Peter Saul: Let's talk about dying

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Dengar, saya sungguh berpikir kembali
tentang bisakah saya membicarakan ini
kepada kalian semua, yang sangat bersemangat dan hidup.
Lalu saya teringat kutipan dari Gloria Steinem,
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Look, I had second thoughts, really,
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yang berbunyi,
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about whether I could talk about this
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"Kebenaran akan membebaskanmu,
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to such a vital and alive audience as you guys.
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tapi sebelumnya ia membuatmu kesal dulu." (Tawa)
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Then I remembered the quote from Gloria Steinem,
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Jadi -- (Tawa)
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which goes,
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"The truth will set you free,
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Dengan mengingat itu, saya akan mencoba
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but first it will piss you off." (Laughter)
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melakukan hal itu di sini,
dan membicarakan kematian di abad ke-21.
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So -- (Laughter)
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Hal pertama yang akan membuat Anda kesal
adalah fakta bahwa kita semua akan mati
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So with that in mind, I'm going to set about
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trying to do those things here,
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di abad ke-21.
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and talk about dying in the 21st century.
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Takkan ada pengecualian untuk itu.
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Now the first thing that will piss you off, undoubtedly,
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Rupanya, ada satu dari delapan orang dari kalian
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is that all of us are, in fact, going to die
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yang mengira dirinya abadi, menurut survei, tapi --
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in the 21st century.
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(Tawa)
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There will be no exceptions to that.
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Sayangnya, itu tidak akan terjadi.
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There are, apparently, about one in eight of you
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who think you're immortal, on surveys, but --
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Selama berbicara, 10 menit ke dapan,
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(Laughter)
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100 juta sel saya akan mati,
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Unfortunately, that isn't going to happen.
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dan sepanjang hari ini, 2.000 sel otak saya
akan mati dan tak pernah kembali,
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While I give this talk, in the next 10 minutes,
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a hundred million of my cells will die,
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jadi bisa dikatakan proses sekarat
dimulai cukup awal.
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and over the course of today, 2,000 of my brain cells
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Hal kedua mengenai kematian
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will die and never come back,
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di abad ke-21, selain ia akan dialami semua orang,
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so you could argue that the dying process
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ialah ia sedikit mirip kecelakaan kereta api
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starts pretty early in the piece.
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bagi sebagian besar kita,
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Anyway, the second thing I want to say about dying in the
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kecuali kita mencoba dan merebut kembali proses ini
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21st century, apart from it's going to happen to everybody,
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is it's shaping up to be a bit of a train wreck
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dari lintasan yang agak tak terhindarkan yang tengah berlangsung ini.
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for most of us,
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Jadi begitu. Itulah kebenarannya.
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unless we do something to try and reclaim this process
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Anda pasti kesal, tapi lihatlah
apa kami bisa membebaskan Anda. Saya tak menjanjikan apapun.
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from the rather inexorable trajectory that it's currently on.
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Saya bekerja di unit perawatan intensif,
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So there you go. That's the truth.
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dan saya pikir saya telah melewati masa kejayaan
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No doubt that will piss you off, and now let's see
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whether we can set you free. I don't promise anything.
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perawatan intensif. Jalan berliku, kawan.
Pengalaman fantastis.
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Now, as you heard in the intro, I work in intensive care,
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Ada mesin berbunyi ping.
Ada banyak mesin itu di sana.
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and I think I've kind of lived through the heyday
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Kami punya beberapa teknologi penyihir yang menurut saya
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of intensive care. It's been a ride, man.
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telah bekerja dengan sangat baik, dan sepanjang masa
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This has been fantastic.
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We have machines that go ping.
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kerja saya di UGD, angka kematian
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There's many of them up there.
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laki-laki di Australia telah berkurang separuh,
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And we have some wizard technology which I think
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dan ICU berhubungan dengan itu.
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has worked really well, and over the course of the time
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Tentu, banyak teknologi yang kami gunakan
juga berhubungan dengan itu.
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I've worked in intensive care, the death rate
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Kami mencapai kesuksesan luar biasa, dan kami agak
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for males in Australia has halved,
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and intensive care has had something to do with that.
