Who are you, really? The puzzle of personality | Brian Little | TED

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μ•„λž˜ μ˜λ¬Έμžλ§‰μ„ λ”λΈ”ν΄λ¦­ν•˜μ‹œλ©΄ μ˜μƒμ΄ μž¬μƒλ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.

λ²ˆμ—­: Jaewon Jung κ²€ν† : Gichung Lee
00:13
What an intriguing group of individuals you are ...
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ μ°Έ ν₯미둜운 μ§‘λ‹¨μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
00:17
to a psychologist.
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μ‹¬λ¦¬ν•™μžλ“€μ—κ²Œμš”.
00:18
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
00:20
I've had the opportunity over the last couple of days
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μ €λŠ” μ΅œκ·Όμ— μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„ 쀑 λͺ‡λͺ‡μ˜ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό 듀어보고
00:23
of listening in on some of your conversations
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό ꡐλ₯˜ν•˜λŠ”지 μ‚΄νŽ΄λ³Ό
00:26
and watching you interact with each other.
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기회λ₯Ό κ°€μ§ˆ 수 μžˆμ—ˆμ£ .
00:29
And I think it's fair to say, already,
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그리고 벌써 μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ 말할 수 μžˆμ„ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.
00:31
that there are 47 people in this audience,
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μ§€κΈˆ 이 μˆœκ°„ 관객뢄듀 쀑 47뢄이 μ œκ°€ 였늘 ν† λ‘ ν•˜λ € ν•˜λŠ”
00:37
at this moment,
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심리학적 증상을
00:39
displaying psychological symptoms I would like to discuss today.
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보이고 κ³„μ‹ λ‹€κ³ μš”.
00:43
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
00:44
And I thought you might like to know who you are.
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그리고 μ €λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„κ»˜μ„œ μ–΄λ–€ μ‚¬λžŒμΈμ§€ μ•Œκ³  μ‹Άμ–΄ν•œλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν–ˆμ§€μš”.
00:47
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
00:49
But instead of pointing at you,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ„ 지λͺ©ν•˜λŠ”
00:51
which would be gratuitous and intrusive,
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λΆˆν•„μš”ν•˜κ³  κ±°μŠ¬λ¦¬λŠ” 행동을 ν•˜κΈ° λ³΄λ‹€λŠ”
00:54
I thought I would tell you a few facts and stories,
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 슀슀둜의 λͺ¨μŠ΅μ„ 살짝 μ•Œμ•„μ±Œ 수 μžˆκ²Œλ”
00:57
in which you may catch a glimpse of yourself.
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λͺ‡ κ°€μ§€μ˜ 사싀과 이야기λ₯Ό λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦¬κ³ μž ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:02
I'm in the field of research known as personality psychology,
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μ €λŠ” 성격심리학이라고 ν•˜λŠ” λΆ„μ•Όλ₯Ό μ—°κ΅¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:06
which is part of a larger personality science
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신경세포뢀터 μ„œμˆ κ΅¬μ‘°κΉŒμ§€ 전체 μŠ€νŽ™νŠΈλŸΌμ„ λ³΄μ΄λŠ”
01:09
which spans the full spectrum, from neurons to narratives.
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μ„±κ²©κ³Όν•™μ˜ 일뢀이죠.
01:15
And what we try to do,
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그리고 저희 λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ
01:17
in our own way,
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ν•˜λ €κ³  ν•˜λŠ” 것은
01:19
is to make sense of how each of us --
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μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ 우리 각자, μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„ κ°μžκ°€
01:22
each of you --
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νŠΉμ •ν•œ κ΄€μ μ—μ„œ
01:24
is, in certain respects,
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λ‹€λ₯Έ λͺ¨λ“  μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό
01:26
like all other people,
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λ‹€λ₯Έ λͺ‡λͺ‡ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό 같은지
01:28
like some other people
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ κ·Έ λˆ„κ΅¬μ™€λ„ 같지 μ•Šμ€μ§€
01:31
and like no other person.
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μ΄ν•΄μ‹œν‚€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:34
Now, already you may be saying of yourself,
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μ§€κΈˆ, 이미 μ–΄λ–€ 뢄은 μƒκ°ν•˜μ…¨μ„ κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
01:37
"I'm not intriguing.
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"λ‚œ ν₯미둜운 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ•„λ‹Œλ°.
01:41
I am the 46th most boring person in the Western Hemisphere."
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λ‚˜λŠ” μ„œμ–‘μ—μ„œ 46번째둜 μž¬λ―Έμ—†λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ•Ό."
01:47
Or you may say of yourself,
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ 이랬겠죠.
01:50
"I am intriguing,
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"λ‚˜λŠ” ν₯미둜운 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ•Ό.
01:53
even if I am regarded by most people as a great, thundering twit."
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λŒ€λΆ€λΆ„μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ ν›Œλ₯­ν•˜κ³  μœ λ³„λ‚œ 또라이라고 μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 말야."
01:57
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
01:58
But it is your self-diagnosed boringness and your inherent "twitiness"
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이건 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ ν‰κ°€ν•œ 지루함이고 μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ ν‰κ°€ν•œ 내적 "똘끼"μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:04
that makes me, as a psychologist, really fascinated by you.
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그런 μ μ—μ„œ μ €λŠ” μ‹¬λ¦¬ν•™μžλ‘œμ„œ μ •λ§λ‘œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ—κ²Œ λŒλ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:09
So let me explain why this is so.
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μ™œ κ·ΈλŸ°μ§€ μ„€λͺ…을 λ“œλ¦¬μ§€μš”.
