Can a divided America heal? | Jonathan Haidt

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00:12
Chris Anderson: So, Jon, this feels scary.
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Chris Anderson: Dakle, Jon, ovo je zastrašujuće.
Jonathan Haidt: Jeste.
00:15
Jonathan Haidt: Yeah.
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00:16
CA: It feels like the world is in a place
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CA: Čini se kao da je svijet na mjestu
koje već dugo nismo vidjeli.
00:18
that we haven't seen for a long time.
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00:20
People don't just disagree in the way that we're familiar with,
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Ljudi ne samo da se ne slažu na način koji nam je poznat,
00:24
on the left-right political divide.
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na političkoj razdjelnici između lijevog i desnog.
00:26
There are much deeper differences afoot.
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U pitanju su mnogo dublja razilaženja.
00:29
What on earth is going on, and how did we get here?
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Što se to uopće zbiva i kako smo dovde stigli?
JH: To je drugačije.
00:33
JH: This is different.
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00:36
There's a much more apocalyptic sort of feeling.
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Osjećaj je mnogo više apokaliptičan.
00:39
Survey research by Pew Research shows
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Ankete Pew Research centra pokazuju
00:41
that the degree to which we feel that the other side is not just --
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da je stupanj osjećaja da druga strana nije samo --
00:45
we don't just dislike them; we strongly dislike them,
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ne samo da su nam odbojni; jako su nam odbojni,
00:48
and we think that they are a threat to the nation.
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i mislimo da predstavljaju prijetnju za naciju.
00:51
Those numbers have been going up and up,
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Ti brojevi stalno rastu
00:53
and those are over 50 percent now on both sides.
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i dostigli su preko 50 posto sada na obje strane.
00:56
People are scared,
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Ljudi su uplašeni
00:57
because it feels like this is different than before; it's much more intense.
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jer to izgleda kao da je drugačije nego prije; mnogo je intenzivnije.
01:01
Whenever I look at any sort of social puzzle,
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Kada god pogledam bilo koju vrstu društvene zagonetke
01:04
I always apply the three basic principles of moral psychology,
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uvijek primjenjujem tri osnovna principa moralne psihologije
01:07
and I think they'll help us here.
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i mislim da će nam i ovdje pomoći.
01:09
So the first thing that you have to always keep in mind
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Prva stvar koju uvijek treba imati na umu
01:11
when you're thinking about politics
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kada razmišljate o politici
01:13
is that we're tribal.
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je da smo mi plemenska vrsta.
Evoluirali smo kao pripadnici plemena.
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We evolved for tribalism.
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01:16
One of the simplest and greatest insights into human social nature
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Jedan od najjednostavnijih i najvećih uvida u ljudsku društvenu prirodu
01:19
is the Bedouin proverb:
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je beduinska poslovica:
01:20
"Me against my brother;
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"Ja protiv mog brata;
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me and my brother against our cousin;
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ja i moj brat protiv našeg bratića;
01:24
me and my brother and cousins against the stranger."
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ja i moj brat i bratići protiv stranca."
01:26
And that tribalism allowed us to create large societies
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Ta plemenska pripadnost nam je omogućila stvaranje velikih zajednica
01:31
and to come together in order to compete with others.
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i udruživanje radi natjecanja s drugima.
01:34
That brought us out of the jungle and out of small groups,
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To nas je izvelo iz džungle i iz malih grupa,
01:38
but it means that we have eternal conflict.
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no to znači da imamo vječni sukob.
01:40
The question you have to look at is:
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Pitanje koje treba razmotriti je:
01:42
What aspects of our society are making that more bitter,
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Koji aspekti našeg društva doprinose ogorčenosti,
01:44
and what are calming them down?
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a koji ga smiruju?
01:46
CA: That's a very dark proverb.
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CA: To je vrlo mračna poslovica.
01:47
You're saying that that's actually baked into most people's mental wiring
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Ti kažeš da je to zapravo ugrađeno u mentalni sklop većine ljudi
01:52
at some level?
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na nekoj razini?
01:53
JH: Oh, absolutely. This is just a basic aspect of human social cognition.
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JH: Apsolutno. To je upravo osnovni aspekt ljudske društvene spoznaje.
No mi također možemo vrlo mirno živjeti zajedno
01:57
But we can also live together really peacefully,
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01:59
and we've invented all kinds of fun ways of, like, playing war.
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i izumili smo razne vrste zabavnih načina za igranje rata.
02:02
I mean, sports, politics --
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Mislim sportove, politiku --
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these are all ways that we get to exercise this tribal nature
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to su sve načini na koje izražavamo tu plemensku prirodu
02:08
without actually hurting anyone.
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bez da itko bude povrijeđen.
02:09
We're also really good at trade and exploration and meeting new people.
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Mi smo također dobri u trgovini i istraživanju i upoznavanju novih ljudi.
Našu plemensku pripadnost treba promatrati kao nešto što raste ili pada --
02:14
So you have to see our tribalism as something that goes up or down --
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it's not like we're doomed to always be fighting each other,
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nije da smo osuđeni da se stalno međusobno borimo,
02:20
but we'll never have world peace.
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ali nikada nećemo imati svjetski mir.
02:22
CA: The size of that tribe can shrink or expand.
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CA: Veličina tog plemena može se smanjivati ili povećavati.
02:26
JH: Right.
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JH: Točno.
02:27
CA: The size of what we consider "us"
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CA: Veličina onoga što zovemo "mi"
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and what we consider "other" or "them"
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i što zovemo "drugi" ili "oni"
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can change.
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može se mijenjati.
02:34
And some people believed that process could continue indefinitely.
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I neki ljudi su vjerovali da taj proces može trajati beskonačno.
