How to talk (and listen) to transgender people | Jackson Bird

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Sujee Cho ๊ฒ€ํ† : Dong-ju Kim
00:12
Hi, I'm Jack,
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์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”. ์ €๋Š” ์žญ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:14
and I'm transgender.
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์˜ˆ์š”.
00:17
Let me take a guess at some of thoughts
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๋ฌด์Šจ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ํ•˜์‹œ๋Š” ์ง€
00:19
that might be running through your head right now.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋งž์ถฐ ๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”?
00:21
"Transgender?
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"ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”?
00:22
Wait, does that mean that they're actually a man or actually a woman?"
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๊ทธ๊ฑฐ ์ž๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์‚ฌ์‹ค์€ ๋‚จ์ž๋ผ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ์—ฌ์ž๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑฐ ์•„๋‹ˆ์•ผ?"
00:25
"I wonder if he's had the surgery yet ...
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"์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์€ ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์„ ํ–ˆ์„๊นŒ?
00:28
Oh, now I'm looking at his crotch.
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์•„์ด๊ตฌ, ๋‚˜๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์ž๊พธ ์‚ฌํƒ€๊ตฌ๋‹ˆ๋ฅผ ์ณ๋‹ค๋ณด๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋„ค.
00:30
Look to the right, that's a safe place to look."
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๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์ชฝ์„ ๋ด์•ผ๊ฒ ์–ด. ์˜ค๋ฅธ์ชฝ์€ ์ณ๋‹ค๋ด๋„ ๊ดœ์ฐฎ๊ฒ ์ง€."
"๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์•Œ์•„๋ดค์ง€! ์ง„์งœ ๋‚จ์ž๋ฉด ์ €๋Ÿฐ ์—‰๋ฉ์ด์ผ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์—†๊ฑฐ๋“ ."
00:32
"Yes, I knew it! No real man has hips like those."
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00:35
"My friend's daughter is transgender --
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"๋‚ด ์นœ๊ตฌ ๋”ธ์ด ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋ผ๋˜๋ฐ..
00:36
I wonder if they know each other."
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์•„๋Š” ์‚ฌ์ธ๊ฐ€?"
00:39
"Oh my gosh, he is so brave.
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"๋ง๋„ ์•ˆ ๋ผ, ์ง„์งœ ์šฉ๊ฐํ•˜๋‹ค.
00:41
I would totally support his right to use the men's bathroom.
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์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด ๋‚จ์žํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์„ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๊ฑด ์ € ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์˜ ๊ถŒ๋ฆฌ์•ผ.
00:44
Wait, but how does he use the bathroom?
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์•„๋‹ˆ ๊ทผ๋ฐ.. ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋‚จ์žํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์„ ์“ฐ์ง€?
00:46
How does he have sex?"
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์„ฑ๊ด€๊ณ„๋Š” ๋˜ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋งบ๋Š”๋‹ด?"
00:48
OK, OK, let's stop those hypothetical questions
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๋„ค, ๊ทธ๋Ÿผ ๋„ˆ๋ฌด ๊นŠ์ˆ™์ด ๋“ค์–ด๊ฐ€๊ธฐ ์ „์— ์ด์ฏค์—์„œ
00:51
before we get too close for my comfort.
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๊ฐ€์ƒ์˜ ์งˆ๋ฌธ๋“ค์„ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌ ํ•ด๋ณผ๊นŒ์š”?
00:52
I mean, don't get me wrong,
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๊ณ  ์˜คํ•ด๋Š” ํ•˜์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
00:54
I did come here today to share my personal experiences being transgender,
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์˜ค๋Š˜ ์—ฌ๊ธฐ์—์„œ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋กœ์„œ ๊ฒช์€ ์ œ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๋Ÿฌ ์˜จ ๊ฑฐ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”.
00:57
but I did not wake up this morning wanting to tell an entire audience
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์•„์นจ์— ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๋ฉด์„œ ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ฒญ์ค‘๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ
01:01
about my sex life.
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๋‚ด ์„ฑ์ƒํ™œ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ๋งํ•ด์•ผ๊ฒ ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์ง„ ์•Š์•˜์ง€๋งŒ์š”.
01:03
Of course, that's the problem with being trans, right?
