Colin Powell: Kids need structure | TED

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What I want to do this afternoon
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is something a little different than what's scheduled.
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Foreign policy, you can figure that out
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by watching, I don't know, Rachel Maddow or somebody,
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but — (Laughter) —
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I want to talk about young people and structure,
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young people and structure.
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This was last Wednesday afternoon
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at a school in Brooklyn, New York,
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at Cristo Rey High School, run by the Jesuits.
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And I was talking to this group of students, and take a look at them.
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They were around me in three directions.
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You'll noticed that almost all of them are minority.
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You'll notice that the building is rather austere.
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It's an old New York school building, nothing fancy.
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They still have old blackboards and whatnot.
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And there are about 300 kids in this school,
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and the school's been going now for four years,
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and they're about to graduate their first class.
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Twenty-two people are graduating,
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and all 22 are going to college.
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They all come from homes where there is, for the most part,
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just one person in the home,
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usually the mother or the grandmother, and that's it,
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and they come here for their education
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and for their structure.
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Now I had this picture taken, and it was put up
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on my Facebook page last week,
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and somebody wrote in,
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"Huh, why does he have him standing at attention like that?"
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And then they said, "But he looks good." (Laughter)
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He does look good, because kids need structure,
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and the trick I play in all of my school appearances
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is that when I get through with my little homily to the kids,
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I then invite them to ask questions,
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and when they raise their hands, I say, "Come up,"
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and I make them come up and stand in front of me.
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I make them stand at attention like a soldier.
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Put your arms straight down at your side,
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look up, open your eyes, stare straight ahead,
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and speak out your question loudly so everybody can hear.
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No slouching, no pants hanging down, none of that stuff.
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(Laughter)
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And this young man, his name is -- his last name Cruz --
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he loved it. That's all over his Facebook page and it's gone viral.
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(Laughter)
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So people think I'm being unkind to this kid.
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No, we're having a little fun.
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And the thing about it, I've done this for years,
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the younger they are, the more fun it is.
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When I get six- and seven-year-olds in a group,
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I have to figure out how to keep them quiet.
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You know that they'll always start yakking.
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And so I play a little game with them
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before I make them stand at attention.
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I say, "Now listen. In the army,
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when we want you to pay attention,
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we have a command. It's called 'at ease.'
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It means everybody be quiet and pay attention. Listen up.
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Do you understand?"
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"Uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh.""Let's practice. Everybody start chatting."
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And I let them go for about 10 seconds, then I go, "At ease!"
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"Huh!" (Laughter)
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"Yes, General. Yes, General."
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Try it with your kids. See if it works. (Laughter)
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I don't think so.
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But anyway, it's a game I play, and it comes obviously
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from my military experience.
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Because for the majority of my adult life,
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I worked with young kids, teenagers with guns, I call them.
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And we would bring them into the army,
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and the first thing we would do is to put them
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in an environment of structure, put them in ranks,
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make them all wear the same clothes,
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cut all their hair off so they look alike,
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make sure that they are standing in ranks.
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We teach them how to go right face, left face,
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so they can obey instructions and know
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the consequences of not obeying instructions.
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It gives them structure.
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And then we introduce them to somebody who they come to hate immediately, the drill sergeant.
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And they hate him.
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And the drill sergeant starts screaming at them,
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and telling them to do all kinds of awful things.
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But then the most amazing thing happens over time.
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Once that structure is developed,
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once they understand the reason for something,
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once they understand, "Mama ain't here, son.
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I'm your worst nightmare. I'm your daddy and your mommy.
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And that's just the way it is. You got that, son?
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Yeah, and then when I ask you a question, there are only three possible answers:
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yes, sir; no, sir; and no excuse, sir.
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Don't start telling me why you didn't do something.
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It's yes, sir; no, sir; no excuse, sir."
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"You didn't shave.""But sir —"
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"No, don't tell me how often you scraped your face this morning.
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I'm telling you you didn't shave."
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"No excuse, sir.""Attaboy, you're learning fast."
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But you'd be amazed at what you can do with them
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once you put them in that structure.
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In 18 weeks, they have a skill. They are mature.
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And you know what, they come to admire the drill sergeant
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and they never forget the drill sergeant.
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They come to respect him.
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And so we need more of this kind of structure and respect
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in the lives of our children.
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I spend a lot of time with youth groups,
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and I say to people, "When does the education process begin?"
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We're always talking about, "Let's fix the schools.
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Let's do more for our teachers. Let's put more computers in our schools.
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Let's get it all online."
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That isn't the whole answer. It's part of the answer.
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But the real answer begins with bringing a child to the school
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with structure in that child's heart and soul to begin with.
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When does the learning process begin? Does it begin in first grade?
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No, no, it begins the first time
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a child in a mother's arms
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looks up at the mother
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and says, "Oh, this must be my mother.
