How we can end sexual harassment at work | Gretchen Carlson

譯者: Lilian Chiu 審譯者: Coco Shen

"All I wanted was a much-deserved promotion,

「我所想要的， 只不過是我應得的升遷，

and he told me to 'Get up on the desk

而他對我說：『坐到桌上，

and spread 'em.'"

把腳打開。』」

"All the men in my office wrote down on a piece of paper

「我辦公室中的所有男性， 在一張紙上寫下了

the sexual favors that I could do for them.

我能提供他們的性服務。

All I had asked for was an office with a window."

我所要求的，只不過 是有窗子的辦公室。」

"I asked for his advice about how I could get a bill out of committee;

「我問他意見，請教要如何 讓委員會通過法案；

he asked me if I brought my kneepads."

他卻問我有沒有帶護膝。」

Those are just a few of the horrific stories

這些只是我過去一年

從女性聽來的駭人故事的其中幾個，

that I heard from women over the last year,

as I've been investigating workplace sexual harassment.

那段時間我在調查 工作場所的性騷擾。

And what I found out

而我發現，

is that it's an epidemic across the world.

這是個全球皆然的現象。

It's a horrifying reality for millions of women,

這是數百萬女性 要面對的駭人現實，

when all they want to do every day

當她們所想做的

is go to work.

不過是每天上班。

Sexual harassment doesn't discriminate.

性騷擾沒有歧視。

You can wear a skirt,

你可能是穿裙子、

hospital scrubs,

醫院制服、

army fatigues.

軍隊制服。

You can be young or old,

你可能年輕或年長，

married or single,

已婚或單身，

black or white.

是黑人或白人。

You can be a Republican, a Democrat or an Independent.

你可能支持共和黨或民主黨， 或沒有政黨傾向。

I heard from so many women:

我從好多女性那兒聽到這種事，

police officers,

包括警官、

members of our military,

軍方人員、

financial assistants,

財務助理、

actors, engineers, lawyers,

演員、工程師、律師、

bankers, accountants, teachers ...

銀行家、會計師、老師、

journalists.

記者。

Sexual harassment, it turns out,

結果發現，性騷擾其實

is not about sex.

重點不在性愛，

It's about power,

重點在權力，

and about what somebody does to you

重點在於有人試圖要奪去

to try and take away your power.

你的權力而對你做出的事。

And I'm here today

今天我在這裡，

to encourage you to know that you can take that power back.

是要鼓勵各位，要知道 你可以拿回那權力。

(Applause)

（掌聲）

On July 6, 2016,

2016 年 7 月 6 日，

I jumped off a cliff all by myself.

我自己跳下了一個懸崖。

It was the scariest moment of my life;

那是我人生中最嚇人的時刻；

an excruciating choice to make.

要做這個決定是極痛苦的。

I fell into an abyss all alone,

我孤獨地落入深淵，

not knowing what would be below.

不知道下面會有什麼。

But then, something miraculous started to happen.

但接著，很神奇的事情開始發生了。

Thousands of women started reaching out to me

數以千計的女性開始向我伸出援手，

to share their own stories of pain and agony and shame.

分享她們關於痛苦、 苦惱、羞恥的故事。

They told me that I became their voice --

她們告訴我，我變成了她們的聲音－

they were voiceless.

她們是無聲的。

And suddenly, I realized that even in the 21st century,

突然間，我了解到， 即使在二十一世紀，

every woman still has a story.

每位女性仍然都有一個故事。

Like Joyce,

像喬伊絲，

a flight attendant supervisor

她是空服員主管，

whose boss, in meetings every day,

每天在開會時，她的老闆

would tell her about the porn that he'd watched the night before

會一邊告訴她關於 他前晚看的色情片，

while drawing penises on his notepad.

一邊在他的筆記本上畫出老二。

She went to complain.

她去投訴，

She was called "crazy" and fired.

