Islamophobia killed my brother. Let's end the hate | Suzanne Barakat

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ืื ื ืœื—ืฅ ืคืขืžื™ื™ื ืขืœ ื”ื›ืชื•ื‘ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ืœืžื˜ื” ื›ื“ื™ ืœื”ืคืขื™ืœ ืืช ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ.

ืžืชืจื’ื: Doreena Halapides ืžื‘ืงืจ: Ido Dekkers
ื‘ืฉื ื” ืฉืขื‘ืจื”
00:13
Last year,
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00:14
three of my family members were gruesomely murdered
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ืฉืœื•ืฉื” ืžื—ื‘ืจื™ ื”ืžืฉืคื—ื” ืฉืœื™ ื ืจืฆื—ื• ื‘ืฆื•ืจื” ืžื‘ืขื™ืชื”
00:17
in a hate crime.
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ื‘ืคืฉืข ืฉื ืื”.
ืžื•ื‘ืŸ ืžืืœื™ื• ืฉื‘ืืžืช ืงืฉื” ืœื™
00:20
It goes without saying that it's really difficult
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00:22
for me to be here today,
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ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืคื” ื”ื™ื•ื,
00:24
but my brother Deah,
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ืื‘ืœ ืื—ื™ ื“ื™ื,
00:25
his wife Yusor,
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ืืฉืชื• ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ,
00:27
and her sister Razan
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ื•ืื—ื•ืชื” ืจื–ืืŸ
00:28
don't give me much of a choice.
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ืœื ืžื•ืชื™ืจื™ื ืœื™ ื‘ืจื™ืจื”.
00:31
I'm hopeful that by the end of this talk you will make a choice,
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ื›ื•ืœื™ ืชืงื•ื•ื” ืฉืขื“ ืกื™ื•ื ื”ื”ืจืฆืื” ืชืขืฉื• ื‘ื—ื™ืจื”
00:34
and join me in standing up against hate.
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ื•ืชืฆื˜ืจืคื• ืืœื™ื™ ื‘ืœืขืžื•ื“ ื ื’ื“ ืฉื ืื”.
00:38
It's December 27, 2014:
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27 ื‘ื“ืฆืžื‘ืจ, 2014
00:41
the morning of my brother's wedding day.
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ื”ื‘ื•ืงืจ ืฉืœ ื™ื•ื ื”ื ื™ืฉื•ืื™ืŸ ืฉืœ ืื—ื™.
ื”ื•ื ื‘ื™ืงืฉ ืžืžื ื™ ืœืœื›ืช ืœืกืจืง ืœื• ื”ืฉื™ืขืจ
00:44
He asks me to come over and comb his hair
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ื‘ื”ื›ื ื” ืœืฆื™ืœื•ื ืชืžื•ื ื•ืช ื ื™ืฉื•ืื™ืŸ.
00:46
in preparation for his wedding photo shoot.
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00:48
A 23-year-old, six-foot-three basketball, particularly Steph Curry, fanatic --
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ื‘ื’ื™ืœ 23, 190 ืก"ืž ืงื ืื™ ื›ื“ื•ืจืกืœ ื‘ืžื™ื•ื—ื“ ืกื˜ืฃ ืงืจื™
00:53
(Laughter)
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(ืฆื—ื•ืง)
00:57
An American kid in dental school ready to take on the world.
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ื™ืœื“ ืืžืจื™ืงืื™ ืกื˜ื•ื“ื ื˜ ืจืคื•ืืช ืฉื ื™ื™ื ืžื•ื›ืŸ ืœื”ืฉืชืœื˜ ืขืœ ื”ื—ื™ื™ื.
01:01
When Deah and Yusor have their first dance,
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ื›ืฉื“ื™ื ื•ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื ื›ื ืกื• ืœืจื™ืงื•ื“ ื”ืจืืฉื•ืŸ
01:04
I see the love in his eyes,
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ืจืื™ืชื™ ืืช ื”ืื”ื‘ื” ื‘ืขื™ื ื™ื•
01:06
her reciprocated joy,
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ื”ืื•ืฉืจ ื”ื”ื“ื“ื™ ืฉืœื”
01:07
and my emotions begin to overwhelm me.
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ื•ื”ืจื’ืฉื•ืช ืฉืœื™ ื”ืชื—ื™ืœื• ืœื”ืฆื™ืฃ ืื•ืชื™.
ื”ืœื›ืชื™ ืœืื—ื•ืจื™ ื”ืื•ืœื ื•ืคืจืฆืชื™ ื‘ื‘ื›ื™.
01:11
I move to the back of the hall and burst into tears.
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01:14
And the second the song finishes playing,
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ื•ืžื™ื“ ืื—ืจื™ ืฉื”ืกืชื™ื™ื ื”ืฉื™ืจ
01:16
he beelines towards me,
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ื”ื•ื ื”ืœืš ื™ืฉื™ืจื•ืช ืืœื™,
01:17
buries me into his arms
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ืขื˜ืฃ ืื•ืชื™ ื‘ื–ืจื•ืขื•ืชื™ื•
ื•ื ื“ื ื“ ืื•ืชื™ ืงื“ื™ืžื” ื•ืื—ื•ืจื”.
01:19
and rocks me back and forth.
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01:20
Even in that moment,
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ื’ื ื‘ืจื’ืข ื”ื–ื”
ื›ืฉื”ื›ืœ ื”ื™ื” ืžืกื™ื— ื“ืขืช,
01:22
when everything was so distracting,
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ื”ื•ื ื”ื™ื” ืžื›ื•ื ืŸ ืืœื™ื™.
01:24
he was attuned to me.
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01:25
He cups my face and says,
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ื”ื•ื ืฉื ื™ื“ื™ื• ืขืœ ืคื ื™ ื•ืืžืจ,
01:27
"Suzanne,
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"ืกื•ื–ืืŸ,
01:28
I am who I am because of you.
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ืื ื™ ืžื™ ืฉืื ื™ ื‘ื’ืœืœืš
"ืชื•ื“ื” ืขืœ ื”ื›ืœ
01:35
Thank you for everything.
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01:36
I love you."
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ืื ื™ ืื•ื”ื‘ ืื•ืชืš."
01:39
About a month later, I'm back home in North Carolina for a short visit,
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ืื—ืจื™ ื›ืžืขื˜ ื—ื•ื“ืฉ ื—ื–ืจืชื™ ืœืฆืคื•ืŸ ืงืจื•ืœื™ื™ื ื” ืœื‘ื™ืงื•ืจ ื‘ื™ืช ืงืฆืจ
01:42
and on the last evening, I run upstairs to Deah's room,
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ื•ื‘ืขืจื‘ ื”ืื—ืจื•ืŸ ืจืฆืชื™ ืœืžืขืœื” ืœื—ื“ืจื• ืฉืœ ื“ื™ื
01:45
eager to find out how he's feeling being a newly married man.
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ื ืœื”ื‘ืช ืœื“ืขืช ืื™ืš ื”ื•ื ืžืจื’ื™ืฉ ื‘ื”ื™ื•ืชื• ื’ื‘ืจ ื ืฉื•ื™ ื—ื“ืฉ.
01:48
With a big boyish smile he says,
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ื‘ื—ื™ื•ืš ื ืขืจื™ ื’ื“ื•ืœ ื”ื•ื ืืžืจ ืœื™
"ืื ื™ ืžืื•ืฉืจ ืžืื•ื“. ืื ื™ ืื•ื”ื‘ ืื•ืชื”. ื”ื™ื ื‘ื—ื•ืจื” ืžืงืกื™ืžื”."
01:51
"I'm so happy. I love her. She's an amazing girl."
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01:55
And she is.
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ื•ื”ื™ื ื‘ืืžืช ื›ืš.
01:56
At just 21, she'd recently been accepted to join Deah
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ืจืง ื‘ื’ื™ืœ 21, ื”ืชืงื‘ืœื” ืœื”ืฆื˜ืจืฃ ืœื“ื™ื
01:59
at UNC dental school.
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ื‘ืคืงื•ืœื˜ืช ืจืคื•ืืช ืฉื™ื ื™ื™ื ื‘ืื•ื ื™ื‘ืจืกื™ื˜ืช ืฆืคื•ืŸ ืงืจื•ืœื™ื™ื ื”.