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terjebak dalam kesuksesan kami sendiri,
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Certainly, a lot of the technologies that we use
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sampai kami mulai menggunakan istilah "menyelamatkan nyawa".
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have got something to do with that.
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So we have had tremendous success, and we kind of
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Sungguh, maafkan kami karena nyatanya
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got caught up in our own success quite a bit,
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kami tak melakukannya.
Yang kami lakukan ialah memperpanjang hidup seseorang,
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and we started using expressions like "lifesaving."
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dan menunda kematian,
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I really apologize to everybody for doing that,
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dan mengalihkan kematian, tapi kami tak bisa, tegasnya,
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because obviously, we don't.
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menyelamatkan nyawa secara permanen.
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What we do is prolong people's lives,
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and delay death,
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Apa yang terjadi selama periode waktu
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and redirect death, but we can't, strictly speaking,
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saya bekerja di unit perawatan intensif ialah
orang-orang yang hidupnya mulai kami selamatkan di tahun 70-an,
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save lives on any sort of permanent basis.
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And what's really happened over the period of time
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'80-an, dan '90-an, kini akan mati di abad ke-21
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that I've been working in intensive care is that
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the people whose lives we started saving back in the '70s,
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oleh penyakit yang kita tak lagi punya jawabannya
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'80s, and '90s, are now coming to die in the 21st century
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seperti waktu dulu.
Saat ini ada perubahan besar
dalam cara seseorang mati,
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of diseases that we no longer have the answers to
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dan penyebab kematiannya kini sering tak sejalan
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in quite the way we did then.
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dengan apa yang bisa kami lakukan seperti dulu
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So what's happening now is there's been a big shift
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saat saya bekerja di tahun 80-an dan 90-an.
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in the way that people die,
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and most of what they're dying of now isn't as amenable
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Jadi kami agak terjebak dengannya,
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to what we can do as what it used to be like
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dan kami belum benar-benar jujur dengan kalian tentang
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when I was doing this in the '80s and '90s.
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apa yang sungguh terjadi kini, dan sudah saatnya kami melakukannya.
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So we kind of got a bit caught up with this,
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and we haven't really squared with you guys about
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Saya agak terbangun di bagian ini di akhir tahun 90-an
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what's really happening now, and it's about time we did.
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ketika saya bertemu pria ini.
Pria ini bernama Jim, Jim Smith, dan dia terlihat seperti ini.
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I kind of woke up to this bit in the late '90s
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Saya dipanggil ke bangsal untuk menemuinya.
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when I met this guy.
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Dia yang tangannya kecil.
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This guy is called Jim, Jim Smith, and he looked like this.
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Saya diminta menemui Jim
oleh dokter respirologi.
Dokter berkata, “Ada seorang pria di sini.
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I was called down to the ward to see him.
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Dia sakit radang paru-paru,
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His is the little hand.
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dan sepertinya dia butuh perawatan intensif.
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I was called down to the ward to see him
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Putrinya di sini dan dia ingin segalanya
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by a respiratory physician.
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He said, "Look, there's a guy down here.
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bisa dilakukan.”
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He's got pneumonia,
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Ungkapan yang akrab di telinga kami.
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and he looks like he needs intensive care.
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Saya pergi ke bangsal menemui Jim,
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His daughter's here and she wants everything possible
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kulitnya tembus cahaya seperti ini.
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to be done."
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Anda bisa melihat tulangnya melalui kulit.
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Which is a familiar phrase to us.
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Dia kurus sekali,
dan dia jelas sakit radang paru-paru.
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So I go down to the ward and see Jim,
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and his skin his translucent like this.
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Dia terlalu sakit untuk bicara,
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You can see his bones through the skin.
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jadi saya bicara dengan putrinya Kathleen, dan saya katakan padanya,
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He's very, very thin,
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and he is, indeed, very sick with pneumonia,
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“Apakah kamu dan Jim pernah berbicara
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and he's too sick to talk to me,
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so I talk to his daughter Kathleen, and I say to her,
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tentang apa yang ingin kamu lakukan
jika dia berakhir di situasi seperti ini?"
Dan Kathleen menatap saya dan berkata, "Tidak, tentu saja tidak!"
