Why you should define your fears instead of your goals | Tim Ferriss | TED

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์•„๋ž˜ ์˜๋ฌธ์ž๋ง‰์„ ๋”๋ธ”ํด๋ฆญํ•˜์‹œ๋ฉด ์˜์ƒ์ด ์žฌ์ƒ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.

๋ฒˆ์—ญ: Kyo young Chu ๊ฒ€ํ† : Jeonggyu Kang
00:12
So, this happy pic of me was taken in 1999.
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ํ–‰๋ณต์— ๊ฐ€๋“ ์ฐจ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„์€ 1999๋…„์— ์ฐ์€ ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:15
I was a senior in college,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋Œ€ํ•™๊ต 4ํ•™๋…„์ผ ๋•Œ
00:18
and it was right after a dance practice.
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์ถค ์—ฐ์Šต์ด ๋๋‚˜๊ณ  ๋‚˜์„œ์˜€์ฃ .
00:20
I was really, really happy.
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์ €๋Š” ์ •๋ง ํ–‰๋ณตํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:22
And I remember exactly where I was about a week and a half later.
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์—ดํ˜ ๋’ค ์ œ๊ฐ€ ์–ด๋”” ์žˆ์—ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ์•„์ง๋„ ์ •ํ™•ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:26
I was sitting in the back of my used minivan
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ํƒ€๋˜ ์ค‘๊ณ  ๋ฏธ๋‹ˆ๋ฐด์„ ๊ต๋‚ด ์ฃผ์ฐจ์žฅ์— ์„ธ์›Œ๋‘๊ณ 
00:29
in a campus parking lot,
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๋’ท์ขŒ์„์— ์•‰์•„์„œ
00:31
when I decided
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์ž์‚ดํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ๋งˆ์Œ๋จน๊ณ  ์žˆ์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:32
I was going to commit suicide.
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00:35
I went from deciding to full-blown planning very quickly.
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๊ฒฐ์‹ฌ์—์„œ ์™„๋ฒฝํ•œ ๊ณ„ํš์„ ์„ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋น ๋ฅด๊ฒŒ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:40
And I came this close to the edge of the precipice.
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์ €๋Š” ๋ฒผ๋ž‘ ๋์— ์ด๋งŒํผ ๊ฐ€๊นŒ์ด ๋‹ค๊ฐ€์„ฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:43
It's the closest I've ever come.
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๊ทธ ์ •๋„๊นŒ์ง€ ๊ฐ„ ์ ์€ ์ฒ˜์Œ์ด์—ˆ์ฃ .
00:45
And the only reason I took my finger off the trigger
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๋ง‰์ƒ ์‹คํ–‰์— ์˜ฎ๊ธฐ์ง€ ์•Š์€ ์ด์œ ๋Š”
00:48
was thanks to a few lucky coincidences.
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๋ช‡ ๋ฒˆ์˜ ํ–‰์šด์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ธฐ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:51
And after the fact,
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ์‚ฌ๊ฑด ์ดํ›„๋กœ
00:53
that's what scared me the most: the element of chance.
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ํ–‰์šด์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
00:57
So I became very methodical about testing different ways
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์ฒด๊ณ„์ ์œผ๋กœ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‹คํ—˜ํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด์„œ
01:00
that I could manage my ups and downs,
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์ œ ๊ฐ์ • ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋‹ค์Šค๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ์•„๋ณด๊ธฐ๋กœ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:02
which has proven to be a good investment. (Laughs)
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์ด๋Š” ์„ฑ๊ณต์ ์ธ ํˆฌ์ž์˜€๋‹ค๊ณ  ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.(์›ƒ์Œ)
01:06
Many normal people might have, say, six to 10 major depressive episodes
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ๋ณดํ†ต ์ผ์ƒ ๋™์•ˆ
์‹ฌํ•œ ์šฐ์šธํ•จ์„ ๋Š๋ผ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์„ 6-10๋ฒˆ ์ •๋„ ๊ฒช๋Š”๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:10
in their lives.
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01:12
I have bipolar depression. It runs in my family.
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์ €๋Š” ๊ฐ€์กฑ๋ ฅ์œผ๋กœ ์กฐ์šธ์ฆ์ด ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:14
I've had 50-plus at this point,
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์ œ๊ฒŒ๋Š” ์ง€๊ธˆ๊นŒ์ง€ 50๋ฒˆ ์ด์ƒ์˜ ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
01:17
and I've learned a lot.
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์ด๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๋งŽ์€ ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋ฐฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:19
I've had a lot of at-bats,
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์ฃผ๋ชฉ๋ฐ›์€ ์ ๋„ ๋งŽ์•˜์ง€๋งŒ
01:21
many rounds in the ring with darkness,
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์–ด๋‘  ์†์— ํ™€๋กœ ์‹ธ์šด ๊ฒฝํ—˜์—์„œ
01:23
taking good notes.
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์ข‹์€ ๊ตํ›ˆ์„ ์–ป์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:25
So I thought rather than get up and give any type of recipe for success
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์„ฑ๊ณต์˜ ๋น„๊ฒฐ์ด๋‚˜ ์ฃผ๋ชฉ๋ฐ›๋˜ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋“ค์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
01:29
or highlight reel,
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๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค
01:30
I would share my recipe for avoiding self-destruction,
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์žํฌ์ž๊ธฐํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋ชธ์ด ์–ผ์–ด๋ถ™๋Š” ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ํ”ผํ•˜๋Š” ๋น„๊ฒฐ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด
01:35
and certainly self-paralysis.
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์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ ์ž ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:38
And the tool I've found which has proven to be the most reliable safety net
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์ €๋Š” '๊ฐ์ •์˜ ์ž์œ ๋‚™ํ•˜'๋ฅผ ๋ง‰๋Š”
๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋ฏฟ์„๋งŒํ•œ ์•ˆ์ „๋ง์ด ๋˜์–ด์ค„ ๋„๊ตฌ๋ฅผ ์ฐพ์•˜๊ณ 
01:42
for emotional free fall
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01:44
is actually the same tool
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ๊ทธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ํ†ตํ•ด
01:46
that has helped me to make my best business decisions.
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์‚ฌ์—…์ ์œผ๋กœ๋„ ์ตœ์„ ์˜ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ๋‚ด๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋ฐ์— ๋„์›€์„ ์–ป์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:48
But that is secondary.
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๋ฌผ๋ก  ๊ทธ๊ฑด ๋ถ€์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ํšจ๊ณผ์ฃ .
01:50
And it is ... stoicism.
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๊ทธ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ '๊ทน๊ธฐ์‹ฌ'์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
01:53
That sounds boring.
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์žฌ๋ฏธ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒƒ ๊ฐ™์ง„ ์•Š๊ตฐ์š”.
01:55
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
01:56
You might think of Spock,
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๋‹ค๋“ค ์Šคํƒ€ํŠธ๋ž™์˜ ์ŠคํŒ์„ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
01:57
or it might conjure and image like this --
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ๋ชจ์Šต์„ ๊ธฐ๋Œ€ํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”. ์ด ์‚ฌ์ง„์ฒ˜๋Ÿผ์š”.
02:00
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
02:02
a cow standing in the rain.