02:40
JH: That's right.
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JH: To je istina.
02:41
CA: And we were indeed expanding the sense of tribe for a while.
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CA: I mi smo stvarno širili značenje plemena neko vrijeme.
02:44
JH: So this is, I think,
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JH: Dakle to je, mislim,
02:45
where we're getting at what's possibly the new left-right distinction.
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gdje dolazimo do vjerojatno nove lijevo-desne distinkcije.
02:49
I mean, the left-right as we've all inherited it,
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Mislim, lijevo-desno kako smo to svi naslijedili,
02:51
comes out of the labor versus capital distinction,
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proizlazi iz distinkcije između rada nasuprot kapitalu,
02:54
and the working class, and Marx.
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i radničke klase i Marxa.
02:56
But I think what we're seeing now, increasingly,
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No, mislim da ono što danas vidimo, sve više,
02:59
is a divide in all the Western democracies
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je podjela u svim zapadnim demokracijama
03:01
between the people who want to stop at nation,
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između ljudi koji žele stati na naciji,
03:05
the people who are more parochial --
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ljudi koji su više uskogrudni --
03:07
and I don't mean that in a bad way --
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i to ne mislim u lošem smislu --
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people who have much more of a sense of being rooted,
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ljudi koji imaju puno jači osjećaj ukorijenjenosti,
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they care about their town, their community and their nation.
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njima je stalo do njihovog grada, zajednice i nacije.
03:15
And then those who are anti-parochial and who --
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I onda oni koji su manje skučeni i koji --
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whenever I get confused, I just think of the John Lennon song "Imagine."
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kad god sam zbunjen sjetim se pjesme Johna Lennona "Imagine"
"Zamisli da nema zemalja, da se nema za što ubijati ili umrijeti."
03:23
"Imagine there's no countries, nothing to kill or die for."
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To su ljudi koji žele više globalnog upravljanja,
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And so these are the people who want more global governance,
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they don't like nation states, they don't like borders.
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oni ne vole nacionalne države, oni ne vole granice.
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You see this all over Europe as well.
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To se također vidi po cijeloj Europi.
03:33
There's a great metaphor guy -- actually, his name is Shakespeare --
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Ima jedan velikan metafora -- ustvari ime mu je Shakespeare --
koji je prije deset godina pisao u Britaniji.
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writing ten years ago in Britain.
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03:38
He had a metaphor:
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03:39
"Are we drawbridge-uppers or drawbridge-downers?"
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Imao je metaforu:
"Jesmo li mi dizači pokretnog mosta ili spuštači pokretnog mosta?"
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And Britain is divided 52-48 on that point.
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A Britanija je podijeljena 52-48 po tom pitanju
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And America is divided on that point, too.
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I Amerika je također podijeljena po tom pitanju.
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CA: And so, those of us who grew up with The Beatles
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CA: I tako, oni od nas koji su odrastali s Beatlesima
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and that sort of hippie philosophy of dreaming of a more connected world --
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i tom vrstom hipi filozofije sanjanja o povezanijem svijetu --
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it felt so idealistic and "how could anyone think badly about that?"
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to se činilo tako idealistički i "kako bi itko mogao o tome misliti loše?"
04:00
And what you're saying is that, actually,
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A ti kažeš da ustvari
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millions of people today feel that that isn't just silly;
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milijuni ljudi danas osjećaju da to nije samo smiješno;
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it's actually dangerous and wrong, and they're scared of it.
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to je ustvari opasno i krivo i oni se toga boje.
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JH: I think the big issue, especially in Europe but also here,
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JH: Ja mislim da je veliki problem, pogotovo u Europi, ali i ovdje,
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is the issue of immigration.
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problem imigracije.
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And I think this is where we have to look very carefully
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I mislim da tu moramo vrlo pažljivo razmotriti
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at the social science about diversity and immigration.
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društvenu znanost o različitosti i imigraciji.
04:21
Once something becomes politicized,
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Jednom kada nešto postane ispolitizirano,
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once it becomes something that the left loves and the right --
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kada to postane nešto što lijevi vole, a desni --
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then even the social scientists can't think straight about it.
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tada ni društveni znanstvenici ne mogu o tome hladno razmišljati.
04:29
Now, diversity is good in a lot of ways.
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Različitost je dobra na mnogo načina.
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It clearly creates more innovation.
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Ona očigledno stvara više inovacija.
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The American economy has grown enormously from it.
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Američka ekonomija je enormno porasla zahvaljujući tome.
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Diversity and immigration do a lot of good things.
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Različitost i imigracija čine mnogo dobrih stvari.
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But what the globalists, I think, don't see,
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No, ono što globalisti, mislim, ne vide,
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what they don't want to see,
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što ne žele vidjeti,
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is that ethnic diversity cuts social capital and trust.
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je da etnička različitost umanjuje društveni kapital i povjerenje.
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There's a very important study by Robert Putnam,
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Ima jedna vrlo važna studija Roberta Putnama,
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the author of "Bowling Alone,"
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autora knjige "Kuglati sam",
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looking at social capital databases.
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koja razmatra baze podataka o društvenom kapitalu.
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And basically, the more people feel that they are the same,
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Načelno, što se više ljudi osjećaju jednakima
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the more they trust each other,
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to više vjeruju jedan drugome,
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the more they can have a redistributionist welfare state.
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tim prije mogu imati redistributivnu socijalnu državu.
Skandinavske zemlje su tako prekrasne
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Scandinavian countries are so wonderful
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jer su po svom nasljeđu malene, homogene zemlje.
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because they have this legacy of being small, homogenous countries.
