How we can end sexual harassment at work | Gretchen Carlson

翻译人员: YuM Fang 校对人员: Nancy Liu

“我想要的是应得的晋升

"All I wanted was a much-deserved promotion,

and he told me to 'Get up on the desk

他却对我说，‘到桌子上去

and spread 'em.'"

张开腿’”

"All the men in my office wrote down on a piece of paper

”办公室里的所有男性在纸上写下

the sexual favors that I could do for them.

我能够为他们做的性施惠

All I had asked for was an office with a window."

而我要求的不过是一间带窗户的办公室“

"I asked for his advice about how I could get a bill out of committee;

”我向他请教怎样才能让法案 通过委员会的审核

he asked me if I brought my kneepads."

他却问我是否带了护膝“

Those are just a few of the horrific stories

以上这些 仅仅是我在过去一年从女性口中

that I heard from women over the last year,

得知的可怕的故事中的几个而已

as I've been investigating workplace sexual harassment.

那段时间里， 我一直在调查职场性骚扰

And what I found out

我所了解到的是

is that it's an epidemic across the world.

这是一个世界共通的现象

It's a horrifying reality for millions of women,

对许多的女性来说， 这是个令人惊骇的现实

when all they want to do every day

她们每天想要的

is go to work.

只是单纯的工作而已

Sexual harassment doesn't discriminate.

性骚扰一视同仁

You can wear a skirt,

你可能穿着裙子

hospital scrubs,

医院手术服

army fatigues.

或军队制服

You can be young or old,

你可能年轻或年长

已婚的或是单身

married or single,

black or white.

黑皮肤或是白皮肤。

You can be a Republican, a Democrat or an Independent.

你可以支持共和党，支持民主党 或者没有政治倾向

I heard from so many women:

在我听到的女性遭遇中

有警察

police officers,

members of our military,

军队成员

financial assistants,

财务助理

actors, engineers, lawyers,

演员，工程师，律师

bankers, accountants, teachers ...

银行家，会计，老师

journalists.

记者

Sexual harassment, it turns out,

性骚扰，其实归根结底

is not about sex.

是与性无关的

It's about power,

它与权力有关

and about what somebody does to you

是某人为了夺走你的权利

to try and take away your power.

而对你做出的事情

And I'm here today

我今天站在这里

就是为了鼓励你们

to encourage you to know that you can take that power back.

去夺回你们应有的权力

(Applause)

（掌声）

On July 6, 2016,

2016年7月6日那天

我独身一人跳下了“悬崖”

I jumped off a cliff all by myself.

It was the scariest moment of my life;

那是我人生中最可怕的时刻

an excruciating choice to make.

一个极其痛苦的决定

我孤身坠入深渊

I fell into an abyss all alone,

not knowing what would be below.

不知道下面有什么在等着我

But then, something miraculous started to happen.

但是，神奇的事情开始发生

Thousands of women started reaching out to me

数千名女性开始联系我

to share their own stories of pain and agony and shame.

同我分享她们充满痛苦和耻辱的故事

They told me that I became their voice --

她们告诉我，我变成了她们的声音

they were voiceless.

她们原本是无声的

And suddenly, I realized that even in the 21st century,

然后忽然间，我意识到即便是在21世纪

every woman still has a story.

每一位女性仍然有难以言说的故事

Like Joyce,

比如乔伊斯

一位空乘主管

a flight attendant supervisor

whose boss, in meetings every day,

她的老板在每一天的会议里

would tell her about the porn that he'd watched the night before

都会跟她讲述前晚看的色情片

边讲边在他的笔记本上画男性生殖器

while drawing penises on his notepad.

She went to complain.

她去投诉了

She was called "crazy" and fired.

被当作“疯了”，然后解雇

Like Joanne, Wall Street banker.

比如乔安妮，华尔街银行家

Her male colleagues would call her that vile c-word every day.

她的男性同事们 每天以肮脏的B打头的词语称呼她

She complained --

她投诉过

labeled a troublemaker,

但被贴上了闹事者的标签

never to do another Wall Street deal again.

从此没有再做过任何华尔街的交易

Like Elizabeth, an army officer.

比如伊丽莎白，一位军官

Her male subordinates would wave one-dollar bills in her face,

男性下属们会在她的脸上 挥舞一美元的纸币

and say, "Dance for me!"

嘴里说”给我跳个舞“

And when she went to complain to a major,

当她向一个少校反应这件事

he said, "What? Only one dollar?

他却说 ”什么？只有一美元？

你至少值五或十美元！“

You're worth at least five or ten!"

After reading,

在读过

replying to all

回复过所有的信件

and crying over all of these emails,

为所有信中发生的事件痛哭后

I realized I had so much work to do.

