An ER doctor on triaging your "crazy busy" life | Darria Long

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ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุฃุฏู†ุงู‡ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ.

ุงู„ู…ุชุฑุฌู…: mohamed Al-Dose ุงู„ู…ุฏู‚ู‘ู‚: omar idmassaoud
00:13
Raise your hand, and be honest,
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ุงุฑููŽุน ูŠุฏูƒุŒ ูˆูƒู†ู’ ุตุงุฏู‚ู‹ุงุŒ
00:16
if you've used the phrase "crazy busy"
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ุฅุฐุง ู‚ู…ุชูŽ ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ุนุจุงุฑุฉ "ู…ุดุบูˆู„ ุจุฌู†ูˆู†"
00:20
to describe your day, your week, your month.
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ู„ุชุตู ุจู‡ุง ูŠูˆู…ูƒ ุฃูˆ ุฃุณุจูˆุนูƒ ุฃูˆ ุดู‡ุฑูƒ.
00:26
I'm an emergency-room doctor,
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ุฃู†ุง ุทุจูŠุจุฉ ููŠ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆุŒ
00:29
and "crazy busy" is a phrase you will never hear me use.
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ูˆ"ู…ุดุบูˆู„ ุจุฌู†ูˆู†" ู‡ูŠ ุนุจุงุฑุฉ ู„ู† ุชุณู…ุนู†ูŠ ุฃุณุชุฎุฏู…ูู‡ุง ู…ุทู„ู‚ู‹ุง.
00:35
And after today,
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ูˆุจุนุฏ ุงู„ูŠูˆู…ุŒ
00:37
I hope you'll stop using it, too.
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ุฃุชู…ู†ู‘ู‰ ุฃู†ู’ ุชุชูˆู‚ูู’ ุฃู†ุชูŽ ุนู† ุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู…ู‡ุง ุฃูŠุถู‹ุง.
00:41
Here's why you cannot afford to use "crazy"
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ุฅู„ูŠูƒ ุณุจุจ ุนุฏู… ู‚ุฏุฑุชูƒ ุนู„ู‰ ุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ูƒู„ู…ุฉ "ุจุฌู†ูˆู†"
00:45
to describe your busy.
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ู„ุชุตู ุจู‡ุง ุงู†ุดุบุงู„ูƒ.
00:47
Because when we are in what I refer to as Crazy Busy Mode,
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ู„ุฃู†ู†ุง ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ู†ูƒูˆู† ููŠู…ุง ุฃุฏุนูˆู‡ ุจูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงู†ุดุบุงู„ ุจุฌู†ูˆู†ุŒ
00:51
we are simply less capable of handling the busy.
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ู†ูƒูˆู† ุจุจุณุงุทุฉ ุฃู‚ู„ ู‚ุฏุฑุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุชุนุงู…ู„ ู…ุน ุงู„ุงู†ุดุบุงู„.
00:56
Here's what happens.
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ุฅู„ูŠูƒ ู…ุง ูŠุญุฏุซ.
00:58
Your stress hormones rise and stay there,
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ุชุฑุชูุน ู‡ุฑู…ูˆู†ุงุช ุงู„ุชูˆุชุฑ ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ูˆุชุจู‚ู‰ ู‡ู†ุงูƒุŒ
01:00
your executive function in the prefrontal cortex declines.
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ุชู†ุฎูุถ ุงู„ูˆุธูŠูุฉ ุงู„ุชู†ููŠุฐูŠุฉ ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ููŠ ู‚ุดุฑุฉ ุงู„ูุต ุงู„ุฌุจู‡ูŠ.
01:04
That means your memory, your judgment, your impulse control deteriorate,
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ู…ู…ุง ูŠุนู†ูŠ ุชุฏู‡ูˆุฑ ุฐุงูƒุฑุชูƒ ูˆู‚ุฑุงุฑุงุชูƒ ูˆู‚ุฏุฑุชูƒ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุณูŠุทุฑุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุงู†ุฏูุงุน
01:07
and the brain areas for anger and anxiety are activated.
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ูˆุชุชู†ุดู‘ุท ู…ู†ุงุทู‚ ุงู„ุฏู…ุงุบ ุงู„ู…ุณุคูˆู„ุฉ ุนู† ุงู„ุบุถุจ ูˆุงู„ู‚ู„ู‚.
01:12
Do you feel that?
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ู‡ู„ ุชุดุนุฑ ุจุฐู„ูƒุŸ
01:15
Here's the thing.
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ุฅู„ูŠูƒ ุงู„ุญู‚ูŠู‚ุฉ.
01:17
You can be as busy as an emergency department
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ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุฃู† ุชูƒูˆู† ู…ุดุบูˆู„ู‹ุง ู…ุซู„ ู‚ุณู… ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆ
01:20
without feeling like you're crazy busy.
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ุจุฏูˆู† ุฃู† ุชุดุนุฑ ุฃู†ู‘ูƒ ู…ุดุบูˆู„ ุจุฌู†ูˆู†.
01:25
How?
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ูƒูŠูุŸ
01:26
By using the same tactics that we use.
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ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ู†ูุณ ุงู„ุทู‘ูุฑูู‚ ุงู„ุชูŠ ู†ุณุชุฎุฏู…ู‡ุง.
01:28
Our brains all process stress in similar fundamental ways.
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ุชุนุงู„ุฌู ุนู‚ูˆู„ู†ุง ุงู„ุชูˆุชู‘ุฑ ุจุทุฑู‚ู ุฃุณุงุณูŠู‘ุฉ ู…ุชู…ุงุซู„ุฉ.
01:32
But how we react to it
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ูŽ ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุงุณุชุฌุงุจุชู†ุง ู„ู‡
01:34
has been shown by research to be modifiable,
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ู‚ุงุจู„ุฉ ู„ู„ุชุนุฏูŠู„ ุจุญุณุจ ู…ุง ุฃุซุจุชุชู‡ ุงู„ุฃุจุญุงุซุŒ
01:37
whether it's emergencies or just daily, day-in, day-out stress.
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ุณูˆุงุก ูƒุงู†ุช ุญุงู„ุงุช ุทุงุฑุฆุฉ ุฃูˆ ู…ุฌุฑุฏ ุถุบุท ูŠูˆู…ูŠ.
01:42
Now contrast Crazy Busy Mode
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ุงู„ุขู† ู‚ุงุฑู†ู’ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงู†ุดุบุงู„ ุจุฌู†ูˆู†
01:45
with how I think of us in the ER -- Ready Mode.
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ุจุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุชููƒูŠุฑู†ุง ููŠ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆ -- ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏ.
