The new American Dream | Courtney Martin

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Prevodilac: Ivana Krivokuća Lektor: Tijana Mihajlović
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I'm a journalist,
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Ja sam novinarka,
tako da volim da tragam za neispričanim pričama,
00:14
so I like to look for the untold stories,
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00:16
the lives that quietly play out under the scream of headlines.
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životima koji se tiho odigravaju pod vrištavim naslovnicama.
00:20
I've also been going about the business of putting down roots,
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Takođe sam krenula svojim putem puštanja korenja,
00:24
choosing a partner, making babies.
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biranja partnera, pravljenja beba.
00:27
So for the last few years,
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Stoga sam poslednjih nekoliko godina
00:29
I've been trying to understand
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pokušavala da razumem
00:30
what constitutes the 21st-century good life,
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šta čini dobar život u 21. veku,
00:35
both because I'm fascinated by the moral and philosophical implications,
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ujedno zato što me fasciniraju moralne i filozofske implikacije,
00:39
but also because I'm in desperate need of answers myself.
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ali i zato što su i meni samoj očajnički potrebni odgovori.
00:43
We live in tenuous times.
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Živimo u nestabilno vreme.
00:46
In fact, for the first time in American history,
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Zapravo, prvi put u američkoj istoriji,
00:49
the majority of parents do not think that their kids will be better off
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većina roditelja ne misli da će njihovoj deci biti bolje
00:53
than they were.
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nego što je bilo njima.
00:55
This is true of rich and poor, men and women.
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To važi za bogate i siromašne, muškarce i žene.
00:59
Now, some of you might hear this and feel sad.
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Neki od vas možda čuju to i osećaju se tužno.
01:01
After all, America is deeply invested
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Na kraju krajeva, Amerika duboko ulaže
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in this idea of economic transcendence,
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u tu ideju ekonomskog prevazilaženja,
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that every generation kind of leapfrogs the one before it,
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da svaka generacija pravi veliki skok u odnosu na onu prethodnu,
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earning more, buying more, being more.
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da više zarađuje, više kupuje, da postaje nešto više.
01:15
We've exported this dream all over the world,
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Izvezli smo ovaj san po celom svetu,
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so kids in Brazil and China and even Kenya
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tako da deca u Brazilu, Kini, pa čak i u Keniji
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inherit our insatiable expectation
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nasleđuju naša nezasita očekivanja
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for more.
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da stičemo više.
Međutim, kada sam prvi put pročitala ovo istorijsko istraživanje,
01:25
But when I read this historic poll for the first time,
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01:28
it didn't actually make me feel sad.
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nije me zapravo rastužilo.
01:30
It felt like a provocation.
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Učinilo se kao provokacija.
01:33
"Better off" -- based on whose standards?
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„Bolje“ na osnovu čijih standarda?
01:37
Is "better off" finding a secure job
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Da li je „bolje“ pronaći siguran posao
01:39
that you can count on for the rest of your life?
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na koji možete da računate do kraja života?
Takvi su skoro sasvim nestali.
01:42
Those are nearly extinct.
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01:43
People move jobs, on average, every 4.7 years,
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Ljudi menjaju poslove u proseku na svakih 4,7 godina,
01:47
and it's estimated that by 2020,
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a procenjuje se da će do 2020. godine
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nearly half of Americans will be freelancers.
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skoro polovina Amerikanaca imati honorarne poslove.
01:53
OK, so is better off just a number?
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Dobro, da li je „bolje“ samo broj?
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Is it about earning as much as you possibly can?
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Da li se tu radi samo o zarađivanju koliko god je više moguće?
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By that singular measurement, we are failing.
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Prema toj jedinstvenoj meri, propadamo.
02:03
Median per capita income has been flat since about 2000,
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Medijana prihoda po glavi stanovnika nije se menjala od oko 2000. godine,
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adjusted for inflation.
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korigovano za inflaciju.
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All right, so is better off getting a big house with a white picket fence?
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U redu, da li je bolje imati veliku kuću sa belom drvenom ogradom?
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Less of us are doing that.
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To radi manje nas.
