How we talk about sexual assault online | Ione Wells

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譯者: Debra Liu 審譯者: SF Huang
00:13
It was April, last year.
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去年四月,
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I was on an evening out with friends
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晚上我和幾個朋友出去聚餐,
00:17
to celebrate one of their birthdays.
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幫其中的一位友人慶生。
00:19
We hadn't been all together for a couple of weeks;
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我們好幾個禮拜沒聚在一起了;
00:22
it was a perfect evening, as we were all reunited.
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我們度過了一個美好的夜晚。
00:25
At the end of the evening,
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結束之後,
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I caught the last underground train back to the other side of London.
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我搭乘末班地鐵回到倫敦的另一頭。
00:30
The journey was smooth.
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一路上很平順。
00:32
I got back to my local station
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我抵達我家附近的地鐵站,
00:34
and I began the 10-minute walk home.
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並照例走 10 分鐘的路回家。
00:37
As I turned the corner onto my street,
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轉過街角
00:39
my house in sight up ahead,
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就能看見我家。
00:41
I heard footsteps behind me
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我聽見背後有腳步聲,
00:43
that seemed to have approached out of nowhere
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不知道是從那裡冒出來的。
00:45
and were picking up pace.
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腳步聲愈來愈急促,
00:47
Before I had time to process what was happening,
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我還來不及反應,
00:50
a hand was clapped around my mouth so that I could not breathe,
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一隻手已經摀住我的嘴巴, 令我不能呼吸。
00:53
and the young man behind me dragged me to the ground,
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身後的年輕男子將我硬拽在地,
00:56
beat my head repeatedly against the pavement
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不停地將我的頭往地面撞,
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until my face began to bleed,
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直到我的臉開始流血,
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kicking me in the back and neck
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他用腳踢我的背和脖子
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while he began to assault me,
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開始對我性侵,
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ripping off my clothes and telling me to "shut up,"
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他撕開我的衣服並叫我閉嘴,
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as I struggled to cry for help.
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當時我掙扎奮力地呼救。
01:09
With each smack of my head to the concrete ground,
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每當我的頭被撞向水泥地時,
01:11
a question echoed through my mind that still haunts me today:
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心中便浮現一個 至今仍縈繞腦海的問題:
01:15
"Is this going to be how it all ends?"
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「我會就這樣死掉嗎?」
01:18
Little could I have realized, I'd been followed the whole way
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我完全沒有察覺到, 從我一離開車站開始
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from the moment I left the station.
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那個人就一路尾隨著我了。
01:23
And hours later,
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幾個小時之後,
01:24
I was standing topless and barelegged in front of the police,
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我站在警察面前 袒露著上半身、赤裸著腿,
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having the cuts and bruises on my naked body photographed
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身上的傷口、瘀腫都被拍照存證,
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for forensic evidence.
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作為法醫鑑識的證據。
01:33
Now, there are few words to describe the all-consuming feelings
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我沒有辦法形容當時心裡滿溢的
脆弱、羞恥、憤惱和不公不義的感覺,
01:37
of vulnerability, shame, upset and injustice that I was ridden with
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01:40
in that moment and for the weeks to come.
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接下來的數週亦是。
01:43
But wanting to find a way to condense these feelings
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但我想找到能把這些百感交集的情緒
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into something ordered that I could work through,
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彙整成我能處理、克服的方式,
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I decided to do what felt most natural to me:
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於是我選擇了我最擅長的事:
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I wrote about it.
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我把它寫下來。
01:53
It started out as a cathartic exercise.
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我一開始將之視為宣洩的管道。
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I wrote a letter to my assaulter,
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我寫信給加害人,
01:58
humanizing him as "you,"
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並以「你」稱呼他,
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to identify him as part of the very community
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把他當成是其所施暴的
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that he had so violently abused that night.
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社群團體中的一份子。
02:06
Stressing the tidal-wave effect of his actions,
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為了強調他的行為所造成的 連鎖反應,
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I wrote:
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我寫道:
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"Did you ever think of the people in your life?
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「你想過你身邊的人嗎?
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I don't know who the people in your life are.
