How we can end sexual harassment at work | Gretchen Carlson

Prevoditelj: Ivan Stamenković Recezent: Sanda L

"All I wanted was a much-deserved promotion,

"Sve što sam htjela je zasluženo promaknuće,

and he told me to 'Get up on the desk

a on mi je rekao da se popnem na stol

and spread 'em.'"

i raširim ih."

"All the men in my office wrote down on a piece of paper

"Svi muškarci u mom uredu zapisali su na komadić papira

the sexual favors that I could do for them.

seksualne usluge koje mogu napraviti za njih.

All I had asked for was an office with a window."

Sve što sam tražila je ured s prozorom."

"I asked for his advice about how I could get a bill out of committee;

"Pitala sam ga za savjet o tome kako da zakon prođe odbor;

he asked me if I brought my kneepads."

pitao me jesam li ponijela štitnike za koljena."

Those are just a few of the horrific stories

Ovo su samo neke od užasavajućih priča

that I heard from women over the last year,

koje sam čula od žena tijekom prošle godine,

as I've been investigating workplace sexual harassment.

dok sam istraživala seksualno zlostavljanje na radnom mjestu.

And what I found out

I ono što sam otkrila je

is that it's an epidemic across the world.

da je to epidemija diljem svijeta.

It's a horrifying reality for millions of women,

To je strašna stvarnost milijuna žena,

when all they want to do every day

kada je sve što one žele svakog dana,

is go to work.

samo ići na posao.

Sexual harassment doesn't discriminate.

Seksualno zlostavljanje ne diskriminira.

You can wear a skirt,

Možete nositi suknju,

hospital scrubs,

bolničku odoru,

army fatigues.

vojničku odoru.

You can be young or old,

Možete biti mladi ili stari,

married or single,

udane ili same,

black or white.

crne ili bijele.

You can be a Republican, a Democrat or an Independent.

Možete biti republikanci, demokrati ili nezavisni.

I heard from so many women:

Čula sam to od tako puno žena:

police officers,

policajki,

members of our military,

vojnikinja,

financial assistants,

financijskih asistentica,

actors, engineers, lawyers,

glumica, inženjerki, odvjetnica,

bankers, accountants, teachers ...

bankarica, računovođa, učiteljica ...

journalists.

novinarki.

Sexual harassment, it turns out,

Seksualno zlostavljanje, ispada,

is not about sex.

nije vezano uz seks,

It's about power,

već uz moć

and about what somebody does to you

i tome što netko čini vama

to try and take away your power.

kako bi vam oduzeo moć.

And I'm here today

I ja sam ovdje danas

to encourage you to know that you can take that power back.

da vas ohrabrim i kažem vam da možete uzeti tu moć natrag.

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

On July 6, 2016,

6. srpnja 2016.,

I jumped off a cliff all by myself.

skočila sam sama s litice.

It was the scariest moment of my life;

Bio je to najstrašniji trenutak mog života

an excruciating choice to make.

i bolan izbor.

I fell into an abyss all alone,

Sama sam upala u bezdan,

not knowing what would be below.

bez znanja što će biti ispod.

But then, something miraculous started to happen.

Ali onda se počelo događati nešto čudesno.

Thousands of women started reaching out to me

Tisuće žena počele su mi se javljati

to share their own stories of pain and agony and shame.

da bi podijelile vlastite priče o boli, agoniji i sramu.

They told me that I became their voice --

Rekle su mi kako sam postala njihov glas,

they were voiceless.

bile su bez glasa.

And suddenly, I realized that even in the 21st century,

I iznenada, shvatila sam da čak i u 21. stoljeću

every woman still has a story.

svaka žena još uvijek ima priču.

Like Joyce,

Kao Joyce,

a flight attendant supervisor

nazdornica stjuardesa

whose boss, in meetings every day,

čiji je šef, svakoga dana na sastancima,

would tell her about the porn that he'd watched the night before

pričao priče o pornografiji koju je gledao noć prije

while drawing penises on his notepad.

dok je crtao penise u svom notesu.

She went to complain.

Otišla se požaliti.

She was called "crazy" and fired.

Prozvana je "ludom" i dobila otkaz.

Like Joanne, Wall Street banker.

Kao Joanne, bankarica s Wall Streeta.

Her male colleagues would call her that vile c-word every day.