我意识到我有那么多的工作要做

Here are the startling facts:

令人吃惊的事实是：

one in three women -- that we know of --

在我们认识的人中， 每三名女性里就有一名

have been sexually harassed in the workplace.

曾在工作场所被性骚扰

Seventy-one percent of those incidences never get reported.

而百分之七十一的性骚扰事件 都不曾上报

Why?

为什么呢？

Because when women come forward,

因为当这些女性勇敢地站出来时

they're still called liars and troublemakers

她们会被称做是骗子和闹事者

and demeaned and trashed

会被贬低、蓄意攻击

and demoted and blacklisted

降职、列入黑名单

and fired.

以及解雇

Reporting sexual harassment can be, in many cases, career-ending.

很多时候，告发性骚扰 可能会葬送职业生涯

Of all the women that reached out to me,

所有同我联系过的女性中

almost none are still today working in their chosen profession,

几乎没有人还在她们选择的行业内工作

and that is outrageous.

这个现象简直令人发指

我，在最初也保持了沉默

I, too, was silent in the beginning.

It happened to me at the end of my year as Miss America,

这件事发生在我作美国小姐 一年任期的末尾

when I was meeting with a very high-ranking TV executive

当时我去见一位职位很高的电视台主管

在纽约

in New York City.

我一整天都以为他要帮助我

I thought he was helping me throughout the day,

他打了很多通电话

making a lot of phone calls.

我们去吃晚餐

We went to dinner,

然后在车的后排座椅上， 他忽然抽身压住我

and in the back seat of a car, he suddenly lunged on top of me

把他的舌头伸进我的喉咙

and stuck his tongue down my throat.

I didn't realize that to "get into the business" -- silly me --

我竟然没有意识到，有点蠢

he also intended to get into my pants.

”进入这行“包括他进入我的裤子

And just a week later,

仅仅一个星期后

when I was in Los Angeles meeting with a high-ranking publicist,

当我在洛杉矶约见一位级别很高的公关时

it happened again.

相同的事情又发生了

Again, in a car.

又是在一辆车里

And he took my neck in his hand,

他用手抓住了我的脖子

and he shoved my head so hard into his crotch,

把我的头使劲按向他的胯部

I couldn't breathe.

我几乎窒息

这些事情摧毁你所有的自信心

These are the events that suck the life out of all of your self-confidence.

These are the events that, until recently,

我先前甚至不把这些事当作人身侵犯

I didn't even call assault.

直到最近

And this is why we have so much work to do.

所以，这就是为什么我们在这一方面 还有那么多的工作要做

After my year as Miss America,

在美国小姐的任期之后

I continued to meet a lot of well-known people,

我继续与很多有名的人见面

including Donald Trump.

包括唐纳德·特朗普

当这张照片在1988年被拍下来的时候

When this picture was taken in 1988,

nobody could have ever predicted where we'd be today.

没有人预料到我们今天会走到这一步

(Laughter)

（笑声）

Me, fighting to end sexual harassment in the workplace;

我，为了终结职场性骚扰而努力

he, president of the United States

他，尽管如此，成了美国总统

in spite of it.

不久之后，我拿到电视新闻的职位

And shortly thereafter, I got my first gig in television news

在列治文，弗吉尼亚州

in Richmond, Virginia.

Check out that confident smile with the bright pink jacket.

看看穿着亮粉色夹克的这个自信笑容

发型就算了

Not so much the hair.

(Laughter)

（笑声）

I was working so hard to prove that blondes have a lot of brains.

我那时十分努力地工作 证明金发女郎还是很有头脑

讽刺的是，我最初报道的几个事件中

But ironically, one of the first stories I covered

was the Anita Hill hearings in Washington, DC.

有安妮塔·希尔性骚扰事件的听证会， 在华盛顿特区

And shortly thereafter,

此后不久

I, too, was sexually harassed in the workplace.

职场性骚扰也找上了我

我当时在弗吉尼亚州的乡村进行采访

I was covering a story in rural Virginia,

and when we got back into the car,

当我们返回车里的时候

my cameraman started saying to me,

我的摄像师和我说

wondering how much I had enjoyed when he touched my breasts

说他想知道， 当他把麦克风挂到我身上的时候

我有多享受他触摸我的胸部

when he put the microphone on me.

And it went downhill from there.

从那里开始，事情只是越来越糟

I was bracing myself against the passenger door --

我整个身体抵着乘客侧车门——

this was before cellphones.

这事情发生在手机问世之前

I was petrified.

我整个人都吓呆了

I actually envisioned myself rolling outside of that door

我是真的设想过在50英里的速度下

从车门滚出去

as the car was going 50 miles per hour like I'd seen in the movies,

就像电影里看到的那样

and wondering how much it would hurt.

