2 questions to uncover your passion -- and turn it into a career | Noeline Kirabo

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When you have a job that pays you enough to cover your basic needs,
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your bills and even some more to spend,
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the assumption is that you'd be happy,
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or, even better, fulfilled.
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And it seems unthinkable when you wake up and say
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you're going to leave a job like that to pursue a passion.
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And that was my dilemma six years ago.
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I had a comfortable job, I lived a comfortable life,
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and people expected me to be fulfilled,
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but I wasn't.
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There was something in me that wanted more.
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There was a misalignment between the things I did on a daily basis
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and the things that I deeply cared about.
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And so I decided to quit
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and explore the possibility of bringing this passion into my daily routine.
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And the thing about finding your passion
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is that it's not straightforward.
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Even for people with money and degrees,
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they still struggle to identify their passion.
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And here I was as a 30-year-old,
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talking about finding my passion
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and turning it into a career.
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Literally, people told me,
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"You don't talk about passion until you've made enough money --
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(Laughter)
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or at least until you're ready to retire."
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Because there's a notion that looking inward
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and finding the things that give us pleasure and fulfillment
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is a luxury that only the rich can enjoy,
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or a pleasure that only the retired can indulge in.
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Which made me wonder:
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Is passion only for the rich,
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or an experience only the retired can enjoy?
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For many of us, we've been led to believe
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that life is a race of survival.
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We've been conditioned to see ourselves as survivors
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that must do everything in our power to survive.
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In Africa, we're nurtured to go through school, cram and pass,
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in the hope that you get a job after.
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And if you do, stick at it no matter how much it sucks.
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(Laughter)
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Until you get a better offer or you're asked to retire.
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And as a dropout,
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I knew that I was not entitled to anything.
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Every opportunity was a privilege.
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And so when I thought about quitting,
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it was a huge risk.
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I was given two alternatives,
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which are the most popular in Africa.
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The first one is sign up for any course at a vocational institution and do it.
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My second option, settle for any job offer you can get,
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no matter the working conditions,
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and do it.
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That probably explains why we have so many of our young people
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being trafficked in search of greener pastures.
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I opted for the first option.
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I did look at a couple vocational institutions
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in the hope that I would find a course that resonated with my persona,
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my dream and my aspiration.
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I was disappointed to learn that there was no room for misfits like me
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in these institutions.
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The education system in many parts of the world
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has been designed around preselected options
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that young people are expected to fit in or risk becoming misfits.
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And so going through school, I was nurtured and conditioned
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to think in the straight line and stay within the straight line.
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But when I dropped out, I discovered a world of possibilities.
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I knew I could be anything, I could study anything,
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and so I leveraged free online courses.
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That's how I built my CV, got into employment
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and worked for eight years.
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And after eight years,
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I told myself there must be more to life
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than just going through the routines of life.
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So in 2014, I started an organization called Kyusa
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where we are working with out-of-school youth
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and empowering them to turn their passions
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into profitable, scalable and sustainable businesses.
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Now, when we talk about passion,
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one of the most common questions that people ask is, "What is passion?
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How do I even find it?"
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And in the simplest definition,
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passion is a collection of your life experiences
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that give you the deepest sense of fulfillment.
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And to identify your passion, you need to look inward.
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So we use two reflective questions.
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The first question we ask is,
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"If you had all the time and the money in the world,
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what would you spend your time doing?"
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It sounds like a very simple question,
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but many people struggle to answer this question
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because they've just never thought about it.
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The second question we ask
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is, "What makes you happy
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or gives you the deepest sense of fulfillment?"
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Now, you would assume that we all know what makes us happy,
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but it's also interesting to note that so many people have no idea
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what makes them happy,
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because they are so busy going through the routines of life,
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they've never stopped to look inward.
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And so identifying the things that give us a deep sense of fulfillment
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and the things that give us deep joy
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are thoughts that begin to direct us in the direction of our passion.
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And just in case you're wondering
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what your answers are to those two questions,
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I invite you to sit with these questions later and just reflect about it.
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However, I am also aware
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that passion alone cannot guarantee success in life.
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And I should note
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that not every passion can become a career.
