The difference between winning and succeeding | John Wooden | TED

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翻译人员: Gary Wang 校对人员: Qian Yue
00:12
I coined my own definition of success in 1934,
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我在1934年总结出了我自己对成功的定义,
那时候我在印第安纳州的南岸市一所中学当老师。
00:16
when I was teaching at a high school in South Bend, Indiana,
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being a little bit disappointed, and [disillusioned] perhaps,
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有一点点失望,也可能是被
00:24
by the way parents of the youngsters in my English classes
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我的英语班年青学生的父母们
00:28
expected their youngsters to get an A or a B.
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期望他们的子女
获得“优秀”或者“良好”的方式给弄糊涂了。他们觉得“一般”给邻居的小孩还差不多,
00:32
They thought a C was all right for the neighbors' children,
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因为邻居的小孩都是一般般的。
00:35
because they were all average.
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00:37
But they weren't satisfied when their own --
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但是如果是他们自己的小孩只拿到“一般”的成绩,他们就不满意了——
00:39
it would make the teacher feel that they had failed, or the youngster had failed.
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这就使得老师感觉自己很失败,或者年青学生失败了。
00:43
And that's not right.
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但是这是不对的。有着无穷智慧的可敬的上帝
00:44
The good Lord in his infinite wisdom didn't create us all equal
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并没有把我们人类在智力上创造成一模一样的,
00:47
as far as intelligence is concerned,
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就像身高体重和相貌的不同。
00:49
any more than we're equal for size, appearance.
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00:52
Not everybody could earn an A or a B, and I didn't like that way of judging,
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不是每一个人都能够拿“优秀”或者“良好”,而我也不喜欢这种评判方式。
00:55
and I did know how the alumni of various schools
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我确实知道30年代不少学校的校友
00:59
back in the '30s judged coaches and athletic teams.
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怎么评判教练和运动员队伍。
01:03
If you won them all, you were considered to be reasonably successful --
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如果你打赢了所有比赛,你就会被认为是比较成功的。
01:08
not completely.
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但是也不完全是这样。因为我发现——
01:09
Because I found out --
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01:11
we had a number of years at UCLA where we didn't lose a game.
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我们在加利福尼亚大学洛杉矶分校曾经有几年没有输掉一场比赛。
01:14
But it seemed that we didn't win each individual game
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但是感觉上我们每场比赛都没有赢,因为赢的比分差距
01:17
by the margin that some of our alumni had predicted --
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没有一些校友预估的那么多。
并且非常多的的时候我——
01:21
(Laughter)
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(大家笑)
01:24
And quite frequently I really felt that they had backed up their predictions
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——经常我真的觉得他们是
01:27
in a more materialistic manner.
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以一种更功利的方式来做他们的预估的。
01:30
(Laughter)
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01:31
But that was true back in the 30s, so I understood that.
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但是在30年代就是那个样子,所以我理解。
01:34
But I didn't like it, I didn't agree with it.
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但是我不喜欢,也不赞成。
01:36
I wanted to come up with something I hoped could make me a better teacher,
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于是我想总结出能使我成为一个更好的老师的某个东西,
给我指导下的年青人——
01:40
and give the youngsters under my supervision,
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不管是运动员还是英语班学生——
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be it in athletics or the English classroom,
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01:44
something to which to aspire,
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能激励渴望的东西,
01:46
other than just a higher mark in the classroom,
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而不仅仅是教室里一个更高的考分,
01:49
or more points in some athletic contest.
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或者运动比赛中更多的得分。
01:52
I thought about that for quite a spell,
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我思考了这个问题很长时间,
01:54
and I wanted to come up with my own definition.
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想开创出自己的定义。我觉得那应该有帮助。
01:57
I thought that might help.
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01:58
And I knew how Mr. Webster defined it,
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我知道韦伯字典是这样定义的:
02:01
as the accumulation of material possessions
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物质财产的积累,
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or the attainment of a position of power or prestige, or something of that sort,
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权力或者声望地位的获得,诸如此类。
02:07
worthy accomplishments perhaps,
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这些可能是有价值的成就,
02:09
but in my opinion, not necessarily indicative of success.
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但是在我看来不一定就意味着成功。
02:13
So I wanted to come up with something of my own.
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所以我想有自己的定义。
02:15
And I recalled --
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回想过去,我是在南印第安纳州的一个小农场长大的。
02:17
I was raised on a small farm in Southern Indiana,
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and Dad tried to teach me and my brothers
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老爸总是教导我和我兄弟:
02:21
that you should never try to be better than someone else.