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๋น—์†์— ์„œ ์žˆ๋Š” ์†Œ ํ•œ๋งˆ๋ฆฌ์ฃ .
02:04
It's not sad. It's not particularly happy.
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์Šฌํ”„์ง€๋„, ๋”ฑํžˆ ํ–‰๋ณตํ•˜์ง€๋„ ์•Š์•„์š”.
02:07
It's just an impassive creature taking whatever life sends its way.
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๋‹จ์ง€ ์ฃผ์–ด์ง„ ๋Œ€๋กœ์˜ ์‚ถ์„ ์‚ฌ๋Š” ๋ฌด๊ฐ์ •ํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋ณด์ด๋Š” ํ”ผ์กฐ๋ฌผ์ด๋„ค์š”.
02:11
You might not think of the ultimate competitor, say, Bill Belichick,
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์ตœ๊ณ ์˜ ๊ฐ๋… ๋นŒ ๋ฒจ๋ฆฌ์น™์„ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆฐ ๋ถ„๋„ ์—†์„ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
02:16
head coach of the New England Patriots,
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๋‰ด์ž‰๊ธ€๋žœ๋“œ ํŒจํŠธ๋ฆฌ์–ดํŠธ ํŒ€์˜ ์ˆ˜์„ ์ฝ”์น˜๋กœ์„œ
02:18
who has the all-time NFL record for Super Bowl titles.
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NFL ์‚ฌ์ƒ ์ˆ˜ํผ๋ณผ ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ์˜ ์ตœ๋‹ค ์—ฐ์Šน ๊ธฐ๋ก์„ ๊ฐ€์ง„ ๋ถ„์ด์ฃ .
02:21
And stoicism has spread like wildfire in the top of the NFL ranks
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทน๊ธฐ์‚ฌ์ƒ์€ NFL ์ƒ์œ„ ํŒ€์—์„œ ์ •์‹  ๊ฐ•ํ™” ํ›ˆ๋ จ์˜ ์ผํ™˜์œผ๋กœ
02:26
as a means of mental toughness training in the last few years.
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์ง€๋‚œ ๋ช‡ ๋…„ ์‚ฌ์ด์— ๊ธ‰์†ํžˆ ํผ์ ธ๋‚˜๊ฐ”์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:30
You might not think of the Founding Fathers --
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๋ฏธ๊ตญ์˜ ํ—Œ๋ฒ•์„ ๋งŒ๋“  ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์„ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆฐ ๋ถ„๋„ ์—†์œผ์‹ค ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
02:34
Thomas Jefferson, John Adams, George Washington
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ํ† ๋งˆ์Šค ์ œํผ์Šจ, ์กด ์•„๋‹ด์Šค, ์กฐ์ง€ ์›Œ์‹ฑํ„ด.
02:37
to name but three students of stoicism.
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์ด ์…‹ ๋˜ํ•œ ๊ทน๊ธฐ์‚ฌ์ƒ์„ ๋ฐฐ์› ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:40
George Washington actually had a play about a Stoic --
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์‹ค์ œ๋กœ ์กฐ์ง€ ์›Œ์‹ฑํ„ด์€ ๊ทน๊ธฐ์‚ฌ์ƒ์„ ์ฃผ์ œ๋กœ ํ•œ ์—ฐ๊ทน์ธ
02:44
this was "Cato, a Tragedy" --
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"์นดํ† ์˜ ๋น„๊ทน"์„ ํฌ์ง€ ๊ณ„๊ณก์—์„œ ์ƒ์˜ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ๋ถ€ํ•˜๋“ค์˜ ์‚ฌ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๋ถ๋‹๊ธฐ๋„ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:46
performed for his troops at Valley Forge to keep them motivated.
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02:50
So why would people of action focus so much on an ancient philosophy?
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๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค๋ฉด ์™œ ํ–‰๋™ํ•˜๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์ด ๊ณ ๋Œ€ ์ฒ ํ•™์— ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฑธ๊นŒ์š”?
02:54
This seems very academic.
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์—ฐ๊ตฌํ•  ๊ฐ€์น˜๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์–ด๋ณด์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
02:56
I would encourage you to think about stoicism a little bit differently,
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๊ทน๊ธฐ์ฃผ์˜์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด ์กฐ๊ธˆ๋งŒ ๋‹ฌ๋ฆฌ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•ด๋ณด๋ฉด ์–ด๋–จ๊นŒ์š”.
์ŠคํŠธ๋ ˆ์Šค ํ™˜๊ฒฝ์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•˜๊ณ  ๋” ๋‚˜์€ ๊ฒฐ์ •์„ ํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•œ
03:00
as an operating system for thriving in high-stress environments,
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03:03
for making better decisions.
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์šด์˜ ์ฒด๊ณ„๋กœ์„œ ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
03:05
And it all started here,
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์ด ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์˜ ์‹œ์ž‘์€ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ด๊ณณ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:07
kind of,
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๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ด๊ณณ
03:09
on a porch.
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๋ฌธ ๋ฐ– ํ˜„๊ด€์ด์—ˆ์ฃ .
03:10
So around 300 BC in Athens,
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๊ธฐ์›์ „ 300๋…„ ๊ฒฝ ์•„ํ…Œ๋„ค์—์„œ
03:13
someone named Zeno of Citium taught many lectures
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ํ‚คํ”„๋กœ์Šค ํ‚คํ‹ฐ์˜จ ์ถœ์‹ ์˜ ์ œ๋…ผ์ด
03:16
walking around a painted porch, a "stoa."
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"์Šคํ† ์•„"๋ผ๋Š” ๊ฑด์ถ•ํ˜•์‹์˜ ํ˜„๊ด€ ์•ž์—์„œ ๋Œ€์ค‘์—๊ฒŒ ๊ฐ•์˜๋ฅผ ํŽผ์ณค์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:19
That later became "stoicism."
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๊ทธ๊ฒƒ์ด ํ›„์— ๊ทน๊ธฐ์‚ฌ์ƒ์„ ์ถ”๊ตฌํ•˜๋Š” "์Šคํ† ์•„ ํ•™ํŒŒ"๊ฐ€ ๋˜์—ˆ์ฃ .
03:22
And in the Greco-Roman world,
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๊ทธ๋ฆฌ์Šค-๋กœ๋งˆ ์‹œ๋Œ€์—๋Š”
03:24
people used stoicism as a comprehensive system
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ€์ง€ ํ–‰์œ„๋ฅผ ํ•จ์— ์žˆ์–ด์„œ ์ข…ํ•ฉ์  ์ฒด๊ณ„๋ฅผ ์„ธ์šฐ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด
03:27
for doing many, many things.
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๊ทน๊ธฐ์‚ฌ์ƒ์„ ์ ์šฉํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:29
But for our purposes, chief among them was training yourself
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ๊ทธ ์ค‘์—์„œ๋„ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ ๋ชฉ์ ์„ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š”
์ž์‹ ์ด ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๊ณผ ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์„ ๋‚˜๋ˆ„๊ณ 
03:33
to separate what you can control from what you cannot control,
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03:37
and then doing exercises to focus exclusively
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ํ†ต์ œํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์—๋งŒ ์ง‘์ค‘ํ•˜๋„๋ก ์—ฐ์Šตํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์ค‘์š”ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:40
on the former.
