How we talk about sexual assault online | Ione Wells

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翻译人员: Tingting Zhong 校对人员: Conway Ye
00:13
It was April, last year.
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去年四月的一天晚上,
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I was on an evening out with friends
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我和朋友们出去聚会,
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to celebrate one of their birthdays.
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庆祝其中一个朋友的生日。
00:19
We hadn't been all together for a couple of weeks;
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我们有好几个礼拜没聚过了,
00:22
it was a perfect evening, as we were all reunited.
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重聚让那个晚上很完美。
00:25
At the end of the evening,
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接近尾声的时候,
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I caught the last underground train back to the other side of London.
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我搭上最后一趟地铁, 赶回了伦敦的另一头。
00:30
The journey was smooth.
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一路上都挺顺利的。
00:32
I got back to my local station
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到站下车后
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and I began the 10-minute walk home.
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还需要走十分钟才能到家。
00:37
As I turned the corner onto my street,
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转过这条街角,
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my house in sight up ahead,
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就可以看到我家,
00:41
I heard footsteps behind me
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我听见身后有脚步声,
00:43
that seemed to have approached out of nowhere
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不知道从哪突然冒出来的,
00:45
and were picking up pace.
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脚步声越来越急促。
00:47
Before I had time to process what was happening,
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还没等我反应过来是怎么回事,
00:50
a hand was clapped around my mouth so that I could not breathe,
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一只手捂住了我的嘴, 使我无法呼吸,
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and the young man behind me dragged me to the ground,
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身后的年轻人把我拽倒在地,
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beat my head repeatedly against the pavement
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不停的将我的头部砸向地面
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until my face began to bleed,
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直到我的脸开始流血,
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kicking me in the back and neck
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用脚踢我的背部和颈部,
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while he began to assault me,
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他开始对我性侵,
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ripping off my clothes and telling me to "shut up,"
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撕裂我的衣服并让我闭嘴,
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as I struggled to cry for help.
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当时我挣扎着想要呼救。
01:09
With each smack of my head to the concrete ground,
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每次当我的头部被撞向地面时,
01:11
a question echoed through my mind that still haunts me today:
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我都在想一个至今仍然 笼罩着我的问题:
01:15
"Is this going to be how it all ends?"
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“我将如此死去吗?”
01:18
Little could I have realized, I'd been followed the whole way
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我毫无察觉,那人竟从我下车之后
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from the moment I left the station.
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一直跟踪我。
01:23
And hours later,
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过了几个小时,
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I was standing topless and barelegged in front of the police,
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我赤身裸体的来到警察局,
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having the cuts and bruises on my naked body photographed
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我身上的割伤和淤青被拍照,
01:31
for forensic evidence.
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当做法医证据。
01:33
Now, there are few words to describe the all-consuming feelings
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几乎没有语言能够 描述出当时我绝望的感受,
01:37
of vulnerability, shame, upset and injustice that I was ridden with
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脆弱、羞耻、苦恼和不公正,
01:40
in that moment and for the weeks to come.
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之后的几周也是如此。
01:43
But wanting to find a way to condense these feelings
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但我想找到一种方法, 能把这些感觉集中转化为
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into something ordered that I could work through,
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我能理解并克服的东西,
01:48
I decided to do what felt most natural to me:
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于是,我决定用我最熟悉的事物,
01:51
I wrote about it.
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—— 写作
01:53
It started out as a cathartic exercise.
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开始我把它当成是种宣泄,
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I wrote a letter to my assaulter,
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我给施暴者写了封信,
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humanizing him as "you,"
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在信里我称他为“你”,
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to identify him as part of the very community
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把他看作团体的一部分,
02:03
that he had so violently abused that night.
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那个被他暴力虐待的团体。
02:06
Stressing the tidal-wave effect of his actions,
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为了强调他的行为所带来的连锁反应,
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I wrote:
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我写到:
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"Did you ever think of the people in your life?
