Why do we kiss under mistletoe? - Carlos Reif

The sight of mistletoe may either send you scurrying

or if you have your eye on someone,

awaiting an opportunity beneath its snow white berries.

But how did the festive Christmas tradition of kissing under mistletoe

come about?

The long lived custom intertwines the mythology and biology

of this intriguing plant.

There are more than 1,000 species of mistletoe which grows the world over.

In fact, the ancient Europeans were so captivated

by the plant’s unusual growth habits that they included it in their legends

and myths.

In ancient Rome, Pliny the Elder described how

the Druid priesthood in ancient England believed that mistletoe

was a plant dropped down from heaven by the gods;

that explained its unlikely position amongst the high branches

of certain trees.

They also believed it had powers of healing and bestowing fertility.

Meanwhile, Scandinavian legends told of the plant’s mystical qualities

in the story of the god Baldur and his adoring mother, Frigg,

goddess of love, marriage and fertility.

Frigg loved her son so much that she commanded every plant,

animal and inanimate object to vow they’d never harm him.

In her fervor, however, she overlooked the mistletoe.

The mischievous god Loki realized this oversight,

and pierced Baldur’s heart with an arrow carved from a mistletoe branch.

Frigg cried tears of such sadness that they formed

the mistletoe’s pearly berries,

making the other gods pity her and agree to resurrect Baldur.

Hearing the news, Frigg became so overjoyed that she transformed

the mistletoe from a symbol of death into one of peace and love.

She mandated a one day truce for all fights

and that everyone embraced beneath its branches when they passed

to spread more love into the world.

In the 17th century, British colonists arriving in the New World

found a different but very similar looking species of mistletoe.

They applied it to these tales of magic, fertility and love,

spreading the mistletoe hanging tradition from Europe into America.

By the 18th century, people in Britain had turned this

into a Christmas tradition.

But this custom comes down to more than just human imagination.

All of it was inspired by the plant’s intriguing biology.

We see mistletoe as a festive decoration, but draped on tree boughs in the wild,

it’s known as a partly parasitic plant.

Mistletoe relies on modified roots called haustoria

that penetrate the tree bark and siphon off the water and minerals

trees carry up their trunks.

To colonize nearby trees with its seeds,

mistletoe depends on birds and other creatures

to do the dispersing.

Birds that eat the mistletoe’s sticky white berries

sometimes get rid of the gluey seeds by wiping them off onto tree bark,

or with a bit of luck,

they excrete the indigestible seed onto a tree where it germinates

and starts to grow.

With its resilience and foliage that stays lush

even while the surrounding trees lose their leaves,

you can see why mistletoe captivated our superstitious ancestors.

They saw these as signs of the plant’s magical qualities and fertility.

Even today, the mistletoe inspires wonder

with the diversity of wildlife it supports.

More than just a parasite, it’s also known as a keystone species.

It's eaten by a diversity of animals, including deer, elk, squirrels, chipmunks,

porcupines, robins, bluebirds, mourning doves,

and the butterfly genus Delius.

Some mistletoe species produce dense bushes,

which are excellent nesting locations for a variety of birds.

And despite their parasitic relationship with trees,

mistletoes can also help other plants.

For instance, juniper sprouts near mistletoe to benefit

from the visiting berry-eating birds.

Through the many benefits it provides,

mistletoe influences diversity and allows ecosystems to flourish.

You might even say, that for this iconic plant,

life imitates legend.

In the wild, mistletoe has the power to bring things together.

And in our own traditions we see that happening too.