02:01
She shared his love for basketball, and at her urging,
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ื”ื™ื ืฉืชืคื” ืื”ื‘ืชื• ืœื›ื“ื•ืจืกืœ.
02:05
they started their honeymoon off attending their favorite team of the NBA,
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ื•ืœืคื™ ื”ื“ื—ืฃ ืฉืœื” ื”ืชื—ื™ืœื• ืืช ื™ืจื— ื”ื“ื‘ืฉ ืฉืœื”ื ื‘ืžืฉื—ืง ื›ื“ื•ืจืกืœ ืฉืœ ื”ื ื‘ื—ืจืช ื”ืื”ื•ื‘ื” ืขืœื™ื”ื
02:09
the LA Lakers.
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ื‘ืืŸ-ื‘ื™-ืื™ื™, ื”ืืœ ืื™ื™ ืœื™ื™ืงืจืก.
02:10
I mean, check out that form.
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ื›ืื™ืœื• ื‘ืืžืช, ืชืกืชื›ืœื• ืขืœื™ื”.
02:12
(Laughter)
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(ืฆื—ื•ืง)
02:19
I'll never forget that moment sitting there with him --
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ืœืขื•ืœื ืœื ืืฉื›ื— ืืช ื”ืจื’ืข ื”ื–ื” ื›ืฉื™ืฉื‘ืชื™ ืขืžื•
ื›ืžื” ืฉื”ื™ื” ืžืฉื•ื—ืจืจ ื‘ืชื•ืš ื”ืื•ืฉืจ ืฉืœื•.
02:22
how free he was in his happiness.
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02:24
My littler brother, a basketball-obsessed kid,
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ืื—ื™ ื”ืงื˜ืŸ, ื™ืœื“ ืื•ื‘ืกืกื™ื‘ื™ ืœื›ื“ื•ืจืกืœ,
ื”ืคืš ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืื™ืฉ ืฆืขื™ืจ ืžื•ืฆืœื—.
02:27
had become and transformed into an accomplished young man.
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02:31
He was at the top of his dental school class,
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ื”ื™ื” ื”ืจืืฉื•ืŸ ื‘ืžื—ื–ื•ืจื• ื‘ืคืงื•ืœื˜ืช ืจืคื•ืืช ืฉื™ื ื™ื™ื,
02:33
and alongside Yusor and Razan,
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ื•ืœืฆื“ ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื•ืจื–ืืŸ,
02:35
was involved in local and international community service projects
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ื”ื™ื” ื—ืœืง ื‘ืคืจื•ื™ืงื˜ื™ื™ ืฉื™ืจื•ืช ืฆื™ื‘ื•ืจื™ื™ื ืžืงื•ืžื™ื™ื ื•ื‘ื™ื ืœืื•ืžื™ื™ื
02:39
dedicated to the homeless and refugees,
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ืฉืžื•ืงื“ืฉื™ื ืœื—ืกืจื™ ื‘ื™ืช ื•ืคืœื™ื˜ื™ื,
02:41
including a dental relief trip they were planning
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ื›ื•ืœืœ ืžืกืข ื˜ื™ืคื•ืœ ื‘ืฉื™ื ื™ื™ื ืฉืชื›ื ื ื•
ืœืคืœื™ื˜ื™ื ืกื•ืจื™ื™ื ื‘ื˜ื•ืจืงื™ื”.
02:44
for Syrian refugees in Turkey.
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02:46
Razan, at just 19,
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ืจืง ื‘ื’ื™ืœ 19, ืจื–ืืŸ,
02:48
used her creativity as an architectural engineering student
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ื ื™ืฆืœื” ืืช ื”ื™ืฆื™ืจืชื™ื•ืช ืฉืœื” ื›ืกื˜ื•ื“ื ื˜ื™ืช ืœื”ื ื“ืกืช ืืจื›ื™ื˜ื™ืงื˜ื•ืจื”
02:51
to serve those around her,
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ืœืฉืจืช ื”ืกื•ื‘ื‘ื™ื ืื•ืชื”,
02:53
making care packages for the local homeless,
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ืœืขืฉื•ืช ื—ื‘ื™ืœื•ืช ื˜ื™ืคื•ืœื™ื•ืช ืœื—ืกืจื™ ื‘ื™ืช ื”ืžืงื•ืžื™ื™ื,
02:55
among other projects.
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ื‘ื™ืŸ ืคืจื•ื™ืงื˜ื™ื ืื—ืจื™ื.
02:58
That is who they were.
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ื›ื›ื” ื”ื ื”ื™ื•.
03:01
Standing there that night,
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ืขืžื“ืชื™ ืฉื ื‘ืœื™ืœื” ื”ื”ื•ื,
03:02
I take a deep breath and look at Deah and tell him,
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ืœืงื—ืชื™ ื ืฉื™ืžื” ืขืžื•ืงื” ื•ื”ืกืชื›ืœืชื™ ืขืœ ื“ื™ื ื•ืืžืจืชื™ ืœื•,
03:05
"I have never been more proud of you than I am in this moment."
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"ืืฃ ืคืขื ืœื ื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ื›ืœ ื›ืš ื’ืื” ื‘ืš ื›ืžื• ืฉืื ื™ ื‘ืจื’ืข ื”ื–ื”."
03:09
He pulls me into his tall frame,
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ื”ื•ื ืžืฉืš ืื•ืชื™ ืœืžื‘ื ื” ื”ื’ื‘ื•ื” ืฉืœื•,
03:11
hugs me goodnight,
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ื—ื™ื‘ืง ืื•ืชื™ ืœืœื™ืœื” ื˜ื•ื‘,
03:12
and I leave the next morning without waking him
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ื•ืขื–ื‘ืชื™ ื‘ื‘ื•ืงืจ ื‘ืœื™ ืœื”ืขื™ืจ ืื•ืชื•
03:14
to go back to San Francisco.
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ื›ื“ื™ ืœื—ื–ื•ืจ ืœืกืŸ ืคืจื ืกื™ืกืงื•.
03:16
That is the last time I ever hug him.
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ื–ืืช ื”ื™ื™ืชื” ื”ืคืขื ื”ืื—ืจื•ื ื” ืฉื—ื™ื‘ืงืชื™ ืื•ืชื•.
03:22
Ten days later, I'm on call at San Francisco General Hospital
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ืื—ืจื™ ืขืฉืจื” ื™ืžื™ื, ื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ื‘ืžืฉืžืจืช ื‘ื‘ื™ืช ื—ื•ืœื™ื ื›ืœืœื™ ื‘ืกืŸ ืคืจื ืกื™ืกืงื•
03:25
when I receive a barrage of vague text messages expressing condolences.
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ื›ืฉืงื™ื‘ืœืชื™ ืžื˜ื— ืฉืœ ื”ื•ื“ืขื•ืช ืžืขื•ืจืคืœื•ืช ื”ืžื‘ื™ืขื•ืช ืชื ื—ื•ืžื™ื.
03:29
Confused, I call my father, who calmly intones,
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ืžื‘ื•ืœื‘ืœืช, ื”ืชืงืฉืจืชื™ ืœืื‘ื, ื•ื”ื•ื ื“ืงืœื ื‘ืจื•ื’ืข,
03:32
"There's been a shooting in Deah's neighborhood in Chapel Hill.
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"ื”ื™ื” ื™ืจื™ ื‘ืฉื›ื•ื ื” ืฉืœ ื“ื™ื ื‘ืฆ'ืืคืœ ื”ื™ืœ.
03:35
It's on lock-down. That's all we know."
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"ื”ื›ืœ ื‘ื ืขื™ืœื” ื–ื” ื›ืœ ืžื” ืฉืื ื—ื ื• ื™ื•ื“ืขื™ื."
03:37
I hang up and quickly Google, "shooting in Chapel Hill."
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ืื ื™ ืกื•ื’ืจืช ื•ืžื”ืจ ืžื’ื’ืœืช "ื™ืจื™ ื‘ืฆ'ืืคืœ ื”ื™ืœ".
03:41
One hit comes up.