她被指責「瘋了」並遭到開除。

Like Joanne, Wall Street banker.

像瓊安，她是華爾街銀行家。

Her male colleagues would call her that vile c-word every day.

她的男同事每天會用 形容私處的髒字稱呼她。

She complained --

她投訴了－

labeled a troublemaker,

被貼上找麻煩的標籤，

never to do another Wall Street deal again.

從此不得在華爾街交易。

Like Elizabeth, an army officer.

像伊莉莎白，她是軍隊的軍官。

Her male subordinates would wave one-dollar bills in her face,

她的男性下屬會拿 $1 紙鈔 在她面前揮舞，

and say, "Dance for me!"

說：「跳舞給我看！」

And when she went to complain to a major,

她去找中校投訴，

he said, "What? Only one dollar?

中校說：「什麼？才 $1？

You're worth at least five or ten!"

你至少值 $10！」

After reading,

在閱讀了、

replying to all

回覆了

and crying over all of these emails,

所有的電子郵件， 且為每個故事哭過之後，

I realized I had so much work to do.

我了解到我有好多工作要做。

Here are the startling facts:

驚人的事實真相是：

三名女性中就有一名 －就我們所知道的－

one in three women -- that we know of --

have been sexually harassed in the workplace.

有在工作場所被性騷擾的經驗。

Seventy-one percent of those incidences never get reported.

71% 的性騷擾事件沒有被呈報。

Why?

為什麼？

Because when women come forward,

因為當女性站出來，

they're still called liars and troublemakers

她們仍然被指控在說謊和找麻煩，

and demeaned and trashed

她們會被貶低並嚴厲批評，

and demoted and blacklisted

被降級並列入黑名單，

and fired.

被開除。

Reporting sexual harassment can be, in many cases, career-ending.

在許多情況下，呈報性騷擾事件 可能就代表著職涯的終了。

Of all the women that reached out to me,

向我求助的女性

almost none are still today working in their chosen profession,

幾乎沒有一位現今還留在 她們所選之職業領域當中工作，

and that is outrageous.

那實在太荒謬了。

I, too, was silent in the beginning.

我也是，在一開始保持沉默。

It happened to me at the end of my year as Miss America,

事情發生的時候，是我當上 美國小姐那年的年底，

when I was meeting with a very high-ranking TV executive

當時我去會見一位 很高階的電視界經理，

in New York City.

地點在紐約市。

I thought he was helping me throughout the day,

我以為他那一整天都在幫我，

making a lot of phone calls.

他打了很多電話。

We went to dinner,

我們去吃晚餐，

and in the back seat of a car, he suddenly lunged on top of me

在車後座時，他突然撲到我身上，

and stuck his tongue down my throat.

把他的舌頭伸到我的喉嚨裡。

I didn't realize that to "get into the business" -- silly me --

我不知道要「進入這個行業」 －我真蠢－

he also intended to get into my pants.

表示他也打算要進入我的褲子。

And just a week later,

一週之後，

when I was in Los Angeles meeting with a high-ranking publicist,

我在洛杉磯，會見 一名高階宣傳人員，

it happened again.

又再次發生了。

Again, in a car.

同樣，也在車內。

And he took my neck in his hand,

他用手抓住我的脖子，

and he shoved my head so hard into his crotch,

用力把我的頭推到他的胯下，

I couldn't breathe.

我無法呼吸。

These are the events that suck the life out of all of your self-confidence.

像這樣的事件， 會把你的自信給榨乾。

These are the events that, until recently,

我以前甚至不會稱這些事件為

I didn't even call assault.

人身侵犯，直到最近。

And this is why we have so much work to do.

這就是為什麼我們有好多工作要做。

After my year as Miss America,

在我當上美國小姐的那年之後，

I continued to meet a lot of well-known people,

我持續會見許多知名人物，

including Donald Trump.