Njeni muški kolege zvali bi je ružnom riječi na p svakog dana.

She complained --

Žalila se --

labeled a troublemaker,

obilježena je kao problematična

never to do another Wall Street deal again.

i više nikad nije sklopila niti jedan posao na Wall Streetu.

Like Elizabeth, an army officer.

Kao Elizabeth, časnica u vojsci.

Her male subordinates would wave one-dollar bills in her face,

Njeni muški podređeni mahali bi joj ispred lica novčanicama od dolara

and say, "Dance for me!"

i govorili, "Pleši za mene!"

And when she went to complain to a major,

I kada se otišla požaliti bojniku,

he said, "What? Only one dollar?

on je rekao, "Što? Samo jedan dolar?

You're worth at least five or ten!"

Ti vrijediš bar pet ili deset!"

After reading,

Nakon što sam ih pročitala,

replying to all

odgovorila na sve

and crying over all of these emails,

i plakala nad svim tim e-mailovima,

I realized I had so much work to do.

shvatila sam da je preda mnom velik posao.

Here are the startling facts:

Ovo su zastrašujuće činjenice:

one in three women -- that we know of --

jedna od tri žene -- koliko znamo --

have been sexually harassed in the workplace.

bila je seksualno zlostavljana na radnom mjestu.

Seventy-one percent of those incidences never get reported.

Sedamdeset jedan posto ovih incidenata nikada ne bude prijavljeno.

Why?

Zašto?

Because when women come forward,

Jer kada žene istupe

they're still called liars and troublemakers

i dalje ih zovu lažljivicama i problematičnima,

and demeaned and trashed

omalovažavaju ih i ocrnjuju,

and demoted and blacklisted

degradiraju, stavljaju na crnu listu

and fired.

te otpuštaju.

Reporting sexual harassment can be, in many cases, career-ending.

Prijaviti seksualno zlostavljanje, u mnogim slučajevima, znači kraj karijere.

Of all the women that reached out to me,

Od svih žena koje su mi se javile,

almost none are still today working in their chosen profession,

gotovo nijedna ne radi danas u odabranoj profesiji,

and that is outrageous.

što je užasavajuće.

I, too, was silent in the beginning.

I ja sam bila tiha na početku.

It happened to me at the end of my year as Miss America,

Dogodilo mi se to na kraju moje godine kao Miss Amerike,

when I was meeting with a very high-ranking TV executive

kada sam se sastajala s visoko rangiranim direktorom s televizije

in New York City.

u New Yorku.

I thought he was helping me throughout the day,

Mislila sam da mi pomaže kroz dan,

obavljajući puno poziva.

making a lot of phone calls.

Otišli smo na večeru

We went to dinner,

i na stražnjem sjedalu auta, iznenada je skočio na mene

and in the back seat of a car, he suddenly lunged on top of me

i zarinuo mi jezik u grlo.

and stuck his tongue down my throat.

I didn't realize that to "get into the business" -- silly me --

Nisam shvaćala da bi "ući u posao" -- naivna ja --

he also intended to get into my pants.

trebalo značiti da će ući i u moje gaćice.

And just a week later,

I samo tjedan dana kasnije,

when I was in Los Angeles meeting with a high-ranking publicist,

kada sam bila u Los Angelesu s poznatim publicistom,

it happened again.

dogodilo se opet.

Again, in a car.

Ponovno u automobilu.

And he took my neck in his hand,

Uhvatio me za vrat svojom rukom

and he shoved my head so hard into his crotch,

i gurnuo mi je glavu tako jako u svoje prepone

I couldn't breathe.

da nisam mogla disati.

These are the events that suck the life out of all of your self-confidence.

Takvi događaji unište vaše samopouzdanje.

These are the events that, until recently,

Ovo su događaji koje, donedavno,

I didn't even call assault.

nisam čak ni nazivala napadom.

And this is why we have so much work to do.

I zato imamo toliko puno posla.

After my year as Miss America,

Nakon moje godine kao Miss Amerike,

I continued to meet a lot of well-known people,

nastavila sam upoznavati mnogo poznatih ljudi,

including Donald Trump.

uključujući Donalda Trumpa.

When this picture was taken in 1988,

Kada je ova slika napravljena 1988.

nobody could have ever predicted where we'd be today.

nitko nije mogao pretpostaviti gdje ćemo biti danas.