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永远不要为超过别人而努力。
我能肯定当时他就是这样做的,而我没有——
02:25
I'm sure at the time he did that, I didn't -- it didn't --
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02:28
well, somewhere, I guess in the hidden recesses of the mind,
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但是这种理念有可能储存在我意识中隐藏的深处,
02:31
it popped out years later.
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在很多年之后它又跳了出来。
02:33
Never try to be better than someone else,
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永远不要为超过别人而努力,
02:35
always learn from others.
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永远从别人那里学习点什么。
02:36
Never cease trying to be the best you can be --
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永远不要停止尽你所能以达到最佳的努力——这是你自己能控制的。
02:39
that's under your control.
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02:40
If you get too engrossed and involved and concerned
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如果你太沉迷于自己无法控制的一些事情之中,
02:43
in regard to the things over which you have no control,
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陷在其中,为之而烦恼,
02:45
it will adversely affect the things over which you have control.
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就会反过来影响那些你自己能控制的东西。
02:49
Then I ran across this simple verse that said,
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后来我看到这么一段简单的话:
02:52
"At God's footstool to confess,
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“一个可怜的灵魂,跪在台阶上向上帝忏悔,低垂着头,
02:54
a poor soul knelt, and bowed his head.
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“我失败了!”他痛哭着说。
02:56
'I failed!' he cried.
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上帝说:“你尽了全力,这就是成功。”
02:58
The Master said, 'Thou didst thy best, that is success.'"
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03:02
From those things, and one other perhaps,
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从那些事情,或许还有另一件事情,
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I coined my own definition of success, which is:
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我形成了我自己对成功的定义。
03:06
Peace of mind attained only through self-satisfaction
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那就是:平和的心境,
这是只有在你知道自己是尽了全力去做到
03:10
in knowing you made the effort to do the best of which you're capable.
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自己能力所及的最佳,而能够自我满意才能达到的境界。
03:14
I believe that's true.
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我相信这是真的。如果你尽了全力
03:15
If you make the effort to do the best of which you're capable,
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去做能力所及的最佳,努力去改善你所在的
03:18
trying to improve the situation that exists for you,
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现有处境,我认为就是成功。
03:20
I think that's success,
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03:22
and I don't think others can judge that;
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并且我认为别人不能评判。我认为这就像是性格和名誉之间的关系。
03:24
it's like character and reputation --
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03:25
your reputation is what you're perceived to be;
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你的名誉是你在别人眼中的印象,
03:28
your character is what you really are.
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而你的性格是真正的你。
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And I think that character is much more important
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我认为本身的性格
03:33
than what you are perceived to be.
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比别人的印象要重要得多。
03:35
You'd hope they'd both be good,
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你当然希望这两个都是好的。
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but they won't necessarily be the same.
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但是它们不一定是一样的。
03:40
Well, that was my idea that I was going to try to get across to the youngsters.
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总之,这是我当时尽量传递给年青人的理念。
03:44
I ran across other things.
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我也遇到过其他一些东西。我热爱教育,
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I love to teach, and it was mentioned by the previous speaker
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刚才演讲的那个人提到
03:50
that I enjoy poetry, and I dabble in it a bit, and love it.
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我喜欢诗歌,而其实我有点沉迷于其中,非常喜欢诗歌。
03:53
There are some things that helped me, I think,
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诗歌中有些东西帮助了我,我觉得,
03:56
be better than I would have been.
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成为一个更好的人。我知道我现在并不是我决心要成为的人,
03:57
I know I'm not what I ought to be, what I should be,
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也不是我应该成为的人。但是我认为如果没有遇到过某些东西,
04:00
but I think I'm better than I would have been
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04:02
if I hadn't run across certain things.
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我就会不如现在的我。
04:04
One was just a little verse that said,
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其中一个只是一小段诗:
“没有什么文字,没有什么话语,
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"No written word, no spoken plea
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04:12
can teach our youth what they should be;
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能够告诉我们的下一代应该成为什么样的人。
04:15
nor all the books on all the shelves --
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即使是书架上所有的书也不能 ——
04:17
it's what the teachers are themselves."
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唯有老师本人的为人。“
04:19
That made an impression on me in the 1930s.