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雖然我不認識任何你的親朋好友。
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I don't know anything about you.
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雖然我對你一無所知。
02:18
But I do know this:
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但我知道:
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you did not just attack me that night.
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你那晚攻擊的不只是『我』而已。
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I'm a daughter, I'm a friend,
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我是別人的女兒、朋友,
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I'm a sister, I'm a pupil,
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我是姊姊,我是學生,
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I'm a cousin, I'm a niece,
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我是表姊、姪女,
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I'm a neighbor;
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我是鄰居。
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I'm the employee who served everyone coffee
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我是在地鐵站的咖啡廳裡
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in the café under the railway.
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端咖啡的服務生。
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And all the people who form these relations to me
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而所有這些跟我有聯結的人
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make up my community.
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組成了我的社群。
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And you assaulted every single one of them.
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你攻擊的是他們每一個人。
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You violated the truth that I will never cease to fight for,
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你還侵犯了一項我誓死維護的,
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and which all of these people represent:
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也是這群人所代表的一項真理:
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that there are infinitely more good people in the world than bad."
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世界上,好人永遠比壞人多。」
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But, determined not to let this one incident make me lose faith
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但我決定不讓這次事件
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in the solidarity in my community or humanity as a whole,
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讓我失去對整個社群與 人性的信念,
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I recalled the 7/7 terrorist bombings in July 2005 on London transport,
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我想起 2005 年的 倫敦七七爆炸案,
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and how the mayor of London at the time, and indeed my own parents,
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那時的倫敦市長,乃至於我的雙親,
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had insisted that we all get back on the tubes the next day,
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都堅持大家隔天要照常搭地鐵,
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so we wouldn't be defined or changed
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如此一來,我們就不會 被那些令人恐慌的人、事、物
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by those that had made us feel unsafe.
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所侷限或改變。
03:09
I told my attacker,
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我告訴我的加害人,
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"You've carried out your attack,
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「你雖攻擊了我,
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but now I'm getting back on my tube.
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但我還是會照常搭地鐵,
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My community will not feel we are unsafe walking home after dark.
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我們會照常走夜路回家, 不會感覺到不安。
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We will get on the last tubes home,
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我們還是會搭末班車回家,
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and we will walk up our streets alone,
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我們還是會隻身走在街道上,
因為我們不會讓 這樣做就會置自己於險境的想法,
03:23
because we will not ingrain or submit to the idea
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03:25
that we are putting ourselves in danger in doing so.
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深深植入腦中。
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We will continue to come together, like an army,
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當我們社群中有任何成員受到威脅,
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when any member of our community is threatened.
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我們會團結一心,像支軍隊一樣,
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And this is a fight you will not win."
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這是一場你贏不了的戰爭。」
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At the time of writing this letter --
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當我寫這封信的時候,
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(Applause)
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(掌聲)
03:40
Thank you.
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謝謝你們。
03:42
(Applause)
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(掌聲)
03:44
At the time of writing this letter,
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當我寫這封信的時候,
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I was studying for my exams in Oxford,
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我正在準備牛津的考試,
我也在當地一家學生日報工作。
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and I was working on the local student paper there.
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03:50
Despite being lucky enough to have friends and family supporting me,
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儘管很慶幸有親朋好友的情義相挺,
但基本上那是段孤獨的時光。
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it was an isolating time.
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我不認識任何有相同經歷的人,
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I didn't know anyone who'd been through this before;
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at least I didn't think I did.
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至少我認為如此。
我也看過報章雜誌、統計數據, 知道性侵是多麼地普遍,
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I'd read news reports, statistics, and knew how common sexual assault was,
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yet I couldn't actually name a single person
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但我講不出任何一個我聽過的人名,
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that I'd heard speak out about an experience of this kind before.
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曾公開講述這類的經歷。
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So in a somewhat spontaneous decision,
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出於某個自發性的決定,
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I decided that I would publish my letter in the student paper,
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我將這封信投到學生日報上,
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hoping to reach out to others in Oxford
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希望讓牛津其他有相同經歷
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that might have had a similar experience and be feeling the same way.
