The new American Dream | Courtney Martin

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Prevoditelj: Tilen Pigac - EFZG Recezent: Ivan Stamenković
Ja sam novinarka,
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I'm a journalist,
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stoga volim neispričane priče,
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so I like to look for the untold stories,
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the lives that quietly play out under the scream of headlines.
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živote koji se tiho odvijaju pod vikom naslova.
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I've also been going about the business of putting down roots,
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Također pratim stvari poput puštanja korijena,
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choosing a partner, making babies.
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odabira partnera, pravljenja djece.
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So for the last few years,
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Posljednjih nekoliko godina,
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I've been trying to understand
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pokušavam razumijeti
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what constitutes the 21st-century good life,
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što to sačinjava dobar život u 21. stoljeću,
zato što sam sam opčinjena moralnim i filozofskim posljedicama
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both because I'm fascinated by the moral and philosophical implications,
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but also because I'm in desperate need of answers myself.
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ali i zato jer sam i sama u očajničkoj potrebi za odgovorima.
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We live in tenuous times.
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Živimo u nesigurnim vremenima.
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In fact, for the first time in American history,
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Zapravo, po prvi puta u američkoj povijesti
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the majority of parents do not think that their kids will be better off
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većina roditelja ne smatra kako će njihovoj djeci biti bolje
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than they were.
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nego njima.
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This is true of rich and poor, men and women.
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To vrijedi za bogate i siromašne, muškarce i žene.
Neki od vas će možda biti tužni kada to čuju.
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Now, some of you might hear this and feel sad.
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After all, America is deeply invested
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Na kraju, Amerika je duboko uključena u
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in this idea of economic transcendence,
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ovu ideju ekonomske transcedencije,
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that every generation kind of leapfrogs the one before it,
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da svaka generacija napreduje u odnosu na prethodnu,
zarađuje više, kupuje više, je više.
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earning more, buying more, being more.
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We've exported this dream all over the world,
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Izvezli smo ovaj san diljem svijeta,
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so kids in Brazil and China and even Kenya
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tako da klinci u Brazilu i Kini i čak Keniji
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inherit our insatiable expectation
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naslijeđuju naše nezasitno očekivanje
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for more.
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prema nečemu više.
Ali kada sam čitala ovu povijesnu anketu prvi puta,
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But when I read this historic poll for the first time,
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nije me rastužila.
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it didn't actually make me feel sad.
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It felt like a provocation.
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Činila se kao provokacija.
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"Better off" -- based on whose standards?
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"Biti bolje" -- na osnovu čijih standarda?
Da li je "biti bolje" naći siguran posao
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Is "better off" finding a secure job
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na koji možeš računati ostatak života?
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that you can count on for the rest of your life?
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Takvi su skoro izumrli.
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Those are nearly extinct.
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People move jobs, on average, every 4.7 years,
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Ljudi mijenjaju posao u prosjeku svakih 4.7 godine,
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and it's estimated that by 2020,
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te je procijenjeno da će do 2020.,
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nearly half of Americans will be freelancers.
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gotovo polovica Amerikanaca raditi honorarno.
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OK, so is better off just a number?
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U redu, da li je "biti bolje" samo broj?
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Is it about earning as much as you possibly can?
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Da li se radi o tome da se zaradi čim više?
Sa tom jednom mjerom, mi gubimo.
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By that singular measurement, we are failing.
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Median per capita income has been flat since about 2000,
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Medijan po glavi dohotka stagnira od otprilike 2000.,
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adjusted for inflation.
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prilagođeno inflaciji.
U redu, da li je "biti bolje" velika kuća sa bijelom ogradom?
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All right, so is better off getting a big house with a white picket fence?
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Less of us are doing that.
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Nearly five million people lost their homes in the Great Recession,
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Sve nas je manje za to.
Skoro 5 milijuna ljudi izgubilo je domove tijekom Velike recesije
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and even more of us sobered up about the lengths we were willing to go --
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a još nas se više otrijeznilo u pogledu dokle smo spremni ići
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or be tricked into going, in many predatory cases --
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ili bivani prevareni kamo idemo, u mnogim slučajevima
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to hold that deed.