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She's the one who feeds me.
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Oh yeah, when I don't feel so good down there,
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she takes care of me.
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It's her language I will learn."
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And at that moment they shut out all the other languages
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that they could be learning at that age,
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but by three months, that's her.
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And if the person doing it, whether it's the mother
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or grandmother, whoever's doing it,
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that is when the education process begins.
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That's when language begins.
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That's when love begins. That's when structure begins.
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That's when you start to imprint on the child
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that "you are special,
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you are different from every other child in the world.
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And we're going to read to you."
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A child who has not been read to
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is in danger when that child gets to school.
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A child who doesn't know his or her colors
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or doesn't know how to tell time, doesn't know how to tie shoes,
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doesn't know how to do those things,
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and doesn't know how to do something that
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goes by a word that was drilled into me as a kid: mind.
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Mind your manners! Mind your adults! Mind what you're saying!
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This is the way children are raised properly.
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And I watched my own young grandchildren now come along
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and they're, much to the distress of my children,
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they are acting just like we did. You know? You imprint them.
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And that's what you have to do to prepare children for education and for school.
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And I'm working at all the energy I have
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to sort of communicate this message that
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we need preschool, we need Head Start,
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we need prenatal care.
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The education process begins even before the child is born,
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and if you don't do that, you're going to have difficulty.
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And we are having difficulties in so many of our communities
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and so many of our schools where kids are coming
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to first grade and their eyes are blazing,
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they've got their little knapsack on and they're ready to go,
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and then they realize they're not like the other first graders
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who know books, have been read to, can do their alphabet.
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And by the third grade, the kids who didn't have
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that structure and minding in the beginning
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start to realize they're behind, and what do they do?
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They act it out. They act it out, and they're on their way
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to jail or they're on their way to being dropouts.
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It's predictable.
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If you're not at the right reading level at third grade,
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you are a candidate for jail at age 18,
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and we have the highest incarceration rate
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because we're not getting our kids the proper start in life.
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The last chapter in my book is called
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"The Gift of a Good Start."
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The gift of a good start. Every child ought to have a good start in life.
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I was privileged to have that kind of good start.
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I was not a great student.
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I was a public school kid in New York City,
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and I didn't do well at all.
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I have my entire New York City Board of Education transcript
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from kindergarten through college.
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I wanted it when I was writing my first book.
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I wanted to see if my memory was correct,
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and, my God, it was. (Laughter)
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Straight C everywhere.
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And I finally bounced through high school,
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got into the City College of New York
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with a 78.3 average, which I shouldn't have been allowed in with,
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and then I started out in engineering,
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and that only lasted six months. (Laughter)
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And then I went into geology, "rocks for jocks." This is easy.
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And then I found ROTC.
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I found something that I did well and something that I loved doing,
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and I found a group of youngsters like me who felt the same way.
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And so my whole life then was dedicated to ROTC and the military.
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And I say to young kids everywhere, as you're growing up
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and as this structure is being developed inside of you,
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always be looking for that which you do well and that which you love doing,
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and when you find those two things together, man, you got it.
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That's what's going on. And that's what I found.
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Now the authorities at CCNY were getting tired of me being there.
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I'd been there four and a half going on five years,
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and my grades were not doing particularly well,
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and I was in occasional difficulties with the administration.
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And so they said, "But he does so well in ROTC.
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Look, he gets straight A's in that but not in anything else."
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And so they said, "Look, let's take his ROTC grades
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and roll them into his overall GPA and see what happens."
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And they did, and it brought me up to 2.0. (Laughter)
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Yep. (Laughter) (Applause)
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They said, "It's good enough for government work.
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Give him to the army. We'll never see him again. We'll never see him again."
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So they shipped me off to the army,
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and lo and behold, many years later,
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I'm considered one of the greatest sons the City College of New York has ever had. (Laughter)
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So, I tell young people everywhere,
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it ain't where you start in life, it's what you do with life
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that determines where you end up in life,
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and you are blessed to be living in a country that,
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no matter where you start, you have opportunities
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so long as you believe in yourself,
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you believe in the society and the country,
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and you believe that you can self-improve
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and educate yourself as you go along.
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And that's the key to success.
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But it begins with the gift of a good start.
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If we don't give that gift to each and every one of our kids,
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if we don't invest at the earliest age,
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we're going to be running into difficulties.
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It's why we have a dropout rate of roughly 25 percent overall
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and almost 50 percent of our minority population
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living in low-income areas,
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because they're not getting the gift of a good start.
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My gift of a good start was not only being in a nice family,
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a good family, but having a family that said to me,
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"Now listen, we came to this country in banana boats
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in 1920 and 1924.
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We worked like dogs down in the garment industry every single day.
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We're not doing it so that you can stick something up your nose
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or get in trouble. And don't even think about dropping out."
