2 questions to uncover your passion -- and turn it into a career | Noeline Kirabo

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譯者: Jingying Liao 審譯者: Taylor Hansome
00:12
When you have a job that pays you enough to cover your basic needs,
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你是什麽時候拿到一份 能使你經濟獨立
00:16
your bills and even some more to spend,
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使你付清你的賬單 以及額外支出的工作的?
00:18
the assumption is that you'd be happy,
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前提是你享受其中,
00:20
or, even better, fulfilled.
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或者甚至説能夠從中獲得滿足感。
00:23
And it seems unthinkable when you wake up and say
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這似乎是不可思議的, 當某天你起床時說
00:25
you're going to leave a job like that to pursue a passion.
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你要辭職並去追求自己的熱情所在。
00:29
And that was my dilemma six years ago.
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這就是我六年前面對的兩難。
00:33
I had a comfortable job, I lived a comfortable life,
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我當時有一份滿意的工作, 過著舒心的生活,
00:36
and people expected me to be fulfilled,
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人們都認爲我很幸福,
00:39
but I wasn't.
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其實我並沒有。
00:40
There was something in me that wanted more.
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我的内心想要更多,
00:43
There was a misalignment between the things I did on a daily basis
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我每天做的事情,
00:47
and the things that I deeply cared about.
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和我所在乎的東西並不一致。
00:51
And so I decided to quit
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所以我決定辭職,
00:52
and explore the possibility of bringing this passion into my daily routine.
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去探索那些能給 我生活軌跡帶來熱情的可能。
00:58
And the thing about finding your passion
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然而尋找熱愛,
01:00
is that it's not straightforward.
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並不是一帆風順的。
01:02
Even for people with money and degrees,
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就算有地位有錢的人也一樣,
01:04
they still struggle to identify their passion.
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他們仍然深陷於如何尋找 他們熱情的困境中。
01:08
And here I was as a 30-year-old,
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那時我三十歲,
01:11
talking about finding my passion
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説著要尋找我的熱情所在
01:13
and turning it into a career.
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並將它轉爲我的事業。
01:15
Literally, people told me,
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說真的,人們都和我説,
01:17
"You don't talk about passion until you've made enough money --
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「在你賺大錢之前你無法去實現熱情。
01:20
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
01:22
or at least until you're ready to retire."
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或者起碼退休後吧。」
01:26
Because there's a notion that looking inward
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因為有種觀點是自我反省,
01:28
and finding the things that give us pleasure and fulfillment
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去找到那些讓我們感到 愉悅和滿足的事物,
01:31
is a luxury that only the rich can enjoy,
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是有錢人才能享受的奢侈,
01:35
or a pleasure that only the retired can indulge in.
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或者是退休人群才能體會到的快樂。
01:39
Which made me wonder:
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我不禁想:
01:41
Is passion only for the rich,
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熱情的大門真的是只對有錢人
01:44
or an experience only the retired can enjoy?
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或那些退休的人才開啟的嗎?
01:47
For many of us, we've been led to believe
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對於我們大部分人來説, 受到他人的影響,我們相信
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that life is a race of survival.
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生命是一場生存競賽。
01:53
We've been conditioned to see ourselves as survivors
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我們習慣於將自己視爲倖存者,
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that must do everything in our power to survive.
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並且要將所有的精力 都投入生存這件事上。
02:00
In Africa, we're nurtured to go through school, cram and pass,
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在非洲,我們被叮囑著
要上學補習而且拿到及格,
02:05
in the hope that you get a job after.
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才有長大後找到工作的希望。
02:07
And if you do, stick at it no matter how much it sucks.
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而且一旦開始做了,
你就要堅持下去,無論這有多糟。
02:11
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
02:12
Until you get a better offer or you're asked to retire.
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直到你找到更好的工作 或者撐到退休。
02:18
And as a dropout,
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身爲輟學生,
02:19
I knew that I was not entitled to anything.
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我知道自己沒資格得到任何東西。
02:22
Every opportunity was a privilege.
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任何機遇都是一種特權。
02:26
And so when I thought about quitting,
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所以當我想著辭職的時候,
02:28
it was a huge risk.
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我冒著巨大的風險。
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I was given two alternatives,
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我當時有兩種在非洲最普遍的選擇。
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which are the most popular in Africa.
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02:35
The first one is sign up for any course at a vocational institution and do it.
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第一個是在職業機構報名學習,
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My second option, settle for any job offer you can get,
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另外一個則是 接受你能得到的工作機會,
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no matter the working conditions,
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無論工作條件有多糟糕,
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and do it.
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做下去。
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That probably explains why we have so many of our young people
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我想這能解釋爲什麽我們有 那麽多的年輕人
02:51
being trafficked in search of greener pastures.