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๋ญ, ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๊ฐ€ ๊ฒช๋Š” ๋ฌธ์ œ๊ธด ํ•ด์š”.
01:06
People are pretty much always wondering how we have sex
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๋Œ€๋ถ€๋ถ„์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ์„น์Šค๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ 
01:08
and what kind of equipment we're working with below the belt.
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ํ•˜๋ฐ˜์‹ ์— ์–ด๋–ค ๊ธฐ๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์ฐฉ์šฉํ•˜๋Š”์ง€ ๊ถ๊ธˆํ•ดํ•˜์ฃ .
01:12
Being trans is awkward.
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฑด ๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ ์ผ์ด์˜ˆ์š”.
01:15
And not just because the gender I was assigned at birth
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ํƒœ์–ด๋‚˜๋ฉด์„œ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฒŒ ๋œ ์„ฑ์ด
01:17
mismatches the one I really am.
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์ง„์ •ํ•œ ์ œ ์ž์‹ ๊ณผ ๋งž์ง€ ์•Š์•„์„œ๋งŒ์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์˜ˆ์š”.
01:19
Being trans is awkward
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋กœ์„œ ๋ถˆํŽธํ•œ ๊ฑด
01:20
because everyone else gets awkward when they're around me.
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๋ชจ๋‘๋“ค ์ €๋ฅผ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ๋Œ€ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ง€ ๊ณค๋ž€ํ•ดํ•˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:24
People who support me and all other trans people wholeheartedly
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์ €๋ฅผ ์ธ์ •ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๋‚˜ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์€
๋ญ”๊ฐ€ ์ž˜๋ชป๋œ ๋ง์„ ํ• ๊นŒ๋ด ์ง„์‹ฌ์œผ๋กœ ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:28
are often so scared to say to wrong thing,
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01:30
so embarrassed to not know what they think they should,
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๋ณธ์ธ๋“ค์ด ์˜ณ๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์•Œ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„
01:33
that they never ask.
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๋„ˆ๋ฌด๋‚˜ ๋ถ€๋„๋Ÿฌ์›Œํ•ด์„œ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด์ง€๋„ ์•Š์•„์š”.
01:35
Part of what was so nerve-racking about coming out as transgender
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฐํž ๋•Œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๊ฑฑ์ •๋˜๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ถ„์€
01:38
was knowing that people wouldn't know what I meant.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:42
And when someone comes out as gay,
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๋ˆ„๊ตฐ๊ฐ€ ๊ฒŒ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ๋ฐํž ๋•Œ
01:43
people know what that means,
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์Šจ ๋œป์ธ์ง€ ์•Œ์ž–์•„์š”.
01:45
but when you come out as trans,
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๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€๋งŒ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์€
01:46
you have to face the misconceptions
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์˜ ์˜คํ•ด๋ฅผ ๋งž๋‹ฅ๋œจ๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์ฃ .
01:48
that will color other people's impressions of you
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๊ทธ ์˜คํ•ด์— ๊ธฐ๋ฐ˜ํ•ด์„œ ๋‹น์‹ ์„ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:51
even after you've educated them ...
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์‹ฌ์ง€์–ด๋Š” ๋‹น์‹ ์ด ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์—๊ฒŒ ์•Œ๋ ค์ค€ ๋’ค์—๋„์š”.
01:53
And you will have to educate them.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ๋‹น์‹ ์€ ๊ผญ ๊ทธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ ์ค˜์•ผ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:55
When I came out,
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์ €๋Š” ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋ผ๊ณ  ๊ณ ๋ฐฑํ•  ๋•Œ
01:56
I wrote at 10-page encyclopedic document
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๋ฐฑ๊ณผ์‚ฌ์ „๊ฐ™์€ 10ํŽ˜์ด์ง€์˜ ์„œ๋ฅ˜์™€
01:58
with a zip-file attachment of music and videos
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์Œ์•…๊ณผ ๋น„๋””์˜ค๋ฅผ ๋‹ด์€ ์••์ถ• ํŒŒ์ผ์„
02:01
that I sent to every single person I came out to.