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“你考虑过你身边的人吗?
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I don't know who the people in your life are.
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我不清楚那些人到底是谁,
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I don't know anything about you.
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我对你毫无了解,
02:18
But I do know this:
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但有一点我知道:
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you did not just attack me that night.
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那天晚上你不仅仅只是袭击了我
02:22
I'm a daughter, I'm a friend,
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我是一名女儿,是朋友,
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I'm a sister, I'm a pupil,
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是姐姐,学生,
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I'm a cousin, I'm a niece,
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表姐,侄女,
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I'm a neighbor;
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是邻居;
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I'm the employee who served everyone coffee
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我是在地铁站的咖啡馆里
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in the café under the railway.
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为每个人端上咖啡的服务生,
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And all the people who form these relations to me
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所有和我有所关联的人
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make up my community.
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形成了我所在的团体。
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And you assaulted every single one of them.
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你袭击了这个团体里的每一个人,
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You violated the truth that I will never cease to fight for,
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你破坏了我誓死保卫的真理,
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and which all of these people represent:
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所有人所代表的真理:
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that there are infinitely more good people in the world than bad."
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“世界上的好人比坏人多很多。”
02:48
But, determined not to let this one incident make me lose faith
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但是, 我决定不让这次意外使我失去
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in the solidarity in my community or humanity as a whole,
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对我的团体或是人类的信念,
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I recalled the 7/7 terrorist bombings in July 2005 on London transport,
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我想起2005年7月7号 的伦敦恐袭爆炸案,
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and how the mayor of London at the time, and indeed my own parents,
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那时的伦敦市长,甚至我的父母,
03:02
had insisted that we all get back on the tubes the next day,
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都坚持我们第二天仍然乘坐地铁,
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so we wouldn't be defined or changed
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我们不会被那些恐怖分子所威慑,
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by those that had made us feel unsafe.
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而做出改变。
03:09
I told my attacker,
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我对施暴者说:
03:11
"You've carried out your attack,
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“你对我进行了袭击,
03:13
but now I'm getting back on my tube.
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但是现在,我会继续我的生活。
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My community will not feel we are unsafe walking home after dark.
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我所在的团体 不会觉得走夜路回家不安全,
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We will get on the last tubes home,
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我们搭乘最后一班地铁回家,
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and we will walk up our streets alone,
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独自一人走在街道上,
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because we will not ingrain or submit to the idea
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因为我们不会把一种想法深植脑中,
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that we are putting ourselves in danger in doing so.
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那就是这不安全。
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We will continue to come together, like an army,
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当团体内的成员受到威胁的时候,
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when any member of our community is threatened.
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我们将像一支军队一样,团结一致,
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And this is a fight you will not win."
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而且,这场仗你不会赢。”
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At the time of writing this letter --
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在写这封信的时候---
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(Applause)
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(掌声)
03:40
Thank you.
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谢谢。
03:42
(Applause)
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(掌声)
03:44
At the time of writing this letter,
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在写这封信的时候,
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I was studying for my exams in Oxford,
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我正在剑桥大学备考,
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and I was working on the local student paper there.
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并在当地的学生报社工作,
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Despite being lucky enough to have friends and family supporting me,
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尽管我非常幸运 有亲朋好友的支持,
那段时间我都是独处。
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it was an isolating time.
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I didn't know anyone who'd been through this before;
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我不认识有类似的经历的人;
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at least I didn't think I did.
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至少我觉得我不认识。
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I'd read news reports, statistics, and knew how common sexual assault was,
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我看过新闻报道和统计数据, 我知道性侵有多么常见,
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yet I couldn't actually name a single person
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但我却指不出一个
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that I'd heard speak out about an experience of this kind before.
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谈论过类似经历的人
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So in a somewhat spontaneous decision,
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于是,出于自发性的,
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I decided that I would publish my letter in the student paper,
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我决定要把我的信发表到学生报纸上,
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hoping to reach out to others in Oxford
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寄希望于在牛津找到有
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that might have had a similar experience and be feeling the same way.