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在追尋美好生活中被惡人販賣。
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I opted for the first option.
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我選了第一個。
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I did look at a couple vocational institutions
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我研究了幾間不同的職業機構,
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in the hope that I would find a course that resonated with my persona,
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寄希望於有這麼一門職業課程,
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my dream and my aspiration.
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符合我的個性夢想和志向。
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I was disappointed to learn that there was no room for misfits like me
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但我只能失望而歸,
這些機構中並沒有我的一席之地。
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in these institutions.
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03:12
The education system in many parts of the world
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世界上許多地方的教育系統,
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has been designed around preselected options
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都是圍繞已有工作選項設計的,
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that young people are expected to fit in or risk becoming misfits.
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就是年輕人們得去適應, 否則就會格格不入。
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And so going through school, I was nurtured and conditioned
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在學校中,我被訓導要習慣去
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to think in the straight line and stay within the straight line.
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按常理思考並且不逾矩。
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But when I dropped out, I discovered a world of possibilities.
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而當我輟學的時候, 我發現了一個充滿可能性的世界。
03:32
I knew I could be anything, I could study anything,
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我知道我可成爲任何人, 也可以學習任何知識,
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and so I leveraged free online courses.
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所以我充分利用免費網課。
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That's how I built my CV, got into employment
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這就是我如何完善自己的簡歷,
找到工作,
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and worked for eight years.
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並這樣工作了八年。
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And after eight years,
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八年後,
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I told myself there must be more to life
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我告誡自己生活必然還有更多的樂趣,
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than just going through the routines of life.
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而不只是例行公事般地活著。
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So in 2014, I started an organization called Kyusa
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所以在 2014 年,
我創立了一個叫「休佐」 (Kyusa)的公益組織,
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where we are working with out-of-school youth
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致力於與輟學生工作,
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and empowering them to turn their passions
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並鼓勵他們將自己的熱情
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into profitable, scalable and sustainable businesses.
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轉變為盈利、可擴展 和可持續的業務。
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Now, when we talk about passion,
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現在,我們再來談一談熱情,
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one of the most common questions that people ask is, "What is passion?
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其中人們會問的最多的一個問題是
「什麽是熱情?
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How do I even find it?"
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我要怎麽找到它?」
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And in the simplest definition,
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用最簡單的定義,
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passion is a collection of your life experiences
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熱情是你人生經歷中的收藏品
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that give you the deepest sense of fulfillment.
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可以激發你内心最深處的滿足感。
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And to identify your passion, you need to look inward.
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要想找到自己的熱情所在, 你需要審視自己的内心。
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So we use two reflective questions.
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所以我們一般用這兩個反思性問題。
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The first question we ask is,
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我們問的第一個問題是,
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"If you had all the time and the money in the world,
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「如果你擁有世界上全部的時間和金錢,
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what would you spend your time doing?"
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你在平日會做什麽?」
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It sounds like a very simple question,
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這聽起來是一個很簡單的問題,
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but many people struggle to answer this question
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但許多人很難給出回答,
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because they've just never thought about it.
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因爲他們從來沒有想過。
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The second question we ask
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我們問的第二個問題是
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is, "What makes you happy
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「什麽能讓你變得開心,
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or gives you the deepest sense of fulfillment?"
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或是能帶給你滿足感?」
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Now, you would assume that we all know what makes us happy,
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現在,你會覺得我們都 知道什麽能讓我們變得開心,
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but it's also interesting to note that so many people have no idea
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但是很有意思的是 許多人並不清楚
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what makes them happy,
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什麼事能讓自己開心,
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because they are so busy going through the routines of life,
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因爲他們在生活中忙得不可開交,
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they've never stopped to look inward.
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未曾審視自己的内心。
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And so identifying the things that give us a deep sense of fulfillment
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所以識別那些能帶給你深深滿足感,
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and the things that give us deep joy
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以及那些帶來快樂的東西,
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are thoughts that begin to direct us in the direction of our passion.
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是一開始引導我們走向熱情的想法。
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And just in case you're wondering
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如果你想知道,
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what your answers are to those two questions,
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你自己關於這兩個問題的答案,
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I invite you to sit with these questions later and just reflect about it.
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我想請你們稍後停下來 靜靜地思考這兩個問題的答案。
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However, I am also aware
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當然了,我同樣注意到了,
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that passion alone cannot guarantee success in life.
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僅僅靠熱情並不能保證生活的成功。
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And I should note
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我應該説
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that not every passion can become a career.
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並不是所有的熱情都可以轉變成事業。
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For passion to become a career,
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對於那些變成事業的熱情來説,
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it must be coupled with the right set of skills, conditioning and positioning.