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kako bismo imali tu ispravu.
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Home-ownership rates are at their lowest since 1995.
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Razina posjedovanja nekretnine je najniža od 1995.
U redu, nemamo stalno zaposlenje,
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All right, so we're not finding steady employment,
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we're not earning as much money,
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ne zarađujemo puno novca
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and we're not living in big fancy houses.
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i ne živimo u velikim, lijepim kućama.
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Toll the funeral bells
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Pogrebna zvona zvone
za sve što je učinilo Ameriku velikom.
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for everything that made America great.
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Ali,
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But,
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are those the best measurements of a country's greatness,
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jesu li to najbolje mjere veličine neke zemlje,
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of a life well lived?
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dobro življenog života?
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What I think makes America great is its spirit of reinvention.
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Smatram da je ono što čini Ameriku velikom duh re-inovacije.
U osvit Velike recesije,
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In the wake of the Great Recession,
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more and more Americans are redefining what "better off" really means.
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sve više Amerikanaca redefiniraju što znači "biti bolje.
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Turns out, it has more to do with community and creativity
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Ispostavilo se da ima više veze sa zajednicom i kreativnošću,
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than dollars and cents.
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nego sa dolarima i centima.
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Now, let me be very clear:
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Moram biti vrlo jasna:
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the 14.8 percent of Americans living in poverty need money,
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14.8 posto Amerikanaca koji žive u siromaštvu trebaju novac,
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plain and simple.
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jasno i glasno.
Svi mi trebamo politiku koja nas štiti od iskorištavanja
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And all of us need policies that protect us from exploitation
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by employers and financial institutions.
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od strane poslodavaca i financijskih institucija.
Ništa što dolazi ne sugerira da je jaz između bogatih i siromašnih
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Nothing that follows is meant to suggest that the gap between rich and poor
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is anything but profoundly immoral.
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išta drugo nego duboko nemoralan.
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But,
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Ali,
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too often we let the conversation stop there.
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prečesto dozvoljavamo da razgovor stane na tome.
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We talk about poverty as if it were a monolithic experience;
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Pričamo o siromaštvu kao da je monolitsko iskustvo;
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about the poor as if they were solely victims.
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o siromašnima kao da su isključivo žrtve.
Dio onog što sam naučila iz svojih istraživanja i izvještaja
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Part of what I've learned in my research and reporting
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je da je umjetnost dobrog življenja
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is that the art of living well
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is often practiced most masterfully
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često prakticirana do majstorstva
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by the most vulnerable.
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od strane najranjivijih.
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Now, if necessity is the mother of invention,
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Ako je nužda majka izuma,
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I've come to believe
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počela sam vjerovati
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that recession can be the father of consciousness.
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da je recesija otac svjesnosti.
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It confronts us with profound questions,
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Suočava nas sa dubokim pitanjima,
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questions we might be too lazy or distracted to ask
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pitanjima koja smo prelijeni ili prezauzeti pitati
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in times of relative comfort.
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u vremenima relativne udobnosti.
Kako bismo trebali raditi?
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How should we work?
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04:20
How should we live?
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Kako bismo trebali živjeti?
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All of us, whether we realize it or not,
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Svi mi, shvaćali to ili ne,
tražimo odgovore na ova pitanja,
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seek answers to these questions,
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with our ancestors kind of whispering in our ears.
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dok nam naši preci šapuću u uho.
Moj pradjed je bio pijanac u Detroitu,
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My great-grandfather was a drunk in Detroit,
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koji bi ponekad uspio da zadrži posao u tvornici.
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who sometimes managed to hold down a factory job.
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He had, as unbelievable as it might sound,
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Imao je, koliko god to nevjerojatno zvučalo,
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21 children,
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21 dijete,
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with one woman, my great-grandmother,
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sa jednom ženom, mojom prabakom,
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who died at 47 years old of ovarian cancer.
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koja je umrla sa 47 godina od raka jajnika.
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Now, I'm pregnant with my second child,
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Sada, kada sam trudna sa drugim djetetom
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and I cannot even fathom what she must have gone through.
