Janine Shepherd: A broken body isn't a broken person

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Translator: Joseph Geni Reviewer: Morton Bast
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Life is about opportunities -- creating them and embracing them.
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And for me, that was the Olympic dream.
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That's what defined me. That was my bliss.
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As a cross-country skier and member of the Australian ski team
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headed towards the Winter Olympics,
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I was on a training bike ride with my fellow teammates.
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As we made our way up towards the spectacular Blue Mountains
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west of Sydney,
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it was the perfect autumn day:
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sunshine, the smell of eucalypt and a dream.
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Life was good.
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We'd been on our bikes for around five-and-a-half hours
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when we got to the part of the ride that I loved,
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and that was the hills, because I loved the hills.
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I got up off the seat of my bike and I started pumping my legs,
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and as I sucked in the cold mountain air, I could feel it burning my lungs,
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and I looked up to see the sun shining in my face.
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And then everything went black.
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Where was I? What was happening?
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My body was consumed by pain.
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I'd been hit by a speeding utility truck
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with only 10 minutes to go on the bike ride.
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I was airlifted from the scene of the accident by a rescue helicopter
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to a large spinal unit in Sydney.
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I had extensive and life-threatening injuries.
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I'd broken my neck and my back in six places.
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I broke five ribs on my left side.
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I broke my right arm. I broke my collarbone.
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I broke some bones in my feet.
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My whole right side was ripped open, filled with gravel.
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My head was cut open across the front, lifted back,
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exposing the skull underneath.
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I had head injures. I had internal injuries.
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I had massive blood loss.
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In fact, I lost about five liters of blood,
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which is all someone my size would actually hold.
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By the time the helicopter arrived at Prince Henry Hospital in Sydney,
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my blood pressure was 40 over nothing.
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I was having a really bad day.
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(Laughter)
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For over 10 days, I drifted between two dimensions.
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I had an awareness of being in my body,
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but also being out of my body, somewhere else,
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watching from above, as if it was happening to someone else.
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Why would I want to go back to a body that was so broken?
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But this voice kept calling me:
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"Come on, stay with me."
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"No, it's too hard."
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"Come on. This is our opportunity."
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"No. That body is broken. It can no longer serve me."
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"Come on. Stay with me. We can do it. We can do it together."
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I was at a crossroads.
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I knew if I didn't return to my body, I'd have to leave this world forever.
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It was the fight of my life.
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After 10 days, I made the decision to return to my body.
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And the internal bleeding stopped.
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The next concern was whether I would walk again,
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because I was paralyzed from the waist down.
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They said to my parents that the neck break was a stable fracture,
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but the back was completely crushed:
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the vertebra at L1 was like you'd dropped a peanut,
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stepped on it, smashed it into thousands of pieces.
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They'd have to operate.
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They went in. They put me on a beanbag.
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They cut me -- literally cut me in half.
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I have a scar that wraps around my entire body.
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They picked as much broken bone as they could
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that had lodged in my spinal cord.
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They took out two of my broken ribs and they rebuilt my back --
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L1, they rebuilt it, they took out another broken rib,
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they fused T12, L1 and L2 together.
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Then they stitched me up; they took an entire hour to stitch me up.
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I woke up in intensive care,
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and the doctors were really excited that the operation had been a success,
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because at that stage, I had a little bit of movement
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in one of my big toes,
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and I thought, "Great, because I'm going to the Olympics!"
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(Laughter)
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I had no idea.
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That's the sort of thing that happens to someone else, not me, surely.
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But then the doctor came over to me and she said,
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"Janine, the operation was a success,
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and we've picked as much bone out of your spinal cord as we could.
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But the damage is permanent.
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The central nervous system nerves -- there is no cure.
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You're what we call a partial paraplegic,
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and you'll have all of the injuries that go along with that.
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You'll have no feeling from the waist down,
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and at most, you might get 10 or 20 percent return.
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You'll have internal injuries for the rest of your life.
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You'll have to use a catheter for the rest of your life.
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And if you walk again, it will be with calipers and a walking frame."
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And then she said,
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"Janine, you'll have to rethink everything you do in your life,
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because you're never going to be able to do the things you did before."
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(Gasps)
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I tried to grasp what she was saying.
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I was an athlete. That's all I knew. That's all I'd done.
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If I couldn't do that, then what could I do?
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And the question I asked myself is:
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If I couldn't do that,
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then who was I?
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They moved me from intensive care to acute spinal.
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I was lying on a thin, hard spinal bed.
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I had no movement in my legs.
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I had tight stockings on to protect from blood clots.
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I had one arm in plaster, one arm tied down by drips.
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I had a neck brace and sandbags on either side of my head
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and I saw my world through a mirror
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that was suspended above my head.
