Why better sleep means a better sex life | Sleeping With Science

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ืื ื ืœื—ืฅ ืคืขืžื™ื™ื ืขืœ ื”ื›ืชื•ื‘ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ืœืžื˜ื” ื›ื“ื™ ืœื”ืคืขื™ืœ ืืช ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ.

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As my dear friend, Dr. Wendy Troxel often says,
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ืชืจื’ื•ื: Igal Opendik ืขืจื™ื›ื”: Ido Dekkers
ื›ืคื™ ืฉื—ื‘ืจืชื™ ื”ื™ืงืจื” ื“โ€ณืจ ื•ื•ื ื“ื™ ื˜ืจื•ืงืกืœ ื ื•ื”ื’ืช ืœื•ืžืจ
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โ€œSleep is the new sex.โ€
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โ€œืฉื™ื ื” ื”ื™ื ื”ืกืงืก ื”ื—ื“ืฉโ€œ.
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And she's right.
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ื•ื”ื™ื ืฆื•ื“ืงืช.
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A good night's sleep will do many things for the vibrancy,
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ืฉื ืช ืœื™ืœื” ื˜ื•ื‘ื” ืชืชืจื•ื ืจื‘ื•ืช ืœื—ื™ื•ื ื™ื•ืช,
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the intimacy, even the vitality of your relationship.
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ืœืื™ื ื˜ื™ืžื™ื•ืช ื•ืืฃ ืœื—ื•ืกืŸ ื”ื–ื•ื’ื™ื•ืช ืฉืœื›ื.
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[ืœื™ืฉื•ืŸ ืขื ื”ืžื“ืข]
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First, when couples are not getting enough sleep,
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ืจืืฉื™ืช, ื›ืืฉืจ ื–ื•ื’ื•ืช ืœื ืžืงื‘ืœื™ื ืžืกืคื™ืง ืฉื™ื ื”,
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they have more conflicts the next day.
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ืœืžื—ืจืช ื”ื ื—ื•ื•ื™ื ื™ื•ืชืจ ืกื™ื›ืกื•ื›ื™ื.
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And furthermore, they don't resolve those conflicts nearly as well,
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ื™ืชืจื” ืžื›ืš, ื”ื ืœื ืžื™ื™ืฉื‘ื™ื ืื•ืชื ื‘ืฆื•ืจื” ืžื™ื˜ื‘ื™ืช,
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in part because of a loss of empathy between those two individuals.
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ื‘ื™ืŸ ื”ื™ืชืจ ืขืงื‘ ืื™ื‘ื•ื“ ื”ืืžืคื˜ื™ื” ื‘ื™ืŸ ื‘ื ื™ ื”ื–ื•ื’.
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Second, our reproductive hormones suffer,
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ืฉื ื™ืช, ืกื•ื‘ืœื™ื ื”ื•ืจืžื•ื ื™ ื”ืจื‘ื™ื™ื” ืฉืœื ื•,
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which we know are critical for healthy sexual relationship.
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ืืฉืจ, ื›ื™ื“ื•ืข ืœื ื•, ื”ื™ื ื ืงืจื™ื˜ื™ื™ื ืœืžื™ื ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืจื™ืื”.
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For example, young men who are sleeping just five hours a night for one week
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ืœืžืฉืœ, ื’ื‘ืจื™ื ืฆืขื™ืจื™ื ื”ื™ืฉื ื™ื ืจืง 5 ืฉืขื•ืช ื›ืœ ืœื™ืœื” ื‘ืžืฉืš ืฉื‘ื•ืข
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will have a level of testosterone
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ื™ืฆื™ื’ื• ืจืžืช ื˜ืกื˜ื•ืกื˜ืจื•ืŸ,
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which is that of someone 10 years their senior.
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ืฉืœ ื’ื‘ืจ ื”ืžื‘ื•ื’ืจ ืžื”ื ื‘-10 ืฉื ื™ื.
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In other words, a lack of sleep will age a man by a decade
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ื‘ืžื™ืœื™ื ืื—ืจื•ืช, ื—ื•ืกืจ ืฉื™ื ื” ื™ื™ื‘ื’ืจ ืืช ื”ื’ื‘ืจ ื‘ืขืฉื•ืจ
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when it comes to certain aspects of wellness and virility.
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ืžื‘ื—ื™ื ืช ื”ื‘ื˜ื™ื ืžืกื•ื™ื™ืžื™ื ืฉืœ ืื™ื›ื•ืช ื”ื—ื™ื™ื ื•ื”ื—ื™ื•ื ื™ื•ืช.
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And we see similar impairments in female reproductive health
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ื•ืื ื• ืจื•ืื™ื ืคื’ื™ืขื” ื“ื•ืžื” ื’ื ื‘ื‘ืจื™ืื•ืช ื”ืจื‘ื™ื™ื” ื”ื ืฉื™ืช
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caused by a lack of sleep.
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ื”ื ื’ืจืžืช ืขโ€ณื™ ื—ื•ืกืจ ืฉื™ื ื”.
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Indeed, insufficient sleep
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ืื›ืŸ, ืฉื™ื ื” ื‘ืœืชื™ ืžืกืคืงืช
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has been associated with impairments in estrogen, in luteinizing hormone
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ืงื•ืฉืจื” ื‘ื™ืจื™ื“ื” ื‘ืืกื˜ืจื•ื’ืŸ, ื‘ื”ื•ืจืžื•ืŸ ื”ืฆื”ื‘ื”
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and also in follicle stimulating hormone,
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ื•ื’ื ื‘ื”ื•ืจืžื•ืŸ ืžื’ืจื” ื–ืงื™ืง.
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all of which are critical for female sexual health
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ื›ืœ ืืœื” ื”ื™ื ื ืงืจื™ื˜ื™ื™ื ืœื‘ืจื™ืื•ืช ืžื™ื ื™ืช ื ืฉื™ืช,
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as well as fertility.
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ื•ื’ื ืœืคื•ืจื™ื•ืช.
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Third, we've discovered that for a woman,
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ืฉืœื™ืฉื™ืช, ื’ื™ืœื™ื ื• ืฉืขื‘ื•ืจ ืื™ืฉื”,
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just one hour of extra sleep
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ืจืง ืฉืขืช ืฉื™ื ื” ื ื•ืกืคืช ืื—ืช
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is associated with a 14 percent increased likelihood
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ืงืฉื•ืจื” ืœืขืœื™ื™ื” ื‘ืช 14% ื‘ืกื™ื›ื•ื™
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of her wanting to be physically intimate with her partner.
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ืฉื”ื™ื ืชื—ืคื•ืฅ ื‘ืื™ื ื˜ื™ืžื™ืช ืคื™ื–ื™ืช ืขื ื”ืคืจื˜ื ืจ ืฉืœื”.
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So that's the impact of sleep on sex.
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ืื– ื–ืืช ื”ืฉืคืขืชื” ืฉืœ ื”ืฉื™ื ื” ืขืœ ื”ืกืงืก.
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But it turns out that sex can also have an impact on sleep.
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ืื•ืœื, ืžืกืชื‘ืจ ืฉื’ื ื”ืกืงืก ืขืฉื•ื™ ืœื”ืฉืคื™ืข ืขืœ ื”ืฉื™ื ื”.
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We know that sex before bed, resulting in orgasm,
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ืื ื—ื ื• ื™ื•ื“ืขื™ื ืฉืกืงืก ืœืคื ื™ ื”ืฉื™ื ื”, ืฉืชื•ืฆืืชื• ืื•ืจื’ื–ืžื”,
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is associated with significant improvements in subjective sleep quality.
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ื›ืจื•ืš ื‘ืฉื™ืคื•ืจื™ื ืžืฉืžืขื•ืชื™ื™ื ื‘ืื™ื›ื•ืช ื”ืฉื™ื ื” ื”ืกื•ื‘ื™ื™ืงื˜ื™ื‘ื™ืช.
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And we've even seen similar sleep associations with masturbation.
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ืืคื™ืœื• ืจืื™ื ื• ื”ืฉืคืขื•ืช ื“ื•ืžื•ืช ืขืœ ืฉื™ื ื” ืขโ€ณื™ ืื•ื ื ื•ืช.
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So what does all of this tell us then?
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ืื– ืžื” ื›ืœ ื”ืขื•ื‘ื“ื•ืช ื”ืืœื” ืžื’ืœื•ืช ืœื ื•?
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Well, sleep and sex are powerful and playful bedfellows.
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ื•ื‘ื›ืŸ, ืฉื™ื ื” ื•ืกืงืก ื”ื™ื ื ืฉื•ืชืคื™ื ืขื•ืฆืžืชื™ื™ื ื•ืฉื•ื‘ื‘ื™ื ืœืžื™ื˜ื”.
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Sleep is one of the very foundations
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ืฉื™ื ื” ื”ื™ื ืื—ื“ ื”ื™ืกื•ื“ื•ืช ื”ืžืฉืžืขื•ืชื™ื™ื
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of a happy, fulfilling and sexually vibrant relationship.
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ืœืงื™ื•ื ื–ื•ื’ื™ื•ืช ืžืื•ืฉืจืช, ืžืกืคืงืช ื•ื—ื™ื•ื ื™ืช ืžื‘ื—ื™ื ื” ืžื™ื ื™ืช.
ืขืœ ืืชืจ ื–ื”

