How we talk about sexual assault online | Ione Wells

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Prevoditelj: Ivan Stamenković Recezent: Igor Pureta
00:13
It was April, last year.
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Bio je travanj, prošle godine.
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I was on an evening out with friends
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Bila sam vani s prijateljima
00:17
to celebrate one of their birthdays.
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kako bi proslavili nečiji rođendan.
00:19
We hadn't been all together for a couple of weeks;
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Nismo bili svi skupa već nekoliko tjedana;
bila je to savršena večer, svi ponovno zajedno.
00:22
it was a perfect evening, as we were all reunited.
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00:25
At the end of the evening,
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Na kraju večeri,
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I caught the last underground train back to the other side of London.
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uhvatila sam posljednji vlak podzemne kako bih se vratila na drugu stranu grada.
00:30
The journey was smooth.
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Putovanje je teklo glatko.
00:32
I got back to my local station
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Vratila sam se na svoju stanicu
00:34
and I began the 10-minute walk home.
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i počela desetominutnu šetnju kući.
00:37
As I turned the corner onto my street,
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Kad sam skrenula za ugao moje ulice,
00:39
my house in sight up ahead,
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moja kuća vidjela se u daljini,
00:41
I heard footsteps behind me
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čula sam korake iza sebe
00:43
that seemed to have approached out of nowhere
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koji su se pojavili niotkuda
00:45
and were picking up pace.
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i ubrzavali su.
00:47
Before I had time to process what was happening,
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Prije nego sam imala vremena shvatiti što se događa,
00:50
a hand was clapped around my mouth so that I could not breathe,
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nečija ruka je bila oko mojih usta tako da ne mogu disati,
00:53
and the young man behind me dragged me to the ground,
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i mladić koji je bio iza mene povukao me na tlo,
00:56
beat my head repeatedly against the pavement
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lupio mi glavom o beton nekoliko puta
00:58
until my face began to bleed,
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dok mi lice nije počelo krvariti,
01:00
kicking me in the back and neck
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udarajući me u vrat i leđa,
01:02
while he began to assault me,
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i počeo napastovati, kidajući
01:04
ripping off my clothes and telling me to "shut up,"
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odjeću s mene i govoreći mi da "ušutim," dok sam se
01:06
as I struggled to cry for help.
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borila pokušavajući dozvati pomoć.
01:09
With each smack of my head to the concrete ground,
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Svakim udarcem moje glave u betonsko tlo,
01:11
a question echoed through my mind that still haunts me today:
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kroz glavu mi je prošlo pitanje koje me i danas muči:
01:15
"Is this going to be how it all ends?"
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"Hoće li se ovako sve završiti?"
01:18
Little could I have realized, I'd been followed the whole way
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Nisam shvatila da me pratio cijelim putem
01:21
from the moment I left the station.
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otkako sam napustila stanicu.
01:23
And hours later,
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Satima kasnije,
01:24
I was standing topless and barelegged in front of the police,
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stajala sam bez majice, golih nogu pred policijom,
01:28
having the cuts and bruises on my naked body photographed
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dok su mi fotografirali posjekotine i modrice na golom tijelu
01:31
for forensic evidence.
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kao forenzički dokaz.
01:33
Now, there are few words to describe the all-consuming feelings
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Postoji malo riječi da bih opisala osjećaje
01:37
of vulnerability, shame, upset and injustice that I was ridden with
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ranjivosti, srama, uznemirenja i nepravde koji su me obuzimali
01:40
in that moment and for the weeks to come.
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u tom trenutku i tjednima nakon toga.
01:43
But wanting to find a way to condense these feelings
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Ali želeći naći način da prikupim te osjećaje
01:46
into something ordered that I could work through,
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u nešto smisleno s čim bih se mogla nositi,
01:48
I decided to do what felt most natural to me:
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odlučila sam učiniti što mi se činilo najprirodnije:
01:51
I wrote about it.
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pisala sam o tome.