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I shared the ward with five other people,
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and the amazing thing is,
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because we were all lying paralyzed in a spinal ward,
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we didn't know what each other looked like.
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How amazing is that?
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How often in life do you get to make friendships, judgment-free,
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purely based on spirit?
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And there were no superficial conversations
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as we shared our innermost thoughts, our fears,
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and our hopes for life after the spinal ward.
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I remember one night, one of the nurses came in, Jonathan,
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with a whole lot of plastic straws.
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He put a pile on top of each of us, and he said,
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"Start threading them together."
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Well, there wasn't much else to do in the spinal ward, so we did.
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(Laughter)
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And when we'd finished, he went around silently
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and he joined all of the straws up till it looped around the whole ward.
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And then he said,
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"OK everybody, hold on to your straws."
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And we did. And he said, "Right ...
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Now we're all connected."
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And as we held on and we breathed as one,
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we knew we weren't on this journey alone.
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And even lying paralyzed in the spinal ward ...
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there were moments of incredible depth and richness,
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of authenticity and connection
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that I had never experienced before.
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And each of us knew that when we left the spinal ward,
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we would never be the same.
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After six months, it was time to go home.
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I remember Dad pushing me outside in my wheelchair,
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wrapped in a plaster body cast,
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and feeling the sun on my face for the first time.
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I soaked it up and I thought,
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"How could I ever have taken this for granted?"
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I felt so incredibly grateful for my life.
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But before I left hospital,
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the head nurse had said to me, "Janine, I want you to be ready,
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because when you get home, something's going to happen."
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And I said, "What?"
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And she said, "You're going to get depressed."
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And I said, "Not me, not Janine the Machine,"
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which was my nickname.
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She said, "You are, because, see, it happens to everyone.
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In the spinal ward, that's normal. You're in a wheelchair. That's normal.
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But you're going to get home and realize how different life is."
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And I got home.
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And something happened.
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I realized Sister Sam was right.
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I did get depressed.
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I was in my wheelchair.
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I had no feeling from the waist down,
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attached to a catheter bottle.
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I couldn't walk.
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I'd lost so much weight in hospital,
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I now weighed about 80 pounds.
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And I wanted to give up.
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All I wanted to do was put my running shoes on and run out the door.
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I wanted my old life back. I wanted my body back.
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And I can remember Mom sitting on the end of my bed
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and saying, "I wonder if life will ever be good again."
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And I thought, "How could it?
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Because I've lost everything that I valued,
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everything that I'd worked towards.
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Gone."
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And the question I asked was, "Why me? Why me?"
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And then I remembered
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my friends that were still in the spinal ward,
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particularly Maria.
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Maria was in a car accident,
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and she woke up on her 16th birthday
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to the news that she was a complete quadriplegic,
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had no movement from the neck down,
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had damage to her vocal chords, and she couldn't talk.
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They told me, "We're going to move you next to her
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because we think it will be good for her."
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I was worried. I didn't know how I'd react to being next to her.
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I knew it would be challenging, but it was actually a blessing,
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because Maria always smiled.
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She was always happy, and even when she began to talk again,
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albeit difficult to understand, she never complained, not once.
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And I wondered how had she ever found that level of acceptance.
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And I realized that this wasn't just my life;
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it was life itself.
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I realized that this wasn't just my pain; it was everybody's pain.
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And then I knew, just like before,
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that I had a choice: I could keep fighting this,
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or I could let go and accept not only my body,
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but the circumstances of my life.
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And then I stopped asking, "Why me?"
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And I started to ask, "Why not me?"
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And then I thought to myself,
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maybe being at rock bottom is actually the perfect place to start.
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I had never before thought of myself as a creative person.
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I was an athlete; my body was a machine.
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But now I was about to embark on the most creative project
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that any of us could ever do:
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that of rebuilding a life.
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And even though I had absolutely no idea what I was going to do,
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in that uncertainty came a sense of freedom.
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I was no longer tied to a set path.
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I was free to explore life's infinite possibilities.
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And that realization was about to change my life.
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Sitting at home in my wheelchair and my plaster body cast,
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an airplane flew overhead.
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I looked up, and I thought to myself, "That's it!
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If I can't walk, then I might as well fly."
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(Laughter)
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I said, "Mom, I'm going to learn how to fly."
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She said, "That's nice, dear."
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(Laughter)
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I said, "Pass me the yellow pages."
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She passed me the phone book, I rang up the flying school,
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I said I'd like to make a booking to come out for a flight.
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They said, "When do you want to come out?"
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I said, "Well, I have to get a friend to drive me because I can't drive.
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Sort of can't walk, either. Is that a problem?"
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I made a booking, and weeks later,
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my friend Chris and my mom drove me out to the airport,
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all 80 pounds of me covered in a plaster body cast
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in a baggy pair of overalls.