02:12
One of the most influential approaches in personality science
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μ„±κ²©κ³Όν•™μ—μ„œ κ°€μž₯ 영ν–₯λ ₯μžˆλŠ” 접근법은
02:16
is known as trait psychology,
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νŠΉμ„± 심리학이라고 μ•Œλ €μ Έ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:18
and it aligns you along five dimensions which are normally distributed,
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νŠΉμ„± 심리학은 μ •κ·œλΆ„ν¬λœ 5μ°¨μ›μœΌλ‘œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ„ λΆ„λ₯˜ν•˜κ³ 
02:23
and that describe universally held aspects of difference between people.
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그것이 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€ κ°„μ˜ 차이에 λŒ€ν•œ 전세계적 관점을 λ¬˜μ‚¬ν•΄μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:31
They spell out the acronym OCEAN.
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이λ₯Ό μ€„μ—¬μ„œ OCEAN이라고 λΆ€λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:34
So, "O" stands for "open to experience,"
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"O"λŠ” "κ²½ν—˜μ— μ—΄λ €μžˆλ‹€"λΌλŠ” λœ»μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:37
versus those who are more closed.
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더 폐쇄적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³ΌλŠ” λ°˜λŒ€λ˜λŠ” κ°œλ…μ΄μ£ .
02:39
"C" stands for "conscientiousness,"
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"C"λŠ” "성싀함"을 λœ»ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
02:42
in contrast to those with a more lackadaisical approach to life.
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삢에 νƒœλ§Œν•œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³ΌλŠ” λŒ€μ‘°λ˜λŠ” 것이죠.
02:46
"E" -- "extroversion," in contrast to more introverted people.
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"E", "μ™Έν–₯μ μž„"은 λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό λ°˜λŒ€λ˜κ³ 
02:51
"A" -- "agreeable individuals,"
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"A", "잘 λ°›μ•„λ“€μ΄λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€"은
02:53
in contrast to those decidedly not agreeable.
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μ˜μ‹μ μœΌλ‘œ 잘 λ”°λ₯΄μ§€ μ•ŠλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό λ°˜λŒ€μ΄κ³ 
02:57
And "N" -- "neurotic individuals,"
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"N", "μ‹ κ²½μ§ˆμ μΈ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€"κ³Ό λ°˜λŒ€λŠ” 더 μ•ˆμ •μ μΈ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄μ£ .
03:00
in contrast to those who are more stable.
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03:04
All of these dimensions have implications for our well-being,
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이 λͺ¨λ“  차원듀은 우리의 μ‚Άμ˜ μ§ˆμ— μ‹œμ‚¬ν•˜λŠ” λ°”κ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:07
for how our life goes.
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우리의 삢이 μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν˜λŸ¬κ°ˆμ§€μ— λŒ€ν•΄μ„œλ„μš”.
03:10
And so we know that, for example,
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그리고 예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄
03:13
openness and conscientiousness are very good predictors of life success,
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개방적이고 μ„±μ‹€ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” 것은 성곡을 μ˜ˆμΈ‘ν•˜κΈ°μ— μ•„μ£Ό 쒋은 μš”μ†Œμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€
03:18
but the open people achieve that success through being audacious
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 개방적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ λ»”λ»”ν•˜κ±°λ‚˜, μ΄μƒν•˜κ²Œ ν–‰λ™ν•˜λ©°
03:23
and, occasionally, odd.
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μ„±κ³΅ν•˜κΈ°λ„ ν•˜μ£ .
03:26
The conscientious people achieve it through sticking to deadlines,
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μ„±μ‹€ν•œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ κΈ°ν•œμ„ 잘 μ§€μΌœλ‚˜κ°€λ©° μ„±κ³΅ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:30
to persevering, as well as having some passion.
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열정을 가지고 μΈλ‚΄ν•˜λ©΄μ„œμš”.
03:35
Extroversion and agreeableness are both conducive
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μ™Έν–₯μ„±κ³Ό 이해심은 λ‘˜λ‹€
03:39
to working well with people.
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μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό ν˜‘λ ₯ν•˜λŠ”λ° 도움이 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:42
Extroverts, for example, I find intriguing.
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€, 예λ₯Όλ“€μ–΄, ν₯λ―Έλ‘­μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:45
With my classes, I sometimes give them a basic fact
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제 μˆ˜μ—…μ—μ„œ μ €λŠ” 가끔씩 κ·Έλ“€μ—κ²Œ κ·Έλ“€μ˜ 성격과 κ΄€λ ¨λœ
03:48
that might be revealing with respect to their personality:
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ν₯미둜운 사싀을 λ“œλŸ¬λ‚΄λŠ” 기본적인 사싀을 μ•Œλ €μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
03:52
I tell them that it is virtually impossible for adults
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μ–΄λ₯Έλ“€μ€ 사싀상 νŒ”κΏˆμΉ˜λ₯Ό ν•₯λŠ” 것이
03:57
to lick the outside of their own elbow.
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λΆˆκ°€λŠ₯ν•˜λ‹€κ³ μš”.
04:01
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
04:02
Did you know that?
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μ•Œκ³ κ³„μ…¨μ–΄μš”?
04:05
Already, some of you have tried to lick the outside of your own elbow.
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이미 μ—¬κΈ°μ„œ λͺ‡λͺ‡λΆ„듀은 νŒ”κΏˆμΉ˜λ₯Ό ν•₯으렀고 ν•˜μ…¨μ„ κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:09
But extroverts amongst you
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ—¬κΈ° μ™Έν–₯적이신 λΆ„λ“€ μ€‘μ—λŠ”
04:11
are probably those who have not only tried,
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μ•„λ§ˆ μžμ‹ μ˜ νŒ”κΏˆμΉ˜λ₯Ό ν•₯으렀 ν–ˆμ„ 뿐 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ
04:14
but they have successfully licked the elbow
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μ˜†μžλ¦¬μ— μ•‰μ•„μžˆλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ νŒ”κΏˆμΉ˜λ₯Ό
04:16
of the person sitting next to them.