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这句诗在30年代
给了我深刻的印象。
04:23
And I tried to use that more or less in my teaching,
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我也尽可能地在教学中多多少少地使用它,
04:27
whether it be in sports, or whether it be in the English classroom.
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不管是在体育界还是英语课堂。
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I love poetry and always had an interest in that somehow.
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我热爱诗歌,并且一直有种说不出的兴趣。
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Maybe it's because Dad used to read to us at night,
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也许是因为以前老爸总是在晚上给我们念诗歌的缘故,
04:42
by coal oil lamp --
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在煤油灯下 —— 当时我们的农场家里面
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we didn't have electricity in our farm home.
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没有电灯。
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And Dad would read poetry to us. So I always liked it.
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老爸就会给我们念诗歌。所以我一起喜欢诗歌。
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And about the same time I ran across this one verse,
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大概差不多的时候
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I ran across another one.
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我遇到了另一件事。
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Someone asked a lady teacher why she taught,
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有人问一位女老师她为什么教书。
04:57
and after some time, she said she wanted to think about that.
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她愣了一下,说她要想一下。
05:00
Then she came up and said,
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过了一会儿她走过来说,
05:02
"They ask me why I teach, and I reply,
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“他们问我为什么教书,
我的回答是:‘还有什么地方我可以拥有如此辉煌的人生同伴?’
05:05
'Where could I find such splendid company?'
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05:08
There sits a statesman, strong, unbiased, wise;
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那里坐着一个政治家,坚强,不偏激,有智慧。
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another Daniel Webster, silver-tongued.
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一个转世的丹尼尔•韦伯斯特(政治家,两次担任美国国务卿),口才极好。
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A doctor sits beside him, whose quick, steady hand may mend a bone,
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旁边坐着一个医生,
他敏捷而稳健的手可以修复骨折,
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or stem the life-blood's flow.
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或者引导生命之血的流淌。
05:20
And there a builder; upward rise the arch of a church he builds,
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那里还有一个建筑工人,在他的手中,一个教学的拱顶徐徐升起,
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wherein that minister may speak the word of God,
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在那里牧师演绎着上帝的话语,
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and lead a stumbling soul to touch the Christ.
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引领着跌倒的灵魂去触摸耶稣基督。
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And all about, a gathering of teachers,
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这就是一个老师,
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farmers, merchants, laborers --
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农民,商人,劳工的聚会。
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those who work and vote and build
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他们都工作,选举,建造,规划,祈祷着走向更美好的明天。
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and plan and pray into a great tomorrow.
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And I may say, I may not see the church,
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应该说,我也许不能看到教堂的建成,
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or hear the word, or eat the food their hands may grow,
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听到他们讲的话,或者吃到他们栽培的食物。
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but yet again I may;
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但是也许我能。于是后来我可以说,
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And later I may say,
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I knew him once, and he was weak, or strong, or bold or proud or gay.
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我曾经认识他,那时候他或弱小,或强壮,
或勇敢果断,或骄傲,或是同性恋。
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I knew him once, but then he was a boy.
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我曾经认识他,但是那时候他还只是一个孩子。
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They ask me why I teach and I reply,
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他们问我为什么教书,我的回答是:
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'Where could I find such splendid company?'"
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‘还有什么地方我可以拥有如此辉煌的人生同伴?’”
05:56
And I believe the teaching profession --
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我坚信教师这个职业——
05:58
it's true, you have so many youngsters,
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真的,你拥有如此多的年青人。
06:00
and I've got to think of my youngsters at UCLA --
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讲到这里,我不由自主地想起我在加州大学洛杉矶分校的年青人——
30来个律师,11个牙医和医生,
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30-some attorneys, 11 dentists and doctors,
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many, many teachers and other professions.
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很多很多的老师和其他职业。
06:11
And that gives you a great deal of pleasure,
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看着他们成长
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to see them go on.
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给你很大很多的喜悦。
06:16
I always tried to make the youngsters feel that they're there to get an education,
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我一直尽量让年青人觉得
他们是来获得教育的,这是第一位的。
06:20
number one; basketball was second, because it was paying their way,
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篮球是第二位的,毕竟这是经济来源。
06:23
and they do need a little time for social activities,
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他们的确需要一点时间来社交,
06:26
but you let social activities take a little precedence over the other two,
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但是如果你让社交活动比另两个还优先哪怕是一点点,
你将在不久之后什么都没有。
06:30
and you're not going to have any very long.