01:53
It started out as a cathartic exercise.
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Počelo je kao katarzična vježba.
01:55
I wrote a letter to my assaulter,
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Napisala sam pismo svom napadaču,
01:58
humanizing him as "you,"
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humanizirajući ga sa "ti,"
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to identify him as part of the very community
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kako bih ga identificirala kao dio te zajednice
02:03
that he had so violently abused that night.
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koju je tako nasilno zlostavljao te noći.
02:06
Stressing the tidal-wave effect of his actions,
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Naglašavajući njegovo djelovanje, poput plimnog vala
02:09
I wrote:
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napisala sam:
02:10
"Did you ever think of the people in your life?
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"Jesi li razmišljao o ljudima u svom životu?
02:13
I don't know who the people in your life are.
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Ne znam tko su ljudi u tvom životu.
02:16
I don't know anything about you.
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Ne znam ništa o tebi.
02:18
But I do know this:
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Ali znam ovo:
02:19
you did not just attack me that night.
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nisi napao samo mene te noći.
02:22
I'm a daughter, I'm a friend,
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Ja sam kćer, prijatelj,
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I'm a sister, I'm a pupil,
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sestra, učenica,
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I'm a cousin, I'm a niece,
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rođakinja, nećakinja,
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I'm a neighbor;
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ja sam susjeda.
02:28
I'm the employee who served everyone coffee
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Ja sam radnica koja ljudima poslužuje kavu
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in the café under the railway.
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u kafiću pod prugom.
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And all the people who form these relations to me
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I svi ljudi koji imaju te veze samnom
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make up my community.
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stvaraju moju zajednicu.
02:36
And you assaulted every single one of them.
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I ti si napao sve njih.
02:39
You violated the truth that I will never cease to fight for,
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Povrijedio si istinu za koju se nikad neću prestati boriti,
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and which all of these people represent:
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i koju svi ovi ljudi predstavljaju:
02:44
that there are infinitely more good people in the world than bad."
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da postoji nebrojeno više dobrih nego loših ljudi u svijetu."
02:48
But, determined not to let this one incident make me lose faith
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Odlučna da ne dopustim da ovaj incident naruši moju vjeru
02:51
in the solidarity in my community or humanity as a whole,
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u solidarnost moje zajednice ili čovječanstva u cijelosti,
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I recalled the 7/7 terrorist bombings in July 2005 on London transport,
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prisjetila sam se terorističkog napada 7. 7. 2005. u londonskom prijevozu,
02:59
and how the mayor of London at the time, and indeed my own parents,
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i kako su gradonačelnik Londona, i moji roditelji,
03:02
had insisted that we all get back on the tubes the next day,
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inzistirali da se vratimo u podzemnu sljedećeg dana,
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so we wouldn't be defined or changed
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tako da nas ne odrede ili promjene
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by those that had made us feel unsafe.
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oni koji su učinili da se osjećamo nesigurno.
03:09
I told my attacker,
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Rekla sam svom napadaču,
03:11
"You've carried out your attack,
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"Izveo si svoj napad,
03:13
but now I'm getting back on my tube.
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ali ja se vraćam u svoju podezmnu.
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My community will not feel we are unsafe walking home after dark.
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Moja zajednica neće osjećati strah kada bude išla kući po mraku.
03:19
We will get on the last tubes home,
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Ići ćemo zadnjim vlakovima kući,
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and we will walk up our streets alone,
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i sami ćemo šetati ulicama,
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because we will not ingrain or submit to the idea
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jer nećemo prihvatiti i pasti pod utjecaj ideje
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that we are putting ourselves in danger in doing so.
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da se dovodimo u opasnost čineći to.
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We will continue to come together, like an army,
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Nastavit ćemo stupati skupa, poput vojske,
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when any member of our community is threatened.
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kada se prijeti nekom našem članu.
03:33
And this is a fight you will not win."
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I to je borba u kojoj nećeš pobijediti."