我确实心里盘算过这样做会有多痛

When the story about Harvey Weinstein came to light --

当哈维·温斯坦事件曝光的时候——

one the most well-known movie moguls in all of Hollywood --

温斯坦是整个好莱坞最有名望的电影巨头之一

the allegations were horrific.

指控大的骇人

But so many women came forward,

但是那么多的女人站了出来

and it made me realize what I had done meant something.

这让我觉得 我先前所做的事情是有意义的

(Applause)

（掌声）

He had such a lame excuse.

他的辩解是那么的差劲

He said he was a product of the '60s and '70s,

他说他是60年代，70年代下的产物

and that that was the culture then.

还说当时的文化就是那样的

Yeah, that was the culture then,

没错，当时的文化就是那样

and unfortunately, it still is.

但不幸的是，现在的文化依然是如此

Why?

为什么？

Because of all the myths

因为现在仍然有那些

that are still associated with sexual harassment.

和性骚扰相关的谣传

"Women should just take another job and find another career."

”女人应该干一份别的工作， 找一个别的职业做“

Yeah, right.

嗯，没错

Tell that to the single mom working two jobs,

去跟那些打着两份工

trying to make ends meet,

努力维持生计

who's also being sexually harassed.

同时还要被性骚扰的单身母亲这样说吧

"Women --

“女人们——

they bring it on themselves."

她们这样都是自找的”

By the clothes that we wear

责任在我们所穿的衣服

and the makeup that we put on.

我们的妆容

Yeah, I guess those hoodies that Uber engineers wear in Silicon Valley

好吧，我猜硅谷工作的优步工程师们

穿的那些连帽衫实在太诱人了

are just so provocative.

"Women make it up."

“这都是女人们编造的”

Yeah, because it's so fun and rewarding

是啊，因为被贬低还有羞辱

to be demeaned and taken down.

真是太有趣，太有益了

I would know.

这我是知道的

"Women bring these claims because they want to be famous and rich."

“她们提出那些指控 因为她们想出名想变富有”

Our own president said that.

我们的总统曾这么说

I bet Taylor Swift,

我敢打赌泰勒·斯威夫特

one of the most well-known and richest singers in the world,

这世界上最有名最富有的歌手之一

didn't need more money or fame

不是因为需要更多的钱或者名气

when she came forward with her groping case

才站出来为她的猥亵事件

for one dollar.

索要一美元的索赔

And I'm so glad she did.

我很高兴她这么做

Breaking news:

特大新闻：

the untold story about women and sexual harassment in the workplace:

女人和职场性骚扰：不为人知的故事

women just want a safe, welcoming

女性只想要安全，友善

and harass-free environment.

杜绝骚扰的环境

就这样而已

That's it.

(Applause)

（掌声）

So how do we go about getting our power back?

所以，我们要如何做 才能把我们的权利夺回来呢

I have three solutions.

我有三个解决方法

Number one:

第一个：

we need to turn bystanders and enablers into allies.

我们需要把旁观者和推动者 变成我们的盟友

Ninety-eight percent of United States corporations right now

百分之九十八的美国公司现在

have sexual harassment training policies.

都有关于性骚扰的培训政策

Seventy percent have prevention programs.

百分之七十的公司有预防措施

But still, overwhelmingly,

尽管如此，绝大部分来讲

bystanders and witnesses don't come forward.

旁观者和证人还是不会站出来

In 2016,

在2016年

the Harvard Business Review called it the "bystander effect."

《哈佛商业评论》称这种现象为《旁观者效应》

And yet -- remember 9/11.

还记得911事件吗

Millions of times we've heard,

我们听到过这句话千百万遍

"If you see something,

“目睹事件

say something."

通报事件”

Imagine how impactful that would be if we carried that through

想一想，如果我们把这个观点 贯彻到职场性骚扰事件中

to bystanders in the workplace regarding sexual harassment --

落实到旁观者身上，效果会多好

to recognize and interrupt these incidences;

人们能认知并插手

to confront the perpetrators to their face;

人们会与加害者当面对质

to help and protect the victims.

人们会帮助以及保护受害者

This is my shout-out to men:

这是我对所有男性发出的呼吁：

we need you in this fight.

在这场战斗中，我们需要你们

And to women, too --

同样，我们也呼吁女性

enablers to allies.

不要助纣为虐，合作灭罪

Number two:

第二个：

change the laws.

改变相关的法律

多少在座的人知道

How many of you out there know

whether or not you have a forced arbitration clause

自己的雇佣合同中是否有

in your employment contract?

强迫仲裁条款

Not a lot of hands.

没有很多人举手

And if you don't know, you should,

如果你不清楚的话， 你应该调查一下

我告诉你为什么

and here's why.