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μ„±κ³΅μ μœΌλ‘œ ν•₯μœΌμ‹  뢄이 μžˆμ„ κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:18
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
04:19
Those are the extroverts.
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그듀은 μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:21
Let me deal in a bit more detail with extroversion,
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μ™Έν–₯μ„±κ³Ό κ΄€λ ¨ν•˜μ—¬ 더 μžμ„Έν•˜κ²Œ λ‹€λ€„λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:24
because it's consequential and it's intriguing,
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μ™œλƒλ©΄ 이건 μ€‘μš”ν•˜κ³  μž¬λ°ŒμœΌλ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
04:27
and it helps us understand what I call our three natures.
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그리고 μ΄λŠ” μ œκ°€ μ„Έ 가지 본성이라 λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” 것을 이해할 수 있게 ν•΄μ€λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:31
First, our biogenic nature -- our neurophysiology.
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첫 번째둜, 우리의 생물학적인 λ³Έμ„± (μ‹ κ²½ 심리학)
04:34
Second, our sociogenic or second nature,
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두 번째, 우리의 μ‚¬νšŒμ  λ˜λŠ” 두 번째 λ³Έμ„±
04:38
which has to do with the cultural and social aspects of our lives.
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우리 μ‚Άμ˜ λ¬Έν™” 및 μ‚¬νšŒμ  관점과 관련이 있죠.
04:42
And third, what makes you individually you -- idiosyncratic --
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그리고 μ„Έ 번째, 당신을 λ‹Ήμ‹ μœΌλ‘œ λ§Œλ“€μ–΄ μ£ΌλŠ” 것(νŠΉμ΄μ„±)
04:50
what I call your "idiogenic" nature.
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μ œκ°€ λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ νŠΉμˆ˜ν•œ 본성이라 λΆ€λ₯΄λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:53
Let me explain.
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μ„€λͺ… λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
04:56
One of the things that characterizes extroverts is they need stimulation.
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ νŠΉμ§• 쀑에 ν•˜λ‚˜λŠ” 자극이 ν•„μš”ν•˜λ‹€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:00
And that stimulation can be achieved by finding things that are exciting:
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그리고 이 μžκ·Ήμ€ ν₯λΆ„λ˜λŠ” 일을 찾음으둜써 성취될 수 있죠.
05:05
loud noises, parties and social events here at TED --
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μ‹œλ„λŸ¬μš΄ μ†Œλ¦¬λ‚˜ νŒŒν‹°, μ—¬κΈ° TEDμ—μ„œ μ—΄λ¦¬λŠ” 행사같은 κ²ƒλ“€μ΄μš”.
05:09
you see the extroverts forming a magnetic core.
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그리고 이듀이 자기 μ½”μ–΄λ₯Ό μƒμ‚°ν•˜λŠ”κ±Έ λ³Ό 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:13
They all gather together.
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μ„œλ‘œ λͺ¨μ΄κ²Œ 되죠.
05:14
And I've seen you.
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μ €λŠ” 이런 뢄듀을 λ³Έ 적이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:16
The introverts are more likely to spend time in the quiet spaces
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ μ‘°μš©ν•œ κ³΅κ°„μ—μ„œ μ‹œκ°„μ„ μ¦κΈ°λŠ” νŠΉμ„±μ„ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:19
up on the second floor,
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2측정도 λ˜λŠ”
05:21
where they are able to reduce stimulation --
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μžκ·Ήμ„ 쀄일 수 μžˆλŠ” 곳이고
05:25
and may be misconstrued as being antisocial,
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λ°˜μ‚¬νšŒμ μΈ 양상을 보인닀 μ˜€ν•΄λ°›μ„ 수 μžˆλŠ” κ³³μ΄μ§€λ§Œ
05:29
but you're not necessarily antisocial.
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λ°˜λ“œμ‹œ λ°˜μ‚¬νšŒμ μΈ 것은 μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€..
05:33
It may be that you simply realize that you do better
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κ·Έμ € μžκ·Ήμ„ 쀄일 수 μžˆλŠ” κΈ°νšŒκ°€ μžˆμ„ λ•Œ
05:37
when you have a chance to lower that level of stimulation.
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더 쒋은 μ„±κ³Όλ₯Ό λ‚Έλ‹€λŠ” 것을 μ•Œ λΏμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:42
Sometimes it's an internal stimulant, from your body.
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λ•Œλ•Œλ‘œ μ΄λŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ λͺΈμ—μ„œ λ‚˜μ˜€λŠ” 내적 μžκ·Ήμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
05:47
Caffeine, for example, works much better with extroverts than it does introverts.
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ μΉ΄νŽ˜μΈμ€ λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ³΄λ‹€ μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ 더 잘 μž‘μš©λ˜μ£ .
05:52
When extroverts come into the office at nine o'clock in the morning
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ μ•„μΉ¨ 9μ‹œμ— 컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ‹œλ €κ³  λ‚˜μ™€μ„œ
05:55
and say, "I really need a cup of coffee,"
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"λ‚˜λŠ” 정말 컀피가 ν•„μš”ν•΄"라고 말할 λ•Œ
05:58
they're not kidding --
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그듀은 λ†λ‹΄ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ
05:59
they really do.
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정말 ν•„μš”ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:01
Introverts do not do as well,
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μ•ˆν•˜μ£ .
