How online abuse of women has spiraled out of control | Ashley Judd

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Translator: Leslie Gauthier Reviewer: Joanna Pietrulewicz
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Prevodilac: Milenka Okuka Lektor: Mile Živković
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[This talk contains graphic language and descriptions of sexual violence]
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[Ovaj govor sadrži slikovit jezik i opise seksualnog nasilja]
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[Viewer discretion is advised]
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[Savetuje se diskrecija gledalaca]
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"Ashley Judd, stupid fucking slut.
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"Ešli Džad je jebeno glupa drolja."
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"You can't sue someone for calling them a cunt."
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"Ne možeš tužiti nekoga jer si ga nazvao pizdom."
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"If you can't handle the Internet, fuck off, whore."
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"Ako ne možeš da izađeš na kraj s internetom, odjebi, kurvo."
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"I wish Ashley Judd would die a horrible death.
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"Volio bih da Ešli Džad umre užasnom smrću.
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She is the absolute worst."
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Ona je apsolutno najgora."
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"Ashley Judd, you're the reason women shouldn't vote."
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"Ešli Džad, ti si razlog zašto žene ne bi trebalo da glasaju."
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"'Twisted' is such a bad movie,
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"'Twisted' je toliko loš film
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I don't even want to rape it."
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da ga ni silovao ne bih."
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"Whatever you do,
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"Radite šta hoćete,
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don't tell Ashley Judd. She'll die alone with a dried out vagina."
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ali ne govorite Ešli Džad. Umreće sama sasušene vagine."
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"If I had to fuck an older woman,
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"Ako bih morao da jebem stariju ženu,
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oh my God,
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o, moj gospode,
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I would fuck the shit out of Ashley Judd,
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izjebao bih i boga u Ešli Džad,
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that bitch is hot af.
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ta kučka je jebeno dobra.
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The unforgivable shit I would do to her."
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Radio bih joj neoprostive stvari."
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Online misogyny is a global gender rights tragedy,
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Mizoginija je globalna tragedija rodnih prava
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and it is imperative that it ends.
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i imperativ je da se okonča.
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(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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Girls' and women's voices,
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Glasovi devojaka i žena
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and our allies' voices are constrained in ways
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i glasovi naših saveznika su obuzdani na načine
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that are personally, economically,
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koji su lično, ekonomski,
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professionally and politically damaging.
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profesionalno i politički štetni.
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And when we curb abuse,
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A kada obuzdamo nasilje,
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we will expand freedom.
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proširićemo slobodu.
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I am a Kentucky basketball fan,
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Ja sam fan košarkaša iz Kentakija,
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so on a fine March day last year,
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pa lepog martovskog dana prošle godine,
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I was doing one of the things I do best:
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radila sam nešto što najbolje radim:
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I was cheering for my Wildcats.
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Navijala sam za moje Divlje mačke.
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The daffodils were blooming,
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Narcisi su cvetali,
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but the referees were not blowing the whistle when I was telling them to.
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ali sudije nisu duvale u pištaljku kad sam im naređivala.
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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Funny, they're very friendly to me before the opening tip,
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Zanimljivo, bili su fini prema meni pre prvog dodavanja,
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but they really ignore me during the game.
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ali su me zaista ignorisali tokom meča.
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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Three of my players were bleeding, so I did the next best thing ...
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Tri moja igrača su krvarila, pa sam uradila sledeće što sam znala...
objavila sam tvit.
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I tweeted.
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[@ArkRazorback dirty play can kiss my team's free throw making a --
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[@ArkRazorback prljava igra može da poljubi slobodne udarce moje ekipe -
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@KySportsRadio @marchmadness @espn Bloodied 3 players so far.]
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@KySportsRadio @marchmadness @espn do sad su tri igrača krvava.]
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It is routine for me to be treated in the ways I've already described to you.
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Rutinski je da me tretiraju kako sam vam već objasnila.
Dešava mi se svakog dana
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It happens to me every single day
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na platformama društvenih mreža, poput Tvitera i Fejsbuka.
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on social media platforms such as Twitter and Facebook.