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"Did you and Jim ever talk about
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Saya berpikir, "Baiklah. Pelan-pelan."
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what you would want done
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if he ended up in this kind of situation?"
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And she looked at me and said, "No, of course not!"
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Saya berbicara dengannya, dan tak lama, dia berkata,
"Anda tahu, kami selalu berpikir waktunya akan tiba."
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I thought, "Okay. Take this steady."
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Jim berusia 94 tahun. (Tawa)
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And I got talking to her, and after a while, she said to me,
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Dan saya sadar bahwa sesuatu tidak terjadi di sini.
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"You know, we always thought there'd be time."
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Tak ada dialog yang terjadi
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Jim was 94. (Laughter)
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seperti yang saya bayangkan tengah terjadi.
Jadi sekelompok dari kami mulai melakukan survei,
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And I realized that something wasn't happening here.
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dan kami meneliti di 4.500 panti jompo
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There wasn't this dialogue going on
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yang ada di Newcastle, di daerah Newcastle,
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that I imagined was happening.
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So a group of us started doing survey work,
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dan menemukan bahwa hanya satu dari 100 pasien yang merencanakan
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and we looked at four and a half thousand nursing home
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apa yang harus dilakukan saat jantung mereka berhenti berdetak.
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residents in Newcastle, in the Newcastle area,
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Satu dari seratus.
Dan hanya satu dari 500 pasien
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and discovered that only one in a hundred of them
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yang merencanakan apa yang harus dilakukan
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had a plan about what to do when their hearts stopped beating.
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jika mereka sakit parah.
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One in a hundred.
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Dan saya sadar, tentu saja, dialog ini
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And only one in 500 of them had plan about what to do
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pasti tidak terjadi di masyarakat luas.
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if they became seriously ill.
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Kini saya bekerja di perawatan akut.
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And I realized, of course, this dialogue
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Ini Rumah Sakit John Hunter.
Dan saya pikir, tentunya, kami melakukan lebih baik dari itu.
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is definitely not occurring in the public at large.
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Jadi, kolega saya dari keperawatan bernama Lisa Shaw dan saya
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Now, I work in acute care.
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This is John Hunter Hospital.
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membaca ratusan set catatan
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And I thought, surely, we do better than that.
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di departemen rekam medis
melihat apakah ada tanda sama sekali
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So a colleague of mine from nursing called Lisa Shaw and I
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bahwa seseorang pernah membicarakan tentang apa yang
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went through hundreds and hundreds of sets of notes
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bisa terjadi pada mereka jika perawatan
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in the medical records department
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yang mereka terima tak berhasil hingga mereka akan mati.
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looking at whether there was any sign at all
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Dan kami tak menemukan satu pun catatan preferensi tentang
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that anybody had had any conversation about
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what might happen to them if the treatment they were
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tujuan, perawatan, atau hasil dari
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receiving was unsuccessful to the point that they would die.
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kumpulan catatan mana pun yang diprakarsai oleh dokter atau pasien.
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And we didn't find a single record of any preference
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about goals, treatments or outcomes from any
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Jadi kami mulai sadar
bahwa kami memiliki masalah,
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of the sets of notes initiated by a doctor or by a patient.
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dan masalahnya lebih serius karena hal ini.
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So we started to realize
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Yang kita tahu ialah kita semua jelas akan mati,
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that we had a problem,
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and the problem is more serious because of this.
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tapi bagaimana kita mati sebenarnya sangat penting,
jelas bukan hanya bagi kita, tapi juga bagi bagaimana
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What we know is that obviously we are all going to die,
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kematian itu memengaruhi mereka yang hidup sesudah kita.
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but how we die is actually really important,
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Cara kita meninggal hidup di benak semua orang
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obviously not just to us, but also to how that
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yang kita tinggalkan, dan
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features in the lives of all the people who live on afterwards.
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stres yang diciptakan di keluarga karena kematian sangat besar.
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How we die lives on in the minds of everybody
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Faktanya stress Anda 7 kali lebih banyak karena kematian
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who survives us, and
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di ICU dibanding meninggal di tempat lain,
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the stress created in families by dying is enormous,
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jadi meninggal di ICU bukanlah pilihan utama Anda
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and in fact you get seven times as much stress by dying
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jika Anda punya pilihan.