01:49
Ready Mode means whatever comes in through those doors,
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ูŠุนู†ูŠ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏ ุฃู†ู‘ูŽ ุฃูŠ ุดูŠุก ูŠุฃุชูŠ ู…ู† ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ุฃุจูˆุงุจุŒ
01:52
whether it's a multiple-car pileup,
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ุณูˆุงุก ูƒุงู† ุงุตุทุฏุงู… ุฃูƒุซุฑ ู…ู† ุณูŠู‘ุงุฑุชูŠู†ุŒ
01:53
or a patient having chest pain while stuck in an elevator,
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ุฃูˆ ู…ุฑูŠุถ ูŠุนุงู†ูŠ ู…ู† ุฃู„ู…ู ููŠ ุงู„ุตุฏุฑ ูˆู‡ูˆ ุนุงู„ู‚ูŒ ููŠ ุงู„ู…ุตุนุฏุŒ
01:57
or another patient with an item stuck where it shouldn't be.
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ุฃูˆ ู…ุฑูŠุถ ุขุฎุฑ ู„ุฏูŠู‡ ุดูŠุก ุนุงู„ู‚ ููŠ ู…ูƒุงู† ู„ุง ูŠุฌุจ ุฃู† ูŠูƒูˆู† ููŠู‡.
02:02
When you're know you're dying to ask.
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ุฃุนู„ู… ุฃู†ู‘ูƒู… ุชุชููˆู’ู‚ูˆู† ู„ุฃู†ู’ ุชุณุฃู„ูˆุง.
02:05
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
02:06
Even on those days when you would swear you were being punked,
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ุญุชู‰ ููŠ ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ุฃูŠู‘ุงู… ุงู„ุชูŠ ูƒู†ุช ู„ุชู‚ุณู… ููŠู‡ุง ุฃู†ู‘ูƒ ูƒู†ุชูŽ ุชุชุนุฑู‘ุถ ู„ู„ุฅู‡ุงู†ุฉุŒ
02:11
we're not afraid of it.
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ู„ุณู†ุง ุฎุงุฆููŠู† ู…ู† ุฐู„ูƒ.
02:14
Because we know that whatever comes in through those ER double doors,
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ู„ุฃู†ู†ุง ู†ุนู„ู… ุฃู†ู‘ูŽ ุฃูŠ ุดูŠุก ูŠุฃุชูŠ ู…ู† ุฎู„ุงู„ ุฃุจูˆุงุจ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆ ุงู„ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌุฉ ุชู„ูƒุŒ
02:18
that we can handle it.
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ู†ุณุชุทูŠุน ุงู„ุชุนุงู…ู„ ู…ุนู‡.
02:20
That we're ready.
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ู†ุญู† ุฌุงู‡ุฒูˆู†.
02:21
That's Ready Mode.
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ู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏ.
02:24
We've trained for it,
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ู„ู‚ุฏ ุชุฏุฑู‘ุจู†ุง ุนู„ูŠู‡ุŒ
02:26
and you can, too.
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ูˆุฃู†ุชูŽ ุชุณุชุทูŠุน ุฐู„ูƒ ุฃูŠุถู‹ุง.
02:29
Here's how.
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ุฅู„ูŠูƒูŽ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ.
02:30
Step one to go from Crazy Mode to Ready Mode
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ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ู„ุชู†ุชู‚ู„ ู…ู† ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงู†ุดุบุงู„ ุจุฌู†ูˆู† ุฅู„ู‰ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏ
02:32
is to relentlessly triage.
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ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ูุฑู’ุฒ ุจุดูƒู„ ู…ุณุชู…ุฑ.
02:35
In Crazy Mode, you're always busy, always stressed,
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ููŠ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู†ุŒ ุชูƒูˆู† ุฏุงุฆู…ู‹ุง ู…ุดุบูˆู„ู‹ุง ูˆู…ุถุบูˆุทู‹ุงุŒ
02:37
because you're reacting to every challenge with the same response.
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ู„ุฃู†ูƒ ุชุชุฌุงูˆุจ ู…ุน ูƒู„ ุชุญุฏู‘ูŠ ุจู†ูุณ ุงู„ุงุณุชุฌุงุจุฉ.
02:42
Contrast that with Ready Mode,
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ุนู„ู‰ ุนูƒุณ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏุŒ
02:44
where we triage,
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ุญูŠุซู ู†ู‚ูˆู… ุจุงู„ูุฑู’ุฒุŒ
02:46
which means we prioritize by degree of urgency.
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ู…ู…ู‘ุง ูŠุนู†ูŠ ุฃู†ู†ุง ู†ุนุทูŠ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ูˆูŠู‘ุฉ ุญุณุจ ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฌุงู„.
02:50
This isn't just a nice way to get your to-do list done.
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ู‡ุฐู‡ ู„ูŠุณุช ูู‚ุท ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุฌูŠู‘ุฏุฉ ู„ุฅู†ุฌุงุฒ ู‚ุงุฆู…ุฉ ู…ู‡ุงู…ูƒ.
02:53
Work by Dr. Robert Sapolsky
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ุนูŽู…ูŽู„ู ุงู„ุฏูƒุชูˆุฑ ุฑูˆุจุฑุช ุณุงุจูˆู„ุณูƒูŠ
02:55
shows that individuals who cannot differentiate threat from non-threat
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ูŠุธู‡ุฑ ุฃู†ูŽู‘ ุงู„ุฃุดุฎุงุต ุงู„ุฐูŠู† ู„ุง ูŠุณุชุทูŠุนูˆู† ุงู„ุชูุฑูŠู‚ ุจูŠู† ุงู„ุชู‡ุฏูŠุฏ ูˆุนุฏู… ุงู„ุชู‡ุฏูŠุฏ
02:59
and react to everything with the same response
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ูˆูŠุชูุงุนู„ูˆู† ู…ุน ูƒู„ ุดูŠุก ุจู†ูุณ ุงู„ุงุณุชุฌุงุจุฉ
03:02
have double the level of stress hormones.
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ู‚ุฏ ุถุงุนููˆุง ู…ุณุชูˆู‰ ู‡ุฑู…ูˆู†ุงุช ุงู„ุชูˆุชุฑ.
03:05
Which is why this is the first skill to learn.
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุณุจุจ ููŠ ุฃู†ู‘ ู‡ุฐู‡ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ู…ู‡ุงุฑุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุฌุจ ุชุนู„ู‘ู…ู‡ุง.
03:08
You can't take care of them all at once,
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ู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุงู„ุชุนุงู…ู„ ู…ุนู‡ู… ุฌู…ูŠุนู‹ุง ู…ุฑู‘ุฉ ูˆุงุญุฏุฉุŒ
03:10
but you don't have to.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ูƒ ุบูŠุฑ ู…ุฌุจุฑ ุนู„ู‰ ุฐู„ูƒ.
03:11
Because we triage.
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ู„ุฃู†ู‘ู†ุง ู†ู‚ูˆู… ุจุงู„ูุฑุฒ.
