Help for kids the education system ignores | Victor Rios

For over a decade,

I have studied young people that have been pushed out of school,

so called "dropouts."

As they end up failed by the education system,

they're on the streets where they're vulnerable to violence,

police harassment,

police brutality

and incarceration.

I follow these young people for years at a time,

across institutional settings,

to try to understand what some of us call the "school-to-prison pipeline."

When you look at a picture like this,

of young people who are in my study ...

you might see trouble.

I mean one of the boys has a bottle of liquor in his hand,

he's 14 years old

and it's a school day.

Other people, when they see this picture,

might see gangs,

thugs, delinquents --

criminals.

But I see it different.

I see these young people through a perspective

that looks at the assets that they bring to the education system.

So will you join me in changing the way we label young people

from "at-risk" to "at-promise?"

(Applause)

How do I know that these young people

have the potential and the promise to change?

I know this because I am one of them.

You see, I grew up in dire poverty in the inner city,

without a father --

he abandoned me before I was even born.

We were on welfare,

sometimes homeless,

many times hungry.

By the time I was 15 years old,

I had been incarcerated in juvy three times for three felonies.

My best friend had already been killed.

And soon after,

while I'm standing next to my uncle,

he gets shot.

And as I'm waiting for the ambulance to arrive

for over an hour ...

he bleeds to death on the street.

I had lost faith and hope in the world,

and I had given up on the system because the system had failed me.

I had nothing to offer

and no one had anything to offer me.

I was fatalistic.

I didn't even think I could make it to my 18th birthday.

The reason I'm here today

is because a teacher that cared reached out

and managed to tap into my soul.

This teacher,

Ms. Russ ...

she was the kind of teacher that was always in your business.

(Laughter)

She was the kind of teacher that was like,

"Victor, I'm here for you whenever you're ready."

(Laughter)

I wasn't ready.

But she understood one basic principle about young people like me.

We're like oysters.

We're only going to open up when we're ready,

and if you're not there when we're ready,

we're going to clam back up.

Ms. Russ was there for me.

She was culturally relevant,

she respected my community, my people, my family.

I told her a story about my Uncle Ruben.

He would take me to work with him because I was broke,

and he knew I needed some money.

He collected glass bottles for a living.

Four in the morning on a school day,

we'd throw the glass bottles in the back of his van,

and the bottles would break.

And my hands and arms would start to bleed

and my tennis shoes and pants would get all bloody.

And I was terrified and in pain, and I would stop working.

And my uncle, he would look me in the eyes and he would say to me,

"Mijo,

estamos buscando vida."

"We're searching for a better life,

we're trying to make something out of nothing."

Ms. Russ listened to my story,

welcomed it into the classroom and said,

"Victor, this is your power.

This is your potential.

Your family, your culture, your community have taught you a hard-work ethic

and you will use it to empower yourself in the academic world

so you can come back and empower your community."

With Ms. Russ's help,

I ended up returning to school.

I even finished my credits on time

and graduated with my class.

(Applause)

But Ms. Russ said to me right before graduation,

"Victor, I'm so proud of you.

I knew you could do it.

Now it's time to go to college."

(Laughter)

College, me?

Man, what is this teacher smoking thinking I'm going to college?

I applied with the mentors and support she provided,

got a letter of acceptance,

and one of the paragraphs read,

"You've been admitted under probationary status."

I said, "Probation? I'm already on probation,

that don't matter?"

(Laughter)

It was academic probation, not criminal probation.

But what do teachers like Ms. Russ do to succeed with young people

like the ones I study?

I propose three strategies.

The first:

let's get rid of our deficit perspective in education.

"These people come from a culture of violence,

a culture of poverty.

These people are at-risk; these people are truant.

These people are empty containers for us to fill with knowledge.

They have the problems,

we have the solutions."

Number two.

Let's value the stories that young people bring to the schoolhouse.

Their stories of overcoming insurmountable odds are so powerful.

And I know you know some of these stories.

These very same stories and experiences

already have grit, character and resilience in them.

So let's help young people refine those stories.

Let's help them be proud of who they are,

because our education system welcomes their families, their cultures,

their communities

and the skill set they've learned to survive.

And of course the third strategy being the most important:

resources.

We have to provide adequate resources to young people.

Grit alone isn't going to cut it.

You can sit there and tell me all you want,

"Hey man, pick yourself up by the bootstraps."

But if I was born without any straps on my boots --

(Laughter)

How am I supposed to pick myself up?

(Applause)

Job training,

mentoring,

counseling ...

Teaching young people to learn from their mistakes

instead of criminalizing them,

and dragging them out of their classrooms like animals.

How about this?

I propose that we implement restorative justice in every high school in America.

(Applause)

So we went out to test these ideas in the community of Watts in LA

with 40 young people that had been pushed out of school.

William was one of them.

William was the kind of kid that had been given every label.

He had dropped out, he was a gang member,

a criminal.

And when we met him he was very resistant.

But I remember what Ms. Russ used to say.

"Hey, I'm here for you whenever you're ready."

(Laughter)

So over time --

over time he began to open up.

And I remember the day that he made the switch.

We were in a large group

and a young lady in our program was crying

because she told us her powerful story

of her dad being killed

and then his body being shown in the newspaper the next day.

And as she's crying, I don't know what to do,

so I give her her space,

and William had enough.

He slammed his hands on the desk and he said,

"Hey, everybody! Group hug! Group hug!"

(Applause)

This young lady's tears and pain turned into joy and laughter

knowing that her community had her back,

and William had now learned that he did have a purpose in life:

to help to heal the souls of people in his own community.

He told us his story.

We refined his story

to go from being the story of a victim to being the story of a survivor

that has overcome adversity.

We placed high value on it.

William went on to finish high school,

get his security guard certificate to become a security guard,

and is now working at a local school district.

(Applause)

Ms. Russ's mantra --

her mantra was always,

"when you teach to the heart, the mind will follow."

The great writer Khalil Gibran says,

"Out of suffering have emerged the greatest souls.

The massive characters are seared with scars."

I believe that in this education revolution that we're talking about

we need to invite the souls of the young people that we work with,

and once they're able to refine --

identify their grit, resilience and character

that they've already developed --

their academic performance will improve.

Let's believe in young people.

Let's provide them the right kinds of resources.

I'll tell you what my teacher did for me.

She believed in me so much

that she tricked me into believing in myself.

Thank you.

(Applause)