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And that leads to a progressive welfare state,
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A to vodi progresivnoj socijalnoj državi,
skupu progresivnih, lijevo orjentiranih vrijednosti, koji kaže,
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a set of progressive left-leaning values, which says,
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05:14
"Drawbridge down! The world is a great place.
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"Spuštajte pomični most! Svijet je sjajno mjesto.
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People in Syria are suffering -- we must welcome them in."
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Ljudi u Siriji pate -- moramo ih srdačno primiti."
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And it's a beautiful thing.
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I to je prekrasna stvar.
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But if, and I was in Sweden this summer,
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Ali ako, a bio sam u Švedskoj ovog ljeta,
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if the discourse in Sweden is fairly politically correct
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ako je diskurs u Švedskoj potpuno politički korektan
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and they can't talk about the downsides,
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i oni ne mogu govoriti o negativnim stranama,
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you end up bringing a lot of people in.
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završit ćete tako da dovedete mnogo ljudi.
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That's going to cut social capital,
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To će srezati društveni kapital,
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it makes it hard to have a welfare state
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to otežava opstanak socijalne države
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and they might end up, as we have in America,
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i oni bi mogli završiti, poput nas u Americi,
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with a racially divided, visibly racially divided, society.
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s rasno podijeljenim, vidljivo rasno podijeljenim, društvom.
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So this is all very uncomfortable to talk about.
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O svemu ovome vrlo je neugodno govoriti.
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But I think this is the thing, especially in Europe and for us, too,
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No mislim da je to stvar, posebno u Europi i kod nas također,
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we need to be looking at.
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koju moramo razmatrati.
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CA: You're saying that people of reason,
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CA: Ti kažeš da razumni ljudi,
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people who would consider themselves not racists,
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ljudi koji sebe ne smatraju rasistima,
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but moral, upstanding people,
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već moralnim, uglednim ljudima,
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have a rationale that says humans are just too different;
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imaju obrazloženje da su ljudska bića ipak suviše različita;
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that we're in danger of overloading our sense of what humans are capable of,
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da smo u opasnosti da precijenimo ljudske sposobnosti,
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by mixing in people who are too different.
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miješajući ljude koji su suviše različiti.
06:06
JH: Yes, but I can make it much more palatable
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JH: Da, ali ovo mogu učiniti puno prihvatljivijim
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by saying it's not necessarily about race.
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ako kažem da se ne radi nužno o rasi.
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It's about culture.
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Radi se o kulturi.
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There's wonderful work by a political scientist named Karen Stenner,
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Ima jedan prekrasan rad političke znanstvenice Karen Stenner,
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who shows that when people have a sense
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koja pokazuje da kada ljudi imaju osjećaj
06:21
that we are all united, we're all the same,
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da smo svi ujedinjeni, svi jednaki,
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there are many people who have a predisposition to authoritarianism.
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tada ima mnogo ljudi koji su skloni autoritarizmu.
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Those people aren't particularly racist
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Ti ljudi nisu osobito rasisti
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when they feel as through there's not a threat
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kada osjećaju da nema prijetnje
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to our social and moral order.
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našem društvenom i moralnom poretku.
06:33
But if you prime them experimentally
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No, ako ih pokusno potaknete
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by thinking we're coming apart, people are getting more different,
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razmišljanjem da se raspadamo, da su ljudi sve više različiti,
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then they get more racist, homophobic, they want to kick out the deviants.
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tada postaju veći rasisti, homofobi, žele izbaciti devijantne.
06:41
So it's in part that you get an authoritarian reaction.
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Tako dijelom dobivate autoritarnu reakciju.
06:44
The left, following through the Lennonist line --
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Ljevica, slijedeći Lennonovu liniju --
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the John Lennon line --
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liniju Johna Lennona --
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does things that create an authoritarian reaction.
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čini stvari koje stvaraju autoritarnu reakciju.
06:50
We're certainly seeing that in America with the alt-right.
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To nesumnjivo vidimo u Americi s alternativnom desnicom.
06:53
We saw it in Britain, we've seen it all over Europe.
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To smo vidjeli u Britanij, vidimo to širom Europe.
06:56
But the more positive part of that
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No, pozitivniji dio toga
06:58
is that I think the localists, or the nationalists, are actually right --
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je da mislim da su lokalisti ili nacionalisti, ustvari u pravu --
07:03
that, if you emphasize our cultural similarity,
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da ako naglašavate našu kulturalnu sličnost,
07:07
then race doesn't actually matter very much.
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tada rasa ustvari nije toliko važna.
07:09
So an assimilationist approach to immigration
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Tako asimilacionistički pristup imigraciji
07:12
removes a lot of these problems.
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otklanja mnogo ovih problema.
07:13
And if you value having a generous welfare state,
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A ako vam je važno imati darežljivu socijalnu državu,
07:16
you've got to emphasize that we're all the same.
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morate naglašavati da smo svi jednaki.
07:18
CA: OK, so rising immigration and fears about that
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CA: OK, dakle rastuća imigracija i strahovi oko toga
07:21
are one of the causes of the current divide.
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su jedan od uzroka sadašnje podjele.
07:25
What are other causes?
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Koji su drugi uzroci?
07:26
JH: The next principle of moral psychology
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JH: Sljedeći princip moralne psihologije
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is that intuitions come first, strategic reasoning second.
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je da su intuicije na prvom mjestu, strateško rasuđivanje na drugom.
07:32
You've probably heard the term "motivated reasoning"
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Vjerojatno ste čuli za izraz "motivirano rasuđivanje"
07:35
or "confirmation bias."
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ili "potvrda pristranosti".