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06:32
So that was the idea that I tried to get across
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这就是我当时试图传授给
06:37
to the youngsters under my supervision.
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我指导下的年青人的理念。
06:39
I had three rules, pretty much,
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我有三个原则,基本上我一直都遵守着。
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that I stuck with practically all the time.
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06:43
I'd learned these prior to coming to UCLA, and I decided they were very important.
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那是在我来到加州大学洛杉矶分校之前形成的。
我认为它们非常重要。
06:47
One was "Never be late."
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第一个是——决不迟到。决不迟到。
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Later on I said certain things --
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后来我又说了一些东西,
06:55
the players, if we were leaving for somewhere, had to be neat and clean.
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如果我们要出发去什么地方,球员们必须整洁干净。
07:00
There was a time when I made them wear jackets and shirts and ties.
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有一段时间我要求他们穿茄克,衬衫并打领带。
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Then I saw our chancellor coming to school in denims and turtlenecks,
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后来我看到我们的校长
是穿着牛仔裤和高领羊毛衫来学校的,于是
07:11
and thought, it's not right for me to keep this other [rule] so I let them just --
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我觉得我的要求有些过分了。
后来我就随便他们怎么穿了,但是必须整齐干净。
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they had to be neat and clean.
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07:17
I had one of my greatest players that you probably heard of, Bill Walton.
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我最好的球员之一,你们可能听说过的,
比尔•沃顿,有一次我们正准备出发去比赛,
07:22
He came to catch the bus; we were leaving for somewhere to play.
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他赶来了,(有些衣冠不整)。
07:25
And he wasn't clean and neat, so I wouldn't let him go.
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因为没有做到整齐干净,我不允许他出发,
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He couldn't get on the bus,
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他不能上车,而必须先回家收拾干净
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he had to go home and get cleaned up
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07:32
to get to the airport.
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然后去赶飞机。
07:34
So I was a stickler for that. I believed in that.
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所以说我严格执行这个原则。我坚信这个原则,
07:37
I believe in time; very important.
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我信守时间。这非常重要。
07:39
I believe you should be on time, but I felt at practice, for example --
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我坚信你应当守时。不过我发现在实践中,比如
07:42
we start on time, we close on time.
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我们准点开始,准点结束,
07:44
The youngsters didn't have to feel that we were going to keep them over.
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年青人就不会感觉好像我们延长了他们的上课时间。
07:48
When I speak at coaching clinics, I often tell young coaches --
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当我在教练诊所讲课时,我经常
跟年青的教练说——在教练诊所,基本上
07:51
and at coaching clinics, more or less,
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07:53
they'll be the younger coaches getting in the profession.
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他们是才进入这一行当的年青人。
07:56
Most of them are young, you know, and probably newly-married.
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大部分都年青,你们也知道,并且很可能是才结婚不久。
07:59
And I tell them, "Don't run practices late,
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我跟他们说,“不要下班太晚。
08:02
because you'll go home in a bad mood,
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不然你就会带着不好的情绪回家,
08:04
and that's not good, for a young married man to go home in a bad mood.
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而这是很不好的,一个年青的才结婚的人心情不好地回家。”
08:08
When you get older, it doesn't make any difference, but --"
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即使你慢慢变老了,情况也没有什么不同。是吧——
(大家笑)
08:11
(Laughter)
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08:15
So I did believe: on time.
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所以我的确坚信要准时。我信奉准时开始,
08:16
I believe starting on time, and I believe closing on time.
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准时结束。
08:19
And another one I had was, not one word of profanity.
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我的第二个原则是:不讲任何粗鄙的脏字。
08:22
One word of profanity, and you are out of here for the day.
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只要讲了一个脏字,你这天就不要再果这里了。
08:27
If I see it in a game, you're going to come out and sit on the bench.
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如果我在比赛中发现讲脏字,你就出场坐冷板凳,不要比赛了。
08:30
And the third one was, never criticize a teammate.
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第三个原则是:永远不批评队友。
08:33
I didn't want that. I used to tell them I was paid to do that.
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我不想看到这种情况。我过去经常告诉他们我拿薪水就是要批评人的,
08:36
That's my job. I'm paid to do it. Pitifully poor, but I am paid to do it.
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那是我的工作。别人付给我钱来批评指导人。可怜,没办法,但是我的工作就是干这个。
08:40
Not like the coaches today, for gracious sakes, no.