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ืชื•ืฆืื” ืื—ืช ืžื•ืคื™ืขื”
03:42
Quote:
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ืฆื™ื˜ื•ื˜:
03:44
"Three people were shot in the back of the head
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"ืฉืœื•ืฉื” ืื ืฉื™ื ื ื•ืจื• ื‘ืจืืฉื ืžืื—ื•ืจ
03:46
and confirmed dead on the scene."
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ื•ื”ื•ื›ืจื–ื•ื•ืžืชื™ื ื‘ื–ื™ืจื”."
03:48
Something in me just knows.
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ืžืฉื”ื• ื‘ืชื•ื›ื™ ื™ื“ืข.
03:50
I fling out of my chair and faint onto the gritty hospital floor,
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ืขืคืชื™ ืžื”ื›ืกื ื•ื”ืชืขืœืคืชื™ ืขืœ ืจืฆืคืช ื‘ื™ืช ื”ื—ื•ืœื™ื ื”ืžื—ื•ืกืคืกืช,
03:53
wailing.
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ื•ื™ื‘ื‘ืชื™.
03:55
I take the first red-eye out of San Francisco,
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ืœืงื—ืชื™ ืืช ื˜ื™ืกืช ื”ืœื™ืœื” ื”ืจืืฉื•ื ื” ืžืกืŸ ืคืจื ืกื™ืกืงื•,
03:57
numb and disoriented.
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ืจื“ื•ืžื” ื•ืžื‘ื•ืœื‘ืœืช.
03:59
I walk into my childhood home and faint into my parents' arms,
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ื ื›ื ืกืชื™ ืœื‘ื™ืช ื™ืœื“ื•ืชื™ ื•ื”ืชืขืœืคืชื™ ื‘ื™ื“ื™ ื”ื•ืจื™ื™
04:02
sobbing.
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ื‘ื”ืชื™ื™ืคื—ื•ืช.
ืื—ืจ ื›ืš ืจืฆืชื™ ืœื—ื“ืจื• ืฉืœ ื“ื™ื ื›ืžื• ืฉืขืฉื™ืชื™ ื”ืจื‘ื” ืคืขืžื™ื
04:04
I then run up to Deah's room as I did so many times before,
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ืจืง ืœื—ืคืฉ ืื•ืชื•.
04:07
just looking for him,
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04:09
only to find a void that will never be filled.
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ืจืง ื›ื“ื™ ืœืžืฆื•ื ืจื™ืง ืฉืœืขื•ืœื ืœื ื™ืชืžืœื.
04:15
Investigation and autopsy reports eventually revealed
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ื—ืงื™ืจื” ื•ื“ื•ื•ื—ื™ ื ืชื™ื—ื” ื‘ืกื•ืคื• ืฉืœ ื“ื‘ืจ ื—ืฉืคื•
ืืช ืจืฆืฃ ื”ืื™ืจื•ืขื™ื.
04:19
the sequence of events.
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ื“ื™ื ื™ืจื“ ืžื”ืื•ื˜ื•ื‘ื•ืก ืื—ืจื™ ืœื™ืžื•ื“ื™ื,
04:22
Deah had just gotten off the bus from class,
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04:24
Razan was visiting for dinner,
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ืจื–ืืŸ ื‘ื™ืงืจื” ืื•ืชื ืœืืจื•ื—ืช ืขืจื‘,
04:26
already at home with Yusor.
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ื›ื‘ืจ ื‘ื‘ื™ืช ืขื ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ.
04:28
As they began to eat, they heard a knock on the door.
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ื›ืฉื”ืชื—ื™ืœื• ืœืื›ื•ืœ, ืฉืžืขื• ื“ืคื™ืงื” ืขืœ ื”ื“ืœืช.
04:31
When Deah opened it,
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ื›ืฉื“ื™ื ืคืชื— ืื•ืชื”,
04:33
their neighbor proceeded to fire multiple shots at him.
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ื”ืฉื›ืŸ ืฉืœื”ื ื”ืชื—ื™ืœ ืœื™ืจื•ืช ื›ืžื” ื™ืจื™ื•ืช ืขืœื™ื•.
04:38
According to 911 calls,
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ืœืคื™ ื”ืฉื™ื—ื” ืœืžืฉื˜ืจื”,
04:40
the girls were heard screaming.
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ื”ื‘ื ื•ืช ื ืฉืžืขื• ืฆื•ืขืงื•ืช.
04:43
The man turned towards the kitchen and fired a single shot into Yusor's hip,
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ื”ืื™ืฉ ื”ืœืš ืœืžื˜ื‘ื— ื•ื™ืจื” ืคืขื ืื—ืช ื‘ื™ืจื›ื” ืฉืœ ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ
04:47
immobilizing her.
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ื•ื”ืฉื‘ื™ืช ืื•ืชื”.
04:48
He then approached her from behind,
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ืื—ืจื™ ื›ืš ื”ื•ื ื ื™ื’ืฉ ืืœื™ื” ืžืื—ื•ืจ,
ืœื—ืฅ ืขืœ ื”ืงื ื” ืฉืœ ื”ืืงื“ื— ื ื’ื“ ืจืืฉื”,
04:50
pressed the barrel of his gun against her head,
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04:52
and with a single bullet, lacerated her midbrain.
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ื•ื‘ื™ืจื™ื” ืื—ืช, ืฉืกืข ืืช ื”ืžื•ื— ื”ืชื™ื›ื•ืŸ.
04:56
He then turned towards Razan, who was screaming for her life,
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ืื—ืจื™ ื›ืš ื”ืœืš ืœืจื–ืืŸ ืฉืฆืขืงื” ืœืžืขืŸ ื—ื™ื™ื”,
04:59
and, execution-style, with a single bullet
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ื•ื‘ืกื’ื ื•ืŸ ื”ื•ืฆืื” ืœื”ื•ืจื’, ื‘ื™ืจื™ื” ืื—ืช,
05:03
to the back of the head,
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ืœืื—ื•ืจื™ ืจืืฉื”,
05:05
killed her.
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ื”ืจื’ ืื•ืชื”.
05:07
On his way out,
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ื‘ื“ืจื›ื• ื”ื—ื•ืฆื”,
05:08
he shot Deah one last time -- a bullet in the mouth --
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ื™ืจื” ืขืœ ื“ื™ื ืคืขื ืื—ืจื•ื ื” -- ืงืœื™ืข ื‘ืคื” --
05:12
for a total of eight bullets:
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ืกืš ื”ื›ืœ ืฉืžื•ื ื” ืงืœื™ืขื™ื:
ืฉื ื™ื™ื ืคื’ืขื• ื‘ืจืืฉ,
05:14
two lodged in the head,
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05:15
two in his chest
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ืฉื ื™ื™ื ื‘ื—ื–ื”
05:17
and the rest in his extremities.
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ื•ื”ืฉืืจ ื‘ื’ืคื™ื™ื ืฉืœื•.
05:21
Deah, Yusor and Razan were executed
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ื“ื™ื, ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื•ืจื–ืืŸ ื”ื•ืฆืื• ืœื”ื•ืจื’
05:23
in a place that was meant to be safe: their home.
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ื‘ืžืงื•ื ืฉืฆืจื™ืš ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืžื•ื’ืŸ: ื”ื‘ื™ืช ืฉืœื”ื.
05:27
For months, this man had been harassing them:
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ื‘ืžืฉืš ื—ื•ื“ืฉื™ื ื”ืื™ืฉ ื”ื–ื” ื”ื˜ืจื™ื“ ืื•ืชื:
05:30
knocking on their door,
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ื“ืคืง ืขืœ ื“ืœืชื,
05:31
brandishing his gun on a couple of occasions.
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ื ื•ืคืฃ ื‘ืืงื“ื— ืฉืœื• ื‘ื›ืžื” ื”ื–ื“ืžื ื•ื™ื•ืช.
05:34
His Facebook was cluttered with anti-religion posts.
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ื”ืคื™ื™ืกื‘ื•ืง ืฉืœื• ื”ื™ื” ืžืœื ื‘ืคื•ืกื˜ื™ื ืื ื˜ื™-ื“ืชื™ื™ื.
05:38
Yusor felt particularly threatened by him.
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ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื”ืจื’ื™ืฉื” ืžืื•ื™ื™ืžืช ื‘ืžื™ื•ื—ื“ ืžืžื ื•.