03:13
Red -- immediately life-threatening.
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ุงู„ุฃุญู…ุฑ-- ูŠุดูƒู‘ู„ ุชู‡ุฏูŠุฏู‹ุง ู…ุจุงุดุฑู‹ุง ู„ู„ุญูŠุงุฉ.
03:15
Yellow -- serious, but not immediately life-threatening.
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ุงู„ุฃุตูุฑ-- ุฎุทูŠุฑุŒ ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ู‡ ู„ุง ูŠุดูƒู„ ุชู‡ุฏูŠุฏู‹ุง ู…ุจุงุดุฑู‹ุง ู„ู„ุญูŠุงุฉ.
03:19
Green -- minor.
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ุงู„ุฃุฎุถุฑ-- ุบูŠุฑ ุฎุทูŠุฑ.
03:21
And we focus our efforts first on the reds.
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ูˆู†ุญู†ู ู†ุฑูƒู‘ุฒ ุฌู‡ูˆุฏู†ุง ุฃูˆู„ู‹ุง ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุญูู…ูุฑ.
03:25
Now hear this.
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ุงู„ุขู† ุงุณุชู…ุนู’ ุฅู„ู‰ ู‡ุฐุง.
03:27
Part of the problem in Crazy Mode
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ุฌุฒุก ู…ู† ุงู„ู…ุดูƒู„ุฉ ููŠ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู†
03:29
is that you are reacting to everything
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ู‡ูˆ ุฃู†ู‘ูƒ ุชุชูุงุนู„ ู…ุน ูƒู„ ุดูŠุก
03:32
as if it is red.
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ูƒู…ุง ู„ูˆ ูƒุงู† ุฃุญู…ุฑู‹ุง.
03:36
So start by triaging correctly.
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ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุงุจุฏุฃ ุจุงู„ูุฑุฒ ุจุดูƒู„ ุตุญูŠุญ.
03:40
Know your reds.
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ุชุนุฑู‘ูู’ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฃุดูŠุงุก ุงู„ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉ ู„ุฏูŠูƒ.
03:42
They're what is most important and where you can most move the needle.
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ุฅู†ู‘ู‡ุง ุงู„ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุฃู‡ู…ูŠุฉ ุญูŠุซ ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุชุญุฑูŠูƒ ุงู„ุฅุจุฑุฉ.
03:46
Now it's easy to be confused by noise,
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ุงู„ุขู† ู…ู† ุงู„ุณู‡ู„ ุฃู† ุชุชุดูˆู‘ุด ุจุณุจุจ ุงู„ุถูˆุถุงุกุŒ
03:49
but what it noisiest is not always what is most red.
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ุงู„ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุตุฎุจู‹ุง ู„ูŠุณ ุฏุงุฆู…ู‹ุง ุงู„ุฃูƒุซุฑ ุฎุทูˆุฑุฉ.
03:53
In fact, my severe asthmatic patient is most at risk when he's quiet.
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ููŠ ุงู„ุญู‚ูŠู‚ุฉุŒ ู…ุฑูŠุถูŠ ุงู„ู…ุชุฃุฒู‘ู… ุจุงู„ุฑู‘ุจูˆ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุจุฃูƒุซุฑ ูˆุถุน ุฎุทูŠุฑ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูŠูƒูˆู† ู‡ุงุฏุฆู‹ุง.
04:00
But my patient over here, demanding that I bring her flavored coffee creamer,
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู’ ู…ุฑูŠุถุชูŠ ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุชุทู„ุจู ุฃู†ู’ ุฃุฌู„ุจ ู„ู‡ุง ู…ุจูŠู‘ุถ ุงู„ู‚ู‡ูˆุฉ ุงู„ู…ู†ูƒู‘ู‡ุŒ
04:04
she's noisy, but she's not red.
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ุฅู†ู‘ู‡ุง ูƒุซูŠุฑุฉ ุงู„ุตู‘ุฎุจุŒ ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ูŽ ุฐู„ูƒ ุบูŠุฑ ุฎุทูŠุฑ.
04:08
I'll give you an example from my own life.
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ุณุฃุนุทูŠูƒู… ู…ุซุงู„ู‹ุง ู…ู† ุญูŠุงุชูŠ ุงู„ุดู‘ุฎุตูŠู‘ุฉ.
04:10
Last spring, my house flooded,
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ููŠ ุงู„ุฑู‘ุจูŠุน ุงู„ู…ุงุถูŠุŒ ุงู†ุบู…ุฑ ู…ู†ุฒู„ูŠ ุจุงู„ู…ุงุกุŒ
04:12
my one-year-old was in the ER,
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ูƒุงู† ุงุจู†ูŠ ุฐูˆ ุงู„ุณู†ุฉ ุงู„ูˆุงุญุฏุฉ ููŠ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆุŒ
04:14
I was supposed to do a fundraiser for my four-year-old's school
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ูƒุงู† ู…ู† ุงู„ู…ูุชุฑุถ ุฃู†ู’ ุฃู‚ูˆู… ุจุฌู…ุน ุชุจุฑู‘ุนุงุช ู„ู…ุฏุฑุณุฉ ุงุจู†ูŠ ุฐูˆ ุงู„ุฃุฑุจุน ุณู†ูˆุงุช
04:17
and the final chapter of my book was beyond late.
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ูˆุชุฃุฎู‘ุฑุชู ูƒุซูŠุฑู‹ุง ููŠ ุฅู†ู‡ุงุก ุงู„ูุตู„ ุงู„ุฃุฎูŠุฑ ู…ู† ูƒุชุงุจูŠ.
04:23
Maybe not ironically, that was the chapter on stress.
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ูˆูŠุง ู„ูŽู‡ุง ู…ู† ู…ูุงุฑู‚ุฉุŒ ุญูŠุซ ูƒุงู† ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ูุตู„ ูŠุชุญุฏู‘ุซ ุนู† ุงู„ุชู‘ูˆุชุฑ.
04:26
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
04:29
My red tasks were getting my one-year-old better
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ูƒุงู†ุช ู…ู‡ุงู…ูŠ ุงู„ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉ ู‡ูŠ ุดูุงุก ุงุจู†ูŠ ุฐูŠ ุงู„ุนุงู… ุงู„ูˆุงุญุฏ
04:32
and finishing my book.
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ูˆุฅู†ู‡ุงุก ูƒุชุงุจูŠ.
04:34
That was it.
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ู‡ูƒุฐุง ุชุตุฑู‘ูุชู.
04:35
Remember, relentlessly triage.
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ุชุฐูƒู‘ุฑุŒ ุงู„ูุฑุฒ ุจุงุณุชู…ุฑุงุฑ.
04:38
The house flood repair?