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For passion to become a career,
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it must be coupled with the right set of skills, conditioning and positioning.
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So when we get our young people to look inward,
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we also ask them what skills do you have,
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what talents do you have, what experience do you have
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that you can use to build a niche in the marketplace.
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But more than that, we also look at the market trends,
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because it doesn't matter how much you love and enjoy it.
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If nobody wants it or is willing to pay for it,
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it can't be a career.
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It's just a hobby.
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And the third thing we look at is how do you position yourself?
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Who are you targeting? Who do you want to sell to?
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Why would they want to buy from you?
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And so the combination of the three is what enables you to move
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from just a passion to a business.
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And many of our young people have been able to turn their ideas
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and burning desires into profitable businesses
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or social enterprises,
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and they're not just creating jobs,
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but they are solving societal challenges.
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I'll share with you two examples.
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One of them is Esther.
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I met Esther two years ago.
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She had been out of school for two years,
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and she had been deeply affected by her dropping out.
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As a result, she had experienced severe depression
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to a point where she attempted to take her own life several times.
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Her friends and family didn't know what to do for her.
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They simply prayed for her.
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When I met Esther and I started to converse with her,
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I asked her a simple question.
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I said, "If you had all the time and the money in the world,
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what would you do?"
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Without thinking or hesitation,
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her eyes lit up and she began to tell me
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how she wanted to change the lives of young people.
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She wanted to restore hope and dignity to other teenagers
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by helping them make informed decisions about life.
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I was certain of the fact that this burning desire in her
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was unquenchable.
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And so we worked with Esther to put a framework around this desire.
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Today, she runs a social enterprise in her village,
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raising awareness about substance abuse, mental health, sexual reproductive health
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and is helping other school dropouts acquire vocational skills,
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so they can make a living for themselves.
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Esther turned 20 this year,
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and for the last two years, she has organized an annual teen fest
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that brings together over 500 teenagers.
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(Applause)
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Young people that are able to network and collaborate
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on different projects,
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but more importantly to meet professionals they would otherwise never have met.
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This is all engineered by a girl that believed the world had no room for her,
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that without education she would never amount to anything.
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But by looking inward and tapping into a burning desire,
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putting structure around it,
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it has become a model that not only changed her life
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but is transforming the lives of hundreds of young people every year.
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My other example is Musa.
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Musa is a natural artistic guy.
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He's the kind that would look at any design and replicate it with ease.
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And so he seeks to recognize that ability in him.
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When I met Musa, he was doing all kinds of crafts --
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bags, belts, wallets --
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but it was more of a part-time thing.
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Or sometimes, if he was really broke and needed to make quick money,
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then he would come up with a design and sell it.
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But he had never thought of it as a business.
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We started working with Musa,
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helping him shift his mindset from a hobby to a business
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and beginning to rethink how he can make products that he could sell
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and even be able to scale.
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Musa makes some of the most amazing bags I've ever seen,
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and over the last one year, Musa's business has grown.
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He has been recognized in different places.
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Currently, he's talking about exporting to developed countries.
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Musa, like any other dropout,
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believed that without academic credentials,
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he wouldn't amount to anything.
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He thought the talent he had was nothing
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simply because he did not have an academic paper to define him.
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But by looking inward and finding that what he had was the greatest asset
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and supporting him to turn it into a business,
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he's not just living -- he's thriving.
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The thing about looking inward is that it can be scary,
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especially if you're doing it for the first time.
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But the truth is you never truly start living
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until you learn to live from the inside out.
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And in unlocking potential, we need to look inward to identify
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the things that give us a deep sense of fulfillment,
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the things that give us the deepest joy,
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and then weave them into the patterns of our daily routines.
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In so doing, we cease to work and we start to live.
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And the thing about living is that you never have to retire or to resign.
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(Laughter)
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(Applause)
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And so as you think about unlocking potential for ourselves,
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for our young people, for our children,
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let's not condition them to look outward
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but condition them to look inward
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to tap into who they are and bring that self into what they do every day.
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When you cease to work and you live,
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when passion becomes a career,
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you don't just excel,
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you become unstoppable.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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