07:36
There's some really interesting work
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Postoje neki doista zanimljivi radovi
07:38
on how our high intelligence and our verbal abilities
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o tome kako su naša inteligencija i naše verbalne sposobnosti
07:41
might have evolved not to help us find out the truth,
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možda evoluirali, ne da nam pomognu otkriti istinu,
već da nam pomognu da manipuliramo jedni drugima,
07:45
but to help us manipulate each other, defend our reputation ...
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obranimo svoju reputaciju ...
Mi smo zaista dobri u opravdavanju sebe samih.
07:48
We're really, really good at justifying ourselves.
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07:51
And when you bring group interests into account,
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A kada uzmete u obzir interese grupe,
07:53
so it's not just me, it's my team versus your team,
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dakle, nisam samo ja, već moj tim nasuprot tvom timu,
07:56
whereas if you're evaluating evidence that your side is wrong,
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međutim, ako procjenjujete dokaze da je vaša strana u krivu,
07:59
we just can't accept that.
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mi to jednostavno ne možemo prihvatiti.
08:01
So this is why you can't win a political argument.
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To je razlog da ne možete dobiti političku prepirku.
08:03
If you're debating something,
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Ako o nečem raspravljate,
08:05
you can't persuade the person with reasons and evidence,
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ne možete osobu uvjeriti razumom i dokazima
08:08
because that's not the way reasoning works.
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jer to nije način na koji rasuđivanje funkcionira.
08:10
So now, give us the internet, give us Google:
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Uzmimo sada Internet, uzmimo Google:
08:14
"I heard that Barack Obama was born in Kenya.
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"Čuo sam da je Barack Obama rođen u Keniji.
08:17
Let me Google that -- oh my God! 10 million hits! Look, he was!"
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Hajde da pogledam u Google -- oh Bože! 10 milijuna rezultata! Vidi, istina je!"
08:21
CA: So this has come as an unpleasant surprise to a lot of people.
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CA: Dakle, ovo je neugodno iznenađenje za mnogo ljudi.
08:24
Social media has often been framed by techno-optimists
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Tehno-optimisti često društvene medije opisuju kao
08:27
as this great connecting force that would bring people together.
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golemu povezujuću silu koja će ujediniti ljude.
08:32
And there have been some unexpected counter-effects to that.
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No, to je imalo neke neočekivane kontra efekte.
08:36
JH: That's right.
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JH: To je točno.
Zato sam ja očaran yin-yang pogledima
08:38
That's why I'm very enamored of yin-yang views
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08:40
of human nature and left-right --
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na ljudsku prirodu i lijevo-desno --
08:42
that each side is right about certain things,
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da je svaka strana u pravu o određenim stvarima,
08:44
but then it goes blind to other things.
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a slijepa je za druge stvari.
08:46
And so the left generally believes that human nature is good:
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Ljevica općenito vjeruje da je ljudska priroda dobra:
08:49
bring people together, knock down the walls and all will be well.
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ujedinimo ljude, srušimo zidove i svima će nam biti dobro.
08:52
The right -- social conservatives, not libertarians --
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Desnica -- socijalni konzervativci, ne libertarijanci --
08:55
social conservatives generally believe people can be greedy
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socijalni konzervativci općenito vjeruju da ljudi mogu biti pohlepni
08:59
and sexual and selfish,
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i seksualni i sebični,
09:01
and we need regulation, and we need restrictions.
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i trebamo regulaciju, i trebamo restrikcije.
09:04
So, yeah, if you knock down all the walls,
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Zato, da, ako srušite sve zidove,
09:06
allow people to communicate all over the world,
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dozvolite ljudima da komuniciraju širom svijeta,
09:08
you get a lot of porn and a lot of racism.
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dobivate puno pornografije i puno rasizma.
09:10
CA: So help us understand.
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CA: Pomozi nam onda da razumijemo.
09:12
These principles of human nature have been with us forever.
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Ovi principi ljudske prirode oduvijek su s nama.
09:18
What's changed that's deepened this feeling of division?
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Što se to promijenilo što je produbilo taj osjećaj podijeljenosti?
09:24
JH: You have to see six to ten different threads all coming together.
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JH: Morate vidjeti šest do deset različitih niti koje se sve spajaju.
09:29
I'll just list a couple of them.
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Nabrojat ću tek nekoliko njih.
09:31
So in America, one of the big -- actually, America and Europe --
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Dakle, u Americi, jedna od velikih -- ustvari, Americi i Europi --
09:35
one of the biggest ones is World War II.
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jedna od najvećih je Drugi svjetski rat.
09:37
There's interesting research from Joe Henrich and others
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Postoji zanimljivo istraživanje Joea Henricha i drugih
09:40
that says if your country was at war,
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koje kaže da ako je vaša zemlja bila u ratu,
09:42
especially when you were young,
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naročito ako ste tada bili mladi,
09:44
then we test you 30 years later in a commons dilemma
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i testiramo vas 30 godina poslije o dilemi općeg doba
09:47
or a prisoner's dilemma,
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ili zatvorenikovoj dilemi,
09:49
you're more cooperative.
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bit ćete kooperativniji.
09:50
Because of our tribal nature, if you're --
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Zbog naše plemenske prirode, ako ste --
09:53
my parents were teenagers during World War II,
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moji roditelji su bili tinejdžeri u vrijeme Drugog svjetskog rata,
09:56
and they would go out looking for scraps of aluminum
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i naokolo bi skupljali ostatke aluminija
09:59
to help the war effort.
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pridonoseći ratnim naporima.
10:00
I mean, everybody pulled together.
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Mislim, svi su se međusobno pomagali.
10:02
And so then these people go on,
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I onda ti ljudi idu dalje,
10:04
they rise up through business and government,
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uzdižu se kroz poslovni svijet i vladu
10:06
they take leadership positions.
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zauzimaju vodeće pozicije.
10:08
They're really good at compromise and cooperation.