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ne mogu niti zamisliti kroz što je morala proći.
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And if you're trying to do the math -- there were six sets of twins.
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Ako pokušavate izračunati -- radi se o 6 parova blizanaca.
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So my grandfather, their son,
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Moj djed, njihov sin,
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became a traveling salesman,
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postao je putujući prodavač,
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and he lived boom and bust.
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i preživio je i dobro i loše.
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So my dad grew up answering the door for debt collectors
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Moj tata je odrastao otvarajući vrata utjerivačima duga
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and pretending his parents weren't home.
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i praveći se da mu roditelji nisu doma.
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He actually took his braces off himself with pliers in the garage,
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Sam je skinuo zubnu protezu kliještima u garaži,
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when his father admitted he didn't have money
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kada mu je otac priznao da nema novaca
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to go back to the orthodontist.
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da opet idu ortodontu.
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So my dad, unsurprisingly,
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Tako da je moj otac postao, što ne iznenađuje,
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became a bankruptcy lawyer.
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stečajni odvjetnik.
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Couldn't write this in a novel, right?
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Ovo nema niti u romanu, je li?
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He was obsessed with providing a secure foundation
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Bio je opsjednut pružanjem sigurnog temelja
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for my brother and I.
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mojem bratu i meni.
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So I ask these questions by way of a few generations of struggle.
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Stoga pitam ova pitanja zbog nekoliko generacija borbe.
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My parents made sure that I grew up on a kind of steady ground
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Moji roditelji su osigurali da odrastem u sigurnosti
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that allows one to question and risk and leap.
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koja omogućava propitivanje, rizik i skok.
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And ironically, and probably sometimes to their frustration,
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Ironično, i vjerojatno ponekad frustrirajuće za njih,
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it is their steadfast commitment to security
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je da njihovo čvrsto stremljenje ka sigurnosti
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that allows me to question its value,
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meni omogućava propitivanje njene vrijednosti,
ili barem povijesno definirane vrijednosti
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or at least its value as we've historically defined it
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u 21. stoljeću.
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in the 21st century.
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So let's dig into this first question:
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Krenimo sa prvim pitanjem:
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How should we work?
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Kako bismo trebali raditi?
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We should work like our mothers.
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Trebali bismo raditi kao naše majke.
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That's right -- we've spent decades
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Tako je -- proveli smo desetljeća
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trying to fit women into a work world built for company men.
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pokušavajući uklopiti žene u svijet rada namijenjenom muškarcima.
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And many have done backbends to fit in,
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I mnoge su učinile puno da se uklope,
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but others have carved a more unconventional path,
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ali druge su urezale puno neuobičajeniju stazu,
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creating a patchwork of meaning and money
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stvarajući kolaž značenja i novca
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with enough flexibility to do what they need to do
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sa dovoljno fleksibilnosti da naprave ono što moraju
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for those that they love.
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za one koje vole.
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My mom called it "just making it work."
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Moja mama je to zvala: "samo neka se radi."
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Today I hear life coaches call it "a portfolio career."
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Danas to "životni treneri" zovu "portfelj-karijerom."
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Whatever you call it,
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Kako god to zvali,
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more and more men are craving these whole, if not harried, lives.
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sve više muškaraca žudi za ovim cjelovitim i ne ugnjetavanim životima.
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They're waking up to their desire and duty to be present fathers and sons.
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Otvaraju se želji i dužnosti da budu prisutni očevi i sinovi.
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Now, artist Ann Hamilton has said,
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Umjetnica Ann Hamilton je rekla,
"Rad je vrsta znanja."
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"Labor is a way of knowing."
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Labor is a way of knowing.
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Rad je vrsta znanja.
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In other words, what we work on
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Drugim riječima, ono na čemu radimo
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is what we understand about the world.
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je ono što razumijemo o svijetu.
Ako je to istina, a mislim da je,
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If this is true, and I think it is,
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then women who have disproportionately cared for the little ones
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tada žene koje su relativno malo brinule za malene
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and the sick ones and the aging ones,
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i bolesne i za stare,
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have disproportionately benefited
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su se također relativno malo okoristile
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from the most profound kind of knowing there is:
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od najdublje vrste znanja koje postoji:
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knowing the human condition.