ืืชืจ ื–ื” ื™ืฆื™ื’ ื‘ืคื ื™ื›ื ืกืจื˜ื•ื ื™ YouTube ื”ืžื•ืขื™ืœื™ื ืœืœื™ืžื•ื“ ืื ื’ืœื™ืช. ืชื•ื›ืœื• ืœืจืื•ืช ืฉื™ืขื•ืจื™ ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื”ืžื•ืขื‘ืจื™ื ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ ืžื•ืจื™ื ืžื”ืฉื•ืจื” ื”ืจืืฉื•ื ื” ืžืจื—ื‘ื™ ื”ืขื•ืœื. ืœื—ืฅ ืคืขืžื™ื™ื ืขืœ ื”ื›ืชื•ื‘ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื”ืžื•ืฆื’ื•ืช ื‘ื›ืœ ื“ืฃ ื•ื™ื“ืื• ื›ื“ื™ ืœื”ืคืขื™ืœ ืืช ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ืžืฉื. ื”ื›ืชื•ื‘ื™ื•ืช ื’ื•ืœืœื•ืช ื‘ืกื ื›ืจื•ืŸ ืขื ื”ืคืขืœืช ื”ื•ื•ื™ื“ืื•. ืื ื™ืฉ ืœืš ื”ืขืจื•ืช ืื• ื‘ืงืฉื•ืช, ืื ื ืฆื•ืจ ืื™ืชื ื• ืงืฉืจ ื‘ืืžืฆืขื•ืช ื˜ื•ืคืก ื™ืฆื™ืจืช ืงืฉืจ ื–ื”.

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