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或感同身受的人看到。
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At the end of the letter,
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在信的結尾,
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I asked others to write in with their experiences
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我呼籲其他人寫出他們的經歷,
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under the hashtag, "#NotGuilty,"
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並標註「# 我本無罪 」 (#NotGuilty)
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to emphasize that survivors of assault could express themselves
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讓那些受害者在不覺得有羞恥或 罪惡感的情況下,對其所經歷的事件
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without feeling shame or guilt about what happened to them --
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抒發自己的情緒。
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to show that we could all stand up to sexual assault.
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證明我們都能夠走出性侵的陰影。
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What I never anticipated is that almost overnight,
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沒想到,一覺醒來,
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this published letter would go viral.
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這封信就像病毒般擴散。
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Soon, we were receiving hundreds of stories
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很快,我們就收到來自世界各地
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from men and women across the world,
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上百位男女的故事,
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which we began to publish on a website I set up.
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我們開始將故事發表在 我建立的網站上。
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And the hashtag became a campaign.
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而所標註的話題已成為一股風潮。
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There was an Australian mother in her 40s who described how on an evening out,
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一位 40 多歲的澳洲媽媽說, 在一個外出的夜晚,
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she was followed to the bathroom
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有人跟蹤她到廁所,
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by a man who went to repeatedly grab her crotch.
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那個男人不停地摩蹭她的胯下。
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There was a man in the Netherlands
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有個荷蘭籍男性,
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who described how he was date-raped on a visit to London
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說他去倫敦與人約會時遭對方強暴,
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and wasn't taken seriously by anyone he reported his case to.
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但沒有人把他的話當真。
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I had personal Facebook messages from people in India and South America,
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我收到來自印度和南美洲人 在臉書的私訊,
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saying, how can we bring the message of the campaign there?
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他們問道:要如何 把這個活動的訊息帶到當地?
我們收到的第一篇投稿, 是一位名叫妮琪的女士,
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One of the first contributions we had was from a woman called Nikki,
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who described growing up, being molested my her own father.
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述說她從小到大都被生父猥褻。
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And I had friends open up to me
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接著有更多朋友向我敞開心房,
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about experiences ranging from those that happened last week
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訴說著我所不知的 早已發生在他們身上的經歷,
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to those that happened years ago, that I'd had no idea about.
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從上周才發生 到好幾年前發生的都有。
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And the more we started to receive these messages,
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收到越來越多這類的訊息,
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the more we also started to receive messages of hope --
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我們也開始燃起越來越多的希望,
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people feeling empowered by this community of voices
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受害者被這社群的發聲所鼓舞,
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standing up to sexual assault and victim-blaming.
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他們得以站出來面對性侵的傷痛, 和抵抗「責怪受害者」的現象。
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One woman called Olivia,
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一位名為歐麗薇雅的女士,
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after describing how she was attacked
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在描述自己
被長期信賴與關心的人性侵後,
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by someone she had trusted and cared about for a long time,
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said, "I've read many of the stories posted here,
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說道:「我在這裡看到很多故事,
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and I feel hopeful that if so many women can move forward,
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見到這麼多女人都踏出這一步,
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then I can, too.
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我相信我也可以。
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I've been inspired by many,
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我受到這當中很多人的啟發,
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and I hope I can be as strong as them someday.
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希望有朝一日也能像他們一樣堅強,
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I'm sure I will."
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我相信會有這麼一天的。」
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People around the world began tweeting under this hashtag,
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世界各地的人開始在推文時 標記上「我本無罪」,
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and the letter was republished and covered by the national press,
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而全國性的報社也刊載了我的信件,
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as well as being translated into several other languages worldwide.
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同時也被翻譯成多國語言。
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But something struck me about the media attention
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但我對媒體會對我的信
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that this letter was attracting.
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這麼感興趣而大吃一驚。
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For something to be front-page news,
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他們把信刊在頭版,
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given the word "news" itself,
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鑒於「新」聞這個字本身的意義,
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we can assume it must be something new or something surprising.
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我們理所當然地認為 它一定是很新或令人驚訝的事情。
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And yet sexual assault is not something new.