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in intensive care as by dying just about anywhere else,
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Dan, jika itu tak cukup buruk, tentu saja,
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so dying in intensive care is not your top option
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semua ini berkembang pesat menuju fakta bahwa
faktanya, sekitar 1 dari 10 orang saat ini,
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if you've got a choice.
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akan meninggal di UGD.
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And, if that wasn't bad enough, of course,
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Di AS, angkanya 1 dari 5.
Di Miami, 3 dari 5 orang meninggal di ICU.
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all of this is rapidly progressing towards the fact that
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many of you, in fact, about one in 10 of you at this point,
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Jadi inilah momentum
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will die in intensive care.
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yang kita miliki saat ini.
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In the U.S., it's one in five.
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In Miami, it's three out of five people die in intensive care.
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Alasan mengapa ini semua terjadi adalah karena ini,
dan saya akan menerangkan.
Ada empat cara untuk meninggal.
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So this is the sort of momentum
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Jadi salah satu darinya akan terjadi pada kita semua.
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that we've got at the moment.
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The reason why this is all happening is due to this,
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Yang mungkin paling Anda ketahui ialah
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and I do have to take you through what this is about.
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yang semakin menarik minat sejarah:
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These are the four ways to go.
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So one of these will happen to all of us.
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kematian mendadak.
Di acara sebesar ini
mati mendadak takkan terjadi pada siapa pun di sini.
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The ones you may know most about are the ones
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that are becoming increasingly of historical interest:
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Kematian mendadak kini langka.
Kematian Little Nell dan Cordelia dan semacamnya
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sudden death.
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sudah tidak terjadi lagi.
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It's quite likely in an audience this size
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this won't happen to anybody here.
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Proses kematian mereka yang sakit parah
yang kita lihat
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Sudden death has become very rare.
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terjadi pada orang lebih muda.
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The death of Little Nell and Cordelia and all that sort of stuff
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Di usia 80 tahun, jarang hal ini terjadi pada Anda.
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just doesn't happen anymore.
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The dying process of those with terminal illness
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Hanya 1 dari 10 orang usia 80 ke atas yang akan meninggal karena kanker.
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that we've just seen
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occurs to younger people.
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Industri pertumbuhan besarnya adalah ini.
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By the time you've reached 80, this is unlikely to happen to you.
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Only one in 10 people who are over 80 will die of cancer.
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Alasan kematian Anda ialah meningkatnya kegagalan organ,
dengan pernapasan, jantung, ginjal,
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The big growth industry are these.
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organ apapun. Setiap mereka
akan memasuki perawatan akut rumah sakit,
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What you die of is increasing organ failure,
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yang akhirnya, atau di titik tertentu,
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with your respiratory, cardiac, renal,
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seseorang berkata, cukup sudah, kita hentikan.
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whatever organs packing up. Each of these
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Inilah industri dengan pertumbuhan terbesar,
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would be an admission to an acute care hospital,
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dan setidaknya 6 dari 10 orang di ruangan ini
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at the end of which, or at some point during which,
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akan mati dalam bentuk ini,
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somebody says, enough is enough, and we stop.
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yaitu berkurangnya kapasitas secara perlahan,
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And this one's the biggest growth industry of all,
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and at least six out of 10 of the people in this room
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dengan meningkatnya kelemahan,
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will die in this form, which is
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dan kelemahan tak terelakkan dari penuaan,
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the dwindling of capacity
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dan meningkatnya kelemahan adalah penyebab utama kini
seseorang meninggal.
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with increasing frailty,
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Satu atau beberapa tahun terakhir hidup Anda
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and frailty's an inevitable part of aging,
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dihabiskan dengan banyak kekurangan jasmani, sayangnya.
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and increasing frailty is in fact the main thing
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Menikmatinya sejauh ini? (Tertawa)
07:45
that people die of now,
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07:46
and the last few years, or the last year of your life
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(Tawa)
07:48
is spent with a great deal of disability, unfortunately.
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Maaf, saya hanya merasa, saya merasa seperti Cassandra di sini.