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Oni su zaista dobri u postizanju kompromisa i suradnji.
10:11
They all retire by the '90s.
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Svi su oni otišli u mirovinu do kraja 90-ih.
10:13
So we're left with baby boomers by the end of the '90s.
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Tako smo ostali s baby boomerima krajem 90-ih.
10:17
And their youth was spent fighting each other within each country,
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A njihova mladost je prošla u međusobnim sukobima
unutar vlastitih zemalja.
10:21
in 1968 and afterwards.
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1968. i kasnije.
10:22
The loss of the World War II generation, "The Greatest Generation,"
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Gubitak generacije 2. svjetskog rata, "Najveće generacije",
10:26
is huge.
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ogroman je.
10:28
So that's one.
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To je jedna nit.
10:30
Another, in America, is the purification of the two parties.
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Druga nit je purifikacija dviju stranaka u Americi
10:33
There used to be liberal Republicans and conservative Democrats.
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Nekada je bilo liberalnih Republikanaca i konzervativnih Demokrata.
10:37
So America had a mid-20th century that was really bipartisan.
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Tako je sredinom 20. stoljeća Amerika imala pravo dvostranačje.
10:40
But because of a variety of factors that started things moving,
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No, zbog raznih faktora koji su počeli pokretati stvari,
10:44
by the 90's, we had a purified liberal party and conservative party.
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do 90-ih imali smo očišćenu liberalnu stranku i konzervativnu stranku.
10:48
So now, the people in either party really are different,
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Tako su sada ljudi u svakoj stranci stvarno drugačiji,
10:50
and we really don't want our children to marry them,
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i mi stvarno ne želimo da se naša djeca s njima žene,
10:53
which, in the '60s, didn't matter very much.
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što u 60-ima nije bilo jako važno.
10:55
So, the purification of the parties.
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Dakle, purifikacija stranaka.
10:57
Third is the internet and, as I said,
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Treća nit je Internet i, kao što sam rekao,
10:59
it's just the most amazing stimulant for post-hoc reasoning and demonization.
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to je najnevjerojatniji stimulans za post-hoc rasuđivanje i demonizaciju.
11:04
CA: The tone of what's happening on the internet now is quite troubling.
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CA: Prizvuk onoga što se sada događa na Internetu prilično je zabrinjavajući.
11:09
I just did a quick search on Twitter about the election
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Upravo sam napravio brzu pretragu na Twitteru o izborima
11:12
and saw two tweets next to each other.
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i vidio dva tweeta jedan do drugog.
11:15
One, against a picture of racist graffiti:
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Jedan, ispod slike rasističkog grafita:
11:20
"This is disgusting!
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"To je odvratno!
11:21
Ugliness in this country, brought to us by #Trump."
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Rugoba u ovoj zemlji koju nam je donio #Trump."
11:25
And then the next one is:
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A sljedeći je:
11:27
"Crooked Hillary dedication page. Disgusting!"
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"Posveta pokvarenoj Hillary. Odvratno!"
11:31
So this idea of "disgust" is troubling to me.
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Mene muči ova ideja "odvratnosti".
11:35
Because you can have an argument or a disagreement about something,
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Jer možete imati prepirku ili neslaganje o nečemu,
11:38
you can get angry at someone.
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možete se na nekoga naljutiti.
11:41
Disgust, I've heard you say, takes things to a much deeper level.
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Odvratnost, kako sam vas čuo, vodi stvari na puno dublju razinu.
11:44
JH: That's right. Disgust is different.
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JH: To je točno. Odvratnost je drukčija.
11:46
Anger -- you know, I have kids.
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Ljutnja -- znate, ja imam djecu.
11:48
They fight 10 times a day,
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Oni se potuku 10 puta dnevno,
11:50
and they love each other 30 times a day.
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a vole jedno drugo 30 puta dnevno.
11:52
You just go back and forth: you get angry, you're not angry;
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Samo idete simo tamo: naljutite se, odljutite se;
naljutite se, odljutite se.
11:55
you're angry, you're not angry.
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11:56
But disgust is different.
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Ali odvratnost je drukčija.
11:58
Disgust paints the person as subhuman, monstrous,
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Odvratnost oslikava osobu kao nižu vrstu, čudovišnu,
12:02
deformed, morally deformed.
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deformiranu, moralno deformiranu.
12:04
Disgust is like indelible ink.
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Odvratnost je kao neizbrisiva tinta.
12:07
There's research from John Gottman on marital therapy.
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Postoji istraživanje Johna Gottmana o bračnoj terapiji.
12:11
If you look at the faces -- if one of the couple shows disgust or contempt,
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Ako pogledate lica -- ako jedan član para pokazuje odvratnost ili prezir,
12:16
that's a predictor that they're going to get divorced soon,
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to je prediktor da će se uskoro rastati,
12:19
whereas if they show anger, that doesn't predict anything,
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dok ako pokazuju ljutnju, to ne predskazuje ništa,
12:22
because if you deal with anger well, it actually is good.
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jer ako dobro postupate s ljutnjom ona je ustvari dobra.
Ovi izbori su drugačiji.
12:25
So this election is different.
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12:26
Donald Trump personally uses the word "disgust" a lot.
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Donald Trump osobno puno koristi riječ "odvratnost".