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但性侵已經不是新鮮事了。
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Sexual assault, along with other kinds of injustices,
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性侵就跟其他不公平、 不公正的事件一樣,
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is reported in the media all the time.
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每天都出現在各種媒體上。
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But through the campaign,
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但透過這個運動,
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these injustices were framed as not just news stories,
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性侵事件不僅只是個新聞事件,
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they were firsthand experiences that had affected real people,
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而是影響當事人一生的 真人真事的第一手經歷,
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who were creating, with the solidarity of others,
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這些當事人凝聚團結在一起,
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what they needed and had previously lacked:
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創造出他們所需要, 但之前一直欠缺的東西:
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a platform to speak out,
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一個能讓他們發表言論的平台,
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the reassurance they weren't alone or to blame for what happened to them
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讓他們知道自己不是孤軍奮鬥, 也不是有錯的那一方,
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and open discussions that would help to reduce stigma around the issue.
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而公開討論也能夠幫助減輕 談論到相關議題的羞辱感。
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The voices of those directly affected were at the forefront of the story --
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這個社群中,說故事的人 同時也是事件的當事者
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not the voices of journalists or commentators on social media.
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並不是記者或評論員撰擬出來的。
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And that's why the story was news.
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這也是為什麼這故事被稱為新聞。
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We live in an incredibly interconnected world
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我們身在一個網路資訊 四通八達的世界,
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with the proliferation of social media,
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社群媒體不斷地激增,
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which is of course a fantastic resource for igniting social change.
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而它的確是推動社會改變的利器。
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But it's also made us increasingly reactive,
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但這也使人們越來越過度反應,
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from the smallest annoyances of, "Oh, my train's been delayed,"
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小至「天啊!火車誤點了!」的 惱人小事,
07:06
to the greatest injustices of war, genocides, terrorist attacks.
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大至戰爭、種族屠殺, 甚至是恐怖攻擊。
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Our default response has become to leap to react to any kind of grievance
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看到任何發牢騷、不滿的訊息時, 就會立即做出回應,
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by tweeting, Facebooking, hastagging --
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在推特、臉書上發文、標記,
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anything to show others that we, too, have reacted.
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竭盡所能的昭告天下 自己也有所共鳴。
07:19
The problem with reacting in this manner en masse
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問題是,當大家都有所反應時,
07:22
is it can sometimes mean that we don't actually react at all,
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有時也意味著大家根本沒反應,
沒有人真的想去做些什麼,
07:25
not in the sense of actually doing anything, anyway.
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07:27
It might make ourselves feel better,
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我們只是讓自己心裡面舒服點,
07:29
like we've contributed to a group mourning or outrage,
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覺得好像在集體的哀悼與憤慨中 貢獻了一己之力,
07:31
but it doesn't actually change anything.
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但事實上你沒有任何貢獻。
07:33
And what's more,
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還有,
07:35
it can sometimes drown out the voices
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這些行為有的時候,
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of those directly affected by the injustice,
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會掩蓋掉真實受害者的聲音,
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whose needs must be heard.
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而他們的需求必須被聽見。
07:41
Worrying, too, is the tendency for some reactions to injustice
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還令人擔憂的是 有些回應不公事件的行為
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to build even more walls,
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也可能會帶來更多隔閡,
07:47
being quick to point fingers with the hope of providing easy solutions
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人們迅速究責並希望能夠
對複雜的問題提供簡單的解決方案。
07:50
to complex problems.
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07:52
One British tabloid, on the publication of my letter,
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一家英國小報在刊登我的信時,
07:54
branded a headline stating,
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下了這麼一個標題:
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"Oxford Student Launches Online Campaign to Shame Attacker."
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「牛津學生在網路上 發起羞辱加害人運動。」
08:01
But the campaign never meant to shame anyone.
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但我發起的這個運動, 從未想要羞辱任何人。
08:04
It meant to let people speak and to make others listen.
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只是要讓大家勇於發言並有人傾聽。
08:08
Divisive Twitter trolls were quick to create even more injustice,
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推特上具爭議性的謬論 只會造成更多傷害,
08:11
commenting on my attacker's ethnicity or class
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藉由批評我的加害人的種族和階級,
08:14
to push their own prejudiced agendas.