06:03
particularly if the tasks they're engaged in --
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특히, 그듀이 μ†Œμ†λœ 업무λ₯Ό μ²˜λ¦¬ν•˜λŠ”λ° μžˆμ–΄μ„œ
06:06
and they've had some coffee --
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컀피λ₯Ό λ§ˆμ…¨μ„ λ•Œ
06:08
if those tasks are speeded,
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업무 처리 속도λ₯Ό 재고
06:10
and if they're quantitative,
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μ²˜λ¦¬ν•œ μ—…λ¬΄μ˜ 양을 μΈ‘μ •ν•œλ‹€λ©΄
06:12
introverts may give the appearance of not being particularly quantitative.
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 그닀지 λ§Žμ€ 양을 μ²˜λ¦¬ν•˜μ§€ λͺ»ν•œ 인상을 쀄 수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:17
But it's a misconstrual.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 이것은 μ˜€ν•΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:19
So here are the consequences that are really quite intriguing:
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여기에 κ½€λ‚˜ ν₯미둜운 결과듀이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:22
we're not always what seem to be,
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ³΄μ—¬μ§€λŠ” λͺ¨μŠ΅λ§ŒμœΌλ‘œ μ •μ˜λ˜μ§€ μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:24
and that takes me to my next point.
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그게 μ €μ˜ 두 번째 포인트죠.
06:28
I should say, before getting to this,
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λ“€μ–΄κ°€κΈ° 전에
06:30
something about sexual intercourse,
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μ €λŠ” 성관계에 λŒ€ν•΄μ„œ 이야기λ₯Ό 해보렀 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:33
although I may not have time.
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비둝 μ‹œκ°„μ΄ λΆ€μ‘±ν•  수 μžˆκ² μ§€λ§Œμš”.
06:35
And so, if you would like me to --
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ, μ œκ°€ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„λ“€μ—κ²Œ..
06:38
yes, you would?
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λ„€, κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ ν•˜μ‹œκ² λ‹€κ³ μš”?
06:39
OK.
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μ•Œκ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:40
(Laughter)
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06:41
There are studies done
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여기에 개개인이
06:43
on the frequency with which individuals engage in the conjugal act,
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남녀, λ‚΄/μ™Έν–₯적 λ“±μ˜ μš”μΈμ— 따라 개인의 뢀뢀관계 λΉˆλ„μ— λŒ€ν•œ
06:49
as broken down by male, female; introvert, extrovert.
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연ꡬ듀이 μ΄λ£¨μ–΄μ‘ŒμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:53
So I ask you:
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μ—¬μ­€λ³΄κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
06:54
How many times per minute --
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λΆ„λ‹Ή λͺ‡λ²ˆμ”©,
06:57
oh, I'm sorry, that was a rat study --
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μ•„ μ£„μ†‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€. μ₯ μ‹€ν—˜μ΄μ—ˆλ„€μš”.
06:59
(Laughter)
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07:02
How many times per month
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ν•œ 달에 λͺ‡λ²ˆμ”©
07:06
do introverted men engage in the act?
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 λ‚¨μžκ°€ 뢀뢀관계λ₯Ό ν• κΉŒμš”?
07:10
3.0.
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3λ²ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:11
Extroverted men?
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μ™Έν–₯적인 λ‚¨μžλŠ”μš”?
07:13
More or less?
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λ”ν• κΉŒμš” λœν• κΉŒμš”?
07:15
Yes, more.
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λ„€, λ”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:17
5.5 -- almost twice as much.
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5.5번, 거의 λ‘λ°°λ‚˜ 되죠.
07:21
Introverted women: 3.1.
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ—¬μžλŠ”, 3.1λ²ˆμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:23
Extroverted women?
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ—¬μžλŠ”μš”?
07:25
Frankly, speaking as an introverted male,
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사싀, λ‚΄ν–₯적인 λ‚¨μžλ‘œμ„œ λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦¬μžλ©΄
07:28
which I will explain later --
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λ‚˜μ€‘μ— μ„€λͺ…λ“œλ¦¬κ² μ§€λ§Œ
07:30
they are heroic.
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거의 μ˜μ›…μ²˜λŸΌ λ³΄μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:32
7.5.
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7.5λ²ˆμΈλ°μš”.
07:35
They not only handle all the male extroverts,
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그듀은 μ™Έν–₯적인 λ‚¨μžλ“€μ„ λ‹€λ£° 뿐 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ
07:38
they pick up a few introverts as well.
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 λ‚¨μžλ“€λ„ λͺ‡λͺ… κ³ λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
07:40
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
07:42
(Applause)
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(λ°•μˆ˜)
07:48
We communicate differently, extroverts and introverts.
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒκ³Ό μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ€ λ‹€λ₯Έ λ°©μ‹μœΌλ‘œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό ν•˜μ£ .
07:54
Extroverts, when they interact,
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ ꡐλ₯˜ν•  λ•Œ
07:56
want to have lots of social encounter punctuated by closeness.
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μΉœλ°€κ°μœΌλ‘œ ν˜•μ„±λœ μ‚¬νšŒμ  λ§Œλ‚¨μ΄ λ§Žμ•„μ§€κΈΈ λ°”λžλ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:00
They'd like to stand close for comfortable communication.
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νŽΈμ•ˆν•œ λŒ€ν™”λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ κ°€κΉŒμ΄ μ„œλŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:04
They like to have a lot of eye contact,
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μ‹œμ„ μ„ 자주 λ§ˆμ£ΌμΉ˜κ±°λ‚˜
08:06
or mutual gaze.
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μ„œλ‘œ μ‘μ‹œν•˜λŠ” 것을 μ’‹μ•„ν•˜μ£ .