包括川普。

When this picture was taken in 1988,

這張照片在 1988 年拍攝，

nobody could have ever predicted where we'd be today.

沒有人能想到我們今日的處境。

(Laughter)

（笑聲）

Me, fighting to end sexual harassment in the workplace;

我致力於終結工作場所的性騷擾，

he, president of the United States

而他在當美國總統，

in spite of it.

儘管如此。

沒多久，我在維吉尼亞州的 裡奇蒙得到了第一個

And shortly thereafter, I got my first gig in television news

in Richmond, Virginia.

電視新聞的工作邀約。

Check out that confident smile with the bright pink jacket.

看看那自信的微笑和亮粉紅外套。

Not so much the hair.

雖然髮型實在不怎樣。

(Laughter)

（笑聲）

I was working so hard to prove that blondes have a lot of brains.

我非常努力要證明 金髮女子也是有腦子的。

But ironically, one of the first stories I covered

但諷刺的是， 我最初報導的故事之一，

was the Anita Hill hearings in Washington, DC.

是華盛頓特區的安妮塔希爾聽證會。

And shortly thereafter,

沒多久之後，

I, too, was sexually harassed in the workplace.

我也在工作場所被性騷擾了。

I was covering a story in rural Virginia,

當時我在維吉尼亞 鄉村報導一個故事，

and when we got back into the car,

當我們回到車上，

my cameraman started saying to me,

我的攝影師開始對我說話，

wondering how much I had enjoyed when he touched my breasts

想知道當他把麥克風 安裝在我身上時，

我有多享受他摸我的胸部。

when he put the microphone on me.

And it went downhill from there.

之後就每況愈下。

I was bracing myself against the passenger door --

我靠在乘客的門上做好準備－

this was before cellphones.

這是在有手機之前。

I was petrified.

我嚇呆了。

I actually envisioned myself rolling outside of that door

我甚至想像我自己打開車門滾出去，

as the car was going 50 miles per hour like I'd seen in the movies,

當時車速是時速 50 英哩， 就像電影場面一樣，

and wondering how much it would hurt.

心想那樣會有多痛。

When the story about Harvey Weinstein came to light --

當哈維溫斯頓的故事真相大白時－

one the most well-known movie moguls in all of Hollywood --

他是好萊塢最知名的電影大亨之一－

the allegations were horrific.

指控非常可怕。

But so many women came forward,

但許多女性站出來，

and it made me realize what I had done meant something.

讓我了解到我所做的是有意義的。

(Applause)

（掌聲）

He had such a lame excuse.

他的藉口很糟。

He said he was a product of the '60s and '70s,

他說他是 1960、70 年代的產品，

and that that was the culture then.

而那時的文化就是那樣。

Yeah, that was the culture then,

是啊，那時的文化就是那樣，

and unfortunately, it still is.

不幸的是，現在的文化還是那樣。

Why?

為什麼？

Because of all the myths

原因是和性騷擾

that are still associated with sexual harassment.

相關的所有迷思。

"Women should just take another job and find another career."

「女人應該去找別的工作、 轉換職涯。」

Yeah, right.

是啊。

Tell that to the single mom working two jobs,

去跟做兩份工作努力想讓收支平衡

trying to make ends meet,

卻遭到性騷擾的單親媽媽說吧。

who's also being sexually harassed.

"Women --

「女人－

they bring it on themselves."

是她們自找的。」

By the clothes that we wear

因為我們穿著的衣服、

and the makeup that we put on.

我們化的妝。

Yeah, I guess those hoodies that Uber engineers wear in Silicon Valley

是啊，我想矽谷 Uber 工程師 穿的那些兜帽上衣

are just so provocative.

是相當撩人的。

"Women make it up."

「女人編造的。」

Yeah, because it's so fun and rewarding

是啊，因為被貶低和受侮辱

to be demeaned and taken down.

真是有趣又有收穫。

I would know.

這我很清楚。

"Women bring these claims because they want to be famous and rich."