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Since I joined Twitter in 2011,
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Otkad sam otvorila Tviter nalog 2011,
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misogyny and misogynists have amply demonstrated
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mizoginija i mizoginisti su jasno pokazali
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they will dog my every step.
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da će pratiti svaki moj korak.
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My spirituality, my faith,
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Moju duhovnost, moju veru,
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being a hillbilly -- I can say that, you can't --
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to što sam brđanka - ja to mogu da kažem, vi ne -
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all of it is fair game.
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sve je to fer igra.
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And I have responded to this with various strategies.
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A ja sam odgovarala na ovo raznim strategijama.
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I've tried engaging people.
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Pokušala sam da pokrenem ljude.
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This one guy was sending me hypersexual, nasty stuff,
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Jedan momak mi je slao hiperseksualne, gadne stvari,
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and there was a girl in his avatar.
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a na avataru mu je bila devojka.
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I wrote him back and said ...
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Odgovorila sam mu rečima...
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"Is that your daughter?
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"Je li ti to kćerka?
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I feel a lot of fear that you may think about
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Veoma strahujem što razmišljaš
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and talk to women this way."
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i govoriš s ženama na taj način."
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And he surprised me by saying,
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I iznenadio me je rekavši:
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"You know what? You're right. I apologize."
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"Znaš šta? U pravu si. Izvinjavam se."
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Sometimes people want to be held accountable.
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Ponekad ljudi žele da ih pozovete na odgovornost.
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This one guy was musing to I don't know who
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Jedan momak je diskutovao s pojma nemam kim
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that maybe I was the definition of a cunt.
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o to me da sam možda definicija pizde.
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I was married to a Scot for 14 years,
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Bila sam udata za Škota 14 godina,
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so I said, "Cunt means many different things in different countries --
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pa sam rekla: "Pizda znači štošta u različitim državama -
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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but I'm pretty sure you epitomize the global standard of a dick."
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ali sam prilično sigurna da si ti globalno ovaploćenje šupka."
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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I've tried to rise above it, I've tried to get in the trenches,
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Pokušala sam da se izdignem, pokušala sam da se ušančim,
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but mostly I would scroll through these social media platforms
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ali sam uglavnom prelistavala platforme društvenih mreža
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with one eye partially closed, trying not to see it,
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jednim okom delimično zatvorenim, pokušavajući da to ne vidim,
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but you can't make a cucumber out of a pickle.
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ali ne možeš od muve napraviti medveda.
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What is seen goes in.
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Ono što vidite, upijate.
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It's traumatic.
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Traumatično je.
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And I was always secretly hoping in some part of me
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I uvek sam se potajno nadala u nekom delu sebe
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that what was being said to me and about me wasn't ...
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da ono što govore meni i o meni nije...
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true.
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istina.
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Because even I,
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Jer čak i ja,
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an avowed, self-declared feminist,
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zakleta, samoproklamovana feministkinja,
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who worships at the altar of Gloria --
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koja se moli na oltaru Glorije -
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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internalize the patriarchy.
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internalizujem patrijarhat.
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This is really critical.
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Ovo je zaista ključno.
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Patriarchy is not boys and men.
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Patrijarhat nisu momci i muškarci.
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It is a system in which we all participate,
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To je sistem u kome svi učestvujemo,
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including me.
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uključujući i mene.
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On that particular day, for some reason,
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Baš tog dana, iz nekog razloga,
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that particular tweet after the basketball game
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baš taj tvit nakon košarkaške utakmice
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triggered something called a "cyber mob."
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je pokrenuo nešto što se naziva "sajber ruljom".
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This vitriolic, global outpouring of the most heinous hate speech:
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Taj zajedljivi, globalni izliv najodvratnijeg govora mržnje:
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death threats, rape threats.
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pretnje smrću, pretnje silovanjem.
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And don't you know,
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I nećete verovati,
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when I was sitting at home alone in my nightgown,
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dok sam sedila sama kod kuće u spavaćici,
primila sam telefonski poziv i bio je to moj dragi bivši muž
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I got a phone call, and it was my beloved former husband,
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and he said on a voice mail,
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i rekao je u govornoj pošti:
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"Loved one ...