08:09
We found in some research
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연ꡬ 결과에 λ”°λ₯΄λ©΄
08:10
that they use more diminutive terms when they meet somebody.
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그듀은 λˆ„κ΅°κ°€λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚¬μ„ λ•Œ κ°„λž΅ν•œ 말을 더 즐겨 μ‚¬μš©ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:13
So when an extrovert meets a Charles,
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 찰슀λ₯Ό λ§Œλ‚  λ•Œ
08:16
it rapidly becomes "Charlie," and then "Chuck,"
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금방 μ°°μŠ€λŠ” "찰리"κ°€ 되고 "μ²™"이 되죠,
08:19
and then "Chuckles Baby."
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그리고 "처클슀 베이비"κ°€ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:21
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
08:23
Whereas for introverts,
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λ°˜λ©΄μ— λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ—κ²
08:24
it remains "Charles," until he's given a pass to be more intimate
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λŒ€ν™”μƒλŒ€μ˜ μΉœλ°€κ°μ— λŒ€ν•œ ν—ˆλ½ μ—†μ΄λŠ”
08:29
by the person he's talking to.
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계속 "찰슀"둜 λ‚¨κ²Œ λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:32
We speak differently.
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” λ‹€λ₯΄κ²Œ λ§ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:36
Extroverts prefer black-and-white, concrete, simple language.
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μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ 흑백논리와 κ°•κ²½ν•˜κ³  κ°„λ‹¨ν•œ μ–Έμ–΄λ₯Ό 즐기죠.
08:43
Introverts prefer -- and I must again tell you
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μ €λŠ” μ •λ§λ‘œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„λ“€μ΄ 상상할 수 없을 μ •λ„λ‘œ
08:47
that I am as extreme an introvert as you could possibly imagine --
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μ—„μ²­λ‚˜κ²Œ λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμœΌλ‘œμ„œ, λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ€
08:52
we speak differently.
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λŒ€ν™” 방식이 λ‹€λ¦…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
08:54
We prefer contextually complex,
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μ €ν¬λŠ” λ§₯락상 λ³΅μž‘ν•œκ±Έ μ„ ν˜Έν•˜μ£ .
08:58
contingent,
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쑰건에 따라 달라지고
09:00
weasel-word sentences --
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μ• λ§€ν•œ 말듀이 λ“€μ–΄κ°„ λ¬Έμž₯μ„μš”.
09:02
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
09:03
More or less.
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'λ‹€μ†Œ'μ²˜λŸΌμš”.
09:05
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
09:06
As it were.
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'λ§ν•˜μžλ©΄'μ²˜λŸΌμš”.
09:08
(Laughter)
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09:09
Not to put too fine a point upon it --
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'λ‹¨λ„μ§μž…μ μœΌλ‘œ λ§ν•΄μ„œ'
09:11
like that.
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그런 거 말이죠.
09:13
When we talk,
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 말할 λ•Œ
09:15
we sometimes talk past each other.
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가끔 μ„œλ‘œ μ—‡λ‚˜κ°€λ©΄μ„œ λŒ€ν™”ν•  λ•Œκ°€ 있죠.
09:17
I had a consulting contract I shared with a colleague
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μ €λŠ” ν•œ λ™λ£Œμ™€ ν•¨κ»˜ν•œ 상담 계약이 μžˆμ—ˆμ£ 
09:20
who's as different from me as two people can possibly be.
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μ„œλ‘œ κ·Ήκ³Ό 극이라고 ν•  수 μžˆμ„ μ •λ„λ‘œ κ·ΈλŠ” 저와 λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:23
First, his name is Tom.
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첫 번째둜 그의 이름은 ν†°μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:26
Mine isn't.
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μ €λŠ” μ•„λ‹ˆκ³ μš”.
09:27
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
09:29
Secondly, he's six foot five.
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λ‘˜μ§Έλ‘œ κ·ΈλŠ” 2λ―Έν„° 정도 λ©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:30
I have a tendency not to be.
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μ €λŠ” κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ μžλΌμ§„ μ•Šμ€ κ²½ν–₯이 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:32
(Laughter)
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09:34
And thirdly, he's as extroverted a person as you could find.
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μ„Έ 번째둜 κ·ΈλŠ” μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 찾을 수 μžˆλŠ” κ°€μž₯ μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄μ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:37
I am seriously introverted.
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μ €λŠ” μ—„μ²­λ‚˜κ²Œ λ‚΄ν–₯μ μ΄κ³ μš”.
09:40
I overload so much,
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μ €λŠ” 쑰금 μ‹¬ν•œκ²Œ
09:42
I can't even have a cup of coffee after three in the afternoon
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μ €λŠ” 밀에 μž μ— λ“€ 수 μžˆλ„λ‘ 3μ‹œ 이후에 컀피 ν•œ μž”
09:47
and expect to sleep in the evening.
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λ§ˆμ‹€ μˆ˜λ„ ν•  수 μ—†μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:50
We had seconded to this project a fellow called Michael.
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λ§ˆμ΄ν΄μ΄λΌλŠ” 뢄이 저희와 ν•¨κ»˜ 이 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈλ‘œ 파견근무λ₯Ό λ‚˜μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
09:55
And Michael almost brought the project to a crashing halt.
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λ§ˆμ΄ν΄μ€ ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈλ₯Ό 거의 μ€‘λ‹¨μ‹œν‚¬ λ»”ν–ˆμ£ .
10:00
So the person who seconded him asked Tom and me,
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λ§ˆμ΄ν΄μ„ νŒŒκ²¬μ‹œν‚¨ 뢄이 ν†°κ³Ό μ €μ—κ²Œ λ¬Όμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:05
"What do you make of Michael?"