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03:41
This decreases emotional reactivity,
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์ด๋ฅผ ํ†ตํ•ด ๊ฐ์ •์  ๋ฐ˜์‘์„ ์–ต์ œํ•˜๊ณ  ๋†€๋ผ์šด ๋Šฅ๋ ฅ์„ ๋ฐœํœ˜ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
03:43
which can be a superpower.
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03:45
Conversely, let's say you're a quarterback.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ๋ฐ˜๋ฉด์—, ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์ฟผํ„ฐ๋ฐฑ์ด๋ผ๊ณ  ํ•ด๋ณด์ฃ .
03:48
You miss a pass. You get furious with yourself.
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ํŒจ์Šค๋ฅผ ์‹คํŒจํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ๋ณธ์ธ์—๊ฒŒ ํ™”๊ฐ€๋‚˜๊ฒ ์ฃ .
๊ทธ๋Ÿฌ๋ฉด ๊ฒฝ๊ธฐ์— ์งˆ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
03:51
That could cost you a game.
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03:53
If you're a CEO, and you fly off the handle at a very valued employee
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์‚ฌ์žฅ์ธ๋ฐ
ํšŒ์‚ฌ์˜ ์ค‘์š” ์ง์›์—๊ฒŒ ์‚ฌ์†Œํ•œ ์ž˜๋ชป์œผ๋กœ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ™์ด ํ™”๋ฅผ ๋ƒˆ๋‹ค๋ฉด
03:57
because of a minor infraction,
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03:58
that could cost you the employee.
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๊ทธ ์ง์›์„ ์žƒ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ฒ ์ฃ .
04:01
If you're a college student who, say, is in a downward spiral,
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๋˜ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ์šฐ์šธํ•œ ์‹œ๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ๊ฒช๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๋Œ€ํ•™์ƒ์ธ๋ฐ
04:06
and you feel helpless and hopeless,
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๋ฌด๋ ฅ๊ฐ๊ณผ ์ ˆ๋ง๊ฐ์„ ๋Š๋‚€๋‹ค๋ฉด
04:08
unabated, that could cost you your life.
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๋ชฉ์ˆจ์„ ๋ฒ„๋ฆด ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ .
04:10
So the stakes are very, very high.
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๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์œ„ํ—˜์„ฑ์ด ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋†’์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:14
And there are many tools in the toolkit to get you there.
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์ด๋Ÿฐ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์€ ๋งŽ์ง€๋งŒ
04:17
I'm going to focus on one that completely changed my life in 2004.
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2004๋…„์— ์ œ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ”์ค€ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋งŒ ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:21
It found me then because of two things:
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์ฐพ์€ ๊ฑด ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€ ์ด์œ ๊ฐ€ ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:24
a very close friend, young guy, my age, died of pancreatic cancer unexpectedly,
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์ €์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ง„ํ•œ ์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€
์ Š์€ ๋‚˜์ด์— ์ทŒ์žฅ์•”์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ‘์ž๊ธฐ ์„ธ์ƒ์„ ๋– ๋‚ฌ๊ณ 
04:29
and then my girlfriend, who I thought I was going to marry, walked out.
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๊ฒฐํ˜ผ์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ–ˆ๋˜ ์—ฌ์ž์นœ๊ตฌ๊ฐ€ ์ €๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:33
She'd had enough, and she didn't give me a Dear John letter,
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์ œ๊ฒŒ ์งˆ๋ ธ๋‹ค๋ฉด์„œ์š”.
์ œ๊ฒŒ ์ด๋ณ„ ํŽธ์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‚จ๊ธฐ๋Š” ๋Œ€์‹ ์—
04:37
but she did give me this,
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์ด๊ฑธ ๋‚จ๊ฒจ๋‘์—ˆ์ฃ .
04:40
a Dear John plaque.
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์ด๋ณ„ ์•ก์ž์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:41
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
04:42
I'm not making this up. I've kept it.
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์ง€์–ด๋‚ธ ์ด์•ผ๊ธฐ๊ฐ€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”. ์•„์ง๋„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
04:44
"Business hours are over at five o'clock."
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"๊ทผ๋ฌด ์‹œ๊ฐ„์€ 5์‹œ๊นŒ์ง€์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค."
04:47
She gave this to me to put on my desk for personal health,
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์ฑ…์ƒ์— ๋‘๊ณ  ๊ฑด๊ฐ•์„ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋ผ๋ฉฐ ์ด๊ฑธ ์ฃผ๊ณ  ๋– ๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
04:49
because at the time, I was working on my first real business.
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์™œ๋ƒํ•˜๋ฉด ๊ทธ ๋‹น์‹œ์— ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์‚ฌ์—…์— ๋›ฐ์–ด๋“ค์—ˆ๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
04:53
I had no idea what I was doing. I was working 14-plus hour days,
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๋ฌด์Šจ ์ผ์„ ํ•˜๋Š”์ง€๋„ ๋ชจ๋ฅด๋ฉด์„œ ํ•˜๋ฃจ์— 14์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋„˜๊ฒŒ ์ผํ–ˆ๊ณ ,
04:56
seven days a week.
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ํ•˜๋ฃจ๋„ ๋น ์ง€์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์ฃ .
04:58
I was using stimulants to get going.
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์ผํ•˜๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๊ฐ์„ฑ์ œ๋ฅผ ๋จน์—ˆ๊ณ 
05:00
I was using depressants to wind down and go to sleep.
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ํœด์‹์„ ๊ฐ–๊ณ  ์ž๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์ง„์ •์ œ๋ฅผ ๋จน์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
์™„์ „ ์žฌ์•™์ด์—ˆ์ฃ .
05:03
It was a disaster.
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05:04
I felt completely trapped.
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์™„์ „ํžˆ ๋ซ์— ๊ฐ‡ํžŒ ๋Š๋‚Œ์ด์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
05:06
I bought a book on simplicity to try to find answers.
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ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์ฑ…์„ ์ฐพ๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋‹จ์ˆœํ•จ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์ฑ…์„ ์ƒ€์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:10
And I did find a quote that made a big difference in my life,
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๊ฑฐ๊ธฐ์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ํฌ๊ฒŒ ๋ฐ”๊พผ ๊ตฌ์ ˆ์„ ์ฐพ์•˜์–ด์š”.
05:14
which was, "We suffer more often in imagination than in reality,"
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"์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ƒ์ƒ์— ์˜ํ•ด ๋” ๋งŽ์€ ๊ณ ํ†ต์„ ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค."
05:19
by Seneca the Younger,
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์œ ๋ช…ํ•œ ์Šคํ† ์•„ ํ•™ํŒŒ ์ž‘๊ฐ€์ธ ์„ธ๋„ค์นด์˜ ๋ง์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:21
who was a famous Stoic writer.
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05:23
That took me to his letters,
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ๊ทธ์˜ ๊ธ€์„ ์ฐพ์•„๋ดค๊ณ 
05:24
which took me to the exercise,
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"premeditatio malorum"์ด๋ผ๋Š” ํ›ˆ๋ จ๋ฒ•์„ ์•Œ๊ฒŒ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:27
"premeditatio malorum,"
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05:29
which means the pre-meditation of evils.
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"์ตœ์•… ์ƒํ™ฉ ์˜ˆ์ƒ"์ด๋ผ๋Š” ๋œป์ธ๋ฐ์š”.