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ู…ุงุฐุง ุนู† ุฅุตู„ุงุญ ููŠุถุงู† ุงู„ู…ู†ุฒู„ุŸ
04:40
Well, once we had stopped and stabilized the damage,
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ุญุงู„ู…ุง ู‚ู…ู†ุง ุจุฅูŠู‚ุงู ูˆู…ุนุงูŠุฑุฉ ุงู„ุถู‘ุฑุฑุŒ
04:44
it was no longer a red.
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ู„ู… ูŠุนุฏ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ุฎุทูŠุฑู‹ุง.
04:46
It felt red,
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ูƒุงู† ูŠุจุฏูˆ ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ุฎุทูŠุฑุŒ
04:47
but it was in fact just noise.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ู‡ ูƒุงู† ููŠ ุงู„ุญู‚ูŠู‚ุฉ ุถุฌู‘ุฉ ูู‚ุท.
04:50
No, no really, it was quite noisy,
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ู„ุงุŒ ู„ุง ุญู‚ู‘ู‹ุงุŒ ูƒุงู† ู…ุฒุนุฌู‹ุง ู„ู„ุบุงูŠุฉุŒ
04:52
this picture on the far right is me wearing earplugs
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ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุตู‘ูˆุฑุฉ ููŠ ุฃู‚ุตู‰ ุงู„ูŠู…ูŠู† ุชุธู‡ุฑู†ูŠ ูˆุฃู†ุง ุฃุฑุชุฏูŠ ุณุฏู‘ุงุฏุงุช ุงู„ุฃุฐู†
04:55
to focus on my book,
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ู„ุฃุฑูƒู‘ุฒ ุนู„ู‰ ูƒุชุงุจูŠุŒ
04:56
while the floor is being mechanically dried around me.
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ููŠ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ุงู„ู‘ุฐูŠ ูƒุงู†ุช ููŠู‡ ุงู„ุฃุฑุถูŠู‘ุฉ ุชุฌูู‘ู ุจุดูƒู„ ุขู„ูŠ ุญูˆู„ูŠ.
05:00
Know your reds,
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ุงุนุฑู ุฃู…ูˆุฑูƒ ุงู„ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉุŒ
05:02
and do not let your non-reds distract you from them.
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ูˆู„ุง ุชุฏุน ุฃู…ูˆุฑูƒ ุบูŠุฑ ุงู„ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉ ุชุญุฑููƒ ุนู†ู‡ู….
05:06
By the way, it is liberating with a green task
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ุจุงู„ู…ู†ุงุณุจุฉุŒ ุฅู†ู‘ู‡ุง ุชุญุฑู‘ุฑ ู…ุน ู…ู‡ู…ู‘ุฉ ุบูŠุฑ ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉ
05:09
to, every once in a while, be able to remind yourself,
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ู„ุชุณุชุทูŠุน ุชุฐูƒูŠุฑ ู†ูุณูŽูƒ -ุจูŠู† ุงู„ููŠู†ุฉ ูˆุงู„ุฃุฎุฑู‰-
05:12
"That's a green task. No one's going to die."
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"ู‡ุฐู‡ ู„ูŠุณุช ู…ู‡ู…ุฉ ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉ. ู„ู† ูŠู…ูˆุช ุฃุญุฏ"
05:15
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
05:16
It's OK if it's not perfect.
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ู„ุง ุจุฃุณ ุฅุฐุง ู„ู… ุชูƒู† ู…ุซุงู„ูŠู‘ุฉ.
05:22
Now there's one last triage level that we use in the worst scenarios.
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ุงู„ุขู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ูุฑู’ุฒ ุฃุฎูŠุฑุฉ ู†ุณุชุฎุฏู…ู‡ุง ููŠ ุฃุณูˆุฃ ุงู„ุญุงู„ุงุช.
05:26
And that is black.
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ูˆู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุฃุณูˆุฏ.
05:28
Those patients for whom there is nothing we can do.
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ู‡ุคู„ุงุก ู‡ู… ุงู„ู…ุฑุถู‰ ุงู„ู‘ุฐูŠู† ู„ุง ู†ุณุชูŠุทุน ูุนู„ ุดูŠุก ุญูŠุงู„ู‡ู….
05:33
Where we must move on.
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ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุญูŠุซ ูŠุฌุจ ุฃู†ู’ ู†ู…ุถูŠ ู‚ูุฏูู…ู‹ุง.
05:36
And although it is gut-wrenching,
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ูˆุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฑู‘ุบู… ู…ู† ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ุฃู…ุฑูŒ ู…ุคู„ู…ุŒ
05:38
I mention it,
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ุณุฃู‚ูˆู„ ุฐู„ูƒุŒ
05:39
because you each have your own equivalent black tasks in your life.
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ู„ุฃู†ู‘ ูƒู„ ูˆุงุญุฏ ู…ู†ูƒู… ู„ุฏูŠู‡ ู…ู‡ุงู… ุณูˆุฏุงุก ู…ู…ุงุซู„ุฉ ููŠ ุญูŠุงุชู‡.
05:44
These are items that you must take off your list.
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ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ุฃู…ูˆุฑ ุงู„ู‘ุชูŠ ูŠุฌุจ ุฃู†ู’ ุชุฒูŠู„ู‡ุง ู…ู† ู‚ุงุฆู…ุชูƒ.
05:48
And I think many of you know what I'm talking about.
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ูˆุฃุนุชู‚ุฏู ุฃู†ู‘ูŽ ูƒุซูŠุฑู‹ุง ู…ู†ูƒู… ูŠุนุฑู ุนู† ู…ุงุฐุง ุฃุชุญุฏู‘ุซ.
05:51
For me, this was the fundraiser.
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ุจุงู„ู†ุณุจุฉ ู„ูŠุŒ ูƒุงู† ุฐู„ูƒ ู‡ูˆ ุฌู…ุน ุงู„ุชุจุฑุนุงุช.
05:54
I had to step down.
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ูƒุงู† ุนู„ูŠู‘ ุฃู†ู’ ุฃุชุฎู„ู‘ู‰ ุนู† ุฐู„ูƒ.
05:56
Because as we in the ER know,
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ู„ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ูƒู…ุง ู†ุนู„ู… ู†ุญู† ููŠ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆุŒ
05:58
if you try to do everything,
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ุฅุฐุง ุญุงูˆู„ุชูŽ ุงู„ู‚ูŠุงู… ุจูƒู„ ุดูŠุกุŒ
06:00
you have no hope of saving your reds.
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ูู„ูŠุณ ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ุฃู…ู„ ุจุฅู†ู‚ุงุฐ ู…ู‡ุงู…ูƒ ุงู„ุฎุทูŠุฑุฉ.
06:05
Step two to go from Crazy Mode into Ready Mode
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ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ููŠ ุงู„ุงู†ุชู‚ุงู„ ู…ู† ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู† ุฅู„ู‰ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏ
06:09
is to expect and design for crazy.