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"Draga...
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what is happening to you is not OK."
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ono što ti se dešava nije u redu."
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And there was something about him taking a stand for me that night ...
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I nešto u vezi s tim da se on te noći zauzeo za mene...
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that allowed me to take a stand for myself.
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omogućilo mi je da se zauzmem za sebe.
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And I started to write.
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Pa sam počela da pišem.
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I started to write about sharing the fact
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Počela sam da pišem, deleći činjenicu
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that I'm a survivor of all forms of sexual abuse,
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da sam preživela sve oblike seksualnog zlostavljanja,
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including three rapes.
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uključujući tri silovanja.
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And the hate speech I get in response to that --
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A govor mržnje koji je stigao kao odgovor na to -
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these are just some of the comments posted to news outlets.
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ovo su samo neki od komentara poslatih na novinskim portalima.
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Being told I'm a "snitch" is really fun.
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Veoma je smešno što su me nazvali "cinkarošem".
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[Jay: She enjoyed every second of it!!!!!]
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[Džej: Uživala je u svakom sekundu!!!!!]
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Audience: Oh, Lord Jesus.
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Publika: Oh, gospode.
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Ashley Judd: Thank you, Jesus. May your grace and mercy shine.
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Ešli Džad: Hvala Isusu. Presvetli neka su tvoja slava i milost.
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So, I wrote this feminist op-ed, it is entitled,
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Pa sam napisala feministički članak, naslovljen:
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"Forget Your Team:
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"Zaboravite vašu ekipu:
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It Is Your Online Gender Violence Toward Girls And Women
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Vaše rodno nasilje na internetu prema devojkama i ženama
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That Can Kiss My Righteous Ass."
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može da me poljubi u pravedno dupe."
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
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(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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And I did that alone, and I published it alone,
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Sama sam to uradila i sama sam to objavila
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because my chief advisor said,
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jer mi je glavni savetnik rekao:
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"Please don't,
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"Molim te, nemoj,
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the rain of retaliatory garbage that is inevitable --
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pljusak osvetničkog smeća je neizbežan -
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I fear for you."
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strahujem za tebe."
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But I trust girls and I trust women,
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Ali ja verujem devojkama i ženama,
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and I trust our allies.
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i verujem našim saveznicima.
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It was published, it went viral,
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Objavljeno je, masovno čitano,
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it proves that every single day
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to pokazuje da svakog dana
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online misogyny is a phenomenon endured by us all,
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mizoginija je pojava koju svi proživljavamo
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all over the world,
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širom sveta,
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and when it is intersectional,
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a kada je na preseku
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it is worse.
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još je gore.
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Sexual orientation, gender identity,
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Seksualna orijentacija, rodni identitet,
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race, ethnicity, religion --
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rasa, narodnost, religija -
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you name it,
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šta god hoćete,
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it amplifies the violence endured by girls and women,
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naglašavaju nasilje koje trpe devojke i žene,
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and for our younger girls, it is worse.
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a našim devojčicama je još gore.
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It's clearly traumatizing.
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Očito je traumatično.
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Our mental health, our emotional well-being
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Naše mentalno zdravlje, naša emotivna dobrobit
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are so gravely affected
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su ozbiljno ugroženi
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because the threat of violence
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jer se pretnja nasiljem
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is experienced neurobiologically as violence.
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neurobiološki doživljava kao nasilje.
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The cortisol shoots up, the limbic system gets fired,
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Kortizol pohrli, pali se limbički sistem,
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we lose productivity at work.
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gubimo produktivnost na poslu.
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And let's talk about work.
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Razgovarajmo o poslu.
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Our ability to work is constrained.
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Naša mogućnost za rad je ograničena.
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Online searches of women applying for jobs reveal nude pictures of them,
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Onlajn pretrage žena koje se prijavljuju na posao otkrivaju njihove golišave slike,
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false allegations they have STDs,
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lažne optužbe da imaju polne bolesti,
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their addresses indicating that they are available for sex
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njihove adrese nagoveštavaju da su dostupne za seks,
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with real examples
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sa stvarnim primerima
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of people showing up at this house for said sex.