05:32
In simple terms,
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๊ฐ„๋‹จํžˆ ๋งํ•˜์ž๋ฉด
05:33
this is visualizing the worst-case scenarios, in detail, that you fear,
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๋‘๋ ค์›€ ๋•Œ๋ฌธ์— ์‹คํ–‰์— ์˜ฎ๊ธฐ์ง€ ๋ชปํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š”
์ตœ์•…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ์ž์„ธํžˆ ์‹œ๊ฐํ™”ํ•ด์„œ
05:38
preventing you from taking action,
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์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ๋‘๋ ค์›€์„ ๊ทน๋ณตํ•˜๊ณ  ์‹คํ–‰์— ์˜ฎ๊ธฐ๊ฒŒ ํ•ด์ฃผ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:40
so that you can take action to overcome that paralysis.
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05:43
My problem was monkey mind -- super loud, very incessant.
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์ œ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋Š” ์‹ฌ๋ž€ํ•จ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค. ์‹œ๋„๋Ÿฌ์šด ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด ๋Š์ด์ง€ ์•Š์•˜์ฃ .
05:46
Just thinking my way through problems doesn't work.
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๋ฌธ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋ญ”์ง€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์กฐ์ฐจ ๋ถˆ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
05:49
I needed to capture my thoughts on paper.
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์ œ ์ƒ๊ฐ์„ ์ข…์ด์— ์ ์–ด์•ผ๋งŒ ํ–ˆ์ฃ .
05:51
So I created a written exercise
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์ €๋Š” ์ €๋งŒ์˜ ๊ธฐ๋ก ํ›ˆ๋ จ๋ฒ•์„ ๋งŒ๋“ค์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
05:53
that I called "fear-setting," like goal-setting,
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์ •ํ•˜๋“ฏ์ด ๋‘๋ ค์›€์„ ์„ค์ •ํ•ด๋ณด๋Š” ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด์ฃ .
05:55
for myself.
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05:57
It consists of three pages.
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์ด๋Š” ์ข…์ด ์„ธ ์žฅ์œผ๋กœ ๋˜์–ด ์žˆ๋Š”๋ฐ์š”.
05:59
Super simple.
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๋งค์šฐ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:01
The first page is right here.
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์ด๊ฒŒ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์žฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:03
"What if I ...?"
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"๋งŒ์•ฝ์—...ํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด?"
06:05
This is whatever you fear,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์ด ๋‘๋ ค์›Œํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์ด๋‚˜
06:07
whatever is causing you anxiety,
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์„ ๋ถˆ์•ˆํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“œ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค
06:09
whatever you're putting off.
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๋ฏธ๋ฃจ๊ณ  ์žˆ๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์„ ์ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:10
It could be asking someone out,
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๋ฐ์ดํŠธ ์‹ ์ฒญ์ผ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ๊ณ 
06:12
ending a relationship,
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์ด๋ณ„ ํ†ต๋ณด๋‚˜
06:14
asking for a promotion, quitting a job, starting a company.
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์ง„๊ธ‰ ์‹ ์ฒญ, ์‚ฌ์ง, ์ฐฝ์—….. ๋ญ๋“ ์ง€์š”.
06:17
It could be anything.
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06:18
For me, it was taking my first vacation in four years
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์ €์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋Š” 4๋…„ ๋งŒ์— ์ฒ˜์Œ์œผ๋กœ ํœด๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:21
and stepping away from my business for a month to go to London,
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์ผ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜ ํ•œ ๋‹ฌ ๋™์•ˆ ๋Ÿฐ๋˜์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€์„œ
06:24
where I could stay in a friend's room for free,
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์นœ๊ตฌ ์ง‘์—์„œ ๊ณต์งœ๋กœ ์ง€๋‚ด๋ฉฐ
06:27
to either remove myself as a bottleneck in the business
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์ผ์˜ ๋ณ‘๋ชฉ ์ง€์ ์—์„œ ๋ฒ—์–ด๋‚˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
06:30
or shut it down.
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์‚ฌ์—…์„ ์ ‘๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ์š”.
06:32
In the first column, "Define,"
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ค„์˜ "์ •์˜ํ•˜๊ธฐ"์—์„œ๋Š”
06:34
you're writing down all of the worst things you can imagine happening
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์ด ํ–‰๋™์„ ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ ๋ฒŒ์–ด์งˆ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋Š” ๋ชจ๋“  ์ตœ์•…์˜ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„
06:37
if you take that step.
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์ ์–ด๋‚ด๋ ค ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
06:39
You want 10 to 20.
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10๊ฐœ์—์„œ 20๊ฐœ ์ •๋„ ์ ์œผ์„ธ์š”.
06:41
I won't go through all of them, but I'll give you two examples.
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์ „๋ถ€ ๋‹ค ๋ง์”€๋“œ๋ฆฌ์ง„ ์•Š๊ณ , ๋‘ ๊ฐœ ์ •๋„ ์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด ๋“œ๋ฆด๊ฒŒ์š”.
06:44
One was, I'll go to London, it'll be rainy, I'll get depressed,
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ํ•˜๋‚˜๋Š” ์ œ๊ฐ€ ๋Ÿฐ๋˜์— ๊ฐ”์„ ๋•Œ, ๊ณ„์† ๋น„๊ฐ€ ๋‚ด๋ ค์„œ ์šฐ์šธํ•˜๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค๊ณ 
06:47
the whole thing will be a huge waste of time.
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๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒŒ ์‹œ๊ฐ„ ๋‚ญ๋น„๊ฐ€ ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:50
Number two, I'll miss a letter from the IRS,
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋Š” ๊ตญ์„ธ์ฒญ์—์„œ ์˜จ ์šฐํŽธ๋ฌผ์„ ํ™•์ธํ•˜์ง€ ๋ชปํ•ด์„œ
06:52
and I'll get audited
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์„ธ๋ฌด ์กฐ์‚ฌ๋ฅผ ๋ฐ›๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
06:54
or raided or shut down or some such.
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๋ถˆ์‹œ ๋‹จ์†์— ๊ฑธ๋ฆฌ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์˜์—… ์ •์ง€๋ฅผ ๋‹นํ•˜๋Š” ๋“ฑ์˜ ์ผ์ด์ฃ .
06:57
And then you go to the "Prevent" column.
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๋‹ค์Œ์œผ๋กœ "์˜ˆ๋ฐฉํ•˜๊ธฐ"๋กœ ๋„˜์–ด๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
06:59
In that column, you write down the answer to:
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์ƒํ™ฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ์ฑ…์„ ์“ฐ๋Š” ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ด์ฃ .
07:01
What could I do to prevent each of these bullets from happening,
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์•ž์— ์ž‘์„ฑํ•œ ์‚ฌ๊ฑด์˜ ๋ฐœ์ƒ์„ ๋ง‰๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:04
or, at the very least, decrease the likelihood even a little bit?