05:41
As she was moving in,
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ื›ืฉืขื‘ืจื” ืœื‘ื™ืช,
05:44
he told Yusor and her mom that he didn't like the way they looked.
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ืืžืจ ืœื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื•ืœืืžื” ืฉืœื ืื”ื‘ ืื™ืš ื”ื ื ืจืื™ื.
05:48
In response, Yusor's mom told her to be kind to her neighbor,
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ื‘ืชื’ื•ื‘ื”, ืืžื” ืืžืจื” ืœื” ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ื ื—ืžื“ื” ืœืฉื›ื ื”,
05:52
that as he got to know them,
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ืฉื›ืฉื™ื›ื™ืจ ืื•ืชื
05:53
he'd see them for who they were.
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ื™ื‘ื™ืŸ ืžื™ ื”ื ื‘ืืžืช.
05:57
I guess we've all become so numb to the hatred
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ืื ื™ ื—ื•ืฉื‘ืช ืฉื›ื•ืœื ื• ื”ืคื›ื ื• ืœื—ืกืจื™ ืจื’ืฉ ืœืฉื ืื”
05:59
that we couldn't have ever imagined it turning into fatal violence.
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ืฉืœืขื•ืœื ืœื ื“ืžื™ื™ื ื• ืื•ืชื” ื”ื•ืคื›ืช ืœืืœื™ืžื•ืช ืงื˜ืœื ื™ืช.
06:05
The man who murdered my brother turned himself in to the police
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ื”ืื™ืฉ ืฉืจืฆื— ืืช ืื—ื™ ื”ืกื’ื™ืจ ืืช ืขืฆืžื• ืœืžืฉื˜ืจื”
06:08
shortly after the murders,
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ืžืขื˜ ืื—ืจื™ ื”ืจืฆื™ื—ื•ืช,
06:10
saying he killed three kids,
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ืืžืจ ืฉื”ืจื’ ืฉืœื•ืฉื” ื™ืœื“ื™ื,
06:12
execution-style,
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ื‘ืกื’ื ื•ืŸ ื”ื•ืฆืื” ืœื”ื•ืจื’,
06:14
over a parking dispute.
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ื‘ื’ืœืœ ื•ื™ื›ื•ื— ื—ื ื™ื”.
06:17
The police issued a premature public statement that morning,
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ื”ืžืฉื˜ืจื” ื”ื•ืฆื™ืื” ื”ืฆื”ืจื” ืฆื™ื‘ื•ืจื™ืช ืžื•ืงื“ืžืช ื‘ื‘ื•ืงืจ ื”ื”ื•ื,
06:20
echoing his claims without bothering to question it
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ืฉื—ื•ื–ืจืช ืขืœ ื”ื˜ืขื ื•ืช ืฉืœื• ื‘ืœื™ ืœื˜ืจื•ื— ืœื”ื˜ื™ืœ ืกืคืง ื‘ื”ืŸ
06:22
or further investigate.
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ืื• ืœื”ืžืฉื™ืš ืœื—ืงื•ืจ.
06:24
It turns out there was no parking dispute.
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ืžืกืชื‘ืจ ืฉืœื ื”ื™ื” ื•ื™ื›ื•ื— ื—ื ื™ื”.
06:27
There was no argument.
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ืœื ื”ื™ื” ื•ื™ื›ื•ื—.
06:29
No violation.
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ืœื ื”ืคืจื”.
06:31
But the damage was already done.
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ืื‘ืœ ื”ื ื–ืง ื›ื‘ืจ ื ืขืฉื”.
06:33
In a 24-hour media cycle,
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ื‘ืžื—ื–ื•ืจ 24-ืฉืขื•ืช ื‘ืžื“ื™ื”,
06:35
the words "parking dispute" had already become the go-to sound bite.
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ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื "ื•ื™ื›ื•ื— ื—ื ื™ื”" ื›ื‘ืจ ื”ืคื›ื• ืœืžื‘ื–ืง ื”ืžืกืคืง.
06:41
I sit on my brother's bed and remember his words,
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ื™ืฉื‘ืชื™ ืขืœ ืžื™ื˜ืชื• ืฉืœ ืื—ื™ ื•ื–ื›ืจืชื™ ืืช ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ืฉืœื•,
06:44
the words he gave me so freely and with so much love,
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ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ืฉืืžืจ ืœื™ ื›ืœ ื›ืš ื‘ื—ื•ืคืฉื™ื•ืช ื•ืขื ื”ืžื•ืŸ ืื”ื‘ื”,
"ืื ื™ ืžื™ ืฉืื ื™ ื‘ื’ืœืœืš."
06:48
"I am who I am because of you."
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06:50
That's what it takes for me to climb through my crippling grief
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ื–ื” ืžื” ืฉื’ืจื ืœื™ ืœื˜ืคืก ืžืฆืขืจื™ ื”ืžืฉืชืง
06:53
and speak out.
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ื•ืœื”ืชื‘ื˜ื.
ืื ื™ ืœื ืืชืŸ ืœืžื•ื•ืช ืฉืœ ื”ืžืฉืคื—ื” ืฉืœื™ ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืžื•ืคื—ืช ืœืกื’ืžื ื˜
06:55
I cannot let my family's deaths be diminished to a segment
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06:57
that is barely discussed on local news.
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ืฉื‘ืงื•ืฉื™ ืžื“ื‘ืจื™ื ืขืœื™ื• ื‘ื—ื“ืฉื•ืช ืžืงื•ืžื™ื•ืช.
07:00
They were murdered by their neighbor because of their faith,
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ื”ื ื ืจืฆื—ื• ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ ื”ืฉื›ืŸ ืฉืœื”ื ื‘ื’ืœืœ ืืžื•ื ืชื,
07:04
because of a piece of cloth they chose to don on their heads,
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ื‘ื’ืœืœ ื—ืชื™ื›ืช ื‘ื“ ืฉื‘ื—ืจื• ืœืœื‘ื•ืฉ ืขืœ ืจืืฉื,
07:07
because they were visibly Muslim.
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ื›ื™ ื”ื™ื• ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื ื‘ืขืœื™ืœ.
07:13
Some of the rage I felt at the time
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ื—ืœืง ืžื”ื–ืขื ืฉื”ืจื’ืฉืชื™ ื‘ื–ืžื ื•
07:15
was that if roles were reversed,
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ื”ื™ื” ืฉืื ื”ืชืคืงื™ื“ื™ื ื”ื™ื• ื”ืคื•ื›ื™ื,
07:17
and an Arab, Muslim or Muslim-appearing person
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ื•ืขืจื‘ื™, ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ ืื• ืื“ื ื”ื ืจืื” ืžื•ืกืœืžื™
07:21
had killed three white American college students execution-style,
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ื”ื™ื” ื”ื•ืจื’ ืฉืœื•ืฉื” ืกื˜ื•ื“ื ื˜ื™ื ืืžืจื™ืงืื™ื™ื ืœื‘ื ื™ื ื‘ืกื’ื ื•ืŸ ื”ื•ืฆืื” ืœื”ื•ืจื’,
ื‘ื‘ื™ืชื,
07:26
in their home,
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07:27
what would we have called it?
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ืื™ืš ื”ื™ื™ื ื• ืงื•ืจืื™ื ืœื–ื”?
ื”ืชืงืคื” ื˜ืจื•ืจื™ืกื˜ื™ืช.
07:30
A terrorist attack.
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07:32
When white men commit acts of violence in the US,
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ื›ืฉื’ื‘ืจื™ื ืœื‘ื ื™ื ืžื‘ืฆืขื™ื ืคืขื•ืœื•ืช ืฉืœ ืืœื™ืžื•ืช ื‘ืืจื”"ื‘,
07:35
they're lone wolves,
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ื”ื ื–ืื‘ื™ื ื‘ื•ื“ื“ื™ื,
07:36
mentally ill
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ืžื•ืคืจืขื™ื ืžื ื˜ืœื™ืช
07:37
or driven by a parking dispute.
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ืื• ืฉืขืฉื• ืืช ื–ื” ื‘ื’ืœืœ ื•ื™ื›ื•ื— ื—ื ื™ื”.