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ljudi koji su se pojavili u određenoj kući radi ugovorenog seksa.
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Our ability to go to school is impaired.
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Naša mogućnost školovanja je umanjena.
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96 percent of all postings
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96 procenata svih objava
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of sexual images of our young people ...
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seksualnih slika mladih ljudi...
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girls.
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su devojke.
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Our girls.
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Naše devojke.
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Our boys are two to three times more likely --
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Naši momci imaju dva do tri puta više šanse -
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nonconsensually --
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bez pristanka -
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to share images.
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da dele slike.
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And I want to say a word about revenge porn.
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I želim da kažem nešto o osvetničkom porniću.
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Part of what came out of this tweet
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Ovaj tvit je uzrokovao
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was my getting connected with allies and other activists
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da se povežem sa saveznicima i drugim aktivistima
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who are fighting for a safe and free internet.
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koji se bore za bezbedan i slobodan internet.
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We started something called the Speech Project;
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Pokrenuli smo nešto što se zove Speach Project;
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curbing abuse, expanding freedom.
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obuzdavamo zlostavljanje, širimo slobodu.
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And that website provides a critical forum,
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A taj vebsajt pruža ključni forum
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because there is no global, legal thing
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jer ne postoji globalna, legalna stvar
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to help us figure this out.
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koja bi nam pomogla da ovo rešimo.
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But we do provide on that website a standardized list of definitions,
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Ali pružamo na tom vebsajtu standardizovanu listu definicija
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because it's hard to attack a behavior in the right way
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jer je teško napadati ponašanje na pravi način,
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if we're not all sharing a definition of what that behavior is.
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ako svi ne delimo definiciju tog ponašanja.
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And I learned that revenge porn is often dangerously misapplied.
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I saznala sam da je osvetnički pornić često opasno zloupotrebljen.
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It is the nonconsensual sharing of an image
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To je nesaglasno deljenje slike,
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used tactically to shame and humiliate a girl or woman
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koje se taktički koristi da se postidi i ponizi devojka ili žena,
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that attempts to pornography us.
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s ciljem da nas pornografišu.
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Our natural sexuality is --
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Naša prirodna seksualnost je -
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I don't know about yours -- pretty gorgeous and wonderful.
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Ne znam za vašu - prilično božanstvena i divna.
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And my expressing it does not pornography make.
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I moje ispoljavanje iste nije pornografski čin.
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(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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So, I have all these resources
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Dakle, imam sve te resurse
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that I'm keenly aware so many people in the world do not.
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za koje sam svesna da mnogi ljudi u svetu nemaju.
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I was able to start the Speech Project with colleagues.
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Bila sam u mogućnosti da pokrenem Speach Project s kolegama.
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I can often get a social media company's attention.
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Često mogu da privučem pažnju udruženja društvenih mreža.
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I have a wonderful visit to Facebook HQ coming up.
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Sledi mi divna poseta glavnom štabu Fejsbuka.
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Hasn't helped the idiotic reporting standards yet ...
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Još uvek nije pomoglo kod idiotskih standarda izveštavanja...
08:50
I actually pay someone to scrub my social media feeds,
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Zapravo plaćam nekoga da mi čisti stranice na društvenim mrežama,
08:56
attempting to spare my brain
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sa ciljem da poštedim um
08:58
the daily iterations of the trauma of hate speech.
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svakodnevnog ponavljanja traume govora mržnje.
09:03
And guess what?
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I znate šta?
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I get hate speech for that.
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I to izaziva govor mržnje.
09:05
"Oh, you live in an echo chamber."
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"Oh, živiš u eho komori."
09:07
Well, guess what?
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Pa, znate šta?
09:08
Having someone post a photograph of me with my mouth open
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Kad neko objavi moju fotografiju sa otvorenim ustima
09:11
saying they "can't wait to cum on my face,"
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uz reči da "jedva čekaju da mi svrše u lice",
09:13
I have a right to set that boundary.
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imam pravo da postavim tu granicu.
