ ู‚ุงุจู„ุฉ ู„ู„ุชูˆุงุตู„.
02:03
I don't like to acknowledge a problem
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ู„ุง ุฃุญุจ ุงู„ุฅุนุชุฑุงู ุจู…ุดูƒู„ุฉ
02:05
without also acknowledging those who work to fix it,
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ุฏูˆู† ุงู„ุฅุนุชุฑุงู ุจู…ู† ูŠุนู…ู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุญู„ู‡ุงุŒ
02:07
so just wanted to acknowledge shows like "Mad Men,"
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ุฅุฐุง ุฃูŠุฏ ุงู„ุฅุนุชุฑุงู ุจุจุฑุงู…ุฌ ู…ุซู„ "Mad Men"ุŒ
02:10
movies like "Bridesmaids," whose female characters
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ุฃูู„ุงู… ู…ุซู„ "Bridesmaids" ูˆุงู„ุชูŠ ุดุฎุตูŠุงุชู‡ุง ุงู„ู†ุณุงุฆูŠุฉ
02:13
or protagonists are complex, multifaceted.
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ุฃูˆ ุฃุจุทุงู„ู‡ุง ู…ุนู‚ุฏูˆู† ูˆู…ุชุนุฏุฏูˆุง ุงู„ุฃูˆุฌู‡.
02:17
Lena Dunham, who's on here, her show on HBO
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ูˆ Lena DunhamุŒ ูˆู‡ูŠ ู‡ู†ุง ุŒ ูˆุจุฑู†ุงู…ุฌู‡ุง ุนู„ู‰ HBO
02:22
that premiers next month, "Girls,"
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ูˆุณูŠุจุฏุฃ ุนุฑุถู‡ ุงู„ุดู‡ุฑ ุงู„ู‚ุงุฏู…ุŒ "Girls"ุŒ
02:24
she said she wanted to start it because she felt that
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ู‚ุงู„ุช ุฃู†ู‡ุง ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุจุฏุก ุงู„ุจุฑู†ุงู…ุฌ ู„ุฃู†ู‡ุง ุดุนุฑุช ุจุฃู†
02:26
every woman she knew was just a bundle of contradictions,
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ูƒู„ ุงู…ุฑุฃุฉ ุชุนุฑูู‡ุง ูƒุงู†ุช ู…ุฌุฑุฏ ุญุฒู…ุฉ ู…ู† ุงู„ุชู†ุงู‚ุถุงุชุŒ
02:29
and that feels accurate for all people,
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ูŠุจุฏูˆุง ุฏู‚ูŠู‚ุง ู„ุฌู…ูŠุน ุงู„ู†ุงุณุŒ
02:32
but you don't see women represented like that as much.
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ู„ุง ุชุดุงู‡ุฏ ู†ุณุงุฆุงู‹ ูŠุนุฑุถู† ุจู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู†ู…ุท ุจู…ุซู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู‚ุฏุฑ.
02:34
Congrats, guys. (Laughs)
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ู…ุจุฑูˆูƒุŒ ูŠุง ุฑูุงู‚. (ุถุญูƒ)
02:38
But I don't feel that โ€” I still feel that there are some types
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ู„ุง ุฒู„ุช ุฃุดุนุฑ ุจุฃู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุงู„ุจุนุถ
02:41
of women who are not represented that way,
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ู…ู† ุงู„ู†ุณุงุก ุงู„ุบูŠุฑ ู…ู…ุซู„ูŠู† ุจู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉุŒ
02:44
and one group that we'll focus on today are teens,
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ูˆุฅุญุฏู‰ ุงู„ู…ุฌู…ูˆุนุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ุณูˆู ู†ุฑูƒุฒ ุนู„ูŠู‡ุง ุงู„ูŠูˆู… ู‡ู… ุงู„ู…ุฑุงู‡ู‚ูˆู†ุŒ
02:46
because I think teenagers are especially contradictory
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ู„ุฃู†ู†ูŠ ุฃุนุชู‚ุฏ ุฃู† ุงู„ู…ุฑุงู‡ู‚ูŠู† ู‡ู… ุจุงู„ุฃุฎุตูŠุฉ ู…ุชู†ุงู‚ุถูˆู†
02:50
and still figuring it out,
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ูˆู…ุงุฒุงู„ูˆุง ูŠุญุงูˆู„ูˆู† ูู‡ู… ู…ุง ุงู†ูุณู‡ู…ุŒ
02:53
and in the '90s there was "Freaks and Geeks"
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ูˆููŠ ุงู„ุชุณุนูŠู†ุงุช ูƒุงู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ "Freaks and Geeks"