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相似经历和相同感受的人。
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At the end of the letter,
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信末尾处,
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I asked others to write in with their experiences
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我呼吁其他人也写下她们的经历,
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under the hashtag, "#NotGuilty,"
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并用 “#不羞愧” 当做话题标签,
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to emphasize that survivors of assault could express themselves
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用来强调那些遭受性侵的幸存者能够
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without feeling shame or guilt about what happened to them --
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不感到羞耻和愧疚地 表达她们的看法,
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to show that we could all stand up to sexual assault.
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用来证明我们能站起来直面性侵。
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What I never anticipated is that almost overnight,
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让我意想不到的是,仅仅过了一晚,
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this published letter would go viral.
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这篇发表信像病毒般扩散。
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Soon, we were receiving hundreds of stories
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不久,我就收到数百个故事,
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from men and women across the world,
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分别来自世界各地的男士女士,
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which we began to publish on a website I set up.
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我开始将这些故事发表在 自己建立的网站上,
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And the hashtag became a campaign.
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而这个话题标签开始成为一项运动。
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There was an Australian mother in her 40s who described how on an evening out,
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有一位澳大利亚的40多岁的母亲, 向我描述她是如何在一天晚上,
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she was followed to the bathroom
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被人跟踪到了洗手间,
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by a man who went to repeatedly grab her crotch.
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后来那人不断对抓住她的胯部
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There was a man in the Netherlands
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还有一个来自荷兰的男士,
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who described how he was date-raped on a visit to London
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讲述他如何在伦敦与人 约会时被对方强暴,
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and wasn't taken seriously by anyone he reported his case to.
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而当他报警时, 没有一个人把他的话当真。
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I had personal Facebook messages from people in India and South America,
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来自印度和南非的人 在Facebook上私信我,
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saying, how can we bring the message of the campaign there?
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询问如何将这场运动带 到那里?
首位贡献者是一位叫Nikki的女士,
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One of the first contributions we had was from a woman called Nikki,
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who described growing up, being molested my her own father.
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她讲述在青少年期 被自己的生父骚扰。
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And I had friends open up to me
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我的一些朋友也向我敞开心扉,
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about experiences ranging from those that happened last week
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诉说她们的故事, 从发生在几周前,
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to those that happened years ago, that I'd had no idea about.
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到几年前的事情, 而我却对此一无所知。
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And the more we started to receive these messages,
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随着收到越来越多这样的故事,
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the more we also started to receive messages of hope --
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我们也收到愈来愈多的希望,
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people feeling empowered by this community of voices
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人们因为集体抵抗性侵和 保护受害者的声音,
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standing up to sexual assault and victim-blaming.
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而感觉到有能力。
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One woman called Olivia,
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一位名叫Olivia的女士,
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after describing how she was attacked
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她讲述了自己是如何
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by someone she had trusted and cared about for a long time,
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被自己信赖并关心多年的人所侵犯,
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said, "I've read many of the stories posted here,
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她说:“我在这里看到很多人的故事,
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and I feel hopeful that if so many women can move forward,
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如果有这么多人都能向前看,
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then I can, too.
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那我也能。
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I've been inspired by many,
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许多人的故事都激励着我,
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and I hope I can be as strong as them someday.
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我希望有一天能我也和她们一样强大。
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I'm sure I will."
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我坚信我会的。”
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People around the world began tweeting under this hashtag,
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世界各地的人开始发推特, 参与这个话题标签,
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and the letter was republished and covered by the national press,
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我那封信也发表了, 全国的新闻界也有所报道
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as well as being translated into several other languages worldwide.
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它被翻译成多种语言。
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But something struck me about the media attention
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但这封信吸引的媒体关注
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that this letter was attracting.