03:37
At the time of writing this letter --
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Kada sam pisala ovo pismo --
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(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
03:40
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
03:42
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
03:44
At the time of writing this letter,
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Kada sam pisala ovo pismo,
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I was studying for my exams in Oxford,
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učila sam za ispite na Oxfordu,
i radila sam u tamošnjim lokalnim novinama.
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and I was working on the local student paper there.
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03:50
Despite being lucky enough to have friends and family supporting me,
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Unatoč sreći zbog podrške obitelji i prijatelja,
osamila sam se.
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it was an isolating time.
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Nisam poznavala nikog tko je to prije prošao,
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I didn't know anyone who'd been through this before;
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03:57
at least I didn't think I did.
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barem sam tako mislila.
Čitala bih novinske izvještaje, statistike, i znala koliko su učestali seksualni napadi,
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I'd read news reports, statistics, and knew how common sexual assault was,
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04:02
yet I couldn't actually name a single person
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ali nisam mogla imenovati nijednu osobu
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that I'd heard speak out about an experience of this kind before.
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za koju sam prije čula da priča o ovakvom iskustvu.
04:07
So in a somewhat spontaneous decision,
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U ponešto spontanoj odluci,
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I decided that I would publish my letter in the student paper,
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odlučila sam pismo objaviti u studentskim novinama,
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hoping to reach out to others in Oxford
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u nadi da ću doprijeti do drugih u Oxfordu
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that might have had a similar experience and be feeling the same way.
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koji su imali slično iskustvo i osjećaju se slično.
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At the end of the letter,
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Na kraju pisma,
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I asked others to write in with their experiences
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pitala sam druge da pišu
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under the hashtag, "#NotGuilty,"
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pod "#NotGuilty,"
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to emphasize that survivors of assault could express themselves
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da naglase kako se preživjeli mogu izraziti
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without feeling shame or guilt about what happened to them --
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bez osjećaja srama ili krivnje vezano za to što se dogodilo --
da pokažemo da se možemo oduprijeti seksualnom napastovanju.
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to show that we could all stand up to sexual assault.
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04:32
What I never anticipated is that almost overnight,
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Nisam očekivala da će gotovo preko noći,
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this published letter would go viral.
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ovo objavljeno pismo postati viralno.
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Soon, we were receiving hundreds of stories
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Uskoro smo primali stotine priča
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from men and women across the world,
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muškaraca i žena iz cijelog svijeta,
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which we began to publish on a website I set up.
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koje smo počeli objavljivati na stranici koju sam postavila.
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And the hashtag became a campaign.
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Hashtag je postao kampanja.
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There was an Australian mother in her 40s who described how on an evening out,
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Majka iz Australije u 40-ima opisala je kako ju je tijekom izlaska,
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she was followed to the bathroom
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u kupaonicu pratio
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by a man who went to repeatedly grab her crotch.
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muškarac koji ju je opetovano hvatao za prepone.
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There was a man in the Netherlands
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Čovjek iz Nizozemske je opisao
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who described how he was date-raped on a visit to London
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kako je silovan na spoju tijekom posjeta Londonu
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and wasn't taken seriously by anyone he reported his case to.
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i nisu ga shvatili ozbiljno kada je prijavio slučaj.
05:02
I had personal Facebook messages from people in India and South America,
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Dobila sam osobne Facebook poruke ljudi iz Indije i Južne Amerike,
s pitanjima kako tamo prenijeti poruku kampanje?
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saying, how can we bring the message of the campaign there?
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Jedan od prvih doprinosa bio je od žene koja se zvala Nikki,
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One of the first contributions we had was from a woman called Nikki,
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05:11
who described growing up, being molested my her own father.
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koja je opisala kako je odrastala uz oca koji ju je zlostavljao.
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And I had friends open up to me
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Prijatelji su mi pričali
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about experiences ranging from those that happened last week
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o iskustvima koja su se dogodila prošlog tjedna
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to those that happened years ago, that I'd had no idea about.