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它必須與正確的技能、 條件和定位相结合。
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So when we get our young people to look inward,
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所以當我們讓年輕人 去看自己内心的時候
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we also ask them what skills do you have,
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我們也會問他們有什麽技巧、
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what talents do you have, what experience do you have
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有什麽天賦、有什麽經驗經歷,
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that you can use to build a niche in the marketplace.
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可以用來在市場上建立利基。
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But more than that, we also look at the market trends,
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不止這樣,我們還要看市場趨勢,
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because it doesn't matter how much you love and enjoy it.
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因爲無論你有多熱愛享受這個,
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If nobody wants it or is willing to pay for it,
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如果沒有人想要或者爲了這個去花錢,
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it can't be a career.
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這就不能成為事業。
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It's just a hobby.
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只是個興趣罷了。
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And the third thing we look at is how do you position yourself?
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我們探尋的第三件事則是 怎麽定位你自己?
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Who are you targeting? Who do you want to sell to?
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你的目標是什麽? 你的客戶目標群是什麽樣的?
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Why would they want to buy from you?
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他們爲什麽要在你這買東西?
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And so the combination of the three is what enables you to move
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這三者的結合能使你獲得進度開始行動,
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from just a passion to a business.
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而不只是對生意的熱情。
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And many of our young people have been able to turn their ideas
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我們有許多年輕人
已經將他們的創意或燃燒的熱情 轉變為可盈利的生意,
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and burning desires into profitable businesses
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or social enterprises,
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或者是社會企業,
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and they're not just creating jobs,
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他們不只是提供工作崗位,
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but they are solving societal challenges.
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更是解決社會帶來的挑戰。
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I'll share with you two examples.
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我會向你們分享兩個例子。
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One of them is Esther.
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其中一個是伊斯帖(Esther)。
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I met Esther two years ago.
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我在兩年前認識伊斯帖。
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She had been out of school for two years,
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她那時已經離開學校兩年,
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and she had been deeply affected by her dropping out.
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並且深受輟學影響。
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As a result, she had experienced severe depression
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因此,她經歷過嚴重的抑鬱症,
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to a point where she attempted to take her own life several times.
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以至於她曾幾度想終結自己的生命。
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Her friends and family didn't know what to do for her.
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她的朋友家人不知道要爲她做什麽。
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They simply prayed for her.
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他們只能爲她祈禱。
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When I met Esther and I started to converse with her,
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當我見到她、與她聊天的時候,
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I asked her a simple question.
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我問了她一個簡單的問題。
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I said, "If you had all the time and the money in the world,
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我説「如果你有世界上 全部的金錢與時間,
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what would you do?"
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你會做什麽?」
07:07
Without thinking or hesitation,
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毫不猶豫地,
07:10
her eyes lit up and she began to tell me
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她眼中迸射出光芒然後告訴我,
07:12
how she wanted to change the lives of young people.
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她有多想改變青少年的生活。
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She wanted to restore hope and dignity to other teenagers
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她想通過提供更全面的信息,
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by helping them make informed decisions about life.
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來幫助其他青少年們重構希望與尊嚴。
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I was certain of the fact that this burning desire in her
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我很確定我在她眼中看到了
耀目不絕的燃燒的期望。
07:25
was unquenchable.
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And so we worked with Esther to put a framework around this desire.
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於是我們圍繞伊斯帖的想法 與她一起構造初始框架。
07:31
Today, she runs a social enterprise in her village,
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現如今,她在她的村莊中 運營一間企業,
07:34
raising awareness about substance abuse, mental health, sexual reproductive health
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以喚起人們對濫用藥物、 心理健康與生殖健康的注意,
07:39
and is helping other school dropouts acquire vocational skills,
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並且幫助其他輟學的學生 習得職業技能,
07:42
so they can make a living for themselves.
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授人以漁,讓他們可以營生。
07:45
Esther turned 20 this year,
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伊斯帖今年就 20 歲了,
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and for the last two years, she has organized an annual teen fest
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在過去的兩年裏, 她都組織了年度青年集會,
07:53
that brings together over 500 teenagers.
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讓超過 500 位青少年共聚一堂。
07:57
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
08:02
Young people that are able to network and collaborate
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年輕人可以通過網絡在不同的項目上
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on different projects,
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開展合作,
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but more importantly to meet professionals they would otherwise never have met.
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但更有意義的是去結交 那些他們從未接觸過的專業人士。
08:12
This is all engineered by a girl that believed the world had no room for her,
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以上的這些,都是一個認爲世界 無她容身之地的女孩組織的,
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that without education she would never amount to anything.