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znanja ljudskog uvjetovanja.
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By prioritizing care,
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Čineći skrb prvom,
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men are, in a sense, staking their claim
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muškarci, u neki ruku, tvrde svoje pravo
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to the full range of human existence.
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na puni opseg ljudskog postojanja.
To znači da 9-do-5 više ne odgovara svakome.
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Now, this means the nine-to-five no longer works for anyone.
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07:30
Punch clocks are becoming obsolete, as are career ladders.
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Ukucavanje vremena dolaska je suvišno, a ujedno i karijerni napredak.
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Whole industries are being born and dying every day.
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Čitave industrije se rađaju i nestaju svakoga dana.
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It's all nonlinear from here.
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Od sada nadalje sve je nelinearno.
Stoga moramo prestati pitati djecu,
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So we need to stop asking kids,
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"Što želiš biti kada odrasteš?"
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"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
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and start asking them, "How do you want to be when you grow up?"
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i početi ih pitati, "Kako želiš biti kad odrasteš?"
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Their work will constantly change.
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Njihov posao će biti neprestana promjena.
Zajednički nazivnik su oni.
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The common denominator is them.
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07:51
So the more they understand their gifts
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Što više razumiju svoje darove
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and create crews of ideal collaborators,
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i stvore timove idealnih suradnika,
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the better off they will be.
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tim će im biti bolje.
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The challenge ahead is to reinvent the social safety net
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Izazov je ponovan izum mreže socijalne sigurnosti
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to fit this increasingly fragmented economy.
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koja će uklopiti ovo, sve više podijeljeno društvo.
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We need portable health benefits.
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Trebamo prijenosne zdravstvene povlastice.
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We need policies that reflect that everyone deserves to be vulnerable
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Trebamo politike koje odražavaju svačije pravo na ranjivost
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or care for vulnerable others,
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ili brigu za ranjivost drugih,
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without becoming destitute.
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bez oskudnosti.
Moramo ozbiljno promisliti univerzalni osnovni dohodak.
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We need to seriously consider a universal basic income.
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08:15
We need to reinvent labor organizing.
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Moramo ponovno izumiti organizaciju rada.
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The promise of a work world that is structured to actually fit
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Obećanje svijeta rada koji se može uklopiti
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our 21st century values,
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u vrijednosti 21. stoljeća,
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not some archaic idea about bringing home the bacon,
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ne neka arhaična ideja o "donošenju slanine doma,"
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is long overdue --
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to već dosta kasni --
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just ask your mother.
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samo pitajte svoju majku.
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Now, how about the second question:
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Sada, što sa drugim pitanjem:
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How should we live?
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Kako bismo trebali živjeti?
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We should live
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Trebali bismo živjeti
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like our immigrant ancestors.
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kao naši preci koji su imigrirali.
Kada su došli u Ameriku,
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When they came to America,
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08:42
they often shared apartments, survival tactics, child care --
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često su živjeli u zajedničkim stanovima, preživljavanje, skrb o djeci --
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always knew how to fill one more belly,
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uvijek su znali kako napuniti još jedan trbuh,
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no matter how small the food available.
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bez obzira koliko malo hrane imali.
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But they were told that success meant leaving the village behind
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Ali rečeno im je da uspjeh znači ostaviti selo iza
08:55
and pursuing that iconic symbol of the American Dream,
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i tjerati onaj ikonični uspjeh Američkog Sna,
08:58
the white picket fence.
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bijelu ogradu.
09:00
And even today, we see a white picket fence
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Čak i danas, kada vidimo bijelu ogradu
09:02
and we think success, self-possession.
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pomislimo na uspjeh, samo-vlasništvo.
09:04
But when you strip away the sentimentality,
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Ali kada ogulimo sentimentalnost,
ono što zbilja čini je da nas dijeli.
09:07
what it really does is divides us.
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Mnogi Amerikanci odbijaju bijelu ogradu
09:10
Many Americans are rejecting the white picket fence
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09:12
and the kind of highly privatized life that happened within it,
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i vrstu visoko privatiziranog života koji dolazi s njom
i ponovno prihvaćaju seoski život
09:16
and reclaiming village life,
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09:17
reclaiming interdependence instead.