TIME Magazine calls it,

《时代杂志》称呼这个条款为

right there on the screen,

就在屏幕上写着

“合同上用来掩盖性骚扰的

"The teeny tiny little print in contracts

that keeps sexual harassment claims unheard."

细小印刷字体”

Here's what it is.

就是它

强制仲裁剥夺了你在宪法第七条修正法案中

Forced arbitration takes away your Seventh Amendment right

to an open jury process.

拥有公开陪审团审理程序的权利

It's secret.

这是个公开的秘密。

You don't get the same witnesses or depositions.

你不会得到和其他人相同的证人以及证词

In many cases, the company picks the arbitrator for you.

依照在大多数案例， 你的公司会选一个仲裁人给你

There are no appeals,

之后也不会有上诉

and only 20 percent of the time does the employee win.

而且仅有百分之二十的员工 最后赢得了官司

But again, it's secret,

就算是获胜，仍是秘密

so nobody ever knows what happened to you.

所以，不会有任何人会知道， 在你身上发生的事

This is why I've been working so diligently

这就是为什么我一直以来那么努力地

on Capitol Hill in Washington, DC

在华盛顿特区跟国会山方面做工作

to change the laws.

就是为了要更改这些法律

And here's what I tell the Senators:

这是我跟参议员们所说的：

sexual harassment is apolitical.

性骚扰是无政治意义的

Before somebody harasses you,

在有人骚扰你之前

they don't ask you if you're a Republican or Democrat first.

他们不会先问你支持共和党还是民主党

They just do it.

他们一视同仁

And this is why we should all care.

所以这就是为什么我们都必须关注这个问题

Number three:

第三个方案：

be fierce.

强势一点

It starts when we stand tall,

当我们站出来

and we build that self-confidence.

摆出自信姿态

And we stand up and we speak up,

不退缩、大声疾呼

and we tell the world what happened to us.

把经历公诸于世

I know it's scary,

我知道这很可怕

but let's do it for our kids.

但是，为了我们的孩子 一起努力吧

Let's stop this for the next generations.

为了下一代，杜绝工作性骚扰吧

I know that I did it for my children.

我为了我的孩子们这么做

They were paramount in my decision-making

他们在我决定是否要站出来的考量中

about whether or not I would come forward.

是至关重要的

My beautiful children,

我美丽的孩子

my 12-year-old son, Christian,

我12岁的儿子，克里斯汀

my 14-year-old daughter, Kaia.

我14岁的女儿，凯娅

And boy, did I underestimate them.

我真是低估了他们

The first day of school last year

去年学校开学的第一天

happened to be the day my resolution was announced,

正巧就是我决心公开的那一天

我很担心他们所要面对的事

and I was so anxious about what they would face.

我的女儿从学校回到家，她说

My daughter came home from school and she said,

“妈妈，好多人问我 夏天时你怎么了”

"Mommy, so many people asked me what happened to you over the summer."

然后她看着我的眼睛，她说

Then she looked at me in the eyes

and she said, "And mommy,

“对了妈妈，

I was so proud

我真的很骄傲

to say that you were my mom."

有你做我的妈妈”

And two weeks later,

然后两周之后

在她终于鼓起勇气去对抗

when she finally found the courage to stand up to two kids

两个一直骚然她的孩子后

who had been making her life miserable,

she came home to me and she said,

她回到家，和我说

"Mommy, I found the courage to do it

“妈妈，我有这么做的勇气

because I saw you do it."

是因为我看到你的勇气。”

(Applause)

（掌声）

You see, giving the gift of courage is contagious.

看啊，勇气这份礼物是有感染力的

And I hope that my journey has inspired you,

希望我的心路历程鼓舞了你

because right now, it's the tipping point.

因为此刻，我们面临转折点

We are watching history happen.

我们正在见证历史

More and more women are coming forward and saying,

越来越多的女人走到台前，告诉大家

"Enough is enough."

“够了，适可而止吧！”

(Applause)

（掌声）

Here's my one last plea to companies.

在这里，我还有最后一点请求

Let's hire back all those women whose careers were lost

希望企业们找回为了那些浑蛋

放弃自己职业生涯的女人吧

because of some random jerk.

因为就我对女人的了解

Because here's what I know about women:

we will not longer be underestimated, intimidated or set back;

我们将不会再被轻视， 威胁或者妨碍

we will not be silenced by the ways of the establishment

我们将不再为体制

or the relics of the past.

和过去的老套而闭嘴

No.

不。

We will stand up and speak up

我们将站出来，说出来

and have our voices heard.

让我们的声音远播

We will be the women we were meant to be.

我们将成为我们本应该成为的人

And above all,

尤其重要的是

we will always be fierce.

我们将会勇往直前

Thank you.

谢谢

(Applause)

（掌声）