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์กฐ๊ธˆ์ด๋‚˜๋งˆ ๊ทธ ๊ฐ€๋Šฅ์„ฑ์„ ๋‚ฎ์ถ”๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„๊นŒ๋ฅผ ์ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:08
So for getting depressed in London,
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๋Ÿฐ๋˜์—์„œ ์šฐ์šธ์ฆ์— ๋น ์ง€๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š”
07:11
I could take a portable blue light with me
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ํœด๋Œ€์šฉ ์ฒญ์ƒ‰๊ด‘ ์กฐ๋ช…์„ ๊ฐ€์ง€๊ณ  ๊ฐ€์„œ ์•„์นจ๋งˆ๋‹ค 15๋ถ„์”ฉ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ•˜๋ฉด ๋ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:13
and use it for 15 minutes in the morning.
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๊ทธ๊ฑธ๋กœ ์šฐ์šธ์ฆ ์ƒํ™ฉ์„ ๋ง‰์„ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ๊นŒ์š”.
07:15
I knew that helped stave off depressive episodes.
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07:17
For the IRS bit, I could change the mailing address on file with the IRS
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๊ตญ์„ธ์ฒญ ๋ฌธ์ œ์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋Š”
๊ตญ์„ธ์ฒญ์— ๋“ฑ๋ก๋œ ํšŒ์‚ฌ ์ฃผ์†Œ๋ฅผ ํšŒ๊ณ„ ๋‹ด๋‹น์ž๋กœ ๋ณ€๊ฒฝํ•ด์„œ
07:21
so the paperwork would go to my accountant
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07:23
instead of to my UPS address.
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์„œ๋ฅ˜๊ฐ€ ๊ทธ์ชฝ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋„๋ก ํ•˜๋ฉด ๋˜์ฃ .
07:25
Easy-peasy.
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์ฐธ ์‰ฝ์ฃ .
07:27
Then we go to "Repair."
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๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ์—๋Š” "๊ณ ์น˜๊ธฐ"๋กœ ๋„˜์–ด๊ฐ‘๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:30
So if the worst-case scenarios happen,
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๋งŒ์— ํ•˜๋‚˜ ์ตœ์•…์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
07:32
what could you do to repair the damage even a little bit,
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์กฐ๊ธˆ์ด๋ผ๋„ ๊ทธ ํ”ผํ•ด๋ฅผ ์ค„์ด๊ธฐ ์œ„ํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ๋ฌด์—‡์„ ํ•ด์•ผํ•˜๋ฉฐ
07:35
or who could you ask for help?
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๋ˆ„๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ๋„์›€์„ ์ฒญํ• ์ง€๋ฅผ ์ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:38
So in the first case, London,
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๋Ÿฐ๋˜์˜ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์—๋Š”
07:39
well, I could fork over some money, fly to Spain, get some sun --
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๋งˆ์Œ์ด ์šธ์ ํ•ด์ง€๋ฉด ๋ˆ์„ ์ข€ ๋“ค์—ฌ์„œ ์ŠคํŽ˜์ธ์œผ๋กœ ๊ฐ€๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
ํ–‡๋ณ•์„ ์ข€ ์ฌ๋ฉด์„œ ํšŒ๋ณตํ•˜๋ฉด ๋˜์ฃ .
07:43
undo the damage, if I got into a funk.
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07:46
In the case of missing a letter from the IRS,
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๊ตญ์„ธ์ฒญ์˜ ์šฐํŽธ๋ฌผ์„ ๋ฐ›์ง€ ๋ชปํ•œ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋ผ๋ฉด
07:48
I could call a friend who is a lawyer
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๋ณ€ํ˜ธ์‚ฌ ์นœ๊ตฌ์—๊ฒŒ ์ „ํ™”๋ฅผ ๊ฑธ๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
07:51
or ask, say, a professor of law
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๋ฒ•๋Œ€ ๊ต์ˆ˜์—๊ฒŒ ์ž๋ฌธ์„ ๋ฐ›์œผ๋ฉด ๋˜์ฃ .
07:54
what they would recommend,
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์ถ”์ฒœํ• ๋งŒํ•œ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์ด๋‚˜
07:55
who I should talk to, how had people handled this in the past.
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์–ด๋Š ๋ถ€์„œ์™€ ์–˜๊ธฐํ• ์ง€
๋‹ค๋ฅธ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์–ด๋–ป๊ฒŒ ํ–ˆ๋Š”์ง€ ๋ฌผ์–ด๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
07:59
So one question to keep in mind as you're doing this first page is:
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์ด ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์žฅ์„ ์ง„ํ–‰ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๊ผญ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์…”์•ผ ํ•  ์งˆ๋ฌธ์€ ์ด๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:03
Has anyone else in the history of time
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์ง€๊ธˆ๊นŒ์ง€ ์–ด๋Š ๋ˆ„๊ตฌ๋ผ๋„
08:05
less intelligent or less driven
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์กฐ๊ธˆ ๋œ ๋˜‘๋˜‘ํ•˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜ ๋œ ๋ถ€์ง€๋Ÿฐํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋„
08:07
figured this out?
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์ด๊ฑธ ์•Œ์•„๋‚ธ ์ ์ด ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
08:09
Chances are, the answer is "Yes."
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์ •๋‹ต์€ "๊ทธ๋ ‡๋‹ค" ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:11
(Laughter)
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(์›ƒ์Œ)
08:12
The second page is simple:
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๋‘ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์žฅ๋„ ๊ฐ„๋‹จํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:16
What might be the benefits of an attempt or a partial success?
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์‹œ๋„๋‚˜ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ ์ธ ์„ฑ๊ณต์œผ๋กœ ์–ป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์€ ๋ฌด์—‡์ธ๊ฐ€?
08:19
You can see we're playing up the fears
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๋ณด์‹œ๋‹ค์‹œํ”ผ ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๋‘๋ ค์›€๊ณผ ์‹ธ์šฐ๊ณ 
08:21
and really taking a conservative look at the upside.
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์ข‹์€ ์ ์„ ๋ณด์ˆ˜์ ์ธ ์‹œ๊ฐ์œผ๋กœ ๋ฐ”๋ผ๋ณด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:24
So if you attempted whatever you're considering,
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์ฆ‰, ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„ ์ƒ๊ฐ๋Œ€๋กœ ์‹œ๋„ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
08:27
might you build confidence, develop skills,
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์ž์‹ ๊ฐ์„ ์–ป๊ฑฐ๋‚˜, ์‹ค๋ ฅ์ด ๋Š˜๊ฑฐ๋‚˜
08:29
emotionally, financially, otherwise?
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๊ฐ์ •์ ์œผ๋กœ, ๋˜๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์ œ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์–ป๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ์žˆ์„๊นŒ์š”?
08:32
What might be the benefits of, say, a base hit?
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์ž‘์€ ์„ฑ๊ณต์„ ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ์— ์–ป๋Š” ์ด๋“์€ ๋ญ˜๊นŒ์š”?
08:34
Spend 10 to 15 minutes on this.
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10-15๋ถ„ ์ •๋„ ๊ณ ๋ฏผํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
08:37
Page three.
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์„ธ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์žฅ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:38
This might be the most important, so don't skip it:
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๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ผ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์œผ๋‹ˆ ์ ˆ๋Œ€ ๊ทธ๋ƒฅ ๋„˜๊ธฐ์ง€ ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
08:41
"The Cost of Inaction."