12:30
He's very germ-sensitive, so disgust does matter a lot --
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On je vrlo osjetljiv na bacile pa je odvratnost jako važna --
12:33
more for him, that's something unique to him --
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više za njega, to je nešto specifično za njega --
12:37
but as we demonize each other more,
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no dok sve više demoniziramo jedni druge,
12:40
and again, through the Manichaean worldview,
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i ponovo, po svjetonazoru maniheizma,
12:43
the idea that the world is a battle between good and evil
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ideja da je svijet borba između dobra i zla
12:46
as this has been ramping up,
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dok ovo sve više bjesni,
12:47
we're more likely not just to say they're wrong or I don't like them,
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vjerojatnije je da nećemo samo reći oni su u krivu ili ne sviđaju mi se,
12:51
but we say they're evil, they're satanic,
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već kažemo da su zli, sotonski,
12:53
they're disgusting, they're revolting.
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oni su odvratni, oni su gnusni.
12:55
And then we want nothing to do with them.
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A onda ne želimo ništa imati s njima.
12:58
And that's why I think we're seeing it, for example, on campus now.
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I zato to danas vidimo, na primjer, u kampusu.
13:02
We're seeing more the urge to keep people off campus,
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Vidimo sve veći poriv da se ljudi drže dalje od kampusa,
13:04
silence them, keep them away.
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da se ušutkaju, da ih se drži podalje.
13:06
I'm afraid that this whole generation of young people,
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Bojim se da cijela ova generacija mladih ljudi,
13:09
if their introduction to politics involves a lot of disgust,
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ako njihovo uvođenje u politiku uključuje mnogo odvratnosti,
13:13
they're not going to want to be involved in politics as they get older.
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oni se neće željeti uključivati u politiku kada odrastu.
13:17
CA: So how do we deal with that?
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CA: Pa kako da se nosimo s tim?
13:19
Disgust. How do you defuse disgust?
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Odvratnost. Kako ublažiti odvratnost?
13:24
JH: You can't do it with reasons.
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JH: To ne možete argumentima.
13:27
I think ...
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Mislim ...
Mnogo godina sam proučavao odvratnost,
13:30
I studied disgust for many years, and I think about emotions a lot.
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i mnogo razmišljam o emocijama.
13:33
And I think that the opposite of disgust is actually love.
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I ja mislim da je suprotnost odvratnosti ustvari ljubav.
13:37
Love is all about, like ...
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U ljubavi se radi o, poput ...
13:41
Disgust is closing off, borders.
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Odvratnost je zatvaranje, granica.
13:43
Love is about dissolving walls.
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Ljubav je rastvaranje zidova.
Zato su osobni odnosi, mislim,
13:47
So personal relationships, I think,
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13:49
are probably the most powerful means we have.
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vjerojatno najsnažnije oružje koje imamo.
13:53
You can be disgusted by a group of people,
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Može vam biti odvratna grupa ljudi,
13:56
but then you meet a particular person
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a onda upoznate pojedinu osobu
13:57
and you genuinely discover that they're lovely.
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i istinski otkrijete da su dragi.
14:00
And then gradually that chips away or changes your category as well.
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I onda to postepeno nagriza ili mijenja i vašu kategoriju.
14:06
The tragedy is, Americans used to be much more mixed up in the their towns
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Tragedija je da su Amerikanci bili mnogo više izmješani u gradovima
14:12
by left-right or politics.
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po lijevo- desnom usmjerenju ili politici.
14:14
And now that it's become this great moral divide,
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A sada kako je to postala velika moralna razdjelnica,
14:16
there's a lot of evidence that we're moving to be near people
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ima puno dokaza da se premještamo bliže ljudima
14:19
who are like us politically.
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koji su politički slični nama.
14:21
It's harder to find somebody who's on the other side.
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Teže je pronaći nekoga tko je na drugoj strani.
14:23
So they're over there, they're far away.
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Oni su tamo preko, oni su daleko.
14:26
It's harder to get to know them.
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Teže ih je upoznati.
14:27
CA: What would you say to someone or say to Americans,
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CA: Što biste rekli nekome, recimo Amerikancima,
14:31
people generally,
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ljudima općenito,
14:33
about what we should understand about each other
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o tome što bismo trebali razumjeti jedni o drugima
14:35
that might help us rethink for a minute
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što bi nam pomoglo da promislimo minutu
14:39
this "disgust" instinct?
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o tom instinktu "odvratnosti"?
14:42
JH: Yes.
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JH: Da.
14:43
A really important thing to keep in mind --
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Uistinu važna stvar koju treba imati na umu --
14:45
there's research by political scientist Alan Abramowitz,
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postoji istraživanje političkog znanstvenika Alana Abramowitza
14:50
showing that American democracy is increasingly governed
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koje pokazuje da američkom demokracijom sve više upravlja
14:54
by what's called "negative partisanship."
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nešto što se naziva "negativno poborništvo".
14:56
That means you think, OK there's a candidate,
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To znači, vi mislite, u redu, postoji kandidat,
15:00
you like the candidate, you vote for the candidate.
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sviđa vam se kandidat, glasate za kandidata.
15:02
But with the rise of negative advertising
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No, s porastom negativnog oglašavanja
15:04
and social media and all sorts of other trends,
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i društvenih medija i svih vrsta drugih trendova,
15:06
increasingly, the way elections are done
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sve više način na koji se provode izbori
15:08
is that each side tries to make the other side so horrible, so awful,
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je takav da svaka strana pokušava drugu stranu učiniti
tako užasnom, tako groznom
15:12
that you'll vote for my guy by default.
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da ćete glasati za mog momka po defaultu.
15:15
And so as we more and more vote against the other side
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I tako, dok mi sve više i više glasamo protiv druge strane,
15:18
and not for our side,
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a ne za našu stranu,
15:19
you have to keep in mind that if people are on the left,
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morate imati na umu da, ako su ljudi na ljevici,
15:25
they think, "Well, I used to think that Republicans were bad,
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oni misle, "Prije sam mislio da su republikanci loši,
a sada to Donald Trump dokazuje.
15:28
but now Donald Trump proves it.