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์ปค๋ฐ์•„์›ƒํ•œ ๋ชจ๋‘์—๊ฒŒ ๋ณด๋ƒˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:03
(Laughter)
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02:04
And I kept it in my email signature for months afterwards,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ ์ดํ›„์—๋„ ๋ช‡๊ฐœ์›”๋™์•ˆ ๋ฉ”์ผ ์„œ๋ช…์œผ๋กœ ๊ทธ ํŒŒ์ผ์„ ์ผ์ฃ .
02:07
because you also don't ever stop coming out.
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์ปค๋ฐ์•„์›ƒํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฉˆ์ถฐ์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ ๋˜๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
02:10
I came out to the accountant helping me with my taxes
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์ œ ์„ธ๊ธˆ๋ฌธ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋„์™€์ฃผ๋Š” ํšŒ๊ณ„์‚ฌ๋‚˜
02:14
and the TSA agents who didn't know which one of them should pat me down,
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๊ตํ†ต์•ˆ์ „์ฒญ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ์ปค๋ฐ์•„์›ƒํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„  ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ €๋ฅผ ์ˆ˜์ƒ‰ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ง€ ์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ€ ์ˆ˜์ƒ‰ํ•ด์•ผ ํ•  ์ง€ ๊ณ ๋ฏผํ•˜๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
02:17
the man or the woman.
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02:19
I mean, I just came out to everyone watching this.
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์‚ฌ์‹ค ์ €๋Š” ์ด ์˜์ƒ์„ ๋ณด๋Š” ๋ชจ๋‘์—๊ฒŒ ์ปค๋ฐ์•„์›ƒํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
02:23
When I came out to my dad,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์—๊ฒŒ ์ปค๋ฐ์•„์›ƒ ํ•  ๋•Œ๋Š”
02:25
to my great relief, he was totally cool with me being trans,
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๋‹คํ–‰์Šค๋Ÿฝ๊ฒŒ๋„ ์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ๋ณ„ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ๋ณด์ด์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์–ด์š”.
02:28
but as soon as I started talking about physically transitioning,
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์‹ ์ฒด์˜ ๋ณ€์ด์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์–˜๊ธฐํ•˜๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
02:31
he freaked.
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๊ธฐ๊ฒ์„ ํ•˜์‹œ๊ธด ํ•˜์…จ์ง€๋งŒ์š”.
02:32
And I quickly realized it was because he, like so many other people,
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์•„๋ฒ„์ง€๊ฐ€ ํƒ€์ธ๊ณผ ๋˜‘๊ฐ™์€ ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ํ•  ๋•Œ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:36
think that physical transition means just one thing:
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์•„๋ฒ„์ง€์—๊ฒŒ๋„ ์‹ ์ฒด์˜ ๋ณ€์ด๋Š” ๋‹จ ํ•œ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ์˜๋ฏธํ•œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ์š”.
02:39
the surgery.
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์ˆ˜์ˆ ์ด์ฃ .
02:41
Now, listen,
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์ž˜ ๋“ค์–ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
02:42
if there were one magical surgery
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ์ €๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ฃป๋ฐค์— ํ‚ค ํฐ ๊ทผ์œก์งˆ์˜ ์‚ฌํšŒํ†ต๋…์ƒ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ๋‚จ์ž๋กœ
02:44
that could turn me into a tall, muscular,
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๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ธฐ์ ๊ฐ™์€ ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
02:47
societally perfect image of a man overnight,
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02:50
I'd sign up in a heartbeat.
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๋‘ ๋ง ํ•  ๊ฒƒ ์—†์ด ํ•  ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
02:52
Unfortunately, it isn't that simple.
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๋ถˆํ–‰ํžˆ๋„, ํ˜„์‹ค์€ ๋…น๋ก์น˜๊ฐ€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:54
There are dozens of different gender-affirming surgeries
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์„ฑ๋ณ„์„ ํ™•์ •์ง€์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์€ ์ˆ˜์‹ญ๊ฐœ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:57
from chest surgeries to bottom surgeries
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๊ฐ€์Šด ์ˆ˜์ˆ ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‚ฌํƒ€๊ตฌ๋‹ˆ ์ˆ˜์ˆ ,
03:00
to facial feminization and man-sculpting.
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์—ฌ์ž๊ฐ™์€ ์–ผ๊ตด์ด๋‚˜ ๋‚จ์ž๊ฐ™์€ ๋ชธ์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ๋Š” ์ˆ˜์ˆ ๊นŒ์ง€์š”.