07:43
I know that I have to give my family voice,
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ืื ื™ ื™ื•ื“ืขืช ืฉืื ื™ ืฆืจื™ื›ื” ืœืชืช ืงื•ืœ ืœืžืฉืคื—ื” ืฉืœื™,
07:45
and I do the only thing I know how:
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ื•ืื ื™ ืขื•ืฉื” ืืช ื”ื“ื‘ืจ ื”ื™ื—ื™ื“ ืฉืื ื™ ื™ื•ื“ืขืช:
ืื ื™ ืฉื•ืœื—ืช ื”ื•ื“ืขืช ืคื™ื™ืกื‘ื•ืง ืœื›ืœ ืžื™ ืฉืื ื™ ืžื›ื™ืจื” ื‘ืžื“ื™ื”.
07:48
I send a Facebook message to everyone I know in media.
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07:53
A couple of hours later,
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ืื—ืจื™ ื›ืžื” ืฉืขื•ืช,
07:54
in the midst of a chaotic house overflowing with friends and family,
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ื‘ืืžืฆืข ื‘ื™ืช ื›ืื•ื˜ื™ ืžืœื ื—ื‘ืจื™ื ื•ืงืจื•ื‘ื™ ืžืฉืคื—ื”,
07:58
our neighbor Neal comes over, sits down next to my parents
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ืฉื›ื ื ื• ื ื™ืœ ื‘ื, ื™ืฉื‘ ืœื™ื“ ื”ื”ื•ืจื™ื ืฉืœื™
08:01
and asks, "What can I do?"
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ื•ืฉืืœ, "ืžื” ืื ื™ ื™ื›ื•ืœ ืœืขืฉื•ืช?"
08:04
Neal had over two decades of experience in journalism,
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ืœื ื™ืœ ื”ื™ื” ืฉื ื™ ืขืฉื•ืจื™ื ืฉืœ ื ื™ืกื™ื•ืŸ ื‘ืขื™ืชื•ื ืื•ืช,
08:08
but he makes it clear that he's not there in his capacity as journalist,
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ืื‘ืœ ื”ื•ื ืžื‘ื”ื™ืจ ืฉื”ื•ื ืœื ืืฆืœื ื• ื‘ื’ืœืœ ืชืคืงื™ื“ื• ื›ืขื™ืชื•ื ืื™,
08:11
but as a neighbor who wants to help.
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ืืš ื›ืฉื›ืŸ ืฉืจื•ืฆื” ืœืขื–ื•ืจ.
08:14
I ask him what he thinks we should do,
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ืื ื™ ืฉื•ืืœืช ืื•ืชื• ืžื” ืื ื—ื ื• ืฆืจื™ื›ื™ื ืœืขืฉื•ืช,
08:16
given the bombardment of local media interview requests.
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ื‘ื’ืœืœ ื”ืคืฆืฆืช ื‘ืงืฉื•ืช ืœืจืื™ื•ื ื•ืช ืžื”ืžื“ื™ื” ื”ืžืงื•ืžื™ืช.
08:19
He offers to set up a press conference at a local community center.
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ื”ื•ื ืžืฆื™ืข ืฉื ืืจื’ืŸ ืžืกื™ื‘ืช ืขื™ืชื•ื ืื™ื ื‘ืžืจื›ื– ืงื”ื™ืœืชื™ ืžืงื•ืžื™.
08:25
Even now I don't have the words to thank him.
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ืขื“ ื”ื™ื•ื ืื™ืŸ ืœื™ ืžื™ืœื™ื ืœื”ื•ื“ื•ืช ืœื•.
08:28
"Just tell me when, and I'll have all the news channels present," he said.
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"ืจืง ืชื’ื™ื“ื™ ืžืชื™, ื•ืื“ืื’ ืฉื›ืœ ืขืจื•ืฆื™ ื”ื—ื“ืฉื•ืช ื™ื”ื™ื• ื ื•ื›ื—ื™ื" ื”ื•ื ืืžืจ.
08:32
He did for us what we could not do for ourselves
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ื”ื•ื ืขืฉื” ืœื ื• ืžื” ืฉืœื ื”ืฆืœื—ื ื• ืœืขืฉื•ืช ืœืขืฆืžื ื•
ื‘ืจื’ืข ืฉืœ ื—ื•ืจื‘ืŸ.
08:35
in a moment of devastation.
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08:37
I delivered the press statement,
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ื”ืขื‘ืจืชื™ ื”ืฆื”ืจืช ืขื™ืชื•ื ื•ืช,
08:39
still wearing scrubs from the previous night.
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ื›ืฉื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ืขื“ื™ื™ืŸ ื‘ื—ืœื•ืง ืฉืœื™ ืžื”ืœื™ืœื” ื”ืงื•ื“ื.
08:41
And in under 24 hours from the murders,
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ื•ื‘ืคื—ื•ืช ืž-24 ืฉืขื•ืช ืžื”ืจืฆื™ื—ื•ืช,
08:43
I'm on CNN being interviewed by Anderson Cooper.
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ื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ื‘ืกื™-ืืŸ-ืืŸ ื‘ืจืื™ื•ืŸ ืขื ืื ื“ืจืกื•ืŸ ืงื•ืคืจ.
ื‘ื™ื•ื ืฉืื—ืจื™, ืขื™ืชื•ื ื™ื ืžืจื›ื–ื™ื™ื
08:47
The following day, major newspapers --
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08:48
including the New York Times, Chicago Tribune --
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ื›ื•ืœืœ ื ื™ื• ื™ื•ืจืง ื˜ื™ื™ืžืก, ืฉื™ืงื’ื• ื˜ืจื™ื‘ื™ื•ืŸ
08:51
published stories about Deah, Yusor and Razan,
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ืคื™ืจืกืžื• ืกื™ืคื•ืจื™ื ืขืœ ื“ื™ื, ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื•ืจื–ืืŸ,
08:54
allowing us to reclaim the narrative
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ื•ืืคืฉืจื• ืœื ื• ืœืชื‘ื•ืข ื‘ื—ื–ืจื” ืืช ื”ืขืœื™ืœื”
08:56
and call attention the mainstreaming of anti-Muslim hatred.
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ื•ืœืžืฉื•ืš ืชืฉื•ืžืช ืœื‘ ืœื–ืจื ื”ืžืจื›ื–ื™ ืฉืžืชื ื’ื“ ืœืฉื ืืช ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื.
09:03
These days,
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ื‘ื™ืžื™ื ื”ืืœื”,
09:04
it feels like Islamophobia is a socially acceptable form of bigotry.
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ื™ืฉ ื”ืจื’ืฉื” ืฉืืกืœืืžื•ืคื•ื‘ื™ื” ื”ื™ื ืฆื•ืจืช ืงื ืื•ืช ืžืงื•ื‘ืœืช ื—ื‘ืจืชื™ืช.
09:09
We just have to put up with it and smile.
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ืจืง ืฆืจื™ื›ื™ื ืœืกื‘ื•ืœ ืื•ืชื” ื•ืœื—ื™ื™ืš.
09:12
The nasty stares,
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ื”ืžื‘ื˜ื™ื ื”ืžื’ืขื™ืœื™ื,
09:14
the palpable fear when boarding a plane,
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ื”ืคื—ื“ ื”ืžืžืฉื™ ื›ืฉืขื•ืœื™ื ืขืœ ืžื˜ื•ืก,
09:16
the random pat downs at airports that happen 99 percent of the time.
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ื”ื—ื™ืคื•ืฉ ื”ื’ื•ืคื ื™ ื”ืืงืจืื™ ื‘ืฉื“ื•ืช ืชืขื•ืคื” ืฉืžืชืจื—ืฉ 99% ืžื”ื–ืžืŸ.
ื•ื–ื” ืœื ื ื’ืžืจ ืคื”.
09:22
It doesn't stop there.
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ื™ืฉ ืคื•ืœื™ื˜ื™ืงืื™ื ืฉืงื•ืฆืจื™ื ืจื•ื•ื—ื™ื ืคื•ืœื™ื˜ื™ื™ื ื•ืคื™ื ื ืกื™ื ืžื’ื‘ื™ื ื•.
09:24
We have politicians reaping political and financial gains off our backs.