07:52
Enjoying it so far? (Laughs)
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(Tawa)
07:56
(Laughter)
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07:59
Sorry, I just feel such a, I feel such a Cassandra here.
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Apa sisi positifnya?
Sisi positifnya ini terjadi di usia sangat tua.
08:02
(Laughter)
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Kita semua, kebanyakan, hidup untuk mencapai titik ini.
Secara historis, kita tak mencapainya.
Inilah yang terjadi pada Anda
08:08
What can I say that's positive? What's positive is
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08:09
that this is happening at very great age, now.
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ketika umur Anda panjang sekali,
08:11
We are all, most of us, living to reach this point.
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sayangnya, berumur lebih panjang berarti
lebih banyak usia tua, bukan lebih muda.
08:14
You know, historically, we didn't do that.
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Maaf saya mengatakannya. (Tawa)
08:16
This is what happens to you
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08:17
when you live to be a great age,
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08:20
and unfortunately, increasing longevity does mean
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Yang kami lakukan,
08:22
more old age, not more youth.
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kami tak terapkan hanya di
08:24
I'm sorry to say that. (Laughter)
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Rumah Sakit John Hunter.
Kami memulai serangkaian proyek
demi mencoba melihat apakah kami sungguh bisa melibatkan
08:30
What we did, anyway, look, what we did,
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08:31
we didn't just take this lying down
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orang-orang terkait hal-hal yang terjadi pada diri mereka.
08:33
at John Hunter Hospital and elsewhere.
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08:34
We've started a whole series of projects
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Tapi kami berurusan
dengan masalah budaya,
08:36
to try and look about whether we could, in fact, involve
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dan ini, saya suka lukisan Klimt ini,
08:39
people much more in the way that things happen to them.
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makin dilihat, makin banyak Anda mengerti
seluruh masalah yang terjadi di sini,
08:43
But we realized, of course, that we are dealing
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08:44
with cultural issues,
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yang jelas menjadi pemisahan kematian dari yang hidup,
08:46
and this is, I love this Klimt painting,
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dan rasa takut — Jika cermat dilihat,
08:48
because the more you look at it, the more you kind of get
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ada satu wanita di sana
08:50
the whole issue that's going on here,
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yang matanya terbuka.
08:52
which is clearly the separation of death from the living,
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Dialah yang ditatap kematian,
dan wanita itu yang kematian cari. Bisakah Anda melihatnya?
08:56
and the fear — Like, if you actually look,
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Dia terlihat ketakutan.
08:58
there's one woman there
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08:59
who has her eyes open.
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Ini gambar yang menakjubkan.
Jadi, kita punya masalah budaya yang besar.
09:01
She's the one he's looking at,
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09:02
and [she's] the one he's coming for. Can you see that?
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Orang tak ingin kami membicarakan kematian,
atau, kami pikir begitu.
09:06
She looks terrified.
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Dengan dana dari Pemerintah Federal serta
09:07
It's an amazing picture.
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Layanan Kesehatan setempat,
09:09
Anyway, we had a major cultural issue.
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di John Hunter dikenalkan program Menghormati Pilihan Pasien.
09:11
Clearly, people didn't want us to talk about death,
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Kami melatih ratusan orang untuk pergi ke bangsal
09:13
or, we thought that.
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09:15
So with loads of funding from the Federal Government
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dan mendiskusikan kematian pada pasien yang akan mendekatinya,
09:16
and the local Health Service, we introduced a thing
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09:18
at John Hunter called Respecting Patient Choices.
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serta keinginan mereka dalam keadaan seperti itu.
09:21
We trained hundreds of people to go to the wards
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Mereka menyukainya. Keluarga dan pasien, mereka menyukainya.
09:24
and talk to people about the fact that they would die,
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98% orang sungguh berpikir
09:27
and what would they prefer under those circumstances.
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seharusnya ini praktik normal,
dan begitu cara kerjanya.
09:29
They loved it. The families and the patients, they loved it.
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Dan saat mereka mengungkapkan keinginan,
semua keinginan itu seolah jadi kenyataan.
09:33
Ninety-eight percent of people really thought
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Kami mampu mewujudkannya untuk mereka.