03:03
Many trans people will only ever undergo one procedure in their lifetime, if that.
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์ˆ˜์ˆ ์„ ํ•œ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์€ ๋ณดํ†ต ํ‰์ƒ๋™์•ˆ,
๋‹จ ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์˜ ์ˆ˜์ˆ ๋งŒ์„ ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:07
Maybe because they don't personally feel the need
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์•„๋งˆ ํ•„์š”์„ฑ์„ ๋Š๋ผ์ง€ ๋ชป ํ•ด์„œ์ผ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:10
but also because they're expensive,
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์ด ๋น„์‹ธ๊ณ 
03:12
and health insurance is only beginning to cover them.
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๊ฑด๊ฐ• ๋ณดํ—˜์ด ์ˆ˜์ˆ ์„ ๋ณด์žฅํ•ด์ฃผ๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ค์šด๊ฒƒ๋„ ์ด์œ ์ฃ .
03:15
Instead, the first step for a trans person seeking physical transition
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์ด ๋ณดํ†ต ์ฒซ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ ์ฐพ๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋Š” ์‹ ์ฒด ๋ณ€์ด๋Š”
03:19
is usually hormone replacement therapy.
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ํ˜ธ๋ฅด๋ชฌ ์น˜ํ™˜ ์š”๋ฒ•์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:22
Hormones are why I have a deeper voice and some sparse whiskers on my neck
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ํ˜ธ๋ฅด๋ชฌ์€ ์ œ ์ €์Œ๊ณผ ๋“œ๋ฌธ๋“œ๋ฌธํ•œ ๋ชฉ์˜ ์ˆ˜์—ผ,
03:26
and a giant pimple on my chin.
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ํ„ฑ์— ํฐ ์—ฌ๋“œ๋ฆ„์ด ๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ์ฃ .
03:29
Basically, they put you through a second puberty ...
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๊ธฐ๋ณธ์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ˜ธ๋ฅด๋ชฌ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— 2์ฐจ ์„ฑ์ง•์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜์ฃ .
03:32
it's a blast.
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์™„์ „ ํญ๋ฐœ์ ์œผ๋กœ์š”.
03:33
(Laughter)
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03:34
Now, because our transitions are slower and steadier
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์‹ ์ฒด๋ณ€์ด๊ฐ€ ๊พธ์ค€ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋Š๋ฆฌ๊ฒŒ ์ง„ํ–‰๋˜๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์—
03:38
than historic misconceptions can lead people to believe,
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์ด์ „๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ „ํ•ด์ ธ ๋‚ด๋ ค์˜ค๋Š” ์˜คํ•ด๊ฐ€ ์ง„์‹ค๋กœ ๋Š๊ปด์ง€์ฃ .
03:40
there can be some confusion
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์–ธ์ œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์ƒˆ๋กญ๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ”๋€ ์ด๋ฆ„๊ณผ ๋Œ€๋ช…์‚ฌ๋กœ ๋ถˆ๋Ÿฌ์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ์ง€๋Š”
03:42
about when to call someone by their new name and pronouns.
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๋…ผ๋ž€์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:45
There's no distinct point in physical transition
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์‹ ์ฒด ๋ณ€์ด ๊ณผ์ •์—์„œ ์ง„์งœ ์„ฑ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฒŒ ๋˜๋Š”
03:48
at which a trans person becomes their true gender.
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์ •ํ™•ํ•œ ์‹œ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฑด ์•„๋‹ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
03:51
As soon as they tell you their new name and pronouns,
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์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ์ด๋ฆ„๊ณผ ๋Œ€๋ช…์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ์•Œ๋ ค์คฌ์„ ๋•Œ๊ฐ€
03:53
that's when you start using them.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋‹จ์–ด๋“ค์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๊ธฐ์— ์ ํ•ฉํ•œ ๋•Œ์ผ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:55
It can be difficult to make the change.
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๋ฐ”๋€Œ๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ํž˜๋“ค ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
03:57
You might slip up here and there;
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์—ฌ๊ธฐ์ €๊ธฐ์„œ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ•  ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
03:59
I've slipped up myself with other trans people.