(Laughter)

(Smijeh)

Me, fighting to end sexual harassment in the workplace;

Ja, u borbi za prekid seksualnog zlostavljanja na radnom mjestu,

he, president of the United States

on, predsjednik SAD-a,

in spite of it.

unatoč tome.

And shortly thereafter, I got my first gig in television news

I ubrzo nakon toga, dobila sam prvi posao na TV vijestima

in Richmond, Virginia.

u Richmondu, u Virginiji.

Check out that confident smile with the bright pink jacket.

Pogledajte taj samouvjereni osmijeh u ružičastom sakou.

Ne toliko frizuru.

Not so much the hair.

(Laughter)

(Smijeh)

I was working so hard to prove that blondes have a lot of brains.

Radila sam kako bih dokazala da plavuše imaju puno mozga.

Ali ironično, jedna od prvih priča o kojoj sam izvještavala

But ironically, one of the first stories I covered

was the Anita Hill hearings in Washington, DC.

bilo je saslušanje Anite Hill u Washingtonu.

And shortly thereafter,

I ubrzo nakon toga,

I, too, was sexually harassed in the workplace.

i ja sam seksualno zlostavljana na radnom mjestu.

I was covering a story in rural Virginia,

Radila sam na priči u ruralnoj Virginiji

and when we got back into the car,

i kad smo se vratili u auto,

my cameraman started saying to me,

kamerman mi je počeo govoriti,

wondering how much I had enjoyed when he touched my breasts

pitajući se koliko sam uživala kada mi je dodirnuo grudi

when he put the microphone on me.

dok mi je namještao mikrofon.

And it went downhill from there.

I odande je krenulo nizbrdo.

I was bracing myself against the passenger door --

Stisnula sam se uz suvozačeva vrata,

this was before cellphones.

ovo je bilo prije mobitela.

I was petrified.

Bila sam skamenjena.

I actually envisioned myself rolling outside of that door

Zapravo sam se zamišljala kako sam se iskotrljala van

as the car was going 50 miles per hour like I'd seen in the movies,

dok je auto jurio 80 km na sat, kao što sam vidjela na filmovima,

and wondering how much it would hurt.

pitajući se koliko će boljeti.

When the story about Harvey Weinstein came to light --

Kada je priča o Harveyu Weinsteinu izašla na vidjelo --

one the most well-known movie moguls in all of Hollywood --

jednom od najpoznatijih filmskih mogula u čitavom Hollywoodu --

the allegations were horrific.

navodi su bili užasni.

But so many women came forward,

Ali toliko žena je istupilo

and it made me realize what I had done meant something.

i shvatila sam da ono što sam učinila nešto znači.

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

He had such a lame excuse.

Imao je tako jadne izgovore.

He said he was a product of the '60s and '70s,

Rekao je da je on produkt 60-ih i 70-ih

and that that was the culture then.

i da je to tada bila takva kultura.

Yeah, that was the culture then,

Da, to je bila kultura tada,

and unfortunately, it still is.

na žalost, i sada je.

Why?

Zašto?

Because of all the myths

Zbog svih mitova

that are still associated with sexual harassment.

koji su i dalje povezani sa seksualnim zlostavljanjem.

"Women should just take another job and find another career."

"Žene bi samo trebale naći novi posao i drugu karijeru."

Yeah, right.

Da, baš.

Tell that to the single mom working two jobs,

Recite to samohranoj majci koja radi dva posla

trying to make ends meet,

i pokušava spojiti kraj s krajem,

who's also being sexually harassed.

koju također seksualno zlostavljaju.

"Women --

"Žene --

they bring it on themselves."

same su si krive."

By the clothes that we wear

Odjećom koju nosimo

and the makeup that we put on.

i šminkom koju stavljamo.

Yeah, I guess those hoodies that Uber engineers wear in Silicon Valley

Da, majice s kapuljačom koje su nosile inženjerke Ubera u Silicijskoj dolini,

are just so provocative.

jednostavno su jako provokativne.

"Women make it up."

"Žene to izmišljaju."

Yeah, because it's so fun and rewarding

Da, jer je jako zabavno i poticajno

to be demeaned and taken down.

biti ponižavana i poražena.

I would know.

Ja bih znala.