09:35
this just should have been normal practice,
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09:36
and that this is how things should work.
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Tapi kemudian, ketika dana habis,
09:39
And when they expressed wishes,
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kami kembali menengok 6 bulan kemudian,
09:41
all of those wishes came true, as it were.
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dan semua orang berhenti lagi,
09:43
We were able to make that happen for them.
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dan tak ada yang melakukan percakapan ini lagi.
09:45
But then, when the funding ran out,
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Jadi itu sungguh memilukan bagi kami,
09:47
we went back to look six months later,
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karena kami pikir ini akan benar-benar ditinggalkan.
09:49
and everybody had stopped again,
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09:51
and nobody was having these conversations anymore.
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Masalah budaya telah menegaskan dirinya kembali.
09:55
So that was really kind of heartbreaking for us,
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Jadi inilah puncaknya:
saya pikir penting bagi kita untuk tidak langsung masuk
09:57
because we thought this was going to really take off.
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09:59
The cultural issue had reasserted itself.
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ke ICU tanpa berpikir keras tentang iya atau tidak
10:03
So here's the pitch:
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di sana kita mau berakhir,
10:04
I think it's important that we don't just get on this freeway
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terutama saat kita jadi semakin tua dan lemah
dan makin sedikit yang bisa ICU tawarkan pada kita.
10:09
to ICU without thinking hard about whether or not
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Harus ada jalan samping kecil
10:11
that's where we all want to end up,
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di luar sana bagi seseorang yang tak ingin pergi ke jalur itu.
10:13
particularly as we become older and increasingly frail
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10:15
and ICU has less and less and less to offer us.
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Dan saya punya satu ide kecil,
10:19
There has to be a little side road
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dan satu ide besar tentang apa yang bisa terjadi.
10:21
off there for people who don't want to go on that track.
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Dan ini ide kecilnya.
10:25
And I have one small idea,
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Ide kecilnya adalah, mari kita semua
10:28
and one big idea about what could happen.
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terlibat lebih banyak dengan cara yang telah diilustrasikan oleh Jason.
Mengapa kita tak bisa membicarakan ini
10:33
And this is the small idea.
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10:34
The small idea is, let's all of us
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dengan orang tua sendiri
dan orang-orang yang mungkin mendekati kematian?
10:36
engage more with this in the way that Jason has illustrated.
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Ada beberapa yang bisa Anda lakukan.
10:40
Why can't we have these kinds of conversations
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Salah satunya adalah, Anda bisa,
10:42
with our own elders
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mengajukan pertanyaan sederhana yang tak pernah gagal ini.
10:44
and people who might be approaching this?
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"Jika Anda menjadi terlalu sakit untuk berbicara sendiri,
10:46
There are a couple of things you can do.
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10:48
One of them is, you can,
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siapa yang Anda ingin bisa mewakili Anda?"
10:50
just ask this simple question. This question never fails.
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Pertanyaan itu penting untuk ditanyakan,
10:53
"In the event that you became too sick to speak for yourself,
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sebab memberi mereka kendali siapa orangnya
memberikan hasil yang luar biasa.
10:57
who would you like to speak for you?"
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Pertanyaan kedua,
11:00
That's a really important question to ask people,
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"Sudahkah Anda bicara padanya
tentang hal-hal yang penting bagi Anda
11:02
because giving people the control over who that is
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supaya kami lebih paham mengenai apa yang bisa kami lakukan?"
11:04
produces an amazing outcome.
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11:07
The second thing you can say is,
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11:08
"Have you spoken to that person
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Jadi itulah ide kecilnya.
11:10
about the things that are important to you
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Gagasan besarnya lebih politis.
11:12
so that we've got a better idea of what it is we can do?"
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Saya pikir kita harus membahas ini.
Saya sarankan kita menduduki kematian.
11:16
So that's the little idea.
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(Tawa)
11:19
The big idea, I think, is more political.
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Istri saya berkata, "Ya, benar, duduk di kamar mayat.
11:20
I think we have to get onto this.
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11:22
I suggested we should have Occupy Death.
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Ya, ya. Tentu." (Tawa)
Rasanya tak masuk akal,
11:25
(Laughter)
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tapi saya terkejut karenanya.