02:16
Nearly five million people lost their homes in the Great Recession,
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Približno pet miliona ljudi je izgubilo dom tokom velike recesije,
02:20
and even more of us sobered up about the lengths we were willing to go --
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a još više nas se otreznilo po pitanju toga dokle smo spremni da idemo -
02:24
or be tricked into going, in many predatory cases --
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ili da nas prevare da idemo, u mnogim pljačkaškim slučajevima -
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to hold that deed.
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da bismo držali tu tapiju.
02:29
Home-ownership rates are at their lowest since 1995.
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Stope vlasništva nad kućama su na najnižem nivou od 1995. godine.
02:34
All right, so we're not finding steady employment,
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U redu, dakle, ne pronalazimo stabilno zaposlenje,
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we're not earning as much money,
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ne zarađujemo toliko novca
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and we're not living in big fancy houses.
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i ne živimo u velikim skupim kućama.
02:42
Toll the funeral bells
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Zazvonite pogrebna zvona
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for everything that made America great.
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za sve što je Ameriku činilo velikom.
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But,
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Ipak,
02:49
are those the best measurements of a country's greatness,
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da li su to najbolje mere veličine jedne zemlje
02:53
of a life well lived?
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ili dobro proživljenog života?
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What I think makes America great is its spirit of reinvention.
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Ja smatram da Ameriku čini velikom njen duh ponovnog otkrivanja.
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In the wake of the Great Recession,
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Po okončanju velike recesije,
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more and more Americans are redefining what "better off" really means.
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sve više Amerikanaca iznova definiše šta „bolje“ zaista znači.
03:06
Turns out, it has more to do with community and creativity
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Ispostavilo se da ima više veze sa zajednicom i kreativnošću
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than dollars and cents.
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nego sa dolarima i centima.
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Now, let me be very clear:
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Da budem vrlo jasna,
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the 14.8 percent of Americans living in poverty need money,
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novac je potreban za 14,8 posto Amerikanaca koji žive u siromaštvu,
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plain and simple.
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prosto i jednostavno.
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And all of us need policies that protect us from exploitation
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A svima nama su potrebni zakoni da nas štete od eksploatacije
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by employers and financial institutions.
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poslodavaca i finansijskih institucija.
03:29
Nothing that follows is meant to suggest that the gap between rich and poor
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Ništa što sledi ne treba da ukaže da je jaz između bogatih i siromašnih
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is anything but profoundly immoral.
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ništa manje nego duboko nemoralan.
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But,
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Međutim,
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too often we let the conversation stop there.
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prečesto dopuštamo da razgovor tu stane.
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We talk about poverty as if it were a monolithic experience;
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Govorimo o siromaštvu kao da se radi o monolitnom iskustvu;
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about the poor as if they were solely victims.
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o siromašnima kao da su jedine žrtve.
Deo onoga što sam naučila kroz svoje istraživanje i izveštavanje
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Part of what I've learned in my research and reporting
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is that the art of living well
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je da veštinu kvalitetnog života
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is often practiced most masterfully
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često najvičnije upražnjavaju najugroženiji.
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by the most vulnerable.
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04:02
Now, if necessity is the mother of invention,
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Ako je potreba majka svih izuma,
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I've come to believe
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došla sam do uverenja
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that recession can be the father of consciousness.
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da recesija može biti otac svesnosti.
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It confronts us with profound questions,
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Suočava nas sa dubokim pitanjima
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questions we might be too lazy or distracted to ask
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za koja bismo bili previše lenji ili rasejani da bismo ih postavili
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in times of relative comfort.
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u vreme relativne udobnosti.
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How should we work?
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Kako bi trebalo da radimo?
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How should we live?
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Kako treba da živimo?
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All of us, whether we realize it or not,
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Svi mi, bilo da to uviđamo ili ne,
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seek answers to these questions,
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tražimo odgovore na ta pitanja,
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with our ancestors kind of whispering in our ears.
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dok nam preci na neki način šapuću u uvo.
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My great-grandfather was a drunk in Detroit,
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Moj pradeda je bio pijanac u Detroitu
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who sometimes managed to hold down a factory job.
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koji je ponekad uspevao da zadrži posao u fabrici.
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He had, as unbelievable as it might sound,
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Imao je, koliko god neverovatno zvučalo,
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21 children,
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21 dete,
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with one woman, my great-grandmother,
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sa jednom ženom, mojom prababom,
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who died at 47 years old of ovarian cancer.