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ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุชูˆู‚ู‘ุน ูˆุงู„ุชุฎุทูŠุท ู„ู„ุฌู†ูˆู†.
06:13
Half of handling crazy is how you prepare for it.
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ู†ุตู ู…ุนุงู„ุฌุฉ ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู† ูŠุฃุชูŠ ู…ู† ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ ุชุญุถูŠุฑูƒ ู„ู‡.
06:17
So if step one we triage,
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ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ู‡ูŠ ุงู„ูุฑุฒุŒ
06:19
step two, we design to make those tasks easier to do.
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ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ู‡ูŠ ุฃู†ู’ ู†ุฎุทู‘ุท ู„ุฌุนู„ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู…ู‡ุงู… ุฃุณู‡ู„.
06:23
Science shows us that the more options we have,
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ูŠุธู‡ุฑู ุงู„ุนู„ู… ู„ู†ุง ุจุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ูƒู„ู…ุง ุงุฒุฏุงุฏุช ุงู„ุฎูŠุงุฑุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ุจุญูˆุฒุชู†ุงุŒ
06:26
then the longer each decision takes.
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ูƒู„ู‘ู…ุง ุงุฒุฏุงุฏุช ูุชุฑุฉ ุงุชุฎุงุฐู†ุง ู„ู„ู‚ุฑุงุฑ.
06:28
And the more decisions we have to make, the more exhausted our brain gets
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ูˆูƒู„ู…ุง ุงุฒุฏุงุฏุช ุงู„ู‚ุฑุงุฑุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุฌุจ ุฃู†ู’ ู†ุชุฎุฐู‡ุงุŒ ูƒู„ู…ุง ุฃูุฑู‡ูู‚ูŽุช ุนู‚ูˆู„ู†ุง ุฃูƒุซุฑ
06:32
and the less it is capable of making good decisions.
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ูˆูƒู„ู‘ู…ุง ุงู†ุฎูุถุชู’ ู‚ุฏุฑุชู†ุง ุนู„ู‰ ุงุชุฎุงุฐ ู‚ุฑุงุฑุงุช ุฌูŠู‘ุฏุฉ.
06:35
Which is why this step two
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ูˆู‡ูˆ ุงู„ุณุจุจ ููŠ ูƒูˆู† ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ู‡ุฐู‡
06:37
is about finding ways to reduce your daily decisions.
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ุชุชู…ุญูˆุฑ ุญูˆู„ ุฅูŠุฌุงุฏ ุทุฑู‚ ู„ู„ุชู‚ู„ูŠู„ ู…ู† ุงู„ู‚ุฑุงุฑุงุช ุงู„ูŠูˆู…ูŠู‘ุฉ.
06:41
Here are four easy examples you can use in your daily lifestyle.
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ุฅู„ูŠูƒู… ุฃุฑุจุนุฉ ุฃู…ุซู„ุฉ ุณู‡ู„ุฉ ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒู… ุงุณุชุนู…ุงู„ู‡ุง ููŠ ู†ู…ุท ุญูŠุงุชูƒู… ุงู„ูŠูˆู…ูŠ.
06:45
Plan.
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ุฎุทู‘ุทู’.
06:47
Plan your entire week's meals on the weekend,
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ุฎุทู‘ุทู’ ู„ูˆุฌุจุงุช ุงู„ุฃุณุจูˆุน ูƒู„ู‘ู‡ุง ููŠ ู†ู‡ุงูŠุฉ ุงู„ุฃุณุจูˆุนุŒ
06:49
so that when it's Wednesday at 6pm
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ู„ุฐุง ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูŠุญูŠู† ูŠูˆู… ุงู„ุฃุฑุจุนุงุก ูˆุงู„ุณุงุนุฉ 6 ู…ุณุงุก
06:51
and everyone's hangry and requesting pizza,
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ูˆุงู„ุฌู…ูŠุน ุฌุงุฆุน ูˆูŠุทู„ุจ ุงู„ุจูŠุชุฒุงุŒ
06:54
you have no decisions to make to get a healthy meal on the table.
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ูุฅู†ู‘ูƒ ุชู‚ูˆู… ุจุฅุนุฏุงุฏ ุทุจู‚ ุตุญูŠ ู…ู† ุฏูˆู† ุฃู†ู’ ุชุชุฎุฐ ุฃูŠ ู‚ุฑุงุฑ.
06:59
Automate.
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ุงุนู…ู„ ุฃูˆุชูˆู…ุงุชูŠูƒูŠู‘ู‹ุง.
07:00
Never leave anything to remember that you could automate,
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ู„ุง ุชุชุฑูƒ ุฃูŠ ุดูŠุก ู„ุชุชุฐูƒู‘ุฑู‡ ุฅุฐุง ูƒู†ุชูŽ ุชุณุชุทูŠุน ุนู…ู„ู‡ ุฃูˆุชูˆู…ุงุชูŠูƒูŠู‘ูŽุงุŒ
07:04
whether it's scheduling it as recurring or saved list, or recurrent purchases.
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ุณูˆุงุก ุฃูƒุงู† ุฌุฏูˆู„ุฉ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ุนู…ู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ู…ุชูƒุฑู‘ุฑ ุฃูˆ ู‚ุงุฆู…ุฉ ู…ุญููˆุธุฉ ุฃูˆ ู…ุดุชุฑูŠุงุช ู…ุชูƒุฑู‘ุฑุฉ.
07:09
Colocate.
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ู†ุธู‘ู…ู’.
07:11
When it comes to exercise,
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูŠุชุนู„ู‘ู‚ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ ุจุงู„ุฑู‘ูŠุงุถุฉุŒ
07:12
store all the equipment that you need for a certain activity together,
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ุฌู…ู‘ุนู’ ูƒู„ ุงู„ุฃุฏูˆุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุญุชุงุฌู‡ุง ู„ู†ุดุงุทู ู…ุนูŠู‘ู† ู…ุนู‹ุงุŒ
07:16
charged and ready,
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ุงุดุญู†ู‡ุง ูˆุฌู‡ู‘ุฒู‡ุงุŒ
07:17
so you don't spend energy looking for it.
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ูƒูŠ ู„ุง ุชู‡ุฏุฑ ุทุงู‚ุชูƒ ูˆุฃู†ุช ุชุจุญุซ ุนู†ู‡ุง.
07:20
And decrease temptations,
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ูˆู‚ู„ู‘ู„ู’ ู…ู† ุงู„ุฅุบุฑุงุกุงุชุŒ
07:23
for anyone driven by sugar cravings.
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ู„ุฃูŠ ุดุฎุต ูŠุนุดู‚ ุงู„ุณูƒู‘ุฑ.
07:26
Anyone?