"Women bring these claims because they want to be famous and rich."

"Žene ovo govore kako bi postale bogate i slavne."

Our own president said that.

Ovo je rekao naš predsjednik.

I bet Taylor Swift,

Kladim se da Taylor Swift,

one of the most well-known and richest singers in the world,

jedna od najpoznatijih i najbogatijih pjevačica,

didn't need more money or fame

nije trebala više novca ili slave,

when she came forward with her groping case

kada je istupila sa svojim slučajem zlostavljanja

for one dollar.

i tražila 1 dolar odštete.

And I'm so glad she did.

I toliko mi je drago da je to učinila.

Breaking news:

Prijelomna vijest:

the untold story about women and sexual harassment in the workplace:

neispričana priča o ženama i seksualnom zlostavljanju na radnom mjestu.

women just want a safe, welcoming

Žene samo žele sigurnu okolinu, gdje su dobrodošle

and harass-free environment.

i gdje neće biti žrtve uznemiravanja.

That's it.

To je sve.

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

So how do we go about getting our power back?

Pa kako ćemo si vratiti moć?

I have three solutions.

Imam tri rješenja.

Number one:

Broj jedan:

we need to turn bystanders and enablers into allies.

trebamo pretvoriti promatrače i one koji omogućuju zločin u saveznike.

Ninety-eight percent of United States corporations right now

Devedesetosam posto korporacija u SAD-u trenutno ima pravila obuke

have sexual harassment training policies.

vezane za seksualno uznemiravanje.

Seventy percent have prevention programs.

Sedamdeset posto ima programe sprečavanja.

But still, overwhelmingly,

Ali ipak, u većini slučajeva,

bystanders and witnesses don't come forward.

promatrači i svjedoci ne progovaraju.

In 2016,

2016.,

the Harvard Business Review called it the "bystander effect."

Harvard Business Review nazvao je to "efektom promatrača."

And yet -- remember 9/11.

A ipak, sjetite se 11. rujna.

Millions of times we've heard,

Milijun puta čuli smo,

"If you see something,

"Ako nešto vidite,

say something."

recite nešto."

Imagine how impactful that would be if we carried that through

Zamislite koliko bi utjecaja imalo ako bismo to primijenili

to bystanders in the workplace regarding sexual harassment --

na promatrače na radnom mjestu vezano za seksualno zlostavljanje --

to recognize and interrupt these incidences;

da prepoznate i prekinete te incidente,

to confront the perpetrators to their face;

suočite se s počiniteljima lice u lice;

to help and protect the victims.

kako bismo zaštitili žrtve.

This is my shout-out to men:

Ovo je moj poziv muškarcima:

we need you in this fight.

trebamo vas u ovoj borbi.

And to women, too --

I ženama također --

enablers to allies.

iz onih koje omogućuju u saveznike.

Number two:

Broj dva:

change the laws.

promijenite zakone.

How many of you out there know

Koliko vas zna

whether or not you have a forced arbitration clause

imate li ili nemate klauzulu o prinudnoj arbitraži

in your employment contract?

u vašem radnom ugovoru?

Not a lot of hands.

Nema puno ruku.

And if you don't know, you should,

A ako ne znate, trebali biste znati.

and here's why.

Evo zašto.

TIME Magazine calls it,

TIME to zove,

right there on the screen,

upravo ovdje na ekranu,

"The teeny tiny little print in contracts

"Sitna slova u ugovorima,

that keeps sexual harassment claims unheard."

koja osiguravaju da se za seksualno zlostavljanje ne čuje."

Here's what it is.

Evo što je to.

Forced arbitration takes away your Seventh Amendment right

Prinudna arbitraža oduzima vaše pravo iz Sedmog amandmana

to an open jury process.

na suđenje pred porotom.

It's secret.

Tajno je.

You don't get the same witnesses or depositions.

Ne dobijete iste svjedoke ili izjave.

In many cases, the company picks the arbitrator for you.

U mnogim slučajevima, tvrtka bira arbitra za vas.

There are no appeals,

Nema žalbi

and only 20 percent of the time does the employee win.

i samo 20 posto slučajeva završi pobjedom zaposlenice.

But again, it's secret,

Ali opet, to je tajno

so nobody ever knows what happened to you.

tako da nitko ne zna što vam se dogodilo.