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i uzajamnu ovisnost.
09:21
Fifty million of us, for example,
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50 milijuna nas, na primjer,
09:22
live in intergenerational households.
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živi u međugeneracijskim kućanstvima.
Ovaj je broj eksplodirao sa Velikom recesijom,
09:26
This number exploded with the Great Recession,
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09:28
but it turns out people actually like living this way.
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ali ispostavilo se da ljudi zapravo vole živjeti ovako.
09:31
Two-thirds of those who are living with multiple generations under one roof
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Dvije trećine onih koji su živjeli sa više generacija pod jednim krovom
09:35
say it's improved their relationships.
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kažu da je to poboljšalo njihove odnose.
Neki ljudi biraju dijeliti domove ne sa obitelji,
09:38
Some people are choosing to share homes not with family,
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09:40
but with other people who understand the health and economic benefits
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nego sa drugim ljudima koji razumiju zdravstvene i ekonomske dobrobiti
09:44
of daily community.
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dnevne zajednice.
CoAbode, online platforma za samohrane majke koje žele dijeliti dom
09:46
CoAbode, an online platform for single moms looking to share homes
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09:49
with other single moms,
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sa drugim samohranim majkama,
ima 50.000 korisnika.
09:51
has 50,000 users.
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09:53
And people over 65 are especially prone
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Ljudi stariji od 65 su posebno skloni
09:56
to be looking for these alternative living arrangements.
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traženju tih alternativnih životnih aranžmana.
Oni razumiju da njihova kvaliteta života
10:00
They understand that their quality of life
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10:02
depends on a mix of solitude and solidarity.
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ovisi o spoju samoće i solidarnosti.
10:07
Which is true of all of us when you think about it,
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Ako promislite, to važi za sve,
10:10
young and old alike.
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mlade i stare podjednako.
10:11
For too long, we've pretended that happiness is a king in his castle.
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Predugo smo se pravili da je sreća biti kralj u dvorcu.
10:16
But all the research proves otherwise.
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Sva istraživanja pokazuju upravo suprotno.
Pokazuju da su najzdraviji, najsretniji, i čak najsigurniji
10:19
It shows that the healthiest, happiest and even safest --
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što se tiče katastrofa klimatskih promjena, kriminala, svega toga
10:22
in terms of both climate change disaster, in terms of crime, all of that --
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Amerikanci koji žive isprepleteni sa svojim susjedima.
10:28
are Americans who live lives intertwined with their neighbors.
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10:32
Now, I've experienced this firsthand.
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Ja sam to iskusila iz prve ruke.
Zadnjih par godina živjela sam u dijeljenoj zajednici.
10:35
For the last few years, I've been living in a cohousing community.
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10:38
It's 1.5 acres of persimmon trees,
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1.5 jutara kaki voćaka,
10:41
this prolific blackberry bush that snakes around a community garden,
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plodno žbunje kupina koje se obavijaju oko zajedničkog vrta, i
10:45
all smack-dab, by the way, in the middle of urban Oakland.
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sve to u centru urbanog Oaklanda.
10:49
The nine units are all built to be different,
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Devet jedinica stvoreno da budu drugačije,
10:51
different sizes, different shapes,
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druge veličine, drugačijih oblika,
10:53
but they're meant to be as green as possible.
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ali da budu zeleni koliko je to moguće.
10:55
So big, shiny black solar cells on our roof
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Velike, blistave solarne ćelije na našem krovu
10:57
mean our electricity bill rarely exceeds
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znače da naš račun za struju rijetko prelazi
10:59
more than five bucks in a month.
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pet dolara mjesečno.
11:01
The 25 of us who live there are all different ages and political persuasions
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25 nas koji žive tamo je različitih dobi i političkih uvjerenja
11:05
and professions,
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i zanimanja,
11:06
and we live in homes that have everything a typical home would have.
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i živimo u domovima koji imaju sve što tipičan dom ima.