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koja je umrla u 47. godini od raka jajnika.
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Now, I'm pregnant with my second child,
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Ja sam trudna sa svojim drugim detetom
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and I cannot even fathom what she must have gone through.
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i ne mogu ni da zamislim kroz šta sve mora da je prošla.
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And if you're trying to do the math -- there were six sets of twins.
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Ako pokušavate da izračunate - bilo je šest pari blizanaca.
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So my grandfather, their son,
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Tako je moj deda, njihov sin,
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became a traveling salesman,
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postao trgovački putnik i doživeo je veliki uspeh i nagli pad.
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and he lived boom and bust.
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05:06
So my dad grew up answering the door for debt collectors
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Tako je moj tata odrastao otvarajući vrata uterivačima dugova
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and pretending his parents weren't home.
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i pretvarajući se da mu roditelji nisu kod kuće.
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He actually took his braces off himself with pliers in the garage,
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On je zapravo sam skinuo svoju protezu kleštima u garaži
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when his father admitted he didn't have money
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kada mu je otac priznao da nema novca da se vrate kod ortodonta.
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to go back to the orthodontist.
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05:21
So my dad, unsurprisingly,
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Tako je moj otac, što ne iznenađuje,
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became a bankruptcy lawyer.
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postao advokat za bankrot.
05:26
Couldn't write this in a novel, right?
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Ne bi se mogao bolji roman napisati, zar ne?
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He was obsessed with providing a secure foundation
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Bio je opsednut obezbeđivanjem sigurnih temelja
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for my brother and I.
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za mog brata i mene.
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So I ask these questions by way of a few generations of struggle.
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Zato ja postavljam ova pitanja prolazeći kroz nekoliko generacija borbe.
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My parents made sure that I grew up on a kind of steady ground
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Moji roditelji su se postarali da odrastem na čvrstoj podlozi
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that allows one to question and risk and leap.
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koja omogućava osobi da preispituje, rizikuje i načini skok.
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And ironically, and probably sometimes to their frustration,
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Ironično, a verovatno ponekad na njihovo razočaranje,
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it is their steadfast commitment to security
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njihova čvrsta posvećenost sigurnosti je upravo ono
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that allows me to question its value,
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što mi omogućava da preispitujem njenu vrednost,
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or at least its value as we've historically defined it
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ili makar njenu vrednost kako smo je istorijski definisali
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in the 21st century.
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u 21. veku.
06:00
So let's dig into this first question:
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Hajde da prionemo na prvo pitanje.
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How should we work?
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Kako bi trebalo da radimo?
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We should work like our mothers.
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Treba da radimo kao naše majke.
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That's right -- we've spent decades
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Tako je - proveli smo decenije
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trying to fit women into a work world built for company men.
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pokušavajući da uklopimo žene u svet rada koji je izgrađen za kompanijske muškarce.
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And many have done backbends to fit in,
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Mnogi su lomili kičmu da bi se uklopili,
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but others have carved a more unconventional path,
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ali su drugi ucrtali neuobičajeniju stazu,
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creating a patchwork of meaning and money
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stvarajući kolaž smisla i novca
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with enough flexibility to do what they need to do
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sa dovoljno fleksibilnosti da bi radili ono što moraju
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for those that they love.
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za one koje vole.
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My mom called it "just making it work."
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Moja mama to naziva „prosto učiniti da funkcioniše“.
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Today I hear life coaches call it "a portfolio career."
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Danas čujem kako životni treneri to nazivaju „portfolio karijerom“.
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Whatever you call it,
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Kako god da to nazovete,
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more and more men are craving these whole, if not harried, lives.
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sve više muškaraca žudi za tim celovitim, ako ne i napregnutim životima.
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They're waking up to their desire and duty to be present fathers and sons.
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Bude se uz želju i dužnost da budu prisutni očevi i sinovi.
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Now, artist Ann Hamilton has said,
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Umetnica En Hamilton je rekla:
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"Labor is a way of knowing."
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„Rad je način saznavanja.“
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Labor is a way of knowing.
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Rad je način saznavanja.
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In other words, what we work on
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Drugim rečima, ono na čemu radimo
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is what we understand about the world.
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je ono što razumemo o svetu.