「女人因為想要成名和富有， 才會做出這些索賠。」

Our own president said that.

這是我們自己的總統說的。

I bet Taylor Swift,

我打賭泰勒絲，

one of the most well-known and richest singers in the world,

世界上最知名且有錢的歌手之一，

didn't need more money or fame

不需要更多的錢或名氣，

when she came forward with her groping case

她為了她的猥褻案站出來，

for one dollar.

只為了 $1。

And I'm so glad she did.

我很高興她這麼做。

Breaking news:

即時熱線新聞：

the untold story about women and sexual harassment in the workplace:

關於女人與工作場所性騷擾， 未被說出來的故事：

women just want a safe, welcoming

女人只想要安全、歡迎她們、

and harass-free environment.

沒有騷擾的環境。

That's it.

就這樣。

(Applause)

（掌聲）

So how do we go about getting our power back?

所以我們要如何 把我們的權力拿回來？

I have three solutions.

我有三個解決方案。

Number one:

第一：

we need to turn bystanders and enablers into allies.

我們要把旁觀者和賦能者變成盟友。

Ninety-eight percent of United States corporations right now

現今美國企業有 98%

have sexual harassment training policies.

都有性騷擾訓練政策。

Seventy percent have prevention programs.

70% 有預防方案。

But still, overwhelmingly,

但仍然，絕大多數的旁觀者

bystanders and witnesses don't come forward.

和目擊證人不願站出來。

In 2016,

2016 年，

the Harvard Business Review called it the "bystander effect."

《哈佛商業評論》稱之為 「旁觀者效應」。

And yet -- remember 9/11.

但是－記得九一一。

Millions of times we've heard,

我們聽過數百萬次了，

"If you see something,

「如果你看見什麼，

say something."

就說點什麼。」

Imagine how impactful that would be if we carried that through

想像一下，如果能讓 工作場所的旁觀者都能

to bystanders in the workplace regarding sexual harassment --

對於性騷擾這麼做， 會有多大的衝擊影響－

to recognize and interrupt these incidences;

如果他們能夠認清並打斷這些事件；

to confront the perpetrators to their face;

能當面與犯罪者對質；

to help and protect the victims.

能協助並保護被害人。

This is my shout-out to men:

這是我對男人的大聲疾呼：

we need you in this fight.

在這場戰爭中我們需要你們。

And to women, too --

女人也是－

enablers to allies.

從賦能者變成盟友。

Number two:

第二：

change the laws.

改變法律。

How many of you out there know

在座有多少人知道，

whether or not you have a forced arbitration clause

在你們的僱用合約當中，

in your employment contract?

有沒有強制仲裁調款？

Not a lot of hands.

沒很多人舉手。

And if you don't know, you should,

如果你不知道，你應該要去知道，

and here's why.

原因如下。

《時代雜誌》稱呼它，

TIME Magazine calls it,

right there on the screen,

就在螢幕上，

"The teeny tiny little print in contracts

「合約中極小的小印刷字體

that keeps sexual harassment claims unheard."

讓性騷擾的訴求無法被聽到。」

Here's what it is.

它就是這樣。

Forced arbitration takes away your Seventh Amendment right

強制仲裁奪走了 憲法第七條修正案賦予你的

to an open jury process.

公開陪審團訴訟程序權力。

It's secret.

它是秘密的。

You don't get the same witnesses or depositions.

你無法得到同樣的證人或證詞。

In many cases, the company picks the arbitrator for you.

在許多案例中， 公司為你選擇仲裁者。

There are no appeals,

沒有上訴，

and only 20 percent of the time does the employee win.

只有 20% 的情況下僱員會贏。

But again, it's secret,

但，同樣的，這也是秘密，

so nobody ever knows what happened to you.

沒有人會知道你發生了什麼事。

This is why I've been working so diligently

這就是為什麼我一直努力不懈

on Capitol Hill in Washington, DC

在華盛頓特區國會山莊

to change the laws.