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跟现在的教练不一样,感谢上帝。
08:43
It's a little different than it was in my day.
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在我们那个时候情况有点不一样。
08:46
Those were three things that I stuck with pretty closely all the time.
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那就是我一直很认真坚持的三个原则。
其实这三个原则来源于我父亲。
08:51
And those actually came from my dad.
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08:53
That's what he tried to teach me and my brothers at one time.
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他曾经有一次试图教我和我兄弟这些东西。
08:58
I came up with a pyramid eventually,
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我终于想出了一个金字塔模式,
09:01
that I don't have the time to go on that.
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现在没有时间具体讲这个。
但是这个帮助了我,我认为,成为一个更好的老师。
09:04
But that helped me, I think, become a better teacher.
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09:07
It's something like this:
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它有点像这个样子:
09:09
And I had blocks in the pyramid,
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金字塔中有石块,
09:11
and the cornerstones being industriousness and enthusiasm,
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而其中的基石是勤奋,热情,
09:15
working hard and enjoying what you're doing,
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努力,和投入。
09:17
coming up to the apex,
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走向最高点,
09:19
according to my definition of success.
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根据我对成功的定义,
09:22
And right at the top, faith and patience.
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顶点是:信仰和耐心。
09:24
And I say to you, in whatever you're doing,
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我跟你们说,不管你做的是什么,
09:26
you must be patient.
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你必须有耐心。你必须有耐心——
09:28
You have to have patience to -- we want things to happen.
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我们希望做成一些事情。我们经常说年青人浮躁,没有耐心。
09:31
We talk about our youth being impatient a lot, and they are.
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09:35
They want to change everything. They think all change is progress.
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没错,他们想改变所有事情。
他们认为只要是改变就是进步。
09:39
And we get a little older -- we sort of let things go.
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我们老了一些之后,某种程度上就顺其自然了。
09:41
And we forget there is no progress without change.
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我们开始忘记没有变化就没有进步。
所以说你必须有耐心。
09:44
So you must have patience,
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09:45
and I believe that we must have faith.
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我坚信我们必须有信仰。
09:47
I believe that we must believe, truly believe.
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我认为我们必须相信,
真正的相信。不只是口头上说说,
09:50
Not just give it word service,
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09:52
believe that things will work out as they should,
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而是坚信只要我们做了我们应当做的,
09:55
providing we do what we should.
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事情就会按它们应该发展的方式展开。
09:57
I think our tendency is to hope things will turn out the way we want them to
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我觉得我们一般倾向于希望事情会如我们所愿的发展,
非常多的时候。但是我们没有去做那些
10:02
much of the time,
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10:03
but we don't do the things that are necessary
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10:06
to make those things become reality.
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能使这些愿望成为现实的必须的努力。
10:10
I worked on this for some 14 years,
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我探索得出这个金字塔概念用了14年,
10:12
and I think it helped me become a better teacher.
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我认为它帮助了我成为一个更好的老师。
10:15
But it all revolved around that original definition of success.
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但是它是完全围绕着那个原始的成功定义的。
10:19
You know, a number of years ago,
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你们知道几十年前,有一个名叫乔治•莫赖提的
10:21
there was a Major League Baseball umpire by the name of George Moriarty.
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美国职业棒球联盟的裁判,
10:25
He spelled Moriarty with only one 'i'.
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他拼写他的姓只说一个“i”(英语里面与“眼睛”发音相同),
10:28
I'd never seen that before, but he did.
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我从没见过这种说法,但是他就是那样。
10:30
Big league baseball players --
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职业棒球联盟的球员
10:32
they're very perceptive about those things,
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都很有洞察力,
10:34
and they noticed he had only one 'i' in his name.
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他们注意到他的名字里面只有一个“i”(眼睛)。
10:37
You'd be surprised how many also told him
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你会很惊讶有多少人在各种不同场合告诉他
10:40
that that was one more than he had in his head
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名字里面的“i”(眼睛)比他脑袋上的还要多一个
10:43
at various times.
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(开玩笑笑他做裁判没有看到一些犯规之类)。
10:44
(Laughter)
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(大家笑)
10:46
But he wrote something where I think he did
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但是他写了一些东西,我认为里面所写的事情和理念
10:48
what I tried to do in this pyramid.
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正是我在金字塔模型中想尽量去做的。他写的东西的名字叫作“未来之路,
10:49
He called it "The Road Ahead, or the Road Behind."