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If this is true, and I think it is,
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Ako je to istina, a mislim da jeste,
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then women who have disproportionately cared for the little ones
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onda su žene koje su se nesrazmerno mnogo starale o mališanima, bolesnima i starima,
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and the sick ones and the aging ones,
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have disproportionately benefited
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nesrazmerno mnogo dobile
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from the most profound kind of knowing there is:
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najdublje moguće saznanje -
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knowing the human condition.
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saznanje o ljudskom stanju.
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By prioritizing care,
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Stavljajući negu među prioritete,
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men are, in a sense, staking their claim
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muškarci na neki način polažu pravo
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to the full range of human existence.
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na pun spektar ljudskog postojanja.
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Now, this means the nine-to-five no longer works for anyone.
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To znači da radno vreme od pet do devet više ne funkcioniše za bilo koga.
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Punch clocks are becoming obsolete, as are career ladders.
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Štancanje kartica postaje zastarelo, kao i karijerne lestvice.
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Whole industries are being born and dying every day.
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Čitave industrije se rađaju i umiru svakoga dana.
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It's all nonlinear from here.
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Odavde sve postaje nelinearno.
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So we need to stop asking kids,
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Stoga treba da prestanemo da pitamo decu:
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"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
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„Šta želiš da budeš kad porasteš?“
i da počnemo da ih pitamo: „Kako želiš da budeš kada porasteš?“
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and start asking them, "How do you want to be when you grow up?"
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07:47
Their work will constantly change.
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Njihov posao će se stalno menjati.
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The common denominator is them.
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Oni su zajednički imenilac.
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So the more they understand their gifts
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Tako, što više razumeju svoje talente
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and create crews of ideal collaborators,
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i stvaraju grupe idealnih saradnika,
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the better off they will be.
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bolje će im biti.
07:58
The challenge ahead is to reinvent the social safety net
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Izazov pred nama je kako preosmisliti društvenu sigurnosnu mrežu
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to fit this increasingly fragmented economy.
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tako da se uklopi u ovu sve više podeljenu ekonomiju.
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We need portable health benefits.
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Potrebne su nam prenosive zdravstvene beneficije.
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We need policies that reflect that everyone deserves to be vulnerable
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Potrebni su nam zakoni koji su odraz toga da svi zaslužuju da budu ranjivi
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or care for vulnerable others,
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ili da se staraju o ranjivima,
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without becoming destitute.
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a da ne postanu siromašni.
Moramo da ozbiljno razmotrimo univerzalni osnovni prihod.
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We need to seriously consider a universal basic income.
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08:15
We need to reinvent labor organizing.
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Moramo da obnovimo organizaciju rada.
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The promise of a work world that is structured to actually fit
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Obećanje o svetu rada koji je strukturisan
tako da se zaista uklopi u naše vrednosti 21. veka,
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our 21st century values,
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08:24
not some archaic idea about bringing home the bacon,
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a ne neka arhaična ideja o donošenju hleba u kuću,
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is long overdue --
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odavno kasni;
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just ask your mother.
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samo pitajte svoju majku.
08:31
Now, how about the second question:
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A sada, šta je sa drugim pitanjem - kako treba da živimo?
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How should we live?
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08:35
We should live
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Treba da živimo
08:37
like our immigrant ancestors.
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kao naši preci imigranti.
08:41
When they came to America,
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Kada su došli u Ameriku,
08:42
they often shared apartments, survival tactics, child care --
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često su delili stanove, taktike preživljavanja, brigu oko dece -
08:46
always knew how to fill one more belly,
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uvek su znali kako da napune još jedan stomak,
08:48
no matter how small the food available.
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bez obzira koliko je malo hrane na raspolaganju.
08:51
But they were told that success meant leaving the village behind
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Međutim, rečeno im je da uspeh podrazumeva da ostave selo za sobom
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and pursuing that iconic symbol of the American Dream,
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i jure za tim istaknutim simbolom američkog sna,
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the white picket fence.
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belom drvenom ogradom.
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And even today, we see a white picket fence
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Čak i danas, vidimo belu drvenu ogradu
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and we think success, self-possession.
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i pomislimo na uspeh, pribranost.
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But when you strip away the sentimentality,
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Ipak, kada odstranite sentimentalnost,
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what it really does is divides us.