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(Laughter)
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I can tell you, I did not look like the ideal candidate
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to get a pilot's license.
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(Laughter)
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I'm holding on to the counter because I can't stand.
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I said, "Hi, I'm here for a flying lesson."
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They took one look and ran out the back to draw short straws.
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"You get her." "No, no, you take her."
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Finally a guy goes, "Hi, I'm Andrew. I'm going to take you flying."
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I go, "Great!"
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They get me out on the tarmac,
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and there was this red, white and blue airplane -- it was beautiful.
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They had to slide me up on the wing to put me in the cockpit.
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They sat me down. There are buttons and dials everywhere.
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I'm going, "Wow, how do you ever know what all these buttons and dials do?"
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Andrew got in the front, started the plane, and said,
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"Would you like to have a go at taxiing?"
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That's when you use your feet to control the rudder pedals
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to control the airplane on the ground.
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I said, "No, I can't use my legs."
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He went, "Oh."
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I said, "But I can use my hands," and he said, "OK."
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So he got over to the runway, and he applied the power.
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And as we took off down the runway,
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and the wheels lifted up off the tarmac, and we became airborne,
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I had the most incredible sense of freedom.
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And Andrew said to me,
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as we got over the training area,
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"You see that mountain over there?"
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And I said, "Yeah."
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And he said, "Well, you take the controls, and you fly towards that mountain."
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And as I looked up, I realized
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that he was pointing towards the Blue Mountains,
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where the journey had begun.
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And I took the controls,
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and I was flying.
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And I was a long, long way from that spinal ward.
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I knew right then that I was going to be a pilot.
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Didn't know how on Earth I'd ever pass a medical.
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(Laughter)
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But I'd worry about that later, because right now, I had a dream.
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So I went home, I got a training diary out, and I had a plan.
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And I practiced my walking as much as I could,
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and I went from the point of two people holding me up ...
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to one person holding me up ...
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to the point where I could walk around the furniture
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as long as it wasn't too far apart.
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And then I made great progression,
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to the point where I could walk around the house,
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holding onto the walls, like this.
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And Mom said she was forever following me,
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wiping off my fingerprints.
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(Laughter)
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But at least she always knew where I was.
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(Laughter)
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So while the doctors continued to operate
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and put my body back together again,
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I went on with my theory study.
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And then eventually, amazingly, I passed my pilot's medical,
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and that was my green light to fly.
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And I spent every moment I could out at that flying school,
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way out of my comfort zone,
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all these young guys that wanted to be Qantas pilots, you know,
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and little old hop-along me in first my plaster cast,
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and then my steel brace, my baggy overalls,
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my bag of medication and catheters and my limp.
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They use to look at me and think,
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"Oh, who is she kidding? She's never going to be able to do this."
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And sometimes I thought that, too.
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But that didn't matter,
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because now there was something inside that burned
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that far outweighed my injuries.
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And little goals kept me going along the way,
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and eventually I got my private pilot's license.
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Then I learned to navigate, and I flew my friends around Australia.
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And then I learned to fly an airplane with two engines
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and I got my twin-engine rating.
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And then I learned to fly in bad weather as well as fine weather,
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and got my instrument rating.
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And then I got my commercial pilot's license.
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And then I got my instructor rating.
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And then I found myself back at that same school
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where I'd gone for that very first flight,
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teaching other people how to fly ...
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just under 18 months after I'd left the spinal ward.
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(Applause)
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(Applause ends)
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And then I thought, "Why stop there?
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Why not learn to fly upside down?"
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(Laughter)
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And I did, and I learned to fly upside down
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and became an aerobatics flying instructor.
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(Laughter)
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And Mom and Dad? Never been up.
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(Laughter)
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But then I knew for certain that although my body might be limited,
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it was my spirit that was unstoppable.
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The philosopher Lao Tzu once said,
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"When you let go of what you are,
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you become what you might be."
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I now know that it wasn't until I let go of who I thought I was
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that I was able to create a completely new life.
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It wasn't until I let go of the life I thought I should have ...
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that I was able to embrace the life that was waiting for me.
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I now know that my real strength
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never came from my body.
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And although my physical capabilities have changed dramatically,
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who I am is unchanged.
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The pilot light inside of me was still alight,
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just as it is in each and every one of us.
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I know that I'm not my body.
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And I also know that you're not yours.
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And then it no longer matters what you look like,
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where you come from, or what you do for a living.
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All that matters is that we continue to fan the flame of humanity
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by living our lives as the ultimate creative expression
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of who we really are,
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because we are all connected
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by millions and millions of straws.
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And it's time to join those up
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and to hang on.
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And if we are to move towards our collective bliss ...
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it's time we shed our focus on the physical
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and instead embrace the virtues of the heart.
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So raise your straws if you'll join me.
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(Applause)
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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