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或者身后之路”。
10:52
He said, "Sometimes I think the Fates must grin as we denounce them and insist
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“有时候我觉得当我们责怪命运,
老是说我们没有赢的
10:56
the only reason we can't win, is the Fates themselves have missed.
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唯一原因,是因为命不好的时候,命运之神一定会诡秘地笑。
11:00
Yet there lives on the ancient claim:
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其实正如一个古老的论断所说:
11:02
we win or lose within ourselves.
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我们胜利或者失败都根源于我们自己。架子上光闪闪的奖品
11:03
The shining trophies on our shelves can never win tomorrow's game.
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不能让我们赢得未来的比赛。
11:07
You and I know deeper down, there's always a chance to win the crown.
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你和我内心深处都懂得,永远都有机会去赢得桂冠。
11:10
But when we fail to give our best,
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但是当我们没有竭尽全力,
11:12
we simply haven't met the test, of giving all and saving none
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我们就没有通过这个人生测试,这个测试需要
全力付出毫不保留直到真正在比赛中获胜。
11:15
until the game is really won;
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需要表现什么是坚韧不拔。
11:17
of showing what is meant by grit;
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需要在别人退出的时候还继续战斗。
11:19
of playing through when others quit;
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11:21
of playing through, not letting up.
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需要战斗下去,决不放弃。
11:23
It's bearing down that wins the cup.
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要赢得奖杯靠的就是全力以赴。需要梦想着前面的目标。
11:25
Of dreaming there's a goal ahead; of hoping when our dreams are dead;
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需要在梦想破灭的时候怀抱希望。
需要在希望消逝的时候虔诚祈祷。
11:28
of praying when our hopes have fled; yet losing, not afraid to fall,
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尽管面临失败,也不害怕跌倒,
11:32
if, bravely, we have given all.
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如果我们已经勇敢地全力以赴了。因为谁能
11:33
For who can ask more of a man than giving all within his span.
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向一个已经全力以赴的人要求更多?
11:37
Giving all, it seems to me, is not so far from victory.
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全力以赴,对我来说,离胜利已经不远了。
11:42
And so the Fates are seldom wrong, no matter how they twist and wind.
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所以说命运之神很少不公平,不管其中有多少蜿蜒曲折。
11:45
It's you and I who make our fates --
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是你和我在创造你我自己的命运——
11:48
we open up or close the gates on the road ahead or the road behind."
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我们打开或者关闭未来之路或者身后之路。”
11:52
Reminds me of another set of threes that my dad tried to get across to us:
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这也让我想起我父亲试图传达给我们的另外三个原则:
11:55
Don't whine. Don't complain. Don't make excuses.
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不要发牢骚。不要抱怨。不要找借口。
11:58
Just get out there,
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行动起来,不管你是做什么的,
12:00
and whatever you're doing, do it to the best of your ability.
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把它做到你能力所能及的最好。
12:02
And no one can do more than that.
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这就是一个人所能做的。
12:05
I tried to get across, too, that --
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我也尽量传达——
12:08
my opponents will tell you -- you never heard me mention winning.
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我的对手不会告诉你们——你们从来没有听到我提及胜利这个词。
12:11
Never mention winning.
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从不说胜利。我的概念是
12:12
My idea is that you can lose when you outscore somebody in a game,
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即使你在一场比赛中比分超过别人,你也可能是输家。
12:18
and you can win when you're outscored.
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而你即使比分低些,你也可能是赢家。
12:20
I've felt that way on certain occasions, at various times.
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我在很多不同场合
有这样的感觉。
12:24
And I just wanted them to be able to hold their head up after a game.
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而我只是想他们在每次打完比赛之后
都能够昂首挺胸。
12:29
I used to say that when a game is over,
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我过去常说,一场比赛结束之后,
12:32
and you see somebody that didn't know the outcome,
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如果你们看到一个不知道比分的人,
12:34
I hope they couldn't tell by your actions
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我希望他从你们的表现上判断不出
12:37
whether you outscored an opponent or the opponent outscored you.
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是你们比分高还是对手比分高。
12:43
That's what really matters:
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真正重要的是:如果你经常努力
12:44
if you make an effort to do the best you can regularly,
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去尽你所能做到最好,
12:48
the results will be about what they should be.
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结果就会是它们所应当成为的结果。
12:51
Not necessarily what you'd want them to be but they'll be about what they should;
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不一定能达到你所希望的状态,
但是会大概是它们应当的状态,
12:55
only you will know whether you can do that.