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do onih koja su se dogodila godinama prije za koje nisam znala.
05:23
And the more we started to receive these messages,
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I što smo više tih poruka primali,
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the more we also started to receive messages of hope --
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počeli smo dobivati i poruke nade --
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people feeling empowered by this community of voices
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od ljudi koji su bili osnaženi ovom zajednicom glasova
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standing up to sexual assault and victim-blaming.
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koji su ustali protiv seksualnih napada i okrivljavanja žrtava.
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One woman called Olivia,
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Žena imena Olivia je,
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after describing how she was attacked
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nakon opisa kako ju je napala
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by someone she had trusted and cared about for a long time,
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osoba kojoj je vjerovala i o kojoj se brinula dugo vremena
05:39
said, "I've read many of the stories posted here,
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rekla, "Pročitala sam puno priča objavljenih ovdje,
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and I feel hopeful that if so many women can move forward,
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i osjećam nadu kad vidim da toliko žena ide naprijed,
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then I can, too.
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da to mogu i ja.
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I've been inspired by many,
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Inspirirale su me mnoge,
nadam se da ću i ja jednom biti tako snažna.
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and I hope I can be as strong as them someday.
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I'm sure I will."
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Sigurna sam da hoću."
05:51
People around the world began tweeting under this hashtag,
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Ljudi širom svijeta, počeli su tweetati pod tim hashtagom,
05:53
and the letter was republished and covered by the national press,
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i pismo je ponovno objavljeno i pratio ga je državni tisak,
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as well as being translated into several other languages worldwide.
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i preveli su ga na nekoliko jezika širom svijeta.
06:00
But something struck me about the media attention
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Ali nešto me pogodilo kod medijske pažnje
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that this letter was attracting.
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koju je ovo pismo dobivalo.
06:04
For something to be front-page news,
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Da bi nešto bilo vijest s naslovnice,
06:06
given the word "news" itself,
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s obzirom na samu riječ "vijest",
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we can assume it must be something new or something surprising.
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moramo pretpostaviti da to mora biti nešto novo ili iznenađujuće.
06:13
And yet sexual assault is not something new.
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Ali ipak, seksualno zlostavljanje nije nešto novo.
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Sexual assault, along with other kinds of injustices,
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Seksualni napadi, zajedno s drugim nepravdama,
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is reported in the media all the time.
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su stalno u medijima.
06:21
But through the campaign,
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Ali kroz kampanju,
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these injustices were framed as not just news stories,
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ove su nepravde oblikovane ne samo kao priče iz novina,
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they were firsthand experiences that had affected real people,
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već iskustva iz prve ruke koja su utjecala na stvarne ljude
06:28
who were creating, with the solidarity of others,
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koji su stvarali, uz solidarnost drugih,
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what they needed and had previously lacked:
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ono što su trebali i prije im je nedostajalo:
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a platform to speak out,
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platformu za govor,
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the reassurance they weren't alone or to blame for what happened to them
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sigurnost da nisu sami ili okrivljavanje za to što im se dogodilo
06:37
and open discussions that would help to reduce stigma around the issue.
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i otvorene rasprave koje će pomoći smanjiti stigmu oko problema.
06:41
The voices of those directly affected were at the forefront of the story --
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Glasovi onih na koje je to utjecalo su bili u prvom planu priče --
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not the voices of journalists or commentators on social media.
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ne glasovi novinara ili komentatora na društvenim mrežama.
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And that's why the story was news.
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I zato je ta priča bila vijest.
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We live in an incredibly interconnected world
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Živimo u nevjerojatno povezanom svijetu
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with the proliferation of social media,
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sa procvatom društvenih mreža,
06:56
which is of course a fantastic resource for igniting social change.
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što je naravno odličan resurs u pokretanju društvenih promjena.
06:59
But it's also made us increasingly reactive,
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Ali smo postali i reaktivniji,
07:02
from the smallest annoyances of, "Oh, my train's been delayed,"
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od najmanjih problema, "Oh, moj vlak kasni,"
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to the greatest injustices of war, genocides, terrorist attacks.