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ona nas zapravo razdvaja.
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Many Americans are rejecting the white picket fence
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Mnogi Amerikanci odbacuju belu drvenu ogradu
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and the kind of highly privatized life that happened within it,
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i tu vrstu izrazito privatizovanog života koji je nastupio u okviru nje
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and reclaiming village life,
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i ponovo prisvajaju seoski život,
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reclaiming interdependence instead.
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prisvajajući međuzavisnost umesto toga.
09:21
Fifty million of us, for example,
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Pedeset miliona nas, na primer,
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live in intergenerational households.
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živi u međugeneracijskim domaćinstvima.
09:26
This number exploded with the Great Recession,
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Taj broj je naglo porastao sa velikom recesijom,
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but it turns out people actually like living this way.
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ali ispostavilo se da se ljudima zapravo dopada da tako žive.
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Two-thirds of those who are living with multiple generations under one roof
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Dve trećine onih koji žive sa više generacija pod jednim krovom
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say it's improved their relationships.
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kažu da je to poboljšalo njihove odnose.
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Some people are choosing to share homes not with family,
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Neki ljudi biraju da dele dom ne sa porodicom,
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but with other people who understand the health and economic benefits
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već sa drugim ljudima koji razumeju zdravstvene i ekonomske koristi
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of daily community.
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svakodnevnice u zajednici.
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CoAbode, an online platform for single moms looking to share homes
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CoAbode, onlajn platforma za samohrane majke
koje žele da dele dom sa drugim samohranim majkama,
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with other single moms,
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has 50,000 users.
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ima 50 000 korisnika.
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And people over 65 are especially prone
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A ljudi iznad 65 godina su naročito naklonjeni
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to be looking for these alternative living arrangements.
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traganju za tim alternativnim životnim uređenjima.
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They understand that their quality of life
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Oni razumeju da njihov kvalitet života
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depends on a mix of solitude and solidarity.
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zavisi od mešavine samoće i solidarnosti,
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Which is true of all of us when you think about it,
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što važi za sve nas, kad razmislite o tome,
mlade, kao i stare.
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young and old alike.
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10:11
For too long, we've pretended that happiness is a king in his castle.
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Previše dugo smo se pretvarali da je sreća kralj u svom zamku,
10:16
But all the research proves otherwise.
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ali sva istraživanja dokazuju suprotno.
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It shows that the healthiest, happiest and even safest --
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Pokazuju da najzdraviji, najsrećniji i čak najbezbedniji -
10:22
in terms of both climate change disaster, in terms of crime, all of that --
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podjednako u pogledu katastrofa klimatskih promena, kriminala, svega tog -
10:28
are Americans who live lives intertwined with their neighbors.
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jesu Amerikanci koji žive blisko povezani sa svojim susedima.
10:32
Now, I've experienced this firsthand.
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Iskusila sam to iz prve ruke.
10:35
For the last few years, I've been living in a cohousing community.
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Poslednjih nekoliko godina živela sam u stambenoj zajednici.
10:38
It's 1.5 acres of persimmon trees,
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To je 60 ari sa stablima persimona,
10:41
this prolific blackberry bush that snakes around a community garden,
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tim plodnim kupinovim žbunom koji vijuga po bašti zajednice,
10:45
all smack-dab, by the way, in the middle of urban Oakland.
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sve to u samom centru, uzgred, usred urbanog Ouklanda.
10:49
The nine units are all built to be different,
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Svih devet jedinica je napravljeno tako da budu različite,
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different sizes, different shapes,
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različitih boja i oblika,
10:53
but they're meant to be as green as possible.
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ali je predviđeno da budu što je moguće zelenije.
10:55
So big, shiny black solar cells on our roof
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Tako velike, sjajne crne solarne ćelije na našem krovu
10:57
mean our electricity bill rarely exceeds
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podrazumevaju da je naš račun za struju retko prelazio više od pet dolara mesečno.
10:59
more than five bucks in a month.
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The 25 of us who live there are all different ages and political persuasions
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Svih 25 nas koji živimo tamo smo različite starosti,
političkih ubeđenja i zanimanja,
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and professions,
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and we live in homes that have everything a typical home would have.
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a živimo u domovima koji imaju sve što bi imao tipičan dom.