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并且只有你知道你是否能做到那样。
12:57
And that's what I wanted from them more than anything else.
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这就是我最希望从他们身上看到的,超过其他任何东西。
13:00
And as time went by, and I learned more about other things,
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随着时间的流逝,我学到了其他一些东西,
13:03
I think it worked a little better,
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我认为上面所说的概念更好地发挥了一些作用,
13:05
as far as the results.
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至少对于比分而言。但是我希望一场比赛的比分
13:07
But I wanted the score of a game to be the byproduct of these other things,
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只是这些东西的附产品,
13:12
and not the end itself.
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而不是结局本身。
13:14
I believe it was one great philosopher who said --
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我记得
一个伟大的哲学家说过——哦不是,
13:20
no, no -- Cervantes.
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是塞万提斯(作家)。塞万提斯说过:
13:22
Cervantes said, "The journey is better than the end."
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“过程比结果更重要。”
13:27
And I like that.
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我喜欢这句话。我认为它的意思就是——
13:29
I think that it is -- it's getting there.
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我们正在靠近目标。有些时候当你达到目标的时候,总感觉有点失落。
13:31
Sometimes when you get there, there's almost a let down.
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13:34
But it's the getting there that's the fun.
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但是不断靠近目标是有意思的。
13:36
As a basketball coach at UCLA, I liked our practices to be the journey,
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我把我们的——作为一个加州大学洛杉矶分校的篮球教练, 我把我们的训练比作是过程,
13:41
and the game would be the end, the end result.
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而比赛是结局,是结果。
13:44
I liked to go up and sit in the stands and watch the players play,
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我会走上去坐到看台上观看球员比赛,
13:47
and see whether I'd done a decent job during the week.
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看看上周我是不是
干得不错。
13:52
There again, it's getting the players to get that self-satisfaction,
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同样,这还是让球员获得自我满意,
13:55
in knowing that they'd made the effort to do the best of which they are capable.
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因为他们知道自己努力了
去做到能力范围内的最好。
14:04
Sometimes I'm asked who was the best player I had, or the best teams.
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有时候有人问我谁是
我有过的最好的球员,或者最好的团队。
14:09
I can never answer that.
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我从来就不能回答这个问题,
14:12
As far as the individuals are concerned --
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只要是涉及到个人。
14:15
I was asked one time about that,
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有一次有人问我这个问题,
14:18
and they said,
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他们说:“假如以某种方式你能够
14:19
"Suppose that you, in some way, could make the perfect player.
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制造完美的球员,你会想要什么?”
14:24
What would you want?"
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14:25
And I said, "Well, I'd want one that knew why he was at UCLA:
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我说:“嗯,我想要一个知道他为什么来到加州大学洛杉矶分校的人:
14:28
to get an education, he was a good student,
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来获得教育,他要是一个好的学生,
14:31
really knew why he was there in the first place.
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要真正知道他来的首要目的。
14:33
But I'd want one that could play, too.
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但是我也想要一个能打球的人。
14:35
I'd want one to realize that defense usually wins championships,
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我想要一个认识到
防守通常赢得冠军,并且愿意努力锻炼防守的人。
14:39
and who would work hard on defense.
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14:41
But I'd want one who would play offense, too.
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但是我也想要一个能打前锋的人。
14:44
I'd want him to be unselfish,
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我想要他不自私,
14:46
and look for the pass first and not shoot all the time.
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先看能不能传球给别人,而不是老是自己投球。
14:49
And I'd want one that could pass and would pass.
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我想要一个能传球也愿意传球的人。
14:52
(Laughter)
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(大家笑)
14:53
I've had some that could and wouldn't,
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我曾经有过一些人能传但是不愿意传,
14:55
and I've had some that would and could.
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也有一些人愿意传但是不会传。
(大家笑)
14:58
(Laughter)
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14:59
So, yeah, I'd want that.
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15:01
And I wanted them to be able to shoot from the outside.
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我想要他们能够从外围投球,
15:04
I wanted them to be good inside too.
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也想要他们在里面投球也很厉害。
(大家笑)
15:07
(Laughter)
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15:09
I'd want them to be able to rebound well at both ends, too.
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我还想要他们在场地两头都弹跳得很好。
15:13
Why not just take someone like Keith Wilkes and let it go at that.
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要不就拿基思•威尔克斯来说吧,
15:17
He had the qualifications.