This is why I've been working so diligently

Zato sam tako predano radila

on Capitol Hill in Washington, DC

na Capitol Hillu u Washingtonu,

to change the laws.

za promjenu zakona.

And here's what I tell the Senators:

I ovo kažem senatorima:

sexual harassment is apolitical.

seksualno zlostavljanje je apolitično.

Before somebody harasses you,

Prije nego vas zlostavljaju,

they don't ask you if you're a Republican or Democrat first.

ne pitaju vas jeste li Republikanac ili Demokrat.

They just do it.

Samo to učine.

And this is why we should all care.

I zato bi svima trebalo biti stalo.

Number three:

Broj tri:

be fierce.

budite žestoki.

It starts when we stand tall,

Počinje kada smo ponosni

and we build that self-confidence.

i kada izgradimo to samopouzdanje.

And we stand up and we speak up,

I kada ustanemo i progovorimo

and we tell the world what happened to us.

i kažemo svijetu što nam se dogodilo.

I know it's scary,

Znam da je strašno,

but let's do it for our kids.

ali učinimo to za našu djecu.

Let's stop this for the next generations.

Zaustavimo ovo za sljedeće generacije.

I know that I did it for my children.

Znam da sam to učinila za svoju djecu.

They were paramount in my decision-making

Bili su ključni u mom donošenju odluka

about whether or not I would come forward.

hoću li nešto reći ili ne.

My beautiful children,

Moja prekrasna djeca,

my 12-year-old son, Christian,

moj 12-godišnji sin, Christian,

my 14-year-old daughter, Kaia.

i moja 14-godišnja kćer, Kaia.

And boy, did I underestimate them.

I kako sam ih samo podcijenila.

The first day of school last year

Prvi dan škole prošle godine

happened to be the day my resolution was announced,

bio je i dan kada sam objavila svoju odluku

i bila sam tako nervozna o tome što će ih dočekati.

and I was so anxious about what they would face.

My daughter came home from school and she said,

Moja kćer vratila se iz škole i rekla mi,

"Mama, toliko me ljudi pitalo što ti se ljetos dogodilo."

"Mommy, so many people asked me what happened to you over the summer."

Onda me pogledala u oči

Then she looked at me in the eyes

i rekla, "I mama,

and she said, "And mommy,

I was so proud

bila sam tako ponosna

to say that you were my mom."

kada sam rekla da si ti moja mama."

And two weeks later,

I dva tjedna kasnije,

when she finally found the courage to stand up to two kids

kada je napokon skupila hrabrosti suprotstaviti se dvoje djece

who had been making her life miserable,

koja su joj zagorčavala život,

she came home to me and she said,

došla mi je i rekla,

"Mommy, I found the courage to do it

"Mama, našla sam hrabrosti to učiniti

because I saw you do it."

jer sam vidjela da si ti to učinila."

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

You see, giving the gift of courage is contagious.

Vidite, dati dar hrabrosti je zarazno.

And I hope that my journey has inspired you,

I nadam se da vas je moje putovanje inspiriralo,

because right now, it's the tipping point.

jer upravo sada, ovo je ključna točka.

We are watching history happen.

Gledamo kako se povijest događa.

More and more women are coming forward and saying,

Sve više žena dolazi i govori:

"Enough is enough."

"Sada je dosta."

(Applause)

(Pljesak)

Here's my one last plea to companies.

Ovo je moja posljednja molba upućena tvrtkama.

Let's hire back all those women whose careers were lost

Zaposlimo ponovo sve one žene čija je karijera izgubljena

because of some random jerk.

zbog nekog nasumičnog kretena.

Because here's what I know about women:

Jer evo što znam o ženama:

we will not longer be underestimated, intimidated or set back;

ne želimo više biti zastrašene, podcjenjivane ili unazađene;

we will not be silenced by the ways of the establishment

nećemo biti ušutkane kroz instrumente establišmenta

or the relics of the past.

ili ostavština prošlosti.

No.

Ne.

We will stand up and speak up

Ustat ćemo i progovoriti

and have our voices heard.

i naši glasovi će se čuti.

We will be the women we were meant to be.

Bit ćemo žene koje trebamo biti.

And above all,

I iznad svega,

we will always be fierce.

uvijek ćemo biti žestoke.

Thank you.

Hvala.

(Applause)

(Pljesak)