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"์•ˆ ํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์˜ ๋น„์šฉ"์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:42
Humans are very good at considering what might go wrong
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์ž„๊ธˆ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ์š”๊ตฌํ•  ๋•Œ์™€ ๊ฐ™์ด ์ƒˆ๋กœ์šด ๋ฌด์–ธ๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ์‹œ๋„ํ•˜๋ ค๊ณ  ํ•  ๋•Œ
08:45
if we try something new, say, ask for a raise.
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์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค์€ ์ผ์ด ์ž˜ ์•ˆ ํ’€๋ฆฌ๋Š” ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๋ฅผ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜๋Š” ๋ฐ์—๋Š” ์ต์ˆ™ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:48
What we don't often consider is the atrocious cost of the status quo --
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๊ทธ๋Ÿฐ๋ฐ ํ˜„์ƒ ์œ ์ง€๋งŒ ํ–ˆ์„ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ์— ๋ฐœ์ƒํ•˜๋Š” ๋”์ฐํ•œ ๋น„์šฉ์— ๋Œ€ํ•ด์„œ๋Š”
08:54
not changing anything.
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๋ณ„๋กœ ๊ณ ๋ คํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
08:56
So you should ask yourself,
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์Šค์Šค๋กœ ์งˆ๋ฌธํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
08:58
if I avoid this action or decision
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๋‚ด๊ฐ€ ์ด๋Ÿฌํ•œ ํ–‰์œ„๋‚˜ ๊ฒฐ์ •
09:02
and actions and decisions like it,
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ํ˜น์€ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๊ฒƒ์„ ํ”ผํ•œ๋‹ค๋ฉด
09:05
what might my life look like in, say, six months, 12 months, three years?
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์˜ˆ๋ฅผ ๋“ค์–ด, 6๊ฐœ์›”, 1๋…„, 3๋…„ ๋’ค ๋‚ด ์ธ์ƒ์€ ์–ด๋–ค ๋ชจ์Šต์ผ๊นŒ?
09:10
Any further out, it starts to seem intangible.
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๊ทธ๋ณด๋‹ค ๊ธด ๊ธฐ๊ฐ„์€ ๋– ์˜ฌ๋ฆฌ๊ธฐ ์–ด๋ ค์šธ ๊ฑฐ์˜ˆ์š”.
09:12
And really get detailed -- again, emotionally, financially,
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์•„์ฃผ ์ž์„ธํžˆ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•˜์„ธ์š”.
๊ฐ์ •์ ์ด๋“ , ๊ธˆ์ „์ ์ด๋“ , ๋ฌผ๋ฆฌ์ ์ด๋“ , ๋ญ๋“ ์ง€์š”.
09:16
physically, whatever.
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09:18
And when I did this, it painted a terrifying picture.
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ํ•ด๋ดค์„ ๋•Œ์—๋Š” ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋”์ฐํ•œ ์ƒ์ƒ์„ ํ–ˆ์–ด์š”.
09:21
I was self-medicating,
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์šฐ์šธ์ฆ ์ž๊ฐ€ ์น˜๋ฃŒ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๊ณ  ์žˆ๊ณ 
09:23
my business was going to implode at any moment at all times,
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์‚ฌ์—…์—์„œ ๋ฌผ๋Ÿฌ๋‚˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š”๋‹ค๋ฉด ์–ธ์ œ๋“ ์ง€ ๋ถ€๋„๊ฐ€ ๋‚  ์ง€๊ฒฝ์ด์—ˆ์–ด์š”.
09:27
if I didn't step away.
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09:28
My relationships were fraying or failing.
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์ œ ์—ฐ์• ๋„ ์ž˜ ํ˜๋Ÿฌ๊ฐ€์ง„ ์•Š์•˜๊ณ ์š”.
09:30
And I realized that inaction was no longer an option for me.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์•„๋ฌด๊ฒƒ๋„ ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š๋Š” ์ชฝ์„ ์„ ํƒํ•ด์„œ๋Š” ์•ˆ๋œ๋‹ค๋Š” ๊ฑธ ๊นจ๋‹ฌ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:35
Those are the three pages. That's it. That's fear-setting.
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์ด ์„ธ ์žฅ์ด ๋‹ค์—์š”. ์ด๊ฒŒ ๋‘๋ ค์›€ ์„ค์ •ํ•˜๊ธฐ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:38
And after this, I realized that on a scale of one to 10,
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๊ทธ ๋‹ค์Œ์—” 10์  ์ฒ™๋„๋กœ ํ‰๊ฐ€๋ฅผ ํ•ด๋ณด๋Š” ๊ฑฐ์ฃ .
09:42
one being minimal impact, 10 being maximal impact,
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๋ฏธ์น˜๋Š” ์˜ํ–ฅ์ด ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋‚ฎ์œผ๋ฉด 1์ , ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฌ๋ฉด 10์ ์œผ๋กœ ํ‰๊ฐ€ํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ
09:45
if I took the trip, I was risking
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๋งŒ์•ฝ ์—ฌํ–‰์„ ๊ฐ„๋‹ค๋ฉด 1์—์„œ 3์  ์‚ฌ์ด๋กœ
09:47
a one to three of temporary and reversible pain
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์ผ์‹œ์ ์ด๊ณ  ํšŒ๋ณต ๊ฐ€๋Šฅํ•œ ๊ณ ํ†ต์„ ๊ฒช์„ ์œ„ํ—˜์„ฑ์ด ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
09:50
for an eight to 10 of positive, life-changing impact
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8์ ์—์„œ 10์  ์‚ฌ์ด๋กœ
์ œ ์ธ์ƒ์„ ๋ฐ”๊ฟ” ์ค„ ๊ธ์ •์  ํšจ๊ณผ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ˜์˜๊ตฌ์ ์œผ๋กœ ์œ ์ง€๋  ๊ฒƒ์ž„์„ ์•Œ์•˜์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:55
that could be a semi-permanent.
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09:57
So I took the trip.
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๊ทธ๋ž˜์„œ ์—ฌํ–‰์„ ๋– ๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
09:59
None of the disasters came to pass.
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๊ทธ ์–ด๋– ํ•œ ์žฌ์•™๋„ ์ผ์–ด๋‚˜์ง„ ์•Š์•˜์–ด์š”. ๋ฌผ๋ก  ์•ฝ๊ฐ„์˜ ๊ณ ๋น„๋Š” ์žˆ์—ˆ์ฃ .
10:00
There were some hiccups, sure.
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10:02
I was able to extricate myself from the business.
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์ œ ์ž์‹ ์„ ์ผ๋กœ๋ถ€ํ„ฐ ํ•ด๋ฐฉ์‹œํ‚ฌ ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๊ณ 
10:04
I ended up extending that trip for a year and a half around the world,
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๊ฒฐ๊ตญ 1๋…„ ๋ฐ˜ ๋™์•ˆ์˜ ์„ธ๊ณ„ ์—ฌํ–‰์„ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๊ธฐ๊ฐ„์ด ๋Š˜์–ด๋‚ฌ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:08
and that became the basis for my first book,
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๊ทธ ๊ฒฝํ—˜์€ ์ €์˜ ์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ ์ €์„œ์˜ ๋ฐ”ํƒ•์ด ๋˜์—ˆ๊ณ 
10:11
that leads me here today.