Ali dodatno,
11:10
But additionally,
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11:11
we share an industrial-sized kitchen and eating area,
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dijelimo kuhinju industrijske veličine i blagavaonu
11:13
where we have common meals twice a week.
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gdje dva puta tjedno zajedno jedemo.
11:15
Now, people, when I tell them I live like this,
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Kada kažem ljudima da volim ovako živjeti,
često imaju jednu od dvije reakcije.
11:18
often have one of two extreme reactions.
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Ili kažu: "Tko ne bi volio živjeti tako?"
11:20
Either they say, "Why doesn't everyone live like this?"
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11:22
Or they say, "That sounds totally horrifying.
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Ili kažu: "To zvuči potpuno užasavajuće.
11:25
I would never want to do that."
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Ne bih to nikada željela uraditi."
Da vas razuvjerim: postoji sveto poštovanje prema privatnosti među nama
11:27
So let me reassure you: there is a sacred respect for privacy among us,
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11:32
but also a commitment to what we call "radical hospitality" --
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ali i predanost onome što zovemo "radikalna gostoljubivost" --
11:37
not the kind advertised by the Four Seasons,
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ne ona koju oglašavaju Four Seasons,
11:40
but the kind that says that every single person is worthy of kindness,
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nego ona koja kaže da je svaka osoba vrijedna ljubaznosti,
11:46
full stop, end of sentence.
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točka, kraj rečenice.
Meni najveće iznenađenje u zajednici poput ove?
11:49
The biggest surprise for me of living in a community like this?
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11:53
You share all the domestic labor -- the repairing, the cooking, the weeding --
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Dijeljenje kućnog rada -- popravci, kuhanje, pljevljenje --
ali i dijeljenje emocionalnog rada.
11:57
but you also share the emotional labor.
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11:59
Rather than depending only on the idealized family unit
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Umjesto oslanjanja samo na idealiziranu obiteljsku jedinicu
12:02
to get all of your emotional needs met,
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za brigu o svim emocionalnim potrebama,
12:04
you have two dozen other people that you can go to
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imate dva tuceta drugih ljudi kojima možete ići
12:06
to talk about a hard day at work
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pričati o teškom danu na poslu
12:08
or troubleshoot how to handle an abusive teacher.
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ili riješiti problem učitelja koji loše postupa.
Tinejdžeri u našoj zajednici često idu odrasloj osobi koja im nije roditelj
12:12
Teenagers in our community will often go to an adult that is not their parent
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12:17
to ask for advice.
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pitati za savjet.
12:19
It's what bell hooks called "revolutionary parenting,"
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Belle Hooks je to nazvala "revolucionarnim roditeljstvom,"
12:22
this humble acknowledgment
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to skromno priznanje
12:24
that kids are healthier when they have a wider range of adults
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da su djeca zdravija kada imaju širi krug odraslih
12:27
to emulate and count on.
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da emuliraju i računaju na njih.
12:30
Turns out, adults are healthier, too.
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Ispostavilo se da su i odrasli zdraviji.
12:33
It's a lot of pressure,
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Velik je to pritisak,
12:35
trying to be that perfect family behind that white picket fence.
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pokušavati biti ta savršena obitelj iza bijele ograde.
12:40
The "new better off," as I've come to call it,
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"Novo bolje", kako sam to nazvala,
12:42
is less about investing in the perfect family
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je manje o ulaganju u savršenu obitelj
12:45
and more about investing in the imperfect village,
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a više o ulaganju u nesavršeno selo,
bilo da su to rođaci pod jednim krovom,
12:49
whether that's relatives living under one roof,
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12:51
a cohousing community like mine,
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zajednica su-kućanstava poput moje,
12:53
or just a bunch of neighbors who pledge to really know
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ili samo zajednica susjeda koji su odlučili zbilja znati
12:56
and look out for one another.
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i brinuti jedni o drugima.
To je dobar zdrav razum, zar ne?
12:58
It's good common sense, right?
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13:00
And yet, money has often made us dumb
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A ipak, novac nas često čini glupima
13:03
about reaching out.
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kada treba dotaknuti druge.
13:05
The most reliable wealth
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Najpouzdanije bogatstvo
13:07
is found in relationship.