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If I had ever gone home and told those immigrant people
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that, "You know, I'm tired of school and I'm dropping out,"
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they'd said, "We're dropping you out. We'll get another kid."
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(Laughter)
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They had expectations for all of the cousins
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and the extended family of immigrants that lived in the South Bronx,
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but they had more than just expectations for us.
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They stuck into our hearts like a dagger
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a sense of shame: "Don't you shame this family."
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Sometimes I would get in trouble,
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and my parents were coming home,
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and I was in my room waiting for what's going to happen,
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and I would sit there saying to myself, "Okay, look,
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take the belt and hit me, but, God, don't give me that 'shame the family' bit again."
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It devastated me when my mother did that to me.
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And I also had this extended network.
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Children need a network. Children need to be part of a tribe,
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a family, a community.
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In my case it was aunts who lived in all of these tenement buildings.
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I don't know how many of you are New Yorkers,
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but there were these tenement buildings,
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and these women were always hanging out one of the windows,
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leaning on a pillow.
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They never left. (Laughter)
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I, so help me God, I grew up walking those streets,
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and they were always there.
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They never went to the bathroom. They never cooked. (Laughter)
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They never did anything.
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But what they did was keep us in play.
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They kept us in play.
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And they didn't care
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whether you became a doctor or a lawyer or a general,
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and they never expected any generals in the family,
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as long as you got an education and then you got a job.
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"Don't give us any of that self-actualization stuff.
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You get a job and get out of the house.
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We don't have time to waste for that.
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And then you can support us. That's the role of you guys."
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And so, it's so essential that we kind of put this culture
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back into our families, all families.
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And it is so important that all of you here today
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who are successful people,
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and I'm sure have wonderful families and children and grandchildren,
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it's not enough. You've got to reach out and back
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and find kids like Mr. Cruz
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who can make it if you give them the structure,
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if you reach back and help, if you mentor,
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if you invest in boys and girls clubs,
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if you work with your school system,
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make sure it's the best school system,
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and not just your kid's school, but the school uptown in Harlem,
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not just downtown Montessori on the West Side.
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All of us have to have a commitment to do that.
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And we're not just investing in the kids.
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We're investing in our future.
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We're going to be a minority-majority country
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in one more generation.
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Those that we call minorities now are going to be the majority.
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And we have to make sure that they are ready to be the majority.
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We have to make sure they're ready to be the leaders
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of this great country of ours,
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a country that is like no other,
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a country that amazes me every single day,
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a country that's fractious. We're always arguing with each other.
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That's how the system's supposed to work.
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It's a country of such contrasts, but it's a nation of nations.
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We touch every nation. Every nation touches us.
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We are a nation of immigrants.
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That's why we need sound immigration policy.
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It's ridiculous not to have a sound immigration policy
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to welcome those who want to come here and be part of this great nation,
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or we can send back home with an education
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to help their people rise up out of poverty.
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One of the great stories I love to tell is about my love
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of going to my hometown of New York
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and walking up Park Avenue on a beautiful day
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and admiring everything and seeing all the people go by
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from all over the world.
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But what I always have to do is stop at one of the corners
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and get a hot dog from the immigrant pushcart peddler.
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Gotta have a dirty water dog. (Laughter)
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And no matter where I am or what I'm doing,
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I've got to do that.
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I even did it when I was Secretary of State.
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I'd come out of my suite at the Waldorf Astoria
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— (Laughter) —
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be walking up the street, and I would hit around 55th Street
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looking for the immigrant pushcart peddler.
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In those days, I had five bodyguards around me
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and three New York City police cars would roll alongside
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to make sure nobody whacked me while I was going up Park Avenue. (Laughter)
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And I would order the hot dog from the guy,
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and he'd start to fix it, and then he'd look around
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at the bodyguards and the police cars --
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"I've got a green card! I've got a green card!" (Laughter)
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"It's okay, it's okay."
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But now I'm alone. I'm alone.
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I've got no bodyguards, I've got no police cars. I've got nothing.
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But I gotta have my hot dog.
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I did it just last week. It was on a Tuesday evening
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down by Columbus Circle.
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And the scene repeats itself so often.
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I'll go up and ask for my hot dog,
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and the guy will fix it, and as he's finishing,
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he'll say, "I know you. I see you on television.
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You're, well, you're General Powell."
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"Yes, yes.""Oh ... "
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I hand him the money.
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"No, General. You can't pay me. I've been paid.
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America has paid me. I never forget where I came from.
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But now I'm an American. Sir, thank you."
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I accept the generosity, continue up the street,
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and it washes over me, my God,
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it's the same country that greeted my parents this way 90 years ago.
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So we are still that magnificent country,
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but we are fueled by young people coming up
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from every land in the world,
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and it is our obligation as contributing citizens
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to this wonderful country of ours
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to make sure that no child gets left behind.
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Thank you very much.
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(Applause)
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