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09:28
Here in the US,
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ืคื” ื‘ืืจื”"ื‘,
09:29
we have presidential candidates like Donald Trump,
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ื™ืฉ ืžื•ืขืžื“ื™ื ื ืฉื™ืื•ืชื™ื™ื ื›ืžื• ื“ื•ื ืืœื“ ื˜ืจืืžืค,
09:31
casually calling to register American Muslims,
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ืฉืงื•ืจืื™ื ืœืจืฉื•ื ืืžืจื™ืงืื™ื ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื ื›ืœืื—ืจ ื™ื“,
09:34
and ban Muslim immigrants and refugees from entering this country.
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ื•ืœืžื ื•ืข ืžืžื”ื’ืจื™ื ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื ื•ืคืœื™ื˜ื™ื ืžืœื›ื ืก ืœืžื“ื™ื ื” ื–ื•.
09:38
It is no coincidence that hate crimes rise
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ืœื ื‘ืžืงืจื” ืคืฉืขื™ ืฉื ืื” ืขื•ืœื™ื
ื‘ืžืงื‘ื™ืœ ืœืชืงื•ืคื•ืช ื”ื‘ื—ื™ืจื•ืช.
09:41
in parallel with election cycles.
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09:46
Just a couple months ago, Khalid Jabara,
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ืจืง ืœืคื ื™ ื›ืžื” ื—ื•ื“ืฉื™ื, ื—'ืืœื“ ื’'ื‘ืืจื”,
ื ื•ืฆืจื™ ืืžืจื™ืงืื™-ืœื‘ื ื•ื ื™,
09:49
a Lebanese-American Christian,
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09:50
was murdered in Oklahoma by his neighbor --
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ื ืจืฆื— ื‘ืื•ืงืœื”ื•ืžื” ืข"ื™ ืฉื›ื ื•
09:53
a man who called him a "filthy Arab."
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ืื™ืฉ ืฉืงืจื” ืœื• "ืขืจื‘ื™ ืžืœื•ื›ืœืš."
09:56
This man was previously jailed for a mere 8 months,
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ื”ืื™ืฉ ื”ื–ื” ื ืืกืจ ืฉืžื•ื ื” ื—ื•ื“ืฉื™ื ื‘ืœื‘ื“ ืœืคื ื™ ื›ืŸ,
09:59
after attempting run over Khalid's mother with his car.
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ื‘ื’ืœืœ ื ื™ืกื™ื•ื ื• ืœื“ืจื•ืก ืืช ืืžื• ืฉืœ ื—'ืืœื“ ื‘ืจื›ื‘.
10:03
Chances are you haven't heard Khalid's story,
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ืจื•ื‘ ื”ืกื™ื›ื•ื™ื™ื ืฉืœื ืฉืžืขืชื ืืช ืกื™ืคื•ืจื• ืฉืœ ื—'ืืœื“,
10:06
because it didn't make it to national news.
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ื›ื™ ื”ื•ื ืืคื™ืœื• ืœื ืฉื•ื“ืจ ื‘ื—ื“ืฉื•ืช ืืจืฆื™ื•ืช.
10:09
The least we can do is call it what it is:
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ื”ืžื™ื ื™ืžื•ื ืฉืืคืฉืจ ืœืขืฉื•ืช ื–ื” ืœืงืจื•ื ืœื• ืžื” ืฉื”ื•ื ื‘ืืžืช:
ืคืฉืข ืฉื ืื”.
10:12
a hate crime.
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10:13
The least we can do is talk about it,
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ื”ืžื™ื ื™ืžื•ื ืฉืืคืฉืจ ืœืขืฉื•ืช ื–ื” ืœื“ื‘ืจ ืขืœื™ื•,
10:16
because violence and hatred doesn't just happen in a vacuum.
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ื›ื™ ืžืื—ื•ืจื™ ืืœื™ืžื•ืช ื•ืฉื ืื” ื™ืฉ ืกื™ื‘ื”.
10:23
Not long after coming back to work,
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ื–ืžืŸ ืœื ืจื‘ ืื—ืจื™ ืฉื—ื–ืจืชื™ ืœืขื‘ื•ื“ื”,
10:25
I'm the senior on rounds in the hospital,
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ืื ื™ ืขื•ืฉื” ื‘ื™ืงื•ืจ ืจื•ืคืื™ื ื‘ื‘ื™ืช ื—ื•ืœื™ื,
10:27
when one of my patients looks over at my colleague,
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ื›ืฉืื—ืช ืžื”ืžื˜ื•ืคืœื•ืช ืžืกืชื›ืœืช ืขืœ ื”ืขืžื™ืช ืฉืœื™,
ื•ืžื—ื•ื” ื‘ืขื™ื’ื•ืœ ืกื‘ื™ื‘ ืคื ื™ื” ื•ืื•ืžืจืช, "ืกืŸ ื‘ืจื ืจื“ื™ื ื•,"
10:30
gestures around her face and says, "San Bernardino,"
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10:33
referencing a recent terrorist attack.
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ืžืชื™ื™ื—ืกืช ืœื”ืชืงืคื” ื˜ืจื•ืจื™ืกื˜ื™ืช ื—ื“ืฉื”.
10:36
Here I am having just lost three family members to Islamophobia,
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ืœืื—ืจื•ื ื” ืื™ื‘ื“ืชื™ ืฉืœื•ืฉื” ืžื—ื‘ืจื™ ืžืฉืคื—ืชื™ ื‘ื’ืœืœ ืืกืœืืžื•ืคื•ื‘ื™ื”,
10:40
having been a vocal advocate within my program
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ื‘ื”ื™ื•ืชื™ ื’ื ื“ื•ื‘ืจืช ื‘ืขืœืช ืงื•ืœ ื‘ืชื•ืš ื”ืชื›ื ื™ืช ืฉืœื™
10:42
on how to deal with such microaggressions,
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ืฉืžื“ื‘ืจืช ืขืœ ืื•ืคืŸ ื”ื”ืชืขืกืงื•ืช ืขื ืžื™ืงืจื•-ืื’ืจืกื™ื” ื›ื–ืืช,
10:44
and yet --
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ื•ืขื“ื™ื™ืŸ,
10:45
silence.
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ืฉืงื˜.
10:47
I was disheartened.
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ื ืจืคื• ืœื™ ื”ื™ื“ื™ื™ื.
10:49
Humiliated.
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ืžื•ืฉืคืœืช.
10:51
Days later rounding on the same patient,
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ืื—ืจื™ ื›ืžื” ื™ืžื™ื, ื‘ื‘ื™ืงื•ืจ ืืฆืœ ืื•ืชื” ืžื˜ืคืœืช,
10:53
she looks at me and says,
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ื”ืกืชื›ืœื” ืขืœื™ื™ ื•ืืžืจื”,
10:54
"Your people are killing people in Los Angeles."
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"ื”ืื ืฉื™ื ืฉืœืš ื”ื•ืจื’ื™ื ืื—ืจื™ื ื‘ืœื•ืก ืื ื’'ืœืก."
10:59
I look around expectantly.
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ื”ืกืชื›ืœืชื™ ืกื‘ื™ื‘ื™ ื‘ืฆื™ืคื™ื™ื”.
11:01
Again:
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ืฉื•ื‘:
11:02
silence.
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ืฉืงื˜.
11:04
I realize that yet again,
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ื”ื‘ื ืชื™ ืฉื’ื ื”ืคืขื,
11:06
I have to speak up for myself.
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ืื ื™ ืฆืจื™ื›ื” ืœื”ืชื‘ื˜ื ื‘ืฉื‘ื™ืœ ืขืฆืžื™.
11:09
I sit on her bed and gently ask her,
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ื™ืฉื‘ืชื™ ืขืœ ืžื™ื˜ืชื” ื•ืฉืืœืชื™ ืื•ืชื” ื‘ืขื“ื™ื ื•ืช,
11:12
"Have I ever done anything but treat you with respect and kindness?
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"ืื™ ืคืขื ื”ืชื™ื™ื—ืกืชื™ ืืœื™ื™ืš ื‘ื—ื•ืกืจ ื›ื‘ื•ื“ ื•ื ื—ืžื“ื•ืช?
11:17
Have I done anything but give you compassionate care?"