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使我感到惊讶。
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For something to be front-page news,
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对于刊登在首页的新闻来说,
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given the word "news" itself,
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既然是“新”闻,
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we can assume it must be something new or something surprising.
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可以认为这是新的或令人惊讶的事情,
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And yet sexual assault is not something new.
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而性侵并不是什么新鲜事。
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Sexual assault, along with other kinds of injustices,
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性侵,同其他的不公平一样,
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is reported in the media all the time.
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是媒体报道的热点。
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But through the campaign,
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但这次运动中,
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these injustices were framed as not just news stories,
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这些不公正并不仅仅被宣扬为新鲜事,
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they were firsthand experiences that had affected real people,
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是对人们有切实影响的真实经历,
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who were creating, with the solidarity of others,
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那些人同其他人一起,创造出
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what they needed and had previously lacked:
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他们以前需要却缺乏的东西:
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a platform to speak out,
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一个表达心声的平台,
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the reassurance they weren't alone or to blame for what happened to them
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能够消除不安, 或是责怪这种行为,
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and open discussions that would help to reduce stigma around the issue.
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以及能够帮助减轻耻辱的公开探讨。
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The voices of those directly affected were at the forefront of the story --
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这些故事的讲述者都是直接受害者,
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not the voices of journalists or commentators on social media.
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不是社交媒体上的记者或评论员们
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And that's why the story was news.
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这也是为何这些故事确实是新闻
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We live in an incredibly interconnected world
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我们生活在一个相互关联的世界,
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with the proliferation of social media,
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有社交媒体作为传播工具,
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which is of course a fantastic resource for igniting social change.
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而它也为点燃社会变革 提供了宝贵资源,
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But it's also made us increasingly reactive,
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但这也使人们变得多愁善感,
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from the smallest annoyances of, "Oh, my train's been delayed,"
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从细小的烦心事,“哎,火车又晚点了”
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to the greatest injustices of war, genocides, terrorist attacks.
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严重到战争、种族屠杀、 恐怖袭击所带来的不公,
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Our default response has become to leap to react to any kind of grievance
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人们默认的表达悲愤的方式是通过
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by tweeting, Facebooking, hastagging --
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在推特、脸书上发文
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anything to show others that we, too, have reacted.
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任何能够让他人知道我们 作出反应的方式。
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The problem with reacting in this manner en masse
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大众都采用这种方式做出回应 的问题是,
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is it can sometimes mean that we don't actually react at all,
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即人们并不是真正的在作为,
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not in the sense of actually doing anything, anyway.
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没有做任何实质性的行动。
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It might make ourselves feel better,
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这样做可能会使人们自我感觉良好,
07:29
like we've contributed to a group mourning or outrage,
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就好像我们是默哀或愤慨的 团队中的一份子,
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but it doesn't actually change anything.
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但这改变不了任何事情
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And what's more,
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甚至,
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it can sometimes drown out the voices
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这种反应会淹没那些,
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of those directly affected by the injustice,
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遭遇不公的直接受害者的声音,
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whose needs must be heard.
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而这些人才是真正需要被倾听的对象。
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Worrying, too, is the tendency for some reactions to injustice
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还有令人担忧的是, 有些应对不公的行为
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to build even more walls,
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可能会创造出更多隔阂,
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being quick to point fingers with the hope of providing easy solutions
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人们迅速问责, 希望这样就能为这些复杂的问题
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to complex problems.
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提供简单的解决方案。
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One British tabloid, on the publication of my letter,
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一家刊登我的信的英国小报,
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branded a headline stating,
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是这样标题的:
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"Oxford Student Launches Online Campaign to Shame Attacker."
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“牛津学生在网上发起羞辱施暴者运动”
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But the campaign never meant to shame anyone.
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但这场运动从未打算羞辱任何人。
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It meant to let people speak and to make others listen.