試圖改變法律。

And here's what I tell the Senators:

我是這樣告訴參議員的：

sexual harassment is apolitical.

性騷擾是無政治傾向的。

Before somebody harasses you,

在一個人騷擾你之前，

they don't ask you if you're a Republican or Democrat first.

他們不會先問你支持 民主黨或共和黨。

They just do it.

他們就做了。

And this is why we should all care.

這就是為什麼大家都應該在乎。

Number three:

第三：

be fierce.

要夠強悍。

It starts when we stand tall,

它始於我們挺身而出，

and we build that self-confidence.

建立自信。

And we stand up and we speak up,

我們站起來，我們說出來，

and we tell the world what happened to us.

我們告訴這個世界 我們發生了什麼事。

I know it's scary,

我知道這讓人害怕，

but let's do it for our kids.

但就為了我們的孩子而做吧。

Let's stop this for the next generations.

為接下來的世代阻止這種事發生。

I know that I did it for my children.

我知道我是為了我的孩子而做。

They were paramount in my decision-making

在我做出是否要站出來的決策時，

about whether or not I would come forward.

他們是最重要的考量。

My beautiful children,

我美好的孩子們，

my 12-year-old son, Christian,

我兒子克利斯汀 12 歲，

my 14-year-old daughter, Kaia.

我女兒凱雅 14 歲。

And boy, did I underestimate them.

我真是低估了他們。

The first day of school last year

去年開學的第一天，

happened to be the day my resolution was announced,

剛好是我的決議要公佈的日子，

and I was so anxious about what they would face.

我好焦慮不知道他們會要面對什麼。

My daughter came home from school and she said,

我女兒從學校回來後，說：

"Mommy, so many people asked me what happened to you over the summer."

「媽咪，好多人問我 你在夏天時發生了什麼事。」

Then she looked at me in the eyes

接著她看著我的雙眼，

and she said, "And mommy,

她說：「媽咪，

I was so proud

我好驕傲

to say that you were my mom."

能夠說你是我媽媽。」

And two weeks later,

兩週後，

when she finally found the courage to stand up to two kids

她終於找到勇氣去面對兩個孩子，

who had been making her life miserable,

他們一直讓她的日子很難過，

she came home to me and she said,

她回到家，對我說：

"Mommy, I found the courage to do it

「媽咪，我找到勇氣去做了，

because I saw you do it."

因為我看到你所做的。」

(Applause)

（掌聲）

You see, giving the gift of courage is contagious.

把勇氣這份禮物給予出去， 是有感染力的。

And I hope that my journey has inspired you,

我希望我的旅程能夠鼓舞你們，

because right now, it's the tipping point.

因為現在就是關鍵轉折點。

We are watching history happen.

我們正在看著歷史發生。

More and more women are coming forward and saying,

越來越多女性站出來，並說：

"Enough is enough."

「我說夠了就是夠了。」

(Applause)

（掌聲）

Here's my one last plea to companies.

我還有最後一項對企業的請求。

Let's hire back all those women whose careers were lost

把那些因為一個隨機的渾蛋 而失去工作的女性

because of some random jerk.

都僱用回來吧。

Because here's what I know about women:

對於女人，我所知道的是：

we will not longer be underestimated, intimidated or set back;

我們將不會再被 低估、威脅、或阻礙；

we will not be silenced by the ways of the establishment

我們將不會再因為過去的體制

or the relics of the past.

或是遺俗而沉默。

No.

不會。

We will stand up and speak up

我們會站起來，說出來，

and have our voices heard.

讓我們的聲音被聽見。

We will be the women we were meant to be.

我們將能夠做我們 本來就應該做的女性。

And above all,

最重要的，

we will always be fierce.

我們將永遠是強悍的。

Thank you.

謝謝。

(Applause)

（掌聲）