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์ € ์—ญ์‹œ ๋‹ค๋ฅธ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์—๊ฒŒ ์‹ค์ˆ˜๋ฅผ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:01
But I always think to myself,
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๊ทธ๋ ‡์ง€๋งŒ ํ•ญ์ƒ ์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:03
if we can change from calling Puff Daddy to P. Diddy,
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์• ์™„๊ณ ์–‘์ด ์ด๋ฆ„์ด ํผํ”„ ๋Œ€๋””์—์„œ ํ”ผ ๋””๋””๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋€Œ์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋„
04:06
and if we apologize profusely when we've used the wrong gender pronoun
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์ด๋ฆ„์„ ์ž˜๋ชป๋ถˆ๋Ÿฌ์„œ ์‚ฌ๊ณผ๋ฅผ ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด,
04:10
for someone's pet cat --
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04:13
I mean, I think we can make the same effort
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ ๋…ธ๋ ฅ์„ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ์‚ด์•„๊ฐ€๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์—๊ฒŒ๋„
04:15
for the real humans in our lives.
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๊ธฐ์šธ์—ฌ ์ค„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ๋ผ๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:17
Now, there is no topic that makes other people more awkward about trans people
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์˜ ๊ณต์ค‘ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค ์ด์šฉ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋งŒํผ
๋” ๋ฏผ๊ฐํ•œ ์ฃผ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
04:22
than public bathrooms.
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04:25
Ah, the bathrooms --
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ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์€..
04:26
the latest political flash point for LGBT opponents.
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์„ฑ์†Œ์ˆ˜์ž๋ฅผ ๋ฐ˜๋Œ€ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ตœ๊ทผ์— ์ฃผ์žฅํ•˜๋Š” '์ •์น˜์  ํ™”์•ฝ๊ณ '์ฃ .
04:29
Here's a fun fact about bathrooms:
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ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค๊ณผ ๊ด€๋ จํ•ด์„œ ์žฌ๋ฐŒ๋Š” ์‚ฌ์‹ค์ด ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
04:31
more US congressmen have been convicted of assaulting someone in a public bathroom
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋ณด๋‹ค ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค ์„ฑํญํ–‰์„ ๋” ๋งŽ์ด ์ €์ง€๋ฅธ ๋ถ„์€
04:35
than trans people have been.
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ ๊ตญํšŒ์˜์›์ด์ฃ .
04:37
(Laughter)
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04:39
The truth is we trans people are so much more scared of you than you are of us.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์„ ๋ฌด์„œ์›Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค
ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์ด ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋” ๋ฌด์„œ์›Œํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:43
It's a huge point of discussion in trans communities
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค ์‚ฌ์ด์—์„œ๋„ ์–ด๋–ค ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์„ ์–ธ์ œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋Š” ์ง€๋Š”
04:46
about which bathroom to start using and when,
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๋…ผ๋ž€์˜ ๋Œ€์ƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:48
so we don't attract attention that could lead to violence against us.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๊ฒจ๋ƒฅํ•œ ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์ด ์ผ์–ด๋‚  ์ˆ˜ ๋„ ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ
์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋„ ๋ฌด์„œ์›Œ์„œ ๋ชปํ•˜์ฃ .
04:51
I personally started using the men's room
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์ €๋Š” ์—ฌ์žํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์—์„œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ์ €๋ฅผ ๋ณด๊ณ 
04:53
when I started getting confused and frightened looks in the women's room,
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๋‹นํ™ฉํ•˜๊ณ  ๊ฒ์„ ๋จน์—ˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ๋‚จ์žํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:58
even though I was petrified to start going into the men's room.
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์ œ์ž์‹ ์€ ๋‚จ์žํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์„ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒŒ ๋ฌด์„œ์› ์ง€๋งŒ์š”.
05:01
And often we opt to just not go to the bathroom at all.
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๋Œ€๊ฐœ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์€ ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๊ฑธ ์„ ํƒํ•˜์ฃ .
05:03
A 2015 national survey of trans people
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2015๋…„์˜ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋ฅผ ๋Œ€์ƒ์œผ๋กœ ํ•œ ์„ค๋ฌธ์กฐ์‚ฌ์—์„œ
05:06
found that eight percent of us had had a urinary tract infection
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8ํผ์„ผํŠธ๊ฐ€ ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ์ฐธ๋‹ค๊ฐ€
05:09
in the past year
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์š”๋กœ๊ฐ์—ผ์ฆ์„ ์•“์•„๋ณธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ๋Œ€๋‹ตํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
as a result of avoiding restrooms.