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它的初衷是让人们说出故事, 并让其他人倾听,
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Divisive Twitter trolls were quick to create even more injustice,
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分裂性言论很快在推特上扩散, 创造出更多不公正,
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commenting on my attacker's ethnicity or class
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评论我的施暴者的民族或社会阶级
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to push their own prejudiced agendas.
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从而宣扬他们自身的偏见主义
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And some even accused me of feigning the whole thing
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有人甚至指责我捏造了这整个事件,
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to push, and I quote,
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引用他的话,
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my "feminist agenda of man-hating."
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“为了实现女权主义对男性的仇恨之心。”
08:26
(Laughter)
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(笑声)
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I know, right?
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很无稽,对吧,
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As if I'm going to be like, "Hey guys! Sorry I can't make it,
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就好像说“抱歉,伙计们, 我去不了了,
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I'm busy trying to hate the entire male population
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因为当我30岁的时候,
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by the time I'm 30."
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我正忙着仇视所有男人呢‘’
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(Laughter)
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(笑声)
08:36
Now, I'm almost sure
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我几乎可以肯定,
08:39
that these people wouldn't say the things they say in person.
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这些人如果当着我的面 肯定不会这样说,
08:42
But it's as if because they might be behind a screen,
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但这似乎是因为他们躲在电脑屏幕后面,
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in the comfort in their own home
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舒适的待在自己家里,
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when on social media,
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在社交媒体上,
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people forget that what they're doing is a public act --
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他们会忘记自己的行为其实是公众行为,
08:50
that other people will be reading it and be affected by it.
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会有其他人阅读他们的言论, 并因此受到影响。
08:53
Returning to my analogy of getting back on our trains,
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回到我说的那个地铁的比喻,
08:56
another main concern I have about this noise that escalates
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关于网络上那些对不公的反应,
08:59
from our online responses to injustice
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还有一个关键的担忧,
09:01
is that it can very easily slip into portraying us as the affected party,
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这样做的结果容易使受害方,
09:04
which can lead to a sense of defeatism,
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产生一种失败感,
09:06
a kind of mental barrier to seeing any opportunity for positivity or change
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一道屏障,导致受害者在遇害后,
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after a negative situation.
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无法正视积极的变化,
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A couple of months before the campaign started
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这次运动开始前几个月,
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or any of this happened to me,
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在我遭遇这些事情之前,
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I went to a TEDx event in Oxford,
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我参加了在牛津举办的TEDx活动,
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and I saw Zelda la Grange speak,
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观看了赛尔达·拉·格兰吉的演讲,
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the former private secretary to Nelson Mandela.
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他是纳尔逊·曼德拉的前任私人秘书。
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One of the stories she told really struck me.
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有一个故事对我的影响很大
09:25
She spoke of when Mandela was taken to court
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在曼德拉委任对体育事务 进行调查之后,
09:27
by the South African Rugby Union
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南非橄榄球联盟,
09:29
after he commissioned an inquiry into sports affairs.
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将其告上法庭。
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In the courtroom,
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在法庭上,
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he went up to the South African Rugby Union's lawyers,
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曼德拉走向南非橄榄球联盟的律师,
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shook them by the hand
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同他们握手,
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and conversed with them, each in their own language.
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并用他们的语言进行交谈。
09:39
And Zelda wanted to protest,
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当时塞尔达想抗议,
09:41
saying they had no right to his respect
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她认为那些人对曼德拉造成的不公正,
09:43
after this injustice they had caused him.
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不值得受到曼德拉的尊敬。
09:45
He turned to her and said,
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曼德拉则告诉她说:
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"You must never allow the enemy to determine the grounds for battle."
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“永远不要让敌人来决定战场。”
09:53
At the time of hearing these words,
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当我听到这些话时,
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I didn't really know why they were so important,
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我并没有真正知道到它的重要性,
09:57
but I felt they were, and I wrote them down in a notebook I had on me.
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但我感觉到了, 所以把它们记到了本子上
10:01
But I've thought about this line a lot ever since.