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๋•๋ถ„์— ์˜ค๋Š˜ ์ด ์ž๋ฆฌ์— ์„ฐ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:12
And I can trace all of my biggest wins
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์ €๋Š” ์ œ ์ธ์ƒ์—์„œ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์•˜๋˜ ๊ฒƒ๋“ค๊ณผ
10:15
and all of my biggest disasters averted
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ํ”ผํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ์žฌ์•™๋“ค์„ ๋Œ€์ƒ์œผ๋กœ
10:18
back to doing fear-setting
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๋ถ„๊ธฐ์— ํ•œ ๋ฒˆ์”ฉ ๋‘๋ ค์›€ ์„ค์ •ํ•˜๊ธฐ๋ฅผ ํ•˜๋ฉด์„œ ๋˜์งš์–ด ๋ณด๊ณค ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:20
at least once a quarter.
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10:23
It's not a panacea.
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๋งŒ๋ณ‘ํ†ต์น˜์•ฝ์€ ์•„๋‹ˆ์—์š”.
10:24
You'll find that some of your fears are very well-founded.
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„์˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›€ ์ค‘ ์ผ๋ถ€๋Š” ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ๋ฟŒ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๊นŠ์„ ์ˆ˜๋„ ์žˆ์ฃ .
10:27
(Laughter)
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10:28
But you shouldn't conclude that
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ํ•˜์ง€๋งŒ ์ด ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ํ•ด๋ณด๊ธฐ ์ „์— ๋ฏธ๋ฆฌ ๋‹จ์ • ์ง“์ง€๋Š” ๋งˆ์„ธ์š”.
10:29
without first putting them under a microscope.
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10:33
And it doesn't make all the hard times, the hard choices, easy,
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๋ชจ๋“  ์–ด๋ ค์šด ์‹œ๊ฐ„๋“ค๊ณผ ๊ฒฐ์ •๋“ค์„ ํ•ด๊ฒฐํ•˜์ง€๋Š” ๋ชปํ•œ๋‹ค ํ•˜๋”๋ผ๋„
10:36
but it can make a lot of them easier.
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๋œ ํž˜๋“ค๊ฒŒ ๋งŒ๋“ค ์ˆ˜๋Š” ์žˆ์–ด์š”.
10:39
I'd like to close with a profile of one of my favorite modern-day Stoics.
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์š”์ฆ˜์˜ ๊ทน๊ธฐ์ฃผ์˜์ž ์ค‘์—์„œ
์ œ๊ฐ€ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ข‹์•„ํ•˜๋Š” ๋ถ„์„ ์†Œ๊ฐœํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์œผ๋กœ ๋งˆ๋ฌด๋ฆฌํ•˜๊ฒ ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:43
This is Jerzy Gregorek.
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์ด ๋ถ„์€ ์ €์ง€ ๊ทธ๋ ˆ๊ณ ๋ ‰์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:46
He is a four-time world champion in Olympic weightlifting,
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๊ทธ๋Š” ์˜ฌ๋ฆผํ”ฝ ์—ญ๋„ ์ข…๋ชฉ 4๊ด€์™•์ด์ž
10:50
political refugee,
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์ •์น˜์  ๋ง๋ช…๊ฐ€์ด๋ฉฐ
10:51
published poet,
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์‹œ์ง‘๋„ ๋‚ด์…จ์ฃ .
10:53
62 years old.
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๋‚˜์ด๋Š” 62์„ธ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
10:54
He can still kick my ass and probably most asses in this room.
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์ €๋‚˜ ์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๋„ ์ƒ๋Œ€๊ฐ€ ์•ˆ ๋  ์ •๋„๋กœ ๊ฑด๊ฐ•ํ•˜์‹  ๋ถ„์ด์ฃ .
10:59
He's an impressive guy.
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์•„์ฃผ ์ธ์ƒ์ ์ธ ์‚ฌ๋‚˜์ด์—์š”.
11:00
I spent a lot of time on his stoa, his porch,
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์ €๋Š” ๊ทธ์˜ ์ฒ ํ•™์„ ์˜ค๋žซ๋™์•ˆ ํƒ๊ตฌํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ธ์ƒ๊ณผ ํ›ˆ๋ จ์— ๋Œ€ํ•œ ์กฐ์–ธ์„ ๊ตฌํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:02
asking life and training advice.
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11:05
He was part of the Solidarity in Poland,
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๊ทธ๋Š” ํด๋ž€๋“œ ์—ฐ๋Œ€์ž์œ ๋…ธ์กฐ์˜ ์ผ์›์ด์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:09
which was a nonviolent movement for social change
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์ •๋ถ€์˜ ํญ์••์— ์ €ํ•ญํ•˜๋ฉฐ
11:11
that was violently suppressed by the government.
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์‚ฌํšŒ ๋ณ€ํ™”๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•œ ๋น„ํญ๋ ฅ ์šด๋™์— ์•ž์žฅ์„  ๋‹จ์ฒด์˜€์ฃ .
11:14
He lost his career as a firefighter.
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์†Œ๋ฐฉ๊ด€์ด์—ˆ๋˜ ๊ทธ๋Š” ํ•ด๊ณ ๋˜์—ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:16
Then his mentor, a priest, was kidnapped, tortured, killed
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๊ทธ์˜ ์Šค์Šน์ด๋˜ ์‹ ๋ถ€๋Š” ๋‚ฉ์น˜๋˜์–ด ๊ณ ๋ฌธ์„ ๋‹นํ–ˆ๊ณ 
11:19
and thrown into a river.
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์ฃฝ์€ ์ฑ„๋กœ ๊ฐ•์— ๋ฒ„๋ ค์กŒ์ฃ .
11:21
He was then threatened.
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์œ„ํ˜‘์„ ๋Š๋‚€ ๊ทธ๋Š” ๋ถ€์ธ๊ณผ ํ•จ๊ป˜ ํด๋ž€๋“œ๋ฅผ ๋– ๋‚˜์•ผ๋งŒ ํ–ˆ๊ณ 
11:22
He and his wife had to flee Poland, bounce from country to country
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ ๋‚˜๋ผ๋ฅผ ๋– ๋Œ์•„ ๋ฏธ๊ตญ์— ๋„์ฐฉํ–ˆ์„ ๋•Œ๋Š”
11:25
until they landed in the US with next to nothing,
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๋นˆํ„ธํ„ธ์ด ์‹ ์„ธ๊ฐ€ ๋˜์–ด ๋…ธ์ˆ™์„ ํ•˜๋ฉฐ ์ง€๋ƒˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:28
sleeping on floors.
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11:30
He now lives in Woodside, California, in a very nice place,
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์ด์ œ ๊ทธ๋Š” ์บ˜๋ฆฌํฌ๋‹ˆ์•„์˜ ์šฐ๋“œ์‚ฌ์ด๋“œ์—์„œ ๊ต‰์žฅํžˆ ์ข‹์€ ์ง‘์—์„œ ์ง€๋‚ด๊ณ  ์žˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:34
and of the 10,000-plus people I've met in my life,
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์ œ๊ฐ€ ์‚ด๋ฉด์„œ ๋งŒ๋‚œ ์ˆ˜๋งŽ์€ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ๋“ค ์ค‘์—์„œ
11:36
I would put him in the top 10,
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์„ฑ๊ณต๊ณผ ํ–‰๋ณต์œผ๋กœ ๋”ฐ์ง€์ž๋ฉด ์ƒ์œ„ 10๋ช… ์•ˆ์— ๋“œ๋Š” ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ž…๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:39
in terms of success and happiness.