02:56
and "My So-Called Life," and their characters,
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ูˆ"My So-Called Life"ุŒ ูˆุดุฎุตูŠุงุชู‡ู…ุŒ
02:59
Lindsay Weir and Angela Chase,
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ู„ูŠู†ุฏุณูŠ ูˆูŠูŠุฑ ูˆ ุงู†ุฌูŠู„ุง ุชุดูŠุณ
03:02
I mean, the whole premise of the shows
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ุฃุนู†ูŠุŒุงู„ู…ุณู„ุณู„ ุจุงู„ูƒุงู…ู„
03:04
were just them trying to figure themselves out, basically,
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ูƒุงู† ู…ุฌุฑุฏ ู…ุญุงูˆู„ุชู‡ู… ู„ูู‡ู… ุฃู†ูุณู‡ู…ุŒ
03:08
but those shows only lasted a season each,
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ู…ุณู„ุณู„ุงุช ุงุณุชู…ุฑุช ู„ู…ูˆุณู… ูˆุงุญุฏ ูู‚ุทุŒ
03:11
and I haven't really seen anything like that on TV since.
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ูˆู„ู… ุฃุดุงู‡ุฏ ุฃูŠ ุดูŠุฆ ูƒู‡ุฐุง ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุชู„ูุงุฒ ู…ู†ุฐ ุฐุงูƒ ุงู„ุญูŠู†.
03:16
So this is a scientific diagram of my brain โ€” (Laughter) โ€”
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ุฑุณู… ุชุฎุทูŠุทูŠ ุนู„ู…ูŠ ู„ุฏู…ุงุบูŠ โ€“ (ุถุญูƒ) โ€”
03:22
around the time when I was,
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ููŠ ุฐุงูƒ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูƒู†ุชุŒ
03:24
when I started watching those TV shows.
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุจุฏุฃุช ู…ุดุงู‡ุฏุฉ ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ู…ุณู„ุณู„ุงุช.
03:26
I was ending middle school, starting high school --
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ูƒู†ุช ุฃู†ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ู…ุฑุญู„ุฉ ุงู„ู…ุชูˆุณุทุฉุŒ ูˆุจุงุฏุฆุฉู‹ ููŠ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูˆูŠุฉ -
03:28
I'm a sophomore now โ€”
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ุฃู†ุง ุงู„ุขู† ููŠ ุงู„ุณู†ุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูˆูŠุฉ โ€“
03:31
and I was trying to reconcile
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ูˆูƒู†ุช ููŠ ู…ุญุงูˆู„ุฉ ุงู„ุงู†ุณุฌุงู… ู…ุน
03:33
all of these differences that you're told you can't be
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ูƒู„ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุฅุฎุชู„ุงูุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠู‚ุงู„ ู„ูƒ ุฃู†ู‡ุง ู„ูŠุณุช ู„ุฏูŠูƒ
03:36
when you're growing up as a girl.
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ุฎู„ุงู„ ู…ุฑุญู„ุฉ ู†ู…ูˆูƒ ูƒูุชุงุฉ.
03:37
You can't be smart and pretty.
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ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุฃู† ุชูƒูˆู†ูŠ ุฐูƒูŠุฉ ูˆุฌู…ูŠู„ุฉ.
03:40
You can't be a feminist who's also interested in fashion.
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ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุฃู† ุชูƒูˆู†ูŠ ู†ุณุงุฆูŠุฉ ูˆู…ู‡ุชู…ุฉ ุฃูŠุถุง ุจุงู„ู…ูˆุถุฉ.
03:43
You can't care about clothes if it's not for the sake
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ูˆู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุงู† ุชู‡ุชู…ูŠ ุจู„ุจุงุณูƒ ุฅุฐุง ู„ู… ุชูƒู† ู„ุฃุฌู„
03:47
of what other people, usually men, will think of you.
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ุงู„ุขุฎุฑูŠู†ุŒ ูˆุจุงู„ุฃุฎุต ุงู„ุฑุฌุงู„ุŒ ูˆู…ุง ุณูˆู ูŠุธู†ูˆู†ู‡ ุนู†ูƒ.