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ู‡ู„ ู…ู† ุฃุญุฏุŸ
07:27
Say aye, go ahead.
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ู‚ู„ ู†ุนู… ูˆู„ุง ุชุฎูŽูู’.
07:29
That itself is its own form of Crazy Mode
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ู‡ุฐุง ุจุญุฏ ุฐุงุชู‡ ุดูƒู„ ุฎุงุต ู„ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู†
07:31
and self-medication for Crazy Mode,
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ูˆุชุทุจูŠุจ ุฐุงุชูŠ ู„ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู†ุŒ
07:34
but stop working your willpower.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู’ ุชูˆู‚ู‘ู ุนู† ุงุณุชู†ูุงุฏ ุฅุฑุงุฏุชูƒ.
07:37
Design differently.
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ุฎุทู‘ุทู’ ุจุดูƒู„ ู…ุฎุชู„ู.
07:39
If a food is out of immediate reach,
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ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุทุนุงู… ููŠ ุบูŠุฑ ู…ุชู†ุงูˆู„ ุงู„ูŠุฏุŒ
07:41
such that you have to use a stool to reach it,
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ุจุญูŠุซ ูŠุฌุจ ุนู„ูŠูƒ ุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ูƒุฑุณูŠ ุญุชู‰ ุชุตู„ ุฅู„ูŠู‡ุŒ
07:44
even when it's chocolate,
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ุญุชู‰ ู„ูˆ ูƒุงู† ุดูˆูƒูˆู„ุงุชุฉุŒ
07:47
study participants ate 70 percent less without thinking about it.
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ุฃูƒู„ูŽ ุงู„ู…ุดุงุฑูƒูˆู† ููŠ ุฏุฑุงุณุฉ 70% ุฃู‚ู„ ู…ู† ุฏูˆู† ุงู„ุชููƒูŠุฑ ุจุฐู„ูƒ.
07:53
I know.
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ุฃู†ุง ุฃุนู„ู… ุฐู„ูƒ.
07:54
Let that sit for a second.
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ุฎุฏูˆุง ุซุงู†ูŠุฉ ู„ุงุณุชูŠุนุงุจ ุงู„ุฃู…ุฑ.
07:55
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
07:57
Design to make the choices you wish to make easier.
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ุฎุทู‘ุทู’ ูƒูŠ ุชุฌุนู„ ุงู„ุฎูŠุงุฑุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชูˆุฏ ุงุชุฎุงุฐู‡ุง ุฃุณู‡ู„.
08:02
Which bring us to the third step to go from Crazy Mode to Ready Mode,
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ูˆู‡ุฐุง ูŠู‚ูˆุฏู†ุง ุฅู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฎุทูˆุฉ ุงู„ุซุงู„ุซุฉ ู„ู„ุงู†ุชู‚ุงู„ ู…ู† ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู† ุฅู„ู‰ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏุŒ
08:06
and that is to get out of your head.
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ูˆู‡ูŠ ุงู„ุฎุฑูˆุฌ ู…ู† ุนู‚ู„ูƒ.
08:10
Come with me.
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ุชุนุงู„ ู…ุนูŠ.
08:11
Different story.
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ู‚ุตู‘ุฉ ู…ุฎุชู„ูุฉุŒ
08:13
I'm working in a small, satellite ER,
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ุจูŠู†ู…ุง ูƒู†ุชู ุฃุนู…ู„ ููŠ ุบุฑูุฉ ุทูˆุงุฑุฆ ุตุบูŠุฑุฉ ููŠ ุฅุญุฏู‰ ุงู„ุถูˆุงุญูŠุŒ
08:16
when a woman comes in in labor.
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ุฅุฐู’ ุจุงู…ุฑุฃุฉู ุชุฃุชูŠ ูˆู‡ูŠ ููŠ ู…ุฑุญู„ุฉ ุงู„ู…ุฎุงุถ.
08:18
I realize that the cord is wrapped not once
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ุฃุฏุฑูƒุชู ุฃู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ุญุจู„ ุงู„ุณุฑู‘ูŠ ู…ู„ููˆู ู„ูŠุณ ู…ุฑุฉ ูˆุงุญุฏุฉ
08:22
but twice around the baby's neck.
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ุจู„ู’ ู…ุฑู‘ุชูŠู† ุญูˆู„ ุนู†ู‚ ุงู„ุทูู„.
08:26
And I'm the only doctor.
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ูˆุฃู†ุง ุงู„ุทุจูŠุจุฉ ุงู„ูˆุญูŠุฏุฉ.
08:30
I was scared.
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ูƒู†ุชู ุฎุงุฆูุฉ.
08:32
But I couldn't let it derail me.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู’ ู„ู… ุฃุณุชุทุน ุฃู† ุฃุฏุนูŽ ุฐู„ูƒ ูŠูˆู‚ูู†ูŠ.
08:36
Because, you see, we all get nervous.
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ู„ุฃู†ู‘ู†ุง ุฌู…ูŠุนู‹ุง ู†ุชูˆุชู‘ุฑ.
08:39
We all get scared,
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ูƒู„ู‘ู†ุง ู†ุฎุงูุŒ
08:41
but it's what you do next that matters.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู’ ู…ุง ุชูุนู„ู‡ ุจุนุฏ ุฐู„ูƒ ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ู…ู‡ู….
08:46
That first feeling isn't the problem.
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ุงู„ู…ุดู„ูƒุฉ ู„ูŠุณุชู’ ููŠ ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ุดุนูˆุฑ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„.
08:48
It can be an important sign.
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ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู†ู’ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุฐู„ูƒ ุฅุดุงุฑุฉ ู…ู‡ู…ุฉ.
08:50
The problem comes when we let it derail us.
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ุงู„ู…ุดูƒู„ุฉ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ู†ุณู…ุญ ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุจุฃู†ู’ ูŠูˆู‚ูู†ุง.
08:52
When that internal monologue starts
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ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ูŠุจุฏุฃ ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ู…ูˆู†ูˆู„ูˆุฌ ุงู„ุฏู‘ุงุฎู„ูŠ
08:54
and we catastrophize and we start to get that tunnel vision.
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ูˆู†ู†ู‡ุงุฑ ูˆู†ุจุฏุฃ ุจุงู„ู†ุธุฑ ุฅู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฃู…ูˆุฑ ุจุณูˆุฏุงูˆูŠู‘ุฉ.
08:57
That's how you think when you're in Crazy Mode,
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ู‡ูƒุฐุง ุชููƒุฑ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชูƒูˆู† ุจูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู†ุŒ
08:59
and you cannot solve anything that way.
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ูˆู„ุง ูŠู…ูƒู†ูƒ ุญู„ ุฃูŠ ุดูŠุก ุจุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚ุฉ.