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后来,这句话我思考了很久。
10:04
Revenge, or the expression of hatred
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复仇,或者是向那些对你施加不公的人
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towards those who have done us injustice
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表达恨意,
10:08
may feel like a human instinct in the face of wrong,
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或许是人类面对不公正行为 所产生的直觉,
10:11
but we need to break out of these cycles
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但我们需要打破这些常规,
10:13
if we are to hope to transform negative events of injustice
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如果我们希望将不公带来的负面影响
10:16
into positive social change.
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转变为正面的社会变革的话。
10:18
To do otherwise
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如果我们继续
10:20
continues to let the enemy determine the grounds for battle,
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让敌人来决定战斗,
10:23
creates a binary,
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制造出一种二进制的状态,
10:24
where we who have suffered become the affected,
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那些受害者变成影响者,
10:27
pitted against them, the perpetrators.
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与施暴者针锋相对。
10:30
And just like we got back on our tubes,
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正如我们选择继续回到地铁上一样,
10:32
we can't let our platforms for interconnectivity and community
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我们不能允许人类相互关联的平台和社区
10:35
be the places that we settle for defeat.
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成为决斗的战场。
10:39
But I don't want to discourage a social media response,
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但我并不想打击社交媒体的反应,
10:42
because I owe the development of the #NotGuilty campaign
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因为“不羞愧”这次运动几乎全部
10:45
almost entirely to social media.
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得益于社交网络。
10:46
But I do want to encourage a more considered approach
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但我想鼓励用更加深思熟虑的方法--
10:49
to the way we use it to respond to injustice.
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来应对社会不公正。
10:51
The start, I think, is to ask ourselves two things.
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我想,首先, 我们应该自问两个问题。
10:54
Firstly: Why do I feel this injustice?
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第一:“我为什么感受到不公正?”
10:56
In my case, there were several answers to this.
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在我自己身上, 这个问题的答案有好几个。
10:58
Someone had hurt me and those who I loved,
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有人伤害了我,而有些我爱的人,
11:01
under the assumption they wouldn't have to be held to account
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认为肇事者对此没有责任,
11:04
or recognize the damage they had caused.
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或不知道对我造成的伤害。
11:06
Not only that, but thousands of men and women suffer every day
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不仅如此, 成千上万的男女都遭受着性侵,
11:08
from sexual abuse, often in silence,
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他们大多保持沉默,
11:10
yet it's still a problem we don't give the same airtime to as other issues.
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而问题是对此事的关注度 比其他事件少。
11:14
It's still an issue many people blame victims for.
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至今仍有许多人指责受害者。
11:16
Next, ask yourself: How, in recognizing these reasons,
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其次,问你自己: “当你认识到这些原因了,
11:20
could I go about reversing them?
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怎样才能改变它们呢?”
11:22
With us, this was holding my attacker to account -- and many others.
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对于我来说, 是让我的施暴者承担起责任。
11:25
It was calling them out on the effect they had caused.
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让他们知道我们受到的伤害。
11:28
It was giving airtime to the issue of sexual assault,
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是让媒体更多的关注性侵事件,
11:31
opening up discussions amongst friends, amongst families, in the media
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是打开亲朋好友之间的交流,
重建封闭太久的媒体通道,
11:34
that had been closed for too long,
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11:36
and stressing that victims shouldn't feel to blame
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是强调受害者不应为其所
遭受的伤害而受到责备。
11:38
for what happened to them.
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11:39
We might still have a long way to go in solving this problem entirely.
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完全解决这些问题或许还需要很长一段路
11:43
But in this way,
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但是,通过这种方式,
11:44
we can begin to use social media as an active tool for social justice,
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我们便能够开始把社交媒体 当成有效的工具,
11:47
as a tool to educate, to stimulate dialogues,
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来应对社会不公正,教育大众, 鼓励对话,
11:49
to make those in positions of authority aware of an issue
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让当权人士意识到这些问题,
11:52
by listening to those directly affected by it.