03:50
So I was trying to figure all that out,
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ููƒู†ุช ุฃุญุงูˆู„ ุงุณุชูŠุนุงุจ ูƒู„ ู‡ุฐุงุŒ
03:53
and I felt a little confused,
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ูˆุดุนุฑุช ู‚ู„ูŠู„ุงู‹ ุจุงู„ุญูŠุฑุฉุŒ
03:56
and I said so on my blog,
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ูˆู‚ู„ุช ุฐู„ูƒ ููŠ ู…ุฏูˆู†ุชูŠุŒ
03:58
and I said that I wanted to start
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ูˆู‚ู„ุช ุจุฃู†ู†ูŠ ุฃุฑูŠุฏ ุฃู† ุฃุจุฏุฃ
04:02
a website for teenage girls
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ู…ูˆู‚ุน ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฅู†ุชุฑู†ุช ู„ู„ู…ุฑุงู‡ู‚ุงุช
04:05
that was not this kind of one-dimensional
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ุจุญูŠุซ ู„ุง ูŠูƒูˆู† ู…ุซู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู†ูˆุน ุงู„ุฃุญุงุฏูŠ ุงู„ุจุนุฏ
04:08
strong character empowerment thing
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ู„ู„ุดุฎุตูŠุฉ ุงู„ู‚ูˆูŠุฉ
04:11
because I think one thing that can be very alienating
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ู„ุฃู†ู†ูŠ ุฃุนุชู‚ุฏ ุฃู† ุฃุญุฏ ุงู„ุฃุดูŠุงุก ุงู„ู…ู†ูุฑุฉ
04:14
about a misconception of feminism is that
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ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ูู‡ู… ุงู„ุฎุงุทุฆ ู„ู„ู†ุณูˆูŠุฉ
04:16
girls then think that to be a feminist, they have to live up to
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ุงู„ูุชูŠุงุช ูŠุนุชู‚ุฏู† ุฃู†ู‡ู† ุฅู† ุฃุฑุฏู† ุฃู† ูŠูƒู† ู†ุณูˆูŠุงุชุŒ ููŠุฌุจ ุฃู† ูŠูƒู†
04:20
being perfectly consistent in your beliefs,
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ู…ู„ุชุฒู…ุงุช ุชู…ุงู…ุง ุจู…ุนุชู‚ุฏุงุชู‡ู†ุŒ
04:22
never being insecure, never having doubts,
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ูˆู„ุง ูŠุดุนุฑู† ุจุงู„ุถุนู ุงุจุฏุงู‹ุŒ ูˆุงู„ุง ูŠู‚ุนู† ุจุดูƒุŒ
04:26
having all of the answers. And this is not true,
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ูˆูŠุฌุจ ุงู† ูŠุนุฑูู† ูƒุงูุฉ ุงู„ุฅุฌุงุจุงุช. ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู„ูŠุณ ุตุญูŠุญุงู‹ุŒ
04:29
and, actually, reconciling all the contradictions I was feeling
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ูˆููŠ ุงู„ูˆุงู‚ุนุŒ ุงู„ุชูˆููŠู‚ ุจูŠู† ุฌู…ูŠุน ุงู„ุชู†ุงู‚ุถุงุช ุงู„ู„ุชูŠ ูƒู†ุช ุฃุดุนุฑ ุจู‡ุง
04:33
became easier once I understood that feminism
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ุฃุตุจุญ ุฃุณู‡ู„ ุญุงู„ู…ุง ูู‡ู…ุช ุฃู† ุงู„ู†ุณูˆูŠุฉ
04:37
was not a rulebook but a discussion,
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ู„ูŠุณุช ูƒุชุงุจ ุฑุงุณุฎ ูˆู„ูƒู† ู†ู‚ุงุดุŒ
04:39
a conversation, a process,
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ู…ุญุงุฏุซุฉุŒ ุนู…ู„ูŠุฉ ุฐุงุช ู…ุฑุงุญู„ุŒ
04:41
and this is a spread from a zine that I made last year
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุญูŠุฒ ู…ู† ุฏูˆุฑูŠุฉ ุฃู†ุดุฃุชู‡ุง ุงู„ุนุงู… ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ
04:44
when I -- I mean, I think I've let myself go a bit
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุฌุนู„ุช ู†ูุณูŠ ุชุฐู‡ุจ ู‚ู„ูŠู„ุงู‹
04:47
on the illustration front since.