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"ืื™ ืคืขื ืœื ื˜ื™ืคืœืชื™ ื‘ืš ื‘ืจื—ืžื ื•ืช?"
ื”ืกืชื›ืœื” ืœืžื˜ื” ื•ื”ื‘ื™ื ื” ืฉืžื” ืฉืืžืจื” ื”ื™ื” ื˜ืขื•ืช,
11:21
She looks down and realizes what she said was wrong,
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11:23
and in front of the entire team,
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ื•ืžื•ืœ ื›ืœ ื”ืฆื•ื•ืช,
11:25
she apologizes and says,
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ื”ืชื ืฆืœื” ื•ืืžืจื”,
11:26
"I should know better. I'm Mexican-American.
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"ื”ื™ื™ืชื™ ืฆืจื™ื›ื” ืœื”ื‘ื™ืŸ ื™ื•ืชืจ. ืื ื™ ืืžืจื™ืงืื™ืช-ืžืงืกื™ืงื ื™ืช.
11:29
I receive this kind of treatment all the time."
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"ืžืชื ื”ื’ื™ื ืืœื™ื™ ื›ืš ื›ืœ ื”ื–ืžืŸ."
11:35
Many of us experience microaggressions on a daily basis.
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ื”ืจื‘ื” ืžืืชื ื• ื—ื•ื•ื™ื ืžื™ืงืจื•-ืื’ืจืกื™ื” ื‘ืื•ืคืŸ ื™ื•ื-ื™ื•ืžื™.
ืจื•ื‘ ื”ืกื™ื›ื•ื™ื™ื, ืฉืืช ื—ื•ื•ื™ืชื ืื•ืชื”,
11:39
Odds are you may have experienced it,
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11:41
whether for your race,
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ืื ื‘ื’ืœืœ ื”ื’ื–ืข ืฉืœื›ื,
11:42
gender,
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ื”ืžื’ื“ืจ ืฉืœื›ื,
ื”ืžื™ื ื™ื•ืช ืฉืœื›ื
11:44
sexuality
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11:45
or religious beliefs.
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ืื• ืืžื•ื ื•ืช ื“ืชื™ื•ืช.
11:46
We've all been in situations where we've witnessed something wrong
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ื›ื•ืœื ื• ื”ื™ื™ื ื• ื‘ืžืฆื‘ื™ื ื‘ื”ื ื”ื™ื™ื ื• ืขื“ื™ื ืœืคื’ื™ืขื”
11:49
and didn't speak up.
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ื•ืœื ื”ืชื‘ื˜ืื ื•.
ืื•ืœื™ ืœื ื”ื™ื™ื ื• ืžืฆื•ื™ื“ื™ื ื‘ื›ืœื™ื ืœื”ื’ื™ื‘ ื‘ืื•ืชื• ืจื’ืข.
11:51
Maybe we weren't equipped with the tools to respond in the moment.
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11:54
Maybe we weren't even aware of our own implicit biases.
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ืื•ืœื™ ืœื ื”ื™ื™ื ื• ืžื•ื“ืขื™ื ืœื“ืขื•ืช ื”ืงื“ื•ืžื•ืช ื”ืžืจื•ืžื–ื™ื ืฉืœื ื•.
11:59
We can all agree that bigotry is unacceptable,
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ื›ื•ืœื ื• ืžืกื›ื™ืžื™ื ืฉืงื ืื•ืช ืื™ื ื” ืžืงื•ื‘ืœืช,
12:02
but when we see it,
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ืื‘ืœ ื›ืฉืจื•ืื™ื ืื•ืชื”,
12:03
we're silent,
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ืื ื—ื ื• ืฉืงื˜ื™ื.
ื›ื™ ื–ื” ืœื ื ื•ื— ืœื ื•.
12:05
because it makes us uncomfortable.
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12:07
But stepping right into that discomfort
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ืื‘ืœ ื”ืฆืขื“ ืฉืœื ื• ืœืชื•ืš ืื™-ื”ื ื•ื—ื•ืช ื”ื•
ืื•ืžืจ ืฉื’ื ืฆื•ืขื“ื™ื ืœืชื•ืš ืื–ื•ืจ ื‘ืขืœื™ ื”ื‘ืจื™ืช.
12:10
means you are also stepping into the ally zone.
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12:13
There may be over three million Muslims in America.
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ื‘ืืจื”"ื‘ ื™ืฉ ื™ื•ืชืจ ืžืฉืœื•ืฉื” ืžื™ืœื™ื•ืŸ ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื.
12:16
That's still just one percent of the total population.
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ื•ื–ื” ืจืง ืื—ื•ื– ืื—ื“ ืžื›ืœ ื”ืื•ื›ืœื•ืกื™ื”.
12:20
Martin Luther King once said,
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ืžืจื˜ื™ืŸ ืœื•ืชืจ ืงื™ื ื’ ืคืขื ืืžืจ,
12:22
"In the end,
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"ื‘ืกื•ืฃ,
12:23
we will remember not the words of our enemies,
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ื ื–ื›ื•ืจ ืœื ืืช ื”ืžื™ืœื™ื ืฉืœ ืื•ื™ื‘ื™ื ื•,
"ืืœื ืืช ื”ืฉืงื˜ ืฉืœ ื—ื‘ืจื™ื ื•."
12:27
but the silence of our friends."
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12:33
So what made my neighbor Neal's allyship so profound?
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ืื– ืžื” ื’ืจื ืœืขื–ืจืช ืฉื›ื ื ื• ื ื™ืœ ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืžืฉืžืขื•ืชื™ืช ?
12:37
A couple of things.
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ื›ืžื” ื“ื‘ืจื™ื.
ื”ื•ื ืขื–ืจ ื›ืฉื›ืŸ ืฉื“ืื’ ืœื ื•,
12:39
He was there as a neighbor who cared,
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12:41
but he was also bringing in his professional expertise and resources
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ื•ื’ื ื”ื‘ื™ื ืžื”ืžืฉืื‘ื™ื ื•ื”ืžื•ืžื—ื™ื•ืช ื”ืžืงืฆื•ืขื™ืช
12:44
when the moment called for it.
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ื›ืฉื”ื’ื™ืข ื”ื–ืžืŸ ืœื›ืš.
12:46
Others have done the same.
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ื’ื ืื—ืจื™ื ืขืฉื• ื›ืš.
ืœืจื™ืกื™ื” ื”ื•ืงื™ื ืก ื ื™ืฆืœื” ืืช ื”ืคืœื˜ืคื•ืจืžื” ืฉืœื”
12:49
Larycia Hawkins drew on her platform
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12:51
as the first tenured African-American professor at Wheaton College
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ื›ืคืจื•ืคืกื•ืจื™ืช ืืคืจื™ืงืื™ืช-ืืžืจื™ืงืื™ืช ืจืืฉื•ื ื” ื‘ืžื›ืœืœืช ื•ื™ื˜ื•ืŸ
ืœืœื‘ื•ืฉ ื—ื™ื’'ืื‘ ื‘ืกื•ืœื™ื“ืจื™ื•ืช
12:55
to wear a hijab in solidarity
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12:56
with Muslim women who face discrimination every day.
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ืขื ื ืฉื™ื ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื•ืช ืฉืžืชืžื•ื“ื“ื•ืช ืขื ืืคืœื™ื” ื›ืœ ื™ื•ื.
ื›ืชื•ืฆืื”, ืคื•ื˜ืจื” ืžืขื‘ื•ื“ืชื”.
13:00
As a result, she lost her job.
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13:03
Within a month,
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ื‘ืชื•ืš ื—ื•ื“ืฉ,
13:04
she joined the faculty at the University of Virginia,
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ื”ืฆื˜ืจืคื” ืœืคืงื•ืœื˜ื” ื‘ืื•ื ื™ื‘ืจืกื™ื˜ืช ื•ื™ืจื’'ื™ื ื™ื”,
13:07
where she now works on pluralism, race, faith and culture.
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ืฉื ื”ื™ื ืขื•ื‘ื“ืช ืขืœ ืคืœื•ืจืœื™ื–ื, ื’ื–ืข, ืืžื•ื ื” ื•ืชืจื‘ื•ืช.