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來推波助瀾他們自己的偏見。
08:17
And some even accused me of feigning the whole thing
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有人甚至指控我是在自導自演,
08:20
to push, and I quote,
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容許我引用一下報社的文字:
08:22
my "feminist agenda of man-hating."
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「為了申張女權主義而仇恨男人」。
08:26
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
08:27
I know, right?
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好笑吧?
08:29
As if I'm going to be like, "Hey guys! Sorry I can't make it,
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好像我是會說:「抱歉,夥伴們, 我沒辦法去了喔,
08:31
I'm busy trying to hate the entire male population
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因為在 30 歲之前,我都在忙著 仇恨全世界所有的男人。」
08:34
by the time I'm 30."
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這種話的人。
08:35
(Laughter)
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(笑聲)
08:36
Now, I'm almost sure
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現在,我幾乎可以確定,
08:39
that these people wouldn't say the things they say in person.
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這些人不會當著我的面說出 他們在網路上留下的那些言論。
08:42
But it's as if because they might be behind a screen,
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那是因為他們躲在螢幕後面,
08:44
in the comfort in their own home
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待在自己舒適的家中
08:46
when on social media,
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使用著社群媒體。
08:47
people forget that what they're doing is a public act --
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人們常會忘記他們的所作所為 是一種公眾行為,
08:50
that other people will be reading it and be affected by it.
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其他人會看,也會受其影響。
08:53
Returning to my analogy of getting back on our trains,
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回到前面提到的重回地鐵的比喻,
08:56
another main concern I have about this noise that escalates
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對那些在網路上回應 不公義的干擾言論,
08:59
from our online responses to injustice
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我所關注的是,
09:01
is that it can very easily slip into portraying us as the affected party,
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這些干擾言論很容易 把我們描繪成受影響的一方,
09:04
which can lead to a sense of defeatism,
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這可能會導致失敗主義的情緒:
09:06
a kind of mental barrier to seeing any opportunity for positivity or change
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這是一種無法正向地看待機會
或無法在負面狀態下 做出改變的精神障礙。
09:10
after a negative situation.
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09:13
A couple of months before the campaign started
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在這個運動開始的幾個月前
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or any of this happened to me,
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或在我遭遇這些事之前,
09:16
I went to a TEDx event in Oxford,
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我參加 TEDx 在牛津的活動,
09:18
and I saw Zelda la Grange speak,
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我看見了納爾遜·曼德拉的 前任私人秘書
09:20
the former private secretary to Nelson Mandela.
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芮爾妲•拉格蘭奇的演講,
09:22
One of the stories she told really struck me.
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她其中的一個故事震撼了我。
09:25
She spoke of when Mandela was taken to court
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她提到曼德拉在委任對體育事件 進行調查後,
09:27
by the South African Rugby Union
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就被南非國家橄欖球隊
09:29
after he commissioned an inquiry into sports affairs.
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一狀告到法院。
09:32
In the courtroom,
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在法庭上,
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he went up to the South African Rugby Union's lawyers,
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他走向南非國家橄欖球隊的律師團,
09:36
shook them by the hand
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跟他們握手,
09:37
and conversed with them, each in their own language.
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並用他們各自的語言和他們對話。
09:39
And Zelda wanted to protest,
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芮爾妲想提出抗議,
09:41
saying they had no right to his respect
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她認為這些律師對曼德拉做出 不公義的指控,
09:43
after this injustice they had caused him.
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不配得到曼德拉的尊重。
09:45
He turned to her and said,
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曼德拉回頭告訴她:
09:48
"You must never allow the enemy to determine the grounds for battle."
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「永遠別讓敵人來決定戰場。」
09:53
At the time of hearing these words,
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聽到這句話時,
09:55
I didn't really know why they were so important,
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我並不瞭解這句話的重要性,
09:57
but I felt they were, and I wrote them down in a notebook I had on me.
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但我覺得它很重要,所以我將這句話 寫在我隨身攜帶的筆記本上。
10:01
But I've thought about this line a lot ever since.