09:15
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
09:21
And this distinction between virtual and real is specious
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A ta razlika između virtuelnog i stvarnog je varljiva
09:24
because guess what --
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jer znate šta -
09:25
that actually happened to me once when I was a child,
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to mi se zaista desilo jednom kad sam bila dete,
09:28
and so that tweet brought up that trauma,
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pa je taj tvit vratio traumu
09:30
and I had to do work on that.
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i ja sam morala da se bavim time.
09:32
But you know what we do? We take all of this hate speech,
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Znate šta mi radimo? Uzimamo sav taj govor mržnje,
09:35
and we disaggregate it,
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razvrstavamo ga,
09:38
and we code it,
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kodiramo ga
09:40
and we give that data
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i delimo te podatke
09:41
so that we understand the intersectionality of it:
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kako bismo razumeli ukrštanja iza toga:
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when I get porn,
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kad dobijem pornić,
09:45
when it's about political affiliation,
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kad se radi o političkoj sklonosti,
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when it's about age, when it's about all of it.
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kad se radi o starosti, kad se radi o svemu tome.
09:50
We're going to win this fight.
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Pobedićemo u ovoj borbi.
09:54
There are a lot of solutions --
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Ima mnogo rešenja -
09:57
thank goodness.
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hvala bogu.
09:59
I'm going to offer just a few,
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Ponudiću nekoliko,
10:01
and of course I challenge you to create and contribute your own.
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i, naravno, izazivam vas da date i doprinosete svojim rešenjima.
10:07
Number one: we have to start with digital media literacy,
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Pod jedan: moramo da započnemo digitalnom medijskom pismenošću,
10:10
and clearly it must have a gendered lens.
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i očito ona mora da ima rodnu perspektivu.
10:14
Kids, schools, caregivers, parents:
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Deca, škole, negovatelji, roditelji:
10:16
it's essential.
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ovo je ključno.
10:18
Two ...
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Dva...
10:20
shall we talk about our friends in tech?
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da spomenemo prijatelje u tehnologiji?
10:23
Said with dignity and respect,
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Recite dostojanstveno i s poštovanjem,
10:26
the sexism in your workplaces must end.
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seksizam na vašem radnom mestu mora da se okonča.
10:31
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
10:33
(Cheers)
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(Klicanje)
10:35
EDGE,
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EDGE,
10:36
the global standard for gender equality,
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globalni standard za rodnu ravnopravnost
10:39
is the minimum standard.
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je minimalni standard.
10:41
And guess what, Silicon Valley?
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I pogodite šta, Silicijumska dolina?
10:43
If L'Oréal in India,
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Ako Loreal u Indiji,
10:45
in the Philippines, in Brazil
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u Filipinima, u Brazilu
10:47
and in Russia can do it,
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i u Rusiji to može,
10:49
you can, too.
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možete i vi.
10:52
Enough excuses.
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Dosta je bilo izgovora.
10:55
Only when women have critical mass in every department at your companies,
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Tek kad žene budu kritična masa u svakom odseku u vašim firmama,
10:58
including building platforms from the ground up,
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uključujući izgradnju platformi od samog starta,
11:01
will the conversations about priorities and solutions change.
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tek tad će se razgovor o prioritetima i rešenjima promeniti.
I više ljubavi od naših prijatelja tehničara:
11:06
And more love for my friends in tech:
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11:08
profiteering off misogyny in video games must end.
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profitiranje na mizoginiji u video igrama mora da prestane.
11:12
I'm so tired of hearing you talk to me at cocktail parties --
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Muka mi je da vas slušam kako mi govorite na koktelima -
11:16
like you did a couple weeks ago in Aspen --
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kao što ste pre nekoliko sedmica u Aspenu -
11:18
about how deplorable #Gamergate was,
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o tome kako je jadan bio #Gamergate,
11:21
when you're still making billions of dollars off games
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dok i dalje zarađujete milijarde dolara na igrama
11:24
that maim and dump women for sport.
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koje sakate i odbacuju žene iz zabave.
11:27
Basta! -- as the Italians would say.
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Basta! - što bi Italijani rekli.
11:29
Enough.
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Dosta.