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ุงู„ู‰ ูˆุงุฌู‡ุฉ ุงู„ุชุนุจูŠุฑ ู…ู†ุฐ ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช.
04:49
But, yeah.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ุŒ ู†ุนู….
04:53
So I said on my blog that I wanted to start this publication
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ู‚ู„ุช ููŠ ู…ุฏูˆู†ุชูŠ ุฃู†ู†ูŠ ุฃุฑุฏุช ุฃู† ุงุจุฏุฃ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ู†ุดูˆุฑ
04:58
for teenage girls and ask people to submit
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ู„ู„ู…ุฑุงู‡ู‚ุงุชุŒ ูˆุทู„ุจุช ู…ู† ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุฃู† ูŠู‚ุฏู…ูˆุง
05:00
their writing, their photography, whatever,
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ูƒุชุงุจุงุชู‡ู…ุŒ ุตูˆุฑู‡ู…ุŒ ุฃูŠุง ูƒุงู†ุชุŒ
05:02
to be a member of our staff.
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ู„ูŠูƒูˆู†ูˆุง ุฃุญุฏ ุฃุนุถุงุฆู†ุง ุงู„ู…ู†ุถู…ูŠู†.
05:04
I got about 3,000 emails.
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ูˆุตู„ู†ูŠ 3,000 ุจุฑูŠุฏ ุฅู„ูƒุชุฑูˆู†ูŠ.
05:07
My editorial director and I went through them and
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ุฃู†ุง ูˆู…ุฏูŠุฑ ุงู„ุชุญุฑูŠุฑ ู‚ุฑุฃู†ุงู‡ู…
05:10
put together a staff of people,
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ูƒูˆู†ุง ู…ุนุง ุนุฏุฏุง ู…ู† ุงู„ู…ู†ุธู…ูŠู†ุŒ
05:13
and we launched last September.
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ูˆุงู†ุทู„ู‚ู†ุง ููŠ ุณุจุชู…ุจุฑ ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠ.
05:15
And this is an excerpt from my first editor's letter,
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ูˆู‡ุฐู‡ ู…ู‚ุชุทูุงุช ู…ู† ุฑุณุงุฆู„ ุงู„ู…ุญุฑุฑ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ุŒ
05:18
where I say that Rookie, we don't have all the answers,
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ุญูŠุซ ุฃู‚ูˆู„ ุฃู†ู‡ ููŠ RookieุŒ ู†ุญู† ู„ุง ู†ู…ู„ูƒ ูƒู„ ุงู„ุฃุฌูˆุจุฉุŒ
05:21
we're still figuring it out too, but the point is not to
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ู†ุญู† ู„ุง ู†ุฒุงู„ ู†ุญุงูˆู„ ูู‡ู… ุฃู†ูุณู†ุง ุฃูŠุถุงุŒ ูˆู„ูƒู† ุงู„ู…ุบุฒู‰ ู„ูŠุณ
05:24
give girls the answers, and not even give them permission
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ุจุฅุนุทุงุก ุงู„ูุชูŠุงุช ุงู„ุฅุฌุงุจุงุชุŒ ูˆู„ุง ุญุชู‰ ู…ู†ุญู‡ู… ุงู„ุฅุฐู†
05:28
to find the answers themselves,
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ู„ู„ุนุซูˆุฑ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฅุฌุงุจุงุช ุจุฃู†ูุณู‡ู†ุŒ
05:30
but hopefully inspire them to understand that
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ู†ุฃู…ู„ ุจุฅู„ู‡ุงู…ู‡ู† ู„ูŠูู‡ู…ูˆุง ุจุฃู†ู‡ู†
05:32
they can give themselves that permission,
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ู‡ู† ู…ู† ู„ุฏูŠู‡ู† ุงู„ู‚ุฏุฑุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ุฅุนุทุงุก ุฃู†ูุณู‡ู† ุงู„ุฅุฐู†ุŒ
05:34
they can ask their own questions, find their own answers,
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ูŠู…ูƒู†ู‡ู† ุทุฑุญ ุฃุณุฆู„ุชู‡ู† ุงู„ุฎุงุตุฉุŒ ูˆูŠู…ูƒู†ู‡ู† ุงู„ุนุซูˆุฑ ุนู„ู‰ ุฅุฌุงุจุงุชู‡ุงุŒ
05:37
all of that, and Rookie, I think we've been trying to make it
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ููŠ RookieุŒ ุฃุนุชู‚ุฏ ุฃู†ู†ุง ูƒู†ุง ู†ุญุงูˆู„ ุฃู† ู†ุฌุนู„ู‡
05:40
a nice place for all of that to be figured out.