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je u odnosima.
13:11
The new better off is not an individual prospect at all.
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"Nove bolje" uopće ne znači pojedinačni uspjeh.
13:15
In fact, if you're a failure or you think you're a failure,
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Zapravo, ako ste gubitnik ili mislite da ste gubitnik,
13:18
I've got some good news for you:
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imam dobre vijest za vas:
mogli bi biti uspjeh po standardima koje još ne poštujete.
13:20
you might be a success by standards you have not yet honored.
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13:24
Maybe you're a mediocre earner but a masterful father.
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Možda ste samo osrednji privređivač, ali izvrstan otac.
13:28
Maybe you can't afford your dream home,
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Možda si ne možete priuštiti kuću iz snova,
13:30
but you throw legendary neighborhood parties.
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ali možete legendarne zabave u susjedstvu.
13:34
If you're a textbook success,
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Ako ste tip uspjeha po udžbeniku,
13:36
the implications of what I'm saying could be more grim for you.
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implikacije ovoga bi mogle biti sumorne po vas.
13:40
You might be a failure by standards you hold dear
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Mogli biste biti gubitnik po vama bitnim standardima,
13:43
but that the world doesn't reward.
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ali koje svijet ne nagrađuje.
13:46
Only you can know.
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To samo vi možete znati.
13:49
I know that I am not a tribute
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Znam da nisam na počast
13:52
to my great-grandmother,
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svojoj prabaki,
koja je živjela tako kratak i surov život,
13:54
who lived such a short and brutish life,
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13:56
if I earn enough money to afford every creature comfort.
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ako zaradim dosta da si priuštim svaku moguću ugodu.
14:00
You can't buy your way out of suffering or into meaning.
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Ne možete kupiti put iz patnje ili prema značenju.
14:03
There is no home big enough
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Ne postoji dom dovoljno velik
14:05
to erase the pain that she must have endured.
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da izbriše bol koju je ona morala izdržati.
14:09
I am a tribute to her
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Ja joj odajem počast
14:10
if I live a life as connected and courageous as possible.
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ako živim povezan i hrabar život koliko mogu.
14:16
In the midst of such widespread uncertainty,
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Usred toliko rasprostranjene nesigurnosti,
14:19
we may, in fact, be insecure.
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mi zapravo možemo biti nesigurni.
14:22
But we can let that insecurity make us brittle
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Ali nesigurnost nas može učiniti krhkima
14:25
or supple.
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ili gipkima.
14:26
We can turn inward, lose faith in the power of institutions to change --
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Možemo se introvertirati, izgubiti vjeru u promjenu institucija --
14:31
even lose faith in ourselves.
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čak i izgubiti vjeru u same sebe.
14:34
Or we can turn outward,
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Ili se možemo okrenuti na van,
14:36
cultivate faith in our ability to reach out, to connect, to create.
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gojiti vjeru u sposobnost da posegnemo, da se povežemo, da stvaramo.
Ispada da najveća opasnost
14:43
Turns out, the biggest danger
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nije neuspjeh u ostvarenju Američkog Sna.
14:46
is not failing to achieve the American Dream.
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14:49
The biggest danger is achieving a dream
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Najveća opasnost je u ostvarenju sna
u koji zapravo ne vjerujemo.
14:52
that you don't actually believe in.
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14:55
So don't do that.
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Nemojte to raditi.
Napravite težu, zanimljiviju stvar,
14:57
Do the harder, more interesting thing,
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14:59
which is to compose a life where what you do every single day,
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gdje stvarate život u kojem se ono što radite svakoga dana,
15:03
the people you give your best love and ingenuity and energy to,
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ljudi kojima dajete najbolju ljubav, pronicljivost i energiju,
15:07
aligns as closely as possible with what you believe.
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poravnava najviše što je moguće sa onim u što vjerujete.
To, a ne nešto prizemno poput zarađivanja,
15:11
That, not something as mundane as making money,
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15:14
is a tribute to your ancestors.
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je doprinos vašim precima.
15:16
That is the beautiful struggle.
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To je predivna borba.
15:20
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
15:22
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
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