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"λ§ˆμ΄ν΄μ— λŒ€ν•΄ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ μƒκ°ν•˜μ„Έμš”?"
10:06
Well, I'll tell you what Tom said in a minute.
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μ €λŠ” κ·Έ λ‹Ήμ‹œ 톰이 λ°”λ‘œ λ‹΅ν•œ λ‚΄μš©μ„ 곧 λ§μ”€λ“œλ¦¬κ² μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:09
He spoke in classic "extrovert-ese."
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κ·ΈλŠ” "μ™Έν–₯적 μ„±ν–₯"의 μ „ν˜•μ²˜λŸΌ μ΄μ•ΌκΈ°ν–ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:11
And here is how extroverted ears heard what I said,
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그리고 μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 듀은 제 말은 이랬죠.
10:15
which is actually pretty accurate.
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사싀 κ½€ μ •ν™•ν•œ λ‚΄μš©μ΄μ—ˆμ–΄μš”.
10:17
I said, "Well Michael does have a tendency at times
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μ €λŠ” "λ§ˆμ΄ν΄μ€ 가끔씩 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 보기에
10:22
of behaving in a way that some of us might see
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보톡 μš”κ΅¬λ˜λŠ” 정도 λ³΄λ‹€λŠ” μ•„λ§ˆ μ’€ 더 자기주μž₯이 κ°•ν•˜κ²Œ ν–‰λ™ν•˜λŠ”
10:26
as perhaps more assertive than is normally called for."
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κ²½ν–₯이 μžˆλŠ” 것 κ°™μ•„."
10:30
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
10:33
Tom rolled his eyes and he said,
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톰은 λˆˆμ„ κ΅΄λ¦¬λ©΄μ„œ λ§ν•˜λ”κ΅°μš”.
10:35
"Brian, that's what I said:
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"내말이! λΈŒλΌμ΄μ–Έ
10:38
he's an asshole!"
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머리에 λ“ κ²Œ μ—†λ‹€λ‹ˆκΉŒ!"
10:40
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
10:42
(Applause)
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(λ°•μˆ˜)
10:45
Now, as an introvert,
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμœΌλ‘œμ„œ
10:46
I might gently allude to certain "assholic" qualities
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μ €λŠ” κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ˜ ν–‰λ™μ—μ„œ λ³΄μ΄λŠ” νŠΉμ •ν•œ "λͺ¨μžλžŒ"을
10:52
in this man's behavior,
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λ„Œμ§€μ‹œ μ•”μ‹œν•˜λ©° μ§€μΉ­ν•˜μ£ .
10:53
but I'm not going to lunge for the a-word.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ 직ꡬλ₯Ό λ‚ λ¦¬μ§€λŠ” μ•ŠμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
10:56
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
10:59
But the extrovert says,
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반면, μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ€ μ΄λ ‡κ²Œ λ§ν•˜μ£ .
11:00
"If he walks like one, if he talks like one, I call him one."
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"κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ λ³΄μ—¬μ£ΌλŠ” λŒ€λ‘œ κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ 뢈러."
11:03
And we go past each other.
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그리고 μ„œλ‘œ μ§€λ‚˜μ³ λ²„λ¦½λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:05
Now is this something that we should be heedful of?
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이것이 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 주의λ₯Ό κΈ°μšΈμΌλ§Œν•œ κ²ƒμΌκΉŒμš”?
11:09
Of course.
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λ‹Ήμ—°ν•˜μ£ .
11:10
It's important that we know this.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 이걸 μ•ˆλ‹€λŠ” 건 μ€‘μš”ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:12
Is that all we are?
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이게 우리의 μ „λΆ€μΌκΉŒμš”?
11:14
Are we just a bunch of traits?
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μš°λ¦¬λŠ” κ·Έμ € νŠΉμ„± λ©μ–΄λ¦¬μΌκΉŒμš”?
11:17
No, we're not.
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μ•„λ‹ˆμ£ .
11:20
Remember, you're like some other people
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κΈ°μ–΅ν•˜μ„Έμš”, μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ λˆ„κ΅°κ°€μ™€ κ°™μœΌλ©΄μ„œλ„
11:23
and like no other person.
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κ·Έ λˆ„κ΅¬μ™€λ„ λ‹€λ₯΄μ£ .
11:25
How about that idiosyncratic you?
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κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ νŠΉμ΄ν•œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ–΄λ•Œμš”?
11:28
As Elizabeth or as George,
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μ—˜λ¦¬μžλ² μŠ€λ‚˜ μ‘°μ§€μ²˜λŸΌ
11:31
you may share your extroversion or your neuroticism.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ μ™Έν–₯μ„±μ΄λ‚˜ λ…Έμ΄λ‘œμ œλ₯Ό κ³΅μœ ν•  수 μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:36
But are there some distinctively Elizabethan features of your behavior,
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ μ—˜λ¦¬μžλ² μŠ€λ‚˜
11:40
or Georgian of yours,
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μ‘°μ§€μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ νŠΉμ„±μ€‘μ—μ„œλ„
11:43
that make us understand you better than just a bunch of traits?
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μ—¬λŸ¬ νŠΉμ„±λ“€λ³΄λ‹€ 특히 당신을 더 잘 이해할 수 있게 ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μžˆλ‚˜μš”?
11:48
That make us love you?
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ„ μ‚¬λž‘ν•˜κ²Œλ” ν•˜λŠ” 것이 μžˆλ‚˜μš”?
11:51
Not just because you're a certain type of person.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ μ–΄λ–€ νƒ€μž…μ˜ μ‚¬λžŒμ΄λž€ 것 λ•Œλ¬Έλ§Œμ΄ μ•„λ‹™λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:55
I'm uncomfortable putting people in pigeonholes.