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ู…ูƒุงู† ุฌู…ูŠู„ ู„ูƒู„ ู…ุง ูŠุฑุงุฏ ูู‡ู…ู‡.
05:45
So I'm not saying, "Be like us,"
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ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุฃู†ุง ู„ุง ุฃู‚ูˆู„ุŒ "ูƒูˆู†ูˆุง ู…ุซู„ู†ุงุŒ"
05:47
and "We're perfect role models," because we're not,
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ูˆ "ู†ุญู† ู†ู…ุงุฐุฌ ู…ุซุงู„ูŠุฉุŒ "ู„ุฃู†ู†ุง ู„ุณู†ุง ูƒุฐู„ูƒ"ุŒ
05:49
but we just want to help represent girls
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ู†ุญู† ู†ุฑูŠุฏ ูู‚ุท ุฃู† ู†ุณุงุนุฏ ุนู„ู‰ ุชู…ุซู„ ุงู„ูุชูŠุงุช
05:55
in a way that shows those different dimensions.
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ุจุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุชุจูŠู† ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุฃุจุนุงุฏ ุงู„ู…ุฎุชู„ูุฉ.
05:58
I mean, we have articles called
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ุฃุนู†ูŠุŒ ู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ู…ู‚ุงู„ุงุช ุชุณู…ู‰
06:01
"On Taking Yourself Seriously: How to Not Care What People Think of You,"
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"ู„ู„ุฃุฎุฐ ุจู†ูุณูƒ ุนู„ู‰ ู…ุญู…ู„ ุงู„ุฌุฏ: ูƒูŠู ู„ุง ุชุจุงู„ูŠ ุจู…ุง ูŠุธู†ู‡ ุงู„ู†ุงุณ ุจูƒุŒ"
06:05
but we also have articles like,
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ุฃูŠุถุง ู…ู‚ุงู„ุงุช ู…ุซู„ุŒ
06:07
oops -- I'm figuring it out!
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ุงู…ู….. ุฃู†ุง ุฃุญุงูˆู„ ูู‡ู… ู…ุง ุฃุฑูŠุฏ!
06:10
Ha ha. (Laughter)
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ู‡ู‡ ู‡ู‡. (ุถุญูƒ)
06:13
If you use that, you can get away with anything.
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ุฅุฐุง ุงุณุชุฎุฏู…ุช ู‡ุฐุงุŒ ููŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุงู„ู‚ูŠุงู… ุจุฃูŠ ุดูŠุก.
06:17
We also have articles called
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ู„ุฏูŠู†ุง ุฃูŠุถุงู‹ ู…ู‚ุงู„ุงุช ุชุณู…ู‰
06:18
"How to Look Like You Weren't Just Crying in Less than Five Minutes."
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"ูƒูŠู ุชุจุฏูˆ ูˆูƒุฃู†ูƒ ู„ู… ุชูƒู† ุชุจูƒูŠ ููŠ ุฃู‚ู„ ู…ู† ุฎู…ุณ ุฏู‚ุงุฆู‚ ูู‚ุท".
06:22
So all of that being said, I still really appreciate
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ุฅุฐุง ุจุนุฏ ูƒู„ ู‡ุฐุงุŒ ู„ุงุฒู„ุช ุฃู‚ุฏุฑ
06:25
those characters in movies and
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ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ุดุฎุตูŠุงุช ููŠ ุงู„ุฃูู„ุงู… ูˆ
06:29
articles like that on our site,
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ุงู„ู…ู‚ุงู„ุงุช ู…ู† ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู‚ุจูŠู„ ู…ุซู„ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุนู„ู‰ ู…ูˆู‚ุนู†ุงุŒ
06:30
that aren't just about being totally powerful,
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ุงู„ุชูŠ ู„ูŠุณุช ูู‚ุท ุญูˆู„ ูƒูˆู†ูƒ ู‚ูˆูŠุง ุฌุฏุงุŒ
06:34
maybe finding your acceptance with yourself
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ุฑุจู…ุง ูŠุฅูŠุฌุงุฏ ุงู„ู‚ุจูˆู„ ู…ุน ู†ูุณูƒ
06:37
and self-esteem and your flaws and how you accept those.