11:31
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
11:35
Our friends in law enforcement have much to do,
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Na našim prijateljima u policiji je veliki posao
11:38
because we've seen
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jer smo videli
11:40
that online violence is an extension of in-person violence.
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da je nasilje na internetu nastavak nasilja uživo.
11:46
In our country,
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U našoj državi,
11:47
more girls and women have been murdered by their intimate partners
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više je devojaka i žena ubijeno od strane njihovih intimnih partnera
11:52
than died on 9/11
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nego što je umrlo 9. 11.
11:54
and have died since in Afghanistan and Iraq combined.
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i nego što je otad umrlo i u Afganistanu i u Iraku.
11:59
And it's not cool to say that,
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I nije to kul reći,
12:01
but it is true.
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ali je tako.
12:03
We care so much geopolitically about what men are doing over there
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Toliko smo geopolitički zabrinuti zbog toga šta muškarci tamo rade
12:07
to women over there ...
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ženama tamo...
12:09
In 2015,
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Godine 2015.
12:11
72,828 women used intimate partner violence services in this country.
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72 828 žena u ovoj zemlji je koristilo usluge za intimno partnersko nasilje.
12:17
That is not counting the girls and women and boys who needed them.
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A tu se ne ubrajaju devojke, žene i dečaci kojima su bile potrebne.
12:22
Law enforcement must be empowered
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Policija mora da bude osnažena
12:26
with up-to-date internet technology,
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savremenom internet tehnologijom,
12:28
the devices and an understanding of these platforms --
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uređajima i razumevanjem ovih platformi -
12:31
how they work.
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kako funkcionišu.
12:33
The police wanted to be helpful when Amanda Hess called
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Policija je želela da pomogne kad je Amanda Hes nazvala
12:36
about the death threat she was getting on Twitter,
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zbog pretnji smrću koje je dobijala na Tviteru,
12:38
but they couldn't really when they said,
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ali zaista nisu mogli da pomgnu jer su pitali:
12:40
"What's Twitter?"
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"Šta je Tviter?"
12:44
Our legislators must write and pass astute legislation
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Naši zakonodavci moraju da napišu i izglasaju mudre zakone
12:48
that reflects today's technology
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koji su odraz savremene tehnologije
12:50
and our notions of free and hate speech.
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i naših shvatanja slobodnog i govora mržnje.
12:54
In New York recently, the law could not be applied to a perpetrator
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Nedavno u Njujorku zakon nije mogao da se primeni na počinioca
12:58
because the crimes must have been committed --
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jer zločini moraju biti počinjeni -
13:00
even if it was anonymous --
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čak iako su anonimni -
13:02
they must have been committed by telephone, in mail,
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moraju biti počinjeni preko telefona, poštom,
13:06
by telegraph --
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preko telegrafa -
13:08
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
13:12
The language must be technologically neutral.
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Jezik mora da bude tehnološki neutralan.
13:17
So apparently,
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Pa, očigledno
13:19
I've got a pretty bold voice.
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da imam odvažan glas.
13:21
So, let's talk about our friends ...
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Pa, razgovarajmo o našim prijateljima...
13:23
white men.
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belim muškarcima.
13:26
You have a role to play and a choice to make.
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Imate ulogu da odigrate i da napravite izbor.
13:30
You can do something,
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Možete da uradite nešto
13:32
or you can do nothing.
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ili da ne uradite ništa.
13:36
We're cool in this room,
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Super smo u ovoj prostoriji,
13:37
but when this goes out, everyone will say,
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ali kad se ovo objavi, svi će da kažu:
13:39
"Oh my God, she's a reverse racist."
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"O bože, ona je obrnuti rasista."
13:42
That quote was said by a white man, Robert Moritz,
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Taj citat je izgovorio belac, Robert Moric,
13:45
chairperson, PricewaterhouseCoopers,
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predsedavajući u PricewaterhouseCoopers-u,
13:48
he asked me to include it in my talk.
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tražio je da ga uključim u govor.
13:52
We need to grow support lines and help groups,
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Moramo da razvijamo linije za podršku i grupe za pomoć,
13:56
so victims can help each other
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kako bi žrtve mogle da se međusobno pomažu
13:59
when their lives and finances have been derailed.