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do najvećih nepravdi, rata, genocida, terorističkih napada.
07:10
Our default response has become to leap to react to any kind of grievance
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Naš osnovni odgovor postao je brzo reagirati na bilo kakav problem
07:14
by tweeting, Facebooking, hastagging --
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tvitajući, pišući na FB, hashtagovima --
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anything to show others that we, too, have reacted.
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bilo što da bismo drugima pokazali da smo i mi reagirali.
07:19
The problem with reacting in this manner en masse
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Problem kod takvih masovnih reakcija
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is it can sometimes mean that we don't actually react at all,
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je da to nekad zapravo znači da uopće nismo reagirali,
barem ne u smislu da smo nešto zaista učinili.
07:25
not in the sense of actually doing anything, anyway.
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It might make ourselves feel better,
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Možda ćemo se osjećati bolje,
kao da smo pridonijeli grupnom žalovanju ili bijesu,
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like we've contributed to a group mourning or outrage,
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but it doesn't actually change anything.
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ali to zapravo ništa ne mjenja.
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And what's more,
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I važnije,
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it can sometimes drown out the voices
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nekad može ugušiti glasove
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of those directly affected by the injustice,
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onih na koje nepravda direktno utječe,
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whose needs must be heard.
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a čiji glas moramo čuti.
07:41
Worrying, too, is the tendency for some reactions to injustice
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Zabrinjavajuće, također, je to što neke reakcije na nepravdu
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to build even more walls,
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grade još više zidova,
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being quick to point fingers with the hope of providing easy solutions
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upirući prstom s nadom da ćete ponuditi lako rješenje
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to complex problems.
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za složene probleme.
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One British tabloid, on the publication of my letter,
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Jedan britanski tabloid, prilikom objave mog pisma,
07:54
branded a headline stating,
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objavio je naslov
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"Oxford Student Launches Online Campaign to Shame Attacker."
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"Studentica s Oxforda pokreće online kampanju da osramoti napadača."
08:01
But the campaign never meant to shame anyone.
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Ali kampanja nikad nije bila namijenjena tome.
08:04
It meant to let people speak and to make others listen.
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Trebala je dozvoliti ljudima da pričaju i učiniti da drugi slušaju.
08:08
Divisive Twitter trolls were quick to create even more injustice,
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Twitter trollovi brzo su stvorili još više podjela,
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commenting on my attacker's ethnicity or class
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komentirajući etničku pripadnost ili primanja
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to push their own prejudiced agendas.
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kako bi progurali svoje predrasude.
08:17
And some even accused me of feigning the whole thing
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A neki su me čak optužili da sam lažirala cijelu stvar
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to push, and I quote,
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kako bih progurala, i citiram,
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my "feminist agenda of man-hating."
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moju "feministički program mržnje muškaraca."
08:26
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
08:27
I know, right?
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Znam, zar ne?
08:29
As if I'm going to be like, "Hey guys! Sorry I can't make it,
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Kao da ću doći i reći, "Hej ljudi! Ne mogu doći,
08:31
I'm busy trying to hate the entire male population
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zaposlena sam pokušavajući mrziti cijelu mušku populaciju
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by the time I'm 30."
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prije tridesete."
08:35
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
08:36
Now, I'm almost sure
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Gotovo sam sigurna
08:39
that these people wouldn't say the things they say in person.
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da ti ljudi ne bi govorili stvari koje govore uživo.
08:42
But it's as if because they might be behind a screen,
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Ali kao da je to što su iza ekrana,
08:44
in the comfort in their own home
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u udobnosti svojeg doma
08:46
when on social media,
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kada su na društvenim mrežama,
08:47
people forget that what they're doing is a public act --
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razlog zbog kojeg zaborave da je to što rade javni čin --
da će to drugi čitati i da će na njih utjecati.
08:50
that other people will be reading it and be affected by it.