11:28
My wife said, "Yeah, right, sit-ins in the mortuary.
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Kini, saya hippie yang menua.
11:30
Yeah, yeah. Sure." (Laughter)
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Entahlah, rasanya saya tak terlihat begitu lagi, tapi
ada 2 anak saya yang lahir di rumah di tahun 80-an
11:33
So that one didn't really run,
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11:35
but I was very struck by this.
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masa itu melahirkan di rumah adalah hal besar, dan kami baby boomer
11:36
Now, I'm an aging hippie.
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11:38
I don't know, I don't think I look like that anymore, but
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terbiasa mengambil alih situasi,
11:41
I had, two of my kids were born at home in the '80s
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jadi jika Anda hanya mengganti semua kata kelahiran ini,
11:43
when home birth was a big thing, and we baby boomers
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Saya suka "Damai, Cinta, Kematian Alami" sebagai pilihan.
11:47
are used to taking charge of the situation,
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Saya pikir kita harus berpolitik
11:49
so if you just replace all these words of birth,
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dan mulai merebut kembali proses ini dari
model medis di mana pun itu terjadi.
11:53
I like "Peace, Love, Natural Death" as an option.
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Kedengarannya seperti memilih eutanasia.
Saya ingin mempertegas pada Anda semua,
11:56
I do think we have to get political
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11:57
and start to reclaim this process from
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saya benci eutanasia. Saya pikir ia pengalihan isu.
12:00
the medicalized model in which it's going.
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Saya tidak merasa eutanasia penting.
12:02
Now, listen, that sounds like a pitch for euthanasia.
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Sesungguhnya saya pikir,
12:04
I want to make it absolutely crystal clear to you all,
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di tempat-tempat seperti Oregon,
12:06
I hate euthanasia. I think it's a sideshow.
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di mana Anda bisa melakukan bunuh diri dengan bantuan dokter,
12:09
I don't think euthanasia matters.
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12:11
I actually think that,
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Anda mengambil dosis racun,
12:13
in places like Oregon,
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hanya 0,5% orang yang pernah melakukan.
Saya lebih tertarik dengan apa yang terjadi pada 99,5%
12:16
where you can have physician-assisted suicide,
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orang-orang yang tak mau melakukannya.
12:19
you take a poisonous dose of stuff,
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Saya pikir kebanyakan orang tak ingin mati,
12:21
only half a percent of people ever do that.
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tapi saya pikir mereka ingin punya kendali
12:23
I'm more interested in what happens to the 99.5 percent
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atas bagaimana proses kematian mereka berlangsung.
12:26
of people who don't want to do that.
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Saya menentang eutanasia,
12:28
I think most people don't want to be dead,
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tapi saya kira kita harus berikan orang-orang kendali.
12:30
but I do think most people want to have some control
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Kendali mencabut euthanasia dari pasokan oksigennya.
12:32
over how their dying process proceeds.
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Kita harus hentikan keinginan
12:35
So I'm an opponent of euthanasia,
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untuk eutanasia,
12:36
but I do think we have to give people back some control.
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bukan untuk membuatnya ilegal atau legal atau mencemaskannya sama sekali.
12:39
It deprives euthanasia of its oxygen supply.
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Ini kutipan dari Dame Cicely Saunders, saya menemuinya saat
12:42
I think we should be looking at stopping
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12:44
the want for euthanasia,
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saya mahasiswa kedokteran.
12:45
not for making it illegal or legal or worrying about it at all.
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Dia mendirikan gerakan hospis.
12:49
This is a quote from Dame Cicely Saunders,
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Dia berkata, “Anda penting karena Anda penting,
dan Anda penting sampai saat terakhir hidup Anda."
12:53
whom I met when I was a medical student.
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Dengan kuat saya meyakini
12:54
She founded the hospice movement.
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itulah pesan yang harus kita teruskan.
12:57
And she said, "You matter because you are,
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12:59
and you matter to the last moment of your life."
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Terima kasih. (Tepuk tangan)
13:02
And I firmly believe that
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13:04
that's the message that we have to carry forward.
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13:07
Thank you. (Applause)
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