13:12
Reddit cofounder, Alexis Ohanian,
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ื”ืžื™ื™ืกื“ ื”ืฉื•ืชืฃ ืฉืœ ืจื“ื™ื˜, ืืœื›ืกื™ืก ืื•ื”ื ื™ืืŸ,
13:14
demonstrated that not all active allyship needs to be so serious.
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ื”ืจืื” ืฉืœื ื›ืœ ืขื–ืจื” ืคืขื™ืœื” ืฆืจื™ื›ื” ืœื”ื™ื•ืช ืจืฆื™ื ื™ืช.
ื”ื•ื ื‘ื ืœืชืžื•ืš ื‘ืžืฉื™ืžืช ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ืช ื‘ืช 15 ืฉื ื”
13:19
He stepped up to support a 15-year-old Muslim girl's mission
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13:21
to introduce a hijab emoji.
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ืœื”ืฆื™ื’ ืื™ืžื•ื’'ื™ ืฉืœ ื—ื™ื’'ืื‘.
(ืฆื—ื•ืง)
13:24
(Laughter)
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ืžื—ื•ื•ื” ืงื˜ื ื”,
13:26
It's a simple gesture,
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13:27
but it has a significant subconscious impact
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ืื‘ืœ ื™ืฉ ืœื” ื”ืฉืคืขื” ืชืช-ืžื•ื“ืขืช ืžืฉืžืขื•ืชื™ืช
13:30
on normalizing and humanizing Muslims,
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ื‘ื ืจืžื•ืœ ื•ื”ืื ืฉืช ืžื•ืกืœืžื™ื,
13:33
including the community as a part of an "us"
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ื‘ื”ื›ืœืช ื”ืงื”ื™ืœื” ื›ื—ืœืง ืž"ืื™ืชื ื•"
ื‘ืžืงื•ื "ืื—ืจ."
13:36
instead of an "other."
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13:39
The editor in chief of Women's Running magazine
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ื”ืขื•ืจื›ืช ื”ืจืืฉื™ืช ืฉืœ ื›ืชื‘ ืขืช Women's Running
13:41
just put the first hijabi to ever be on the cover of a US fitness magazine.
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ืฉืžื” ืื™ืฉื” ืขื ื—ื™ื’'ืื‘ ืœืจืืฉื•ื ื” ืขืœ ื“ืฃ ื”ืฉืขืจ ืฉืœ ื›ืชื‘ ืขืช ืืžืจื™ืงืื™ ืฉืžื•ืงื“ืฉ ืœื›ื•ืฉืจ.
ืืœื” ื“ื•ื’ืžืื•ืช ืฉื•ื ื•ืช
13:47
These are all very different examples
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13:48
of people who drew upon their platforms and resources
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ืฉืœ ืื ืฉื™ื ืฉื ื™ืฆืœื• ืืช ื”ืžืฉืื‘ื™ื ื•ื”ืคืœื˜ืคื•ืจืžื•ืช ืฉืœื”ื
13:51
in academia, tech and media,
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ื‘ืืงื“ืžื™ื”, ื˜ื›ื ื•ืœื•ื’ื™ื” ื•ืžื“ื™ื”,
ืœื”ื‘ื™ืข ืชืžื™ื›ืชื ื‘ืฆื•ืจื” ืคืขื™ืœื”.
13:54
to actively express their allyship.
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13:57
What resources and expertise do you bring to the table?
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ืื™ื–ื” ืžืฉืื‘ื™ื ื•ืžืžื—ื™ื•ืช ืืชื ืžื‘ื™ืื™ื ืœืฉื•ืœื—ืŸ?
14:01
Are you willing to step into your discomfort
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ื”ืื ืืชื ืžื•ื›ื ื™ื ืœืฆืขื•ื“ ืœืชื•ืš ืื™-ื”ื ื•ื—ื•ืช
14:03
and speak up when you witness hateful bigotry?
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ื•ืœื”ืชื‘ื˜ื ื›ืฉืืชื ืขื“ื™ื ืœืงื ืื•ืช ืฉืœ ืฉื ืื”?
14:06
Will you be Neal?
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ื”ืื ืชื”ื™ื• ื ื™ืœ?
14:09
Many neighbors appeared in this story.
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ื”ืจื‘ื” ืฉื›ื ื™ื ื”ื•ืคื™ืขื• ื‘ืกื™ืคื•ืจ ื”ื–ื”.
14:11
And you, in your respective communities, all have a Muslim neighbor,
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ื•ืืชื, ื‘ืงื”ื™ืœื•ืช ืฉืœื›ื, ื™ืฉ ืœื›ื ืฉื›ืŸ ืžื•ืกืœืžื™,
14:15
colleague
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ืขืžื™ืช
14:16
or friend your child plays with at school.
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ืื• ื—ื‘ืจ ืœื™ืœื“ื›ื ืฉืžืฉื—ืง ืื™ืชื• ื‘ื‘ื™ืช ืกืคืจ.
14:18
Reach out to them.
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ื”ื•ืฉื™ื˜ื• ืœื”ื ื™ื“.
14:20
Let them know you stand with them in solidarity.
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ืชื ื• ืœื”ื ืœื“ืขืช ืฉืืชื ื‘ืกื•ืœื™ื“ืจื™ื•ืช ืขืžื.
14:23
It may feel really small,
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ืื•ืœื™ ื–ื” ืžืจื’ื™ืฉ ื›ืžืฉื”ื• ืงื˜ืŸ,
14:24
but I promise you it makes a difference.
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ืื‘ืœ ืื ื™ ืžื‘ื˜ื™ื—ื” ืœื›ื ืฉื™ืขืฉื” ืฉื™ื ื•ื™.
14:29
Nothing will ever bring back Deah, Yusor and Razan.
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ื›ืœื•ื ืœื ื™ื—ื–ื™ืจ ืืช ื“ื™ื, ื™ื•ืกื•ืจ ื•ืจื–ืืŸ.
14:33
But when we raise our collective voices,
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ืื‘ืœ ื›ืฉืื ื• ืžืจื™ืžื™ื ืงื•ืœื•ืชื™ื ื• ื”ืงื•ืœืงื˜ื™ื‘ื™ื™ื,
ืื– ืื ื—ื ื• ืขื•ืฆืจื™ื ืืช ื”ืฉื ืื”.
14:36
that is when we stop the hate.
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14:38
Thank you.
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ืชื•ื“ื”.
14:39
(Applause)
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(ืžื—ื™ืื•ืช ื›ืคื™ื™ื)
ืขืœ ืืชืจ ื–ื”

ืืชืจ ื–ื” ื™ืฆื™ื’ ื‘ืคื ื™ื›ื ืกืจื˜ื•ื ื™ YouTube ื”ืžื•ืขื™ืœื™ื ืœืœื™ืžื•ื“ ืื ื’ืœื™ืช. ืชื•ื›ืœื• ืœืจืื•ืช ืฉื™ืขื•ืจื™ ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื”ืžื•ืขื‘ืจื™ื ืขืœ ื™ื“ื™ ืžื•ืจื™ื ืžื”ืฉื•ืจื” ื”ืจืืฉื•ื ื” ืžืจื—ื‘ื™ ื”ืขื•ืœื. ืœื—ืฅ ืคืขืžื™ื™ื ืขืœ ื”ื›ืชื•ื‘ื™ื•ืช ื‘ืื ื’ืœื™ืช ื”ืžื•ืฆื’ื•ืช ื‘ื›ืœ ื“ืฃ ื•ื™ื“ืื• ื›ื“ื™ ืœื”ืคืขื™ืœ ืืช ื”ืกืจื˜ื•ืŸ ืžืฉื. ื”ื›ืชื•ื‘ื™ื•ืช ื’ื•ืœืœื•ืช ื‘ืกื ื›ืจื•ืŸ ืขื ื”ืคืขืœืช ื”ื•ื•ื™ื“ืื•. ืื ื™ืฉ ืœืš ื”ืขืจื•ืช ืื• ื‘ืงืฉื•ืช, ืื ื ืฆื•ืจ ืื™ืชื ื• ืงืฉืจ ื‘ืืžืฆืขื•ืช ื˜ื•ืคืก ื™ืฆื™ืจืช ืงืฉืจ ื–ื”.

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