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11:42
And there's a punchline coming, so pay attention.
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์ด์ œ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๋ถ€๋ถ„์ด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ ์ž˜ ๋“ค์œผ์„ธ์š”.
11:44
I sent him a text a few weeks ago,
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๋ช‡ ์ฃผ ์ „์— ๊ทธ์—๊ฒŒ ๋ฌธ์ž๋กœ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ–ˆ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
11:46
asking him: Had he ever read any Stoic philosophy?
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"์Šคํ† ์•„ ์ฒ ํ•™์— ๊ด€ํ•œ ์ฑ…์„ ์ฝ์–ด๋ณด์…จ๋‚˜์š”?"
11:49
And he replied with two pages of text.
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๋‘ ์žฅ์ด ๋„˜๋Š” ๋‹ต์‹ ์„ ๋ณด๋‚ด์ฃผ๋”๊ตฐ์š”.
11:51
This is very unlike him. He is a terse dude.
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์ „ํ˜€ ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ๋ถ„์ด ์•„๋‹Œ๋ฐ๋„ ๋ง์ด์ฃ . ์›๋ž˜๋Š” ๊ณผ๋ฌตํ•œ ์‚ฌ๋žŒ์ด๊ฑฐ๋“ ์š”.
11:54
(Laughter)
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11:55
And not only was he familiar with stoicism,
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์ž์‹ ์ด ๊ทน๊ธฐ์ฃผ์˜๋ฅผ ์ž˜ ์•Œ๊ณ  ์žˆ์„ ๋ฟ๋งŒ ์•„๋‹ˆ๋ผ
11:58
but he pointed out, for all of his most important decisions,
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์ž์‹ ์˜ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ์ค‘์š”ํ•œ ๊ฒฐ์ •๋“ค
12:02
his inflection points,
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์ธ์ƒ์˜ ๋ณ€๊ณก์ 
12:03
when he stood up for his principles and ethics,
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์‹ ๋…๊ณผ ์ •์˜๋ฅผ ์œ„ํ•ด ๋งž์„ฐ๋˜ ์ˆœ๊ฐ„๋งˆ๋‹ค
12:07
how he had used stoicism and something akin to fear-setting,
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๊ทน๊ธฐ์ฃผ์˜๋‚˜ ๋‘๋ ค์›€ ์„ค์ •ํ•˜๊ธฐ์™€ ๋น„์Šทํ•œ ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ•์„ ์‚ฌ์šฉํ–ˆ๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
๊ทธ ๋ง์— ์ €๋Š” ๊นœ์ง ๋†€๋ž์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:11
which blew my mind.
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12:12
And he closed with two things.
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ๋์œผ๋กœ ๋‘ ๊ฐ€์ง€๋ฅผ ๋งํ•ด์ฃผ์…จ์–ด์š”.
12:13
Number one: he couldn't imagine any life more beautiful
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์ฒซ ๋ฒˆ์งธ๋กœ
๊ทน๊ธฐ์ฃผ์˜์ž์˜ ์‚ถ๋ณด๋‹ค ์•„๋ฆ„๋‹ค์šด ์‚ถ์€ ์ƒ๊ฐํ•  ์ˆ˜ ์—†๋‹ค๊ณ  ํ•˜์…จ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:17
than that of a Stoic.
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12:20
And the last was his mantra, which he applies to everything,
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๋งˆ์ง€๋ง‰์€ ๊ทธ๊ฐ€ ๋ชจ๋“  ๊ฒƒ์— ์ ์šฉํ–ˆ๋˜ ์ฃผ๋ฌธ์ด๋‹ˆ๊นŒ
12:23
and you can apply to everything:
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์—ฌ๋Ÿฌ๋ถ„๋„ ๊ทธ๋Ÿด ์ˆ˜ ์žˆ์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:27
"Easy choices, hard life.
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"์‰ฌ์šด ์„ ํƒ, ์–ด๋ ค์šด ์‚ถ.
12:29
Hard choices, easy life."
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์–ด๋ ค์šด ์„ ํƒ, ์‰ฌ์šด ์‚ถ."
12:34
The hard choices --
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์–ด๋ ค์šด ์„ ํƒ๋“ค.
12:36
what we most fear doing, asking, saying --
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ํ–‰๋™ํ•˜๊ณ , ์š”๊ตฌํ•˜๊ณ , ๋งํ•˜๊ธฐ ๊ฐ€์žฅ ๋‘๋ ค์šด ๊ฒƒ๋“ค์€
12:40
these are very often exactly what we most need to do.
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์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋ฐ˜๋“œ์‹œ ํ•ด์•ผ๋งŒ ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ธ ๊ฒฝ์šฐ๊ฐ€ ๋งŽ์Šต๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:45
And the biggest challenges and problems we face
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๊ทธ๋ฆฌ๊ณ  ์šฐ๋ฆฌ๊ฐ€ ๋งˆ์ฃผํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฐ€์žฅ ํฐ ๋ฌธ์ œ๋“ค์€
12:48
will never be solved with comfortable conversations,
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์ ˆ๋Œ€๋กœ ํŽธ์•ˆํ•œ ๋Œ€ํ™”๋กœ ํ•ด๊ฒฐ๋˜์ง„ ์•Š์„ ๊ฒ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
12:51
whether it's in your own head or with other people.
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์Šค์Šค๋กœ์˜ ์ƒ๊ฐ์ด๊ฑด, ํƒ€์ธ๊ณผ์˜ ์†Œํ†ต์ด๊ฑด ๋ง์ด์ฃ .
12:55
So I encourage you to ask yourselves:
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์Šค์Šค๋กœ์—๊ฒŒ ์ด๋Ÿฐ ์งˆ๋ฌธ์„ ํ•ด๋ณด์„ธ์š”.
๋‚˜์˜ ์‚ถ์—์„œ ๋ฐ”๋กœ ์ง€๊ธˆ์ด์•ผ๋ง๋กœ
12:57
Where in your lives right now
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12:58
might defining your fears be more important than defining your goals?
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๋ฌด์—‡์ด ๋‘๋ ค์šด์ง€๋ฅผ ์ •์˜ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ์ด ๋ชฉํ‘œ๋ฅผ ์ •ํ•˜๋Š” ๊ฒƒ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ค‘์š”ํ•˜์ง€ ์•Š์„๊นŒ?
13:04
Keeping in mind all the while, the words of Seneca:
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์„ธ๋„ค์นด์˜ ๋ง๋„ ๋Š˜ ๊ธฐ์–ตํ•ด๋‘์„ธ์š”.
13:08
"We suffer more often in imagination than in reality."
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"์šฐ๋ฆฌ๋Š” ์‹ค์ œ ์‚ถ๋ณด๋‹ค ์ƒ์ƒ์—์„œ ๋” ๊ณ ํ†ต ๋ฐ›๋Š”๋‹ค."
13:11
Thank you very much.
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๊ฐ์‚ฌํ•ฉ๋‹ˆ๋‹ค.
13:13
(Applause)
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