09:04
Now I promise to come back to the story,
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ุงู„ุขู† ุฃุนุฏูƒู… ุจุฃู†ู’ ุฃุนูˆุฏ ุฅู„ู‰ ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ู‚ุตุฉุŒ
09:06
but first, how do I get out of my own head?
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ุฃูˆู„ู‹ุงุŒ ูƒูŠู ุฃุฎุฑุฌู ู…ู† ุนู‚ู„ูŠุŸ
09:10
There are many tactics that you may hear,
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ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุงู„ุนุฏูŠุฏ ู…ู† ุงู„ุชูƒุชูŠูƒุงุช ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู† ุชุณู…ุน ุจู‡ุงุŒ
09:12
but for me, I find it best in the moment to actively put my focus on someone else.
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ุจุงู„ู†ุณุจุฉ ู„ูŠุŒ ุฃุฌุฏู ุฃู†ู‘ ุฃูุถู„ ุดูŠุก ู‡ูˆ ุงู„ู„ุญุธุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ู†ุฑูƒุฒ ููŠู‡ุง ุนู„ู‰ ุดุฎุตู ุขุฎุฑ.
09:18
To deliberately make myself see the person in front of me,
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ู„ุฃุฌุนู„ ู†ูุณูŠ -ุนู† ุนู…ุฏ- ุฃุฑู‰ ุงู„ุดุฎุต ุฃู…ุงู…ูŠุŒ
09:21
see myself in the arena with them --
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ุฃุฑู‰ ู†ูุณูŠ ููŠ ุงู„ุญูŽู„ูŽุจุฉ ู…ุนู‡ู…...
09:23
what do they need, what do they fear
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ู…ุงุฐุง ูŠุญุชุงุฌูˆู†ุŒ ู…ู…ู‘ูŽ ูŠุฎุงููˆู†
09:25
and how can I help?
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ูˆูƒูŠู ุฃุณุชุทูŠุน ุฃู† ุฃู…ุฏู‘ ูŠุฏ ุงู„ุนูˆู†ุŸ
09:28
This may sound like a whole lot of warm and fuzzy to you,
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ู‚ุฏ ูŠุจุฏูˆ ุฐู„ูƒ ุดูŠุฆู‹ุง ู…ูุนู…ู‹ุง ุจุงู„ู…ุดุงุนุฑ ุฃูˆ ุบูŠุฑ ูˆุงุถุญ ู„ูƒุŒ
09:32
but it's not.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ู‡ ู„ูŠุณ ูƒุฐู„ูƒ.
09:33
In fact, research shows that when you prime your brain
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ููŠ ุงู„ุญู‚ูŠู‚ุฉุŒ ุฃุธู‡ุฑุช ุงู„ุฃุจุญุงุซ ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชู‚ูˆู… ุจุชุญุถูŠุฑ ุนู‚ู„ูƒ
09:36
with what is, essentially, compassion,
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ู„ู„ุญู†ุงู†ุŒ
09:39
we disrupt that tunnel vision and internal monologue.
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ูุฅู†ู‘ูƒ ุชู‚ุทุน ุชู„ูƒ ุงู„ู†ุธุฑุฉ ุงู„ุณูˆุฏุงูˆูŠู‘ุฉ ูˆุงู„ู…ูˆู†ูˆู„ูˆุฌ ุงู„ุฏุงุฎู„ูŠ.
09:42
You widen your perception,
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ุฅู†ู‘ูƒ ุชูˆุณู‘ุน ู†ุทุงู‚ ุชู‚ูƒูŠุฑูƒุŒ
09:43
so your brain can actually take in broader information,
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ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ูŠู…ูƒู† ู„ุนู‚ู„ูƒ ุฃู†ู’ ูŠุณุชูˆุนุจ ู…ุนู„ูˆู…ุงุช ุฃูˆุณุน.
09:47
so you see more possibilities and can make better decisions.
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ูˆู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุชุฑู‰ ุฅู…ูƒุงู†ูŠู‘ุงุช ุฃูƒุซุฑ ูˆุชุชุฎุฐ ู‚ุฑุงุฑุงุช ุฃูุถู„.
09:53
Try it.
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ุฌุฑู‘ุจู‡ุง.
09:55
Know that your internal monologue can derail you.
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ุฃูŠู‚ู†ู’ ุฃู†ู‘ูŽ ู…ูˆู†ูˆู„ูˆุฌูƒ ุงู„ุฏุงุฎู„ูŠ ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู†ู’ ูŠูˆู‚ููƒ.
09:59
And realize that when you get out of your own head,
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ูˆุฃุฏุฑูƒู’ ุฃู†ู‘ูŽูƒ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชุฎุฑุฌ ู…ู† ุนู‚ู„ูƒุŒ
10:04
you get out of your own way.
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ูุฅู†ู‘ูƒ ุชุฎุฑุฌ ู…ู† ุทุฑูŠู‚ูƒ ุงู„ุฎุงุต.
10:09
Now what happened to that baby?
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ุงู„ุขู† ู…ุงุฐุง ุญุฏุซูŽ ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ุทูู„ุŸ
10:12
I focused not on my fear,
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ู„ู… ุฃุฑูƒู‘ุฒ ุนู„ู‰ ู…ุฎุงูˆููŠุŒ
10:14
but on the mother and the baby and what they needed me to do.
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ุจู„ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุฃู… ูˆุงู„ุทูู„ ูˆุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุดูŠุก ุงู„ู‘ุฐูŠ ูŠุญุชุงุฌุงู†ู‡ ู…ู†ูŠ.
10:18
And got the cord off of the baby's neck,
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ูˆุฃุฒู„ุชู ุงู„ุญุจู„ ุงู„ุณุฑู‘ูŠ ู…ู† ุนู†ู‚ ุงู„ุทู‘ูู„ุŒ
10:21
and a healthy screaming, kicking baby arrived,
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ูˆูุชุญูŽ ุทูู„ูŒ ุตุญูŠู‘ูŒ -ูŠุตุฑุฎ ูˆูŠุฑูƒู„- ุนูŠู†ูŠู‡ ุนู„ู‰ ุงู„ุญูŠุงุฉุŒ
10:24
just as the dad ran in from the parking lot,
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ููŠ ุงู„ูˆู‚ุช ุงู„ุฐูŠ ุฌุงุก ููŠู‡ ุงู„ุฃุจ ู…ู† ู…ูˆู‚ู ุงู„ุณูŠุงุฑุงุช ูˆู‡ูˆ ูŠุฑูƒุถุŒ
10:26
"Hi, you have a son, I'm Dr. Darria.
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"ู…ุฑุญุจู‹ุงุŒ ุฌุงุกูƒ ุทูู„ุŒ ุฃู†ุง ุงู„ุฏูƒุชูˆุฑุฉ ุฏุงุฑูŠุง.
10:28
Congratulations, you want to cut the cord?"