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他有这个资格。不只是他一个,
15:19
Not the only one, but he was one that I used in that particular category,
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但是他是我曾经用来
作过这方面例子的一个人,因为我觉得他
15:23
because I think he made the effort to become the best.
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付出了努力去成为最棒。
15:26
There was a couple.
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15:27
I mention in my book, "They Call Me Coach,"
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我在《他们叫我教练》这本书里面提到
15:30
two players that gave me great satisfaction,
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曾经给了我最大成就感的两个球员,
15:33
that came as close as I think anyone I ever had to reach their full potential:
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他们在我的所有学生当中是几乎发挥了全部潜力的。
一个是康拉德•伯克,另一个是道•麦金托什。
15:37
one was Conrad Burke, and one was Doug McIntosh.
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15:39
When I saw them as freshmen, on our freshmen team --
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当他们还是新生的时候,
我在新生球队里面看到他们——
15:42
freshmen couldn't play varsity when I taught.
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当时我们没有——我教的那时候新生不能打校队。
15:45
I thought, "Oh gracious, if these two players, either one of them" --
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当时我在想:“唉呀天哪,要是这两个球员,不管是两个中的谁”——
15:49
they were different years, but I thought about each one at the time he was there --
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他们处在不同的年级,但是我是根据他们在那里的时候的情况来考虑的——
“万一他能够进入校队,
15:53
"Oh, if he ever makes the varsity,
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15:55
our varsity must be pretty miserable, if he's good enough to make it."
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那我们的校队必然会非常悲惨,如果他能厉害到进入校队的话。”
15:58
And you know, one of them was a starting player for a season and a half.
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你们知道其中一个
是一个半赛季的最先上场核心球员。
16:04
The other one, his next year, played 32 minutes in a national championship game,
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另一个是——他的第二年
就在一个国家冠军赛中打了32分钟(全场48分钟),
16:10
Did a tremendous job for us.
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给我们打出了极棒的成绩。再下一年他就成为了
16:11
The next year, he was a starting player on the national championship team,
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国家冠军赛球队中的最先上场核心球员。
16:15
and here I thought he'd never play a minute, when he was --
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而当时我还以为他一分钟都打不了,当他是——
16:18
so those are the things that give you great joy,
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所以这些就是让你感到极大快乐的事情,
看到这个让你非常有成就感。
16:23
and great satisfaction to see.
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16:25
Neither one of those youngsters could shoot very well.
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这两个人投球都不太准,
16:28
But they had outstanding shooting percentages,
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但是他们有非常高的投中率,
16:30
because they didn't force it.
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因为他们不强行投球。
16:32
And neither one could jump very well,
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他们两个弹跳也不太行,
16:35
but they kept good position, and so they did well rebounding.
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但是他们能保持占在很好的位置,
所以能够蹦跳得很好。他们记得
16:38
They remembered that every shot that's taken, they assumed would be missed.
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每次投球他们都假设会投不中而弹出来,
16:42
I've had too many stand around and wait to see if it's missed,
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我看到很多站在他们边上的人等着看是不是会投不中,
然后冲上去但是已经太晚,
16:45
then they go and it's too late, somebody else is in there ahead of them.
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已经有人抢先一步了。
16:50
They weren't very quick, but they played good position,
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他们跑得也不是很快,但是他们能占在很好的位置,
16:52
kept in good balance.
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保持很好的平衡。
16:54
And so they played pretty good defense for us.
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所以他们为我们打了极其好的防守。
16:56
So they had qualities that -- they came close to --
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所以他们有那些素质——很接近——
16:59
as close to reaching possibly their full potential
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跟我曾经有过的
17:03
as any players I ever had.
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其他任何球员一样很接近他们的全部潜力所能为。
17:05
So I consider them to be as successful as Lewis Alcindor or Bill Walton,
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所以我认为他们
和贾巴尔或者比尔•沃顿,
17:12
or many of the others that we had;
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或者我们的很多其他球员一样成功——有一些很杰出——一些很优秀的球员。
17:13
there were some outstanding players.
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17:18
Have I rambled enough?
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我是不是神侃得够多了?
17:20
I was told that when he makes his appearance, I was supposed to shut up.
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在之前别人跟我说如果那个人(指主持)出现了的话,我就应该闭嘴了。
17:25
(Laughter)
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(大家笑)
17:26
(Applause)
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(鼓掌)
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