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15:29
And now every Republican, I can paint with all the things
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I sada svakog republikanca mogu obojati svim stvarima
15:32
that I think about Trump."
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koje mislim o Trumpu."
15:33
And that's not necessarily true.
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A to nije nužno istina.
15:35
They're generally not very happy with their candidate.
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Oni općenito nisu jako zadovoljni svojim kandidatom.
15:38
This is the most negative partisanship election in American history.
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To su najnegativniji pobornički izbori u američkoj povijesti.
15:43
So you have to first separate your feelings about the candidate
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Dakle, prvo morate odvojiti svoje osjećaje o kandidatu
15:47
from your feelings about the people who are given a choice.
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od svojih osjećaja o ljudima kojima je dan izbor.
15:50
And then you have to realize that,
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I onda morate shvatiti da,
budući da svi mi živimo u odvojenom moralnom svijetu --
15:53
because we all live in a separate moral world --
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15:55
the metaphor I use in the book is that we're all trapped in "The Matrix,"
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u knjizi koristim metaforu da smo svi zarobljeni u "Matrici",
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or each moral community is a matrix, a consensual hallucination.
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ili da je svaka moralna zajednica matrica, konsenzualna halucinacija.
16:02
And so if you're within the blue matrix,
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Pa tako, ako ste vi u plavoj matrici,
16:04
everything's completely compelling that the other side --
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sve vas neodoljivo navodi da je druga strana --
16:08
they're troglodytes, they're racists, they're the worst people in the world,
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oni su trogloditi, oni su rasisti, oni su najgori ljudi na svijetu,
16:11
and you have all the facts to back that up.
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a vi imate sve činjenice koje to podupiru.
16:13
But somebody in the next house from yours
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No, netko u kući do vaše
16:16
is living in a different moral matrix.
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živi u drugačijoj moralnoj matrici.
16:18
They live in a different video game,
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Oni žive u drugačijoj video igri,
16:20
and they see a completely different set of facts.
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i vide potpuno drugačiji skup činjenica.
16:22
And each one sees different threats to the country.
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I svatko vidi drugačije prijetnje po zemlju.
16:25
And what I've found from being in the middle
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A ono što sam ja ustanovio, kao osoba u sredini
16:27
and trying to understand both sides is: both sides are right.
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koja pokušava razumijeti obje strane, jest: obje strane su u pravu.
16:30
There are a lot of threats to this country,
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Mnogo je prijetnji ovoj zemlji,
16:32
and each side is constitutionally incapable of seeing them all.
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a svaka je strana konstitucionalno nesposobna vidjeti sve njih.
16:36
CA: So, are you saying that we almost need a new type of empathy?
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CA: Želite li reći da gotovo pa trebamo novu vrstu empatije?
16:43
Empathy is traditionally framed as:
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Empatija se tradicionalno opisuje kao:
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"Oh, I feel your pain. I can put myself in your shoes."
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"Oh, osjećam tvoju bol. Mogu se staviti u tvoju kožu."
16:48
And we apply it to the poor, the needy, the suffering.
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I to primjenjujemo na siromašne, potrebite, one koji pate.
16:52
We don't usually apply it to people who we feel as other,
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Obično to ne primjenjujemo na ljude koje osjećamo kao druge
16:55
or we're disgusted by.
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ili koji su nam odvratni.
16:57
JH: No. That's right.
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JH: Ne. To je točno.
16:58
CA: What would it look like to build that type of empathy?
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CA: Kako bi to izgledalo da izgradimo tu vrstu empatije?
JH: Ustvari, mislim ...
17:04
JH: Actually, I think ...
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Empatija je vrlo, vrlo aktualna tema u psihologiji,
17:06
Empathy is a very, very hot topic in psychology,
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17:08
and it's a very popular word on the left in particular.
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i ta je riječ vrlo popularna, naročito na ljevici.
Empatija je dobra stvar
17:11
Empathy is a good thing, and empathy for the preferred classes of victims.
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i empatija za preferencijalne klase žrtava.
17:15
So it's important to empathize
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Dakle, važno je osjećati empatiju
17:16
with the groups that we on the left think are so important.
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za grupe koje mi na ljevici smatramo tako važnima.
17:19
That's easy to do, because you get points for that.
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To je lako jer za to dobivate bodove.
17:22
But empathy really should get you points if you do it when it's hard to do.
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No empatija bi vam zapravo trebala donositi bodove
ako je osjećate kada ju je teško osjećati.
17:26
And, I think ...
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I ja mislim ...
17:28
You know, we had a long 50-year period of dealing with our race problems
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Znate, mi smo imali dugo 50-godišnje razdoblje
suočavanja s rasnim problemima i pravnom diskriminacijom
17:33
and legal discrimination,
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17:35
and that was our top priority for a long time
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i to je bio naš vrhunski prioritet dugo vremena
17:37
and it still is important.
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i još uvijek je važan.
17:39
But I think this year,
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No, mislim da ove godine,
17:40
I'm hoping it will make people see
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nadam se da će ovo ljude primorati da uvide
17:43
that we have an existential threat on our hands.
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da imamo egistencijalnu prijetnju na vratu.
17:45
Our left-right divide, I believe,
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Vjerujem da je naša lijevo-desna podjela
17:48
is by far the most important divide we face.
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daleko najvažnija podjela s kojom se suočavamo.
17:50
We still have issues about race and gender and LGBT,
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Još uvijek imamo probleme u vezi rase, spola i LGBT,
17:53
but this is the urgent need of the next 50 years,
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no ovo je hitna nužda zadnjih 50 godina,
17:57
and things aren't going to get better on their own.
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i stvari se neće popraviti same od sebe.