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05:13
These bathroom bills aren't protecting anyone.
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ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค ๋ฒ•์•ˆ์€ ๊ทธ ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋„ ๋ณดํ˜ธํ•ด์ฃผ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:16
All they're doing
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์˜คํžˆ๋ ค ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋“ค์ด
05:17
is ensuring that when trans people are assaulted in bathrooms,
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ํ™”์žฅ์‹ค์—์„œ ํญํ–‰๊ณผ ์ถ”ํ–‰์„ ๋‹นํ•˜๊ฒŒ ํ•˜์ฃ .
05:21
the law will no longer be on our side when we report it.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ์‹ ๊ณ ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฒ•์€ ์ €ํฌ์˜ ํŽธ์„ ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:25
Being trans means a daily onslaught of these misconceptions.
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”๋กœ ์‚ฐ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์˜คํ•ด๋กœ ์ธํ•œ ์Šต๊ฒฉ์„ ์ผ์ƒ์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋œปํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:31
And I have it pretty easy.
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์ €ํ•œํ…Œ๋Š” ๋‚˜์€ ํŽธ์ด์ฃ .
05:33
I am a white, able-bodied guy
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์ €๋Š” ๋ฐฑ์ธ์ด๊ณ  ์‹ ์ฒด๊ฐ€ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•œ ๋‚จ์„ฑ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:35
sitting nearly at the peak of privilege mountain.
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ํŠน๊ถŒ ๊ณ„์ธต์˜ ๊ฑฐ์˜ ๊ผญ๋Œ€๊ธฐ์— ์žˆ์ฃ .
05:39
For non-binary people,
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๋น„์ฃผ๋ฅ˜์˜ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด๋‚˜
05:41
for trans women,
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋” ์—ฌ์„ฑ,
05:43
for trans people of color,
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์œ ์ƒ‰์ธ์ข…์ธ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์—๊ฒŒ๋Š”
05:45
it is so much harder.
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ํ›จ์”ฌ ๋” ํž˜๋“  ์ผ์ผ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:48
So I've given you a starter pack of trans knowledge
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์—๊ฒŒ ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ๊ธฐ์ดˆ ์ง€์‹์„ ์•Œ๋ ค๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:51
that I hope will lead to more learning on your own.
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์ด๊ฑธ ๊ณ„๊ธฐ๋กœ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ด€์‹ฌ์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ฒŒ ๋˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์ข‹๊ฒ ์–ด์š”.
05:55
Talk to trans people.
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ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์—๊ฒŒ ๋งํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
05:57
Listen to us.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ์–˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
05:59
Amplify our voices.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชฉ์†Œ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ํผ๋œจ๋ ค์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
06:01
Take the heat off of us and educate those around you
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์ฃผ๋ณ€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๊ฐ€๋ฅด์ณ์„œ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋ฅผ ๋น„๋‚œํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๊ฒŒ ํ•ด ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
06:04
so we don't have to every time.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ•ญ์ƒ ๋“ค์–ด์•ผ ํ•˜๋Š” ๋น„๋‚œ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๊ฒŒ ํ•ด ์ฃผ์„ธ์š”.
06:06
Maybe someday, when I say,
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ์–ธ์  ๊ฐ€,
์ œ๊ฐ€ "์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ์ €๋Š” ์žญ์ด๊ณ  ํŠธ๋žœ์Šค์  ๋”์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."๋ผ๊ณ  ๋งํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ,
06:09
"Hi, I'm Jack, and I'm transgender,"
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06:12
the only response I'll get is,
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๋Œ์•„์˜ค๋Š” ๋ฐ˜์‘์ด
06:14
"Hi, nice to meet you."
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"์•ˆ๋…•ํ•˜์„ธ์š”, ๋งŒ๋‚˜์„œ ๋ฐ˜๊ฐ‘์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค." ์ด๊ฒƒ ํ•˜๋‚˜๋ฟ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋  ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:18
Thank you.
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