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ูˆุงุญุชุฑุงู… ุงู„ุฐุงุช ูˆุงู„ุนูŠูˆุจ ุงู„ุฎุงุตุฉ ุจูƒ ูˆูƒูŠู ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุฃู† ุชู‚ุจู„ู‡ุง.
06:42
So what I you to take away from my talk,
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ุงุฐุง ุŒู…ุง ุฃุฑูŠุฏูƒ ุฃู† ุชุฃุฎุฐ ู…ู† ุญุฏูŠุซูŠุŒ
06:46
the lesson of all of this, is to just be Stevie Nicks.
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ูˆุงู„ุฏุฑุณ ุงู„ู…ุณุชูุงุฏ ู…ู† ู‡ุฐุง ูƒู„ู‡ุŒ ุฃู† ุชูƒูˆู†ูŠ ุณุชูŠููŠ ู†ูŠูƒุณ (Stevie Nicks).
06:50
Like, that's all you have to do. (Laughter)
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ูƒู„ ู…ุง ุนู„ูŠูƒ ุงู„ู‚ูŠุงู… ุจู‡. (ุถุญูƒ)
06:53
Because my favorite thing about her,
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ู„ุฃู† ุงู„ุดูŠุก ุงู„ุฐูŠ ูŠุฌุนู„ู†ูŠ ู…ุนุฌุจุฉ ุจู‡ุงุŒ
06:56
other than, like, everything, is that
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ุบูŠุฑุŒ ูƒู„ ุดูŠุกุŒ
06:59
she is very -- has always been
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ุฃู†ู‡ุง ูˆุงุซู‚ุฉ ู…ู† ู†ูุณู‡ุง ุฌุฏุงู‹ - ูˆุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฏูˆุงู…-
07:02
unapologetically present on stage,
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ุนู„ู‰ ุฎุดุจุฉ ุงู„ู…ุณุฑุญุŒ
07:05
and unapologetic about her flaws
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ูˆู„ุง ุชุนุชุฐุฑ ุนู† ุฃุฎุทุงุฆู‡ุง
07:07
and about reconciling all of her contradictory feelings
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ูˆุนู† ุงู„ุชูˆููŠู‚ ุจูŠู† ูƒู„ ู…ู† ู…ุดุงุนุฑู‡ุง ุงู„ู…ุชู†ุงู‚ุถุฉ
07:12
and she makes you listen to them and think about them,
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ูˆุชุฌุนู„ูƒ ุชุณุชู…ุนูŠู† ุฅู„ูŠู‡ู… ูˆุชููƒุฑูŠู† ุจู‡ู…ุŒ
07:15
and yeah, so please be Stevie Nicks.
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ูˆู†ุนู…ุŒ ุฃุฑุฌูˆูƒูŠ ูƒูˆู†ูŠ ุณุชูŠููŠ ู†ูŠูƒุณ (Stevie Nicks).
07:17
Thank you. (Applause)
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ุดูƒุฑุง. (ุชุตููŠู‚)
ุญูˆู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน

ุณูŠู‚ุฏู… ู„ูƒ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน ู…ู‚ุงุทุน ููŠุฏูŠูˆ YouTube ุงู„ู…ููŠุฏุฉ ู„ุชุนู„ู… ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ. ุณุชุฑู‰ ุฏุฑูˆุณ ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุชู… ุชุฏุฑูŠุณู‡ุง ู…ู† ู‚ุจู„ ู…ุฏุฑุณูŠู† ู…ู† ุงู„ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ู…ู† ุฌู…ูŠุน ุฃู†ุญุงุก ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…. ุงู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ู…ุนุฑูˆุถุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ูƒู„ ุตูุญุฉ ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู…ู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ. ูŠุชู… ุชู…ุฑูŠุฑ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุงุช ุจุงู„ุชุฒุงู…ู† ู…ุน ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ. ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ุฃูŠ ุชุนู„ูŠู‚ุงุช ุฃูˆ ุทู„ุจุงุช ุŒ ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ุจู†ุง ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ู†ู…ูˆุฐุฌ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ู‡ุฐุง.

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