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她原以為缺少教育她將一事無成。
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But by looking inward and tapping into a burning desire,
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但通過審視内心、點燃内心熱情,
08:23
putting structure around it,
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並在此基礎上建構,
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it has become a model that not only changed her life
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這便成爲了一個不止改變她人生,
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but is transforming the lives of hundreds of young people every year.
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而且每年為其他許多青少年 帶來新生的方式。
08:33
My other example is Musa.
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另一個例子是穆沙(Musa)。
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Musa is a natural artistic guy.
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穆沙是一個天生的藝術家。
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He's the kind that would look at any design and replicate it with ease.
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他是那種對設計過目不忘 能輕而易舉進行複製的人。
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And so he seeks to recognize that ability in him.
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同樣的,他也想發展自己的長處。
08:44
When I met Musa, he was doing all kinds of crafts --
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當我見到穆沙的時候, 他什麽手工活都做——
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bags, belts, wallets --
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手袋、皮帶、錢包——
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but it was more of a part-time thing.
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但更多的,這只是兼職。
08:51
Or sometimes, if he was really broke and needed to make quick money,
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或者有些時候,他真的 入不敷出急需快錢,
08:55
then he would come up with a design and sell it.
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他會想出一個設計然後把它賣掉。
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But he had never thought of it as a business.
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但他從未想過把 設計想法發展成生意。
09:01
We started working with Musa,
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我們開始和穆沙合作,
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helping him shift his mindset from a hobby to a business
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幫助他將想法從愛好轉變爲生意,
09:06
and beginning to rethink how he can make products that he could sell
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然後開始重新構想怎樣生產和銷售,
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and even be able to scale.
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甚至是規模化生產。
09:12
Musa makes some of the most amazing bags I've ever seen,
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穆沙做了一些我見過 最令人喜愛的手提袋,
09:16
and over the last one year, Musa's business has grown.
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在過去的一年中, 穆沙的生意有了起色。
09:19
He has been recognized in different places.
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甚至在許多不同的地方, 他還會被認出來。
09:21
Currently, he's talking about exporting to developed countries.
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目前,他正打算將產品 出口到已開發國家。
09:25
Musa, like any other dropout,
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穆沙就像其他許多的輟學生一樣,
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believed that without academic credentials,
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以為沒有學歷的他,
09:29
he wouldn't amount to anything.
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永遠沒辦法成功。
09:31
He thought the talent he had was nothing
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他認爲他的天賦一文不值,
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simply because he did not have an academic paper to define him.
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就因爲他沒有那張 可以定義他的學歷證明。
09:39
But by looking inward and finding that what he had was the greatest asset
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但審視內心後, 他發現他擁有最大的財富,
09:43
and supporting him to turn it into a business,
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並且支持他將此變成事業,
09:45
he's not just living -- he's thriving.
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他不僅活著,而且還蓬勃發展。
09:49
The thing about looking inward is that it can be scary,
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審視内心有時會變得很嚇人,
09:53
especially if you're doing it for the first time.
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尤其是你第一次做的時候。
09:56
But the truth is you never truly start living
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但事實是,你從未真正地活過,
09:59
until you learn to live from the inside out.
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直到你活出自我。
10:03
And in unlocking potential, we need to look inward to identify
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在發掘潛力時, 我們需要看看自己的内心,
去識別那些給我們帶來滿足感
10:07
the things that give us a deep sense of fulfillment,
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10:10
the things that give us the deepest joy,
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或巨大喜悅的事物,
10:12
and then weave them into the patterns of our daily routines.
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然後將它們融入自己的日常生活。
10:16
In so doing, we cease to work and we start to live.
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只有這樣,我們才從工作中解放, 並開始生活。
10:21
And the thing about living is that you never have to retire or to resign.
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而且我們並不需要退休 或辭職才能做這件事.
10:25
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
10:28
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
10:33
And so as you think about unlocking potential for ourselves,
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而且當你們爲了自己,
10:36
for our young people, for our children,
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爲了下一代,爲了自己的子女 去挖掘自己的無限潛力時,
10:38
let's not condition them to look outward
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不要侷限於外部,
10:41
but condition them to look inward
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而是與內在的真我溝通,
10:43
to tap into who they are and bring that self into what they do every day.
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喚醒它們,並將它們 帶進你的每日生活中。
10:48
When you cease to work and you live,
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當你停止機械性工作 開始活出自己的時候,
10:51
when passion becomes a career,
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當你的熱情成爲事業之時,
10:53
you don't just excel,
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你不只是優秀,
10:55
you become unstoppable.
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你將銳不可擋。
10:57
Thank you.
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謝謝!
10:59
(Applause)
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