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08:53
Returning to my analogy of getting back on our trains,
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Vraćajući se na moju analogiju vraćanje na naše vlakove,
08:56
another main concern I have about this noise that escalates
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još jedna velika briga koju imam oko ove buke koja eskalira
08:59
from our online responses to injustice
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od naših online odgovora na nepravdu
09:01
is that it can very easily slip into portraying us as the affected party,
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je da sve vrlo lako može preći u opisivanje nas kao povrijeđenih,
09:04
which can lead to a sense of defeatism,
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što može voditi do osjećaja poraza,
09:06
a kind of mental barrier to seeing any opportunity for positivity or change
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mentalne barijere, spriječiti nas da vidimo priliku za pozitivnost ili promjenu
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after a negative situation.
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nakon negativne situacije.
09:13
A couple of months before the campaign started
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Nekoliko mjeseci prije početka kampanje
09:15
or any of this happened to me,
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i ovoga što se meni dogodilo,
09:16
I went to a TEDx event in Oxford,
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bila sam na TEDx događaju u Oxfordu,
09:18
and I saw Zelda la Grange speak,
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i vidjela sam Zeldu le Grange kako priča,
09:20
the former private secretary to Nelson Mandela.
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bivšu tajnicu Nelsona Mandele.
09:22
One of the stories she told really struck me.
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Jedna od priča koju je ispričala zaista me pogodila.
09:25
She spoke of when Mandela was taken to court
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Pričala je o tome kada je Mandela odveden pred sud
09:27
by the South African Rugby Union
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od stranje Južnoafričkog ragbi sindikata
09:29
after he commissioned an inquiry into sports affairs.
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nakon što je postavio pitanje u vezi sportskih afera.
09:32
In the courtroom,
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U sudnici,
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he went up to the South African Rugby Union's lawyers,
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prišao je odvjetnicima Sindikata,
09:36
shook them by the hand
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pružio im ruku
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and conversed with them, each in their own language.
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i pričao sa svakim, na njihovom jeziku.
09:39
And Zelda wanted to protest,
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Zelda je htjela prosvjedovati,
09:41
saying they had no right to his respect
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reći kako nemaju pravo na njegovo poštovanje
09:43
after this injustice they had caused him.
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nakon nepravde koju su mu nanijeli.
09:45
He turned to her and said,
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Okrenuo joj se i rekao,
09:48
"You must never allow the enemy to determine the grounds for battle."
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"Nikad ne dozvoli neprijatelju da određuje temelje za bitku."
09:53
At the time of hearing these words,
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Čuvši te riječi,
09:55
I didn't really know why they were so important,
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nisam znala zašto su tako važne,
09:57
but I felt they were, and I wrote them down in a notebook I had on me.
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ali osjećala sam da jesu, i zapisala sam ih u svoju bilježnicu.
10:01
But I've thought about this line a lot ever since.
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I od tada puno razmišljam o toj rečenici.
10:04
Revenge, or the expression of hatred
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Osveta, ili izražavanje mržnje prema
10:06
towards those who have done us injustice
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onima koji su nam učinili nešto nažao
10:08
may feel like a human instinct in the face of wrong,
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možda se čini kao ljudski nagon kada smo suočeni s nepravdom,
10:11
but we need to break out of these cycles
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ali moramo izaći iz tog ciklusa
10:13
if we are to hope to transform negative events of injustice
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ako želimo transformirati negativne događaje nepravde
10:16
into positive social change.
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u pozitivnu društvenu promjenu.
10:18
To do otherwise
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Inače to
10:20
continues to let the enemy determine the grounds for battle,
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omogućuje neprijatelju određivanja temelja za bitku,
10:23
creates a binary,
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stvara binarni sustav,
10:24
where we who have suffered become the affected,
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gdje mi koji smo patili postajemo oni pod utjecajem,
10:27
pitted against them, the perpetrators.
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nasuprot njih, počinitelja.