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让他们倾听这些直接受害者的声音。
11:56
Because sometimes these questions don't have easy answers.
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因为有时这些问题并没有简单的回答。
12:00
In fact, they rarely do.
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实际上,几乎是没有。
12:02
But this doesn't mean we still can't give them a considered response.
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但这并不意味着我们不能/做出考究的回应。
12:06
In situations where you can't go about thinking
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当你不知道该怎样做
12:08
how you'd reverse this feeling of injustice,
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才能转变这种遭遇不公的境地时,
12:10
you can still think, maybe not what you can do,
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与其纠结该做何事,
12:13
but what you can not do.
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不如想想不做哪些事情。
12:15
You can not build further walls by fighting injustice with more prejudice,
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你不能以偏见来对抗不公平,
12:19
more hatred.
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更多的仇恨。
12:20
You can not speak over those directly affected by an injustice.
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你可以不对那些直接受害者闲言碎语,
12:25
And you can not react to injustice, only to forget about it the next day,
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你可以不对不公平做回应, 第二天忘掉这件事,
12:29
just because the rest of Twitter has moved on.
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因为推特已经把这件事忘掉。
12:32
Sometimes not reacting instantly is, ironically,
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讽刺的是,有时不立刻作出反应,
12:36
the best immediate course of action we can take.
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反而是我们能够做到的最快的行动。
12:39
Because we might be angry, upset and energized by injustice,
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因为这些不公可能会让你愤怒、苦恼,
12:44
but let's consider our responses.
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但想想我们该怎么回应。
12:47
Let us hold people to account, without descending into a culture
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让肇事者负起责任, 但同时不让我们的社会
12:50
that thrives off shaming and injustice ourselves.
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堕落于羞耻施暴者,引起更多不公。
12:54
Let us remember that distinction,
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让我们谨记常被互联网用户遗忘的一点,
12:56
so often forgotten by internet users,
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那就是批判和羞辱
12:58
between criticism and insult.
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之间的区别。
13:01
Let us not forget to think before we speak,
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让我们别忘了三思而言,
13:03
just because we might have a screen in front of us.
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尽管我们有面前的屏幕保护着自己。
13:05
And when we create noise on social media,
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当我们在社交网络上发声时,
13:07
let it not drown out the needs of those affected,
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不要淹没受害者的需求,
13:10
but instead let it amplify their voices,
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而要扩散他们的声音,
13:12
so the internet becomes a place where you're not the exception
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从而让互联网成为一个就算说出自己的遭遇
13:15
if you speak out about something that has actually happened to you.
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也不会当成另类看待的地方。
13:18
All these considered approaches to injustice
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所有这些对抗不公的方法,
13:20
evoke the very keystones on which the internet was built:
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唤起了互联网建立时的初衷,
13:24
to network, to have signal, to connect --
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那就是网络,标榜和连接--
13:26
all these terms that imply bringing people together,
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这寓意着使人们团结,
13:29
not pushing people apart.
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而不是疏远。
13:31
Because if you look up the word "justice" in the dictionary,
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因为当你在字典里查“公正”一词时,
13:35
before punishment,
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在惩罚,
13:37
before administration of law or judicial authority,
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法规或司法权威之前,
13:41
you get:
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你会看到:
13:42
"The maintenance of what is right."
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“维护正义”
13:45
And I think there are few things more "right" in this world
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我想地球上还是有几样“正义的”事物
13:49
than bringing people together,
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超越联盟
13:51
than unions.
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使人们团结一致,
13:53
And if we allow social media to deliver that,
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如果我们让社交媒体传播这一点,
13:55
then it can deliver a very powerful form of justice, indeed.
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那它便能带来强大的公正体系。
14:00
Thank you very much.
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谢谢!
14:01
(Applause)
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(掌声)
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