Međutim, kao dodatak tome,
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But additionally,
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delimo kuhinju i trpezariju ogromnog kapaciteta,
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we share an industrial-sized kitchen and eating area,
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where we have common meals twice a week.
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gde imamo zajedničke obroke dva puta nedeljno.
11:15
Now, people, when I tell them I live like this,
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Kada kažem ljudima da živim ovako,
oni često imaju jednu od dve ekstremne reakcije.
11:18
often have one of two extreme reactions.
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Ili kažu: „Zašto svi ne žive ovako?“
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Either they say, "Why doesn't everyone live like this?"
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Or they say, "That sounds totally horrifying.
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ili: „To zvuči potpuno užasno.
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I would never want to do that."
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Nikad ne bih hteo da to uradim.“
11:27
So let me reassure you: there is a sacred respect for privacy among us,
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Pa, da vas uverim: među nama postoji sveto poštovanje prema privatnosti,
11:32
but also a commitment to what we call "radical hospitality" --
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ali takođe i posvećenost onome što zovemo „radikalna gostoljubivost“ -
11:37
not the kind advertised by the Four Seasons,
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ne onakva kakvu reklamira hotel „Četiri godišnja doba“,
11:40
but the kind that says that every single person is worthy of kindness,
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već takvu koja poručuje da je svaka osoba vredna ljubaznosti,
11:46
full stop, end of sentence.
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tačka, kraj rečenice.
11:49
The biggest surprise for me of living in a community like this?
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Šta je za mene najveće iznenađenje vezano za život u ovakvoj zajednici?
11:53
You share all the domestic labor -- the repairing, the cooking, the weeding --
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Delite sve radove u domaćinstvu - popravke, kuvanje, uklanjanje korova,
ali takođe delite emocionalni napor.
11:57
but you also share the emotional labor.
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11:59
Rather than depending only on the idealized family unit
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Umesto da se oslanjate samo na idealizovanu porodičnu jedinicu
12:02
to get all of your emotional needs met,
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da biste zadovoljili sve svoje emocionalne potrebe,
12:04
you have two dozen other people that you can go to
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imate dvadesetak drugih ljudi kod kojih možete otići
12:06
to talk about a hard day at work
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da pričate o napornom danu na poslu
12:08
or troubleshoot how to handle an abusive teacher.
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ili da rešite problem kako da postupite u vezi sa nasilnim nastavnikom.
12:12
Teenagers in our community will often go to an adult that is not their parent
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Tinejdžeri u našoj zajednici često će otići kod odrasle osobe
koja im nije roditelj da zatraži savet.
12:17
to ask for advice.
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12:19
It's what bell hooks called "revolutionary parenting,"
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To je ono što je bel huks nazvala „revolucionarno roditeljstvo“,
12:22
this humble acknowledgment
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to skromno priznanje
12:24
that kids are healthier when they have a wider range of adults
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da su deca zdravija kada imaju širi krug odraslih
12:27
to emulate and count on.
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da ih oponašaju i računaju na njih.
12:30
Turns out, adults are healthier, too.
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Ispostavilo se da su i odrasli zdraviji.
12:33
It's a lot of pressure,
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Mnogo je pritiska
12:35
trying to be that perfect family behind that white picket fence.
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kada pokušavate da budete savršena porodica iza bele drvene ograde.
12:40
The "new better off," as I've come to call it,
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„Novo bolje“, kako sam počela da ga zovem,
12:42
is less about investing in the perfect family
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manje se odnosi na ulaganje u savršenu porodicu,
12:45
and more about investing in the imperfect village,
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a više u ulaganje u nesavršeno selo,
12:49
whether that's relatives living under one roof,
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bilo da su to rođaci koji žive pod jednim krovom,
12:51
a cohousing community like mine,
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stambena zajednica poput moje,
12:53
or just a bunch of neighbors who pledge to really know
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ili samo gomila suseda koji se obavežu da se zaista upoznaju
12:56
and look out for one another.
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i brinu jedni o drugima.
12:58
It's good common sense, right?
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To je zdrav razum, zar ne?
13:00
And yet, money has often made us dumb
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A ipak, novac nas često čini glupim
13:03
about reaching out.
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kada se radi o obraćanju drugima.
13:05
The most reliable wealth
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Najpouzdanije bogatstvo
13:07
is found in relationship.