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從那個時候開始, 我便常常思考這句話的意義。
10:04
Revenge, or the expression of hatred
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報復,或者向對我們施加不公的人
10:06
towards those who have done us injustice
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表達恨意,
10:08
may feel like a human instinct in the face of wrong,
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可能是人類在面對不公不義時的 本能直覺反應,
10:11
but we need to break out of these cycles
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但是我們需要打破這個循環,
10:13
if we are to hope to transform negative events of injustice
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我們應該要將不公平的負面事件,
10:16
into positive social change.
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轉換成正面的社會革新能量。
10:18
To do otherwise
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否則,
10:20
continues to let the enemy determine the grounds for battle,
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如果繼續讓敵人決定戰場,
則會產生另一個對立的結果,
10:23
creates a binary,
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10:24
where we who have suffered become the affected,
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我們這些受害者成為了影響者,
10:27
pitted against them, the perpetrators.
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與加害者相互爭鬥。
10:30
And just like we got back on our tubes,
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就像我們選擇回到地鐵一樣,
10:32
we can't let our platforms for interconnectivity and community
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我們不能讓互聯網及社群的平台,
10:35
be the places that we settle for defeat.
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淪為認輸妥協的戰場。
10:39
But I don't want to discourage a social media response,
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我並不是想要阻止 這些社群媒體的回應,
10:42
because I owe the development of the #NotGuilty campaign
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因為「# 我本無罪」活動的成功,
10:45
almost entirely to social media.
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絕大部分歸功於社群媒體。
10:46
But I do want to encourage a more considered approach
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但是我的確想要鼓勵大家,
10:49
to the way we use it to respond to injustice.
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用成熟負責的方式 來回應不公義的事件。
10:51
The start, I think, is to ask ourselves two things.
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首先,我認為要先問自己兩個問題。
10:54
Firstly: Why do I feel this injustice?
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第一:為什麼我會覺得不公平?
10:56
In my case, there were several answers to this.
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就我的例子而言,有幾個答案。
10:58
Someone had hurt me and those who I loved,
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有人傷害我和我愛的人,
11:01
under the assumption they wouldn't have to be held to account
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如果他們沒有為這件事付出代價,
或沒有認知到他們所造成的傷害, 這樣我就會感到不公平。
11:04
or recognize the damage they had caused.
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11:06
Not only that, but thousands of men and women suffer every day
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不只如此,每天都有 成千上萬的男男女女,
11:08
from sexual abuse, often in silence,
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遭受性侵,通常只能保持沈默,
11:10
yet it's still a problem we don't give the same airtime to as other issues.
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而且,大家對此問題的關注程度 卻少於其他事件。
11:14
It's still an issue many people blame victims for.
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到現在,還是有很多人 會指責受害者。
11:16
Next, ask yourself: How, in recognizing these reasons,
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再來,問問自己: 認知到這些原因後,
我如何能改變它們?
11:20
could I go about reversing them?
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11:22
With us, this was holding my attacker to account -- and many others.
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就我們而言,是要我的加害者 和其他的加害者承擔後果。
11:25
It was calling them out on the effect they had caused.
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讓他們出來面對他們所造成的影響。
11:28
It was giving airtime to the issue of sexual assault,
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讓媒體對性侵事件投以更多的關注,
11:31
opening up discussions amongst friends, amongst families, in the media
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朋友、家人之間能夠開誠佈公地討論
這個被塵封已久的話題,
11:34
that had been closed for too long,
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並且強調受害者不應該
11:36
and stressing that victims shouldn't feel to blame
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為其所受到的傷害而遭受指責。
11:38
for what happened to them.
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11:39
We might still have a long way to go in solving this problem entirely.
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要完全解決性侵這個問題 也許還有好長一段路要走。
11:43
But in this way,
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但透過這個方式,
11:44
we can begin to use social media as an active tool for social justice,
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我們可以開始使用社群媒體 作為審視社會公義的有效利器,
11:47
as a tool to educate, to stimulate dialogues,
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來作為教育、喚起群眾對話的利器,
11:49
to make those in positions of authority aware of an issue
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藉由聆聽受害者的心聲,
11:52
by listening to those directly affected by it.