10:30
And just like we got back on our tubes,
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I kao što smo se vratili na podzemnu,
10:32
we can't let our platforms for interconnectivity and community
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ne možemo dozvoliti da naše platforme za komunikaciju i zajednicu
10:35
be the places that we settle for defeat.
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budu mjesta gdje se mirimo s porazom.
10:39
But I don't want to discourage a social media response,
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Ali ne želim obeshrabriti odgovor na društvenim mrežama,
10:42
because I owe the development of the #NotGuilty campaign
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jer dugujem razvoj #NotGuilty kampanje gotovo
10:45
almost entirely to social media.
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u potpunosti društvenim mrežama.
10:46
But I do want to encourage a more considered approach
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Ali želim poticati promišljeniji pristup načinu na
10:49
to the way we use it to respond to injustice.
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koji ih koristimo da odgovorimo na nepravdu.
10:51
The start, I think, is to ask ourselves two things.
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Za početak se zapitajmo dvije stvari.
Prvo: Zašto osjećam nepravdu?
10:54
Firstly: Why do I feel this injustice?
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10:56
In my case, there were several answers to this.
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U mom slučaju više je odgovora na to pitanje.
10:58
Someone had hurt me and those who I loved,
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Netko je povrijedio mene i ljude koje volim
11:01
under the assumption they wouldn't have to be held to account
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pod pretpostavkom da neće odgovarati
ili spoznati štetu koju je počinio.
11:04
or recognize the damage they had caused.
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Ne samo to, tisuće muškaraca i žena pate svakog dana,
11:06
Not only that, but thousands of men and women suffer every day
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11:08
from sexual abuse, often in silence,
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zlostavljani su, često u tišini,
11:10
yet it's still a problem we don't give the same airtime to as other issues.
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ali je to i dalje problem koji nema pozornost kao drugi problemi.
To je i dalje problem za koji mnogi okrivljuju žrtve.
11:14
It's still an issue many people blame victims for.
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11:16
Next, ask yourself: How, in recognizing these reasons,
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Sljedeće, zapitajte se: Kako, u prepoznavanju tih razloga,
11:20
could I go about reversing them?
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ja mogu djelovati da ih obrnem?
11:22
With us, this was holding my attacker to account -- and many others.
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S nama, ovo je bilo pozivanje krivca -- i mnogih drugih na odgovornost.
11:25
It was calling them out on the effect they had caused.
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Bilo je prozivanje za učinak koji su imali.
11:28
It was giving airtime to the issue of sexual assault,
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Davanje medijskog prostora seksualnom zlostavljanju,
11:31
opening up discussions amongst friends, amongst families, in the media
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pokrećući rasprave među prijateljima, obiteljima, u medijima
11:34
that had been closed for too long,
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koje su predugo zatvorene,
naglašavajući da žrtve ne smiju osjećati krivicu
11:36
and stressing that victims shouldn't feel to blame
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za ono što im se dogodilo.
11:38
for what happened to them.
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Imamo dalek put pred nama u rješavanju ovog problema u cijelosti,
11:39
We might still have a long way to go in solving this problem entirely.
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11:43
But in this way,
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ali ovako
možemo koristiti društvene mreže kao aktivan alat za društvenu pravdu,
11:44
we can begin to use social media as an active tool for social justice,
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11:47
as a tool to educate, to stimulate dialogues,
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kao alat za edukaciju, poticanje dijaloga,
11:49
to make those in positions of authority aware of an issue
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da bi ljudi na vlasti bili svjesni problema
11:52
by listening to those directly affected by it.
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slušajući one na koje to direktno utječe.
11:56
Because sometimes these questions don't have easy answers.
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Jer nekad pitanja nemaju lak odgovor.
12:00
In fact, they rarely do.
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Zapravo, rijetko imaju.
12:02
But this doesn't mean we still can't give them a considered response.
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Ali to ne znači da ne možemo dati promišljeni odgovor.