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nalazi se u vezama.
13:11
The new better off is not an individual prospect at all.
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„Novo bolje“ uopšte ne podrazumevaju pojedinačne izglede za uspeh.
13:15
In fact, if you're a failure or you think you're a failure,
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Zapravo, ako ste neuspešni ili mislite da ste neuspešni,
13:18
I've got some good news for you:
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imam dobre vesti za vas -
13:20
you might be a success by standards you have not yet honored.
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možda ste uspešni po standardima koje još niste ispoštovali.
13:24
Maybe you're a mediocre earner but a masterful father.
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Možda ste prosečni u zarađivanju, ali ste izvanredan otac.
13:28
Maybe you can't afford your dream home,
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Možda ne možete da priuštite kuću svojih snova,
13:30
but you throw legendary neighborhood parties.
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ali priređujete legendarne žurke za komšiluk.
13:34
If you're a textbook success,
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Ako ste školski primer uspeha,
13:36
the implications of what I'm saying could be more grim for you.
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implikacije ovoga što govorim mogle bi biti lošije za vas.
13:40
You might be a failure by standards you hold dear
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Možda ste neuspešni po standardima do kojih vam je stalo,
13:43
but that the world doesn't reward.
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a koje svet ne nagrađuje.
13:46
Only you can know.
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Samo vi to možete znati.
13:49
I know that I am not a tribute
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Ja znam da ne odajem priznanje
13:52
to my great-grandmother,
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svojoj prabaki,
13:54
who lived such a short and brutish life,
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koja je živela tako kratkim i okrutnim životom,
13:56
if I earn enough money to afford every creature comfort.
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ako zaradim dovoljno novca da priuštim svako svetovno zadovoljstvo.
14:00
You can't buy your way out of suffering or into meaning.
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Ne možete kupiti svoj put iz patnje ili do smisla.
14:03
There is no home big enough
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Nema kuće koja je dovoljno velika
14:05
to erase the pain that she must have endured.
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da obriše bol koju mora da je pretpela.
14:09
I am a tribute to her
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Odajem joj počast ako živim životom
14:10
if I live a life as connected and courageous as possible.
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koji je što je više moguće povezan i hrabar.
14:16
In the midst of such widespread uncertainty,
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Usred takve raširene neizvesnosti,
14:19
we may, in fact, be insecure.
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mi zapravo možemo biti nesigurni,
14:22
But we can let that insecurity make us brittle
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ali možemo dozvoliti da nas ta nesigurnost učini slabim
14:25
or supple.
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ili fleksibilnim.
14:26
We can turn inward, lose faith in the power of institutions to change --
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Možemo se povući u sebe, izgubiti veru u moć institucionalne promene,
14:31
even lose faith in ourselves.
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čak i izgubiti veru u sebe,
14:34
Or we can turn outward,
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ili se možemo okrenuti ka spolja,
14:36
cultivate faith in our ability to reach out, to connect, to create.
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negovati veru u našu sposobnost
da se obratimo drugima, povezujemo, stvaramo.
Ispostavilo se da najveća opasnost
14:43
Turns out, the biggest danger
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14:46
is not failing to achieve the American Dream.
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nije neuspeh da se ostvari američki san.
14:49
The biggest danger is achieving a dream
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Najveća opasnost je ostvarenje sna
14:52
that you don't actually believe in.
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u koji ne verujete istinski.
14:55
So don't do that.
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Pa, nemojte to raditi.
14:57
Do the harder, more interesting thing,
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Radite nešto teže i zanimljivije,
14:59
which is to compose a life where what you do every single day,
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a to je da sačinite život gde je ono što radite svakoga dana,
15:03
the people you give your best love and ingenuity and energy to,
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ljudi kojima dajete najviše ljubavi, domišljatosti i energije,
15:07
aligns as closely as possible with what you believe.
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što više moguće u skladu sa onim u šta verujete.
15:11
That, not something as mundane as making money,
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To, a ne nešto prizemno kao što je zarađivanje novca,
15:14
is a tribute to your ancestors.
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predstavlja odavanje počasti vašim precima.
15:16
That is the beautiful struggle.
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To je prelepa borba.
15:20
Thank you.
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Hvala.
15:22
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
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