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μ €λŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ„ μš°νŽΈν•¨(λΉ„λ‘˜κΈ°μ§‘)에 넣듯이 λΆ„λ₯˜ν•˜λŠ” 것이 λΆˆνŽΈν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
11:59
I don't even think pigeons belong in pigeonholes.
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λΉ„λ‘˜κΈ°λ“€μ‘°μ°¨ λΉ„λ‘˜κΈ°μ§‘μ— μ†ν•œλ‹€κ³  μƒκ°ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ•„μš”.
12:03
So what is it that makes us different?
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κ·Έλ ‡λ‹€λ©΄ 우리λ₯Ό λ‹€λ₯΄κ²Œ λ§Œλ“œλŠ” 것은 λ¬΄μ—‡μΌκΉŒμš”?
12:06
It's the doings that we have in our life -- the personal projects.
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μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μ‚΄λ©΄μ„œ ν•˜λŠ” ν–‰μœ„ 개인의 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:11
You have a personal project right now,
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μ§€κΈˆ λ‹Ήμž₯ 개인 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈλ₯Ό 가지고 κ³„μ‹œμ§€λ§Œ
12:13
but nobody may know it here.
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μ—¬κΈ° λ‹€λ₯Έ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ λͺ¨λ₯Ό 수 μžˆμ–΄μš”.
12:17
It relates to your kid --
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ 아이와 κ΄€λ ¨μžˆμ„ μˆ˜λ„ μžˆλŠ”λ°
12:19
you've been back three times to the hospital,
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3λ²ˆμ΄λ‚˜ 병원에 λ°λ €κ°”λŠ”λ°λ„
12:21
and they still don't know what's wrong.
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원인이 뭔지 μ•Œ 수 없을 λ•Œκ°€ μžˆμ–΄μš”.
12:25
Or it could be your mom.
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μ•„λ‹ˆλ©΄ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ˜ μ–΄λ¨Έλ‹ˆ λ•Œλ¬ΈμΌμˆ˜λ„
12:28
And you'd been acting out of character.
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ΄ 성격과 λ‹€λ₯΄κ²Œ ν–‰λ™ν•΄μ„œ 일 μˆ˜λ„ μžˆμ–΄μš”.
12:30
These are free traits.
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자유둜운 νŠΉμ„±λ“€μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:33
You're very agreeable, but you act disagreeably
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μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ μ—΄λ €μžˆμ§€λ§Œ λ™μ˜ν•˜μ§€ μ•Šμ„ λ•Œλ„ 있죠.
12:36
in order to break down those barriers of administrative torpor
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λ³‘μ›μ—μ„œ ν–‰μ •μ ˆμ°¨λ‘œ 무기λ ₯ν•˜κ²Œ λ§Œλ“œλŠ” κ·Έ 벽듀을 λ¬΄λ„ˆλœ¨λ¦¬κΈ° μœ„ν•΄μ„œ λ§μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:40
in the hospital,
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12:41
to get something for your mom or your child.
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λ‹Ήμ‹ μ˜ μ–΄λ¨Έλ‹ˆλ‚˜ 아이λ₯Ό μœ„ν•΄ 무언가 ꡬ해내기 μœ„ν•΄μ„œμš”.
12:45
What are these free traits?
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이 자유둜운 νŠΉμ„±λ“€μ΄λž€ λ­˜κΉŒμš”?
12:47
They're where we enact a script
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이건 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ 우리 μ‚Άμ˜
12:49
in order to advance a core project in our lives.
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핡심 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈλ₯Ό λ°œμ „μ‹œν‚€κΈ° μœ„ν•΄ λŒ€λ³Έμ„ μ—°κΈ°ν•˜λŠ” μž₯μ†Œμ΄κ³ 
12:53
And they are what matters.
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μ€‘μš”ν•œ κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
12:55
Don't ask people what type you are;
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λ‚¨λ“€μ—κ²Œ μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„μ€ μ–΄λ–€ νƒ€μž…μ΄λƒκ³  묻지 λ§ˆμ„Έμš”.
12:58
ask them, "What are your core projects in your life?"
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"μ—¬λŸ¬λΆ„ 삢에 μžˆμ–΄ 핡심 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈλ“€μ€ λ¬΄μ—‡μΈκ°€μš”?"라고 λ¬Όμ–΄λ³΄μ„Έμš”.
13:01
And we enact those free traits.
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그것이 자유둜운 νŠΉμ„±λ“€μ„ λ§Œλ“€μ£ .
13:03
I'm an introvert,
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μ „ λ‚΄ν–₯μ μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:04
but I have a core project, which is to profess.
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” κ°€λ₯΄μΉ¨μ΄λΌλŠ” 핡심 ν”„λ‘œμ νŠΈκ°€ μžˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:09
I'm a professor.
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μ €λŠ” κ΅μˆ˜μž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:11
And I adore my students,
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제 학생듀을 μ‚¬λž‘ν•˜μ£ .
13:15
and I adore my field.
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제 학문을 μ‚¬λž‘ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:16
And I can't wait to tell them about what's new, what's exciting,
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μ €λŠ” ν•™μƒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ–΄λ–€ 것이 μƒˆλ‘­κ³  μ–΄λ–€ 것이 ν₯λ―Έλ‘œμš΄μ§€
13:23
what I can't wait to tell them about.
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기닀리기 νž˜λ“  것듀을 κ°€λŠ₯ν•œ 빨리 말해주고 μ‹Άμ–΄μš”.
13:25
And so I act in an extroverted way,
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ μ €λŠ” μ™Έν–₯적으둜 ν–‰λ™ν•˜μ£ .