12:06
In situations where you can't go about thinking
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U situacijama gdje ne možete ići i razmišljati
12:08
how you'd reverse this feeling of injustice,
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kako biste obrnuli ovaj osjećaj nepravde,
12:10
you can still think, maybe not what you can do,
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još uvijek možete misliti, možda ne što možete učiniti,
12:13
but what you can not do.
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već nešto što možete ne učiniti.
12:15
You can not build further walls by fighting injustice with more prejudice,
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Možete ne graditi zidove boreći se protiv nepravde predrasudama,
12:19
more hatred.
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mržnjom.
12:20
You can not speak over those directly affected by an injustice.
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Možete ne pričati mimo onih na koje nepravda direktno utječe.
12:25
And you can not react to injustice, only to forget about it the next day,
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Možete ne reagirati na nepravdu, samo da biste ju zaboravili sljedeći dan,
12:29
just because the rest of Twitter has moved on.
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jer je ostatak Twittera nastavio dalje.
12:32
Sometimes not reacting instantly is, ironically,
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Nekad je, ironično, ne reagiranje odmah
12:36
the best immediate course of action we can take.
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najbolja prva reakcija koju možemo imati.
12:39
Because we might be angry, upset and energized by injustice,
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Jer možda smo ljuti, uznemireni i energizirani zbog nepravde,
12:44
but let's consider our responses.
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ali promislimo naš odgovor.
12:47
Let us hold people to account, without descending into a culture
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Pozovimo ljude na odgovornost, bez upadanja u kulturu
12:50
that thrives off shaming and injustice ourselves.
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koja uživa u posramljivanju i nepravdi nas samih.
12:54
Let us remember that distinction,
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Sjetimo se te podjele,
12:56
so often forgotten by internet users,
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koju korisnici interneta često zaboravljaju,
12:58
between criticism and insult.
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između kritike i uvrede.
13:01
Let us not forget to think before we speak,
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Ne zaboravimo misliti prije nego kažemo,
13:03
just because we might have a screen in front of us.
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jer možda imamo ekran ispred nas.
13:05
And when we create noise on social media,
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Kada stvaramo buku na društvenim mrežama,
13:07
let it not drown out the needs of those affected,
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ne dozvolimo da uguši potrebe pogođenih,
13:10
but instead let it amplify their voices,
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dozvolimo joj da pojača njihove glasove,
13:12
so the internet becomes a place where you're not the exception
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tako da Internet postane mjesto gdje niste iznimka
ako govorite o nečem što vam se zaista dogodilo.
13:15
if you speak out about something that has actually happened to you.
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13:18
All these considered approaches to injustice
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Svi ovi promišljeni pristupi nepravdi
13:20
evoke the very keystones on which the internet was built:
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pozivaju temelje na kojima je izgrađen internet:
13:24
to network, to have signal, to connect --
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da se povežemo, imamo signal, da se spojimo --
13:26
all these terms that imply bringing people together,
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svi ovi izrazi impliciraju zbližavanje ljudi,
13:29
not pushing people apart.
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ne udaljavanje,
13:31
Because if you look up the word "justice" in the dictionary,
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Jer ako u rječniku potražite riječ "pravda",
13:35
before punishment,
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prije kazne,
13:37
before administration of law or judicial authority,
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prije primjene zakona ili ovlasti,
13:41
you get:
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dobijete:
13:42
"The maintenance of what is right."
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"Održavanje onoga što je pravo."
13:45
And I think there are few things more "right" in this world
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I mislim da ima nema puno stvari koje su "pravije" u ovom svijetu
13:49
than bringing people together,
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od zbližavanja ljudi,
13:51
than unions.
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od zajednica.
13:53
And if we allow social media to deliver that,
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I ako dozvolimo društvenim mrežama da to isporuče,
13:55
then it can deliver a very powerful form of justice, indeed.
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onda mogu stvoriti vrlo snažan oblik pravde.
14:00
Thank you very much.
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Hvala vam puno.
14:01
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
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