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ู…ุจุงุฑูƒุŒ ู‡ู„ ุชุฑูŠุฏ ุฃู†ู’ ุชู‚ุทุน ุงู„ุญุจู„ุŸ"
10:30
(Laughter)
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(ุถุญูƒ)
10:32
And for a moment,
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ูˆู„ู„ุญุธุฉุŒ
10:33
the strong cries of a newborn
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ุตุฑุฎุงุช ุงู„ูˆู„ูŠุฏ ุงู„ุฌุฏูŠุฏ ุงู„ู‚ูˆูŠู‘ุฉ
10:36
drowned out the beeps and the sirens that are the normal sounds of the ER.
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ุบุทู‘ุช ุนู„ู‰ ุฃุตูˆุงุช ุตูุงุฑุงุช ุงู„ุฅู†ุฐุงุฑ ุงู„ุชูŠ ุชุนุชุจุฑ ุฃุตูˆุงุช ุทุจูŠุนูŠุฉ ููŠ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆ.
10:42
But there was also something else.
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ูˆู„ูƒู† ูƒุงู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ ุดูŠุก ุขุฎุฑ.
10:45
Because when I walked back out of that mother's room,
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ู„ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุฎุฑุฌุชู ู…ู† ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุฃู… ุชู„ูƒุŒ
10:49
I saw several of my other patients hovering nearby.
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ุฑุฃูŠุชู ู…ุฑุถุงูŠูŽ ุงู„ุขุฎุฑูŠู† ู…ุชุญู„ู‘ู‚ูŠู† ุจุงู„ู‚ุฑุจ ู…ู† ุงู„ุบุฑูุฉ.
10:54
I suddenly realized that despite their own problems
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ุฃุฏุฑูƒุชู ูุฌุฃุฉู‹ ุฃู†ู‘ู‡ ุจุงู„ุฑู‘ุบู… ู…ู† ู…ุดุงูƒู„ู‡ู… ุงู„ุฎุงุตู‘ุฉ
10:58
that had brought them to the emergency room,
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ุงู„ุชูŠ ุฌู„ุจุชู‡ู… ุฅู„ู‰ ุบุฑูุฉ ุงู„ุทูˆุงุฑุฆุŒ
11:00
they had all come together to root for this baby.
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ูุฅู†ู‘ู‡ู… ุงุฌุชู…ุนูˆุง ุฌู…ูŠุนู‹ุง ู„ูŠุธู‡ุฑูˆุง ุฏุนู…ู‡ู… ู„ุฐู„ูƒ ุงู„ุทูู„.
11:04
And they now together shared in the joy.
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ูˆู‡ู… ุงู„ุขู† ูŠุดุชุฑูƒูˆู† ุจุงู„ูุฑุญุฉ ู…ุนู‹ุง.
11:08
Because that is what happens when you go from Crazy Mode to Ready Mode.
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ู„ุฃู†ู‘ูŽ ุฐู„ูƒ ู…ุง ูŠุญุฏุซ ุนู†ุฏู…ุง ุชู†ุชู‚ู„ ู…ู† ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู† ุฅู„ู‰ ูˆุถุน ุงู„ุงุณุชุนุฏุงุฏ.
11:12
Others notice.
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ุงู„ุขุฎุฑูˆู† ูŠู„ุงุญุธูˆู† ุฐู„ูƒ.
11:14
They want it too, they just don't know how,
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ูŠุฑูŠุฏูˆู† ุฐู„ูƒ ุฃูŠุถู‹ุงุŒ ูˆู„ูƒู†ู‘ู‡ู… ูู‚ุท ู„ุง ูŠุนุฑููˆู† ูƒูŠูุŒ
11:16
they just need one example.
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ุฅู†ู‘ู‡ู… ูŠุญุชุงุฌูˆู† ูู‚ุท ุฅู„ู‰ ู…ุซุงู„ ูˆุงุญุฏ.
11:18
Which could be you.
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ูˆุงู„ู‘ุฐูŠ ูŠู…ูƒู† ุฃู†ู’ ูŠูƒูˆู† ุฃู†ุช.
11:23
Own the busy.
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ุงู…ู„ูƒู’ ุงู„ุงู†ุดุบุงู„.
11:25
But stop calling it crazy.
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู’ ุชูˆู‚ู ุนู† ูˆุตูู‡ ุจุงู„ุฌู†ูˆู†.
11:30
You've always had that ability.
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ู„ุทุงู„ู…ุง ูƒุงู†ุช ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ู‡ุฐู‡ ุงู„ู‚ุฏุฑุฉ.
11:34
But now ...
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ูˆู„ูƒู†ู’ ุงู„ุขู†...
11:35
you're ready.
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ุฃู†ุช ู…ุณุชุนุฏ.
11:37
Thank you.
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ุดูƒุฑู‹ุง ู„ูƒู….
11:39
(Applause)
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(ุชุตููŠู‚)
ุญูˆู„ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน

ุณูŠู‚ุฏู… ู„ูƒ ู‡ุฐุง ุงู„ู…ูˆู‚ุน ู…ู‚ุงุทุน ููŠุฏูŠูˆ YouTube ุงู„ู…ููŠุฏุฉ ู„ุชุนู„ู… ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ. ุณุชุฑู‰ ุฏุฑูˆุณ ุงู„ู„ุบุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ุชูŠ ูŠุชู… ุชุฏุฑูŠุณู‡ุง ู…ู† ู‚ุจู„ ู…ุฏุฑุณูŠู† ู…ู† ุงู„ุฏุฑุฌุฉ ุงู„ุฃูˆู„ู‰ ู…ู† ุฌู…ูŠุน ุฃู†ุญุงุก ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…. ุงู†ู‚ุฑ ู†ู‚ุฑู‹ุง ู…ุฒุฏูˆุฌู‹ุง ููˆู‚ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุฉ ุงู„ุฅู†ุฌู„ูŠุฒูŠุฉ ุงู„ู…ุนุฑูˆุถุฉ ุนู„ู‰ ูƒู„ ุตูุญุฉ ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู„ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ ู…ู† ู‡ู†ุงูƒ. ูŠุชู… ุชู…ุฑูŠุฑ ุงู„ุชุฑุฌู…ุงุช ุจุงู„ุชุฒุงู…ู† ู…ุน ุชุดุบูŠู„ ุงู„ููŠุฏูŠูˆ. ุฅุฐุง ูƒุงู† ู„ุฏูŠูƒ ุฃูŠ ุชุนู„ูŠู‚ุงุช ุฃูˆ ุทู„ุจุงุช ุŒ ูŠุฑุฌู‰ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ุจู†ุง ุจุงุณุชุฎุฏุงู… ู†ู…ูˆุฐุฌ ุงู„ุงุชุตุงู„ ู‡ุฐุง.

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