13:27
because at eight in the morning,
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μ™œλƒλ©΄ μ•„μΉ¨ μ—¬λŸμ‹œλŠ”
13:29
the students need a little bit of humor,
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ν•™μƒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μ•½κ°„μ˜ μœ λ¨Έκ°€ ν•„μš”ν•  λ•Œκ³ 
13:31
a little bit of engagement to keep them going
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κ³΅λΆ€ν•˜λŠλΌ νž˜λ“€κ²Œ 보낼 ν•˜λ£¨λ₯Ό 계속해 λ‚˜κ°ˆ
13:34
in arduous days of study.
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μ•½κ°„μ˜ 동기뢀여가 ν•„μš”ν•˜λ‹ˆκΉŒμš”.
13:36
But we need to be very careful
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ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μž₯기간에 걸쳐 성격과 λ§žμ§€ μ•Šκ²Œ
13:38
when we act protractedly out of character.
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행동을 ν•  λ•ŒλŠ” 쑰심해야 ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:42
Sometimes we may find that we don't take care of ourselves.
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가끔씩 μš°λ¦¬κ°€ μŠ€μŠ€λ‘œμ—κ²Œ λ„ˆλ¬΄ μ†Œν™€ν•˜λ‹€κ³  λŠλ‚„ λ•Œκ°€ 생길 κ²λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:49
I find, for example, after a period of pseudo-extroverted behavior,
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예λ₯Ό λ“€μ–΄ μ €λŠ” κΎΈλ©°μ„œ μ™Έν–₯적으둜 ν–‰λ™ν•˜κ³  λ‚˜λ©΄
13:53
I need to repair somewhere on my own.
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μ–΄λ”˜κ°€μ—μ„œ 제 μžμ‹ μ„ μž¬μ •λΉ„ν•΄μ•Ό ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
13:57
As Susan Cain said in her "Quiet" book,
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μˆ˜μž” μΌ€μΈμ˜ "침묡"μ—λŠ”
14:01
in a chapter that featured the strange Canadian professor
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κ·Έλ‹Ήμ‹œ ν•˜λ²„λ“œμ—μ„œ 학생듀을 κ°€λ₯΄μΉ˜λ˜ μ΄μƒν•œ μΊλ‚˜λ‹€ ꡐ수λ₯Ό
14:04
who was teaching at the time at Harvard,
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닀룬 이야기가 μžˆλŠ”λ°
14:07
I sometimes go to the men's room
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μ €λŠ” 가끔 ν™”μž₯싀에 κ°€μ„œ
14:08
to escape the slings and arrows of outrageous extroverts.
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열광적인 μ™Έν–₯적 μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ˜ μ‹ λž„ν•œ κ³΅κ²©μœΌλ‘œλΆ€ν„° 도망가죠.
14:13
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
14:14
I remember one particular day when I was retired to a cubicle,
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μ €λŠ” ν™”μž₯μ‹€ 칸에 λ“€μ–΄κ°€
14:20
trying to avoid overstimulation.
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κ³Όλ„ν•œ μžκ·Ήμ—μ„œ λ²—μ–΄λ‚˜λ € μ• μ“°λ˜ κ·Έ μ–΄λ–€ 날을 κΈ°μ–΅ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:23
And a real extrovert came in beside me -- not right in my cubicle,
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그리고 정말 μ™Έν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 제 μ˜†μ— μ™”μŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€. 제 칸으둜 온 것은 μ•„λ‹ˆμ—ˆκ³ μš”.
14:28
but in the next cubicle over --
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제 μ˜† 칸으둜 λ“€μ–΄μ™”μ£ .
14:30
and I could hear various evacuatory noises,
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그리고 μ €λŠ” λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ λ‚™ν•˜ν•˜λ©΄μ„œ μƒκΈ°λŠ” μ†ŒμŒλ“€μ„ 듀을 수 μžˆμ—ˆμŠ΅λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:32
which we hate -- even our own,
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우리 μžμ‹ μ˜ 것이라도 μ‹«μ–΄ν•˜λŠ” κ·Έ μ†ŒμŒμ„μš”.
14:35
that's why we flush during as well as after.
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κ·Έλž˜μ„œ λλ‚˜κ³  뿐 μ•„λ‹ˆλΌ 쀑간에도 물을 λ‚΄λ¦¬μž–μ•„μš”.
14:37
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
14:40
And then I heard this gravelly voice saying,
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그리고 μ €λŠ” κ±Έκ±Έν•œ λͺ©μ†Œλ¦¬λ₯Ό λ“€μ—ˆμ£ .
14:44
"Hey, is that Dr. Little?"
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"리틀 λ°•μ‚¬λ‹˜μ΄μ„Έμš”?"
14:47
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
14:50
If anything is guaranteed to constipate an introvert for six months,
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λ‚΄ν–₯적인 μ‚¬λžŒμ΄ 변비에 걸리게 ν•˜λŠ” 보μž₯된 방법이 μžˆλ‹€λ©΄
14:57
it's talking on the john.
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λ°”λ‘œ ν™”μž₯μ‹€μ—μ„œ λ§μ‹œν‚€λŠ” κ²ƒμž…λ‹ˆλ‹€.
14:58
(Laughter)
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(μ›ƒμŒ)
15:00
That's where I'm going now.
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이제 그곳에 κ°€λ €κ³ μš”.
15:02
Don't follow me.
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μ €λ₯Ό λ”°λΌμ˜€μ§€ λ§ˆμ„Έμš”.
15:04
Thank you.
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κ°μ‚¬ν•©λ‹ˆλ‹€.
15:05
(Applause)
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(λ°•μˆ˜)
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