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kad njihove živote i finansije izbace iz koloseka.
14:01
We must as individuals disrupt gender violence as it is happening.
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Moramo kao pojedinci da prekinemo rodno nasilje dok se dešava.
14:06
92 percent of young people
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92 procenta mladih ljudi
14:08
29 and under witness it.
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mlađih od 29 godina su svedoci toga.
14:10
72 percent of us have witnessed it.
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72 procenta nas smo bili svedoci toga.
14:13
We must have the courage and urgency
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Moramo da imamo hrabrosti i da hitno
14:15
to practice stopping it as it is unfolding.
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praktikujemo njegovo zaustavljanje dok se razvija.
14:20
And lastly,
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I na kraju,
14:22
believe her.
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verujte joj.
14:25
Believe her.
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Verujte joj.
14:26
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
14:33
This is fundamentally a problem of human interaction.
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Ovo je temeljni problem ljudskih međuodnosa.
14:38
And as I believe that human interaction is at the core of our healing,
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I pošto verujem da su međuljudski odnosi u srži našeg izlečenja,
14:42
trauma not transformed will be trauma transferred.
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trauma koja nije preobražena će se preneti dalje.
14:47
Edith Wharton said, "The end is latent in the beginning,"
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Edit Varton je rekao: "Kraj je sakriven u početku",
14:50
so we are going to end this talk replacing hate speech with love speech.
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pa ćemo završiti ovaj govor menjajući govor mržnje govorom ljubavi.
14:55
Because I get lonely in this,
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Zato što postanem usamljena u ovome,
14:57
but I know that we are allies.
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ali znam da smo saveznici.
15:00
I recently learned
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Nedavno sam naučila
15:02
about how gratitude and affirmations offset negative interactions.
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kako zahvalnost i potvrđivanje mogu da neutralizuju negativne interakcije.
15:06
It takes five of those to offset one negative interaction,
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Potrebno je pet pozitivnih da neutrališe jednu negativnu interakciju,
15:10
and gratitude in particular --
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a naročito zahvalnost -
15:11
free, available globally any time, anywhere,
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besplatna, globalno dostupna bilo kad, bilo gde,
15:14
to anyone in any dialect --
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svima u bilo kom dijalektu -
15:16
it fires the pregenual anterior cingulate,
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ona aktivira prednji cingularni korteks,
15:19
a watershed part of the brain
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vododeljni deo mozga
15:21
that floods it with great, good stuff.
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koji ga natapa sjajnim, dobrim stvarima.
15:24
So I'm going to say awesome stuff about myself.
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Pa ću da kažem izvanredne stvari o sebi.
15:26
I would like for you to reflect it back to me.
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Želela bih da mi to ponovite.
15:29
It might sound something like this --
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Zvučaće nekako ovako -
15:31
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
15:32
I am a powerful and strong woman, and you would say, "Yes, you are."
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Ja sam moćna i snažna žena, vi ćete reći: "Da, jesi."
15:36
Audience: Yes, you are.
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Publika: Da, jesi.
15:38
Ashley Judd: My mama loves me.
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Ešli Džad: Moja mama me voli.
15:40
A: Yes, she does.
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P: Da, voli te.
15:41
AJ: I did a great job with my talk.
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EDž: Govor mi je bio odličan.
15:43
A: Yes, you did.
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P: Jeste, bio je.
15:45
AJ: I have a right to be here.
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EDž: Imam pravo da budem ovde.
15:48
A: Yes, you do.
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P: Da, imaš.
15:50
AJ: I'm really cute.
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EDž: Stvarno sam slatka.
15:51
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
15:53
A: Yes, you are.
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P: Jesi.
15:54
AJ: God does good work.
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EDž: Božja dela su dobra.
15:56
A: Yes, He does.
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P: Jesu.
15:58
AJ: And I love you.
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EDž: Volim vas.
15:59
Thank you so much for letting me be of service.
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Mnogo hvala što ste mi dozvolili da budem od koristi.
16:03
Bless you.
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Blagosloveni da ste.
16:04
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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