Zato ćemo morati provesti mnogo ustavnih reformi
18:01
So we're going to need to do a lot of institutional reforms,
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18:03
and we could talk about that,
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i o tome možemo govoriti,
no to je cijeli jedan dugačak i zapetljan razgovor.
18:05
but that's like a whole long, wonky conversation.
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18:07
But I think it starts with people realizing that this is a turning point.
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No, ja mislim da to započinje kada ljudi shvate da je ovo prekretnica.
18:11
And yes, we need a new kind of empathy.
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I da, treba nam nova vrsta empatije.
18:14
We need to realize:
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Mi moramo shvatiti:
18:15
this is what our country needs,
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to je ono što naša zemlja treba
18:17
and this is what you need if you don't want to --
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i to je ono što vi trebate ako ne želite --
18:19
Raise your hand if you want to spend the next four years
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Podignite ruku ako želite sljedeće četiri godine provesti
18:22
as angry and worried as you've been for the last year -- raise your hand.
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ovako ljuti i zabrinuti kao što ste bili prošle godine -- dignite ruku.
Pa, ako želite od toga pobjeći,
18:26
So if you want to escape from this,
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18:27
read Buddha, read Jesus, read Marcus Aurelius.
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čitajte Budu, čitajte Isusa, čitajte Marka Aurelija.
18:29
They have all kinds of great advice for how to drop the fear,
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Oni imaju gomilu raznih savjeta kako odagnati strah,
preustrojiti stvari,
18:35
reframe things,
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prestati druge ljude gledati kao svoje neprijatelje.
18:36
stop seeing other people as your enemy.
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18:38
There's a lot of guidance in ancient wisdom for this kind of empathy.
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U drevnoj mudrosti ima mnogo smjernica za ovu vrstu empatije.
18:41
CA: Here's my last question:
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CA: Evo mog zadnjeg pitanja:
Osobno, što ljudi mogu učiniti da pomognu ozdravljenju?
18:43
Personally, what can people do to help heal?
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18:47
JH: Yeah, it's very hard to just decide to overcome your deepest prejudices.
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JH: Vrlo je teško jednostavno odlučiti prevladati najdublje predrasude.
18:51
And there's research showing
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A postoji i istraživanje koje pokazuje
18:53
that political prejudices are deeper and stronger than race prejudices
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da su političke predrasude dublje i jače od rasnih predrasuda
18:57
in the country now.
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danas u našoj zemlji.
18:59
So I think you have to make an effort -- that's the main thing.
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Zato mislim da se morate potruditi -- to je glavna stvar.
19:02
Make an effort to actually meet somebody.
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Potrudite se da stvarno nekoga upoznate.
19:04
Everybody has a cousin, a brother-in-law,
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Svatko ima bratića, šogora,
19:07
somebody who's on the other side.
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nekoga tko je na drugoj strani.
19:09
So, after this election --
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Pa, nakon ovih izbora --
19:11
wait a week or two,
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pričekajte tjedan ili dva,
19:12
because it's probably going to feel awful for one of you --
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jer će to vjerojatno teško pasti jednom od vas --
no pričekajte par tjedana i onda pružite ruku
19:15
but wait a couple weeks, and then reach out and say you want to talk.
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i kažite da želite razgovarati.
19:19
And before you do it,
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Ali prije no što to učinite,
19:21
read Dale Carnegie, "How to Win Friends and Influence People" --
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pročitajte Dalea Carnegia
"Kako steći prijatelje i utjecati na ljude" --
19:24
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
19:25
I'm totally serious.
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Potpuno sam ozbiljan.
19:26
You'll learn techniques if you start by acknowledging,
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Naučit ćete metode ako započnete prihvaćanjem,
ako započnete govoreći,
19:29
if you start by saying,
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19:30
"You know, we don't agree on a lot,
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"Znaš, mi se u mnogo toga ne slažemo,
19:32
but one thing I really respect about you, Uncle Bob,"
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ali jednu stvar zbilja poštujem kod tebe, ujače Bob,"
19:34
or "... about you conservatives, is ... "
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ili "... u vezi vas konzervativaca ..."
19:36
And you can find something.
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I možete pronaći nešto.
19:38
If you start with some appreciation, it's like magic.
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Ako započnete s malo uvažavanja, to je kao čarolija.
19:40
This is one of the main things I've learned
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To je jedna od glavnih stvari koje sam naučio
19:42
that I take into my human relationships.
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unijeti u svoje međuljudske odnose.
19:44
I still make lots of stupid mistakes,
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Još uvijek radim mnogo glupih grešaka
19:46
but I'm incredibly good at apologizing now,
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ali sam sada njevjerojatno dobar u ispričavanju
19:48
and at acknowledging what somebody was right about.
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i u priznavanju da je netko bio u pravu.
19:51
And if you do that,
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I ako to učinite,
19:52
then the conversation goes really well, and it's actually really fun.
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onda razgovor teče zbilja dobro i ustvari je zabavan.
19:56
CA: Jon, it's absolutely fascinating speaking with you.
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CA: Jon, zaista je fascinantno pričati s tobom.
19:59
It really does feel like the ground that we're on
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Stvarno se čini da teren na kojem se nalazimo
20:03
is a ground populated by deep questions of morality and human nature.
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je teren napučen dubokim pitanjima morala i ljudske prirode.
20:08
Your wisdom couldn't be more relevant.
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Tvoja mudrost ne može biti relevantnija.
20:10
Thank you so much for sharing this time with us.
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Puno ti hvala za ovo vrijeme koje si podijelio s nama.
20:13
JH: Thanks, Chris.
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JH: Hvala, Chris.
20:14
JH: Thanks, everyone.
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JH: Hvala svima.
20:15
(Applause)
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