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讓當權者知道這個問題的重要性。
11:56
Because sometimes these questions don't have easy answers.
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因為有時這些問題並不會有 簡單的答案,
12:00
In fact, they rarely do.
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事實上,鮮少會有。
12:02
But this doesn't mean we still can't give them a considered response.
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但是,這並不意味著我們無法 給受害者成熟、合理的回應,
12:06
In situations where you can't go about thinking
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在你無法思考出
12:08
how you'd reverse this feeling of injustice,
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如何扭轉這個不公平的感覺時,
12:10
you can still think, maybe not what you can do,
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你可想看看,也許不要執著於 我們可做些什麼,
12:13
but what you can not do.
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而是不要做什麼。
12:15
You can not build further walls by fighting injustice with more prejudice,
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你可以不要帶著偏見、 仇恨來回應不公事件,
12:19
more hatred.
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以避免築起更多高牆。
12:20
You can not speak over those directly affected by an injustice.
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你可以不要議論那些事件的受害者,
12:25
And you can not react to injustice, only to forget about it the next day,
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你可以不要在回應了不公事件後 隨即隔天就忘了這件事,
12:29
just because the rest of Twitter has moved on.
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因為推持已去追逐新的話題了。
12:32
Sometimes not reacting instantly is, ironically,
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諷刺的是,有時候不立刻回應,
12:36
the best immediate course of action we can take.
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是我們立即可以採取的措施。
12:39
Because we might be angry, upset and energized by injustice,
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我們會因為遭受不公平待遇 而生氣、沮喪和衝動,
12:44
but let's consider our responses.
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但是讓我們想想自己的反應。
12:47
Let us hold people to account, without descending into a culture
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我們要讓加害者付出代價,
而不是助長我們自己羞愧 與遭受不公不義的感覺。
12:50
that thrives off shaming and injustice ourselves.
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12:54
Let us remember that distinction,
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讓我們牢記那個
常被網民遺忘的事情,
12:56
so often forgotten by internet users,
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12:58
between criticism and insult.
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那就是批評與辱罵的區別。
13:01
Let us not forget to think before we speak,
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別忘了我們仍須三思而後行,
不要因我們面前有螢幕擋著就不。
13:03
just because we might have a screen in front of us.
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13:05
And when we create noise on social media,
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當我們在社群媒體發出各種聲音時,
13:07
let it not drown out the needs of those affected,
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我們不應該讓這些聲音 凌鴐了受害者的需要,
13:10
but instead let it amplify their voices,
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而應該強化受害者的訴求。
13:12
so the internet becomes a place where you're not the exception
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所以網路成了你講述自身的 親身真實經歷,
13:15
if you speak out about something that has actually happened to you.
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也不會被另眼相看的地方。
13:18
All these considered approaches to injustice
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所有這些以成熟嚴謹的態度 來回應不公不義的方法,
13:20
evoke the very keystones on which the internet was built:
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喚起了網路初創的主旨:
13:24
to network, to have signal, to connect --
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溝通、傳遞訊息、 促進人與人之間的連結。
13:26
all these terms that imply bringing people together,
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這些詞語都暗示著 使人們更緊密地凝聚著,
13:29
not pushing people apart.
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而非愈來愈疏離。
13:31
Because if you look up the word "justice" in the dictionary,
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假如你在字典上查 「justice」這個字,
13:35
before punishment,
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在懲罰、法律或司法機關管理 這些字眼之前,
13:37
before administration of law or judicial authority,
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13:41
you get:
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你會看到:
13:42
"The maintenance of what is right."
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「維護正義」。
13:45
And I think there are few things more "right" in this world
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我認為世界上幾乎沒有
比將人與人團結在一起 更正義的事了。
13:49
than bringing people together,
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13:51
than unions.
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13:53
And if we allow social media to deliver that,
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如果我們藉由社群媒體來傳遞這個訊息,
13:55
then it can deliver a very powerful form of justice, indeed.
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公平正義將會透過更有力的形式傳遞。
14:00
Thank you very much.
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謝謝大家!
14:01
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